Boyfriend's frenulum injured! How?

[taureanwoman08]

Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.

Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?

[PeaceWithin]

Actually... I understand what your bf is going thru'. I never really got seriously injured before because I learn from young to go slow on initial entry. Especially the first time with a gal or one whose pretty tight.

Let me guess... you were on top of him when it happened, right? And chances are you were galloping pretty hard. Nearly happened to me quite a number of times with most ladies in my life because it was tight... Sometimes, halfway I'll be in pain and I'll just have to stop and slow down a while. It's just the angle and the way it's done. Then again, I've never suffered this even when I'm doing anal, that's because I'm in control.

How to prevent? I don't think you can... you guys just have to 'communicate' when making love. And slow down when he tells you to.

Alternatively, wear a condom... But I think you guys probably raw...

[taureanwoman08]

Actually... I understand what your bf is going thru'. I never really got seriously injured before because I learn from young to go slow on initial entry. Especially the first time with a gal or one whose pretty tight.

Let me guess... you were on top of him when it happened, right? And chances are you were galloping pretty hard. Nearly happened to me quite a number of times with most ladies in my life because it was tight... Sometimes, halfway I'll be in pain and I'll just have to stop and slow down a while. It's just the angle and the way it's done. Then again, I've never suffered this even when I'm doing anal, that's because I'm in control.

How to prevent? I don't think you can... you guys just have to 'communicate' when making love. And slow down when he tells you to.

Alternatively, wear a condom... But I think you guys probably raw...

Thank you very much for your reply. Yes, I was on top and rocking hard when he suddenly grabbed hold of me and told me to stop! He said pain, pain. You see, I could get quite wild once I am hot and I cannot control myself. :p Yes, we always do raw. I hate the rubber and so does he.

I would like to thank two gentlemen here, Mr Surbana and Mr Topcook1, who gave me some points. Didn't understand why some people attacked me previously until I got red points. It doesn't matter actually that I got red points - just that my posting will take some time to appear lor.

At certain times of the month, I have a real physical need and I am feeling sian that my boyfriend now cannot perform and need to wait for him to recover first.

[alec]

i kenna before when i did it with mi ex... condom helps as it acts as a protection to the skin because of the additional layer. Another way is to go slow and keep it lubricated... Don't jus F like rabbits, enjoy the session and always communicate. That way instead of pain, you'll feel more pleasure.... Another reason could be because of tight foreskin. So always go slow, else just consider wearing the cap

[taureanwoman08]

i kenna before when i did it with mi ex... condom helps as it acts as a protection to the skin because of the additional layer. Another way is to go slow and keep it lubricated... Don't jus F like rabbits, enjoy the session and always communicate. That way instead of pain, you'll feel more pleasure.... Another reason could be because of tight foreskin. So always go slow, else just consider wearing the cap

Thank you Mr Ho Lee.

Mr Alec, thank you for your comments. It is easy to say don't F like rabbits but when you are in the throes of intercourse, you can no longer control yourself. I can go real wild and sometimes I would scream even and my boyfriend would clamp his hand over my mouth! Last time when we did it at home, we felt his parents and brother might have heard my sounds! So embarrassing but they always appeared like nothing had happened when we went out of his room to go to the hall.

[littlehorse]

i get injured sometimes and the same goes for sex and masturbation. Ask your bf to take care of his cock by applying some ointment and vaseline to cover it and endure no sex for the time being. I am hornier but no choice have to endure before

[chipmunk1974]

ya I know sometime when you are high, you can't control but yr bf can. Ask him to slow down that even make you more horny. And this way you can make sex last longer. So lucky yr bf can do you raw. I had never do raw with my ex before as they don't allow.

[taureanwoman08]

Raw is more shiok, especially to the guys I believe. Also, I think I can never suck a condomed cock. :-)

[PeaceWithin]

Thank you very much for your reply. Yes, I was on top and rocking hard when he suddenly grabbed hold of me and told me to stop! He said pain, pain. You see, I could get quite wild once I am hot and I cannot control myself. :p Yes, we always do raw. I hate the rubber and so does he.

I would like to thank two gentlemen here, Mr Surbana and Mr Topcook1, who gave me some points. Didn't understand why some people attacked me previously until I got red points. It doesn't matter actually that I got red points - just that my posting will take some time to appear lor.

At certain times of the month, I have a real physical need and I am feeling sian that my boyfriend now cannot perform and need to wait for him to recover first.

You'll welcome... just be a bit more mindful and he'll be ok. :)

[taureanwoman08]

You'll welcome... just be a bit more mindful and he'll be ok. :)

My boyfriend probably quite horny. Last night, he asked me to give him a blowjob. I sucked slowly and he actually managed to cum into my mouth. I always swallow everything. He said the area felt a bit tight but the sharp cutting pain was gone. He actually wanted to try intercourse today but I told him to recover fully first lor. Although I also wanted him, I was afraid that he might get injured again. :(

[peanodood1337]

Ouch I feel his pain...

You should stop riding him like an Osim while he gets better.

[grouchycabi]

[QUOTE=peanodood1337;8642781]Ouch I feel his pain...

You should stop riding him like an Osim while he gets better.[

Heheh don't like that leh. What to do when people horny?

[taureanwoman08]

I am impressed! I have so many people asking me to be friends or wanting to meet me. Thanks for the attention but remember I do have a bf to think of.

[alec]

Heng u reminded him of his injuries ah... Small head rule big head is ok, better than small head forever too sick to think anymore... thats worse.... i kenna injured 2x before then e 3rd time i keep telling myself to go at my comfort pace liao... else even when i'm not doing it, it'll hurt like hell...

[owl888]

Ur bf very lucky to have u as gf :D

[SharkMan]

TS, maybe you should ask your boyfriend to visit DSC. Get it checked out before any permanent damage is done, and at least get a doctor to look at it, and have a peace of mind.:o

[taureanwoman08]

Ur bf very lucky to have u as gf :D

TS, maybe you should ask your boyfriend to visit DSC. Get it checked out before any permanent damage is done, and at least get a doctor to look at it, and have a peace of mind.:o

Hi Sharkman, thank you. What is DSC?

[tansy]

Hi Sharkman, thank you. What is DSC?

Department of STI control. Go google it and you can find all the information online.

[taureanwoman08]

Department of STI control. Go google it and you can find all the information online.

Thank you for your concern. My boyfriend does not have STI lah. He does not fool around at all. Very guai one. I am the one who fools around!!! Oops! :D And I am clean as I am very careful and hygienic.

[ah rat]

Ts,whether yours bf outer skin can rip all the way down :)

[DegenerationX]

TS story reminds me of my friend who had similar experience many years ago. But he got it when he went for fish tank with us. :D

Have to go A&E to stitch up. :D

[kurios]

Ask him consult a doc to test his sugar level. A doc friend told me before, he had seems guy with fore skin problem like what you mentioned. No matter how much rest or even heal, the next round when you have sex, it will be still the same problem.
Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.

Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?

[taureanwoman08]

Ask him consult a doc to test his sugar level. A doc friend told me before, he had seems guy with fore skin problem like what you mentioned. No matter how much rest or even heal, the next round when you have sex, it will be still the same problem.

Sugar level? You think this is caused by diabetes?

[Sirrus]

should have seen a doctor. wtf dont play play with injuries at this kind of place man

[des99]

I have a solution to help yr bf problem.. hope it will help...
Ask him to circumcision his foreskin...will solve the problem for lifetime...

I,myself did circumcision and have not encounter such problem

[taureanwoman08]

I have a solution to help yr bf problem.. hope it will help...
Ask him to circumcision his foreskin...will solve the problem for lifetime...

I,myself did circumcision and have not encounter such problem

I heard some people say you will lose feeling in your cock head after circumcision. That is because the head, after rubbing against the underwear, becomes less sensitive. My bf's head very sensitive one. The moment I close my mouth over it and rub my tongue onto the pee hole, it enlarges till purple and he will start moaning. Anyway he says he scared of circumcision.

[gboyboy123]

I have a solution to help yr bf problem.. hope it will help...
Ask him to circumcision his foreskin...will solve the problem for lifetime...

I,myself did circumcision and have not encounter such problem

... Wait what?

I used to encounter a tight foreskin and frenulum issue, but circumcision never crossed my mind seeing how barbaric the procedure is after looking at all the circumcision vids, plus I wouldn't dream of losing that bit of skin that sent me to high heavens since adolescent days.

But that aside, I personally countered my own problem by leaving the entire foreskin down for days on end. Helps in stretching out and desensitising, especially when it stretches out when you get morning (or midnight) wood. Stretch + having the rest of the night to recover. After nearly a month of that I never had to look back or worry about a tight foreskin.

Now my foreskin's sufficiently loose so that it auto rolls back when I get an erection. Oh, and the frenulum's toughened along the way. Neither my wife nor I have any complaints about the matter since. :D

[ByPass]

Just pull the foreskin back all the way when he's peeing, showering, when he's receiving oral and before intercourse. These so called regular stretching will help.

[singlicious]

... Wait what?

I used to encounter a tight foreskin and frenulum issue, but circumcision never crossed my mind seeing how barbaric the procedure is after looking at all the circumcision vids, plus I wouldn't dream of losing that bit of skin that sent me to high heavens since adolescent days.

But that aside, I personally countered my own problem by leaving the entire foreskin down for days on end. Helps in stretching out and desensitising, especially when it stretches out when you get morning (or midnight) wood. Stretch + having the rest of the night to recover. After nearly a month of that I never had to look back or worry about a tight foreskin.

Now my foreskin's sufficiently loose so that it auto rolls back when I get an erection. Oh, and the frenulum's toughened along the way. Neither my wife nor I have any complaints about the matter since. :D

eh hi-5! I always pull my foreskin back whenever I'm at home. sometimes outside too. like when I'm peeing etc. so now my foreskin automatically rolls back whenever I get an erection. no more tight foreskin problems since then! :D

[groupsex]

Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.

Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?


no big deal. the frenulum is often removed during circumcision.

If your boyfriend's tears easily, removal is the best option.

[littlepok]

i'm expecting TS to get alot of PM and messages here such as:

your bf injured don't worry i can help u till he recover!!!

[taureanwoman08]

i'm expecting TS to get alot of PM and messages here such as:

your bf injured don't worry i can help u till he recover!!!

Mr Littlepok

You are absolutely right! :)

Quite a number wanting to replace my bf.

[Dsolsz]

Mr Littlepok

You are absolutely right! :)

Quite a number wanting to replace my bf.

Haha because they want to share ur bf's fortune of having you

[singlicious]

Mr Littlepok

You are absolutely right! :)

Quite a number wanting to replace my bf.

haha it's an expected reaction in this forum.
well, you can actually kill time if you just read and delete. or maybe you can entertain them a bit also. :D

[taureanwoman08]

haha it's an expected reaction in this forum.
well, you can actually kill time if you just read and delete. or maybe you can entertain them a bit also. :D

If there are genuine nice guys, I can be friends with them. No issue.

[latishame]

I injured my frenulum more than once and blood spilled like free flow have to go hospital for stitches and have to lied to doctor that my cock hit the toilet bowl while peeing. I think ur bf case quite mild compared to mine situation.

[singlicious]

If there are genuine nice guys, I can be friends with them. No issue.

well, you surely won't know who's the wolf hiding in sheep skin here.
but still, take your time and you'll find out who are the nice ones. :)

as for the frenulum thingy, I hurt myself twice during masturbating, guess I was too vigorous. :D

[Climaxs]

Hi Sis

It's been happen to me a few times many year ago before and more foreplay and better lube will help on this..

[kurios]

Sugar level? You think this is caused by diabetes?

Yes, there is why can't fully heal. Although top few layers of the skin is healed but down under is the harder to close up. Some inexperience stupid doc will advice to potong. Best suggestion, check with the doc, nothing to shy about it. If it is a male doc, he has a cock too. If she is female doc, the most she see one more cock for that day.

[taureanwoman08]

Yes, there is why can't fully heal. Although top few layers of the skin is healed but down under is the harder to close up. Some inexperience stupid doc will advice to potong. Best suggestion, check with the doc, nothing to shy about it. If it is a male doc, he has a cock too. If she is female doc, the most she see one more cock for that day.

Thank you for all your comments. I have been receiving PMs asking to be friends etc. I will ignore all those one-liner because you are not telling me anything about yourself. If you go into details on yourself, and are truthful and genuine, then I am more likely to respond.

[kurios]

Missy, this is a forum and not a networking channel. I just show a bit of what I know to share rather than talking nonsense here.

Thank you for all your comments. I have been receiving PMs asking to be friends etc. I will ignore all those one-liner because you are not telling me anything about yourself. If you go into details on yourself, and are truthful and genuine, then I am more likely to respond.

[bg102]

I believe he will recover with some rest from action. For future try to ensure the following options:
1. you must be really wet inside and out before he enters you.
2. use lubricant if necessary
3. if outside not wet, ensure his foreskin is not fully pulled back before entering, when he enters the foreskin will help not pull back too far so will not injure.

How I know, mine is also in a similar situation and over time I worked out these measures.

Don't worry, eventually it does not affect him at all once he knows how to handle his tool, however, just a tip for you, that is a most sensitive and erotic spot to stimulate with your tongue.

Cheers and have fun....... when he is fine.

[InterFace]

Ask him to practice pulling his foreskin back all the way, especially during shower and intercourse. If he does this regularly, it will not be a prob in future.

[lorraina]

when he recover, try using lubricant instead of entering naturally. :) maybe it helps.

[taureanwoman08]

Thanks. My bf has recovered but he is scared to push hard. And he cums very quickly because I suck him till he is almost on the verge of bursting and then he just slowly slip inside me. He just wanted to cum inside me. He says the feeling is very different - cumming in the pussy compared to in the mouth.

No choice for me. He gotta licked me till I cum. I do miss the very shiok feeling of his engorged penis thrusting hard into me. Yes, the feeling is very different.

I don't understand why some people are like this - they enjoy making me go into red points.

[bg102]

Hey sis
Tell your bf don't worry, just remember what I said earlier, and yes, it is super sensitive but he will learn to control in time. Sometimes I can go on without even coming till my partner cannot take it anymore and I stop. But some other times, it is so shiok that I come pretty fast too. Over time he must trust himself to not be afraid and learn to pull his foreskin over the head before trying to enter you and you must be wet inside and outside too. His job to make you wet.

[consultant]

Thank you for all your comments. I have been receiving PMs asking to be friends etc. I will ignore all those one-liner because you are not telling me anything about yourself. If you go into details on yourself, and are truthful and genuine, then I am more likely to respond.
Try using baby oil to lubricate the penis, it helps like a lubricant too!

[taureanwoman08]

Thank you for all your kind PMs wanting to be friends with me. As long as you are sincere, I can consider. But please don't just say you want to be friends and leave it at that and expect me to respond with my vital stats etc. Please intro yourself and give me as much info as possible. A nice picture is an additional bonus. I will respond only to those with a lot of info. All those one-liners I am sorry. You don't give me much to respond to. Ok? Be sincere. My bf knows about this. Although he is not too thrill about other men wanting to be my friend, he said he does get a hard-on thinking of me with another man! Pervert him!

[taureanwoman08]

Many kisses for two nice gentlemen who made me green again. :o

[cockenadan]

hi taureanwoman08,

Maybe u and ur bf should use some lubricant even when u are damn wet initially...I have some exp with ladies who are wet initially but in the process of pumping suddenly just lost the juices...so lubricant will help in this case.

[taureanwoman08]

hi taureanwoman08,

Maybe u and ur bf should use some lubricant even when u are damn wet initially...I have some exp with ladies who are wet initially but in the process of pumping suddenly just lost the juices...so lubricant will help in this case.

Thanks you Mr Cockenadan for ur advice. Ur name is very cute.

[asdfghjkl]

very good knowledge shared, learnt something, never rock too hard.. :o

[cockenadan]

Thanks you Mr Cockenadan for ur advice. Ur name is very cute.

tHANKS. :D

[Blakkie]

just make sure there's sufficient lubrication during sex.

for now let it heal and avoid stretching it too vigorously... if you keep opening the wound when it heals it'll be even tighter and more prone to tearing...

[taureanwoman08]

My boyfriend is ok now but getting kinky. Last weekend, we went to Toa Payoh central and we had dinner at the Soup Restaurant there. I was wearing a short pair of skirt and very curvy high heels. There was a table with three men across ours and my boyfriend whispered to me that two of the men were staring at my exposed white thighs and legs. Somehow, this excited my boyfriend and he told me he was having a hard-on seeing the men stared at my legs.

After dinner, we went home and even before settling down, he stripped me and make very strong and passionate love to me. He really pumped me very hard and I was so scared that he would tear his skin again. Luckily I was also very wet and he was ok. We did it twice and luckily I didn't eat much as I would feel discomfort in my stomach.

He told me later that he got a kick from knowing that other men were lusting after me but only he could get to make love to me.

Are you guys like that also?

[diputs1269]

He really pumped me very hard and I was so scared that he would tear his skin again.

I wonder how come your canal no problem whereas his is torn?:confused:

[avante26]

Foreplay is very important during sex. Guys get aroused very easily, gals needs time to get aroused by more foreplay, such as licking the earlobes, nipples, ur love hole, neck, belly button, sometimes upper back.
Try tis the next time when u have sex with ur bf. let him lick u on the sensitive areas tat i mentioned. I m sure, u will feel very wet & horny & need him to enter you. Ur bf will not feel pain when ur very wet & enters you easily as both of you are doing raw.
Just go slow at the start, enjoy the sensitive parts tat will arouse you. U will moan like hell. Ask ur bf to lick you as & when having intercourse with you. Tis will help u keep aroused & make u cum faster & enjoy the session.
Have fun.

[mcyeoh]

TS, maybe you should ask your boyfriend to visit DSC. Get it checked out before any permanent damage is done, and at least get a doctor to look at it, and have a peace of mind.:o
hahaha so insecure that you got to zap ...hi insecure man

[wantedbryan]

hahaha so insecure that you got to zap ...hi insecure man

wtf you dig out a thread that was from 2013? Lol

[yying]

are you still tight?

[Vanillashake]

are you still tight?

And you dig out a thread that was from 2015? :D

[BTech]

And you dig out a thread that was from 2015? :D

2013 !!!

Fucking free but bloody funny comment bro !!!!

[ddog]

easy... let Ddog take over with stronger tail for once in lifetime thrill till friend recover

[DurianSg]

Wow wow.


2013 post now 2017 should be change of bf .


Singboi

[Escortic]

Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.


Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?


he got isssue ....... bring him see doc at 301 serangoon there got a master

[`destinY]

he got isssue ....... bring him see doc at 301 serangoon there got a master

2013 TOPIC U BRING UP KAM :mad::mad::mad:

[soccerfreak]

I tore once...and went to see specialist...concluded that I ha d a short frendulum and tight foreskin..doc recommended I do a circumcision...hesitated but in the end went ahead coz that was when me and my Wife got married not Long ago....no problem since!

[daabiga]

I had the same problem recently. I apply with this cream and it heals quite fast Penaten Baby Cream Crème Large, 5.1 Ounce https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004H5GD6E/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_6RzhDbZZD0S83

Note u need to do it slowly when horse riding. I do understand it not that enjoyable. Slowly let it recover. Mine was recovering now will try out n c if can perform better like 21 years old lol



Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.

Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?

[chnhubby71]

I am impressed! I have so many people asking me to be friends or wanting to meet me. Thanks for the attention but remember I do have a bf to think of.

A good reply being faithful to your bf. Cheer!

[chnhubby71]

I am impressed! I have so many people asking me to be friends or wanting to meet me. Thanks for the attention but remember I do have a bf to think of.

A good reply being faithful to your bf. Cheer!