Sexlover's True Story (1st May 2005)

[sexlover]

Hi everybody, this is my first time opening a new thread, recently there have been a lots of true love story share by some bros here, indeed most of them are very touching and mostly sad ending. For my case, the ending is still a very big mystery.

It makes me feel that I should share my recent encounter here, today 1st May 2005 make it a special day for me to share this story cos I got to know her during my recent trip to Beijing on 1st Apr 2005. And last night 30th Apr 2005 something bad happen.....

She may not be the most beautiful girl I have known, but she will forever be living in my heart.

Give me some time to recap all the event and write it out,,,,, to all those bro if u are looking for sexy juicy story,,, u will be disappointed,,,, my case is totally non sex related.

Bro Lament & plman have seen her pix, swee bo ??? :D

Stay Tune......... Be back soon.............

[funlovingboy]

Give me some time to recap all the event and write it out,,,,, to all those bro if u are looking for sexy juicy story,,, u will be disappointed,,,, my case is totally non sex related.


Hi sexlover,

our presence in this forum clearly indicate our passion for the so-called intimate moments. however, your story will also be just in time to trigger off this inherent emotional side of ours. well, at least i will.

and definitely, i will be one of those waiting eagerly for your narrating.

[tittyhawk]

Eagerly waiting for your continuation....

[sexlover]

Part 1

Hi all, thank for the wait, I can see that there are more than 400 views on these thread. It show that true story do arouse interest from fellow bros. Thank for the support. Hope it will not bored to all bros as this story is non sex related and quite lenghty………

Specially dedicated to Xiao Xue (Small Snow) ……….


On 31/3/05 (Thur), I went over to Beijing with a group of colleague (sort of company trip but leisure trip). The weather is still quite cold there cos winter just over, temperature @+/- 10degree (Not sure). We stay at one of the 5stars hotel along WangFuJing (For those who are not aware, WangFuJing is something like Orchard Rd). That night we head for one of the popular disco there called ‘Banana’, quite a happening place there, u will see lot of chio bu there at the first level (quality wise I can say better than Singapore standard). But majority are local girl, I think are not WL. Once u at the second level, u will suddenly feel that u are a ‘Yan Dao Kia’ cos lots of chio bu will approach and pose the question ‘Sir, want to play together’ (Of course they speak in Chinese). The charge is @$200-$300 RMB, just for company, dance and rub rub. Not sure about it cos I didn’t take any, and I am sure arrangement can be make for ‘Take Home’. Nothing happening for me that night, we headed back to hotel at @12am plus.

At hotel lobby @1230am, we saw a group of quite chio local SYT coming up from the basement escalator. We then go down the basement to explore, we realize there is a KTV there and the standard is quite high class, the lady there all wears cheongsam, but some of them already change to home clothes. Upon checking with the mamasan, we are inform that they closed at 1am, but if customer is there, they will stay open till they leave. The damage there is @$2000/ with one bottle plus girls charge $300RMB each whole night sit with u (Not butterly).

On 1/4/2005,Friday@10pm, we (Five of us) headed for the KTV below our hotel. At the entrance, we are greet by a group of well groom Cheongsam Girl, I would say majority are quite good looking. The mamasan then lead us to the room, once inside the room, one of those cheongsam girl also come in, and do all those waitress job. Among us, we start to discuss and wonder like,,,, “Wah lan, waitress also so swee, the girl sure no horse run”, and “If those cheongsam girl are the waitress, then where is all the GRO”? Really all of us blur blur like ‘swah ku’.

Then the mamasan brought in one of group of @7girls for us to pick. Immediately one of my friend (AY) pick one of the girl (Call her “Xin”) from that group, quite cute and SYT. At that moment, ***tink tink*** my ‘lead actress’ also in that group, she is not the prettiest in that group, but her plain Jane look just attract my attention. But I didn’t pick her at that time, as only one of my friend got his girl, the rest of us ask the mamasan for more girl, she then call in another group of about 6 of them. Upon seeing the second group, I don’t feel anything special, I immediately told mamasan, I want my “lead actress”. Eventually 3 of my friends also pick their girls, but the last friend “JL” ask the mamasan whether he can have the waitress to sit with him, after much talking, he manage to have her sitting with him. We then realize that the KTV do not actually employed any waitress; they use the GRO on rotation basis to do waitress duty. And this girl happen to be the mamasan’s younger sister.

To be continued……. Still writing now……Hope can finish it soon.

[VirgoJas]

whoosh.. nice.. i tink i will check this one often.. hehe :p

[sexlover]

Part 2

Introduction over, Real story begin now………….

My girl introduce herself as ‘Xiao Xue’ (Which means Small Snow), and remember the 1st girl ‘Xin’ pick by my friend ‘AY’, they are actually real cousin, that day we are all having clean fun like chatting, laughing and singing. (FYI this KTV is quite high class, not like those in Spore whereby stripping is very common). Nite passed, I then heard from my friend ‘AG’, that he have make arrangement with his girl to meet up the next day to go disco, I ask whether I could join them and he say ok. I then ask Xiao Xue whether she is interested, but she say she had already taken two days leave to go back to her hometown “Shan Dong” as she had already promise her mother and also she is still having mostly winter clothing in Beijing, so need to go back to change it. I was quite sad then, but she says she will give me the answer tomorrow, we then exchange HP nos. The rest of my friend also manage to arrange with their girl except ‘JL” who happen to sit with mamasan’s sister. If not the next day, all want to take leave, mamasan sure not happy.

2nd Apr 05, Sat, we have almost whole day of sight seeing arranged by the company. About 5:30pm, back at the hotel, called Xiao Xue, she said that she just board the bus to go back ShanDong, in fact she have been waiting for my call and since I didn’t call earlier, she thought the arrangement is cancel. (Accordingly to her, the journey back to ShanDong by bus will take @5-6hrs, and she is supposed to take 12noon or 2pm ferry, at least when she reach home, it will still be quite early @6-7pm.) As she had just board the bus, I ask her whether is it possible for her to alight. She never promise immediately but asked me to call back @5mins cos she need to check with her cousin ‘Xin’. Thereafter, I call her again and she say OK, we will meet. I told her to meet at the KFC opp our hotel, and she agrees. (Actually at that moment I also scare scare kena ‘Aeroplane’)

At 9pm, it was cold night, we are all waiting at the said KFC, @915pm, Xiao Xue & Xin arrived, subsequently another girl arrived, the only girl (AG’s girl) who is still MIA is the one who is the organizer for the night, AG then call her and was inform she is on the way, the rest of us can proceed to the disco first, it is called “Gao Su”, (English called ‘Highway”, I think it is somewhere along ‘JianGuoMen’). All of us then proceed to ‘Highway’ leaving behind ‘AG’ & ‘JL’ (JL is the one who sit with mummy’s sister) to wait for AG’s girl.

At ‘Highway’, same like ‘Banana’ very packed and lots of chio bu but we managed to get seat cos we order bottle and they lead us to a quite private sofa area. For those bro who know me, I don’t really into dancing or drinking, I am only into play ‘Pool’, as such Xiao Xue and I spend most of the time at the sofa, hugging & chatting (No hanky panky) just like lover. After @20mins, AG & his girl, JL also arrived, that girl smile to me and ask “What charm I use to make Xiao Xue stay back without going back to her hometown”?, I take a look at Xiao Xue, and we together look back at her, smile and indicate ‘Don’t Know’. The rest of my friend was enjoying themselves with their girl like dancing, rubbing, kissing and etc…….. In fact, Xiao Xue and me really click very well, and we are talking about everything under the sun. At one time, I realize that her palm is really wet (I mean palm, not other place), I ask her what happen, she say it quite hot there, I then suggest we go out of the disco, she say ok. After telling my friend, we then walk out of the disco, it was real cold night out there, less than 10 degree. We just stroll around the area under moon, chatting never seem to be able to end, like long lost lover just reunited. After about 20min, I can tell u, I ‘bey tahan’ cos the weather is really freezing cold. We then proceed back to the disco and continue with our hugging and chatting.

Inside the disco, although it was very packed and noisy, we are like living in our own world. At one time, we are both hugging with her head on my shoulder and was not talking, suddenly I feel a ‘jerk’ from her, I ask her what happen, she just give me a sweet smile which I will never forget. I realize she have actually fell asleep while lying on my shoulder (I would say if the girl is not comfortable with u, chances are slim that they will fell sleep on your shoulder), I then gave her a light ‘peck’ on her forehead, she turn to me and said in Mandarin with a very sweet tone, “ Try not to do that, when emotion get involved, it’s going to be difficult for us”. I just smile at her and we then carry on with our activity.

At @2am plus, three of us (AY, P and me) decided to leave the place, only AG & JL who came in late decided to carry on their fun there. We ask our girl whether they want to go for supper and they say ok, they suggest go ‘Gui Jie’ (English means Ghost Street). Arrived there, all of us are strolling along ‘Gui Jie’ each holding on to their own girl living in our own world, suddenly Xiao Xue lift up the hand which we are holding together and said “Hao jiu mei you zhe zhong gan jue le” (English means Long time never have this kind of feeling already) referring to holding hand. At that moment, I was like lost of word, and the environment is so romantic and in that freezing night, so we carry on walking till we come to one of the restaurant. Inside there, we had our supper and all having fun, giving each other riddle, playing clean guessing game. We are there for @1hrs plus, then came the time for us to part, as ‘Xin’ & ‘Xiao Xue’ are cousin, they are staying together, AY & me sent them home together, actually it just less than 5mins away from our hotel. That is the last time I have seen her in person.


On 3rd Apr 2005 Sunday, @4:30pm, I call Xiao Xue, she said she is on the way back to hometown and her Beijing phone line will be out of reach very soon, she wanted to give me her ShanDong Hp nos, as I was outside, no pen to write down, I say I will call back about 20min time when I am back in hotel. When I am reach hotel, and call her, phone nos already out of reach. (No more in contact while in China). Anyway, I will be going back Singapore the next day which is Monday 4/4/2005.


End of Part 2,,,,,,,,, part 3 coming up soon,,,part 3 contain event happen while back in Singapore, some description of her and our communication thru phone (Complimentary from Starhub Free IDD 018 call to China) kekekeke


Stay Tune ,,,,, will finish it soon, cos today is Special Day

[Hakoshu]

Awaiting for more bro, Great one!

[sexlover]

Part 3 ………….. Back In Singapore,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Just some brief description of Xiao Xue:----

She is 20yrs old girl from ShanDong, doing her Bridal makeup artist course in Beijing, thru conversation, I came to know that she came from a quite an above average family in China standard. And come to the part whereby u may be wondering why is she working in KTV?

Initially I do not buy into her story like most bros would, cos majority PRC KTV girl will make up 1001 stories to bluff their ways thru. It is after knowing a person and thru communication u will know that they are telling the true.

Actually she and ‘Xin’ came to work at that KTV thru recommendation by classmates who are working there, and their impression is that only work as waitress and not GRO. Her intention is just to make some pocket money so that she do not have to relies too much on her parent.

Actually this few week, I have been waiting for news from her such as (Common tricks by PRC); “My mother is sick lah”,,,,,,, “My father need to go operation” ,,,,,”My grandmother die lah” or she like something very much but no money to buy,,,,,,,,,,, which is all asking u to give them money. But none of it happened.

In fact she help me to register and pay for me some subscription in QQ (For those who are unaware, QQ is actually something like ICQ but it is from China website), to register u need China Hp for verifying something, I don’t really know how to use it well, but I will know it if she is online. The subscription charge is deducted thru her mobile line.






Ok, now back to the finale of the whole story,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

While back in Singapore, I was unable to contact her for about 2-3days. Was feeling a bit sad, cos we really click like long lost lover. Eventually when she back in Beijing, we are chatting and exchange sms again on the phone every day and every night after her work @1am, she would tell me most of the thing which happen that day like lover do.

Then there was one whole day she avoided my call and sms totally, until middle of the night, one girl pick up my call, her name is ‘Tian Tian’ (Sweet Sweet), she said Xiao Xue is sleeping, she intentionally avoid my call cos she is confuse of our this long distant relationship. ‘Tian Tian’ say very nicely to me, “ 你知道你的出现带给她生活很大的变化吗”? (English means Do u know u came into her life and make some impact in her life?),,,,,,,, “每天在班上当她收到你发信息来时，她都会露出幸福女人的笑容” (English means Everyday when we in class, when u sms her, she will give a very happy feminine smile). I was indeed very touch to hear that, but she say don’t worry, tomorrow she will be ok as they have already talk to her and she is sleeping now.

The next day, everything is back to normal and we were like before. Then about one week later she stops working at that KTV and also her course ended. Every thing was going fine until her latest trip back to ShanDong. This time round, I already got her ShanDong Hp nos, back at her home we chat like before. But now a bit difficult cos she have been guard by one “Big Defender” that is her mother, there was one night we are chatting for almost closed to an hour without we realizing it, suddenly she saw that defender staring at her. She told me we have to put down the phone already.

After that incident, her action toward me seem to have change a little cold and start to avoid my call. After days of asking, she then told me that night she had a scolding from her mother and her parent have already told her that they will never approved her relationship with me. As China girl is basically still very strong in family values, she say she have to obey her parent instructions.

She have been trying to avoid my call all this while until yesterday 30th Apr 2005 afternoon @2pm, she answer it, she was crying and she tell me don’t call her again and she say ‘Dang wo bu xi huan ni hao le’ (English means Take it as I don’t like u) then she put down the phone. Subsequently, she never pick the call anymore. Last nite @8pm, I sms her, suddenly I got a sms reply which read ‘回电话’ (Return call). But I have a feeling that it is not her cos that is not her style of returning sms. True enough when I called back, it is the Defender, she say don’t called Xiao Xue anymore, actually she don’t like me, but she don’t know how to reject me, she don’t want to hurt me. She said Xiao Xue now is badly drunk (half dead), during whole afternoon nobody at home, she have been drinking. She plead me don’t call again. Then we put down the phone.

I then call my friend ‘AY’ who are still in touch with ‘Xin’ (Xiao Xue’s cousin) for her Hp nos. I call her but the phone is off. I forward a sms to her asking her to get back to me when she received it.

Today morning, 1st May 2005 @9am, I got an sms from ‘Xin” and I call her, after relaying the incident to her, she say it is impossible for Xiao Xue to say that to me, cos among their friend together, they all know that Xiao Xue like me very much. She really gave me a very ‘hiong kar’ advice, she say don’t care about her mother, if we really like each other just go ahead and keep it touch, eventually the parent will accept it. Which I would agree it is true, but the problems lies in Xiao Xue’s thinking , not me.

I ask her to keep me updated of Xiao Xue, she say ok. …………….Still waiting for news



End of Story,,,,,,, may or may not have add-on, but I will take it as it come.





Thank all bros for reading this true encounter of mine, FYI I am single, not attached.


Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You

[evyrwmmn88]

i am saying this out of experience that you should go ahead with what your heart tells you but you will have to be careful with where you tread in order not to offend the mother. i too once had a gf from shanghai and both of our parents didnt approve of us. we were together for 4yrs and were v happy together but we broke in the end becos we found out that we were not suited for each other. we met in a pub in singapore where she was working part time but now she is finishing her studies. i strongly urge you to do what you think is right as you wont know what you have missed out till you try...

[Sure2C]

...Thank all bros for reading this true encounter of mine, FYI I am single, not attached.

Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You
If I m u, I'll pay her a visit. Use my sincerity to convince her defender tat the r/s btw both of u r clean, no hanky panky.
Though hv to be prepare for the worst of being reject by her parents.

[blue_swatch]

Fight for your own future. Love have no boundaries, if you think she is the one you should go for it

[i'mscrewed]

Part 3 ………….. Back In Singapore,,,,,,,,,,,,,Just some brief description of Xiao Xue:----Hope to hear some comment and advise of what should I do now. Thank You

Very romantic story indeed...Feels like watching a reality TV show cos you are narrating the story as it happens to you. Sounds like Xue is a nice girl too. I hope its not some sort of elaborate scam by her friends and she. Anyway, do try your best man! Sounds like you got something going! Wish you all the best man, and do keep us posted okay!

[flyguy]

is this your first or first few times travelling to China? Well, juz be real objective abt this girl or for that matter any prc girls. yes there are some supposedly real true "love" - but in most cases, the guy always "perceived" that the prc girl is "not like that etc". This is very important for those beginners who are in china as i have seen even some of my experienced friends went down bec of prc girls - mainly due to the fact that s'pore girls or rather girls back home - do not pamper or seems to be pampering you.
Just be careful and give it more time as it is obviously too soon now to draw any conclusion - in fact even time may not be able to tell you if its right or wrong. Its whether one can still hold and have a better "instinct". The wrong bet will be a very costly one and not just in monetary terms.

[saint_1979]

Very lovely story. Hv u tot of visiting her in Shan Dong?

I guess the "defender" is worried that u might b just one of those rich foreign guys who just want to take advantage than to be serious in the relationship. News about PRC gals who kanna cheat and abused by those foreign guys might be common in China. Of course, like our parents, they wont want any mishap to happen on their children. All parents want or do things that are in the interests of their children.

U hv to ask urself whether Xiao Xue is the one whom u want to spend the rest of your life with? R u sincere in wanting this relationship, not ONS or fling, but serious relationship? If so, I think u will noe what to do next.
Going to ShanDong is a gd way to prove that u r serious abt Xiao Xue.

Likewise, if u still not certain, no point hurting another good girl.

[zeus]

And last night 30th Apr 2005 something bad happen.....phew...i tot really got something bad happened. dun worry bro....you qing ren eventually will zhong chen juan shu...i giv u my warmest wishes... :)

[sexlover]

Thank all bro for your support and encouragements, really appreciated that.

If I m u, I'll pay her a visit. Use my sincerity to convince her defender tat the r/s btw both of u r clean, no hanky panky.
Though hv to be prepare for the worst of being reject by her parents.
In fact I was thinking about doing it, but at time I feel it may be too early for me to give such a big commitment. Actually I am not afraid to be rejected by her parent at the moment, what I am more concern is will she reject me.


Fight for your own future. Love have no boundaries, if you think she is the one you should go for it
Thank for the encouragement.


Very romantic story indeed...Feels like watching a reality TV show cos you are narrating the story as it happens to you. Sounds like Xue is a nice girl too. I hope its not some sort of elaborate scam by her friends and she. Anyway, do try your best man! Sounds like you got something going! Wish you all the best man, and do keep us posted okay!
Yes, everything indeed unfold itself just like what we always see in the movie, even I feel it like the movie. And the date met one another is like a Joke too cos it happen to fall on the April Fool Day. I hope it is not a scam too, but looking at the event which happen, it seem very unlikely, but will wait and see what ‘Xin’ have to say when she get back to me.


is this your first or first few times travelling to China? Well, juz be real objective abt this girl or for that matter any prc girls. yes there are some supposedly real true "love" - but in most cases, the guy always "perceived" that the prc girl is "not like that etc". This is very important for those beginners who are in china as i have seen even some of my experienced friends went down bec of prc girls - mainly due to the fact that s'pore girls or rather girls back home - do not pamper or seems to be pampering you.
Just be careful and give it more time as it is obviously too soon now to draw any conclusion - in fact even time may not be able to tell you if its right or wrong. Its whether one can still hold and have a better "instinct". The wrong bet will be a very costly one and not just in monetary terms.
Yes this is my first trip there, like what u just of all those cases, that is also partially the reason for holding me back not to go to visit her at the moment. Will wait and see first then decide.


Very lovely story. Hv u tot of visiting her in Shan Dong?
I guess the "defender" is worried that u might b just one of those rich foreign guys who just want to take advantage than to be serious in the relationship. News about PRC gals who kanna cheat and abused by those foreign guys might be common in China. Of course, like our parents, they wont want any mishap to happen on their children. All parents want or do things that are in the interests of their children.
U hv to ask urself whether Xiao Xue is the one whom u want to spend the rest of your life with? R u sincere in wanting this relationship, not ONS or fling, but serious relationship? If so, I think u will noe what to do next.
Going to ShanDong is a gd way to prove that u r serious abt Xiao Xue.
Likewise, if u still not certain, no point hurting another good girl.
Indeed it is a very lovely story, I would say that the cool and freezing weather really play a big role in setting up such a nice outing for me, U have to be there to really feel it. Looking at those trees there all very ‘botak’ cos winter just over, small greenish sprout just starting to grow. Really a romantic setting.
In fact, I don’t really blame the defender for her doing, cos she don’t know me and my true intention, only time will tell.
On whether Xiao Xue is the one whom I want to spend the rest of my life with? Seriously speaking, if everything is not a scam, I will consider her, cos she is a really very nice and sweet girl in my eyes, she just have the ‘X’ factor in my dictionary which even I cant explain, but as I said, only time will tell.


phew...i tot really got something bad happened. dun worry bro....you qing ren eventually will zhong chen juan shu...i giv u my warmest wishes... :)
It really sound very bad when the defender relay the message to me, she say Xiao Xue now ‘ban shi’ (half dead). Hope for the best. Now still waiting for news from ‘Xin’




Actually I am considering going to visit her during her birthday in Oct, but it will only happen if I manage to get positive feedback of her feeling toward me from ‘Xin’. I will also try to get in touch with ‘Tian Tian’.
If two of them give me positive feedback, I will definitely make the trip there and with assistance of them give Xiao Xue a big surprise. kekeke

[VirgoJas]

if u think she worth it, juz go for it.. my best wishest to u , n also its seems like xiao xue is also a good gal..

[sexlover]

if u think she worth it, juz go for it.. my best wishest to u , n also its seems like xiao xue is also a good gal..
Thank, I will go for it if the feedback is positive. As i mention in the story, I only know she 'like' me, and not she 'love' me. Like and love do differ, but there is no doubt that 'like' may develop into 'love', and it takes time to develop. Now with a defender around, it may hamper the development. I dont want to waste my trip there aimlessly, and also time is a big constraint. Must really be sure then I will make my trip there.

[i'mscrewed]

Thank all bro for your support and encouragements, really appreciated that.

Yes, everything indeed unfold itself just like what we always see in the movie, even I feel it like the movie. it seem very unlikely, but will wait and see what ‘Xin’ have to say when she get back to me.

Actually I am considering going to visit her during her birthday in Oct, I will definitely make the trip there and with assistance of them give Xiao Xue a big surprise. kekeke

Thanks for taking the trouble to reply to everyone's replies. That's a nice touch. Anyway, the surprise is a good idea as it can be a recon (reconnaissance) mission too. If you had decided to visit her in Oct, then things would probably have developed in your favour. Before you take the plunge, valuable information uncovered from a reconnaissance will set your heart at ease too. So in my opinion, you should not tell anyone about your plans to visit her in October. Go and observe and just do a little research before you show yourself.

Good luck!! :)

[evyrwmmn88]

my gfs mum also scolded me when i called her and slammed my phone when i called her way back when i was goin after her. the parents couldnt accept me but now they have started to accept me and talks to me even! the only thing which will be stressful is when we both have arguments when she is in shanghai and i am in singapore.

[sexlover]

Thanks for taking the trouble to reply to everyone's replies. That's a nice touch. Anyway, the surprise is a good idea as it can be a recon (reconnaissance) mission too. If you had decided to visit her in Oct, then things would probably have developed in your favour. Before you take the plunge, valuable information uncovered from a reconnaissance will set your heart at ease too. So in my opinion, you should not tell anyone about your plans to visit her in October. Go and observe and just do a little research before you show yourself.
Good luck!! :)
Yup, u are right, so far I also havent told 'Xin' about my birthday trip intention yet, I only ask her to keep me update on Xiao Xue.

[eddy]

.....my advise, go to shandong for a short trip to see her.... without the romantic snow and cold weather..... and maybe even bring her for a holiday in singapore....

pardon me for saying, but u might be suffering from the 'foreign land' syndrome in which you unconsciously put yourself in a 'role' in a love story.

Being in love in real life in Singapore/Beijing hot sweaty summer, with work pressures, bills to pay, seeing each other day in day out etc etc is very different from the romantic version you just described (you had met her face to face 2 times right?)

Sorry if i seem to throw cold water on the situation. Who knows? it might be real and true love.....or it might be just one sweet dream we want to keep alive for as long as possible.

Only way to find out is to see each other again and take the risk.

Despite the cold water treatment, my advise would be to go for it and see what happens...... you dont want to end up not following up and 20/30 years later still sitting there.....wondering what would have happened if only.....

Sure, you might end up paying 'tuition fees' emotionally and/or financially but hey........ that's life....... if you not willing to put in your tuition fees then just drop it and forget it. If I in your shoes and still single and young, I will do it........ money lost can always earn back, heart broken is part of growing up.

'better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all'

best of luck!

[eddy]

Thank, I will go for it if the feedback is positive. .

if the feedback is positive????? you mean that we SAMSTERS decide your fate????? guy, what if we all tell you to forget her and move on ????

and if it dont work out??? we are to be the guilty ones to blame?

i truly think the answer lies not with us but in YOUR OWN HEART!!!!!

u can only do THAT MUCH research on love with PRC girls here and in other forums ..... and do take a 50% discount on whatever we (and me) says

[sexlover]

Sorry I miss out three of u in the earlier reply.

Hi sexlover, our presence in this forum clearly indicate our passion for the so-called intimate moments. however, your story will also be just in time to trigger off this inherent emotional side of ours. well, at least i will.
and definitely, i will be one of those waiting eagerly for your narrating.
I hope my true encounter will trigger more bros to write their story

Eagerly waiting for your continuation....
Hope u like the story, it is 99.99% true story, I dare not say it is 100% cos I did miss out some minor detail, only capture the main event which unfold. (Even M1 dare not say their coverage is 100%,,,, kekeke)

i am saying this out of experience that you should go ahead with what your heart tells you but you will have to be careful with where you tread in order not to offend the mother. i too once had a gf from shanghai and both of our parents didnt approve of us. we were together for 4yrs and were v happy together but we broke in the end becos we found out that we were not suited for each other. we met in a pub in singapore where she was working part time but now she is finishing her studies. i strongly urge you to do what you think is right as you wont know what you have missed out till you try...
Like I say, I need to wait for positive feedback before I make the next move. Actually I am quite scare if I make the move, I end up like ‘ 联战‘ and her father & mother bring ‘ 关刀‘ chasing after me, then I really die.
Hope to hear your story too.



To all bro out there, this is my advice. Before I wrote and post this story, I was feeling quite down, especially after hearing from her mother saying she is ‘half dead’. Then on early hour of 1st May 2005, I decided to post the story after all if it is a special day for us. I spend the whole of 1st May writing this story.
After writing and posting it on the forum, I suddenly feel much more relieve and feel more peacefully.
I seriously urge all bro with story to tell, post it out. U will definitely feel the different. Trust Me.


Hope to keep this thread alive, all bros are welcome to post their story in this thread.
Maybe someday, somewhere I might have the opportunity to open up this thread and show it to her. At least, I did something for her without her knowledge on this very Special Day of ours.

[sexlover]

if the feedback is positive????? you mean that we SAMSTERS decide your fate????? guy, what if we all tell you to forget her and move on ????

and if it dont work out??? we are to be the guilty ones to blame?

i truly think the answer lies not with us but in YOUR OWN HEART!!!!!

u can only do THAT MUCH research on love with PRC girls here and in other forums ..... and do take a 50% discount on whatever we (and me) says

eddy ,,, i believe u got it all wrong, i dont mean 'positive' feedback from samster. I am refering to positive feedback from 'Xin' and 'Tian Tian', as I say so far I only know she like me and love me. As for 'foreign land' syndrome, I agree with u it may be true. That is the reason why I cant rush into it.

[niceguy]

Very lovely story. Hv u tot of visiting her in Shan Dong?

I guess the "defender" is worried that u might b just one of those rich foreign guys who just want to take advantage than to be serious in the relationship. News about PRC gals who kanna cheat and abused by those foreign guys might be common in China. Of course, like our parents, they wont want any mishap to happen on their children. All parents want or do things that are in the interests of their children.

U hv to ask urself whether Xiao Xue is the one whom u want to spend the rest of your life with? R u sincere in wanting this relationship, not ONS or fling, but serious relationship? If so, I think u will noe what to do next.
Going to ShanDong is a gd way to prove that u r serious abt Xiao Xue.

Likewise, if u still not certain, no point hurting another good girl.

well said n totally agreed. if u r really serious, go find her n also meet her parents. give them a good impression. i believe they will change their views about u. but 1st n foremost, u must think wif ur head (the big one) not the small one.

[betweenus21]

bro, u have to be real careful as in the 1st premise u did meet her at the ktv, and she is not someone u met at an office, retail shops etc. No matter how presumably "innocent" she may be but once a prc gal have been working in a ktv - its not easy and is complicated for sure; irrespective of her reasons for working there. In fact most of the gals who worked at such places do have sad or hardship stories to tell n some may be true but its a hard call even for a cheonging professional. Just be cool and take more time and as u said its yr 1st time in china - juz hold yr thoughts for her; visit china a few more times without seeing her then perhaps u be wiser.

[Manudieliao]

Bro....remember my story about the china gal and me? Check on my post and u would know...http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=25336

If i am in your shoe, i would take a 2 weeks leave, fly to China and look for her. Since you are not engaged and was in love with her, follow your heart. Don't be like me, when you lost your true love, it's like the end of the world...no words can describle the pain that i have suffered.

All the best..

[Jari_Owen]

If I m u, I'll pay her a visit. Use my sincerity to convince her defender tat the r/s btw both of u r clean, no hanky panky.
Though hv to be prepare for the worst of being reject by her parents.


That's my suggestion....sincerity will touch someone heart...use that to convince her parent that you are sincerely (provided you are) fond of her...

It's natural reaction from her mum (probably traditional view and concept)...
All parent especiall mother very concern about her chilren..somemore china "one child policy"...so mother treasure loh...

As I say...call her parent...tell them that you are sincerely about developing this relationship....and taking care of her and giving her comfortable life...

Go over and show your sincerity...your chances will never be better..

Somemore now Singapore got fly direct to Shangdong I heard...probably another 2-3 hr by bus after alighting at nearest airport....All these travelling will show your sincerity about the whole thing....

Sincerity needs time to prove....
Sincerity need patience to show...

Go...Go for it...all the way....Good luck...

[sexlover]

well said n totally agreed. if u r really serious, go find her n also meet her parents. give them a good impression. i believe they will change their views about u. but 1st n foremost, u must think wif ur head (the big one) not the small one.
Thru out the past one month of contact with her, I dare to admit that I never use the small head to think at all. However if thing do develop and small head is required for assistance as big head is already overload, I will take that as a bonus. Seriously if I do use small head, I will never have pick her, cos she is definitely not the prettiest among those girl.

bro, u have to be real careful as in the 1st premise u did meet her at the ktv, and she is not someone u met at an office, retail shops etc.
Will take your advice, and take my time, I also afraid it to out to be scam.

If i am in your shoe, i would take a 2 weeks leave, fly to China and look for her.
Yours is indeed a sad story, hope u are doing fine now. Whereas my encounter is slightly different from yours, I merely met her twice in China and nothing seriously develop during then. And the info I receive so far from ‘Tian Tian’ is that I make great impact to Xiao Xue’s life, Defender say ‘Xiao Xue’ don’t like me and ‘Xin’ say it is impossible that Xiao Xue will say she don’t like me.
What happen if Xiao Xue merely ‘like’ me as a friend and don’t want any further development? Then I believe my sudden trip there will be a great joke, no doubt it may change her parent opinion @ me, but the most important thing is still where Xiao Xue’s heart lies. So for that I am giving myself time till Oct to see what should be my next course of action. Just have to wait for more update from ‘Xin’.

That's my suggestion....sincerity will touch someone heart...use that to convince her parent that you are sincerely (provided you are) fond of her...
It's natural reaction from her mum (probably traditional view and concept)...
All parent especiall mother very concern about her chilren..somemore china "one child policy"...so mother treasure loh...
Actually she is not the only child, she have a elder sister age 22. According to her ‘one child policy’ was started ago 10-15yrs ago. She is indeed seem to be family’s teasure. Recently I have been searching thru for direct flight to ShanDong, only Valueair go to ChengDu. My 1st trip to china was on SQ, but SQ very ex @S$1000/- (Luckily company pay, but I think for @$700/). Do update me if anybody know of any direct flight info, need all this info badly, when need arises, it will come handy. All info will be greatly appreciated. Thank.

[iloveoversea]

Bro, this might sound unreal but in china, "men dang hu tui" still play a major role in marriage. One’s lifelong partner are still decided by parents especially in those well-to-do families. So if your really interested in her you might need to display your ability to take care of her to her parents.

Recently I have been searching thru for direct flight to ShanDong, only Valueair go to ChengDu. My 1st trip to china was on SQ, but SQ very ex @S$1000/- (Luckily company pay, but I think for @$700/). Do update me if anybody know of any direct flight info, need all this info badly, when need arises, it will come handy. All info will be greatly appreciated. Thank.

Why not ask those travel agencies to find tickets for you. They may be able to help you way to shandong if you travel by airchina or southern airline maybe just transit in Guangzhou or Shanghai.

[HappyHour]

英雄难过美人关

manderin words always has the most appropriate meaning...
my advise is, dont jump into it first, go by it naturally 顺其自然
let the time prove your sincerity and your love, you might be juz too
lonely at this point that you thought u have fallen in love but is not.
i can feel how a man felt with such a situation cos i have a even worst
senerio than yours. she is a malaysian n we r still together. well, will write
and share if only i have the time later. :cool:

[bigthree]

go for it!! dun miss out a good opportunity.. do u know, 68% of the men never married the woman they love most (from researchers).. dun be the statistics!!

[sexlover]

Bro, this might sound unreal but in china, "men dang hu tui" still play a major role in marriage. One’s lifelong partner are still decided by parents especially in those well-to-do families. So if your really interested in her you might need to display your ability to take care of her to her parents.
From that day I talk to her mother, they are not really those very well-to-do type, but I would classify them as normal working class. Both parent & sister are normal working class, not those working as farmer.
Regarding ‘Men Dang Hu Dui’, it seem unlikely will be a concern.
But lifelong partner are still decided by parents is a big issue, but I think it is more of the children’s showing respect to their parent, which they are bought up that way. Quite difficult to change their mentality.


英雄难过美人关
For my scenario, I will disagree with that sentence, 英雄难过美人关 I believe mine is more of 情人眼里出西施 cos seriously speaking, she is not a real beauty, some of my friend who have seen her pix say ‘where got swee’ but it is the ‘X’ factor she possess which I cant even define.

Hope to see your story soon, feel free to post at this thread.


68% of the men never married the woman they love most (from researchers).. dun be the statistics!!
Thank bro, will go for it when the time come.

[Harrier24B]

Bro,

which part of Shandong province is she from?

You ca now fly direct from SG to Jinan or Qingdao and take cab to her town.

End of the day, I reckon that it's a few diff scenarios:

1) The Mother very protective and worried of losing the girl to you and not coming back;
2) The Mother playing hard to get to test your sincerity;
3) The Mother want you to marry her BUT dowan to show eagerness yet (in a strategy game)

I can't think of any other reasons, generally the perople of Shandong is quite ok....but still have to be careful.


Cheers,

just my 2cents...

[wakk0]

1st time posting.. hope i can help ;)
Interactive map of china:
interactive map of china (http://www.cdmap.cn/map.asp)

One way: U may take China Eastern flight to Shanghai, then take a train.

Check on train schedule and train no.
train schedule (http://train.chinamor.cn.net/cztt.asp)

Detailed map if u know where she live..
detailed map (http://www.91trip.com/map/default.asp?provinceid=19)


hope this can be some help to you.

[sexlover]

1) The Mother very protective and worried of losing the girl to you and not coming back;
2) The Mother playing hard to get to test your sincerity;
3) The Mother want you to marry her BUT dowan to show eagerness yet (in a strategy game)
I can't think of any other reasons, generally the perople of Shandong is quite ok....but still have to be careful.
It appear to me option 1 is highly possible, cos after her mother know about me and told her not to carry on with me, Xiao Xue ever forward a sms to me 你会来中国发展吗？ Which i reply her anything is possible, but i cant promise anything right now. I believe her mother might have pass strict instruction to her that she will never allowed her to married oversea. Currently Xiao Xue could be in confused state of mind not knowing how to handle the situation. In fact, that night when I talk to her mother, she also highlighted that at 20yr old, she felt that Xiao Xue is too young to commit to anything, she will only allowed her to decide by herself in a few year time.

As such, I feel that her parent objection may not be that tricky afterall, sincerity might change her thinking, my main concern now is what is Xiao Xue thinking.
Does she only like me purely as a friend without intention of future development?
Does she like me and ready to commit, but only holding back now due to parent’s objection?
If the case is option 1 then, I can forget about whole story, and we can just lead our own life. But I can feel option 2 is more likely cos our sms & communication we been thru, she ever said ‘父母辛辛苦苦把我们养大，他们的祝福是最重要’.

That why I am still waiting for feedback from ‘Xin’ & ‘Tian Tian’, cos thru friend, Xiao Xue are more likely to tell the truth. Currently she refuse to answer my call nor return my sms.

[hothandlebar]

I dont want to waste my trip there aimlessly, and also time is a big constraint. Must really be sure then I will make my trip there.


after reading so much which have been said, don't think I've come acrossed you mentioning if you're married or attached?

i'd presume you are still single but how old are you anyway?

it may be a concern of the "defender" as Xiao Xue is only about 20? and the age gap between you and her could be really wide? Cos the mentality of her mum could be you may be just 1 of those whom heads over to China for a 1 night in Beijing story... or maybe Xiao Xue should find someone closer to her age? or which parent will not be worried for their child?

nonetheless, if you're still single, i'd advise you to follow your heart despite all those "con" stories which you've heard happened to our Singaporean counterparts... but then again, with your eyes and ears wide open and not blindly... bet you're old enuff to know what you're living for cos the ultimate decision lies in u and not from the advices you've reveived...

but if you're already married, don't waste your time hor!

follow your heart and don't live to regret it... all the best! :)

[et911]

That why I am still waiting for feedback from ‘Xin’ & ‘Tian Tian’, cos thru friend, Xiao Xue are more likely to tell the truth. Currently she refuse to answer my call nor return my sms.

Bro, after reading your story and the replies you gave to other brothers, I have this deep feeling that you are going through a crush. Why not give it a few months to see if you still miss her? Dont jump the gun, act too soon and you may take the wrong steps.

Who knows, if you meet another gal in these few months, you may forget about Xiao Xue.

I strongly feel that you have not been thinking logically. To have love at first sight is one thing (I call that crush), to develop strong and deep emotions and feelings in a couple of days between a couple is definitely very difficult.

How much have you two been through together? Nothing I have to say. If the gal is willing to give up because of parental pressure so easily, how deep are her feelings for you?

The above aside, I hate to say this and be a spoil sport, but it could be one of the stories again - Fang Chang Xian, Diao Ta Yu (sorry, pinyin no good), just be extremely careful. I have been duped many a times, no story line is new to me anymore.

cheers,
et911

[lament]

1 word 2 say hor ..... just get you godamn ass in china and ask 4 her hand lor ...then o headache ...anyway u not getting younger hor ....u contented to be virgin of 51 forever meh ....

[funlovingboy]

sexlover,

i would say, follow ur heart. the future is unpredictable. even if things dun turn the way u wish it for, at least u know that u have tried. sometimes, it's important to do things u want not because u want to achieve something, but because u dun want to have another regret.

gradually when we all age in life and look back at our past, we will find that there seem to have more regrets than happy and memorable moments.

3 years ago, i tot i have find my love. we just met for a week. things developed so fast that we became an item in that week. i really tot that she would be the one for me. she was not in good health and i drove her from work and also to visit a doc almost everyday. things were just escalating so fast. then, out of the blue, she told me that she did not want to lie to me anymore. she said that she was then undergoing divorce proceedings and she had a son. i could still remember that day. with me feeling so shocked and speechless.

having given it a very careful thought, i decided to part ways with her. i still love her very much. but i cant simply ignore my parents. they would never agree to me getting together with a gal with a son. no matter how unwilling i was, i let this relationship go.

3 years have passed since that day. and now, i am still thinking of it at times. this feeling is simply like a dormant fire, which would surface periodically to engulf me in a depression. sometimes, i would think to myself, if i chose the other option 3 years ago, how will the situation be like today?

[sexlover]

1st time posting.. hope i can help ;)
Interactive map of china
Thank very much bro that info is indeed useful

after reading so much which have been said, don't think I've come acrossed you mentioning if you're married or attached?
i'd presume you are still single but how old are you anyway?
Thank bro, for the advise.
You might have overlooked my declaration at the end of my Part 3 story, I am Single and not attach at the moment. Currently I am 34yo, I wonder whether the defender will classify that as too old.

Bro, after reading your story and the replies you gave to other brothers, I have this deep feeling that you are going through a crush. Why not give it a few months to see if you still miss her? Dont jump the gun, act too soon and you may take the wrong steps.
Who knows, if you meet another gal in these few months, you may forget about Xiao Xue.
I strongly feel that you have not been thinking logically. To have love at first sight is one thing (I call that crush), to develop strong and deep emotions and feelings in a couple of days between a couple is definitely very difficult.
How much have you two been through together? Nothing I have to say. If the gal is willing to give up because of parental pressure so easily, how deep are her feelings for you?
Thank bro, I have been waiting senior guy like u to comment, I believe I ever met u at BlueStar coffeeshop, I was there late to meet JapBoy & plman. Can remember?
Yup like what u say it may be a crush or any other thing like another bro was saying ‘foreign country syndrome, I agree with all this, so in fact I am not rushing into anything. I have give myself five months until this Oct which is her birthday to think over whether is it worth it to travel there.
But on the other hand, I am 34yo, single, not attach, meet a nice and sweet young girl, what will a normal guy do? Sure die die go for it right?
But I am also afraid it turn out to be a scam, cos this involve other country girl,,,,,, playing an ‘Away’ match is always some disadvantage to visiting team. If ‘Home’ match, all of us will ‘bo chap’ just try first then see how.

1 word 2 say hor ..... just get you godamn ass in china and ask 4 her hand lor ...then o headache ...anyway u not getting younger hor ....u contented to be virgin of 51 forever meh ....
Kekeke finally u are here, actually hor Sunday saw another viet at 51, look even more like Xiao Xue ,,, better than that day we saw that one. But I never talk to her lar,,,, if not wait got even bigger headache.

sexlover, i would say, follow ur heart. the future is unpredictable.
Thank bro for your advise, me also don’t want to live to regret and to complain later. Will see what I can do later.

Actually now is really too early for me to decide which direction to head for, if she only want me as a friend, I will let the matter rest, but if she feel that there is a future for us to develop, then there will be a possibility for me to travel there during her 21st birthday.
Initially my real intention of posting the story is more commemorating our Special Day of One Month, looking at all bro sharing of advice, info, pro&con for my case. I would like to say a big ‘Thank You’ to all, cos it will help when the time come for me to make the final decision.

[BigGuy]

I mite have a similiar situation many donkeys years back....btw u r 2 years older then me la....

i got to know 2 jap.....cut long story short.....interacted for 2 years....heartache here n there but still din make out.

moral of the story....in all honesty, it is really not easy to maintain a relationship w a foreigner....not that they r no good.....unless they r prepared or u r prepared to give up yr family to go hers or your country for a long term basis lor....if not look away....just look away

[hothandlebar]

Thank bro, for the advise.
You might have overlooked my declaration at the end of my Part 3 story, I am Single and not attach at the moment. Currently I am 34yo, I wonder whether the defender will classify that as too old. [/SIZE]


Honestly, I'm no younger than you are and come to think of it, Xiao Xue is at least 13-14 years younger than you are. It is no doubt her mum may be concerned about the vast age gap... She may view you as a cradle snatcher, if not worse... a paedophile... :D

If you think it is true love you are talking about with Xiao Xue, why don't you call her mum up and have a heart to heart talk with her and find out what exactly her concerns are? From there, you'd probably be able to gauge how best you can resolve the issues her mum may have... Think it's very likely she would prefer Xiao Xue to stay put and have you going over for good instead...

Nothing bad about starting a new life over there but

1) Are you ready to give up your present life over here?
2) How about your parents? Are they ready for your decision?
3) Do you think you'll be able to get use to the kind of lifestyle over there? 4) How about employment? Will you be gainfully employed or are you setting up something on your own?
5) What if Xiao Xue's mum would require you to give up your citizenship in order to be with Xiao Xue? Will you do it?
6) What if Xiao Xue and the parents are to come over instead? Are you able to support all of them?

If you already have positive answers to the questions above, then just do it cos if you don't walk out the door, you'll never get there and will live to regret it, pondering the "what ifs" in time to come...

Bet you have a good head on your shoulder and I wish you all the best! :)

[et911]

Thank bro, I have been waiting senior guy like u to comment, I believe I ever met u at BlueStar coffeeshop, I was there late to meet JapBoy & plman. Can remember?
Yup like what u say it may be a crush or any other thing like another bro was saying ‘foreign country syndrome, I agree with all this, so in fact I am not rushing into anything. I have give myself five months until this Oct which is her birthday to think over whether is it worth it to travel there.
But on the other hand, I am 34yo, single, not attach, meet a nice and sweet young girl, what will a normal guy do? Sure die die go for it right?
But I am also afraid it turn out to be a scam, cos this involve other country girl,,,,,, playing an ‘Away’ match is always some disadvantage to visiting team. If ‘Home’ match, all of us will ‘bo chap’ just try first then see how.
[/SIZE]

You liddat say I old goot meh?? I think I can remember, the night we were all quite high already??

Back to your situation, if you understand and know your position, you would be in a better position to judge. Remember, there are one million (not one thousand) and one stories and situations, which we have not seen nor experienced before. There are after all so many millions china gal to one singapore guy.

Just dont be cheated, not monetarily, not emotionally.

If you really want to settle down, I am sure there are more options available.. and you are not that OLD lah! :p

[sexlover]

moral of the story....in all honesty, it is really not easy to maintain a relationship w a foreigner
I believe sometime it is our own backside itchy to have look at other country girl, we are all looking for the trill , 家花哪有野花香 and 路边的野花不要采 Sorry to say that, the 野花 I am referring more to oversea girl

She may view you as a cradle snatcher, if not worse... a paedophile
1) Are you ready to give up your present life over here?
2) How about your parents? Are they ready for your decision?
3) Do you think you'll be able to get use to the kind of lifestyle over there?
4) How about employment? Will you be gainfully employed or are you setting up something on your own?
5) What if Xiao Xue's mum would require you to give up your citizenship in order to be with Xiao Xue? Will you do it?
6) What if Xiao Xue and the parents are to come over instead? Are you able to support all of them?
Bro, your this word ‘paedophile’ is too chim for me to understand, I check the dictionary also cannot find, care to share what is the meaning?
I think age differ of @13-14yr is quite acceptable and common nowadays, in order to reduce the age gap maybe I should look for opportunity to sian her sister who is 22yr old (kekekeke, just kidding)
Ans 1: High chance give up eventually with/without her, but not at the moment.
Ans 2: Not a big concern. They will let me decide on my own
Ans 3: Not a question of whether able or not, but more of willing to adapt to it or not.
Ans 4: That is a Big Concern and big Question Mark.
Ans 5: Need not give up, by staying there and apply for PR should be good enough.
Ans 6: That is a very unlikely scenario, but if that is really the case, I will be happy to accept it willing cos that will be the Best scenario. Just have to work harder.

You liddat say I old goot meh?? so many millions china gal to one singapore guy.
If you really want to settle down, I am sure there are more options available.. and you are not that OLD lah!
Aiya, never say u old lah, didn’t u see I use the word ‘senior’, it is my respect for u.
No doubt there are million china girl around for us to choose, 不过我就是屁股痒, 学人找’X’ factor , ended up me also don’t know how to define it. Million minus off those without 'X' factor, only left a handful, minus those already married, now I also dont left how many. Haiiiii
But dont worry, I will not rush into anything, that why I giving myself 5 month period to decide.

[hothandlebar]

Bro, your this word ‘paedophile’ is too chim for me to understand, I check the dictionary also cannot find, care to share what is the meaning?


paedophile

n : an adult who is sexually attracted to children [syn: pedophile]:D

[sexlover]

paedophile
n : an adult who is sexually attracted to children [syn: pedophile]
Wah Lau, me not that bad lah, havent reach the level of Michael Jackson yet.
Actually 20yr old not consider a child already, no doubt in the eye of parent u will be forever be a child even when u are 40yr old.
I ever ask her how she going to celebrate coming 21st birthday, she said nothing special about that. In China, she say the Special BD is actually on 18th or 20th (Cant remember). I think Should be 18th, cos of all those old saying 女大十八变 and 十八的姑娘一朵花. The girl are basically consider young adult when reach that special BD, in fact for 18/20yr old girl, their maturity (I mean thinking and not other thing)level is as good as Spore girl at 25yr old cos of the enviroment and culture they are in.

[sexlover]

Add On

This few day is quite tough for me to bear, cos Remember that day on 30 Apr 2005 I mention her mother say Xiao Xue is 'half dead'. From that day no more news from them, this few day i try sms and calling but their is no reply.

Today 4/5/2005 @7pm, finally I receive an sms reply which say, '你不用担心她。 她现在好多了。你也不用多想‘， I immediately call back and it was answer this time by her sister, she say Xiao Xue now is still at hospital, will be discharge soon but she refuse to give me which hospital, she ask me not to call Xiao Xue again. I suspect her HP is now kept by either sister/mother.

This few day I also unable to locate 'Xin', really KNNCCB.

Worse of all, I dont have her house address, last time she ever mention to me, but cant remember cos China too complicated and I can only remember Shan Dong.

[Mark26]

sad to hear this. its the similar predicament that i am facing...
i am married but same as you bro..fall in love with a young china gal...and even have her virginity... (brother its not just lust, its a great sin to have her first blood and be committed to it)

there two voice in me..
1) go after her and be with her
2) end the tryst and return to my loving wife.

at first i find it exciting to be in this clandestine situtation but now i find that i committed to it...

now i wonder when will this rendevous end....
due to my dilemma i lost all my tolerance to my beloved wife....
now i really don know what to do... :(

bro, the gal is young, we are much older than her. Can we "show hand" and commit to this affair.
it may seems romantic but fortunately for you is you don have a wife yet...
i will go all out to be with her even if my parent don agreed to my relationship... but now the problem is i am married.
lucky enuff that i don have any children..as its quite a burden to have them in a divorce (if any in near future)

[japboy]

Nbzz... show picture of her 2 plman n lament but not mi... u goot!!!!...

bro, i seriously think dat u had dat "foreign land" syndome whereby u r feeling lonely n everyone falls in love freely....

u r basically a very nice person and can get along well w anyone.....

well, jz give it a couple of months n u'll get over it...

sorry for d cold turkey but i think i will need 2 wake u up a bit...

giving up ur life here n live elsewhere is fine.. but i hope u do dat not because of a gal but because u really wanted 2 leave sillypore for a better living elsewhere...

saw a few cases b4 n mostly those who leave sillypore for a gal will end up w alot of problems n had 2 come back.... pple who survived r because of other reasons.....

moral of dis is pple who leave for a gal has not enuff a good n strong reason 2 survive overseas.. if u r determined to make a better living there, den it's fine... if u do not have d conviction, u will not last there....

:D

[Manudieliao]

Bro Mark,

Read my post...your situation is similar to me...read my post, maybe you can find out the path you want to chose.
http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=25336

Take care

[QUOTE=Mark26]sad to hear this. its the similar predicament that i am facing...
i am married but same as you bro..fall in love with a young china gal...and even have her virginity... (brother its not just lust, its a great sin to have her first blood and be committed to it)

[sexlover]

sad to hear this. its the similar predicament that i am facing...
i am married but same as you bro..fall in love with a young china gal...and even have her virginity... (brother its not just lust, its a great sin to have her first blood and be committed to it)
Yours is much more tricky, have to make the choice early

Nbzz... show picture of her 2 plman n lament
Wah lau that night during supper at JC (Law, plman), I think u got see also right. The pix is in my hp.
Giving myself time to see what is the next move.
But leave Sg is not becos of her lah, actually it is more of retirement planning in future lah. All the while already have this intention. But tonight if strike Toto $1.5m, I think tomorrow is my retirement day. Kekeke

KNN u remember that day we saw that traffic while having supper that weedend, that taxi nos 4240, but that coming wed open 0424 2nd prize…… heart pain…….

[japboy]

But leave Sg is not becos of her lah, actually it is more of retirement planning in future lah. All the while already have this intention. But tonight if strike Toto $1.5m, I think tomorrow is my retirement day. Kekeke

i saw dat oreadi... kekekeke.... pai seh ar......

retirement plan still long long time to go lah... dun confuse dis w dat.... i oso hope i kena Toto....

nbzz... dat cab kena knock in front n reversed dat's y front number jumped to back... shld have bought 12 combo system..... nbzzzz.... :eek: :D

[plman2002]

heart pain…….

Bro, sorry. I have been ill n not feeling well for a week liao.
hardly came into forum and now i referred to yr sms n came in to read yr posting.
many bros have given their opinon n i believe u know where u r heading.
well, just like the accient.
if he drive slowly, look around more carefully n be patient,
he won't bang his car unnecessarily into roller shuttle of shop or incoming vehicle.
same for yr situation now, cool down and think carefully.
I understand n believe that u have not been using yr small head so far.

cheers

[Wolfiexx1]

I think i've been there long enough to give you advice on this issue...

to prevent more troubles...i think u better give up this relationship, in the long run it will only give u heartaches and problems....it's not worth it.trust me.

i feel that china girls fall in love easily with singaporean guys...maybe is the way we carry ourselves and the gentlemently way we conduct ourselves(acting or not). one must admit NS does shape us up into what we are today...thus having an advantage over other guys.

also another thing...what do u intend to do if this girl accpet you? bring her over to singapore? or go over there and stay? both ways, you face paramount difficulty....also...remeber...nowadays china girls in singapore are sterotyped as cheap or prositude....see a china girl on the street, the words ' prositude' pop into the minds of everyone.....even those studying in NUS are not spared from this view....u don't mind losing face and enduring all the stares as if u are going out with a 'pro'??u dun mind ppl calling you 'despot'? i know sometimes we don't care so much abt what ppl say when we are in love....but pls think...in the run long...is it feasible....i got a very bad experience myself....and i think, giving it up is the best

[sexlover]

retirement plan still long long time to go lah... dun confuse dis w dat.... i oso hope i kena Toto....
nbzz... dat cab kena knock in front n reversed dat's y front number jumped to back... shld have bought 12 combo system..... nbzzzz....
Buy 12 combo waste money only, buy reverse already tio liao.


Bro, sorry. I have been ill n not feeling well for a week liao.
if he drive slowly, look around more carefully n be patient,
I understand n believe that u have not been using yr small head so far.
U chiong too much, machine ‘pie liao’ ahhh ? kekekeke.
My small head long time never use, don’t know still usable. kekeke



I think i've been there long enough to give you advice on this issue...
to prevent more troubles...i think u better give up this relationship, in the long run it will only give u heartaches and problems....it's not worth it.trust me.
i feel that china girls fall in love easily with singaporean guys...maybe is the way we carry ourselves and the gentlemently way we conduct ourselves(acting or not). one must admit NS does shape us up into what we are today...thus having an advantage over other guys.
also another thing...what do u intend to do if this girl accpet you? bring her over to singapore? or go over there and stay? both ways, you face paramount difficulty....also...remeber...nowadays china girls in singapore are sterotyped as cheap or prositude....see a china girl on the street, the words ' prositude' pop into the minds of everyone.....even those studying in NUS are not spared from this view....u don't mind losing face and enduring all the stares as if u are going out with a 'pro'??u dun mind ppl calling you 'despot'? i know sometimes we don't care so much abt what ppl say when we are in love....but pls think...in the run long...is it feasible....i got a very bad experience myself....and i think, giving it up is the best
Thank bro for your advise, will bear that in mind
But I don’t really agree with the view that most china girl are stereotype as ‘pro’ in Sg. I believe it is more of in the eye of chiongster whereby we perceive they may be ‘pro’. But in general there is no doubt that large majority in Sg still stereotype them as someone who came to Sg to cheat Sg man’ money/love.
Hope u will share your story too, :)

[MoonBlaze]

Add OnThis few day is quite tough for me to bearSometime I dun know what to say…can understand your frustration.

At times, is it that we think too much and end up with more headaches or that we got the headaches because we had plunge blindly into it? What was meant to start off simply turn messy....

Looking into you case, you are single maybe 40+, are you intending to settle down? Are you ready to change your current bachelorhood? Is she the one? Will she be too young for you? Had she meet and seen enough males to have sufficient choices and social exposure to make a decision that you are the one? Love to a gal at her age is something they will pour quite a bit of her feeling into it. Pure innocent love? Add in her parents’ objection, difference in nationality, age gap, she got so upset that she drank till hospitalized…..You two had barely started and already faced with so much headache and heartache…..my god….fate seems cruel.

In an ideal world, love will suffice above all, but sadly an ideal world does not exist.

2 possible options:-

1) Forget this whole damn thing and get on with life (but your heart just will not let you do that. Human have feelings. Like many of us , you are just not cut to be a heartless man)

2) Fly over to look for her? Tell her parents you wanna date and get to know each other better first…you are not out to cheat them of her daughter. Guess they will be touched by your sincerity but no necessarily met with their approval.

If you really want to let this matter come to a rest point….could write a letter and try to get to her. Her cousin probably will not change her HP no. cos of you. You should be able to get it to her eventually. Tell her your feelings for her….but with so obstacles and the age difference, it is only fair that she should take her time to grow up and had enough social exposure and choices before she decide that you are the one.

Heartaches as it may be....but remember both of you may be wishing under the same star....and moon...

Cheers!!! :)

[Mark26]

[QUOTE=Manudieliao]Bro Mark,

Read my post...your situation is similar to me...read my post, maybe you can find out the path you want to chose.
QUOTE]

thanks for the advice....

[lament]

bro.... got 1 suggestion for you ....

why don't u sponsor her to study make up in sillypore lah... then everyday see her and feelings develop .... then u see how lor ...

if feelings dun develop then get her drunk and do her lah ....then "raw rice cook liao" her mother also no choice ....

go china and develop is a nice thought if you survive there lor ..... in sillypore 4million people alrady hard time liao ...

u have support anyway ....

[sexlover]

Yesssss, 7th May 2005 Xiao Xue discharge from hospital, she sms me half hour ago, just finish talking to her. She told me last sat afternoon, was feeling down, drink quite a lot at home. Suddenly knock out. :D

I believe her mother more or less already agree to let her keep in touch with me. That is a good sign.

[sexlover]

In an ideal world, love will suffice above all, but sadly an ideal world does not exist.

Bro,,,, I only 34 lah, still cannot buy HDB flat under single scheme. I sound old like 40 meh?
Read my previous post, thing is working out fine now. Future is yet to be seen.
I think her mother/sister kena bomb by me using sms until they give in ,,,, kekekeke

bro.... got 1 suggestion for you ....
why don't u sponsor her to study make up in sillypore lah... then everyday see her and feelings develop .... then u see how lor ...
if feelings dun develop then get her drunk and do her lah ....then "raw rice cook liao" her mother also no choice ....
go china and develop is a nice thought if you survive there lor ..... in sillypore 4million people alrady hard time liao ...
u have support anyway ....
Wah lau u very bad lah,,,,, no feeling develop up her,,, wait I kena rotan.

[i'mscrewed]

Yesssss, 7th May 2005 Xiao Xue discharge from hospital, she sms me half hour ago, That is a good sign.

Finally, she replied! Lol...I'm happy for you man :)

So how did your talk go with her? Remember to ask her for her address and email and all other contact details in case she goes uncontactable again. :D

Do keep us posted!

[sexlover]

Finally, she replied! Lol...I'm happy for you man
So how did your talk go with her? Remember to ask her for her address and email and all other contact details in case she goes uncontactable again. :D
Do keep us posted!

Yup, she sms about 830pm, then I call back and manage to talk for about half hour. Thing seem to be going fine at the moment. :D She told me while in hospital, her mother talk to her a lot of thing about us, but she never disclose what they talk about. Just have to wait and see.

[MoonBlaze]

Bro,,,, I only 34 lah, still cannot buy HDB flat under single scheme. I sound old like 40 meh? Sorry Bro, my mistake....anyway one more year then you can buy a flat for yourself....Good to hear things are looking brighter for you and your gal...cheers!!!! :)

[plman2002]

Yesssss, I believe her mother more or less already agree to let her keep in touch with me. That is a good sign.

Yo bro, glad to hear that too.
Hope all the best to you and yr China gal.
next time, who knows, we might play pool together with yr gal around.
of course not in 51 lah. kekeke

[et911]

but she never disclose what they talk about. Just have to wait and see.

Still, please remain skeptical of their actions. For all you know, it might just be part of the ploy their are doing..

[sexlover]

Sorry Bro, my mistake....anyway one more year then you can buy a flat for yourself....Good to hear things are looking brighter for you and your gal...cheers!!!! :)
Thank Bro

Yo bro, glad to hear that too.
Hope all the best to you and yr China gal.
next time, who knows, we might play pool together with yr gal around.
of course not in 51 lah. kekeke
Hope for the best kekekeke

Still, please remain skeptical of their actions. For all you know, it might just be part of the ploy their are doing..
Thank Bro, will take note of the pt u and other bro raise. Will be extra careful cos it is going to be away match.

[Mark26]

Not all PRC are evil lah...
some Sillypore man here more Evil lei...

i believe some samster here bonk PRC (FOC) and cheat their love...
Good luck to you bro....

[sexlover]

Not all PRC are evil lah...
some Sillypore man here more Evil lei...
i believe some samster here bonk PRC (FOC) and cheat their love...
Good luck to you bro....
Agree with u, at time it is just a matter of whether chicken or egg come first.

[Mark26]

thanks... need to let samster here know that...PRC are humans..got good and bad..

add your points for supporting me.

[Mark26]

bro.... got 1 suggestion for you ....

why don't u sponsor her to study make up in sillypore lah... then everyday see her and feelings develop .... then u see how lor ...

if feelings dun develop then get her drunk and do her lah ....then "raw rice cook liao" her mother also no choice ....

go china and develop is a nice thought if you survive there lor ..... in sillypore 4million people alrady hard time liao ...

u have support anyway ....

i have sex wif her before...now the tyrsts are getting less often..O lv time..
well...can only see her once a while....
btw..i am married so cant DEVELOPE feelings opening.

[funlovingboy]

Yup, she sms about 830pm, then I call back and manage to talk for about half hour. Thing seem to be going fine at the moment. :D She told me while in hospital, her mother talk to her a lot of thing about us, but she never disclose what they talk about. Just have to wait and see.

bro, glad that everything turns out well, at least for now. here's a humble piece of advice for u, tread carefully in uncertain waters. good luck and take care.

[sexlover]

add your points for supporting me.
Thank for your support, but u still cant add my pts lah, cos your rep power is ‘0’, u add liao I also get nothing, now I have to wait for u to spread your rep pts to 1500 members before u can add me again. That is @4yrs plus down the road, if during then u see me again, remember to add me hor......... But now I will up u 7pts,,,,,, kekeke


bro, glad that everything turns out well, at least for now.
Thank bro,,,, in fact everything is still a big mystery and I am just taking a step at the time. Will not be rushing anything yet. May it turn out ‘good’ or ‘bad’.
I know I have done my best and thus I have no regret. Kekeke (Sound like William?)

[blade]

u have my support too bro..juz be careful...always... :cool:

[sexlover]

Hi there thank to all bro for advice and your opinion, it have been some time since I posted this thread.

Here is some updated of the event unfold.
Recently have been in touch with Xiao Xin quite often, she have been updating me of Xiao Xue…… Xiao Xue have choose to listen to her mother’s advise :mad: ,,, as such nothing will happen between us. She says unless I am staying in China, or else thing is going to be difficult. There is no question why she choose to listen to her mother, after all I have known only for a short period.

Just realize Xiao Xin’s is just older than Xiao Xue by two days,,,,,, Xin is on 15th Oct and Xue is 17th Oct,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Xiao Xin suggested I make a trip there during their birthday and she will bring me around sight seeing (She will ask Xue also),,,, but I told her cant promise now,,, will let her know when the time come.

Will updated if there is new development.

Thank to those bro who up my pts,,, :D

[plman2002]

ask Xue also),,,, but I told her cant promise now,,, will let her know when the time come.

Will updated if there is new development.

Thank to those bro who up my pts,,, :D

Yo bro, long time no see.
want to go tu giu with me the pa jiao man. kekeke
call or sms me.
the love path is always not even one lah.
but patience will melt her heart one day with yr sincerity.

cheers,

[sexlover]

the love path is always not even one lah.
but patience will melt her heart one day with yr sincerity.
cheers,

命里有时终需有，命里无时没强求

Me '火焰山‘ meet her mother ‘铁扇公主’ using ‘巴蕉扇’,,,,,,, I also 'bo bian' kekeke :D

[plman2002]

命里有时终需有，命里无时没强求

Me '火焰山‘ meet her mother ‘铁扇公主’ using ‘巴蕉扇’,,,,,,, I also 'bo bian' kekeke :D


那你就要找孙悟空帮你的忙！齐天大圣，神通广大。
至于它是谁，你就要去找咯。

All the best.

[sexlover]

那你就要找孙悟空帮你的忙！齐天大圣，神通广大。
至于它是谁，你就要去找咯。


I nominate 'ba yee Lament' to be 牛魔王，he is 铁扇公主's husband,,,,,,, :D

[sexlover]

bro, if u r single and able, then go work in china and be with her. take it as an experience if it fails but if u dun do it now, u will sit alone at nite wondering "what if" many many years ago.

i did not do enuf to chase the girl of my dreams and until today, i still ask myself "what if". not that i will want her now cos im married with kids (happily but we always long for the other side cos it is greener mah) but some things cannot be answered later. only u can decide the answer.

go visit her. find work in china to show ur sincerity. at worst, things dun work out, u can come back to sg. single and free, why not??? i have an ex colleague... he quit his job with a "to die for" company in uk juz to follow his gf to sg. gf is local sg gal, he is ang moh. 1+ years later, when they broke up, he packed his bag and went back to uk. when i asked him is it worth it, he juz smiled and said, "never try never know. i dont want to go to my grave with unanswered questions.". yup that made me cry as flashes of my own failure came back...
Seriously speaking, I am still not so adventurous like your 'Ang Mo' friend,,, it could be due to our asian upbringing.
It is too risky for me to make that move right now,,,, but i will definately explore that option if need arises then.
Thank bro :D 7pts for u,,,,, u will get your rep power of 6pt kekeke

[snooker]

bro, if u r single and able, then go work in china and be with her. take it as an experience if it fails but if u dun do it now, u will sit alone at nite wondering "what if" many many years ago.

I agree, if not you may live the rest of your life regretting this moment for not making the move.

In life, it's about LOVE and sacrifices! At least you've tried...
Wish you all the best

[blade]

Here is some updated of the event unfold.
Recently have been in touch with Xiao Xin quite often, she have been updating me of Xiao Xue…… Xiao Xue have choose to listen to her mother’s advise :mad: ,,, as such nothing will happen between us. She says unless I am staying in China, or else thing is going to be difficult. There is no question why she choose to listen to her mother, after all I have known only for a short period.

staying at china oso hard by that situation..the mother may oso not allow her to see u lor..muz rein help from the sis to pacify her mum..buy into her gd books :cool:
all the best bro

[sexlover]

I agree, if not you may live the rest of your life regretting this moment for not making the move.
In life, it's about LOVE and sacrifices! At least you've tried...
Wish you all the best
Risk & sacrifices is fine with me, there is always a Chinese saying “ba zi mei yi pie”,,, if I take risk now, it’s bound for doomday of me. I will become a dead Valentino. At least if I am at ‘one and half s+++e toward ba zi’,,,,, it will sound more sensible for me to make the move. :cool:

staying at china oso hard by that situation..the mother may oso not allow her to see u lor..muz rein help from the sis to pacify her mum..buy into her gd books
all the best bro
That I what feel too,,,, if even Xiao Xue don’t want to meet me then,,,, I will really “bang wall die” :eek: ……..

[canny]

Hey brother

If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.

If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.

[blade]

Hey brother

If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.

If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.
dump everything and just eat bread?its easy to say yet hard to do.....

[sexlover]

Hey brother
If more sillypore gers can meet more like u this type of guys, I think the sillpore goverment will not fred over we no people wan to marry.
If fact all guys think sillypore gers wan $, power or etc. BUt to some (like me), its the thoughs that count. If i ever come across a guy like sexlover, i will just dump everything, $ or power just to be with that guy. Even just eat bread.
Thank canny,,, thru your post I assume that u are female, u seem to be the 1st female post in my thread, hope to hear more female’s view, anyway thank for the compliment.
Hopefully u are not having the impression it is just another sg guy going after another foreign girl.
I would say it is in general Sg girl go for $, power,,,,,etc,,,,,, not all ,,, u may be the exceptional one. Wish u all the best in your search for the right one.
Human by nature don’t really like routine, between sg male and sg girl, I would say it could be due to our common upbringing & cultural,,, that make relationship between us lose the novelty appeal. However when foreigner is involve,,,, everything seem very refreshing. That could be why it becoming very common this day,,,, in fact it is also very common for differ race mixed within the local.
Dump everything to be with guy like me??? Don’t sound realistic too,,,,, wait u everyday want to eat “RotiBoy” @1.20each,, or Big Mac,,,,, guy like me also will die ,,,, kekeke

[blade]

That I what feel too,,,, if even Xiao Xue don’t want to meet me then,,,, I will really “bang wall die”
if she really don wanna see you..then is you yuan wu fen liaoz..either juz forget abt it(v hard la) or as u say bang wall die(this one not hard onli the wall v hard) :p

but still have to try la..since the sister oso seems so supportive..maybe she see tat her xiao xue oso likes u...

but still the old phase..always be careful lor.. u nv know wat they are thinking :cool:

[sexlover]

Here is some add on which I have done,,,, I already remit some money to Xiao Xin,,,, I ask her to help to order 19 pink roses to be deliver to Xiao Xue every 1st of month till their birthday,,,,,, will wait till then to see what is my next step.
In China, they like 19, 29 or 99 roses,,, they have special meaning which Xiao Xin did explain, but I forgot. Each rose cost RMB@$10 .

At least I have done something to make thing happen, I believe this sound more sensible for the time being then to move over and work now…..
1st Apr----- Get to Know each other
1st May---- Wrote this thread
1st Jun----- Sent 19 pink roses
1st Jul------ Sent 19 pink roses
1st Aug----- Sent 19 pink roses
1st Sep----- Sent 19 pink roses
1st Oct----- Sent 19 pink roses
17th Oct-------- Still a big mystery,,,,,,,, will wait and see.

Hope to see some positive reaction after the 1st instalment is deliver.. :D

[sexlover]

if she really don wanna see you..then is you yuan wu fen liaoz..either juz forget abt it(v hard la) or as u say bang wall die(this one not hard onli the wall v hard)
but still have to try la..since the sister oso seems so supportive..maybe she see tat her xiao xue oso likes u...
but still the old phase..always be careful lor.. u nv know wat they are thinking
Her sister is more or less standing by her mother side,,,, it is Xiao Xin who is supportive,,,,,, Xiao Xin is her cousin. :cool:

[blade]

Her sister is more or less standing by her mother side,,,, it is Xiao Xin who is supportive,,,,,, Xiao Xin is her cousin. :cool:
haha my mistake..i muz have misread some where...cousin then a little "nan gao" cos cousin normally not so close lor...try ur best thou

[Mark26]

I would say it is in general Sg girl go for $, power,,,,,etc,,,,,, not all ,,, u may be the exceptional one. Wish u all the best in your search for the right one.
Human by nature don’t really like routine, between sg male and sg girl, I would say it could be due to our common upbringing & cultural,,

bro, i don agreed on your statement. I know a few ladies that would give up everything just to be wif love one..as long as their love was reciprocated.(including my wife)...
thus...i also know lots of PRC would want to bluff your love for $$$$$
its a dog eat dog world...

Everywhere got villains and also angels..
but i definitely not the one..from heaven

[sexlover]

bro, i don agreed on your statement. I know a few ladies that would give up everything just to be wif love one..as long as their love was reciprocated.(including my wife)...
Sorry bro ,,, that is just my view in general,,, but i do agree with u that there are some will give up everything to be with love one, however that may only form a handful out of the total female population in Sg. Glad that u have found yours :)

[Mark26]

Good to find mine.
but i kinda greedy....and unsextified with this..and ask for more that how i got tangled with a young PRC student...
sometime they Kao Pei Kao Bu..and insensitive but they meant good for us..
but we are polygynous :D

[sexlover]

Good Morning Everybody

Just some updated to share for those who have follow thru my story.
I wish to thank everybody for the support and advice.

I wish to say that every good thing have to come to an end.

This part of my life will forever be living in my memories. With regard to sending of roses, this coming 1st June will be the 1st instalment and the last, there will never be any more follow up.

Once again, thank for all the support.

[nismo88]

take it easy bro......
look at it from a diff point of view....
mayb a new chapter in yr life is just beginning now.....
so CHeers to u for your new found life......
I believe u will look ahead from now on... :) onli my 2 cents

[sexlover]

Just when i thought everything is over yesterday morning.

Another shocking discovery of this whole story unfold, yesterday (25/05/2005) afternoon at 1515hrs, i received a sms from 小欣 which read "如果我说希欢你，你信吗?“(If i tell u i like u, do u believe me?). Initially i brush it off and thought it was just a joke by her. Last night while talking to her on the phone, I act blur as if i never receive it, but she ask me again, which i never give any answer yet. I told her that I am not in the right frame of mind decide on anything yet. In fact this few week, I have communicate with her quite often due to 小雪，she say she know what type of person I am now, and I am the right type of guy she is looking for.

Will wait and see where the story end...................... :confused:

(Anybody who thought that I have make up this part to spice up the story could verify with me (On my phone SMS) if u happen to be at Jazzy 51)

[japboy]

Just when i thought everything is over yesterday morning.

i wanna verify~!... kekekke... wow liaoz bro... pple r looking at u as a chi qin man..... love a gal soo much... until another gal wants 2 b in her shoes oso.... n prehaps get a betta life in singapore?????.....

jz play d wait n see game~!!!! :D

[et911]

Just when i thought everything is over yesterday morning.


Bro, mai tu liao. Ask her to come to Singapore to visit you.. and den you can pia till you drop.

Remember, home game hor.. dont play away. Good luck!

[nismo88]

Just when i thought everything is over yesterday morning.

Another shocking discovery of this whole story unfold,
Bro sexlover..... i so chun meh.... jus post n say u found new found life n chun chun u post say her cousin like u......
like tio beh bio man.....
anyway good luck to u.....
Cheers Bro.... :)

[blade]

haha maybe not tio beh bio lehz..later is juz a test? :cool:

[i'mscrewed]

haha maybe not tio beh bio lehz..later is juz a test? :cool:


I agree with you man, it could be a test of theirs. Anyway, Bro Sexlover, I'm not sure about you, but even if its true, I don't think its advisable to get into this relationship. The two girls are too closely related.

[sexlover]

i wanna verify~!... kekekke... wow liaoz bro.
No problem, will let u verify when we meet.

Bro, mai tu liao. Ask her to come to Singapore to visit you.. and den you can pia till you drop.Remember, home game hor. dont play away. Good luck!
I told her she should visit Sg for holiday,,,, she ask me how much is the hotel rate in Sg,,,, I said the cheapest @$40-$50/day,,,,, she say wahhhh so exp at @RMB200….. But I never offer to pay anything at all…. Kekeke Wait and see first.
Then she say I should visit her hometown at JiLing,,,, she say the scenery there very nice, esp during winter….. I said I may go during my birthday in January (cos never see real snow before)….. Then I ask her what is the hotel rate there,,,,, she say why want to stay hotel? Can stay at her house mah. Kekeke very ‘pai say’ cos I never offer to let her stay my place.

Bro sexlover..... i so chun meh.... jus post n say u found new found life n chun chun u post say her cousin like u......like tio beh bio man
For your info, I nearly tio 1st prize,,,, I buy 8463 but KNN open 8263,,,, only buy small small lar,,,, if strike also not a lot.
But last night, that Liverpool make me happy man,,,, cos I only like to buy upset type of odd (Use pen knife to saw big tree),,,,,, I bought correct score 3-1($20),,,,, 1-3($20),,,,, 2-2($10) and 3-3($10)……. Slept at 2am, thought want to wake up to watch the match,,,, but wake up that time already 2nd half @57mins Score 3-2,,,,,,, at 60min 3-3,,,, knn really sian half liao,,,,, Hurry off the TV and sleep liao,,,,, Haha but wake up @7am happy like fxxx,,, cos FT 3-3,,,,, win $800-$50 = $750,….

haha maybe not tio beh bio lehz..later is juz a test? :cool:

I agree with you man, it could be a test of theirs. Anyway, Bro Sexlover, I'm not sure about you, but even if its true, I don't think its advisable to get into this relationship. The two girls are too closely related.
No idea whether it is a test yet,,,,, but thru communication today,,,, she seem to be very serious and Xue is totally out of the pix….They are real cousin,,,, Xin is older than Xue by just 2 days (15th Oct & 17th Oct),,,,, But I said wait and see first….



Just some brief fact on Xin,,,, she is the only daughter. And in term of look, I would say she is slightly better than Xue…. She is currently attach to a China Guy for @one week plus,,, hahaha actually she was attach to this guy becos I encourage her @two weeks ago. When I started to talk to her more often that time regarding Xue’s matter,,, I ask how come she don’t have BF,,,,, she say actually there is a guy going after her for quite some time and treat her very nice,,,,,, then I ask her ‘what is she waiting for’,,,,, she say she is still considering,,,,, then I told her,,,, just accept first then u will know whether suitable or not (Need to be in the water to learn swimming)…. Eventually she take my advise…
Last night, I ask her why she say she like me when already have BF,,,, she say realize he is not the type she is looking for… and she say like me becos I very ‘zhong qin yi’,,,, and thru this few week of communication, she know I am not a bad guy…….
Then I then test her, what happen if we really together and her parent object,,, she say if she choose to hold on,,,, her parent will agree eventually.
Then I told her,,, in that case,,,,, be it with/without me,,,, she better make a clean break with him first. Cos I also scare if one day i ever go China,, wait he take parang and chase me,,, I really die. :D

[blade]

haha find out more then :cool: and hor tio beh bio muz treat us lehz..haha so even tio don say :D

[sexlover]

haha find out more then and hor tio beh bio muz treat us lehz..haha so even tio don say
Ok will keep everybody update on the event,,,,,,, 4D really bo tio lar,,,,, miss by only one nos,,,,,, but if tio will say one,,,,, only whether will treat or not still dont know kekekeke :D :D



Actually she also say if sound very weird,,,, cos initially she is suppose to help me on Xue matter,,,,, then I help to encourage her to get attach with that guy,,,, and now she like me becos I very 'zhong qin yi'...... Seem very messy,,,,, "Yin cha yang cuo'' hahaha

[nismo88]

For your info, I nearly tio 1st prize,,,, I buy 8463 but KNN open 8263,,,, only buy small small lar,,,, if strike also not a lot.
But last night, that Liverpool make me happy man,,,, cos I only like to buy upset type of odd (Use pen knife to saw big tree),,,,,, I bought correct score 3-1($20),,,,, 1-3($20),,,,, 2-2($10) and 3-3($10)……. Slept at 2am, thought want to wake up to watch the match,,,, but wake up that time already 2nd half @57mins Score 3-2,,,,,,, at 60min 3-3,,,, knn really sian half liao,,,,, Hurry off the TV and sleep liao,,,,, Haha but wake up @7am happy like fxxx,,, cos FT 3-3,,,,, win $800-$50 = $750,….
Bro whether is test or not.... this Xin seems to bring u some luck leh.... i m sure yr winnings of $750 can let u buy a ticket n fly there oredi..... then get lucky n have more screw..... at the same time if Xue see u there again who know if her Love Fire will burn for u again..... .... emm... maybe that time 1 trip kill 2 birds..... kekekeke :D onli my 2 cents...

[blade]

Bro whether is test or not.... this Xin seems to bring u some luck leh.... i m sure yr winnings of $750 can let u buy a ticket n fly there oredi..... then get lucky n have more screw..... at the same time if Xue see u there again who know if her Love Fire will burn for u again..... .... emm... maybe that time 1 trip kill 2 birds..... kekekeke :D onli my 2 cents...
haha one trip kill 2 birds later come back even more headache :cool: take the xin thing slow man..

[sexlover]

Bro whether is test or not.... this Xin seems to bring u some luck leh.... i m sure yr winnings of $750 can let u buy a ticket n fly there oredi..... then get emm... maybe that time 1 trip kill 2 birds..... kekekeke onli my 2 cents...
haha one trip kill 2 birds later come back even more headache take the xin thing slow man..

Now must act cool first,,,,,, wait and see,,,, cos really don’t know got any hidden agenda or not. Normally suddenly fly in “Yan Fu” must be very cautious. Hopefully she bring me luck to strike 4D this Sat&Sun, then most likely will fly there during Oct for her birthday. If manage kill two birds, come back really have more headache.

[aloha34]

yo bro,
thx for adding my pts. dun forget me wen u wanna cia jia okie. :D
after following thru,it never occur 2 me tat u also a chi qing han. respect you for tat.
anyway i tink its still early 2 come to a decision yet. better to jing guan qi bian.nevertheless if you really decided 2 fly let me know la, i can help u 2 secure good rates. :p

[sexlover]

yo bro,
thx for adding my pts. dun forget me wen u wanna cia jia okie.
读了我的故事没给钱还要我请吃？ 春卷你的落米鸡。 我不是痴情汉，，，， 你不觉得我比较像是‘秦汉’ 遇到 ‘林凤娇’ 和 ‘林清霞’ 吗？ 哈哈哈。 :D

[aloha34]

hi bro plman2002,
thx 4 upping my pts. juz return yur favour also. much appct :cool:

[et911]

I told her she should visit Sg for holiday,,,, she ask me how much is the hotel rate in Sg,,,, I said the cheapest @$40-$50/day,,,,, she say wahhhh so exp at @RMB200….. But I never offer to pay anything at all…. Kekeke Wait and see first.

Leave the hotel booking to me. I will arrange for you, cheaper also possible. Just get her to come..

If can bring another gal.. :D

[sexlover]

if you really decided 2 fly let me know la, i can help u 2 secure good rates.

Leave the hotel booking to me. I will arrange for you, cheaper also possible. Just get her to come. If can bring another gal.

Thk,,,,Two area well taken care of,,,,,,, now any ‘Ah long’ around? Kekeke :D

[et911]

Thk,,,,Two area well taken care of,,,,,,, now any ‘Ah long’ around? Kekeke

Actually there are lah.. just look hard enough.. not nice for me to say their names out.. :D

BTW, the expenses not tat high to need ah long's help lah.. At max 500 - 800 for about a week's stay, including makan, not including shopping of course.

[sexlover]

not nice for me to say their names out..
Wahhh :eek: ,,,, dont know nowaday Ah Long also got surf SBF,kekeke :D

[et911]

Wahhh :eek: ,,,, dont know nowaday Ah Long also got surf SBF,kekeke :D

Oh you would be surprised..

[blade]

so bro any updates? :cool:

[sexlover]

so bro any updates?
Thk for the concern. Not much new development and communication for one week plus, cos Xiao Xin is currently in another province, phone line charge is more expensive for her as have to pay roaming charge. She is working as Makeup Artist and follow the filming group there.
Communication mostly thru QQ, She will be back in Beijing on this coming Sat. Anyway don’t think there will be new development soon, cos she haven’t settle her BF issue, according to her, she already told her BF she want to break but he refuse and say he will change. Just wait and see. :confused:

[sexxay_sexxay]

actually, i was from an all-girls' schools for both my primary and secondary school lives. so, i guess i can accurately say that not all girls are materialistic. of course it'll be nice if the one we love, can afford luxuries for us, but if it is not meant to be, then i guess, money is secondary.
i'm a singaporean, and i'm still pursuing my degree in a local university, yet, i've been with my rather-uneducated malaysian boyfriend ever since i was 16. i'm an only child, and my parents are both working. i can be considered to be in the upper-middle class, yet i did not choose someone from the same class as i am. i do believe in true love, though at times i do lament for my boyfriend to be richer. he earns only $1,500, whereas i, by giving part time tuition, can earn the same amount of money. my family has all 5 Cs: Condo, Car, Credit, Cash and Clubs. my father is a member of various clubs too. and no, i'm not boasting here. i'm not rich, but i'm average.
therefore, i'd like guys here to know that, not all singaporean girls are materialistic, and only choose boyfriends who can give them diamonds. the more educated singaporean girls, go only for the one they love, for we can afford our own Tiffany's.:)

[sexlover]

actually, i was from an all-girls' schools for both my primary and secondary school lives.
Wow,,, second lady in my thread,,, thank for the support,,, and this is your 1st Virigin Post in the Forum. Muahhhh :D Welcome to SBF.
I agree with your pt, but at time it depend on who we met along the way.

[et911]

actually, i was from an all-girls' schools for both my primary and secondary school lives.

Waur you like that post your PM box sure full later.. :D

[sexlover]

Waur you like that post your PM box sure full later..
Too bad I study at mixed school all the way,,,, maybe girl school have better girl,,,,, kekeke :D ,,,,,, and I no chance to go Univ becos they feel I too good and clever liao,,,, no need to study anymore,,,, must start work ASAP,,,, so I lan lan have to work after my 'A'........ :(

[et911]

Too bad I study at mixed school all the way,,,, maybe girl school have better girl,,,,, kekeke :D ,,,,,, and I no chance to go Univ becos they feel I too good and clever liao,,,, no need to study anymore,,,, must start work ASAP,,,, so I lan lan have to work after my 'A'........ :(

Hello before you confuse the old man further.. you ta por or char bo??

I am one who does not believe in papers. The staff I employ possess O or A levels only (some N levels).. they are as good workers as any of the U grads I have employed last time.

[sexlover]

Hello before you confuse the old man further.. you ta por or char bo??
Of course,,,Hammer,,,,,, just becos I change avatar to Xiao Xin,,, u cant recongnise me ahhh?

[GoForIt]

bro ur story machiam those taiwan love story very interesting,should be beri taxing to maintain such relationship.

didn't know dat x factor have such a powerful impact.

all the best wishes 4u ;)

[sexlover]

machiam those taiwan love story,taxing to maintain such relationship. x factor.
Agree,,,, big headache,,,,,, x-factor I also dont know how to define ,,,, kekeke :D

[et911]

Of course,,,Hammer,,,,,, just becos I change avatar to Xiao Xin,,, u cant recongnise me ahhh?

I thought I read that you would like to study in a gal's school... actually I would love too as well.. I would become the centre of attraction as there are no other tui.. :D

[et911]

Xiao Xin

The one you like or the one who likes you?? Me old liao, memory fading..

[sexlover]

I thought I read that you would like to study in a gal's school..
Old man,,, eyes got 'flower' liao ahhh :D

Xiao Xue is the one I like,,,,, Xiao Xin is cousin who help me, and like me.... But actually they are not cousin,,,,, Xiao Xin told me,,, becos they got slight resemble,,, so a lot of ppl ask,,, that why they play along.

[saint_1979]

Xiao Xue is the one whom he likes. Xiao Xin is the one who likes him. :D

[MoonBlaze]

..of course it'll be nice if the one we love, can afford luxuries for us, but if it is not meant to be, then i guess, money is secondary.....i'm a singaporean, and i'm still pursuing my degree in a local university, yet, i've been with my rather-uneducated malaysian boyfriend ever since i was 16. i'm an only child, and my parents are both working. i can be considered to be in the upper-middle class, yet i did not choose someone from the same class as i am. i do believe in true love, though at times i do lament for my boyfriend to be richer. he earns only $1,500, whereas i, by giving part time tuition, can earn the same amount of money. my family has all 5 Cs....therefore, i'd like guys here to know that, not all singaporean girls are materialistic, and only choose boyfriends who can give them diamonds. the more educated singaporean girls, go only for the one they love, for we can afford our own Tiffany's.:)Sis Sexxay2, the welcome to SBF is already given by the threadstarter, so i will do away with it. Not meant to pour cold water over your passion for your guy but got to say this...At this time like this, money may not mean that much and importance to you....for now.... After your graduation, launched into the working world, when you draw a salary maybe more than your guy, guys with better qualities come hitting on you....then things will set both of you for a test. Weather it through and probably the R/S will have a rock solid foundation.....You are still young and take your time to find your true love....it may be somewhere along the road ahead or someone that had being with you all along...Dun commit too early....Good Luck Cheers!!! :)

[sexlover]

guys with better qualities come hitting on you....then things will set both of you for a test.
Yeah bro, seen very often,,, also peer pressure play a big part...... :cool:
Only Time will tell............ :confused:

[japboy]

i'm a singaporean, and i'm still pursuing my degree in a local university, yet, i've been with my rather-uneducated malaysian boyfriend ever since i was 16. i'm an only child, and my parents are both working. i can be considered to be in the upper-middle class, yet i did not choose someone from the same class as i am. i do believe in true love, though at times i do lament for my boyfriend to be richer. he earns only $1,500, whereas i, by giving part time tuition, can earn the same amount of money. my family has all 5 Cs: Condo, Car, Credit, Cash and Clubs.
therefore, i'd like guys here to know that, not all singaporean girls are materialistic, and only choose boyfriends who can give them diamonds. the more educated singaporean girls, go only for the one they love, for we can afford our own Tiffany's.

i'm still trying to decide whether to be nice to u because u r a gal (as all r buayas here) o u r naive til a laughable stage.

as show above, i have highlighted d key words which contradicts wat u sed abt singaporean gals not being materialistic n loving for d sake of loving n not for money...

in ur post above, u oreadi lament him for the following:
a) he's a Malaysian
b) rather-uneducated;
c) for being lower than upper-middle class;
d) he only earns $1,500 nett;
e) he dun have 5Cs;
f) he can't afford Tiffany's for u.

if u really love him for wat he is, you could and should have put it in a better way.

i think dat u r jz trying to prove a useless pt which u dun even believe it deep down in ur heart it's true, dat all singaporean gals r not materialistic.

if i have a singaporean gal as well.. i'm sure she'll neber write abt me in dis way even if i'm all of d above, as loving sum one doesn't only means announcing it to everyone but also showing it in every little things dat u do, n dat's including writing a post describing him...

i think u really have to think abt whether u r w him out of convience o dat u really love him for wat he is....

u may think dat dis post is bullshit but think abt wat i've pointed out to u n rethink ur love life... dat is to prevent both of u from wasting time.... ta

[sexlover]

u r naive til a laughable stage.
When the Pro speak,,,,, everybody listen,,,,, kekekeke :D

[japboy]

When the Pro speak,,,,, everybody listen,,,,,

nbz.... dun anyhow sed... i'm pai seh oreadi.. jz stating d facts only... :D

[blade]

Old man,,, eyes got 'flower' liao ahhh :D

Xiao Xue is the one I like,,,,, Xiao Xin is cousin who help me, and like me.... But actually they are not cousin,,,,, Xiao Xin told me,,, becos they got slight resemble,,, so a lot of ppl ask,,, that why they play along.
haha im getting messy here...so they are just frens???? :confused:

[sexlover]

haha im getting messy here...so they are just frens?
Yap,,, u are right ,,,Xiao Xue & Xiao Xin are just friend,,,, just becos they got slightly resemble,,,, ppl always ask them are they sister,,,, so since they have differ surname,,, they just play along and say they are cousin..... :D

I only happen to know it last week cos Xiao Xin told me,,, :D

[blade]

Yap,,, u are right ,,,Xiao Xue & Xiao Xin are just friend,,,, just becos they got slightly resemble,,,, ppl always ask them are they sister,,,, so since they have differ surname,,, they just play along and say they are cousin.....
I only happen to know it last week cos Xiao Xin told me,,, :D
oh...kinda messy haha...so now no new liao la?ur heart goes out to which one? :cool:

[sexlover]

oh...kinda messy haha...so now no new liao la?ur heart goes out to which one?
Xiao Xue completely out of pix liao,,,, but still no idea whether anything can be development with Xiao Xin yet :confused: .

Just have to wait and see. As i mention in earlier post, sudden fly in 艳福 might be risky. :(

[blade]

Xiao Xue completely out of pix liao,,,, but still no idea whether anything can be development with Xiao Xin yet.

Just have to wait and see. As i mention in earlier post, sudden fly in 艳福 might be risky.
completely out of the picture le?u gave up hopes on it le ar?ya lor yan fu sudden come v suspicious..the picture blur blur lehz..hee :cool:

[GoForIt]

in here machiam following those love story dramma,chasing one episode by episode.............

S-exlover
E-pensive
X-factor

wish u well & get interesting story for us to follow :cool:

[sexlover]

completely out of the picture le? u gave up hopes on it le ar?
Yap, Xiao Xue completely out now. Xiao Xin come into the pix one day after Xiao Xue is out.

in here machiam following those love story dramma,chasing one episode by episode...
Ya,,, there is another story going on by ‘Harrier24B’,,,, just saw today morning he kena zapped when he is too busy to write story……. Hahaha :D …. Hopefully I never kena the same treatment…… Anyway my story has come to an end,,,,, now is just tying those loose end,,, kekeke. :D

[raiders]

Yap, Xiao Xue completely out now. Xiao Xin come into the pix one day after Xiao Xue is out.



Boss, I got lobang (as mentioned in my thread) Got xianYAN, you want? :D

[sexlover]

Got xianYAN, you want?
Like that my story very difficult to end,,, kekeke :D

[sexlover]

Hi guy,,,, I hereby declared that ‘Sexlover’s True Story’ have to come to an end,,,,, there will not be any more follow up by me in this thread, unless really necessary…… Thank all bro for those support and advise.

Just to related to all what actually happen…..

For the past two weeks,,,, Xiao Xin seem to be very busy,,,, simply no time just to talk.

Last nite,,, I receive a sms from Xiao Xin requesting to borrow S$200/- cos she say recently she had not been working and have cash flow problem,,,, she claim she will return it back ASAP.

I then reply her : I believe she should approach her BF for help,,,, since he know her better,,,, and I think she have sent the msg wrongly to me.

Her reply : She is recently quite busy with work,,,,, quite long never together with him already….

I then fxxx her upside down,,,, cos she is just talking cxxk,,,, initial msg say she is not working recently,,,, then say she is busy with work…. What the Fxxk? And that “quite long never together” means what? Too busy to meet or Already Breakup….. ?

From then,,, no more reply by her,,,, kekeke :D

Just a warning to all bro venturing into foreign land,,,,,, this sort of scenario is very common……….. U have to know where to put a stop…… or u will live to regret…
Good Luck To All

[japboy]

Hi guy,,,, I hereby declared that ‘Sexlover’s True Story’ have to come to an end,,,,, there will not be any more follow up by me in this thread, unless really necessary…… Thank all bro for those support and advise.

so in a nutshell, both Xiao Xue fades away while Xiao Xin is looking for robert heads but didn't manage to chop dat robert head of urs. Story ends.. congrates!!! :eek: :D

[sexlover]

Story ends.. congrates!!!
Cbzzzzzzzz,,,, u very happy ahhh? kekeke :D

Actually in my impression,,,, Xiao Xue is still the best,,,, if only her mother never come into the pix....... I doubt she is a "chopper" or else she wouldnt have listen to her mother.... :rolleyes:

[japboy]

Actually in my impression,,,, Xiao Xue is still the best,,,, if only her mother never come into the pix......

well, brudder.. i'm jz happy dat d whole episoid ended so fast..

another side of story... Xiao Xue n Xiao Xin r "choppers" but Xiao Xue found sum one she likes n can't bear 2 chop dat robert head of urs n hence came up w loads of excuses for Xiao Xin to continue w d "job"... but it ended unsuccessfully.... kekeke....

wanna write dis way but scare hurt ur feelings n hence came up w a hypotheically situation like dis loh... :eek: :D

[sexlover]

wanna write dis way but scare hurt ur feelings n hence came up w a hypotheically situation like dis loh...
Two week ago,,,, I believe Xiao Xue know @ this incident,,,,, she already sms me say ""Dont trust anybody"".... I ask her is she refering to dont trust Xiao Xin,,,,, but she dont want to reply. All this while,,,,, I am just waiting for Xiao Xin's trick to show up,,,, finally it arrived last nite..... :D

[fun4evergood]

As summary, it is a good lesson learnt for brothers......dun fall into their KC trap ..... :)

[sexlover]

As summary, it is a good lesson learnt for brothers......dun fall into their KC trap

Yap,,,,, that is my reason of posting all the event which unfold........ This is indeed a good lesson learn,,,,,, just for your info,,,, I made some profit from this event ,,,,,,,, kekeke :D ,,,,,, cos i am a 'bay pio siao',,,,, strike 4D a few time thru nos which they provide like NRIC and others,,,, kekeke,,,, overall I make $$$,,,,, hahaha

I also dont know why ,,,, my luck always come when with any girl I get to know ,,,,, that day just miss cue on the year of born (Hebei girl in another thread)

I think that is what we called ''Chee Hong Luck",,, :D

[MoonBlaze]

Hi guy,,,, I hereby declared that ‘Sexlover’s True Story’ have to come to an end,,,,, there will not be any more follow up by me in this thread, unless really necessary…… Thank all bro for those support and advise. In a way, i believe it is a good ending. You did not fall into the nonsense trap set by Xiao Xin and both you and Xiao Xue will retain fond memories of your short live romance. Cheer Up!!! :)

[sexlover]

fond memories of your short live romance. Cheer Up!!!
Yeah,,, I will never forget the scene at "Ghost Street" :rolleyes: It is just too beautiful.

[fun4evergood]

,,,,,, cos i am a 'bay pio siao',,,,, strike 4D a few time thru nos which they provide like NRIC and others,,,, kekeke,,,, overall I make $$$,,,,, hahaha
I think that is what we called ''Chee Hong Luck",,, :D

nabei.....next time can PM me some numbers.....I buy big big tooo.....never ganna before leh... :)

[sexlover]

I buy big big tooo.....never ganna before leh... :)

Never strike big ""chai"" lah,,,,, only small small,,,, but overall still make small amount,,,,,,, if i know which nos will open,,,,, i also lut big big liao,,, kekeke

[blade]

hey...lucky u =) it ended without much hassle :cool:

[xiaolibiantai]

Bro sexlover;
Just to share, ShanDong people are super stubborn.The way u describe her Mum proves me right. Coz my gf also from there. Her parents super disapprove our relationship. :D

[sexlover]

hey...lucky u =) it ended without much hassle
得不到的东西永远是最珍贵最美好的，这段故事永远会留在我心中，难以忘怀。 :(

Bro sexlover;Just to share, ShanDong people are super stubborn.The way u describe her Mum proves me right.
So u with your GF now,,, still together,,, or is it bye bye liao?
I think unless we are like that movie by played Jackie Chan & Shu Qi,,,,,,, in that show,,, Jackie played a very rich guy,, he manage to melt Shu Qi’s parent heart, kekeke…. :D

[O2-XDA]

得不到的东西永远是最珍贵最美好的，这段故事永远会留在我心中，难以忘怀。 :(


bro sexlover, have been reading your stories about xiao xue/xin...mabe is a good thing for such ending...but you sure have a interesting memory :D

anyway, all the best to you!!!!

[EatNDrink]

Its time to write a story .. hopefully brothers here will like it and up my points (I need more points to survive here)

Some of the storyline below are real …

1985, Ben (not his real name) was in his secondary three … like all the other growing boys, his physical body, including his sex organ began to develop .. and he has then started to think about those girls in his class, especially the few pretty looking girls. Sometimes, at night, he would even dream about having wild sex with a few of them, and that would make him, waking up in the middle of the night, stroking himself, till he cum ..

One day, Ben’s form teacher, a retiree teacher announced to the class .. ‘after your mid-year examination, you wouldn’t been seeing me anymore, as I would be retiring in July.’ ‘Why? Cant you stay until end of the year?’ Some of the girls, who are this old-man’s pet exclaimed … but inside Ben’s mind, he was dying for this teacher to leave, reason is because this old man doesn’t know how to teach, and whole life only know how to sian girls ..

Mid year exam results out .. and as expected, Ben failed his Maths .. he couldn’t be bother, and he was only wishing and praying that the new teacher, who come and take over this old man could be better …

Time flies, after the June holidays, the first Maths period, the class (especially the boys) were all very glad, to see a pretty (chio) young lady teacher step in .. ‘Good morning, class, I would be your new Maths teacher .. My name is Ms XXX’ …

Ben was so glad that his ‘request’ was answered .. beside pretty and young, this new teacher is also quite busty … ‘good days ahead’ Ben thought to himself …

Now, Ben wouldn’t find Maths period very boring, in fact, he has been looking forward to his every Maths lessons .. sometimes this lady teacher would just stand beside Ben and explained problem sums to the class, without realizing that Ben was actually at the small opening of her shirt .. ‘nice mountain, how I wish I could have it’ Ben’s thots went wild ..
‘Ring, ring ….’ The school bells goes off, ‘Alright class, that’s all for today, if you still got any questions that you do not understand, feel free to come and look for me in the staff room …’ho-say liao, Ben exclaimed quietly, more chance to see ‘mountains’ … now Ben cant wait for the school to be over .. immediately when he heard the Bell rings, he was the first person to dash out of the class …

He went to the staff room, saw his beautiful ‘princess’ sitting there, marking papers, Ben cant help but stare at her shirt .. hoping that she didn’t button up all … “Phew!” slowly, he walked up to her table, ‘Ahem .. Ms XXX, I have some maths problems to ask …’ ‘Oh sure, which one?’ Ms XXX looked up, smiling at Ben, Ben felt his heart pump even faster .. ‘this chapter is pretty tough, I cant understand ..’ ‘no problem, stand closer and let me explained ..’

As Ben moved closer to Ms XXX, he realized that he can actually peep Ms XXX cleavage from his angle … his heart pump even faster … he noticed that Ms XXX was actually wearing a sexy red half-cup bra … his ‘brother’ immediately called to attention, so while Ms XXX was explaining the problem, Ben was actually not listening, but looking at her nice cleavage …

‘Ok, that how you do this sum .. understand?’ Ben suddenly awake by Ms XXX question, ‘Oh yes, yes!’ his face turned red … (good thing Ms XXX didn’t notice) ‘Thank you, Ms XXX’ .. as he stepped out of the staff room, his ‘brother’ was still hard, he know what his ‘brother’ wants

(More to come :D UP my points if u like the story)

[EatNDrink]

… as ben was loitering around the school compound … reflecting back what he has seen, he was smiling to himself, thinking, ‘how I wish I could have Ms XXX in bed one day?’ .. ‘HORN!’ Ben’s thots was awaken by a loud car-horn, a red sports car parking at the school car-park .. he wondered, ‘who a F is this joker?’ just then, he saw his dream-princess walking towards the car and there she goes in … both Ms XXX and the driver exchange a french kiss, and there they go …
Ben suddenly felt a strange feeling of jealously, “who is this man? Don’t tell me he is Ms XXX boyfriend?’
As Ben was walking out of the school, and along the way, he saw this man wearing sun-glasses, and walking towards him, ‘Young man, I’ve got something interesting for you, you like to take a look?’ Ben was still trying to figure what he was saying when this man started to drag him and they both walked towards a van, parking nearby. The man opened the door, and Ben saw boxes of vcds inside, ‘take your pick, cos u are my first customer, I charge you cheap cheap.’ Ben cant help but start to go through every piece of vcds inside, lots of different titles, including teacher and students, rape school teacher, etc, etc. Ben picked up all those titles related to teachers, and pay the man, he then carefully keep the vcds inside his bag, and goes home ..
In the afternoon, nobody is at home, so Ben got all the house to himself, he cant wait to change, immediately he opened up his bag and take out all the porno vcds he bought, and started watching them … his ‘brother’ stands as he watch, and his imagination started to run wild .. thinking abt Ms XXX and the man who drives the red sport car, what would they be doing now? They could be checking into a hotel, and making love inside … As Ben was thinking, he was at the same time pulling down his pants and stroking his hard dick …
After watching almost all the vcds, Ben was real hard, especially in watching the last one, where the teacher and one of her students were alone in the staff room, and how the student turned into ‘monster’ and rape the teacher .. that story makes Ben even wilder .. ‘if I can do the same thing to Ms XXX’ Ben started laughing loudly …
The next day was a Saturday, so the school doesn’t required them to wear school uniforms, Ben especially like to go to school on Saturday, because he enjoyed sitting in the school field, gazing at those girls playing basketball and jogging .. his eyes were always be fixing at their breast, and he gets horny when he see them bouncing up and down …
As he was still enjoying what he sees, he saw Ms XXX walking past wearing a V cut t-shirt and shorts ... he realised that at this point, he really cannot ta-han anymore , so he dashed right into the toilet, into a cubicle, and there he pcc ... unloaded all his sperms, while fantasy fucking Ms XXX inside the toilet ...

[EatNDrink]

.. After unloading, Ben quickly washed up and make his way to the school gate … as he was walking, he heard someone shouting for him, he turned around and saw his female classmate, Joanna … Joanna was one of the classmates that Ben lust after, she got a pretty nice body, with breasts that are just handful …
“Yes Joanna’ “Are you rushing off? If not, care to join us for lunch?” Joanna was walking towards Ben, and Ben really cant help but stared at her wet t-shirt, showing her body-curve. Again his brother stands up straight … “Sure, why not” replied Ben … “But you have to wait, let me get changed!” “No problem.” Ben smiled back …
“I would use the ladies upstair, because there got a bath room, I would take a quick shower.” As Ben heard that, he feels his bloods started to boil … mine mine ..
Ben’s eyes was following Joanna as she entered the ladies, it took him quite a while to realize that the toilet might be vacant … ‘ho-say-liao’ he sneaked quietly into the ladies, and hide himself in one of the cubicle …. Then he started to peep into the cubicle next to him, where Joanna was … she was stripped off her t-shirt and shorts, and then her bra and panty … by then, Ben’s ‘brother’ almost dash out of his brief and is turning red …
Ben enjoyed what his eyes see … especially the breast of Joanna …
After a while, Joanna finished with her bath and started dressing up, Ben therefore quickly make his way out, without anyone noticed …
‘Where shall we go for lunch?’ Joanna asked, ‘Anything is fine for me.” Ben answered, “Who else is coming?” “Helen and her boyfriend” … Helen was another chio gal, that Ben wished to fuck .. “How about we packed our lunch and go my place and eat?” Ben suggested, “ok, fine with me” came the reply … Ben was actually planning to show them the porno vcds to get them aroused, so maybe got chance to fuck them at his place, he started smiling …
Reaching his place, the group started to park themselves in the sofa, just in front of the TV .. and started tucking in their lunch .. “Hey, you want to watch vcds? I just bought it yesterday” “Nice or not?” Helen said, “Hmmm … not bad, I watched yesterday” “What the story about?” Joanna asked, “U watched lah, then you’ll know” “okie lor ..”
So Ben on the vcd player, put in the title where the teacher was rape by her students, turning to the group, “enjoyed! I go and make some drink”
He headed straight into kitchen, wondering what would the girls’ respond be, in watching the rape scene … He then picked up a bottle of beer (Knowing that Helen and Joanna are non-drinker) He mixed it with some soft drink and served them …

[EatNDrink]

“Ben, you are so disgusting” Helen commented as she saw Ben walking out from the kitchen .. “Why? You mean you don’t like the story?” “What do you think?” “All this while, I thought you are quite open-minded mah, and you see, your boyfriend is enjoying himself …” “Yah yeah yeah … and he is getting horny also.” Helen turned and stared angrily at Alan … Alan quickly responded by smiling, “Hmmm … yeah lor, this show not very nice hor …”
“Ok lor, dun watch this show, I still got other show, but maybe you can just help yourself with the drink.” Alan started pouring drinks for the ladies, while Ben changed the VCD .. He got no choice but change to a cartoon, and as he walked back to the seat, he managed to get a glimpse of Joanna’s cleavage, “Nice long kan” he thot to himself …
Half way through the cartoon, Joanna asked, ‘Ben, what did you put in the drink?’ Ben turned and saw that both the girls, their faces are red … “Nothing, just a little bit of beer only.’
Before long, both the gals were drank and fall flat on the sofa .. Alan tried his very best to wake Helen, but failed … “How?” he turned and looked at Ben .. Ben smiled, “Now its fun time for us guys … knowing that Alan is abit horny, after watching the vcd, Ben suggested ‘you take this room, and I will take the other, after we are done with one gal, we switch .. how’s that?”
“Hmmm .. ok or not?” “No problem lah, why u scare meh?” “Who said I scare?” Alan then carried Helen into one room, while Ben carried Joanna into the other ..

[EatNDrink]

Brother out there 。。。 i hope so far, ur like my story ... before i continued, which i oredi got the storyline in queue .. I hope ur can UP my points .. I really need to add some point .. inorder to stay here ... thanks huh ...

[blade]

得不到的东西永远是最珍贵最美好的，这段故事永远会留在我心中，难以忘怀。 :(

actually de bu dao de dong xi bu shi zui zhen gui de..shi de dao que mei you zhen xi shuo shi qu de dong xi shi zui zhen gui...
bu yuan tian chang di jiu...zhi yuan cheng jing yong you :cool: have memories better than nothing...sorry ar i no chinese program..hope u understand

[sexlover]

shi de dao que mei you zhen xi shuo shi qu de dong xi shi zui zhen gui..

U trying to say “是得到却没有珍惜收，失去的东西是最珍贵？”

其实我觉得可能也没有真正得到，我想我和小雪只是有缘无份。

This beautiful memory is going to live with me for a long long time :rolleyes:

[nismo88]

I think that is what we called ''Chee Hong Luck",,, :D
Bro Sexlover..... u really kenna bay pio ar....
congrats man..... aiya dun care Chee Hong luck or CB luck la.... can kenna can oredi tio bo?!!! :D

[sexlover]

can kenna can oredi tio bo?!!!
“情场失意，睹场得意。”
说得一点也没错，只是中了不够多，才够付一些电话费。 :D

[sexlover]

Surprise !!! Surprise!!! Last night while I was online,, I always leave my QQ on,,,,,, I got a surprise call from Xiao Xue in the QQ..... :D ...... Thereafter I ask whether I can call her on the phone,,,, she say call only after she go offline..... After she goes offline,,, I give her a call,,,, she seem to be happier mood now...... She tell me her hometown location and guide me on the map,,,, :) ........

[MoonBlaze]

Surprise !!! Surprise!!! I got a surprise call from Xiao Xue in the QQ..... ..... I give her a call,,,, she seem to be happier mood now...... She tell me her hometown location and guide me on the map,,,,........Looks like part 2 may be in the making? Anyway, is she inviting you over to visit her? Anyway, any new development do keep us posted. Good luck :)

[et911]

Surprise !!! Surprise!!! I got a surprise call from Xiao Xue in the QQ..... :D

Call me a hopeless skeptic.. but do be careful brother...

[sexlover]

Looks like part 2 may be in the making?
No,,,, she never invited me there,,,,,, I was just casually asking about her hometown,, she just happily explaining the location to me,,,, she already offline and I was browsing the China map website. She told me her birthplace,,, her younger day staying location and also currently stay at which place. Anyway this coming either late Aug/early Sep,,, I might go Hong Kong for a short trip,,,,, if time and $$$ permit, I might drop by her hometown walk walk see see look look.
As I said before,,,, don’t know why I have chee hong luck,,,,,, Hopefully tomorrow I strike 4D first prize,,,, then I confirm must go there… :D

Call me a hopeless skeptic...
Hahaha,, don’t say until like that lah,,,,, by the way have u eat the oyster and see the auntie half ball at Kitchener Rd??? :D
Thank for the concern,,,, I will be careful….

[MoonBlaze]

.... Anyway this coming either late Aug/early Sep,,, I might go Hong Kong for a short trip,,,,, if time and $$$ permit, I might drop by her hometown walk walk see see look look.As I said before,,,, don’t know why I have chee hong luck,,,,,, Hopefully tomorrow I strike 4D first prize,,,, then I confirm must go there… careful….If you are going, go without hope and you will have no disappointment. But without hope, why would you wanna go in the first place? Life is full of contradiction. Anyway, bring lesser hope with you and to your surprise something could develops, then treat it as a bonus. Not mean to mis-lead you on further, but sometimes, there is just something one can't let go and need to be with the person face to face to put a end to it. Matters related to the heart must have a Kao Tai (Jiao1 Dai4). Something like a proper ending....Not sure if share the same thinking.... Anyway, like ETA911 say, care is of utmost importance, remember to bring plentiful with you if your are crossing over from HK. Cheers!!! :)

[et911]

Hahaha,, don’t say until like that lah,,,,, by the way have u eat the oyster and see the auntie half ball at Kitchener Rd??? :D
Thank for the concern,,,, I will be careful….

Havent leh... drove past the other day but not open yet (around 11am+)..

No worries, just be extra careful, too many of such schemes I have heard. No story is ever new to me anymore.. :cool:

[sexlover]

if your are crossing over from HK. Cheers!!!
现在我对此事只有报着随缘的态度，命里有时终需有，命里无时没强求。如果有去山东，，我也会把它当做旅游， 走马看花，见见朋友。我很明白希望越高，失望越大这个道理。

[sexlover]

too many of such schemes I have heard.
我会特别小心，，，有时只怕暗箭难防。。。希望我不会中招。。。

[blade]

现在我对此事只有报着随缘的态度，命里有时终需有，命里无时没强求。如果有去山东，，我也会把它当做旅游， 走马看花，见见朋友。我很明白希望越高，失望越大这个道理。
haha suddenly alive again.. :D loyal fan of this thread hee..hmm...all the best lor..try finding out more about her and her family n esp wat happened in the xiao xin case..maybe it will cast more light to what they really are doing..小心为妙

[xiaolibiantai]

1985… The man opened the door, and Ben saw boxes of vcds inside, ‘take your pick, cos u are my first customer, I charge you cheap cheap.’ Ben cant help but start to go through every piece of vcds inside, lots of different titles, including teacher and students, rape school teacher, etc, etc. Ben picked up all those titles related to teachers, and pay the man, he then carefully keep the vcds inside his bag, and goes home ..
...


Hey bro, 1985 where got vcds???


BTW is not very nice of u to hijack others thread right!!! Start a new thread lah, u have good story too! :D

[sexlover]

loyal fan of this thread hee..hmm 小心为妙
谢谢你，，，昨晚十点我在电话和她聊时，，，，我就问她，跟我来往难到不怕妈妈不高兴吗？ 她说妈妈以经睡了，，也不知道这事。。。
我问她不怕姐姐做二五仔吗？((因为那天在QQ何我联络时，姐姐和她在一起 ) 她就告诉我姐姐跟她很好不会出卖她。
现在我只能见机行事，，，， ;)

BTW is not very nice of u to hijack others thread right!!! Start a new thread lah, u have good story too!
Hahaha,,, this bro is very funny ,,, wonder why he never start a new thread,,, that day when he just post it here,,,, I happen to be online,,,, the Font colour he use is ‘Yellow’,,, My Goodness,, I cant even see properly the writing cos too bright….. Luckily he is still online,,, and I pm him to change the colour .....

[nismo88]

As I said before,,,, don’t know why I have chee hong luck,,,,,, Hopefully tomorrow I strike 4D first prize,,,, then I confirm must go there… :D
Bro sexlover.... hope u tio bay pio n go there so u will give us solid story some more.... a lot of us crossing fingers for u ok... hehehe :D

[singexpat]

Bro Sexlover, I believe bros here hope to see Episode 2 of ur story..
n Congrats!! :D

[sexlover]

hope u tio bay pio
Hahaha really strike ,,,, but not enough to cover my bet today.. :(
Her phone nos end with 5241,,,,,,,,,, I buy $5 big and also $3 ibet……… open starter 1524,,,,,, strike $30….. but miss cue cos 2nd prize open 5210…

Now with $30,,, not enough to cover my total bet kekeke,,,,, go Sentosa also not enough.. :D

[nismo88]

Now with $30,,, not enough to cover my total bet kekeke,,,,, go Sentosa also not enough.. :D
good start good start...... hope more CH luck n tio bigger one :D

[sexlover]

I believe bros here hope to see Episode 2 of ur story
Thank Bro,,, will updated here if there is new development….. :cool:

good start good start.. hope more CH luck n tio bigger one
Hopefully CH Luck will get bigger this weekend,,,,,, just to share one nos with all…. She have another Hp nos ended with 3579…….. I will try a bit this weekend….. Don’t curse and swear at me if don’t strike hor… :D

[EatNDrink]

Hey bro, 1985 where got vcds???


BTW is not very nice of u to hijack others thread right!!! Start a new thread lah, u have good story too! :D

I am glad you like my story ... thanks for your support .. will continue with my story soon ...

[sexlover]

I am glad you like my story ... thanks for your support .. will continue with my story soon ...
I have no objection for u to post your story, but to make your job easier in follow up with the story,, it will be better to start a new thread and repost the whole story there.... :cool:

[HubbyNaked]

Ho ho ho, tio bey pio?

[Airness]

that was a very well written event,keep it up :D

[sibaysianz]

that was a very well written event,keep it up

yar agreed! Reminded me of my almost extra-marital experience (no sex wan lah) if anyone is interested....

I was on official trip to Guangzhou a few years back and it was just the usual, follow bosses around in customer office as well as entertaining customers.

Nothing much happened during the first day but on the second night we were supposed to entertain the customer's customer. Anyway, I cannot drink but as expected there were always ppl trying to get me to drink. I usually managed to survive those episodes with sweet-talking. (WTF I always felt like some KTV gal kenna entertain these dirty old men which is why i HATE going to china on business)

Anyway, on this particular night, there was this stupid old man who tried to get me to drink. I refused politely at first but as he became more drunk,he started to say that I never give him face blah blah blah.. if I dun drink, I am not leaving China bullshit. I could have just bloody ignored him but he was like the lao zong of the company man.. I really didn't know wat to do...
my colleagues offered to drink on my behalf but the stupid fucker really got drunk liao and he was just directing all his energy on me... then my boss glared at me... FYI, the reason why I didnt touch the liquor is cos they were drinking Wu Liang Ye bloody 47% alcohol and once I down one glass, I will be dead for sure. Besides, if I toast this guy, all the other men will want me to toast them as well...

Just when the situation got very awkward, this guy from my customer's company stood up and challenged this lao zong... I was stunned man...I didn't know him then but later then I know that he was only some manager from my customer's company. He told some chinese gal to take me out from the room and then I dun know wat he did lah but my colleagues later told me that he damn brave and very SAT, managed to save the situation. After the dinner, a lot of ppl tried to take the credit for "saving me" but except for a smile, this guy never said a word to me.

I was SO impressed by him you know gals like this sort of thing lah, kenna rescued by hero hahaha. BTW, he not anywhere near handsome hor and got pot belly somemore. Anyway, I fell sick the next day and had to stay in GZ. My chinese colleague supposed to take care of me but she KNN take the chance to go jalan jalan. Anyway, I told her to do so lah waste time in the hotel with me for wat. :D

I actually never expected him to really come and look for me in the hotel but he came and brought me medicine and got my meals for me. I was quite drowsy so I was sleeping most of the time in the room but I trusted him somehow... just female gut feeling I guess. Anyway, he was a real gentlemen while he accompanied me in the room when I was sleeping he left the room door open. I also heard him tell other room guests to keep voice level down and he made sure that I always had a bowl of hot porridge when I woke up in between.

When I finally woke up and cannot sleep anymore, I showered (he went downstairs wait for me) and he brought me out for dinner. I just had this very secure protected feeling when I am with him... we talked about our lives...he had a gf while I aldy married...and I believed that the mutual feeling at that time was like.. "wat a waste.. we could have got on well together". Anyway, we strolled the streets chatting about our lives and he would pull me close to him when we pass by beggars on the street. He even took off his jacket for me cos it was quite cold (like in the dramas rite) I asked him why he stood up for me at the dinner and he said that I was like an innocent young girl who kanna bullied by that man who think that he damn powerful so he just cannot stand it lor. We really shared a lot that night it was almost morning liao then he reluctantly sent me back...

The next day, he brought me sightseeing like I was his girlfriend. We went to the zoo and he also brought me to some mountain lah. I screamed when I saw one guy jump off the cliff then he pulled me and hugged me putting my head on his chest ask me wat happened then when I told him he laughed and ask me to look properly. cheh only ppl bungee jumping lah :D

We had so much fun that day but in our minds we also knew that I had to leave for SG the next day. After the dinner, he shocked me when he said that he wanted to come to SG as he couldn't bear to leave me and that he had fallen in love. However in my mind, I was just thinking that I would miss him when I get back to SG, that's about it. But I couldn't say anything so I just hugged him tightly. Maybe we would have had an ONS if my colleague was not sharing the room with me haha but heng heng never happened. Anyway, I reminded him that he had a gf and me my hubby in SG. Eventually he sent me back and I just gave him a goodbye kiss on the cheek.

The next morning, he sent me and my colleague to the airport. I cooked up some excuse and my colleague checked in first. We then had a hug for the last time and would you believe it, my hero cried leh.... I also.... so dramatic hor....

Anyway, the point of this is that there was nothing sexual about the episode maybe I never felt it lah haha but i think it was just the loving feeling that we shared for each other... As time passed, I realised that this intense loving feeling was only "infatuation" it faded quite abruptly as I went back to my usual life. He broke off with his gal and he came to SG to see me and we had a dinner date but there were no more sparks this time... maybe the environment had a part to play in this. But, I avoided him when I went back to GZ later.. dun know leh but somehow got the "I am so stupid to have even liked him" feeling. "I even hugged him!!! OMG"

Maybe as time passed, the stamp over my eyes was removed. hahaha anyway hope the story was not too boring for you guys.

[forumer]

Maybe as time passed, the stamp over my eyes was removed. hahaha anyway hope the story was not too boring for you guys.

At first I thought u were a guy... :)

Anyway, I applaude you for your abstinence and self control.

[sexlover]

yar agreed!
Well written too, love story need not have sex act to spice up the story…. It is the feeling and thought which made the story interesting…… Luckily there is no ONS in your case, or else thing will become very complicated…….

My case is much simple as both parties is still single,,,,, currently she and her sis is venturing into setting up Bridal shop in ShanDong with their parent support… Seriously speaking,,, I am very impressed by China girl independent character,,,,,, she maybe young at 20,,,, but their maturity level is way better than Sg 25yrs old……. No hard feeling,,, just my opinion…. :p

We are still very much in touch ,,,, but the future is still a very big mystery …. :confused:

[sibaysianz]

At first I thought u were a guy... :)

Anyway, I applaude you for your abstinence and self control.

Thanks but that was the only way anyone else other than my husband could get me in the sack.... as in I had to have the feeling of love.. LUST alone will not do for me so I would say he came close...

For you married guys out there, I think the reason why I was even attracted to this guy was cos my hubby was just not "loving" anymore....you know, marriage got ups and downs and there are periods where we each just do our own thing..

During this episode with this GZ hero, I kept feeling so guilty but at the same time I told myself I deserve to be loved whether it is by my hubby or someone else... as long as I don't go to bed with him, I will be ok.

[sibaysianz]

Luckily there is no ONS in your case, or else thing will become very complicated…….

We are still very much in touch ,,,, but the future is still a very big mystery ….

I agree that's why I am really glad there was no SEX involved... I probably would not be able to forgive myself...

I would just say let nature take its course.... you can never know wat's going to happen next ;) I will keep my fingers crossed for you :)

[nismo88]

During this episode with this GZ hero, I kept feeling so guilty but at the same time I told myself I deserve to be loved whether it is by my hubby or someone else... as long as I don't go to bed with him, I will be ok.
nice story sis..... but 1 thing learnt... if really wan go bed with someone... pls mk sure u will not regret later (not CMI one) ..... as i can feel sis can exclaimed how she can hug the guy some more.... :D

[sibaysianz]

nice story sis..... but 1 thing learnt... if really wan go bed with someone... pls mk sure u will not regret later (not CMI one) ..... as i can feel sis can exclaimed how she can hug the guy some more.... :D

hahaha sounds like you got same experience with ger before isit?

[nismo88]

hahaha sounds like you got same experience with ger before isit?
NO la sis..... i did not learn the hard way... kekeke :p
make sure edible then eat....
always tell my fren not everything put outside yr mouth can eat one... hehe
so sis sbs will oso be choosy now rite....

[sibaysianz]

NO la sis..... i did not learn the hard way... kekeke :p
make sure edible then eat....
always tell my fren not everything put outside yr mouth can eat one... hehe
so sis sbs will oso be choosy now rite....

hahaha u good leh...for me no lah not searching but if similar thing happen I might make the same mistake again... LOVE is blind mah hahaha so is infatuation....

[sexlover]

I told myself I deserve to be loved whether it is by my hubby or someone else... as long as I don't go to bed with him, I will be ok.
Just be careful with above quoted sentence,,,, if u get too emotionally involved and reach point of no return... U will be dead...... :D

[sibaysianz]

Just be careful with above quoted sentence,,,, if u get too emotionally involved and reach point of no return... U will be dead...... :D

I know wat you mean.... but sometimes its tough, isn't it?

[sexlover]

Just a little updated :
End of Aug, I will be at HK for three days,, I had already infd Xiao Xue whether want to meet up then. She said will let me know later date, cos her bridal make-up shop will be open for business tomorrow 19/7/2005, dont know that time cant make it or not.

Bro et911,, there is neither Home or Away match,,,, it is going to be neutral ground.... hehehe :D

[blade]

Just a little updated :
End of Aug, I will be at HK for three days,, I had already infd Xiao Xue whether want to meet up then. She said will let me know later date, cos her bridal make-up shop will be open for business tomorrow 19/7/2005, dont know that time cant make it or not.

Bro et911,, there is neither Home or Away match,,,, it is going to be neutral ground.... hehehe :D
haha all the best bro! :cool:

[sexlover]

haha all the best bro!
Thk bro ,,,I am going there without bringing hope..... :D
So hopefully there is hope....... :p

[fun4evergood]

Thk bro ,,,I am going there without bringing hope.....
So hopefully there is hope....... :p

jus remember to brin your "little bro" there can already lah......... :D

[sexlover]

jus remember to brin your "little bro" there can already lah.........
I will use Super Glue stick it on,,, make sure it will not drop off ,,,, kekeke... :D

Bro, your pts really always flying high high.... :cool:

[sibaysianz]

I will use Super Glue stick it on,,, make sure it will not drop off ,,,, kekeke... :D



hahaha... good luck good luck! Wish u success....

[sexlover]

hahaha... good luck good luck! Wish u success....
I will only be there 3 days,,, 1st half busy,,, 2nd half very free,,,, :p

Just hope she willing to meet me there,,,,, :(

[i'mscrewed]

I will only be there 3 days,,, 1st half busy,,, 2nd half very free,,,, :p

Just hope she willing to meet me there,,,,,


Don't worry bro, i am sure she will. Remember initially when her mum stopped her from contacting you, and you thought everything was over? So stay happy dude!! :) I'm happy for you that something's turning out for you...

[sibaysianz]

I mean by now if u not serious u would have forgotten about her and move on liao mah....so I also believe u got chance... :)

[et911]

Bro et911,, there is neither Home or Away match,,,, it is going to be neutral ground.... hehehe :D

Waur put such a small post, almost overlooked. Neutral ground.. still becareful, HK still v near China.

[MoonBlaze]

Waur put such a small post, almost overlooked. Neutral ground.. still becareful, HK still v near China.HK belongs to China. So she is still on home ground.... :)

[sexlover]

Don't worry bro, i am sure she will. Remember initially when her mum stopped her from contacting you, and you thought everything was over?

I mean by now if u not serious

Waur put such a small post, almost overlooked. Neutral ground.. still becareful, HK still v near China.

HK belongs to China. So she is still on home ground....

Thk Bro & Sis for the support,,, in fact we have been in touch every day since that day she contact me thru QQ,,,,, just hope for the best to come, but one thing confirm is that I can only be there for 3 days.

Just hope she can make the trip there for my 2nd half stay,,,, afraid she might not be able to make it cos her own shop just open for business….

HK may have belong to China,,,, but I can say that she will appear more foreigner than I do,,,,, cos she only speak Mandrain,,,,,, I can speak Cantonese,,,,, kekeke :cool:

[sexlover]

Three wks counting down time..... Things dont seem good....... :(

[sbfpolis]

Three wks counting down time..... Things dont seem good....... :(
You referring to the election date ?

[sexlover]

You referring to the election date ?
Nope, i am referring to my trip date :p

[ah rat]

Nope, i am referring to my trip date :p

May yr trip date achieve....... :D

[blade]

Three wks counting down time..... Things dont seem good....... :(
why? :confused:

[sexlover]

May yr trip date achieve....

why?
Date and everything already set.

Just that the lead actress is unlikely to present. :( due to her work.

Anyway, this is a free trip for me. Cant complain much :D .

[blade]

Date and everything already set.

Just that the lead actress is unlikely to present. :( due to her work.

Anyway, this is a free trip for me. Cant complain much .
oh...okok no wonder..hmm..nvm la..if its urs its urs :cool:

[songsong1213]

Hi sexlover, I like your story please continue, but hor I still know what you did last summer :D

[sexlover]

Hi sexlover, I like your story please continue, but hor I still know what you did last summer
siao kia, mai lai ji ji xiao xiao hor, since I havent up u, I can zapped u. kekeke :D

That day ur nick open 4D got tio bo? :D

[sexlover]

Long time never update this thread liao, here just a little updated for my story :

Things have been working out fine between me and Xiao Xue now and we are in touch daily (Complimentary of Starhub free IDD, Starhub “Wan Sui”.. kekekek). :cool:

We didn’t managed to meet at HK due to her work, was thinking of visiting her during her birthday at Oct, but KNN I kena reservist then. In fact it is suppose to be on Aug, but I defer it due to my trip to HK. I already confirm I will visit her during late Dec, as my birthday is on early Jan. So hopefully I will be able to spend Chrismas, New Year and birthday with her. :p

[sexlover]

Today mark the 5th Monthniversary between me and Xiao Xue, everything is moving smoothly now. I will visit her at end of the year, most likely to spend Xmas, New Year and birthday (my brithday early Jan) with her. :p

Just need some info from bro here :
She stay at ShanDong (Dong Yin), which is the nearest airport? JiNan or QingDao, or is there any nearest one available? Which is best airline to take, cos I search until siao liao.. :(

[sexlover]

So far I have received one suggestion as follow via PM:
Anymore new suggestions? Cos I really need the neccessary info...
And start planning my trip............... Thank

Dear Bro,
As per your request, you can check
1) the map for the location
http://www.51ditu.com/map_search/shandong.htm
2) available flight to 东营
http://www.ctrip.com/
My finding shows that there is a flight from Beijing to 东营。As from Shanghai, the flight is not certain, it could be that, they need to have sufficient booking before deciding whether to fly or not. Well the flight detail from beijing to dongying as such,
海南航空公司 HU7615 首都国际机场 东营机场
13:30~14:30 Aircraft D38 RMB630
Small plane though, one way is to take coach from Jinan to Dongying but I am sure the journey will not be a short one.
Hope it helps.
Need not thank me, especially on the forum.
Cheers!

[aloha34]

yo bro,
jin gu bo jip lai kaw kuan liao.
didn't know u change yur avatar liao.
looks quite pleasant to me.
Is this the photo of your "bei guo feng qing"
:p

[sexlover]

Is this the photo of your "bei guo feng qing"
Wah lau, u never see S.H.E. before ahh? KNN my avarta is Selina :D

U really CB one lah, how come u bring this thread up :mad:
cos today 1st Oct i will bring it up myself to mark the day i have know her for 6mth and also this story was written 5mth ago

[plman2002]

U really CB one lah, how come u bring this thread up :mad:
cos today 1st Oct i will bring it up myself to mark the day i have know her for 6mth and also this story was written 5mth ago

ah loh, u made SL 'chu qin shang qing'.
todae is oso their 'National Day'.
veri meaninful orh???!?!?

[sexlover]

ah loh, u made SL 'chu qin shang qing' .
todae is oso their 'National Day'.veri meaninful orh???!?!?
No 'chu qin shang qing' lah.
So far thing is working out fine between us. :D
In fact i intend to bring up this thread on the 1st of every month...
but aloha34 hijack my intention :D

[sexlover]

Good Morning To All Bro/Sis,
Today mark the 7th month I got to know Xiao Xue
and 6th month since I wrote this story, everything is working fine. :p

Happy Deepavali to all Indian Samster
and Selamat Hari Raya to All Muslim Samster in advance :D

[bulldozer101]

Hi Bro Sexlover,

Firstly wishing u a happy 7 mths anniversary of knowing Xiao Xue.. cheers
Secondly, so u are the "Legendary Sexlover" JT told me about. He also told me u have just changed your avatar few days ago and its your animated image!!
wow! u do look like a cassanova :eek:

Looks like u will be paying your sweetie Xiao Xue a visit pretty soon. Hope to meet up with u after your trip. Cos recently (after my OC no longer OC) i got to know a gal from Shangdong as well, she was here on a 3-mth OJT with a local bank, just went back last week. B4 she left we did went out a couple of times and we seems to "click well"..... we do keep in touch via mobile every 2 - 3 days, last night chatted with her again. She asked whether i could go China pay her a visit. Well, i didn't really promised her cos Shangdong seems a rather remote place to me.

Perhaps you can give me some guidance after your trip. Do keep in touch, i'll PM u my contact..........and lastly, all the best to your trip.. ;)

cheers Bro

[sexlover]

so u are the "Legendary Sexlover" JT told me about.
wow! u do look like a cassanova
OSFs [JT and Ciko] is the real Cassanova :D


Good Morning To All Bro/Sis,
Today mark the 8th month I got to know Xiao Xue
and 7th month since I wrote this story.

We will be meeting again in 20 days time. Yea……h. :D

[plman2002]

We will be meeting again in 20 days time. Yea……h. :D [/B][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

All the best to you.

Every 1st of the month, I watch out for yr this thread. kekeke

[6" boy]

Go for it Sexlover... we support you... !

on behalf of JB Samsters Association
6" boy (Secretary)

p/s Thanks for upped my point. I will remember you.

[bulldozer101]

OSFs [JT and Ciko] is the real Cassanova
huh? JT and Ciko are OSfs?? who's ciko?? JT cassonova? sure or not :confused:
We will be meeting again in 20 days time. Yea……h.
All the best to you, my dear bro sexlover...... :D

[sexlover]

Every 1st of the month, I watch out for yr this thread. kekeke
Thank you for your visit every month :D

Go for it Sexlover... we support you... !
Thank

huh? JT and Ciko are OSfs?? who's ciko?? JT cassonova? sure or not
Ciko = Zikoman aka OSF :D

[sexlover]

Just need some advice from bro, check out my signature, as we will be moving around and will be staying in the same room. I heard China is quite strict on that, if got real 'Gong An' come and spot check, will I get into trouble? Both of us are still single. :)
Thank :)

[sexlover]

Hi All Bro, now I am at Beijing Cyber Cafe with my Xiao Xue sitting beside me. :D

[E8 Food house]

Hi All Bro, now I am at Beijing Cyber Cafe with my Xiao Xue sitting beside me. :D


wah bro...song song in china liao!!!:p enjoy ur trip!!

[sexlover]

wah bro...song song in china liao!!!:p enjoy ur trip!!
Hehe , here very cold now :p

[E8 Food house]

Hehe , here very cold now :p


like dat can lum sio sio in hotel!!!:D

[nismo88]

Bro SL please have a nice trip...

i oso wish u da best man..... keep it up..... :D

cold rite? then pls lum sio sio n exercise lots in the room :p

[Zikoman]

Hi All Bro, now I am at Beijing Cyber Cafe with my Xiao Xue sitting beside me.
how come no sexloveress posting :confused: :D
u received my SMS this morning?

[6" boy]

Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to Sexlover!!!
Happy Birthday to you....

[sexlover]

Bro SL please have a nice trip...
i oso wish u da best man..... keep it up.....
cold rite? then pls lum sio sio n exercise lots in the room
Exercise at full speed yesterday in the room :D

how come no sexloveress posting
She saw Ang Mo wording, blur like sotong liao. Dare not post :D

Happy Birthday to Sexlover!!!

Kam seah kam seah

[nismo88]

Bro we all believe that yr speed beri beri fast....

please cont to keep up the good speed or work... watever :D

[Zikoman]

oiii.... Dragon Head OSF..
1 feb no posting leh.. Wats the latest? no updates liao... :confused:
you gave up liao issit? :D

[Rof|maoxz]

Hi everybody, this is my first time opening a new thread, recently there have been a lots of true love story share by some bros here, indeed most of them are very touching and mostly sad ending. For my case, the ending is still a very big mystery.

It makes me feel that I should share my recent encounter here, today 1st May 2005 make it a special day for me to share this story cos I got to know her during my recent trip to Beijing on 1st Apr 2005. And last night 30th Apr 2005 something bad happen.....

She may not be the most beautiful girl I have known, but she will forever be living in my heart.

Give me some time to recap all the event and write it out,,,,, to all those bro if u are looking for sexy juicy story,,, u will be disappointed,,,, my case is totally non sex related.

Bro Lament & plman have seen her pix, swee bo ???

Stay Tune......... Be back soon.............

SL, you buay swee lah. Never send me the pix. :o

[Zikoman]

SL, you buay swee lah. Never send me the pix.
I've seen all the pix taken during SL's trip to his beloved XiaoXue hometown during Xmas.. :p

a demure & very sweet looking gal... ;)

[sexlover]

you gave up liao issit?
SL, you buay swee lah. Never send me the pix.
Every good thing have to come to an end, within next few hour I will post something. :o I already give up on woman. :o

[plman2002]

I already give up on woman. :o

wat happened bro...... take it easy man.

[axeman24]

Every good thing have to come to an end, within next few hour I will post something. :o I already give up on woman. :o


Wah Bro what happen??