Need help, caught my wife with another guy

[dianxin]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.

[woohooo]

Sorry to hear that :(.

How have things been between you & your wife before this? Strained relationship? Or you didn't suspect a thing?

[sammyboyfor]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.

You fuck other girls (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411610&highlight=#post7411610). She fucks other guys. Life goes on. :p

[bonky]

Record or take a picture of the action. Its important that you protect yourself that you have evidence that she cheated and not you. Otherwise, in the worse event, you lose more than you expect.

[dianxin]

I haven't fuck other gals yet, I want a divorce

[dianxin]

Only took of 2 nude withy wife sucking his duck, enough?

[Greendevil]

You can apply for divorce under adultry. Do save the video for future use as evidence.

[dianxin]

Divorce cost 3k right?

[Greendevil]

Alternatively resolve it in an amicable manner and neg your deal with her in the divorce term since you have evidence on hand and also a lady will want her reputation. U may get off a better term in this manner

[dianxin]

our house haven't past the 5 year yet, hdb will come for it right?

[muscleboi]

You fuck other girls (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411610&highlight=#post7411610). She fucks other guys. Life goes on. :p

i agree with bro sammy. you have the full license to fuck around now.

don't divorce. hurt your pocket only. 50-50 division of asset leh, bro and its regardless she cheated or you cheat..adultery isn't one of the strong claims for not dividing assets equally. unless you have less assets than your wife, don't divorce.

think carefully. she hurt your heart already. dont let her hurt your pocket!!

[dianxin]

I have less then 9k in bank, she has 140k in bank

[KimchiAddict]

Sorry to hear about the news bro! Either way its a lose-lose situation for you! Right now you have to first calm down and come up with the best way to minimise your damage!

[muscleboi]

I have less then 9k in bank, she has 140k in bank

:o you bad boy you.... go for it then :D

[dianxin]

Any lawyer here want to earn my money?

[sammyboyfor]

I haven't fuck other gals yet, I want a divorce

So all this action that you described here was a figment of your imagination???:eek:

just tried xiao han of 1656 if im not wrong
age 23 from hangzhou standing at a height of 158 i guess

cute and petite with nice boobs and butt
gfe damn high and blow for me non stop
loved the way she cuddled with me

finished off with doggy as i cant tahan when bonking from the view behide

It seems that there's one rule for you and another rule for her. Two can play the same game you know.

[muscleboi]

but then again, do you have kids? if yes, then that will be sad for your kids.....

[dianxin]

My brother using lah

[yellowleaf]

our house haven't past the 5 year yet, hdb will come for it right?

If u divorce now, HDB will take back your flat at the price you bought at 90%.
talk to your wife, endure till MOP then sell it to open market. more worth it.

just my view.

[dianxin]

No kids, no car

[muscleboi]

So all this action that you described here was a figment of your imagination???:eek:



It seems that there's one rule for you and another rule for her. Two can play the same game you know.

LOL :D bro, best. powerz

[dianxin]

Later she transfer her money away how?

[sammyboyfor]

My brother using lah

You expect us to believe this sort of shit?:rolleyes:

[muscleboi]

90% of the original price?? :eek:

not worth it.

chiam xiong with your wife...but if 70k of her savings is good enough for you.... :D 10% give hdb lim kopi??

[tcrecruit]

Keep all the evidence or make her write a confession. Women's charter protects the women fiercely. Last thing u want is her asking u for monthly alimony even though her fault. With the evidence, u can take your time to think through you want to give her a 2nd chance?

[muscleboi]

shucks...ya she can transfer her money away....then dont divorce lor...since no money to get... :o

[sammyboyfor]

My brother using lah

What about this one... your brother again...???? :D

let me know if your wife want to try more guys i will be glad to help:)

[muscleboi]

that kind of situation, dont use offensive, bro.. adapt passive aggresive behaviour :o

[hunter12]

Hi bro TS, sry to hear tat.. however, I agreed with sammyboyfor, nowsaday, guy n gal same... all r fucking ard... if I am in ur shoe, I will not kick up a fuss n jus div her but than, I will hold the evidence to talk to her n div in an amicable manner... I can't find an excuse to screw her or what since I myself do fuck ard... I jus div n move on.. I did tell my wife many times, dun need to fuck behind me. If u wan to leave me for other guy whom she think can bring her more happiness or think I not gd enough.. tell me, I will sign the paper inorder to let her b happy..

Do take care. can go to any lawyer ba, dun need a gd one..

[mr_missile]

What about this one... your brother again...???? :D

big boss lagi CSI lah......:eek::D:D

[sammyboyfor]

big boss lagi CSI lah......:eek::D:D

No CSI involved. Just clicked on his nick to view his older posts.

[dianxin]

What about this one... your brother again...???? :D

Yes ah, believe me will die meh? My head very big now

[99546]

Bro,

Sorry to hear tat.

If u wan divorce wif her in adultery. U must employ PI as what I know. Coz ur proof tat u hae is not counted in the court. And employ a PI will be in a high cost. If u really wan divorce. I think u go n consult a lawyer first. Coz u will noe more abt divorce. And plan what to do. It is better don walk 2 this situation coz ITE is guys lose more. Sit down and talk wif her n c can save back this relationship if u both love each other. But mostly is very hard 4 guys under this situation.

Currently I also in divorce situation. Now in processing state. I learn alot from those lawyers and PI. Bro, keep calm and think what u wana to do.

[Codylm]

Hello,

ask yourself why she go and find another guy...

do your wife always enjoy luxury life...$$$$$$
if she want a lot on luxury life..

Then be careful , once you don't have $$$

I think she will leave you , the problem will come back again...

this is some of view i saw my friend , got divorce also the same thing..
but he is lucky , didn't caught on Bed...

lastly out there , there is also some of other's ppl wife fk around..

[sane]

our house haven't past the 5 year yet, hdb will come for it right?

No kids, no car

U can either surrender the flat to HDB or transfer her name to 1 of your sibling/parent. As for loan part, reapply loan and HDB will transfer her share back to her. If u hit 35, u might even get the flat for yourself.

How long is your marriage? I don't see a reason to divorce ASAP, u can opt to move out/separation without signing the official documents.

Wait till the time is up to sell the flat in the open market, make some profit before going separate way.

Opt for a amicable split up so she wont ask for alimony and to avoid heavy legal fee.

[fictionman]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.

Offer any help????....Im scratchin my balls now by wat u need fm us

[sky_liner2]

Keep all the evidence or make her write a confession. Women's charter protects the women fiercely. Last thing u want is her asking u for monthly alimony even though her fault. With the evidence, u can take your time to think through you want to give her a 2nd chance?

Heard that you have to file it with the evidence within 6 months, if not, it will be void. Correct me if I am wrong......

[dianxin]

We been married for close to 5 years, she from prc, to Singapore citizen because of me, and the worst part is that guy got no money, flat bought for close to 2 years only, and I'm 31

[maddog_mlvn]

No CSI involved. Just clicked on his nick to view his older posts.

Boss u no good lah. So fast picak lobang, no story to read already. Next time let the cat out and let it run all over the place first lah, then move in for the KILL.

[5ag1_Boar]

Best go and talk to a lawyer. 1st Consultation is usually free or $50 to $100, unless you go to those super atas lawyers. Before you go, ask friends or SBF bros to recommend good divorce lawyers (not just any lawyer). Then call the firm and tell them you considering divorce and would like to consult the lawyer first and ask how much for first meeting.

[JavX]

We been married for close to 5 years, she from prc, to Singapore citizen because of me, and the worst part is that guy got no money, flat bought for close to 2 years only, and I'm 31

Bro, if u r considering divorce so easily, she must have character flaws also right? If u truely loves her, u won't even consider divorce until u exhaust all options. Maybe your mind is already set and u just need a reason to divorce. Anyway, try to go for amicable split like the other bros said.

btw, how come your wife so much more money than you?

[dianxin]

Spend mine keeps hers loh

[WhyWhy00]

Spend mine keeps hers loh

Don't think is a good thing to reveal your wife's financial out in public and also from what i have read, you have no intend to discuss/talk to your wife.

[1118]

We been married for close to 5 years, she from prc, to Singapore citizen because of me, and the worst part is that guy got no money, flat bought for close to 2 years only, and I'm 31

actually is there a way to revoke her singapore citizenship? sad to say that to a foreigner girl the most valuable asset of a singapore man is the singapore citizenship.

[AirBust]

She a prc? What can I say other than you being stupid enough to marry one.

[fictionman]

She a prc? What can I say other than you being stupid enough to marry one.

Somehow somewhere u got a valid case

[sammyboyfor]

She a prc? What can I say other than you being stupid enough to marry one.

Obviously didn't read the links in my signature. :rolleyes:

[chnhubby71]

delete post

[Big_sam]

I think the best way would be get it done and over with. Look for a lawyer asap and know the consequence that you will face or benefit you will get :D which is unlikely.

Have you actually confronted her with the video recording ? I suggest you keep hold of your temper and try to solve it amicably else you would be even at the losing end. Hope you can gain back your freedom and move on to your next phase of life soon yea ;)

[maotaicat]

What about this one... your brother again...???? :D

Sam, Life is not plain sailing. At that time, he was just trying to help
a brother here. Now he is in need of help from brothers & sisters here.
Give this guy a break. LOL

KARMA is in operation.

[dianxin]

Kns, u all still can make fun of me.

[tcrecruit]

Read on the sticky thread in the forum about divorce la...

[chnhubby71]

delete post

[dianxin]

Thanks for all your answers bros, I'm still in a fix

[jameschong1]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.
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show us the video as proof. we all can b your witness in court.
also shame the other guy & get him in trouble by sending to his co & wife.
meanwhile wear your army GREEN HATwhen u go out.

[dasmondsim82]

Thanks for all your answers bros, I'm still in a fix
Forgive her if you still love her

[chnhubby71]

delete post

[oldghost]

Boss u no good lah. So fast picak lobang, no story to read already. Next time let the cat out and let it run all over the place first lah, then move in for the KILL.

damn i love this quote:p

[DemonicSS]

Thanks for all your answers bros, I'm still in a fix

How about collecting more evidence and later use it on her to keep her in tow? Make sure u have duplicate copies of it. :D

But I don't really see an issue as you clearly been fucking around. Your reasoning doesn't hold water, so she fucks around too, big deal?

Also, consider the possibility that she found out first that you have been screwing around, so she's doing it to 'even the playing field'?

Or maybe, we take the excuse of what you said which is that the only pussy you have tasted is your wife, but she found your sbf account with all it's juicy stories made by your didi ..... Need I say more? Go talk with her.

Btw , how I wish my 'brother' could read and write too other then just enjoying fucking pussies and cumming. :D

[S2000]

Later she transfer her money away how?

You'll not get a single cent unless you can prove that the money in her account was part of a join savings or earnings.

Division of assets is just to divide assets generated in the course of marriage.

[dianxin]

Wah! getting darker, like no hope Liao

[S2000]

Wah! getting darker, like no hope Liao

Plus side is, HDB re-aquire back your flat at your purchase price or at 90% of valuation, whichever is lower.

[sammyboyfor]

Plus side is, HDB re-aquire back your flat at your purchase price or at 90% of valuation, whichever is lower.

Forget about trying to make things work. Your wife's actions are all part of a devious scheme that is standard practice amongst PRC girls in Singapore.

Just move on and don't get fooled again the next time round.

Read http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=282742

Sorry for my poor english grammer. I hope u guys can understand what Im trying to tell. True story !! I heard from prc girls talking about getting married into sg at coffe shop. They planned everything sui sui before hand. After they get PR, they will work at MP. Those life firing 1 lah of coz. If they get caught by husband, they already know what to say to shut their husband up. " Now my family in china need money..bro..sis schooling , house renovation. . I need to send back few thousands sgd per month . I know you cant help me. Thats why Im earning myself . If you cant help me, is ok fine . I earn myself, so pls dont stop me. If you want to stop me, then u have to give me few k monthly to send back. " I guess their parents also involved with the plot. So guys..think twice . Im not trying to say all prc girls are sux lah..but most of them are like that.

Im not asking for up points or what ever ...

[micmac888]

Wah! getting darker, like no hope Liao

Was there any in the first place for you ?

1. you eat outside , so why not your other half.

2. instead of going to the lawyer(s), you seek atten... oops advice here.

3. if the situation is as real and dire as it seems , you can still be forumming now and replying etc.

good luck. you need it.

[Greendevil]

You'll not get a single cent unless you can prove that the money in her account was part of a join savings or earnings.

Division of assets is just to divide assets generated in the course of marriage.

Bro S2000 is rite. Don think of getting a cut from her assets. But will be useful info and take into account if thing turn ugly like asking alimony. As for hdb sale, it will be divided based on each contribution to purchase or matrimonial flat as well as year of marriage. Since marriage for 2 yrs only, probably it will not have any adverse effect on it.

[notti4u]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.

Bro, IP cam got speaker and recording. Why didn't you speak over the Ip cam and let your wife know that she is been watched? Also, you can recorded the whole show and use it in the court as a prove? By the way, why you install Ip cam in your bedroom? :confused:

[ah rat]

Dear bros,
Can anyone offer any help?
Caught my wife with another guy in my bedroom about to fuck on ip cam.

TS,can go threesome :)

[neitous]

Sorry to hear this bro. But like one of the ts mention, regardless of who commited adultery , asset will be half. Not worth it I guess ?

[ah rat]

Only took of 2 nude withy wife sucking his duck, enough?

Able to share pixs :D

[geckoSG]

Able to share pixs :D

We share same thinking...

[Thug]

I haven't fuck other gals yet, I want a divorce

Then divorce lo...she dont get anything from u, provided you have the concrete evidences that she is cheating on you.

[sootongs]

Dim sum... Delete your old thread before she uses it against u :D

[dianxin]

I already say not me Liao, ask them check IP address loh.

[Dtsyl]

If u divorce now, HDB will take back your flat at the price you bought at 90%.
talk to your wife, endure till MOP then sell it to open market. more worth it.

just my view.

Yes. Very true. I did the same for my divorce. But u gotta submit the papers only after u sell

[flowbow]

TS,can go threesome :)

Able to share pixs :D

TS already so ke lian liao, why you still chak him like free like that :D

[sleepy80]

TS already so ke lian liao, why you still chak him like free like that :D

Haha obviously 'chaking' is free one lar... Since when needs money de.. :D

[Ecuader]

If you cannot beat them, join them.:p

[dianxin]

U all damm evil, kns demon see u guys also run

[sleepy80]

You are damn stupid.. Gong Kia see you also peng...

[flowbow]

U all damm evil, kns demon see u guys also run
Like this considered evil meh? People chak you a bit only you cannot tahan liao... No wonder your wife will run away with another man :rolleyes: oops, was that too evil for you? :D

[Fraulein]

TS you're so idiotic you shouldn't have been born

[Sg35Drew]

Wah! getting darker, like no hope Liao

well hope bro dianxin would calm down

[maotaicat]

Sam, Life is not plain sailing. At that time, he was just trying to help
a brother here. Now he is in need of help from brothers & sisters here.
Give this guy a break. LOL

KARMA is in operation.

Hi SAM, did you zapped me for posing this??? Thanks

[ah rat]

TS already so ke lian liao, why you still chak him like free like that :D

Like this considered evil meh? People chak you a bit only you cannot tahan liao... No wonder your wife will run away with another man :rolleyes: oops, was that too evil for you? :D

Sis,see his link,u will know the answer.
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411628&highlight=#post7411628
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411610&highlight=#post7411610
It fair for his wife to eat outside :D

[patt663]

aiyo.....really Karma....PRC's karma in rotate..wat goes around comes around

[sammyboyfor]

Hi SAM, did you zapped me for posing this??? Thanks

I have never zapped anyone in my life. If there is a problem with a member, I simply ban the guy forever. :D

[naan1974]

TS, since already like this ..why not you play along
and slower get some monies out of her before leaving her.
but again... not sure she would end up sucking more money from
you

[mr_missile]

TS,can go threesome :)

hahaha.....bro rat, your sense of humour very good lah! :D:D

[maotaicat]

I have never zapped anyone in my life. If there is a problem with a member, I simply ban the guy forever. :D

SAM, you know my style. I am not refering to you. I am just curious to find
out who the hell zapped me for 5 points and the reason behind. Thats all.

I just want to know who that coward is???

[ah rat]

SAM, you know my style. I am not refering to you. I am just curious to find
out who the hell zapped me for 5 points and the reason behind. Thats all.

I just want to know who that coward is???

Bro,If he zap,he will leave his nick name :)

[maotaicat]

Bro,If he zap,he will leave his nick name :)

Brother RAT,of course I know It was not SAM who zapped me.

It was just my wishful thinking that SAM will tell me who the culprit was.

Anyway, thanks for your kind ADVICE.

[flowbow]

Sis,see his link,u will know the answer.
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411628&highlight=#post7411628
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7411610&highlight=#post7411610
It fair for his wife to eat outside :D
I see liao, that's why I also join in to chak him mah :D:p

[flowbow]

SAM, you know my style. I am not refering to you. I am just curious to find
out who the hell zapped me for 5 points and the reason behind. Thats all.

I just want to know who that coward is???
How he know your style? You and him good friends? :confused::D

[maotaicat]

How he know your style? You and him good friends? :confused::D

Unfortunately not. Apologise if my statement caused any misunderstanding.

[GirlsUnlimited]

Feel sorry for TS. Any updates since yesterday?

[yang punk]

TS. How come your wife so rich got so much money in her account? Perhaps she has been busy selling her services whilst you are at work! In which case you may as well go along with her and help pimp her and make some money as well before you divorce her.

Under the circumstances you can negotiate with her to divorce based on irreconcilable differences and keep the flat for yourself as well. But make sure you have concrete evidence of her fucking around! :D

[ethl]

Heard that you have to file it with the evidence within 6 months, if not, it will be void. Correct me if I am wrong......

Yes, this is right. It's called acquiescence. If I'm not wrong, Singapore law has the time bar as 6 months as you mentioned.