How not to think about sex with a lady?

[SammyNewbie]

I just think it's not possible for me unless the lady is not my type.

Then it's honestly not that I want to, but when I see a lady that's my type I will automatically be "in the mood". Not that I will get erect, but will just automatically feel the urge and think of screwing.

Then also being shy and too much staring will creep a lady out.

So guys, share a little. What are the techniques you use to take your mind off sex while with a lady? If you can't how do you hide it?

If you feel shy to post it here, PM me.

I just find this problem annoying because it messed up my inner game a number of times when I was doing well.

SammyNewbie thanks you in advance for your PMs and posts ^_^

[AvgJoe]

Are you saying everytime you are out with a girl, your whole mind is just thinking of screwing her brains out?
My suggestion is excuse yourself for a moment, go to the toilet and jerk it off. Also, stop staring or talking to her boobs. Listen to what she says and look at her face instead.

[sg_boytoy]

Try to imagine the lady with a long thick cock, if you still want to have sex with 'her' then all the best!

[owl888]

Try to imagine the lady with a long thick cock, if you still want to have sex with 'her' then all the best!

Lol, likedat u may not even wanna see the "lady" gain! :D

[SammyNewbie]

Well, I can still chat with her, and I'm not looking at her boobs, but there's just the thought to bonk her and I think that's the problem cause I give off a certain vibe after that.

I dunno how to explain it.

If a MILF or lady within a certain age range close to mine comes near, somehow the bonk thought appears. *shrug*

Maybe I should just get laid really often for awhile when I find a gal that likes me, and then the bonk thought will go away. That's what some friends told me, but anyway, the problem is finding the gal while having the bonk thought.

Anything you guys do to actually hide this devil's tail or something?

[muscleboi]

bro, i face the same problem as well. :o what i do is to try to either tell jokes or act serious..not very effective. haha. any experienced bros can advise will be great. :D

[justwanadoit]

Bro, u chao newbie . Gals like guys who tink about sex ok

[SammyNewbie]

Even if you are right, if you are obvious and your colleagues suan seow them non stop they will deny to the end. They like you to desire them, not to look like you are gonna rape them ;)

[Quietlife]

Hay bro,
Yep, same for me here. Especially when i'm not having sex for a couple of week.
Here is something i try:
Masterbating early in the morning tends to helps, but the draw back is it took out energy out of your body ( is it just me?)

Deep breath, feel the breath going into the tips of your nose and feel it coming out from the tip of your nose. Do it slowly and repete is till you calm down.

Sometime, i do this stupid imagination like thinking about consequences ya know this i should not be doing and stuff... and bad for kamar blah blah blah (more like psyching myself out really but help)

Well, if you have a gf/wife or sex partner and they are not available for the period of time which you can't wait anymore, there's always PROFESSIONAL. Spend a few bucks and you feel great. ( kinda really bad if you did thought , then again its better than going out of control against your friend or the lady in question)

If you are a loner, do some spot, and keep your mind and body out of sex. Keep yourself busy.

Hope this help
Cheers mate

[justl00king]

Try to imagine the lady with a long thick cock, May be even more of a turn on for some bros! :eek: :p

[meganfoxer]

If that happens to me, i usually go find any activities that i usually spend a lot of time in it like playing sports or games :p

[SammyNewbie]

Masterbating early in the morning tends to helps, but the draw back is it took out energy out of your body ( is it just me?)


No it's true. I did do it one morning during my NS days. After that I remember that day, my warrant officer was damn high that he as a 50 year old can outrun a young punk like me during 2.4.

The truth was that I was extremely drained from my extra-curricular activity.


If you are a loner, do some spot, and keep your mind and body out of sex. Keep yourself busy.


For this, the inverse is actually true. When I was doing tai-chi, my energy levels were extremely high and my horniness and sex drive actually went up. It got so bad I actually had to immediately shower and go cheong after one particular session :eek:

I will try the breathing techniques thing. The karma thing doesn't quite work for me because I was religious in the past, and well that didn't help much.

But anyway, thanks for your advice. :)

[lotsfits80]

I just think it's not possible for me unless the lady is not my type.

Then it's honestly not that I want to, but when I see a lady that's my type I will automatically be "in the mood". Not that I will get erect, but will just automatically feel the urge and think of screwing.

Then also being shy and too much staring will creep a lady out.

So guys, share a little. What are the techniques you use to take your mind off sex while with a lady? If you can't how do you hide it?

If you feel shy to post it here, PM me.

I just find this problem annoying because it messed up my inner game a number of times when I was doing well.

SammyNewbie thanks you in advance for your PMs and posts ^_^

It's either your mind have sex with her, or your body. Hard to choose bro.

[Me Siam Bu]

lol lady wif cock. yeah.

[bus72]

Well same goes for me, I always tend to see chio bu whenever I on the move & damn, sometimes their dressing are a killer to me or their cups or butts. As the saying goes, can see but cannot touch :mad:

Anyway the one way for me not to be distracted with it is to hear music & tend to not to look at them? That works for me somehow

[downloader]

Hey Bro,

I understand what you mean by it messes with your inner game therefore screwing up your chances with her if you're not being yourself.

It's your mind imagining the possiblities of what may or may not happen between you and her, be it trying to get into her pants or having a relationship with her.

Don't worry, it happens to most people. One of the approach you can use is try not to think too much of what may or may not happen. Instead treat her as a friend, talk to her like you're communicating with another female friend of yours.

You'll discover she be more receptive towards you regardless whether she has any interest towards you or not. If it doesn't work out between you and her, at least you have another female friend who might have hot friends.

Just my two cents. Hope it's useful.

[SammyNewbie]

I know... these days they like to wear either flared skirt that focuses on the ass or those very bad taste KTV mei skirts that short and hug and show their butt one. Sometimes see on MRT or Bus Interchange, wah kao eh. Then somemore always where those v neck dress to show off boob cleavage. Will really go crazy one lor sometimes... :eek:

The thing is the only thing that can distract me from this is programming. I know that once I start programming and I got stuff to do, I don't really think about sex, I'm mostly mumbling and grumbling about the problem and thinking of what to do.

But it seems odd to programme while chatting or on a date. Music ah... Maybe can try that lor. Or maybe should just be shy but go talk to them and hope they will bed me. If problem solve this way, good liao lor :D

[muscleboi]

Well same goes for me, I always tend to see chio bu whenever I on the move & damn, sometimes their dressing are a killer to me or their cups or butts. As the saying goes, can see but cannot touch :mad:

Anyway the one way for me not to be distracted with it is to hear music & tend to not to look at them? That works for me somehow

bro, i hear you. me too! can see cannot touch. touch already pocket burn (fine) one butt slap = sgd5k. with that money, can go legal house for a few months! :eek:

[LovePotion]

i think it is advisable for u to jerk it off before meeting those ladies...;)