What is your view?

[disappointedlie]

Hi sis & bro,

i would like to hear from all of you, kindly give your views. If a man is married and keeps chatting on the phone with another woman, be it in the morning, afternoon, night or even mid-night. What's the motive this man has?
When question them, they always claim they're just ordinary friends.
Would a ordinary friend can chat all day long? the woman is attached.

[freeneasy168]

sure got motive la, thought so free to chat all day long :D

[sean69]

Hi sis & bro,

i would like to hear from all of you, kindly give your views. If a man is married and keeps chatting on the phone with another woman, be it in the morning, afternoon, night or even mid-night. What's the motive this man has?
When question them, they always claim they're just ordinary friends.
Would a ordinary friend can chat all day long? the woman is attached.

why not?? they are "friends with benefit" .. :D

[MattJB]

ordinary friends dont talk day & night, furthermore, both are married/attached.
their relationship is more than just friends :)

[kyooky]

they're fb

[sta1100]

Both part are attach and chat all day don't tell me their other half won't know. Btw how you know about this ???

[disappointedlie]

from his hp bills... when question him, he told a lie that it was a guy. But based on the records, noway he will call "him" almost every night without failed. In the end, i discover "He" was actually a girl. Until today, i still dont believe there's nothing between them!!

[owl888]

At least they only chat whole day, not fuck hole day :D :D

[Able]

Sure got motive. Or it's just the beginning of something

[Singkie]

TS, be afraid, be very afraid

[pakalolo]

TS. it's the beginning of the end, time to change new husband

[rat967]

Prepare to sign paper liao!

[acidicavex]

Dear disappointedlie

As aunt agony is On leave from Sbf. There is no right or wrong answer.

It all within u since u already know the answer to your own question. What do u seek?

Even if the bros and sis here tell u that u are just paranoid would you believe them? I doubt cause from the way u reply posts u had instill in your mind that he is cheating.

Next ask yourself what u want to do??

Tap his call?
Get a PI?
Face to face confrontation?
Married counciling?
Straight file for separation?

Your marriage is in your own hand. I believe bros and sis here won't want to be the executioner to your marriage.

Lastly good luck and take care

[by73]

Ts, it may be or it may not be wat u think it is.
U should voice ur concerns to whom have d ans.
It's best not to jump into conclusions.
Have a real talk wif him.
Just my 2 cents worth..:)

[tmr3]

TS, are you able to check his SMS? If he is not careful enough, dark secrets can be found there.

[disappointedlie]

thanks all! yes i have been checking n checking wo any evidence. sigh..
in fact i am planning to sign paper liao but no evidence, is it possible to file?
using hp bills as an evidence? i doubt so!

no point keeping this marriage on going even though he is physically with me n family, but his mind is elsewhere (maybe)!

[PeaceWithin]

It's not just from the man... but if I change this the other way...

"If a WOMAN is married and keeps chatting on the phone with another MAN, be it in the morning, afternoon, night or even mid-night. What's the motive this WOMAN has?"

Maybe they ARE really 'ordinary' friend... would you be able to accept that?

Whatever it is, talk to him. Noticed I said "talk" and not shout at him.

[BiRd13]

I think really depend le...
For your case, I guess must have something on going with the other girl...

For me, I do have this close gal friend whom I knew for very long time... My wife knew about her as well, and she's also married.

We will msg each other daily via watsapp without fail... Be it morning, afternoon, evening or even night time.

[onlyhuman]

Simple, Tell the man wife to start whatapps or chat with another guy all day long too lor.
Maybe she is already doing it without the husband knowing too.

[DemonicSS]

Hi,

I had thought you were the guy and the suspected person was the missus. Lol, guess I got it wrong.

Well, my personal opinion is that if you could, delay the signing. Cause if you do open a can of worms, at least breaking off with him doesnt include the law now as opposed to being married.

Though on another note, you could view sex as an open rather than exclusive item. So if his been very good to you, you might want to consider that option.
Seeing quite afew here that are 'eating out', it might not really be a very bad option, you get one less argument in your life to deal with too.
Of course, you would need to have the same benefits as what is given to him as well. Couples should be treated as equals. :D