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cancum
27-05-2013, 01:57 PM
Found my wife have been talking n smsing alot to one particular HP nos. Suspecting something amiss, i went to the teleco n obtain a detailed listing of her past 2 month bill. Suspect she might be up to no good.

Tried getting someone to call that nos but nv pick up. Stopped after few attempt. Didn't want to alert that fella. Till now, still in the dark whether that Hp is a guy or a gal.

What can i do next ? Any Bros/Sis can help or advise ?

Thank in advance.

hrodger25
27-05-2013, 02:12 PM
for your case,this is difficult.why not try to engage a PI?

best is if you and your wife can sit down and have a heart to heart talk to settle your worry.

Vertu
27-05-2013, 02:22 PM
Just don't jump to conclusion too fast .

If you really want , can install a apps on her HP , all sms will be copy and send to a destinated nos .

owl888
27-05-2013, 02:37 PM
Bro if everything normal, esp SEX then dunn rock the boat. Trust once broken can be very hard to fix!

cancum
27-05-2013, 03:37 PM
Bro, PI engaged but she she super alert. PI told me they can't do must at the present moment n ask me to give them sometime so as not to arouse her suspicion b4 they decide what to do next.

Actually she had filed the divorce paper on me thus leading me to suspect of her. :(

for your case,this is difficult.why not try to engage a PI?

best is if you and your wife can sit down and have a heart to heart talk to settle your worry.

cancum
27-05-2013, 03:41 PM
Hi Vertu, thank u for headup.

How do i go about it installing the apps on her HP? Yr kind sharing will be deeply apperciated. If it's not convincence for u to disclose it over here, would u kindly PM instead?

Oh.... btw, she 24/7 hugged onto her HP. :(

Just don't jump to conclusion too fast .

If you really want , can install a apps on her HP , all sms will be copy and send to a destinated nos .

Beachsea
27-05-2013, 03:44 PM
Bro, PI engaged but she she super alert. PI told me they can't do must at the present moment n ask me to give them sometime so as not to arouse her suspicion b4 they decide what to do next.

Actually she had filed the divorce paper on me thus leading me to suspect of her. :(

Hi Chance you posting here will alert the other party 'guy'
Sammyboy forum is know to all Guys (so long they start thinking dirty) in Singapore.

Since he filed for divorce , any reason why you still want to PI her?
If need to , i seriously think you need to re-org your plan. Less further discussion here. If he is here , whatever advice given is pointless over here liao.

* she is so alert , high chance you are being played into their game and not the other way round! re-group, re-plan , re-org .............. contingency!!!!!

kooolboy
27-05-2013, 04:05 PM
If she serve divorce paper on you. Let go already... whats the point.

Snipers
27-05-2013, 04:25 PM
Let it go. Dun waste the resources

cancum
27-05-2013, 04:42 PM
Since she filed for divorce , any reason why you still want to PI her?


Beachsea, If she is caught of adultery in this instance, then i don't hv to lose so much to her.( Children, house, maintenance....etc )


If she serve divorce paper on you. Let go already... whats the point.

Kooolboy, i hope u not married yet. I've spent 20 years with her and I still love her alot till today. Although i did eat out at times, but my heart goes back to my warm home at the end of the day. I love the family n the children. It's nv easy to just say " Let Go ! " I hope u understand where I'm coming from.

lotsfits80
27-05-2013, 06:27 PM
Found my wife have been talking n smsing alot to one particular HP nos. Suspecting something amiss, i went to the teleco n obtain a detailed listing of her past 2 month bill. Suspect she might be up to no good.

Tried getting someone to call that nos but nv pick up. Stopped after few attempt. Didn't want to alert that fella. Till now, still in the dark whether that Hp is a guy or a gal.

What can i do next ? Any Bros/Sis can help or advise ?

Thank in advance.

Use your wife's phone call up that guy and tell him you're calling from <hospital name> and pretend you're male receptionist with polite tone, then claim your wife (full name) fainted at street and not yet awake. Tell him this is the last number she called and tell him to verify at hospital. Then go to hospital and sit near the counter (but try to avoid being seen/wear mouth mask and cap) then camp for him.

cuntarow
27-05-2013, 06:50 PM
Use your wife's phone call up that guy and tell him you're calling from <hospital name> and pretend you're male receptionist with polite tone, then claim your wife (full name) fainted at street and not yet awake. Tell him this is the last number she called and tell him to verify at hospital. Then go to hospital and sit near the counter (but try to avoid being seen/wear mouth mask and cap) then camp for him.

wow sound quite stupid. but nonetheless i know u trying to help, so dun get offended

Hi Vertu, thank u for headup.



Oh.... btw, she 24/7 hugged onto her HP. :(


obviously u did not read his post carefully

Jaguar99
27-05-2013, 10:50 PM
Anyone knows how much to hire PI service to check on spouse?
I may need one too....:o

BMW730LI
27-05-2013, 10:55 PM
Found my wife..

What can i do next ? Any Bros/Sis can help or advise ?

Thank in advance.

Send you a PM

flowbow
27-05-2013, 10:57 PM
Bro, PI engaged but she she super alert. PI told me they can't do must at the present moment n ask me to give them sometime so as not to arouse her suspicion b4 they decide what to do next.

Actually she had filed the divorce paper on me thus leading me to suspect of her. :(
I think you need to engage a better PI :D which firm did you engage...?

alan4368
27-05-2013, 11:37 PM
Just don't jump to conclusion too fast .

If you really want , can install a apps on her HP , all sms will be copy and send to a destinated nos .

What apps is that???

ConnerDoReMe
27-05-2013, 11:52 PM
Bro, PI engaged but she she super alert. PI told me they can't do must at the present moment n ask me to give them sometime so as not to arouse her suspicion b4 they decide what to do next.

Actually she had filed the divorce paper on me thus leading me to suspect of her. :(


Sure able to dig some stuffs out fm an efficient PI...!

99546
28-05-2013, 12:22 AM
Bro cancum,

if you have engaged PI, you must know your wife movement very well, so that PI can solve the problem fast. As you say that if caught adultery, no need to lose so much on maintenance, house, children and etc.. Bro, you are wrong, you lose much no matter if your wife is wrong in first place. You should now find a lawyer and understand more.

About the hp, is with her 24/7. Right? Maybe you can wait for her sleep then take her hp. She can't be very alert all the way. Call the number using public phone. If the person don answer. Call when in middle of night or early morning. Coz a person is sleeping, hp rang, will still in blur condition answer the phone. And you will know is he or she .

Turtle
28-05-2013, 01:39 AM
Found my wife have been talking n smsing alot to one particular HP nos.

Have you ever wonder that the number may also belong to her PI that she has engaged to track you? ;)

cereal-killer
28-05-2013, 02:01 AM
Anyone knows how much to hire PI service to check on spouse?
I may need one too....:o

Usually 2k to 3k depending on scope of job and how detail you want.

cereal-killer
28-05-2013, 02:07 AM
Bro cancum,

if you have engaged PI, you must know your wife movement very well, so that PI can solve the problem fast. As you say that if caught adultery, no need to lose so much on maintenance, house, children and etc.. Bro, you are wrong, you lose much no matter if your wife is wrong in first place. You should now find a lawyer and understand more.

If TS filed first, It may be a different story all together. I engaged a PI once, he was so stupid that he exposed himself. Took a picture in front of them. What a dumb ass. Ex wife called me up and told me LOL.

Anyway photograph showing them entering her mother house with them holding hands was Not Good Enough for lawyer. My lawyer was female so she May be siding her and said that photos can't do much in courtZ. Wtf right ?

tijou
28-05-2013, 06:49 AM
[QUOTE=cancum;9060360]Beachsea, If she is caught of adultery in this instance, then i don't hv to lose so much to her.( Children, house, maintenance....etc )

Bro..singapore woman charter.. evidence of her having affair is not gonna help u much. Woman are well protected. First of all , children custody will goes to her unless she doesn't want. The judge will not bother she having affair or not unless u have evidence she ill treat por she is unable to support...

speedy guy
28-05-2013, 11:09 AM
Red light is lit, time to hire a PI .

cancum
28-05-2013, 02:35 PM
Thank u for the positive help.

1) Even if able to get hold of her phone, phone still locked. hv tried.

2) Have got friends n PI to try calling that nos, nv answer at sll.

3) Don't think is nice to share which PI i hv engaged unless thru PM.

4) Yeah, i knew adultery has not much impact on the divorce but at least i know what was the cause behind it n i may expose the other party if he's has a family too. (Die together lah)

Look like i'm going no where. :(

PassingbyJ
28-05-2013, 02:57 PM
Human are creatures of habit.
Do you know any of her password and try?

AirBust
28-05-2013, 03:01 PM
Thank u for the positive help.

1) Even if able to get hold of her phone, phone still locked. hv tried.

2) Have got friends n PI to try calling that nos, nv answer at sll.

3) Don't think is nice to share which PI i hv engaged unless thru PM.

4) Yeah, i knew adultery has not much impact on the divorce but at least i know what was the cause behind it n i may expose the other party if he's has a family too. (Die together lah)

Look like i'm going no where. :(

I guess the next best thing is to sit down with her and talk terms. Then see how much you can facilitate this marriage or to end this marriage in whatever way she wants.

If you love her, hold on to her if she still loves you. Else, let her go if thats what she wants from you. At least, you have shown her your last act of love for her and she might appreciate it.

Thug
28-05-2013, 03:23 PM
Bro, from what I read, you still love your wife.
Collecting evidence on her affair will only hurt you more.
Men are weird creature. When she is there, we don't treasure. We feel hurt only when she is gone.
I do not know what went wrong between you and your wife.
However, my $0.02, don't dig. It will only hurt those involved.

bigangry
28-05-2013, 03:36 PM
Bro, once she serve you the papers. Get ready to dig out all her dirt and fight it out. Do not lose anything to her, especially if she has been unfaithful.

However like a bro mentioned earlier, you really need to plan your moves at least 2-3 steps ahead of her. Remember do not be emotional.

KitKat
28-05-2013, 04:03 PM
TS, sorry to "borrow" your thread. But can any bros here advice if able to trace the owner of a car with the license plate number known?

dingo1219
28-05-2013, 05:45 PM
http://www.catchcheatingspouse.sg/

Try this? I always chuckle when i see this advertisement on the bumper of taxis.

REDice
28-05-2013, 10:43 PM
Hey TS, im really very sorry to hear about this, you must love your wife a lot to be fretting so much now, but I agree, the more you try to find out, the more hurt you will be, im no guru or what, but maybe you can enlist the help of friends or relatives that you trust (esp. her friends) or how old are your children?if they are mature enough, they may be able to help you fish some info from their mum?i think your children might be the best way to help, after all, your children is her children too, from that point of view, maybe you can work out an amicable resolution, but i know it might be too much to ask from a child esp a young one to help you with such things, why not try to obtain more info about her whereabouts rather than whats her dealings with the other party? I understand that being kept in the dark about such stuff is the most fearful thing one can ever have, anyway, is that number available for call or has it been shut off and uncontactable? chances are that party might have been alerted already but still has to use thatphone, so you might have better luck using a more neutral number rather than private line or handphone numbers, just trying to help out here, i know you must be stressed out totally about this, don't hesitate to comunicate with me if you need a listening ear

99546
29-05-2013, 06:45 AM
I guess the next best thing is to sit down with her and talk terms. Then see how much you can facilitate this marriage or to end this marriage in whatever way she wants.



When a girl have filed for divorce. There is nothing to sit down with her and talk terms. If she want to sit down and talk. She will won't file divorce in the first place. Now is that she feel like talking to you. That's why she engage lawyer and ask the lawyer talk to you.

kimchi
29-05-2013, 06:11 PM
Thank u for the positive help.

2) Have got friends n PI to try calling that nos, nv answer at sll.

Look like i'm going no where. :(

The reason as to why nobody ans is bcoz......................its a line thats solely for the 2 of them to communicate. The other party must have gotten another line. So he will onli ans if its your wife no. They are playing it safe till divorce is finalise, so if end of the day after divorce is finalise, u try calling tat no. lets say a week later, chances are its not in use.

Chances are u r dealing with a smart 3rd party. He himself mayb a married man on the verge of a messy divorce. PM me if u have any queries.

hardworking48
29-05-2013, 06:24 PM
Bro, is your wife using Iphone? If she is, and if she has installed the app "find my iphone", you can easily find her whereabouts by just logging into a PC and onto Itunes. Flip side is you will need to know her Itunes log-in ID and password. Once you know this,you can anytime find her location online.
If you find one day she go Hotel, you go downstairs and wait and beat the shit out of the guy when they come out of the hotel. Of course, take a picture first for proof.

No need to hire PI and waste money.

LovePotion
29-05-2013, 09:55 PM
bro keep cool.... dnot straight away jump into conclusion

donuts77
30-05-2013, 01:51 AM
the number you call still not answering will it be that other guy is using an extra handphone to make it as a "cheong" number and only answer the call from your wife number? got chance that "cheong" number will not entertain other numbers that calling.

1118
30-05-2013, 12:26 PM
Thank u for the positive help.

1) Even if able to get hold of her phone, phone still locked. hv tried.

2) Have got friends n PI to try calling that nos, nv answer at sll.

3) Don't think is nice to share which PI i hv engaged unless thru PM.

4) Yeah, i knew adultery has not much impact on the divorce but at least i know what was the cause behind it n i may expose the other party if he's has a family too. (Die together lah)

Look like i'm going no where. :(

guys are always at the losing side!