Singaporian Girls

[ChickLuver]

I love Singaporean girls; some of them are among the most gorgeous creatures in the world IMHO. I like trying to meet up with non-pros and I've had some luck at Zouk and at that 'cafe street' (sultan???), but was wondering if anyone had any tips for where to find elegant young-ish ladies (I'm 28 myself). Any specific bars/clubs/other that might attract Sing ladies interested in Caucasians?

Thanks

[kelvindartz]

wow, looks like we've got a foreign visitor here. How about doing some searches in the Health Club/Pubs section. You will find heaps of information you need to know. In the meantime, happy "cheonging'! (means happy bonking)

[ballzballz]

I kinda think you might have a higher chance of getting lucky at Orchard TOwer in the town area. Wun really suggest going to mohamad sultan road and trying to get lucky. Firstly, since you a foreigner, you might not really understand some weird culture that the gers or guys have. If you come on too hard (it might be normal by your standards) you might incur the wrath of what we call ah bengs who are just out to find trouble. Nevertheless, Singapore is a nice country, enjoy your stay. Happy Cheonging~

[TheSting]

liquid room and brix

[ChickLuver]

Thanks you all. I am still trying out. I have met a couple of Indian girls. Very good and tasty cunts. Young once but slightly expensive.

[asia65]

hey you can try devil bar at orchard, or attica at clarke quay there you can find many loca girl who r looking for people like you from oversea. i m sure you will get some girl for ONS if you can talk well & not too bad looking.
goto www.attica.com.sg and take a look. hope my info will help, enjoy

[ct75]

If you are caucasian.... I am sure you will find heaps of nubile singaporean girls willing to throw themselves at you..... It's the Whites are so "refined, romantic, classy, so high class to be seen with a white" syndrome...... however you do run the risk of getting bashed in.... if you pick the wrong girl up.... one with a boyfriend or group of guy friends who simply can't stand whites that come here and want to pick up local girls

[JAXXX]

Well, u dun really have to be good looking...ur white... that's a good start. They'll just throw themselves at u. Down here ur god.

[cheongkid]

Well, u dun really have to be good looking...ur white... that's a good start. They'll just throw themselves at u. Down here ur god.
Yup, lots of SPGs here...

[SingViet]

Well, u dun really have to be good looking...ur white... that's a good start. They'll just throw themselves at u. Down here ur god.


U don't have to be intelligent or good looking (as most are not), as long as u are a white, Singaporean ladies will think that you are god. Singaporean ladies should start to make trips abroad to understand more of the way of life in Western Countries. Maybe after that, they will change their views.

It takes 2 hands to clap. the SWM likes asian puss.. and the Asian Puss like SWM. :D

[tionggoklan]

After reading this thread, me can't tahan so juz wanna write sumthing.

Agreed with Bro SingViet, sum of these sg gals, sad to admit, got boobs no brain 1. As long it's a white guy, anytin abt him also good, even his shit smell nice. :D

If I'm not wrong, there's a name to this, called pinkerton syndrome, whereby they worship the angmoh like god. Well, me definitely not sour grapes, but these SPG can choose whom they like, but dun bloody condamn we asian men especially when they r interviewed.

Me is not a good e.g. but I do believe there r always nice ppl as well as bad 1 in all races n society. So I wanna say to Bro ChickLuver, no offence intended, ok? Maybe u r the nice 1 in yr race. So I can't stand these SPG measuring all standards according to the west. Hey, we r asian afterall n we got our own set of standards, y everything also must follow others?

1 more thing i tulan abt sum sg gals is that they want the best of both world, things to their advantage they would want equality, those that r not they will want special treatment, otherwise the guy will be labelled as MCP or un-gentlemen. I reali wanna ask them go marina south n fly kite!

Though me no expert in western history, but I believe the code of conduct of gentlemen from the west derived from the gound that woman is the weaker sex n therefore need protection n special treatment (anyone care to correct me?). If that's the case, for the bloody sg gals who always complain sg guys not gentlemen enuff, do they wanna gif up their equal rights? Dun tink so rite? KNN, its like wanting to have the cake n eat it the same time. They tink onli they clever, n we sg guys r all goon-du?

So, sumtime reali feel that as a sg man, life reali sucks, apart from the pressurizing society we r in, we have to face this sort of female gender. They also never tink, everytime know how to demand this n that, but got tink what they can offer or not? Look ard, y so many guys r getting wives from neighbouring countries like M'sia, China, Viet n Thailand, cos the gals there r far less demanding than most gals here, n sum have even more to offer.

Pls note that the above mentioned is purely my personal opinion n I'm not refering to all sg gals as I have said earlier, all societies n races got good n bad 1, juz that have seen too many sg gals that r too demanding n really buey tahan.

Wow...after spilling out the frustration, really feel much better. Guess this is what the forum is for also, to express our view.



U don't have to be intelligent or good looking (as most are not), as long as u are a white, Singaporean ladies will think that you are god. Singaporean ladies should start to make trips abroad to understand more of the way of life in Western Countries. Maybe after that, they will change their views.

It takes 2 hands to clap. the SWM likes asian puss.. and the Asian Puss like SWM. :D

[coolfire69]

Wow...after spilling out the frustration, really feel much better. Guess this is what the forum is for also, to express our view.


Hey Bro...

Well, I really agree with you on that... especially the part on how CERTAIN sg gals juz want the best of both worlds.... :rolleyes:

Great also, that you feel much better... :D


CheerZz...

[Franz]

1 more thing i tulan abt sum sg gals is that they want the best of both world, things to their advantage they would want equality, those that r not they will want special treatment, otherwise the guy will be labelled as MCP or un-gentlemen. I reali wanna ask them go marina south n fly kite!

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when a ger label me as a mcp, i shoot back at them...ur just a sexist... few years of formal education, and ya championing for female rights....

[peterpan]

U don't have to be intelligent or good looking (as most are not), as long as u are a white, Singaporean ladies will think that you are god.

But i must say u have to first learn how to spell.

Its SINGAPOREAN!!!!

Pls respect my country people's name!

si ang mo, knn, spelling fuckup wana kao sgp charbo... puah teh kor!!!

[whitegals]

Heh heh,

I see this issue again... eh bros, you wanna know something quite farnee? here in England, the gals think I'm a gentleman and somewhat of a good lover, I know how to make her feel good about herself and want me in her bed every night.

Back home in SG, the char bo think I've got a fucked up attitude. But they still wanna fuck.

I think some of the bros bring it upon themselves, no offence, but man, don't take any shit! You wanna tolerate them being late, go out with you then spend 20mins on the phone with someone else, expect you to do everything for them, pay for everything, etc. The more you give, the more they will take. It is human nature to be greedy.

Don't take any shit bros! Some of the examples above, I've seen what the PRC gals here do. They try that with me, I'll fuck them once and they'll never hear from me again.

Another reason why I like the white gals, some degree of independence is good in a woman, some more independent than others, but at least they do what they say, well, at least some of the time. They are women, still. :p

The SG gals wanna worship angmoh, that's their problem, we shouldn't have to suck up to them just to get their attention. KNN, when i get back to SG, I see angmoh at Clarke Quay, the fucker prepare to go swimming.
:mad:

[peterpan]

Heh heh,

I see this issue again... eh bros, you wanna know something quite farnee? here in England, the gals think I'm a gentleman and somewhat of a good lover, I know how to make her feel good about herself and want me in her bed every night.

Back home in SG, the char bo think I've got a fucked up attitude. But they still wanna fuck.

I think some of the bros bring it upon themselves, no offence, but man, don't take any shit! You wanna tolerate them being late, go out with you then spend 20mins on the phone with someone else, expect you to do everything for them, pay for everything, etc. The more you give, the more they will take. It is human nature to be greedy.

Don't take any shit bros! Some of the examples above, I've seen what the PRC gals here do. They try that with me, I'll fuck them once and they'll never hear from me again.

Another reason why I like the white gals, some degree of independence is good in a woman, some more independent than others, but at least they do what they say, well, at least some of the time. They are women, still. :p

The SG gals wanna worship angmoh, that's their problem, we shouldn't have to suck up to them just to get their attention. KNN, when i get back to SG, I see angmoh at Clarke Quay, the fucker prepare to go swimming.
:mad:


Clap clap.... Well said!

[warresg]

U don't have to be intelligent or good looking (as most are not), as long as u are a white, Singaporean ladies will think that you are god.
But i must say u have to first learn how to spell.

Its SINGAPOREAN!!!!

Pls respect my country people's name!

si ang mo, knn, spelling fuckup wana kao sgp charbo... puah teh kor!!!
wait a minute, do I need a spec or something. Is there a difference?

[whitegals]

yes you do, u also need pointers to tell you where to look. :D

[warresg]

yes you do, u also need pointers to tell you where to look.
Singviet = ChickLuver :confused: :eek:

[vesfreq]

The debate over Singapore females worshipping white men is an endless one.

Ironically, behind all the female talk about greater equality and rights, there is also the more than proportionate increase in the females' emphasis (or for that matter, focus) on materialism.

To put it in simple English, more money does the job better. :mad:

[peterpan]

wait a minute, do I need a spec or something. Is there a difference?

Misunderstanding!!!

Im refering to threadstarter!!!!

Read title!!!!

PS: Sorry SingViet bro.... im not talking abt u...

[MMM88]

If you are caucasian.... I am sure you will find heaps of nubile singaporean girls willing to throw themselves at you..... It's the Whites are so "refined, romantic, classy, so high class to be seen with a white" syndrome......


rite on the dot- cant stand those spg tat makes us (asian) all look BAD. Stayed in the States for 3 years , knows couple of white boys . Their interest in asian gals is simply CONQUEST. Just how many spgs actually married the first white boy they bonked (worst -for FREE).......
With a affluent society like Singapore , it is a astounding to have spgs tat still worship white boys (europeans) .....it is nothing "high class" being seen with a white boy.....it is "high class" if one find true love , irregardless if the mate is white , blacks ,asians , hispanics or................ :D

[SotongBall]

Maybe can ask PeterPan. He may hint you where his gf is going. Then you can try your luck. If your cock is 7 inch, your chance will be higher .... :)

[bradpitt968]

Well... must agree that some Sporean gals who goes only for white man is dumb. I mean... unless you tell me that guy is a freaking rich guy.. and spend lots of $$ on them.... what can we say?

For a asian gal to be with a white man.. no big deal... we can see everywhere.

Asian guy with white gal... that's something... = )

[giggz83]

na be ..

ang mo .. wanna fuck our local gal .. which means we got 1 less good girl to choose from liao ..

HOW CAN?

but i wouldnt mind if you choose those "dinosaurs" ... im perfectly fine with that .. :p

[waypastprime]

KNN, when i get back to SG, I see angmoh at Clarke Quay, the fucker prepare to go swimming.
:mad:

Are u for serious? U need more than a couple of 3 tonners to send them off. :D

[guppiesguppies]

had a similiar discussion with some of my girlfriends we usually hang out for drinks... my buddy and i asked the bunch of girls, why is it so that a singaporean girl might want to attach herself to an ang moh?

answers from them, ang moh guys respects the weaker sex of equal, they are not chauvinistic, takes care of their family, more openly romantic, more sensitive, more caring then sg guys...

but the only answer my bud and me unanimously have in mind and said it almost in unison loudly... "caring... kee lan ar... the only thing about them that they have is probably that their lan jiao more tua kee only... admit it girls..."

[jungle boy]

not all ang mohs here are out to conquer asian or singaporean girls. some of the greener ones (read: first few times in asia, don't really know about the different asian cultures, blah blah blah) have the misguided notion that asian girls all practice karmasutra, that's why they gian, ha ha ha :D

in addition, they also think all asian men know kung fu, hi-ee-yah!

on the other hand, i think some spgs here also just want to satisfy their physical needs and the impression that ang mohs are bigger is just part of the misguided fantasy...

[guppiesguppies]

have the misguided notion that asian girls all practice karmasutra, that's why they gian, ha ha ha
i am not sure about their misguided notion this... then i can choose to believe all ang moh chicks does anal!!!


in addition, they also think all asian men know kung fu, hi-ee-yah!

but i'm quite sure of this one though... try and see it for yourself next time... ask an ang moh which famous chinese personailty he/she knows... i am quite confident you will get Jackie Chan, Bruce Lee, Jet Li maybe even Sammo Hung... in their answers...

[geylangbonker]

But i must say u have to first learn how to spell.

Its SINGAPOREAN!!!!

Pls respect my country people's name!

si ang mo, knn, spelling fuckup wana kao sgp charbo... puah teh kor!!!





aiayh, bro .............spore women are like tat one.................they are too pampered in life in spore ..........may spore single men are looking for wives ahead in vietnam ,,,,,,,,,,,,china hainan island .............
they have better qualities than spore women...................highly educated women in spore simlply despise our local men ...................!

[JAXXX]

in addition, they also think all asian men know kung fu, hi-ee-yah!



That is one misconception i wouldn't mind them having. :D

Woa, i know kung fu! :cool:

To the bro who deducted me at least leave ur nick and reason, can thank u personally mah. Dun worry i got no deducting power wan.

[SingViet]

Singviet = ChickLuver :confused: :eek:

hey hey bro,

What makes u think i am Chickluver? Although i am British grad, but i am NO Ang Moh. I am 100% Singaporean chinese. Knn.... the sight of SWM (Stupid White Man) makes my blood boil. hahhahaha

[MMM88]

hey hey bro,

What makes u think i am Chickluver? Although i am British grad, but i am NO Ang Moh. I am 100% Singaporean chinese. Knn.... the sight of SWM (Stupid White Man) makes my blood boil. hahhahaha


Bro SingViet
since when the chickluver is meant for Ang Moh :confused:
btw , i am US grad , 100% Singaporean chinese , too , have bonked whites (Americans,Russian), hispanics .... - does tat makes me a chickluver....more like INT f*+ker.......hehehehe.. Man , i do miss those dumb blondes....

[hothandlebar]

was wondering if anyone had any tips for where to find elegant young-ish ladies (I'm 28 myself). Any specific bars/clubs/other that might attract Sing ladies interested in Caucasians?
Thanks

An alternative specially reserved for you and your counterparts - Crazy Horse at Orchard Towers... :rolleyes:

Leave the other joints for us locals to take care... :D

[medicheng]

hey please respect the girls from Singapore leh.... haha I think i am not replying to anyone here in specific, but for me in the end I will like to fuck a sg girl than other country girls....

[delayer]

hey please respect the girls from Singapore leh.... haha I think i am not replying to anyone here in specific, but for me in the end I will like to fuck a sg girl than other country girls....

maybe there was a generalisation but like what many had experience. There are somethings that really are true to some pts. especailly on how a girl will cling on the bad boy and only be fren with mama boy.

Been in Oz for a couple of years. i totally dont really find anything special but every time i come back sg. I go walk walk will find that sg girl are generally more cuter than their angmo counterparts

[medicheng]

Do support local products, although our local products are more materialitic, but it is a challauge to see wat is under their skirt... lol

[Wins88]

Do support local products, although our local products are more materialitic, but it is a challauge to see wat is under their skirt... lol

Problem wiht local products is the follwoing -
They want to be westernised only when it suits them, but the moment you try out the western values such as - sharing money with her man, or working hard to support her man while he is studying, the local girl will go back immediately to her eastern roots - Man must always support the women, man must pay for almost everything etc... I must qualify that they seem to go thru some transformation once they go out with a ang-moh - then u see them happily paying for the white man's meals etc.
Singapore girls - they take but never give (unless u r white).
Just my 2 cents worth.

[guppiesguppies]

thru some transformation once they go out with a ang-moh - then u see them happily paying for the white man's meals etc.
Singapore girls - they take but never give (unless u r white).

can't agree more... but i have to say i wouldn't want to stereotype all of them but some seriously do...

no sour grapes here as i've done as many ang moh pussies as to our local pink holes...

i'm not going to start a sexist war over here but if our local products don't wanna wake up from the castles in the air... they have no rights to condemn local guys going overseas to look for companionship... not to even say that their overseas counterparts are coming over to grab their sg husbands to-be...

there are seriously still too many good sg men around... and i say, whatever you can find in those ang moh men, you may even find them better in our sg guys...

if they still insist that our ang moh counterparts are more superior... then they can have all ang moh dicks they want but i will only pity them coz the AVERAGE SG GUY STILL RULES!!!

sorry if you're an ang moh reading this post, no offense but it is not targeted at you... and if you are the local products i'm talking here... have you woke up yet? if you have and did... that's good... and i'm sure we sg guys are going to love you a lot...

[medicheng]

thats the challeuge... and when u got her... haha u know wat to do to her to vent your anger.... lol

[ct75]

Actually haha Ang Moh dont have bigger dicks despite what we see in porn..... they are just about half a inch longer thats all......

Well since we can't beat them then join them!! Do Singapore proud by hooking up on ang moh chicks and bonking them silly...... Still remember the good old days when I got picked up by nubile young aussie girls in clubs when I was studying there......

However I do know too of a few friends of mine who can stand angmohs and good luck to those that try to woo them...... they are lucky not to get slapped!

[Soven]

why sg men looking viet for wives... wat i think hor is not onli because the gers r demanding but more of wat u get after marriage. i mean sg gers takes a lot of effort to chase, then u dont get a good deal after marriage haha(ie she expects u to cook, do hsewk, dont wanna have babies n stuffs). tat's why they feel not worth the effort... correct me if i am wrong hehe.

actually i think sg men r going after sg gers la... just they not marrying them after bonking them onli. :D

[MoonBlaze]

An alternative specially reserved for you and your counterparts - Crazy Horse at Orchard Towers... Leave the other joints for us locals to take care...
Good recommendation for ChickLuver indeed.... ;) He will be very well received there. :)

[easyeasy]

knn the thread starter start a thread and MIA liao :mad:

[ahpaul25]

knn the thread starter start a thread and MIA liao :mad:

What to do........he is a canada ang mo kia............. :D

[MoonBlaze]

knn the thread starter start a thread and MIA liao :mad:Thread starter was in town end Apr and early May....check on his previous posting and you will know that he was enjoying himself with Indian gals in GL....hahaha.....Too busy to return to this thread cos he was not well received here or that he was busily bonking himself till silly? :D

[Mr Rosie]

strangely enough, i have asked many Thai girls what sort of guy they want to marry. Their answer: "Singaporean".

They say that Thai guys are lazy, etc. They have a good impression of Singaporean guys because they think that we work hard and will have a proper career.

They say that it does not really matter if we screw around because all men do that anyway.

Opinions?

[groo]

...asked many Thai girls what sort of guy they want to marry. Their answer: "Singaporean"...say that Thai guys are lazy, etc. They have a good impression of Singaporean guys because they think that we work hard and will have a proper career....They say that it does not really matter if we screw around because all men do that anyway...Opinions?Actually, in my travels overseas, especially in Asia, there are many gals who fancy SG men...
- China gals find SG men are good family provider
- Taiwanese gals think Sg men are more handsome, hahaha! I'm serious on this, ok!?
- HK gals? forget about them, even HK men are looking for China gals!
- Jap gals - i dunno but i find they are usually not so chio but they also have good impression of SG men
- SEA gals like Sg men because they think we are richer and good family men
- Angmo gals? Hehheh, you'll be surprised... many of them, through their contacts with migrant Asian descendants, are starting to find them more appealing, among them maybe Sg men?!?!?! :p

So, Sg gals who fancy Angmo guys, i pity you leh!!!

[Armen]

I fully agreed with Whitegals statement, the more u give, the more
they take. Tat's wat happened to me.

I treated my ex-gf so well but she just take me for a ride. Expecting
high end restaurant on all occassions, expensive bags but fxxking
flirt with another man on the phone when we are out and still got
the CB cheek to ask if I am TL or not?

Worst of all, trying to flirt with 1 of my good buddy who can afford
until my buddy called to inform me. :mad:

So now, sorry to say, I am not serious into a relationship and for only
5 months into the year, I go fxxk around and so far hit on
1) 2 KTV girls
2) 1 Philippine girl at Duxton
3) 1 housewife
and 1 divorcee

And the hunt is on.....I do not know what got into me, but I enjoy
when I dun treat them well, they come to me. Mind all, I did not pay
any money for those bonking except the drinks and the hotel.

Some time I really woke up with regret doing all this but when the nights
has come, I just can't control myself.

But I still really LOVE her though she is stupidily over a married man,
which is the reason she left me

[MoonBlaze]

Problem wiht local products is the follwoing -
They want to be westernised only when it suits them, but the moment you try out the western values such as - sharing money with her man, or working hard to support her man while he is studying, the local girl will go back immediately to her eastern roots - Man must always support the women, man must pay for almost everything etc....Just my 2 cents worth.Indeed, they simply wants the best of both world....They just turn and twist to whichever way it suits them....They never fail to amuse me.... :)

[ct75]

During my reservist found this out from a friend about Jap girls.

His collegue was send to Japan for training, met a Jap babe there fell in love and broke up with his Spore GF.....

The Jap babe doesnt allow him into the kitchen, do house work..... literally kicks him out of the kitchen. He is just allowed to sit and watch tv and be serviced... In fact when the Jap babe heard that in Spore, girls make us guys do housework, she was like huh???? what kind of women are Spore women.

She even allows him to fool around (Not saying its a good thing) Reasoning is want to fool around do it before marriage.....

Well now he is married to that jap babe

[MeiEnQianEn]

wow.. thats a nice piece of information.. lets rock and find those jap babes... i love jap babes anyway.. hahhahahahaa

:D

[Big Lalat]

Hey Armen, sometimes life is unfair, but that is when we allow it to control us. Take charge and know that two "Heads" is better than one, a plus point for guys, use the one with a bigger brain and thrust forward in life. Love is a funny thing, but knowing where you want to go and where you want to remain is important. Your goal should be : Target, Aim and Shoot.

Bottom line is that not all sg gals are like that. I know some just like your ex, ever kanna once - damn painful. But I've moved on and find that the less sofisticated ones are humbler and great. Sometimes too naive. It's the @#*# educated ones that think they are all that smart. They want angmo, and they get them only to find out that they get a gifts of STD - statistics reveal 2 out of 5 angmos have STD(G-Warts). I have been in US and Euro for some years and let me tell you that angmo girls prefer asian guys. Just that we sometimes shy lah! :p

Do Singapore guys a favour and go @#*+ the angmo chicks (beware of STD - passed by ex-angmo lover) or better still our neighbouring asian beauties. To be honest sg gals are cheap and stupid - don't waste your time lah.

Love is true to the one who Loves and not the one who Loved. :cool:

[ct75]

I forgot to finish the post... however of course u are expected to shower her with gifts like LV and all... that is after u are married... But well put it this way... u spend on a woman that is worth it rather than one that spends ur money and still run away...

[Knife]

I love Singaporean girls; some of them are among the most gorgeous creatures in the world IMHO. I like trying to meet up with non-pros and I've had some luck at Zouk and at that 'cafe street' (sultan???), but was wondering if anyone had any tips for where to find elegant young-ish ladies (I'm 28 myself). Any specific bars/clubs/other that might attract Sing ladies interested in Caucasians?

Thanks
Hi Bros, i strongly recommend you to search at KTVs and TNs thread cos you will 100% find tons of Sg Gals over there....Good Luck..

[kaizer]

wah tis ang moh abit the sad arh. juz ask for sg gals kana zap like siao.

[plain]

boys boys boys ...........


While you guys are whinning the big white boys are stealing the local girls away, the white girls in their own land thinks Asians Kick Ass :)

Let me try and recall where the girls I know are from...

Norway
NYC/USA
England
Denmark
Germany

The girls I know are from these countries, and they think Asian men are cute, once they get to know them better. I even have one english girl staying in singapore who is going out with a chinese guy. (half thai/chinese).

when i ask some of my foreign girlfriends what they think about white boys + asian women. One commented and said, "thats becos' they're rejects in their own country"

No Offence to any one

[whitegals]

The Jap babe doesnt allow him into the kitchen, do house work..... literally kicks him out of the kitchen. He is just allowed to sit and watch tv and be serviced... In fact when the Jap babe heard that in Spore, girls make us guys do housework, she was like huh???? what kind of women are Spore women.

This statement is quite true to some extent. Normally, the gals who have been working in the city or grew up in the city, having been influenced by Western standards, are quite like their western counterparts, all want woman's rights, independence, etc. but on the whole still better than our SG gals. If you're so lucky to meet the gals that come from the countryside, like Hokkaido or smaller cities like Kagoshima or Fukushima, wah, tan dio.

2 of my classmates married Jap gals while here studying, one was an angmoh, one was fellow SG guy, once get hold, better dun let go. The 2 gals are outstanding wives I should say. Like the statement above, we can have all the guys round the house watching football, they will be all day in the kitchen making snacks, preparing drinks, making sure their husbands and friends are well attended to. Would you see an SG gal doing that? I'd bet after 5 mins she'll be in her room sulking and you can go make your own Milo.

I used to go out wif a Jap gal, for about 2 months, broke up wif her cos I was stupid, actually, was because she wanted the big M and I didn't. Anyway, she was absolutely amazing when she was my gf. Sex was available whenever i wanted, i didn't have to do any housework, not even when I wanted to do, she'd have me sit and watch TV or play on the computer. Every morning, she'd have my toothbrush and towel ready by the sink and catch this, there would be toothpaste already on the toothbrush. After brushing teeth, both of us would be in the shower where she'd scrub my back and would usually be accompanied by either a shag or a BBBJ.

I come out of the shower and breakfast would be made, proper breakfast yah, not cereal and milk, proper sushi with miso soup and udon. My clothes would be laid out on the bed already made and all my things will be ready prepared and she will either sit on the bed and wait quietly or help me put on my clothes, which would also be followed by some touching her and there and most likely another BBBJ.

When I get home, she'd have dinner done and after dinner would be followed by some more PC games while she washed up and cut some fruit. Then if I had any work, she'd sit with me and watch me work and then there will be the shower together again and then a massage in bed followed by more shagging then off the sleep. I really miss her.... :(

By the way, I hear the Korean gals also quite similar, but how come the PRC gals so like our SG gals ah? Why like dat?

[asdfghjkl]

white.. well said.. thumbs up! :cool:

[Wins88]

This statement is quite true to some extent.
By the way, I hear the Korean gals also quite similar, but how come the PRC gals so like our SG gals ah? Why like dat?

Bro, your story makes my heart cry out. I am recently divorced and your story has just helped me make up my mind that I will never again go for a local, unless I kenna "kong tau"! My ex wife was so damn lazy - the maid did everything. Imagine, I only got breakfast for the first week of marriage after that she decided to sleep instead and let the maid do everything. Only know how to spend my money. Wasted good years of my life on her friggin lazy ass. Now that all is almost over, I am actually glad we are split up.
Korean, Japanese, Thai, Malaysian, Indonesian, all better than the rubbish we get here. Bloody bunch of blood sucking queens of the double standard.

[OceanEleven]

Bro, your story makes my heart cry out. I am recently divorced and your story has just helped me make up my mind that I will never again go for a local, unless I kenna "kong tau"! My ex wife was so damn lazy - the maid did everything. Imagine, I only got breakfast for the first week of marriage after that she decided to sleep instead and let the maid do everything. Only know how to spend my money.
Bro, at least you got one week of breakfast, I got none. I got kick out of bed to walk the dogs while she continue to sleep (cos not feeling well). "Hey, since you going down, please buy me breakfast ok, fishball mee pok, not too oily, chilly little bit and no onions pls, dont be like last time buy wrongly, ok. If you come back I still sleeping then let me sleep hor I will eat later. Dont forget see got tao huey or not as well......." :cool:

[OceanEleven]

I used to go out wif a Jap gal, for about 2 months, broke up wif her cos I was stupid, actually, was because she wanted the big M and I didn't. Anyway, she was absolutely amazing when she was my gf. Sex was available whenever i wanted, i didn't have to do any housework, not even when I wanted to do, she'd have me sit and watch TV or play on the computer. Every morning, she'd have my toothbrush and towel ready by the sink and catch this, there would be toothpaste already on the toothbrush. After brushing teeth, both of us would be in the shower where she'd scrub my back and would usually be accompanied by either a shag or a BBBJ.

I come out of the shower and breakfast would be made, proper breakfast yah, not cereal and milk, proper sushi with miso soup and udon. My clothes would be laid out on the bed already made and all my things will be ready prepared and she will either sit on the bed and wait quietly or help me put on my clothes, which would also be followed by some touching her and there and most likely another BBBJ.

Bro, honestly, I dont know whether to curse you or swear at you. Bros here searching high and low but you just cast it away. :o

[Wins88]

Bro, at least you got one week of breakfast, I got none. I got kick out of bed to walk the dogs while she continue to sleep (cos not feeling well). "Hey, since you going down, please buy me breakfast ok, fishball mee pok, not too oily, chilly little bit and no onions pls, dont be like last time buy wrongly, ok. If you come back I still sleeping then let me sleep hor I will eat later. Dont forget see got tao huey or not as well......." :cool:

Trust me, been there too. She sleep, I go and buy brunch, best part is bring home, ask her to come eat, she kau peh kau bu say let her sleep. Bloody food get cold. Wasted my efforts. Anyway, these local girls dun appreciate our efforts. My friends from Thailand, Japan, and Korea all tell me how wonderful their marriages are! Aiya, what to do? Even LKY says he regrets signing the womens charter!

[xiaolibiantai]

Even LKY says he regrets signing the womens charter!

HE MUST HAD BOUGHT MEE POK AND DO HOUSEWORK B4. :D

[Harrier24B]

Bro, at least you got one week of breakfast, I got none. I got kick out of bed to walk the dogs while she continue to sleep (cos not feeling well). "Hey, since you going down, please buy me breakfast ok, fishball mee pok, not too oily, chilly little bit and no onions pls, dont be like last time buy wrongly, ok. If you come back I still sleeping then let me sleep hor I will eat later. Dont forget see got tao huey or not as well......." :cool:

Tell me about it! Me married so many years and it's alway me going market on weekends to buy breakfast / brunch and she never appreciates at all say why noodles so soggy, why porridge cold when she keep sleeping while I bought back for family!! KNN...

Advice to those not married.....stay away from those who are from Rich family or VERY highly educated and spoilt type.....sure suffer! I know cos mine is like dat!!

:(

[asdfghjkl]

LKY?! when he said that and where can I find the transcript for it? :p

[tritonyeah666]

Very highly educated means what level?

[vesfreq]

Trust me, been there too. She sleep, I go and buy brunch, best part is bring home, ask her to come eat, she kau peh kau bu say let her sleep. Bloody food get cold. Wasted my efforts. Anyway, these local girls dun appreciate our efforts. My friends from Thailand, Japan, and Korea all tell me how wonderful their marriages are! Aiya, what to do? Even LKY says he regrets signing the womens charter!

Thats complete crap, which is why we should treat these b.i.t.c.h.e.s like animals.

Don't do too much. And, the point is, there is always an option to do nothing. If you invest nothing, at least not so painful (when u lose). But, when you have put in too much, it can be a real pain to give up.

There were a couple of young gorgeous damsels in my office. Attractive like those in the pictures featured in this forum, but .... damn screwed up attitudes. Whenever I walk pass them, their eyes look all over the ceiling or the cabinet. wtf. I didn't even try to "sian" them. I was only trying to smile and say hello.

Now, whenever I walk by, I pull out my hp to sms, then my pda to show that I'm so busy that I ain't bothered to even see them.

On the contrary, Malay char bo is more responsive (not in bed). No matter what, they are still much more friendlier to talk to, as compared to the 100% screwed up Singapore girl.

[batugajah]

agreed sg gal most of them spoilt

[raiders]

Japanese girls are nice. I tried dating one before but did not manage to get her to be my GF. Jap girls never failed to give you those 'homely' feelings and they will do anything for you. But halfwway through SIANing her, had to give up because my current gf came along and we got attached. My gf is pretty, sweet and has a really good figure. Definitely beats any local Singapore girls. Can cook a nice meal as well (I love home cook food) And yes, my current gf is not Singaporean. :D

[-itr-]

Heh heh,

I see this issue again... eh bros, you wanna know something quite farnee? here in England, the gals think I'm a gentleman and somewhat of a good lover, I know how to make her feel good about herself and want me in her bed every night.

Back home in SG, the char bo think I've got a fucked up attitude. But they still wanna fuck.

I think some of the bros bring it upon themselves, no offence, but man, don't take any shit! You wanna tolerate them being late, go out with you then spend 20mins on the phone with someone else, expect you to do everything for them, pay for everything, etc. The more you give, the more they will take. It is human nature to be greedy.

Don't take any shit bros! Some of the examples above, I've seen what the PRC gals here do. They try that with me, I'll fuck them once and they'll never hear from me again.

Another reason why I like the white gals, some degree of independence is good in a woman, some more independent than others, but at least they do what they say, well, at least some of the time. They are women, still. :p

The SG gals wanna worship angmoh, that's their problem, we shouldn't have to suck up to them just to get their attention. KNN, when i get back to SG, I see angmoh at Clarke Quay, the fucker prepare to go swimming.
:mad:


hi,
well said. i 'm strong believer for this , as i personally feel that sg bois or guys tend to give in some much to out local gers. the fact is majority of the sg gers are simply spoil bitches that come from well to do families.
so demand and expectation of a perfect Sg gentleman is really high.
they would not appreciate simple sincereity intentions or acts.
frankly i reall despise and hate the show of eye for a guy.
knn .. make our fucking sg men so desperate for a chabo.nahbei...
as trends goes, all lot of sg bitches are strongly influence by materials things and stuffs.
frankly some much about equality of the races, why the hell do we have to pay bills and be gentleman as what they expected?
so end of the day, i strongly feel do judge the skirts that you are chasing before you plan the next move.
DO NOT LET THE GERS TAKE YOU FOR A RIDE OR CHOP YOU LIKE ROBERT.
hope my advises helps.
just my pennies worth......

[HuiGe3387]

I concur what you guys here say about the fcuking attitude of sg girls. There is actually a increase in infidelity rates of men looking for PRCs, and many SG men are divorcing bcos they realise that what they are missing in life when they meet the PRCs. PRCs don't expect their men to do housework, marketing, etc. As long as the men bring money home and remain faithful (they can even close one eye), they happy like FUCK.
SG girls demand this and that, buy flowers, fetch around... KNN buy gift can also comment design/color/shape/etc not nice.
When I go out with PRC have meal, they open my can and pour drink, use tissue clean my chopsticks. It's vice versa for sg girls. When they cook meals, they wash up as well and ask the man go watch TV and read newspaper. When sg girls cook, the men have to help to cut and wash, and wash the dishes after that.... Whadda ........... :mad:

[raiders]

When I go out with PRC have meal, they open my can and pour drink, use tissue clean my chopsticks. It's vice versa for sg girls. When they cook meals, they wash up as well and ask the man go watch TV and read newspaper. When sg girls cook, the men have to help to cut and wash, and wash the dishes after that.... Whadda ...........

This Mr Huige always Online! Hehe. My encounter with PRC is different leh. The one I got 1 year ago was quite lazy! Now im attached to a Vietnamese girl ( Arh arh, dont anyhow say I got her from Joo Chiat arh, her family is quite rich in Vietnam) Anyway, below is an extract from my blog that describe how I feel about Vietnamese girls

...........When its meal time, she will ask, "Darling, what do you want to eat/ Darling, I go and cook for you" When I lie on the bed, she will throw herself in my arms and hug me tightly. When its time to sleep, she will lie meekly on my chest and even when she changes position, she will pull me towards her. When I threw my tantrums, she will come to me and ask, "Darling, whats wrong?".....

[HuiGe3387]

Bro Raiders, I not so on lah. No sleep to work, sleep and sio kan meh ?For Viet gers, there's a catch. they will cut off their man's di di and flush it down the toilet if the man is unfaithful.
For PRC, they can tolerate I still wonder at their metality. In Guangzhou, the wife and mistress can lim kopi together, can 3 some with the husband, shopping.... Shiok !!! :D

[raiders]

Bro Raiders, I not so on lah. No sleep to work, sleep and sio kan meh ?For Viet gers, there's a catch. they will cut off their man's di di and flush it down the toilet if the man is unfaithful.


EEK! Thats why now Im behaving myself. Hehe. No more fucking around. Im trying to be nicer to her although Im still bullying her. Hehe. just made her cry this morning coz I kicked up a fuss over some small issues and now shes on the way to my house to cook for me.

[Ultra6969]

Yo Samsters

Yes, have met a number of the stuck up bitches you talk about here. And sg gals who play mind games with you. I married one. Thankfully, that phase is over.

Here's a website to get you really riled up - a personals for sg gals desperately looking for white dick. Read some of the postings, really practically throwing themselves at the ang mos. Sometimes don't know whether to get angry or to get sad ...

http://singapore.asiaxpat.com/nightlife/personals/?cat=10

[polarbear]

most local girls cannot cook, wash dishes or even do simple grocery shopping. Yet, they expect Singapore men to be able to perform these jobs. In fact, we local men can do a much better of these jobs than them. Aren't Singapore gals ashame of themselves?

just 1 cent worth :)

[JackieWong]

Dun noe y some sg guys so torelant of sg gals fucking attitudes. Two days ago i was eating @ a hawker centre a sg couple share the table with me since it was very crowd. Tat sg bitch f her bf y eat @ hawker centre complain so hot and smelly!!!! Wat amazed me the most was that sg bitch shout @ his bf "U waiting for what!! ask that ah neh to clear the table lah, u except me to clear is it??" Tat loser bf still smiling @ her and say sorry to her. I feel like give that bitch a tight slap!!!

Since a few years ago i already can't be bother abt local bitches they look like shit compare to other country girls anyway

[newlife]

Lets put it this way, not all are like tat. Further more i feel tat it take's to hand to clap, if the guy have put a stand at the start of their relationship dun think she dare to do this at all. As for you getting sick of singapore girls, all i can say is you have not meet worst gals oversea. Anyway wishing all bro here will find a sweet and nice gal tat respect you, and dun never going through hardship or sharing gds life with you.

[ChinaAlleWay]

just read e newpaper in asiaone.com.sg
It said that "More than 70 of 100 female undergraduates recently polled by The New Paper say that the men on campus are immature"

Apart from a few Singapore Management University students, the women surveyed were split equally between the National University of Singapore and the Nanyang Technological University. They ranged from first-year students to new graduates.

Most seem to be in agreement with Mr Philip Yeo, chairman of the Agency for Science, Technology and Research (A*Star).
In a recent interview with The New Paper, he described some Singapore male undergraduates as whiny. Mr Yeo also said that, despite having undergone National Service, Singapore 'boys' were just not mature enough.

The rebel with many causes
He has something against everything.
If someone in authority comes up with something, there will be something wrong with it.
So only his way is right.
He likes to criticise.
but don't expect him to do much else.
The it's-everyone's-fault-but-mine guy
This fellow doesn't seem interested in bettering himself.
instead, all shortcomings are blamed on someone else.
During project work, such a person may make a show of thinking.
But not his share of the doing.
He will be the first to claim credit, but the last to admit his faults.

The bookworm
This man just wants to continue studying because he's too scared to go out and look for a job.
He ends up with a doctorate but has no real-world experience.
He may pride himself in getting distinctions or As in his grade transcript.
Yet he will blandly tell others that 'I don't study a lot'.
And keeps asking lecturers for 'exam tips'.

The group guy
Such a man is caught up in a herd mentality.
Big groups of such 'group guys' like to sit together and ogle girls and make lewd remarks.
But, if alone with a woman, that attitude is likely to dissolve.
The slacker
Thinking that he is very smart, he sits back and relaxes during tutorials.
He doesn't see any point in doing his tutorial homework properly.
After all, he can always get the answers from friends.
He is dependent on others and completely unable to operate independently

These are all taken from e newspaper...........
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is it e Education or e Goverment upbringing ??
I mean wats e problem ? I dun see it happen here in China, thou there are these gals that flock to e arms of white men.
The Chinese gals here are damn sweet and its totally uncompare to the Singapore gals.

But back to the newspaper cuting, YES, I admit im still immature compare to the same group age in China. I seriously kinda dont believe the report above.... haha...

So bro's what do you think ? kindly feel free to comment....

[JAXXX]

EEK! Thats why now Im behaving myself. Hehe. No more fucking around. Im trying to be nicer to her although Im still bullying her. Hehe. just made her cry this morning coz I kicked up a fuss over some small issues and now shes on the way to my house to cook for me.

So nice... U better sayang her hor. :D

[icarus78]

gUess... the fault lies in the education system.
I find that the higher the lady is educated... the worst they r...
expect us to treat them like princess and yet seeking so call equality...

We can easily conclude that not all SG girls are like that, and not all SG guys fall into mr.whiny wussies...
But from views and experience in lifes, the ratio of educated SG SPG are much higher than a whiny wussies...

And one common problem is that we guys juZ keep quiet and endure, well it's time we voice up to thoes complain queenS!

[HuiGe3387]

EEK! Thats why now Im behaving myself. Hehe. No more fucking around. Im trying to be nicer to her although Im still bullying her. Hehe. just made her cry this morning coz I kicked up a fuss over some small issues and now shes on the way to my house to cook for me.
You lucky fucker better treasure what you have. Viet gers very teachable, but don't ever fool around. Your didi will he hacked !! :D

[vesfreq]

Dun noe y some sg guys so torelant of sg gals fucking attitudes. Two days ago i was eating @ a hawker centre a sg couple share the table with me since it was very crowd. Tat sg bitch f her bf y eat @ hawker centre complain so hot and smelly!!!! Wat amazed me the most was that sg bitch shout @ his bf "U waiting for what!! ask that ah neh to clear the table lah, u except me to clear is it??" Tat loser bf still smiling @ her and say sorry to her. I feel like give that bitch a tight slap!!!

Since a few years ago i already can't be bother abt local bitches they look like shit compare to other country girls anyway

Those siao char bo do that all the time, don't they? Walk like empress, complain like b...i ...t....ch.

Thats why I can't be bothered to even look at any of them in the office. The same goes for the mrt. They behave like princesses, without respect for anyone else.

Ever seen the girl who looks away, whenever you try to smile at her? I met so many dozens of them, until I can puke. They deserve nothing less than capital punishment, if I can say anything about it.

Even the Malay girls are friendlier than the Chinese ones. Not trying to sound racist, but the facts are pretty clear. :(

[vesfreq]

And one common problem is that we guys juZ keep quiet and endure, well it's time we voice up to thoes complain queenS!

Well, I don't even keep quiet. I blast the daylights out of them, whenever and wherever I can.

When I'm out, my eyes are on the floor. Hah! Don't look at those slutty girls in the streets, cos' it confirms to them how attractive they are.

When they compare their bfs, I look away. Sigh.... immature .... little things.

[TheFallen]

I felt that the attitude of the Sg Gals is more or less due to upbringing and enviroment. Their perception of life is very worrying. Despite being young, ignorant and have yet any success, their common belief is that they have this superior feeling among themselves. The main reason for such belief could be bcos they are comparing to our neighbouring countries. Comments by that god-damn Phillips who?? from A*Shit is making the whole situation looking much worst. anyway, i already reach a point where I simply give up in them.

[dickrick]

Yo Samsters

Here's a website to get you really riled up - really practically throwing themselves at the ang mos. Sometimes don't know whether to get angry or to get sad ...
http://singapore.asiaxpat.com/nightlife/personals/?cat=10

Yes, agree. They might have learnt this from their mothers or even grandmothers. It was common in the '60s and '70s and maybe before that!
There was always something fascinating about the white skin to the local girls. The joke is that a number got "played out" when the white guy got sain!
The local guys had the last laugh in the end!

[JAXXX]

The local guys had the last laugh in the end!

Not really leh, the girls usually feel bobian then settle for the local guys. Then the local guys unwittingly end up wif the angmoh's used goods. So the girl got a replacement, the local guy got an angmoh's used shoe. Who has the last laugh?

The angmoh.

So if u can, try to look out for and siam this type of pattern of charbor.

[n1963g]

most local girls cannot cook, wash dishes or even do simple grocery shopping. Yet, they expect Singapore men to be able to perform these jobs. In fact, we local men can do a much better of these jobs than them. Aren't Singapore gals ashame of themselves?

just 1 cent worth :)

SG gers treat men like used tissues. Guys just screw them n spare the trouble of marriage. drop them like flies when u hv the chance.

[MMM88]

most local girls cannot cook, wash dishes or even do simple grocery shopping. Yet, they expect Singapore men to be able to perform these jobs. In fact, we local men can do a much better of these jobs than them. Aren't Singapore gals ashame of themselves?

just 1 cent worth :)

I got to agree with Bro Polarbear.... My brother married an engineer 3 years ago and he finally threw in the towel and file for divorce.....Reasons - she does not know how to cook , no washing clothes (not even her own panty), no house chores at all. My brother had to do all the work ....all she did was partying with her frenz ....no wonder more and more men are looking for FOREIGN TALENT (Brides).... Somtimes , I just dun undertand WHY Sillypore gals have the nerve to complaint abt sillypore men when they themselves ought to take a hard look at themselves....
Parents (including me) - do not pamper your daughter(s) with domestic helpers too much - they ought to do some house chores - at least learnt to do it.........Cheers.. :)

[HuiGe3387]

I got to agree with Bro Polarbear.... My brother married an engineer 3 years ago and he finally threw in the towel and file for divorce.....Reasons - she does not know how to cook , no washing clothes (not even her own panty), no house chores at all. My brother had to do all the work ....all she did was partying with her frenz ....no wonder more and more men are looking for FOREIGN TALENT (Brides).... Somtimes , I just dun undertand WHY Sillypore gals have the nerve to complaint abt sillypore men when they themselves ought to take a hard look at themselves....
Parents (including me) - do not pamper your daughter(s) with domestic helpers too much - they ought to do some house chores - at least learnt to do it.........Cheers.. :)
Walau I imagine your bro wash the wife's panties ..... :eek: Damn suay one !

[MMM88]

Walau I imagine your bro wash the wife's panties ..... :eek: Damn suay one !

Yah lor..I guessed he jus used the washing machine....my mom canot tahan n send her maid over to my bro house every weekend...u know Moms are great CNN lah...tat is how i know so much abt my bro wife lor..... :)

[HuiGe3387]

Yah lor..I guessed he jus used the washing machine....my mom canot tahan n send her maid over to my bro house every weekend...u know Moms are great CNN lah...tat is how i know so much abt my bro wife lor..... :)
Just curious, is your sis-in-law very chio that your bro overlook the lack of the basic qualities of a woman in her. :confused:

[fatboyfuck]

Just curious, is your sis-in-law very chio that your bro overlook the lack of the basic qualities of a woman in her. :confused:

love is blind.. get it???

no luck with foreigners yet but given the chance, i think i will do singapore proud! :D

although it seems like this thread is condemning local bors but i think not all r like that..
juz like to wish myself good luck with local affair...

[MMM88]

Just curious, is your sis-in-law very chio that your bro overlook the lack of the basic qualities of a woman in her. :confused:

I would say 8/10 ...my brother is an idiot....u know lah ...they were school mates since ACJC times ...i guessed he finally woke up n smell the coffee lor!!! u know it is pretty hard to know the UGLY side of gf or bf until u lived together...there u have it ...cohibitat is healthy as it helps to prevent DISASTER....:D

[HuiGe3387]

love is blind.. get it???

no luck with foreigners yet but given the chance, i think i will do singapore proud! :D

although it seems like this thread is condemning local bors but i think not all r like that..
juz like to wish myself good luck with local affair...
There are many exceptions. My good fren has a fabulous wife who told him to concentrate on his business, while she will take care of everything at home. She looks after 2 kids w/o a maid, cook and clean up the house. My friend doesn't even need to do anything at home. Even make a cup of milo also ask the wife to do it for him.

But ........ he still keep a PRC outside. Maybe it's the basic nature of man to be "hua xing" (flirtatious).

[asdfghjkl]

guess there is two sides to the coin? :)

[AssLover]

I had a Sing girl who was with Ang mo before, pussy so loose like the white girls do not feel I am in hehe Sing girls most of them are dead fish in bed....experience .......Best sex I had were with malaysian Chinese girls oh lala they can suck and fuck

[singexpat]

guess there is two sides to the coin? :)

right bro, agreed with u..

my point of view is that all these behaviours start from young..
e.g. marias in house, parents giving in n leads to such attitudes and behaviours.. :(

mayb thts also y there's more concentration of such gals with F attitude in the better off families..

juz my tiny 0.00002 cents worth of tots..

[polarbear]

Thank you, MMM888 ... yeah !!! one more supporter ...... heheheh ....
Thanks to everyone who up my points.

cheers :p



I got to agree with Bro Polarbear.... My brother married an engineer 3 years ago and he finally threw in the towel and file for divorce.....Reasons - she does not know how to cook , no washing clothes (not even her own panty), no house chores at all. My brother had to do all the work ....all she did was partying with her frenz ....no wonder more and more men are looking for FOREIGN TALENT (Brides).... Somtimes , I just dun undertand WHY Sillypore gals have the nerve to complaint abt sillypore men when they themselves ought to take a hard look at themselves....
Parents (including me) - do not pamper your daughter(s) with domestic helpers too much - they ought to do some house chores - at least learnt to do it.........Cheers.. :)

[geylangbonker]

I had a Sing girl who was with Ang mo before, pussy so loose like the white girls do not feel I am in hehe Sing girls most of them are dead fish in bed....experience .......Best sex I had were with malaysian Chinese girls oh lala they can suck and fuck

haha............agree also lah...........some malaysian women has nicer figure than spore ladies ............from wat i think most spore women are very skinny and their looks not natural .........they spend money to go beautician or slimming ctr for modifying their assets.................some spore women also like to "guo he cai qiao" croos the river then dismantle the bridge...........just my comments!@ :cool:

[sumyanggai]

Go home...
:)

[mark21]

There are many exceptions. My good fren has a fabulous wife who told him to concentrate on his business, while she will take care of everything at home. She looks after 2 kids w/o a maid, cook and clean up the house. My friend doesn't even need to do anything at home. Even make a cup of milo also ask the wife to do it for him.

But ........ he still keep a PRC outside. Maybe it's the basic nature of man to be "hua xing" (flirtatious).

Bro Huige, please introduce your friend to me . ( Need to get his advise)

[HuiGe3387]

Bro Huige, please introduce your friend to me . ( Need to get his advise)
He is my landlord :D

[lament]

my 2cents worth of opinion ....

its been 4 years since i last dated a singapore ger ......its not that they are not ok but hey its the society that shape our gers to wat they are today ....

they are materialistic cos thats what everyone else have and so they must have ....i have always been self-employed and so never had cpf...i remember my ex telling me that this is so unfair to her cos she have to use her cpf to support the house ....wat the hell ...wat about my commitment to stay next to her for the rest of her bloody life.....

another say she wan to have a 5room minimum when i told her that if a 3 room is available i rather have that but she said that is very "lose face" ...wat the hell is lose face ...i think being comfortable is much better ....

its not that our gers are no good but then sillypore on the whole is a miney face country even the government is like that ...wat do u expect from our gers .....unmaterialistic ??? nah ....well its rare if such a species exist ....

i wonder wat happen to romance ....is it really dead in sillypore ...... its jus that they have become too much like a man and our man have become the woman ...... best of all most sillypore man give in to their gers ....

take a cue from our MM ....the woman's charter was on the record suggested by him ....but in the process of voting for it to be in the legislation, he actually abstain from putting in a vote ...so was it him or his wife whom wanted it to be in place .....this is according to the transcripts with respect to the passing of the legislation in sillypore ....

i guess our woman have lost that feminine touch ....haizzzz

[vesfreq]

my 2cents worth of opinion ....

its been 4 years since i last dated a singapore ger ......its not that they are not ok but hey its the society that shape our gers to wat they are today ....

I still haven't beat u on ur record. Its been 2 yrs since I last dated a Singapore girl.

Was ranting this to my room mate, "When girl go out to work, she suffer like siao cos of her high spending, work 24/7 still cannot sustain lifestyle. So the solution for them is always to look out for rich bfs." HMW, anyone?

Even the HOD from the office (earning not bad) passed this remark, "Gf can find. But, must be low maintenance one." He is not a 20++ young punk, but mid 30s with family already. The sentiment about materialistic women is anywhere and everywhere. XD But, I have to say that some men are just so lucky to find those who know when, what, where and how much to spend.


they are materialistic cos thats what everyone else have and so they must have ....i have always been self-employed and so never had cpf...i remember my ex telling me that this is so unfair to her cos she have to use her cpf to support the house ....wat the hell ...wat about my commitment to stay next to her for the rest of her bloody life.....


Ask her to fly kite. Anyway, its better to breed a "running dog" (translate chinese) than a materialistic scre**d up .... b*t*h. I also support your Vietnamisation programme. SG girls are sick.....


another say she wan to have a 5room minimum when i told her that if a 3 room is available i rather have that but she said that is very "lose face" ...wat the hell is lose face ...i think being comfortable is much better ....

Lose what face? Not being able to service the loan is worse, right? She can't see the big picture. The most important thing to strive for in a marriage is to stay debt free or, for that matter, have minimal debt burden.

3 room is a good option, cos' can clear the loan fast and move on to other objectives, like saving money for the kids. Bro, u got good foresight. Too bad, the girl had none. And, I think she still HAS none. (read the caps).


its not that our gers are no good but then sillypore on the whole is a miney face country even the government is like that ...wat do u expect from our gers .....unmaterialistic ??? nah ....well its rare if such a species exist ....


That species of women died out with the dinosaurs. I don't think I have anything else to say. It has been sad years for the human race, ever since the the dodos died out with the dinosaurs and the unmaterialistic species of women. Sigh.....



i wonder wat happen to romance ....is it really dead in sillypore ...... its jus that they have become too much like a man and our man have become the woman ...... best of all most sillypore man give in to their gers ....


They are like men in the first place, to begin with. The way they dress PLUS how they sit PLUS their mannerisms PLUS the "++".

If we men can refrain from throwing vulgarities and getting impatient at the slow indecisive driver in front of us, then I don't see why the girls of Singapore can get bitchy and start spewing vulgarities (in dialect and any other language). Its gross.

Yours truly don't belong to the common group of men. Where the girl throw tantrum, I walk right out of her sight. If she has things to say about how I spend my money, I will purposely show her the latest receipt for my laptop purchase. Bah! If she dare compare me with her friends' bfs, I will ask her to try her friends' bfs instead. I'm open minded. :cool:



i guess our woman have lost that feminine touch ....haizzzz

They had lost everything which feminism represented, from the beginning. I can greet some of the char bo in the office "good morning" and they can have the audacity to take me as "transparent". Its so maddening. Even the directors reciprocate when greeted. Some of these shameless char bo, include m'sian. Its really as bad as I described. Anyway, think what to buy in the next IT show. No need to waste money on dating these freeks. If nothing to do, still got SBF. :D

[chickenzip]

With due respect to both sexes…pls allow me to present my 2 cents worth analysis…
It’s easy to point fingers at each other…especially such issues. There’s no end to it. But we could sit down and ponders on this arising man and woman problems in Singapore…

1) Culture
We have developed such a Kia Su mentality that we just afraid to lose out. Day in day out, we rush and push our way into the MRT train without any slight of common sense. How could all go into the train without letting people coming out first!!?? We rush into the bus and but are just afraid or reluctant to move into the back of the bus, fearing we will never ever get to alight and reach our desire destination. Now how about this – the bus is stooping at the interchange and everyone WILL get to alight??? Sound stupid huh?

Well it happens in daily man woman relationship too. Yes we must have the drive and competitive mindset to achieve or survive in this competitive society. But pls also have the little common sense in our mind too. Man or woman too, fight and strive hard to achieve their dream partner and dream live. But before we criticize each other, let’s look into the mirror and reflect what we have done for ourselves or for others to prove our worth for each other.

I used to have a male and female friend. The male friend often complains that he just could not be able to have any girlfriend. He blames that most Singapore girls have their eyes on their head. I realizes that he had many jobs but often quits too soon and would just laze around the house without having the will or interest to work. He tried some business but failed.

My other female friend too hates the idea of working and always thinks of the easy way out. She often dreams of becoming a super star or singer but it was almost impossible unless she changes her face like Patricia Mok. She also dreams of marrying a rich man so she need not work for the rest of her life. SIGHT…! Both sexes have no wrong to fight or demand for their life time happiness. There’s nothing wrong of having dream or expectation. But let’s be realistic and have some form of common sense at times!

2) Economy
Yap…no prize for guessing right. Our culture is shaped and contributed by the above caption. In this small little red dot with almost zero natural resources, we can only depend on our human working forces. Over the years, our government strives hard on total education for all Singaporeans. With better education and knowledge, we think and expect differently from our ancestors.

With rising economy, our salaries increased significantly over the years. Our expectation on life comfort and luxury increased at such rates that we forget to increase our roles in love too. We expect or dream our partner to be as romantic and handsome/pretty like Tom Cruise or Fiona Xie, or as rich as Bill Gates and David Beckham. But alas…we forget to increase our worth in love too. Maybe we constantly contribute to CPF monthly but forget about our contribution in love. The size of our HDB houses depends mostly on our salaries and monthly CPF contribution.

Relationship needs both parties to contribute too. But the size of love does not depend on how much the contribution. It can grow tremendously with just little contribution from both. But we must first prove our worth. Have both sexes done enough???

[ChinaAlleWay]

life is hard... isnt it !
well, its still e PRC gals that rocks e hell outta me !
:D

[lament]

well for me ..the viets rule the roost ....ha ha ha

[asdfghjkl]

erm.. join the VSP? :rolleyes:

[singexpat]

Relationship needs both parties to contribute too. But the size of love does not depend on how much the contribution. It can grow tremendously with just little contribution from both. But we must first prove our worth. Have both sexes done enough???

*clap clap* well analyised n said..

i believe tht both sexes should reali reflect n think of their expectations n whether r the expectations reachable or just a dream.
If its just a dream, u will be still lookin for e perfect one even after marriage n tht will not be healthy for the relationship.. ;)

[lament]

some interesting points from new paper columnist janice wong from www.janice-wong.com

Want a girlfriend? Get a nice car
MY leggy friend Shirley couldn't wait to tell me all about her new boyfriend.

Before she even dropped her handbag on the seat at Coffee Bean, she gushed: Guess what? He drives a Porsche!

Great, I said. But what do you like about him?

His Porsche.

There you have it - the nub of modern courtship.

The more expensive the man's car, the greater his eligibility.

It is interesting to see how a metal structure on wheels can accord a man so much magnetism. It doesn't work the other way; a woman with a car is not as prized.

Indeed, it could work against her.

Shirley would never give a car-less man a second look.

With the number of men falling over themselves to date her, the car rule gives her a quick and easy disqualifier.

I don't think she is alone in judging men on the basis of their cars or lack thereof.

My man friends lament the plentiful anecdotal evidence of the prevalence of this characteristic among women.

George, who recently upgraded from a 10-year-old Japanese car to a new Beemer (for those who are car-challenged, that's a BMW), told me that the difference this has made in the attitude of his woman friends is remarkable.

When women saw my old car, they gave me a thinly veiled disappointed look.

They would rush out of the car like they were embarrassed to be seen in it.

Now I don't have this problem at all, he said.

It's the ultimate litmus test - same guy, different car, different reaction.

My conclusion: Want a girlfriend? Get a nice car.

Sounds crass? But it's true.

A car makes snaring a girlfriend easier in several ways. With a car, there are more options regarding where to go.

The man gets an opportunity to demonstrate his chivalry by sending the girl home and running other car-essential errands. You know, the knight in shining car myth.

A car doubles as a cosy private space for those intimate moments.

Lastly, a man with an expensive car is just more socially desirable. The message is clear: Look, I am successful.

For all these reasons, if I like two men equally and the only thing that differentiates them is a car, I would go for the one with the wheels.

What if your girlfriend is not the materialistic sort?

Be realistic.

Even if she is indifferent to taking an MRT train or riding in a Mercedes-Benz E200, some of her relatives and friends would judge you a failure if you show up with an ez-link card instead of car keys.

To Shirley's parents, any boyfriend of their daughter who has no car is a dim prospect as a son-in-law. It would also be a big loss of face.

Lash out at them if you want to. But like it or not, we live in a society which grades people: our family and educational background, the house we live in, the job we hold and the car we drive.

Not only does a car signal you have arrived, but where you park also seals your social status.

Higher-ranking staff get to park in reserved lots nearer the exits.

From personal experience, I know that many parking valets pay more attention, and display a degree of servility, to owners of prestigious marques.

Shirley is not a gold digger by a long shot. She finds her boyfriend's personality attractive.

She has simply not reached that sublime state to say honestly that such things as the calibre of car ownership does not matter to her.

So, if you are male and dateless, why not hop down to Performance Motors or Cycle & Carriage this weekend if you can afford it?

With the Monetary Authority of Singapore allowing zero downpayment, you could jump-start your eligibility quotient instantly.

Of course, it would plunge you in debt for a long time, too.

However, those who take this route and find their appointment calendar filling up will do well to bear in mind this caution from talk-show host Oprah Winfrey: Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you need is someone who'll take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.

[chickenzip]

Came across this stories...written by a Singapore student...

Part One...

THE old woman sat in the back seat of the magenta convertible as it areened down the highway, clutching tightly the plastic bag on her lap,
afraid it might be kidnapped by the wind.

She was not used to such speed. With trembling hands she pulled the seat
belt tighter but was careful not to touch the patent leather seats with
her calloused fingers. Her daughter had warned her not to dirty it:
'Fingerprints show very clearly on white, Ma.'

Her daughter, Bee Choo, was driving and talking on her sleek silver
mobile phone using big words the old woman could barely understand. 'Finance', 'liquidation', 'assets', 'investments'. Her voice was crisp and important and had an unfamiliar lilt to it. Her Bee Choo sounded like one of those foreign girls on television. She was speaking in an American accent. The old lady clucked her tongue in disapproval.

'I absolutely cannot have this. We have to sell!' Her daughter exclaimed
agitatedly as she stepped on the accelerator; her perfectly manicured
fingernails gripping onto the steering wheel in irritation.

'I can't DEAL with this anymore!' she yelled as she clicked the phone
shut and hurled it angrily towards the back seat. The mobile phone hit the
old woman on the forehead and nestled soundlessly into her lap. She calmly
picked it up and handed it to her daughter.

'Sorry, Ma,' she said, losing the American pretense and switching to
Mandarin. 'I have a big client in America. There have been a lot of
problems.' The old lady nodded knowingly. Her daughter was big and
important.

Bee Choo stared at her mother from the rear view mirror, wondering what
she was thinking. Her mother's wrinkled countenance always carried the same
cryptic look. The phone began to ring again, an artificially cheerful
digital tune, which broke the awkward silence.

'Hello Beatrice! Yes, this is Elaine.'

Elaine. The old woman cringed. I didn't name her Elaine. She remembered
her daughter telling her how an English name was very important for
'networking', Chinese ones being easily forgotten.

'Oh no, I can't see you for lunch today. I have to take the Ancient
Relic to the temple for her weird daily prayer ritual.'

Ancient Relic. The old woman understood perfectly it was referring to
her. Her daughter always assumed that her mother's silence meant she did not comprehend. 'Yes, I know! My car seats will be reeking of joss sticks!'

The old woman pursed her lips tightly, her hands gripping her plastic
bag in defence. The car curved smoothly into the temple courtyard. It looked
almost garish next to the dull sheen of the ageing temple's roof. The
old woman got out of the back seat and made her unhurried way to the main
hall.
Her daughter stepped out of the car in her business suit and stilettos
and reapplied her lipstick as she made her brisk way to her mother's side.

'Ma, I'll wait outside. I have an important phone call to make,' she
said, not bothering to hide her disgust at the pungent fumes of incense.

The old lady hobbled into the temple hall and lit a joss stick. She
knelt down solemnly and whispered her now-familiar daily prayer to the gods.

'Thank you, God of the Sky, you have given my daughter luck all these
years. Everything I prayed for, you have given her. She has everything a
young woman in this world could possibly want. She has a big house with
a swimming pool, a maid to help her, as she is too clumsy to sew or cook.
Her love life has been blessed; she is engaged to a rich and handsome angmoh (dialect for Caucasian man).

'Her company is now the top financial firm and even men listen to what
she says. She lives the perfect life. You have given her everything except
happiness.

'I ask that the gods be merciful to her even if she has lost her roots
while reaping the harvest of success.


'What you see is not true, she is a filial daughter to me. She gives me
a room in her big house and provides well for me. She is rude to me only
because I affect her happiness. A young woman does not want to be
hindered by her old mother. It is my fault.'

The old lady prayed so hard that tears welled up in her eyes.

Finally, with her head bowed in reverence, she planted the half-burnt
joss stick into an urn of smouldering ashes. She bowed once more.

The old woman had been praying for her daughter for 32 years. When her
abdomen was round like a melon, she came to the temple and prayed that
it was a son.

Then the time was ripe and the baby slipped out of her womb, bawling and
adorable with fat thighs and pink cheeks, but unmistakably a girl. Her husband had kicked and punched her for producing a useless baby who
could not work or carry the family name.

Still, the woman returned to the temple with her new-born girl tied to
her waist in a sarong and prayed that her daughter would grow up and have
everything she ever wanted. Her husband left her and she prayed that her
daughter would never have to depend on a man.

She prayed every day that her daughter would be a great woman, the woman that she, meek and uneducated, could never become. A woman with nengkan; the ability to do anything she set her mind to. A woman who commanded respect in the hearts of men. When she opened her mouth to speak, precious pearls would fall out and men would listen.

She will not be like me, the woman prayed as she watched her daughter
grow up and drift away from her, speaking a language she scarcely understood. She watched her daughter transform from a quiet girl, to one who openly defied her, calling her laotu (old-fashioned in Chinese). She wanted her mother to be 'modern', a word so new there was no Chinese word for it.

Now her daughter was too clever for her and the old woman wondered why
she had prayed like that. The gods had been faithful to her persistent
prayer, but the wealth and success that poured forth so richly had buried the
girl's roots and now she stood, faceless, with no identity, bound to the
soil of her ancestors by only a string of origami banknotes.

Her daughter had forgotten her mother's values. Her wants were so
ephemeral; that of a modern woman. Power, wealth, access to the best
fashion boutiques, and yet her daughter had not found true happiness.

The old woman knew that you could find happiness with much less. When
her daughter leaves the earth, everything she has will count for nothing.
People would look to her legacy and say that she was a great woman, but
she would be forgotten once the wind blows over, like the ashes of burnt
paper convertibles and mansions.

The old woman wished she could go back and erase all her big hopes and
prayers for her daughter; now she had only one want: that her daughter
be happy. She looked out of the temple gate. She saw her daughter speaking
on the phone, her brow furrowed with anger and worry.

Being at the top is not good, the woman thought. There is only one way
to go from there - down. The old woman carefully unfolded the plastic bag
and spread out a packet of beehoon (rice vermicelli) in front of the altar.

[chickenzip]

Part Two...

Her daughter often mocked her for worshipping porcelain gods. How could
she pray to them so faithfully and expect pieces of ceramic to fly to her
aid? But her daughter had her own gods too - idols of wealth, success and
power that she was enslaved to and worshipped every day of her life. Every day was a quest for the idols, and the idols she worshipped counted for
nothing in eternity. All the wants her daughter had would slowly suck the life
out of her, and leave her an empty soulless shell at the altar.

The old lady watched her joss stick. The dull heat had left a teetering
grey stem that was on the danger of collapsing. Modern women nowadays,
the old lady sighed in resignation, as she bowed to the east one final time
to end her ritual. Modern women nowadays want so much that they lose their souls and wonder why they cannot find it.

Her joss stick disintegrated into a soft grey powder. She met her
daughter outside the temple, the same look of worry and frustration was etched on her daughter's face. An empty expression, as if she was ploughing
through the soil of her wants looking for the one thing that would sow the seeds of happiness.

They climbed into the convertible in silence and her daughter drove
along the highway, this time not as fast as she had done before.

'Ma,' Bee Choo finally said. 'I don't know how to put this. Mark and I
have been talking about it and we plan to move out of the big house. The
property market is good now, and we managed to find a buyer willing to
pay seven million for it. We decided we'd prefer a cosier penthouse
apartment instead. We found a perfect one in Orchard Road. Once we move in to our apartment, we plan to get rid of the maid, so we can have more space to ourselves...'

The old woman nodded knowingly.

Bee Choo swallowed hard. 'We'd get someone to come in to do the
housework and we can eat out - but once the maid is gone, there won't be anyone to look after you. You will be awfully lonely at home and besides that, the apartment is rather small. There won't be space. We thought about it for a long time, and we decided the best thing for you is if you moved to a
home. There's one near Hougang, it's a Christian home, a very nice one.'

The old woman did not raise an eyebrow.

'I've been there, the matron is willing to take you in. It's beautiful
with gardens and lots of old people to keep you company! I hardly have time
for you, you'd be happier there. You'd be happier there, really.' Her
daughter repeated as if to affirm herself.

This time, the old woman had no plastic bag of food offerings to cling
tightly to; she bit her lip and fastened her seat belt, as if it would
protect her from a daughter who did not want her anymore. She sunk deep
into the leather seat, letting her shoulders sag, and her fingers traced
the white seat.

'Ma?' her daughter asked, searching the rear view mirror for her mother.
'Is everything okay?'

What had to be done, had to be done. 'Yes,' she said firmly, louder than
she intended. 'If it will make you happy,' she added more quietly.

'It's for you Ma! You'll be happier there. You can move there tomorrow.
I already got the maid to pack your things,' Elaine said triumphantly,
mentally ticking yet another item off her agenda.

'I knew everything would be fine.'

Elaine smiled widely; she felt liberated. Perhaps getting rid of her
mother could make her happier. She had thought about it. It seemed the only
hindrance in her pursuit of happiness. She was happy now.

She had everything a modern woman ever wanted: money, status, career,
love, power and now, freedom, without her mother and her old-fashioned ways to weigh her down - yes, she was free.

Her phone buzzed urgently; she picked it up and read the message, still
beaming from ear to ear. 'Stocks 10-per-cent increase!' Yes, things were
definitely beginning to look up for her...

And while searching for the meaning of life in the luminance of her
handphone screen, the old woman in the back seat became invisible, and
she did not see the tears.

What purposes does it serves if success does not bring any basic heart or touch in our life...

[triage]

ouch.. that's a really sad story :(

[singexpat]

A person can be successful in everywhere, everything..

But if he/she is unfilial, its all bullshit.. :mad:

Juz some tots....

[chickenzip]

Well...thats part of life. Human, be it woman or man seek for success in life but often neglect the most basic part of life. We are often very resourceful, diligent, skillful and tactful etc...in our work or careers...we even treat our friends or colleague better than anyone else. We spent willingly on friends christmas or birthday present...but yet we may forget to buy even a cake for our parents on their birthday.