Any help and advice?

[peter101]

hi all yesterday my gf called me and while we were talking she mention that she was late for her period. 3 days already. is this okie or normal? she's afraid she's pregnant cuz when we did it i wasnt wearing a condom. but i always let go outside. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(

[Big Sexy]

you fucking murderer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is your son you are going to kill.... :mad:

take some responsibility and marry her..even if you can afford it. just a simple ROM will do. why need to resort to abortion?


NOT EARNING ENOUGH IS A DAMN FUCKING LOUSY EXCUSE!

. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. :(

[DNAT]

you fucking murderer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is your son you are going to kill.... :mad:

take some responsibility and marry her..even if you can afford it. just a simple ROM will do. why need to resort to abortion?


NOT EARNING ENOUGH IS A DAMN FUCKING LOUSY EXCUSE!

why so hot? ... :confused: monday morning leh .. who stepped on your LP ?

[peter101]

you fucking murderer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is your son you are going to kill.... :mad:

take some responsibility and marry her..even if you can afford it. just a simple ROM will do. why need to resort to abortion?


NOT EARNING ENOUGH IS A DAMN FUCKING LOUSY EXCUSE!

woah relax la. think rationally can would u bring a life into the world for it to suffer? i rather not and suffer the emotional stress myself.

[Big Sexy]

who else??? that Kang kang lo. :mad:

why so hot? ... :confused: monday morning leh .. who stepped on your LP ?

[peter101]

you fucking murderer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is your son you are going to kill.... :mad:

take some responsibility and marry her..even if you can afford it. just a simple ROM will do. why need to resort to abortion?


NOT EARNING ENOUGH IS A DAMN FUCKING LOUSY EXCUSE!

anyway if u angry then dun vent it on me. will have retribution u know.

[robertking1]

woah relax la. think rationally can would u bring a life into the world for it to suffer? i rather not and suffer the emotional stress myself.
gv U a win-win suggestion.....bring your gal to hide somewhere.....let her deliver......sell the baby.....U can easily get more than S$10k depending on the sex...... :D

[Big Sexy]

good point hor....why didnt you think of that before you do it raw with her????? you are just self-fish.

Not rationall enough????? what was your excuse????????

your excuse was you are not earning enough.

i know it is goning to be difficult.. but be a man and take responsibility.. you create the "problem" you solve the problem... NOT run away from it...




woah relax la. think rationally can would u bring a life into the world for it to suffer? i rather not and suffer the emotional stress myself.

[hothandlebar]

hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(

Try Thomson Medical - #05-?? - Gynae - K C Yeo...
Though this is a male doctor, he is of age and like a father figure and it is very popular amongst mothers-to-be.

But be prepared to pay the price which is a little steep but at least your g/f
is in good hands cos the last thing you want is any complications...

Not that I'm encouraging you but if you want to do it, at least don't kill your
g/f also.

[Big Sexy]

Yeap i am angry... SO??????? you wanan come and bite me????

unlike you i am responsible for my words and actions. No problem if you wana buy me kopi.. i never turn down such invitation....

anyway if u angry then dun vent it on me. will have retribution u know.

[peter101]

anyway not confirm also just that she late by 3 days. haiz. okok i wrong. but still anyone know where to abort? really i was up the whole of last night thinking about it, cannot have the kid if she is really pregnant.

[robertking1]

unlike you i am responsible for my words and actions. No problem if you wana buy me kopi.. i never turn down such invitation....
nbzz....everytime want to buy U kopi U also not free.... :mad:

[t123]

In your case bro, it can be she's very late. My 2 gfs was late for 2 weeks, even though I didn't do raw. Probably due to extreme weather condition, but, coming back to abortion, morally i dun think its right, because its not the baby only but after abortion sometimes the mother will experience long lasting damage to the body. I got no right to reprimand you but please consider about her feelings and health, discuss with her on the possibilities. :)

[peter101]

ya i know thats y i told her already she already agreed wif me. well. hope for the best that shes just late. thanks.

[SEXEmperor]

no problem...i was only telling you my point of view..when u become a father then u will understand how precious your kid is to you.. i am telling you from a father point of view..

you decide yours and his future. there is no right or wrong in a argument...

Big Sexy.

haiz. okok i wrong. but still anyone know where to abort? really i was up the whole of last night thinking about it, cannot have the kid if she is really pregnant.

[Doenitz79]

hi all yesterday my gf called me and while we were talking she mention that she was late for her period. 3 days already. is this okie or normal? she's afraid she's pregnant cuz when we did it i wasnt wearing a condom. but i always let go outside. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(


Ask her to check first! Then take things step by step if she's really pregnant.

Seriously,I utterly hate abortion and guys who make their gals go for it.

You want to look at some pictures of aborted fetus? I can show you if you want.You will lose your appetite for lunch later.

[LOTR3]

Agree with Doentiz79. Not earning enough? well, i'm sure ur parents can help out. abortion is bad for the health of ladies. they would suffer emotionally too. dun take the easy way.

[Doenitz79]

Agree with Doentiz79. Not earning enough? well, i'm sure ur parents can help out. abortion is bad for the health of ladies. they would suffer emotionally too. dun take the easy way.

Yes,got her parents to help out also.I am sure intially you will get fucked upside down left right centre by your and her family,but eventually things will cool down and they will help you.

[LOTR3]

Yes,got her parents to help out also.I am sure intially you will get fucked upside down left right centre by your and her family,but eventually things will cool down and they will help you.

forget to mention the baby bonus too...
our prime minister, senior minister, mentor of minister and whatever ministers would be upset to see u suggesting an abortion. singapore need babies, not abortions. :D

[Doenitz79]

http://www.amightywind.com/abortion/pleaseno.htm

Check out the pictures please!!!

Disclaimer:Some of you may empty your breakfast on the monitor screen !!!

[Ethanas]

I'll not say that I'm for or against abortion.

But bros we have to be objective here, if the couple is unable to care for, or not ready for children, I believe the choice is still up to them to make. It will be bad to bring the child to a world when the parents are not able to care for it and ended up abandoning them.

BUT if the threadstarter forces his gf to do abortion because he didn't want the responsibility that I would not agree with. Bro threadstarter, I'm sure you guys (you and your gf) can go to some councilling sessions to check if you should keep the baby or not (IF your gf is seriously pregnant).

[jeronimo]

Peter101?

I totally agree with Sr NG Ethanas, to abort or not is not only monetary but also morally
If you are aware that you are currently not able to start a family, why not be more responsible to you girlfriend, yourself and an unborn living being?

I have friends who had to live with the morality guilt of knowing she had ended a life without even giving him/her a chance? I also know of guys who hate their girlfriend when he found out she had aborted their baby, even though he was not ready to settle down

Please think twice

[twintower]

.....seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. .....:(

Don't give such stupid excuses hor. Who got earn enough in this world, even the millionaires is working for their next million every minutes, every hour, every day.

Please lar, want to take advantage, want to go raw, want every sextisfaction but don't want to responsible for the consequences. Are you a MAN? knnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.

[robertking1]

I have friends who had to live with the morality guilt of knowing she had ended a life without even giving him/her a chance? I also know of guys who hate their girlfriend when he found out she had aborted their baby, even though he was not ready to settle down

Please think twice
hello NG Jeronimo...there is another samster Geronimo.....very confusing leh.....so are U going to do anything about it??? :confused:

[Big Sexy]

I can understand if the bady is deform or if there is a danger to the woman life... then i say ..yes we can consider abortion...but this is not the case...

he has a choice in the first place, no one force him to do raw...one should be responsible for ones action... take precaution if you are not ready and do not want to take responsibility.

i WOULD LIKE TO STRESS AGAIN.... EARNING NOT ENOUGH IS A LAME EXCUSE FOR ABORTION.

bottom line is U wana to do raw .. you bear the responsibility. u have a choice.. you made the choice... . if the baby have a choice... she will also choose to live.. why denied her the chance to live??????



But bros we have to be objective here, if the couple is unable to care for, or not ready for children, I believe the choice is still up to them to make. It will be bad to bring the child to a world when the parents are not able to care for it and ended up abandoning them.

[DNAT]

SEXEmperor[/size]]no problem...
...
Big Sexy.


???????????????????? :eek: ??????????????????????????

:D ... seee lah ... eng kai 1

[robertking1]

???????????????????? :eek: ??????????????????????????

... seee lah ... eng kai 1
see what??? :confused:

[Doenitz79]

If really really cannot afford to have the child,at least let him come out to this world first and let someone adopt it?

[Big Sexy]

he today abit short circult la....never take medicine la... quick quick get the nurse here.:D

NURSE! NURSE!.... Get the male nurse..!!!

see what??? :confused:

[Randi_Candi]

???????????????????? :eek: ??????????????????????????

... seee lah ... eng kai 1
Haha.......u v smart leh
Oi! remember the Kiang tio hor, mai xxx xxxxx?? :D

[DNAT]

see what??? :confused:

NBzz ... you never open your eyes har? .. go and read post # 15 [last posting on page 1 of this thread] .. and I duno posted by who leh? :D

[Big Sexy]

wowlau... u must be the last person to know i am sexemperor( the fake one hor)..:D

u know my style la.. i will put my signature there.. i am who i am and what i am...:D

NBzz ... you never open your eyes har? .. go and read post # 15 [last posting on page 1 of this thread] .. and I duno posted by who leh?

[Rof|maoxz]

http://www.amightywind.com/abortion/pleaseno.htm

Check out the pictures please!!!

Disclaimer:Some of you may empty your breakfast on the monitor screen !!!

Eee...mai a nee lay. I saw those pics I buay stand ley. How? ;)

[DNAT]

wowlau... u must be the last person to know i am sexemperor( the fake one hor)..

u know my style la.. i will put my signature there.. i am who i am and what i am...:D

I early early know liao ... when you started that SEXEmperor thread I know its you liao ... :D

[robertking1]

I early early know liao ... when you started that SEXEmperor thread I know its you liao ... :D
so cleber.....how cum I dont know1..... :o

[DNAT]

so cleber.....how cum I dont know1..... :o

you only know how to Por BOSS's LP :D

[Randi_Candi]

you only know how to Por BOSS's LP :D
Dun lidat stress RK1
He 1 2 choot new pattern liao :D

[DNAT]

Dun lidat stress RK1
He 1 2 choot new pattern liao :D

si mi new pattern .. how come I duno 1?

izit 'A Sai anal' pattern? :confused:

[swing123]

hi all yesterday my gf called me and while we were talking she mention that she was late for her period. 3 days already. is this okie or normal? she's afraid she's pregnant cuz when we did it i wasnt wearing a condom. but i always let go outside. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(

instead of speculating and worrying, why not you go to any pharmacy store or 7-11, get the "instant pregnancy test kit" and get your gf to test?

some times, it's normal for gal's period to be late due to stress, food, and etc......

after confirming the results, only then start asking the next question...no point speculating, assuming, suspecting.....confirm the fact first, then deal with next step....

[ahpaul25]

she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(

Bro..........Not earing much until no $0.70 to buy 1 CD meh.....knn...got that poor bo....wah kaoz......which meant u already wan to be a DAD what...what a lousy excuse bro.........

1st - Now kindly bring along your gf to medical for checkup....period may be late due to work stress,mood swing....etc.........if doctor have given answer, means it a neg. sign...then u r safe.

2nd - If you are fuking poor, no $$$ to go see doctor or pai say.....go to watson and buy pregency kit and check......wish u the best 50%-50%.......hehehe

3rd - If your answer is shown that she have strike a TOTO, we bro cong. u liao.u r going to be a father.......face it bro.....if u wan to slove this pro.......a old way of doing........u and yr gf go pub drink to the fullest.........then u go back hm and both sleep nudely and open the door slightly open for your parents to see when they wake up in the morning.......then...they will know what to do.....No 1 to blame as u r drunk.....hehehe....your parent will help u lor. Sure kenna scold by them lah but on the other fact, u r saved. Happy marriage. :D

[monster.cookie]

Erm to original poster bro, I know how it feels man. This is going to be a decision that will haunt you forever. We (me and ex) decided to take this route as well ...must be at least 5 or 6 years liao.

At that point, we felt that it is the right thing to do as we were both young...well not very young but just felt that we were not ready for it. If you need the technicalities, you can pm for details then i will try search out the contact. But the abortion was done in Mount E...cost was about 800+. The doctor is really damn good, will counsel first before you make your decision and absolutely no complications after that.

Anyway the money and the physical issues is the least of your problems. First of all, if you really love your gf, make it work. The moment you decide to take this route, things will never ever be the same again. Likelihood is that you will never be as close and will eventually go your seperate ways. Even then, everytime u see, hear, think of her, you will feel that you have made a mistake then. Sad and shameful to say this.....been there, done that. Please think carefully, this is a mistake that can NEVER be undone.

[jungle boy]

ya i know thats y i told her already she already agreed wif me. well. hope for the best that shes just late. thanks.

if she's really late, both of you will heave a sigh of relief.

if she's not late but is really pregnant, and both of you agree to abort, you will both bear the scars of killing an unborn child, your own unborn, defenceless, innocent child.

(if you're singaporean) you became a man when you went through the baptism of NS as a teenager. you didn't have a choice, you cannot select which unit you go to and you cannot suka suka say don't want to book in.

you will become a parent (and a proud one, i hope) when you bear that responsibility and assure your gf that you commit to her, keep the child and continue to provide for both of them, whether you're financially capable now or not.

i suppose that's commitment - an act of binding yourself intellectually or emotionally to a course of action (raw action, in this case)

i wish you well... :)

[Lowell]

Medical Fact: The physical stress of one abortion is equivalent to going through 2 births.

having said that....3 days late for period is not very bad. I had a gf whom we had unprotected sex only, never protected, and she would miss her period sometimes for 1 week, but nothing happened. The worst was 2 weeks and again nothing happened.

Besides shelling out for pregnancy kit, thats the best assurance you can give yourself.

And even if she's pregnant, you should seriously consider doing the right thing....the gal love you enough to let you shoot inside her...best you can do is to show her that you love her back.

[xp30]

hi all yesterday my gf called me and while we were talking she mention that she was late for her period. 3 days already. is this okie or normal? she's afraid she's pregnant cuz when we did it i wasnt wearing a condom. but i always let go outside. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(
Just go to the guardian pharmacy and grab a test kits and you will know straight away. If she's pregnant, go to Tanglin Mall Shppg upstair plenty private doctor to choose from. But my advise to be a father. Those already father, knows what I am talking about and the price to pay for abortion(not talking about money).

[Luna]

Those already father, knows what I am talking about and the price to pay for abortion(not talking about money).

Yup, please keep the baby. The baby is innocent.

[kaizer]

Brother, look on the bright side first.. my gf oso missed her period last time, and we haf sex a few days b4, but the result is juz she having her period late lor.. so dun worry so much.. but heres my advice, if u really dont want a child, pls wear a cap.. if u dun like caps, there are mani other ways of contraception like pills, diaphrgm, spermicide or even surgery like ligation and vasectomy. so dun risk it if u really dont want a child loh, even if u nvr shoot inside her, the precum produced may still contain sperm de.. she may get pregnant too.

next, if shes really pregnant, take up ur responsibility and be a man.. marry her and let her give birth to your child. hes ur own flesh and blood leh, u cant juz deny him a chance to live isnt it? u got lan jiao to fuck ur gf, dun haf lan jiao to marry her, support her and ur kid liao arh? c'mon lor, no money is juz an excuse, if no money, make it! ur a man, tis is ur responsibility! decisions u make, consequences u BEAR! juz my 1 cents worth of comments. hope u will heed it.

lastly, anyway if u angry then dun vent it on me. will have retribution u know.

u abort ur child due to ur own selfish reasons and ur irresponsibility oso will haf retribution de, best is u become impotent, so no nid haf kids animore liao lor.. and ur gf dun nid go for abortion animore liao.. many people are wishing and dying for a child, yet u wana abort one dat u may haf. life is precious, i seriously hope u will 三思而后行. good day.

[Landlord]

hi all yesterday my gf called me and while we were talking she mention that she was late for her period. 3 days already. is this okie or normal? she's afraid she's pregnant cuz when we did it i wasnt wearing a condom. but i always let go outside. hmmm. ok worst case scenario if she pregnant anyone know where to get an abortion? the better ones pref those that are female doctors would be better, not those that treat underage gals anyway she already 21. seriously cant afford her being pregnant i'm not earning enough yet. thanks bros. pls dun scold me for not wearing a condom :(

Bro,

my 2 cents worth....

1) buy pregnancy kit, check first. Don't speculate. If confirmed not pregnant, thank the stars and then reflect back on all the feelings you had these last couple of days. Hopefully you will be more careful in future as obviously you are not ready to be a father; mentally and financially.

2) If pregnant, discuss with your gf and figure what you guys want to do. Yes I agree with some bros that killing an innocent baby is sinful and we should all be responsible for our mistakes. But please look at it from another perspective, if both of you are not ready for a child or even marriage (both very big steps in life), you are bringing another human being in this world where he will just suffer.

I personally had some friends who had kids when they themselves are still kids. It's very sad especially when you see the way the kids are treated and how they are behaving. Due to the kid, the parents do not get to go further in their studies and they eventually get stuck in some low paying job and the cycle continues. But I have seen two success stories, the soon to be parents became mature overnight and they are the envy of some of us. Talk through it with gf, do a reality check! No money is just crap excuse. Think hard so you will never regret your decision in future. Good luck. Message me if you need someone to talk to.

For all bros who whacked our troubled friends, give him a break. I am sure all of us have done stupid things in our life when we were kids but most of us got away with it with not much detriment to our current life. I thank my lucky stars every time I think about mine. I am sure he would have learned his lesson by now.

[kudos]

I really really need help now. My GF is 20 years old now and had her period missed. She sure cannot let her family know bout it and I really not able to afford the money. Stop saying it as a excuse. If you have any contacts, kindly PM me.. She wanted to go for abortion through surgury or pill if possible alone without letting any knowing about it. Read through the net and it seem there is pill method for those with less than 9 weeks... I seriously need help now. REALLY.... :(

[kudos]

SERIOUSLY need helps from you guys here.. can pm me if you like..

[nakamara]

yeah bro sometimes it's due to some 'complications' in her system that's delaying her period...happened to a few of my exs too. Made me worried like hell

anyway if you think you both are really not ready to start a family due to an unplanned pregnancy i still think it's better for both yourselves and your child. Saying this risked me being zapped here but I would like to voice my opinions. Either u lose the child now, or you 3 will suffer together. I've lots of friends that went through these and they told me it's really difficult to handle the whole thing.

Think bout it bro. And Pray your girl's not pregnant. :)

[madix]

I really really need help now. My GF is 20 years old now and had her period missed. She sure cannot let her family know bout it and I really not able to afford the money. .... :(

if she under 21 years old...then no choice have to let parents know if she wanna legally abort the child. but first you all need to check if real. buy a pregnancy kit(<20 bucks) from guardian...if positive go clinic for another check...if confirm liao then brace yourselves to tell her family. If family agreeable then go for abortion.

local hospitals cost abt 400 bucks. can use medisave. make the mother sit thru a 45min video (apparently quite gross and sad) on abortion then within 2 days time can operate liao. clinics cost more. but also need parental consent.

it is no joke to go through abortion...had friends who wanted to die after the abortion...keep telling me that they feel like murderers and how the guy conveniently disappear after the abortion. Please be by the side of your gal always during the 1-2 mths after abortion...esp so if her suicidal tendencies arise...next time use a cd...or other preventive measures...if she scared of sex in future...have to slowly let her forget the painful episode first then try to coax her to being intimate...don't just leave her at don't-want-sex-then-don't-do stage...she'd prob nv have sex again.

[Sure2C]

Dun understand u lucky ppl.
Knn I hv to pay $20,000 over to get a kids thru test-tube n u lucky guy here hit the jackpot still 1 2 kpkb here asking for help to KILL the innocent life? Wat help u 1? all the fire from bros here who have children?
Some bros here hv mentioned that the most u kenna left/right/up/down/center from both parents, but do think of it...I'm sure ur parent will, at the end of it, help u take care n bring up the kid. U tell me, which grandparent dun want their son/daughter's kid (ie their grandchildren)?
Hope u take a deeper consideration b4 making the decision...

[kudos]

All for those who replied me here and through PM
I would really like to seek for alternate solution... if there is, please pm me... I seriously need help. This is the only place I can seek help from.. I am really desperate and helpless now as each day went pass...

sURE2C... That's life.. you just can't have the best of both world.. each of us have different fate and one of your factor is u r able to support the child.. it is nothing but the true that my family are poor and me for sure can't support the child .. I am realistically enough to know what I can provide for the child in the future. Why let them suffer when they are grown up? etc in short, we will not be able to support the child now...

[madix]

another thing:
for the guy it prob does not leave any scar except for an emotional one, but for the girl, she might not be able to conceive again in future because of this abortion(because the vaginal walls are damaged...they are scrapped during the abortion to get the foetus out).
really think it over...if it's only money you are concerned abt...just let her give birth and can arrange for families with no children to take care, they will be more than happy to adopt...dun kill the baby pls. social hotlines can help you with this.
there are actually something like halfway houses in singapore for the girls to stay during their third trimester period if they dun wanna stay at home(fear of being seen by neighbours and relatives). Schools can and will understand if they cannot attend...take long leave from sch or work is all arrangeable.

[Castrol]

so eh..... for bro peter101 and bro kudos..... are the ladies really pregnant? :confused:

[kudos]

thanks for the replies here n from pm... haven't buy pregency kit to confirm but the day confirming is the way of nightmaring for me.. but i have to face it sooner or later.. days is sucky for me..

[blade]

anyway not confirm also just that she late by 3 days. haiz. okok i wrong. but still anyone know where to abort? really i was up the whole of last night thinking about it, cannot have the kid if she is really pregnant.
I really really need help now. My GF is 20 years old now and had her period missed. She sure cannot let her family know bout it and I really not able to afford the money. Stop saying it as a excuse. If you have any contacts, kindly PM me.. She wanted to go for abortion through surgury or pill if possible alone without letting any knowing about it. Read through the net and it seem there is pill method for those with less than 9 weeks... I seriously need help now. REALLY....
go and buy pregnancy test kit and test first lor..u all oso v funny..wanna do it raw then now scared pregnant...better think abt wat u are doing man..could be just late la..3 days only still small case.. :cool:

[kudos]

it is confirmed... i really don't know what to do now.. if gal is below 21 years but above 18 yrs old, can go for abortion without their parent accompanying???

[madix]

kudos...thought I pm-ed you already? not sure just make a phone call to the hospital...

if you all really decide to abort...don't delay...every day of delay increases her risk of complications by a bit.

[kudos]

hope there is anyone who can answer me this in pm or here. thankss....

[daryl76]

if confirm oredi, den go for the abortion asap cos cannot delay oredi... dangerous to the gal as well... can go for the clinics are Mt E Hospital

[kudos]

darlyn76... you sure no need parents to accompany her for the abortion if she is 20 years old?

she is confirmed to be pregence... i am in a lost now... using pregency kit to test... clearblue brand proved she is pregence... but try again using guardian brand prove no result as there is no indication which mean need to buy another one to test... Decided to bring her to a speclist to make a appointment for abortion and accompany her for the abortion in the next day...

[Rof|maoxz]

darlyn76... you sure no need parents to accompany her for the abortion if she is 20 years old?

she is confirmed to be pregence... i am in a lost now... using pregency kit to test... clearblue brand proved she is pregence... but try again using guardian brand prove no result as there is no indication which mean need to buy another one to test... Decided to bring her to a speclist to make a appointment for abortion and accompany her for the abortion in the next day...

Pregnancy Crisis Service - For unmarried mothers & mothers-to-be

Tel: (65) 6339 9770

Mon, Wed, Fri, Sat: 9am - 5pm
Tue, Thu: 9am - 9pm

For you info.

Procedure

1. Turn up at approved clinic or hospital.

2. Referred to Ministry of Health for guidance and counselling if under 16 years old

3. Go for urine test to confirm pregnancy

4. Go for ultrasound of the pelvis to determine stage of pregnancy

5. Watch a 12-minute video on abortion

6. Wait 48 hours before having an abortion (Singapore citizens & permanent residents only) Non-citizens do not have to wait.

7. Undergo the abortion procedure

Estimated Cost:

S$150 - S$1,200 Restructure hospitals

S$400 - S$2,000 Private clinics & hospitals

[daryl76]

ya... as long as she is above the consent age to have sex and now underage, no need to have parents' consent