What if you tell wife/gf you had a FJ?

[unholymonk]

Will she forgive you?

I was thinking if tell them you had a HJ will they be tulan?

[ressto]

i dunno wat to say bro..

u looking for trouble ah? nothing to do?

[ressto]

deny at all cost is the first thing i wld do.

unless really got solid proof, then u say, "bcos u r boring in bed"

[PeaceWithin]

Honesty is a good policy... But absolute honesty??

To quote Jack Nicholson "Truth... You CAN'T handle the truth!!"

Enough said...

[ferragamo]

a friend got caught because of SMS in his phone from a China girl

he claimed that the only thing that happened was a BJ from the China girl, no actual sex

seems the wife accepted that and is still with him today (what goes on behind i don't know la)

so maybe women can accept if HJ/BJ but not so if actual sex is involved?

[unholymonk]

a friend got caught because of SMS in his phone from a China girl

he claimed that the only thing that happened was a BJ from the China girl, no actual sex

seems the wife accepted that and is still with him today (what goes on behind i don't know la)

so maybe women can accept if HJ/BJ but not so if actual sex is involved?

Ya something like this.

Come on if you go to batam every week and claim nothing happens, your wife must be a retard

[DegenerationX]

Too free nothing to do, finding trouble? :eek:

[unholymonk]

Too free nothing to do, finding trouble? :eek:

Not that. Just that if you go batam every week, your wife will suspect.

Why not put her mind at ease by telling her that you have a HJ?

[acidicavex]

Not that. Just that if you go batam every week, your wife will suspect.

Why not put her mind at ease by telling her that you have a HJ?

Some wives suspect but will not confront and might even close the eye. I don't know which type your wife belong to.

Why do u want to confess coz u felt guilty?? And hoping by confessing she might give u blessing and tell u it is okie?? And do u think by telling her u just have HJ she will believe?? I highly doubt but if u really want to confess it your own choices.

Not trying to Teach bad stuff if u feel guilty than stop it. Have u read or see or come across some extreme wife or gf that deem their partner is betraying them for masturbating to a AV?

Your call anyway.

[(o)(o) Tuner]

If your wife said she can accept bj/hj but not fj, your wife must be from outerspace. :D

[hunter]

personally i feel i am very lucky.. I can go massage with HJ/BJ with wife consent.. The only rule is no SEX... my wife let me go to papaya farm, spa anything i want... It depent on before marry did u teach and let the Gf know that going to this type of place is normal...

[keewee]

If your wife said she can accept bj/hj but not fj, your wife must be from outerspace. :D

hmmm bro so how abt those swinger? den they more outer space ah hee

[unholymonk]

personally i feel i am very lucky.. I can go massage with HJ/BJ with wife consent.. The only rule is no SEX... my wife let me go to papaya farm, spa anything i want... It depent on before marry did u teach and let the Gf know that going to this type of place is normal...

I suspect some woman will be like hunter wife when I post this thread.

Hj is like going for haircut. There is no real love involved. At least if wife nego and say u only can go hj, wont it be better than many who sneak and go for fj?

[unholymonk]

The title should be hj not fj. Put wrong

[keewee]

The title should be hj not fj. Put wrong

i think hj its quite normal la... if u ever go to china.... everywhere in less den 2km radius u sure can find 1 areoplane shop

[hunter]

my wife say she dont mind i go HJ cause there is no love only lust... i can tell her after i massage the girl service good or not... sometime when she see i boring at home she will ask me go massage and have HJ...just to have some fun... But cannot talk love with girl..

[unholymonk]

my wife say she dont mind i go HJ cause there is no love only lust... i can tell her after i massage the girl service good or not... sometime when she see i boring at home she will ask me go massage and have HJ...just to have some fun... But cannot talk love with girl..

Ya your wife is smart. She makes you feel guilty so that you wont talk love with wl

[DegenerationX]

my wife say she dont mind i go HJ cause there is no love only lust... i can tell her after i massage the girl service good or not... sometime when she see i boring at home she will ask me go massage and have HJ...just to have some fun... But cannot talk love with girl..

Based on your wife's logic, you can go FL for full service. Cos it's also no love but lust only. And tell your wife about it about you visit FL. :D

[garlic]

If wife says it's ok.. "just tell me" 99% is trap...

[keewee]

If wife says it's ok.. "just tell me" 99% is trap...

haha well ... that is why we always say dun believed any girls ... always use reverse physco

[hunter]

If wife says it's ok.. "just tell me" 99% is trap...

mine is not trap... i have been doing it for years... happily marry for 8 years now...

[hunter]

Based on your wife's logic, you can go FL for full service. Cos it's also no love but lust only. And tell your wife about it about you visit FL. :D

my wife did mention no sex is allow.. and i promise that also.... Once i go thailand and i did say i book a girl overnight but no sex only BJ ( she know i like BJ) ..

To her man are all horny animal, it is impossible to ask man not to eat outside, better to feed a little to man than letting man go out find food ourself. Man duno his own limit and duno when to stop. That`s why a lot was cheated by china girl.. By what she is going, i love her more (cause not easy to find a wife to let us have fun outside)

I will only play but never fall in love... A promise to myself and wife

P.S. I am Malaysian.. I think Singapore girl will never allow...

[heartbroken]

Deny all the way to my grave. And then deny some more...:rolleyes:

[DreamOfLust]

true that it is common, wife is really not recommended to tell unless you know her well enough and she won't make a big issue out of it... else... keep it from her at all cost !!!

like all the samsters say, nothing to do a? :cool:

[banana81sg]

interesting topic...... just wondering

wife who allow hushand get hj/bj, do husband mind wife give bj/hj than?

[grouchycabi]

A woman I know once attacked her husband with a pair of scissors just for watching the Miss Universe show on tv. F-king jealous bitch. But they are divorced now, after 9 years of marriage. After her divorce, she renewed contacts with me and ended up as FB.

[wercpl]

believe it or not... my wife is fine even if i have a fb or mistress. :D
we even discuss about sexy ladies we see on the street,FL, etc..

In the past, she would say no... but after some training... finally got her nod. ;D

[JoeyLoti]

I used to allow my boyf to do those too.

Even suggesting him go threesome together..
too bad, he doesnt want. :(

[pakalolo]

let's reverse the situation,what if your wife tells you that she had a finger job from a guy but no fuck job? :D

[owl888]

U shd tell your wife that u got manhood therapy or juagen (JG) as commonly know to stimulate your bro and perform better in sex.......although to me it's still HJ:D

[LovePotion]

for me... my wife allow me to go for juagen... for able to make the blood flow better and also enhance my dick as well

[bombshell]

New method of committing suicide.:eek:

[my23]

Not that. Just that if you go batam every week, your wife will suspect.

Why not put her mind at ease by telling her that you have a HJ?

i dunno la, somehow this doesnt make sense to me....

if you can find excuse of going Batam every week, die die stick with it la....

this sort of thing cannot bargain or nego one, how can it be like when she suspect a little, u reveal a bit? if later she get more suspicious, are you going to reveal more?

what's more she may be testing you?

if you feel guilty, then dun go lo...
if you cant control must go, then die die dun admit la...

[ANowhereMan]

Interesting thought. As the saying goes, curiosity kills the cat. Bro :D

[loneyheart]

no woman will accept any sexsual advance fm any lady to her BF or husband ... worst still if u paid for it
She will only accept it quitely only to save t marriage for t sake of her children
Will u accept yr GF or wife to b just painted by another guy ?? sama sama
Die die dum admit ... dum trouble trouble b4 trouble trouble u

[sane]

my wife did mention no sex is allow.. and i promise that also.... Once i go thailand and i did say i book a girl overnight but no sex only BJ ( she know i like BJ) ..

To her man are all horny animal, it is impossible to ask man not to eat outside, better to feed a little to man than letting man go out find food ourself. Man duno his own limit and duno when to stop. That`s why a lot was cheated by china girl.. By what she is going, i love her more (cause not easy to find a wife to let us have fun outside)..

Book a girl overnight, can tahan only BJ? She nvr take off her clothes huh :D

Actually I have friends who close an eye but then they are doing other men outside too. U do urs, I do mine mentality.

[Common]

believe it or not... my wife is fine even if i have a fb or mistress. :D
we even discuss about sexy ladies we see on the street,FL, etc..

In the past, she would say no... but after some training... finally got her nod. ;D

Wah what kind of training method did you use? Can share?

[helloworld11]

My gf force me to admit before. Keep asking whether I got go and say just want to know but won't be angry.
Initially of course beat till die also deny but one night I finally succumbed and admit.
True to her word she didn't get angry except drill me some questions like how much I paid the girl from where.

However one word of caution to bros after admitting next time you fight she will use this 'weapon' to say you. Can spend 150 dollar for 1hr on pros this kind of small thing also cannot do for me? This ultimate weapon till today I no answer lol. Maybe some bros here got ideas

[wercpl]

Wah what kind of training method did you use? Can share?

actually training also require friends who are in the same league. Training + surrounding + time i would say...

[wercpl]

My gf force me to admit before. Keep asking whether I got go and say just want to know but won't be angry.
Initially of course beat till die also deny but one night I finally succumbed and admit.
True to her word she didn't get angry except drill me some questions like how much I paid the girl from where.

However one word of caution to bros after admitting next time you fight she will use this 'weapon' to say you. Can spend 150 dollar for 1hr on pros this kind of small thing also cannot do for me? This ultimate weapon till today I no answer lol. Maybe some bros here got ideas

simple answer... she is not pros cause u pay $ w/o emo involve & sincerity to the pros and thats it... do for her need emo, effort & sincerity. ;)

[bettyboob]

she can accept these two things maybe she do these things behind your back to another guy? if she can accept fj means you might be doing that behind your back as well so don't be too happypersonally i feel i am very lucky.. I can go massage with HJ/BJ with wife consent.. The only rule is no SEX... my wife let me go to papaya farm, spa anything i want... It depent on before marry did u teach and let the Gf know that going to this type of place is normal...

[bettyboob]

at uni, I met a gal who has a bf in taiwan, both of them give each other freedom to have sex with others on condition that it is just sex n not love. no woman will accept any sexsual advance fm any lady to her BF or husband ... worst still if u paid for it
She will only accept it quitely only to save t marriage for t sake of her children
Will u accept yr GF or wife to b just painted by another guy ?? sama sama
Die die dum admit ... dum trouble trouble b4 trouble trouble u

[ssfxxx]

better not tell lah... what if your wife/gf say they had some stud help them masturbate? sure jealous one...

[hunter]

she can accept these two things maybe she do these things behind your back to another guy? if she can accept fj means you might be doing that behind your back as well so don't be too happy

my wife is from outstation.. she duno how to drive.. only go out with me.. if i am not around she will be at home with my mom.. ( i stay with my mom).. so sure she no eat out side hahahaa...

[MillieS]

If my man ever tells me that, hell will probably break loose. But then again, if I find out by myself, I'll personally kick him off beachy head. :mad:

[mr_missile]

If my man ever tells me that, hell will probably break loose. But then again, if I find out by myself, I'll personally kick him off beachy head. :mad:

why on earth would a man for no rhyme or reason go and tell his gf or CO that he just farked another woman???? :eek::confused::eek:

jiak ba bo sai bang?

[porscheclub]

Told my wife I went for juagen before & asked her to learn from the gal next time & she's cool. let me try the question again next week :D

We want couple swings & she allows me to get a blow job max with her around & I also want her to get painted but she don't want :p

She'll snap my head if she knows I fuck around :o

[sean69]

why on earth would a man for no rhyme or reason go and tell his gf or CO that he just farked another woman???? :eek::confused::eek:

jiak ba bo sai bang?

exactly !!! ...

[MillieS]

why on earth would a man for no rhyme or reason go and tell his gf or CO that he just farked another woman???? :eek::confused::eek:

jiak ba bo sai bang?

Isn't that the question the TS is posing? Anyways, what's CO and jiak ba bo sai bang?? :confused:

[Dsolsz]

This kind of thing die die can't say. Else confirm dead

[mr_missile]

Isn't that the question the TS is posing? Anyways, what's CO and jiak ba bo sai bang?? :confused:

the question ts is posing is : what if you tell wife/gf you had a FJ.

i assume the FJ means FJ with another woman other than the wife/gf.

the question i then asked is : . why would a man think about telling his wife/gf that he had just farked another woman? is it the same question as ts??? :rolleyes:

CO = in local army terms "commanding officer". in local slang = wife
jiak ba bo sai bang = is in hokkien. literal translation = eat full already nothing to shit. translation from cowford pictionary = too free, got nothing better to do and want to find trouble for oneself. :D