Topic : Wives and girlfriends having flings

[Bigbluebird]

This is a discussion thread. Respect one another's opinions and comments. No flaming please.

As much as many of us had and having fuck buddies and flings all around. They can be milfs, syts, co-workers, friends or even total strangers. What if one day you discover that your wife or girlfriend is having an affair behind your back, how would you react and handle it?

Let's be honest with our replies and not just say something so nice yet you know you can't do it.

[alanthedevil]

Then it is quite hard to say how u will react unless u have personally went thru it. I guess as guys, most likely we will not tolerate the girls doing something behind our back. I'm ok for fling without sexual contact, that's my limit

[Tai_zi21]

Guys dun need love to fuck around! But for gals I would say mostly would involved with feelings!

So for me if I find out only divorce is the only way out! If gf then nvm simply look for another new gf

[pizzaboy]

Come to tink of it è fb's eventually belongs to some1 else be it their wife/gf
Wat comes ard goes ard... u bed other ppl's woman, other ppl will bed ur woman. So juz enjoy as life is short, u nv knw wats gonna happen to u è day aft next.

[anton]

There are brothers who found there wives/girlfriends cheating behind their backs, and sharing their stories. Not need to ask them to relive their pains (my opinion only).

Then, we have brothers whose FBs have husbands or boyfriends. How would their FBs' husbands/boyfriends feel about being betrayed?

I guess, men, by nature, are predatory animals, and the thrill of conquest is greater if FBs are already married or attached.

[bfreemen]

Guys dun need love to fuck around! But for gals I would say mostly would involved with feelings!

So for me if I find out only divorce is the only way out! If gf then nvm simply look for another new gf

very hard to reply but what you say is very true .

if the guys cant provide not choice must outsource .

[MCL1881]

I have a friend who once said that he would never forgive his wife and would definitely divorce her if she really fuck ard.


It really did happened to him. We were having heart to heart talk and this was what he said.

Bro, at the moment when I found out about what she did, I was damn angry. For the first hour, I wanted to smash things up and destroy everything I could get my hands on.

However, I started asking myself why did it happen. What went wrong. Why did she do that. Didnt I treat her well enough blar blar blar.

Then I went into a state of depression and just wanted to try all way and means to salvage this marriage (she knows he found out)

I wanted to know whether she still loves me and whether she wanted to start anew. I don't care what she did previously if she can promise me it would never happen again.

But strangely, the wife choose not to continue with their relationship and they divorced.


I guess everyone's reactions would be different. I myself swore that I would never forgive my wife if she does that. But then again, if it really happened to me, I seriously wonder what would my actual reaction be....

[chnhubby71]

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[TehN|]

Well, I would say. It's a matter of nature in man and woman. Sammyboy 名言＂Woman needs a reason, man jus need a place.

This will also mean when a guy fuks he jus wanna fuk. Woman when they fuk they really mean it emotionally and find it harder to let go. Of cause there are exceptions.

As a personal point of view, I would say once a woman fuk outside, her emotions have swung and she is taking seriously about it. Her man will definitely be in a jeopardy state where she will leave him eventually. % wise is 70% leaving.

So the decision thereafter finding out, is up to the individual.

[acidicavex]

We men can put sex before feeling but majority of women don't. They feed on feeling it may be a fling at 1st but eventually feeling will get in the game. It doesn't matter much how the guy feel but what matter is the wife or gf willing to come back and start anew it not a one sided thing. Men majority choose to make the 1st move and majority will want to divorce for the sake of face or pride.
But I notice time have change men nowadays are more forgiving than the past it's however now that the women are more hard on their way maybe due to education or more exposure to the world.

Frankly I would be piss confirm but when time and situation permit Calm down I might think again. Will try to resolve thing in a more calm tide situation. Being heat up and spit and hurl nasty comment at her doesnt help. But If my partner choose to leave than so be it.

[sunhuan-con]

Let them go.....No point to cling on to someone who has no love...Guess if I will tell the gals the same answer too if their bf or husband betrayed them...Love and relationship is base on loyalty.

[Moreliver]

So, you're asking how would I react if I find out my wife is having sex with other people even though I'm already having sex with other people?

There is no reason I should be mad. I can fuck other people, so she can fuck other people. I would only be mad if I'm 100% faithful to her and she wasn't to me.

But if I'm fucking other people already, getting mad would be idiotic. Women should have as much fucking rights as men and they can fuck whoever they want.

Some replies reek of misogyny. :(

[johnnn]

It depends on how much the other party means to you. While we can all claim we would do this or do that, it is our logical head speaking without enotional attachment. When it comes to crunch time our emotions will very likely mix together with our logic.

Many men will always claim they will not accept a cheating other half but not all will go to the breakup step

[chnhubby71]

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[Bastarduo]

Actually after reading so many stories n experiences shared in sbf.. there is one thing i suspect for some time.... is there a cycle inside? i mean could Bro A's fb in his story happen to be Bro X wife?.. n Bro X's bj experience with his office colleague happen to be Bro F's gf?

[sane]

Human are emotional, feelings are complex :cool:

Best to stay alone, less exhausting ...

[Bigbluebird]

Actually after reading so many stories n experiences shared in sbf.. there is one thing i suspect for some time.... is there a cycle inside? i mean could Bro A's fb in his story happen to be Bro X wife?.. n Bro X's bj experience with his office colleague happen to be Bro F's gf?

We live in a very small country, somehow everyone knows one another through some way or another. I won't be surprised if some female leads in the stories written are friends, colleagues, girlfriends or even wives of other fellow SBF members.

Personally if I ever caught my other half having an affair, I won't know if I can control my own emotions but definitely I will end my status with her. It's not a nice thing to be at the receiving end of the stick :cool:

[bfreemen]

So, you're asking how would I react if I find out my wife is having sex with other people even though I'm already having sex with other people?

There is no reason I should be mad. I can fuck other people, so she can fuck other people. I would only be mad if I'm 100% faithful to her and she wasn't to me.

But if I'm fucking other people already, getting mad would be idiotic. Women should have as much fucking rights as men and they can fuck whoever they want.

Some replies reek of misogyny. :(


but the women charter is not as fair as you are .

[sharpshot]

I think it's hard to say for sure until it happens to you. You might think you'll react a certain way, but when it really happens to you, you might react differently.