Why some ppl have all the luck? [Archive] - The Asian Commercial Sex Scene

jinrenhe

08-05-2005, 12:54 AM

There seems lately a revival of the trend of posting true sexual encounters. In fact, this is the 1st time I have seen an influx of so many “true” sex stories in SB. It almost appears that getting a pretty local gal for casual sex is as easy as picking a prostitute off the street.
I believe most of these stories are true, cos:

1) Gals are indeed getting more open nowadays--- I have seen many young gals behaving intimately in public to guys.

2) Today there is a ST report of an 25 y/o undergrad having bedded 50 gals before

Whilst I enjoy reading the stories, I feel envious & demoralized to a certain extend. I have had only 3 gf in my life before. Though I am average looking, an undergraduate & drives a car, I have not been an exact success with love & flirting.
So what if I have a squeaky clean, nice guy image? My life is still less exciting & contented as the suave casonava who claimed to remorseful. Given a chance, I would gladly exchange places with him.

To all those writers of the true sexual encounters, please do not take offence. This is purely an expression of my dissatisfaction with myself, feeling like a failure sometimes. Just some rambling on a lonely sat nite… as the rest of the world party away.

innezsg

08-05-2005, 01:51 AM

Well, I don't quite agree that it is the luck factor, as per the thread title.To add on to your 2 points mentioned, there is other factor as well. This includes charm (or sianing skills), money, status, looks, type of targets (gals), etc.

It is still pretty sad to say that I have to spend my dollars just to get that moment of happiness. I don't have a girlfriend in my life yet, don't have the money, don't have a car and don't have a proper cert.

But hey, the world is not based all the above. It is based on hard work and the eagerness. If you are willing to put in that bit of time to learnt the skills and be a bad guy, well I guess these will happen to you. Afterall, not all good guys are good lovers.

Just my 2 cents thots. :o

asdfghjkl

08-05-2005, 01:53 AM

btw how u confirm its real ah.. cuz my teacher told me not to believe things on internet ler.. :rolleyes:

KGB_LK

08-05-2005, 02:03 AM

nice guys finish last

evo76

08-05-2005, 02:57 AM

true/fake?

Noone knows. Some really bad FRs have been outright criticized by the brudders here while others are nicely written and guarenteed original.

So, who knows? (no offense to those real ones)

They all make good reads :D

JAXXX

08-05-2005, 03:00 AM

Well, if it makes u guys feel any better, i'm 27 and i never had a gf. Yay! :o

JAXXX

08-05-2005, 03:06 AM

Afterall, not all good guys are good lovers.

Well, but they DO make good backup plan/plan B/reserves after the girls had their fun wif the bad guys.

All my frens says i'm a good guy a nice guy, whoever my gf will be damn lucky, make good husband...blah blah blah. Well, i've had it... and i've seen the light. Now trying very hard to be a bastard... no luck and very difficult oso.

KingEros

08-05-2005, 04:05 AM

Whilst I enjoy reading the stories, I feel envious & demoralized to a certain extend .... Given a chance, I would gladly exchange places with him.
Remember this ... the grass is always greener on the other side.
While I have enough true-blue encounters to write a book ... I'm also envious of all those who're suffering from the One-Gina disease. :D

LOTR3

08-05-2005, 10:26 AM

:o me too...still without a gf in my whole life...
my look and height fails me. :rolleyes:

JWNY

08-05-2005, 11:02 AM

Come on guys...

Give ourselves some credit...

Who doesn't want, say

A) - to be filthy rich
B) - to be an Adonis
C) - everything in life...?

We can't please everyone...and we always do not acknowledge our own strong points. Some of us may be good at studies, a skilled art or even just a maestro in bed, etc...

My point is, if we want something, we should try to work towards it...and if we don't achieve it, so be it - but we know we have tried our best. For example, I bought a pair of contact lenses and couldn't put them on for 5 perpetual days as my eyes kept blinking...i have since given up and threw them away... :p

Keep believing in ourselves... :)

Wannabeone

08-05-2005, 11:21 AM

Come on guys...

Give ourselves some credit...

Who doesn't want.........Keep believing in ourselves... :)

well said brother....... my opinion : whether have or dun, whether lucky or not.... these i think are not as important as you live a happy satisfying (whatever suits you) life....thats important. Life is not too long for some and yet longer for some others, so live it to the fullest. We all live life only once. When that moment passed, its passed forever........ ;)

machoman

08-05-2005, 11:32 AM

There seems lately a revival of the trend of posting true sexual encounters. In fact, this is the 1st time I have seen an influx of so many “true” sex stories in SB.....

Whilst I enjoy reading the stories, I feel envious & demoralized to a certain extend. I have had only 3 gf in my life before. Though I am average looking, an undergraduate & drives a car, I have not been an exact success with love & flirting.
So what if I have a squeaky clean, nice guy image? My life is still less exciting & contented as the suave casonava who claimed to remorseful. Given a chance, I would gladly exchange places with him.

To all those writers of the true sexual encounters, please do not take offence. This is purely an expression of my dissatisfaction with myself, feeling like a failure sometimes. Just some rambling on a lonely sat nite… as the rest of the world party away.

A few comments on your post, jinrehe:

1 Like some guys have stated--the so-called "true" stories may not be totally true...IMHO, some have been spiced up to attract readers... call it writer's freedom of expression and creativity, if you like.

2 It does you no good to envy others; your self-esteem will definitely be adversely affected.

3 You want to change your squeaky clean "image" to that of a sauve cassanova? That's easy....have a complete makeover... your hairstyle, your dressing, your behavior, etc

4 Luck is a factor but it also takes guts to approach and befriend gals. Charm is also important to impress gals. And lastly, you will encounter more failures than success since it is a numbers game... so don't be demoralised and try again if you don't succeed as first.

That's all for now. Over to you for your reaction to my feedback. :cool:

TANJON

08-05-2005, 11:58 AM

I have only 1 gf who happens to be my wife now. Sometimes I do envy others having bedded so many gfs from reading the thread here. But for me I think its all because I succeeded too fast and was entangled from the start.

I used to be a good guy with no flirting once I am attached but I somehow regret it now but its too late to realise it when I have 2 kids. :mad:

Imagine having a girlfriend now and kenna caught by wife, life sure screw up.

So bros go all out and cheong while you are young and not entangled! :cool:

CNNcmg

08-05-2005, 12:04 PM

nice guys finish last

Totally agree....

PLus determine people create their own luck...

enzer88

08-05-2005, 12:06 PM

bro,lasttime i also blur blur one,i damn regretted not bedding classmates during my sec school time.Always play soccer never sian girls.When i ord,i transformed,begin to use irc and chatline both channel to hunt for thrill,so far so gd.

CNNcmg

08-05-2005, 12:06 PM

So bros go all out and cheong while you are young and not entangled! :cool:

Hahahaha... maybe when we are younger, there is no sammy boy to teach us or tell us that the world so happening mah....

tritonyeah666

08-05-2005, 06:00 PM

trust me..the grass is always greener on the other side. Those brudders who bonk alot of other gals often feel shiok but deep inside their heart is emptiness and loneliness cause they only bother abt the 'quantity' of the gals they bonk. On the other hand, if you only have 1 or 2 gf and they are meaningful relationships, i'm sure the sex will be more meaningful and fulfilling. So what if bros around here have alot of flings etc, theres a certain criteria to bonk a gal isn't there?.. well if there is..then perhaps of your own 'quality control' there will be fewer. Once u have tasted many gals, your appetite becomes insatiable and even when u get married, u will tend to stray. Trust me on this k.

KingEros

08-05-2005, 08:29 PM

:o me too...still without a gf in my whole life...
my look and height fails me.
Maybe it's a problem of you not looking in your own league??
'Coz as far as I know, the boy-girl ratio in our population is very much 1:1 ... :rolleyes:

10 cc

08-05-2005, 11:13 PM

since some bros here (including 1 auntie) have started to call me... ahem... uncle, pls then, allow this uncle to share something with all of u.

1. it has never been about money
- money is just 1 of those facters to be considered, but not solely, and not very high in terms of priority.
- even she comes to u for money, it is FOR money, not YOU. and money held by anyone is the same everywhere. so soon enough, she will find someone with more, and has 1 or 2 things better then you, and she will leave.
- i have just seen a damn rich guy, chasing this 2nd rated actress, buy her things almost costing 10k, and then, she fly his aeroplane and disappeared.
- i have known a few big bosses, really rich, but having to pay for sex. no one will give a second glance to them in a club or on the street.
- it helps if u got material wealth, but that's only to a certain level.
- just known a cfo that's making half a mil a year (not much, but surely more then lots of us here), and he is very very happy with his childhood love, now his wife.

2. it is not about the looks
- i have got many friends that looks like... jack neo (sorry), and have wives to-die-for.
- this guy i know for years working for IBM is married to a model/beauty queen. and he is only 155!
- a good looking him-bo is worth nothing. girls get bored with him after 1 date. my jc friend looks better then johnny depp, all the girls in school like dying to let him fuck, but most didnt make it to his house. he is too boring.
- looks will open the door for u initially, but it takes more to let most girls say yes. and it differs from 1 lady to another. that's why fishing is fun. (right? king)

3. it is not about being nice
- nice guys finish last.
- u que, u wait longer. u jump que, u got there first. why be nice? be ruthless!
- many girls i known like to have some sort of an adventure. again, differing in degree. some more, some less. this is to make their otherwise ordinary life more interesting. u provide the adventure.
- a nice guy is like a dictionary. u dont need one till u got no choice. and then something, no choice also u dont go there.
- nice guys are predictable. thus no fun. remember "true lies" the movie?

many ladies longed for fairy-tale endings to their life. they looked for white knights in shinning armour to sweep them off their feet. but of course, not all are like that.

if u are looking for a wife, that's a whole different ball-game. but if u r looking for short-term companionship, i can offer some advise.

- do an image-overhaul. anybody, especially guys, can look better with some touching up on their outlook. may not make u prince charming, but at least can make u pleasent to be with. not an eye sore.
- be fun, be interesting, be free, be relax. short terms relationship are for the fun factor. so u got to be at least an interesting person to be with. u dont have to be a joker. u dont have to go crazy. there are lots of things that are interesting things to talk about, thus making u interesting, not a boring person, without u having to tell 1 joke. depending on your audience, select your tactics carefully. NEVER argue with them.
- be creative. well... not all of us are creative, so u got to trust your senses here. i found my flowing only after a couple of cold ones. find yours.
- study your targets before your approaches. very critical. every woman are different and thus required varied strategies. no 2 women can worked on 1 same plan. think on your toes, change tactics when necessary.
- be prepared. standby a few things to say when those "cool moments" arrives. happens all the time. then, you go into auto-pilot mode.
- dont force your way thru. it will never work. when u think u are loosing her, dont give up. but when she tells u so, leave graciously.
- practise make perfect. try more often. learn from mistakes. device countering strategies to stand-by for future similar cases.

if u can do most of these, i believe u are perhaps having a 50/50 chance to know the lady better. and i am talking about an open market approach. not a Match.Com meeting... ( :D sorry - couldnt help it here for the pun...)

*sigh* really old liao... talk so much cock now-a-days...

:p

bLuRbEnG

08-05-2005, 11:32 PM

Well same pple but different life lar... But quite a lot of us here is like u mah... So u r not the only one...

Castrol

08-05-2005, 11:42 PM

I have only 1 gf who happens to be my wife now. :

woo... this is not easy at all... :(

vesfreq

09-05-2005, 12:08 AM

I'm coming to 27. Only had one gf before. Its not a walk in the park. Comes with lots of obligations and attachments, which most of the guys have probably went through before.

Often, friends of mine describe me with the same word "nice". I agree with one of the bros here. Being nice does not promise anything. Then again, it depends on what you believe in. Is it the man with unblemished conscience or that man responsible for great emotional misdemeanors? Who is it that we want to be?

From time to time, I can vividly recall a certain day when this girl used to call me. She was pretty attractive and charismatic. Of course, this same lady was a clubber and parties quite often in the past. I used to call her almost everyday for 3-4 months, until she conveniently disappeared with the excuse of "work".

Come half a year later, she called me again breaking the news that she found a new bf, who used to irc with her. I got to know her a lot earlier before this guy, but didn't quite know why he had the advantage of being the first.

She went on with this guy for another 1/2 year plus, before reaching this period of time deliberating over breaking up with him. That was when she called me again ... almost everyday. For the moment, I thought I was going to be with her. Shortly thereafter, she patched back with her bf.... only to break up later. (Its your typical Jap/Korean drama storyline, if you ask me)

For anyone wondering whether nice men really finish last, this is one of the unfortunate "things" to ever happen in my life.

To describe this as "heartaching" is only but human. Complaining will not yield anything. I closed that chapter of my life with gross bitterness. If I had met her (yea, I had never met her before), I would have slammed the table right in front of her.

Emotionally frivolous like her (hate to say this) deserve to be ditched. The very act of giving false hopes is the primary source of more disappointments and bitterness.

If need be, I rather settle down with someone of the previous generation than someone of my age. That feeling of disgust (towards the "modern" women) is overwhelming .... in me.

Someone with that elegance and maturity (but somewhat older) can easily beat these SYTs anytime. If I have to, I would prefer to leave my money in Community Chest than to burn it on a girl. These girls don't deserve a single .... damn dollar.

KingEros

09-05-2005, 01:44 AM

3. it is not about being nice
- nice guys finish last.
- u que, u wait longer. u jump que, u got there first. why be nice? be ruthless!

For anyone wondering whether nice men really finish last, this is one of the unfortunate "things" to ever happen in my life.

Dunno if nice guys always finish last ...
But as far as I'm concerned, I'll always choose to be the bad guy who finishes first all the time. :D :D

Castrol

09-05-2005, 10:17 AM

From time to time, I can vividly recall a certain day when this girl used to call me. She was pretty attractive and charismatic. Of course, this same lady was a clubber and parties quite often in the past. I used to call her almost everyday for 3-4 months, until she conveniently disappeared with the excuse of "work".

If I had met her (yea, I had never met her before), I would have slammed the table right in front of her.

.

eh... bro, i am :confused: , never met, but on the phone for few months?

TheSting

09-05-2005, 10:30 AM

look,
I just have to post this up.

VERY LONG, BUT GOOD

I believe I got this from SBF a few months ago?
can't remember who posted it though, but kudos to you.
One of my fav essays ..

Original Source:

Ode to the Nice Guys (http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html)

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.

This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.

TheSting

09-05-2005, 10:32 AM

This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.

The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.

So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.

Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003

euphoria777

09-05-2005, 10:36 AM

............. damn regretted not bedding classmates during my sec school time.............

count yourself lucky that u did not bed them.......if not u kena rotan Bro.....!!!! :eek:

euphoria777

09-05-2005, 10:42 AM

Just some rambling on a lonely sat nite… as the rest of the world party away.

Hmmmm....did you take a close look at yourself and ask why you are so luckless?
Gals dun come knocking on doors and asked..."Want to fuck me??", even if the guys are drop dead good-looking.
It takes time and effort on our part. For one, sitting at home on a Sat night is not going to help.
Trying going out more often, esp with group of guys who are more "playful". See how they behave in the company of ladies and learn from there.
I have been in your shoes....never the bold and adventurous kind, but now I am a changed man (for better or worse, who cares!). To the extent that sometimes I have to turn gals away! But i know....the day i die, I will go straight down, but i'm glad that i will still be able to see some familiar faces of buddies down there!!! :D

OceanEleven

09-05-2005, 11:04 AM

So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.

Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003
Well written, Bro Sting, a toast to you for digging this out. ;)

freedom

09-05-2005, 11:12 AM

lets just put it in this way.
life was never be fair
and nice guy alway get taken adventage so why be a nice guy

Wang Ye

09-05-2005, 11:15 AM

Sigh :C

Part of the problem with nice guys like us is that these gals take us for granted.

We are constant as the northstar and the safe harbour that they take refuge in times of trouble. As such they are selfish and even if they had a nice friend to introduce they will never do it because they want to keep us for themselves (spare tire mentality).

Oddly enough, I actually find it more compelling and fulfilling to be nice to WLs these days. At least with them I know my small guestures are appreciated.

Wang Ye needs a hug. Sob.

jungle boy

09-05-2005, 01:05 PM

Sigh :C

Wang Ye needs a hug. Sob.

*pat on the back* don't worry bro wang ye, i'm sure there are many who appreciate your genuine thoughts :)

Tai_zi21

09-05-2005, 01:20 PM

Well who doesn't wan to mix with a fun loving guy and playful guy rite? i mean even u r so handsome but ppl find u a bore! who would wan to go out with u? it guess it up to u to change ur own mindset abt having fun outside! i sure there someone outside who will appericate u lor!

:)

Coldcut

09-05-2005, 03:00 PM

Hi all!

An amusing and funny article for the bros to read

http://www.geocities.com/joeyc1020/nice.html

Cheers!

coollawyer

09-05-2005, 03:35 PM

You know life is a long journey and sometimes you never know where you are headed. When I was younger, about 18+, I was very inexperienced and did not have a girlfriend. My good friend was much taller and better looking and he was sleeping around like there was no tomorrow. He was so much more experienced that I could be.

Later, I finally got my first girlfriend at 20 and lost my virginity to her, she was Taiwanese and it was very sweet. By that time, my good friend had a tonne of girl friends and I was just the sweet silly young man with one girlfriend. Later, I broke up with my Taiwanese GF and had a Singaporean one instead. She was so suitable for me in terms of social class, schooling, attitudes towards life etc. So I married her, my second girl friend. My other friend also married a China girl. So ends the cycle, or so I thought. I was later posted to another country and my wife was not with me, over here, I was finally having fun.

At last count, I had 4 girl friends consecutively whilst still being married, whereas my friends "friendly" exploits have ended.

I guess what I am trying to say is that if you really want that sort of exciting lifestyle, then your time would come. It is sometimes a matter of luck. Once you have the opportunity to sian a number of girls, your skills at Sianing become better. Like work, to be competent at wooing girls is a skill. Besides it is a numbers game, you WOULD eventually find someone who is perfect for you, both in bed and in life, you just have to keep asking. Don't be shy and don't try to be too cute. Learn from the mistakes that you make and become better.

Sorry for being so "lo so".

Chana Raka Chai

09-05-2005, 03:35 PM

... I'm also envious of all those who're suffering from the One-Gina disease. :D

Referring to my signature ah? HAHA :p

JAXXX

09-05-2005, 04:04 PM

count yourself lucky that u did not bed them.......if not u kena rotan Bro.....!!!! :eek:

Well, in sec sch...she underage u oso underage what.... will kena rotan meh?

euphoria777

09-05-2005, 04:45 PM

Well, in sec sch...she underage u oso underage what.... will kena rotan meh?

u think u underage got discount ah???

jinrenhe

09-05-2005, 04:57 PM

Thanx for all replies & some of the advices...

Actually i'm pretty contended when i'm by myself. Sometimes, however, it gets a bit depressive when everyone ard me seems to be doing better:In sch, most of my peers have hitched up with some rely gorgeous babes. Come to SB, every other story is abt ppl having a field day in dating & bedding gals.

One of my classmate is two-timing, both gals are pretty & nice ppl. One of his gal happens to be the gal i liked. Everytime i see her upset abt their relationship, i would think how unfair can the world get? :(
Most guys who are irresponsible & a heck-care attitude tend to have the most devoted gf.
Even one gal i dated told me in the face " Yah, nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai "

I have contemplated changing myself totally. But what can i do... i guess i'm those more sensitive, emotional kinda of person.

JAXXX

09-05-2005, 05:02 PM

u think u underage got discount ah???

If i'm not wrong if both parties underage.... dun think the guy will kena rotan. Any lawyer bros can clarify?

JAXXX

09-05-2005, 05:14 PM

Even one gal i dated told me in the face " Yah, nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai "

And then they got the cheek to ask "Where all the hao nan ren go?"
So they want hao nan ren or huai nan ren? :confused:
If a girl were to ask me this... boy i will be very tempted to give her a tight slap.

Well, as for the gal u liked who is currently being two-timed, forget about her. If u can ignore her and move on to new targets... cuz she will be telling u bout her prob wif her bf. Dun fall into that "nice guy" stereotype trap. I know it can be hard cuz u might be "nice" by nature. It's hard to change one's nature.

whitegals

09-05-2005, 10:13 PM

First of all, what's the big deal if you've shagged a couple of hundred babes? I lost count ages ago, after shagging the entire women's basketball team and gymnastics team, i couldn't be bothered to keep track.

The reason i do shag the gals is because it's either fuck them or go PCC, and since it's much much more fun to do it with a partner, (always a gal), the gays can go fuck right off. Anyway, you get the idea lah, drilling pussy more shiok than my right hand.

While some bros may say i have empty heart or no conscience, i'd say it depends on how you look at it. I dun really go out and pursue the women, like call them everyday, send flowers, pick them from work etc because i simply can't be bothered. I go out with them to the club expecting that at some point, she'll have her mouth clamped around my dick, if not, i'll just move onto someone else, no hard feelings.

When i did have a gf, i was in a relationship for about 14months, broke up cos she moved away. It was fun though, when we were together, the sex was fantastic, she was damn fit, cross country runner and long distance swimmer, we used to do it all night, from the couch to the kitchen to the shower to the bedroom. :D I did not stray or cheat on her during the time when we went out, like i said, i dun hanker after the pussy, sex is more like a release and hobby rather than an addiction. I dun have to have it with different women.

With regards to nice guys finishing last, while it is true with a lot of the gals, i have experienced it personally as well. Being a nice guy, they'll just want to be friends with you, the moment you start kissing every gal on the dance floor, they'll want you in their pants. Not every gal wants a bad boy though, ironically, these are the naughty gals who've been with every guy on the football team and are sick of being used and thrown aside, so they end up with the nice guys. This does come with a condition though, the nice guy will have to make a move at some point though, if you are VERY NICE, then the gal will just move on to the next NICE GUY.

The nice gals want a bad guy because they're bored, not with you, but with themselves, they've got boring lives, so they need someone from the other side of the tracks to excite them. Somehow the thought of being fucked on the hood of a car and then getting it up the arse and spanked makes them wet. Well they may say it is disgusting, they'll be disgusted if you DON'T try it with them. Trust me bros, personal experience too. Don't be fooled by all that sweet and innocence.

Sorry this is so long, hope the bros are not bored by me rambling on and on.

JAXXX

10-05-2005, 01:29 AM

True that when a nice guy do get a girl, it's usually the gal who's been around the block. For a lack of a better term, "hand-me-downs".

Siam_Bu

10-05-2005, 01:36 AM

First of all,
Sorry this is so long, hope the bros are not bored by me rambling on and on.
no bro its not long, very well explain. great bro :) cheers

jungle boy

10-05-2005, 10:52 AM

I lost count ages ago, after shagging the entire women's basketball team and gymnastics team, i couldn't be bothered to keep track.

wah~ you're also quite an athlete yourself hor? i do agree wholeheartedly that nice girls are bored with some parts of their lives and we need to allow our "bad side" to emerge once in a while to excite them :D

machoman

10-05-2005, 11:27 AM

whitegals, if I am not mistaken, your experiences were with white gals while overseas.

In the local context, you may not have it as easy as you have related. :cool:

Soven

10-05-2005, 05:23 PM

True that when a nice guy do get a girl, it's usually the gal who's been around the block. For a lack of a better term, "hand-me-downs".

well the nice guy can hand her down oso... such gers dont realli deserve nice guys too haha... sorrie if i said anything wrong or offended anyone.

LessThanJake

10-05-2005, 10:38 PM

& i tot i was bad

10 cc well said

sg69

10-05-2005, 11:01 PM

luck do play a part in bedding gals. well, i have my fair share of gals from all walks of life and different kind of encounters. some of these gals n encounters are simply unbelieveable. I am no brad pitt, neither am i rich as bill gates...wat i have i shld say is initiative....hehehe...u see, gals here need to be motivated...make the 1st move then see how it goes...if it goes ur way...fine...u get another fuck...if it doesnt...no harm done n u wont waste time on her...dats me....btw...my nick used to be sex.69.com....my true stories were posted b4 bt i cant seem to find it...wanted to continue from there but cldnt remember whr i stop...any brudders still remember?

:)

JAXXX

11-05-2005, 02:42 AM

whitegals, if I am not mistaken, your experiences were with white gals while overseas.

In the local context, you may not have it as easy as you have related. :cool:

well, i wouldn't say that bro machoman, seeing that bro whitegals might have spent a huge amount of time maybe in US(?) That American slang/accent can come in really handy. SG girls are suckers for that kinda thing. :D

machoman

11-05-2005, 03:49 AM

First of all, what's the big deal if you've shagged a couple of hundred babes? I lost count ages ago, after shagging the entire women's basketball team and gymnastics team, i couldn't be bothered to keep track.

"shagging the entire women's basketball and gymnastics team"???.... now, you try that in Sg, JAXXX???

In Sg, I doubt very much that if you managed to just shag just one of the team members,the others would even consider a date with you. :cool:

JAXXX

11-05-2005, 03:58 AM

"shagging the entire women's basketball and gymnastics team"???.... now, you try that in Sg, JAXXX???

In Sg, I doubt very much that if you managed to just shag just one of the team members,the others would even consider a date with you. :cool:

Basketball team? I would like to try a gymnast tho. :D But anyway, bro, i dun have what it takes lah.

machoman

11-05-2005, 04:02 AM

Basketball team? I would like to try a gymnast tho. :D But anyway, bro, i dun have what it takes lah.

That's why I told whitegals in my earlier post that he will not have it that easy in Sg, even if he had done it to the white gals overseas. :cool:

fishing around

11-05-2005, 06:06 AM

hi all.

what i feel about this is that there are nice gals out there. i personally know some of them who are nice and single. and they are not actually looking for the bad guys.

nice guys, just have to know how to act according to situations and react accordingly.

as a "nice guy" myself, what i think is most irritating is the gals whom u have supported always makes alot of promises to u, but when u approach them for some form of consolation and just a ear, they would most of the time be either busy with their new relationships or just can't be bothered. wtf man. so sometimes it makes u wonder was it worth all ur time and effort or not in the first place.

just take it as a life experience and move on, knowing that u have helped someone, although u might not have been on the receiving end, but it feels good to have helped pple?

ct75

11-05-2005, 02:00 PM

One piece of advice... when u least expect it, it will happen. And dont go telling the girl u love her and all.... most girls now just want a good fuck. Trust me on that...... I used to be sentimentate all over this fling..... until I realised finally she just wanted sex... and what she said was true "We are just two adults having sex with each other"

groo

11-05-2005, 05:58 PM

...Oddly enough, I actually find it more compelling and fulfilling to be nice to WLs these days. At least with them I know my small guestures are appreciated...Wang Ye, ni hao! Long time no tcss... :p i agree with you wholeheartedly... Most WLs i know just want to work hard and hopefully retire early. So working in a HC can be tough work for them... just put yourselves in their shoes and see how you can take it... So when a customer or regular treats them well and respects them, they'll definitely reciprocate with better service and attitude. Whether you think they do it for the $$$ is another matter because it's usually with regulars that they'll sometimes show-and-tell about their unhappiness and misgivings... :(

groo

11-05-2005, 06:41 PM

...1. it has never been about money ...2. it is not about the looks ...3. it is not about being nice ...many ladies longed for fairy-tale endings to their life....*sigh* really old liao... talk so much cock now-a-days....hehheh, uncle 10cc, i empathise with you... i'm also approaching uncle-status in a few years' time... even your name signals a throwback to a more innocent age... Heeheehee!!! :D

I guess i'm one of the lucky ones... i had a sweet looking gf during schooldays... had many guys going after her during my NS time... then many gals went after me during NUS days because me having a SYT gf was common knowledge... so it's true to a certain extent that some gals are just "jian" in that way... :D but i stuck to being a nice guy and eventually married my school sweetheart... Wah, lots of nice memories flooding back... tonight must bonk my missus liao!!! Heeheehee.......!!!

whitegals

11-05-2005, 10:39 PM

That's why I told whitegals in my earlier post that he will not have it that easy in Sg, even if he had done it to the white gals overseas. :cool:

You've completely missed the point, haven't you? I said what's the big deal? So what if i have or have not?

True, the gals overseas here are more readily available, they tend to sit in a corner and giggle, "eh, who's that cute chinese guy?" They think we all like Jet Li or something, KNN.

I've had my fair share of experiences with local gals in SG, though they are not that readily available, some gals are pretty easy if you know where to look and who to approach, doesn't matter if they're chinese, malay or indian. However, I do seem to have more luck with malay gals, dunno why. However, the gals in SG do tend to come with a baggage and take it personally when you call it quits.

By the way, it may sound like a lot, but the basketball team only got 8 gals lah, so kan chiong for what? :cool: