Cunnilingus ultimate guide

[gyaradoz]

Hi Bros,

I am a total novice in Cunnilingus(eating pussy)but would like to master this wonderful art...

Does any1 knows of great websites/movies etc that have good Cunnilingus tutorial?

Regards
gyaradoz

[gyaradoz]

In addition, does any1 knows of any other great sex forums in the internet that is constantly updated and have lots and lots of tutorials and helpful forum members???

Of course Sammyboy forum is one of them! :)

[kaizer]

i last time come across dis post by a fellow samster. so good dat i decided to keep it. shall post it again in honour of dat samster.


Okay, guys this is for you to read......

No two women are alike when it comes to how they enjoy having their pussy licked, but there are some things you can try to make the experience more pleasurable for her. Obviously, you will need to experiment to discover how your lover likes to be touched, caressed, and licked. Listen to her sounds, watch her body language, and don’t be afraid to ask her if she likes what you are doing. You can also ask her what she wants you to do.




Start slow: Very few women will want you to go straight for her clit unless she’s already aroused before you start getting intimate. Before you head downtown, spend some time kissing and stroking her. Play with her breasts, using your hands and your mouth. Once you arrive at her pussy, don’t immediately dive in. Build up the tension a bit. Some women enjoy a light massage of the mons. Caress her inner thighs. Kiss around her mound and tease her outer lips. Get her to the point where she’s ready to beg before you spread the outer lips and give her the touch she’s craving.


Tongue movements: There are a variety of ways to use your tongue to bring your partner pleasure. It’s a good thing to remember that the clit is extremely sensitive for most women and needs to be very aroused before you can even think about getting rough with it. If you start out that way, you are likely going to make your lover want to jump out of the bed and possibly kill her mood. There’s no rule that says you only have to lick her clit.

Lick around the inner lips and the entrance. More than likely, she’s going to want you to spend most of your time licking the clit, but you don’t have to spend the entire time there. Some guys swear by licking the alphabet. If you have enough concentration for that, then by all means, go for it. The important thing to remember is you need to make steady flowing strokes. It’s okay if you aren’t licking the exact same way the whole time, but you shouldn’t change it up too much or become erratic with the movements. When she’s ready for you to be rougher and lick harder, she’ll let you know. Some women enjoy having their clit or lips sucked on. Experiment and see what your lover likes.


Fingers: Just because it’s called oral sex does not mean that you can’t use your fingers. Many women enjoy being finger fucked while their clit is being licked. If you are going to thrust your fingers inside her pussy, make sure your nails are smooth and there aren’t any rough edges. You could easily cut her sensitive tissue. Don’t shove your finger inside the moment you begin licking her.

Ease into it. Make sure she’s aroused and lubricated first. Go slow and her sounds and movements will let you know when you can thrust deeper and even add a second or more fingers. An alternative to using fingers would be a dildo or vibrator. These allow her to feel as though she’s being penetrated by something as large as a cock and have her clit licked at the same time. It’s a very delicious sensation.


G-spot: Yes, it does exist. The reaction you may get from playing with a woman’s g-spot will vary from woman to woman. Some will get highly excited and have explosive (and even very wet) orgasms. Others may not have such an intense reaction but will still enjoy the extra stimulation. If you put your finger inside palm up, curl it a bit and feel for a bumpy rough spot on the top wall of her pussy. It may seem spongier than the surrounding tissue.

As she gets more aroused, the bumpiness will become more pronounced. You can either rub in a circular motion or press on it rhythmically. The more aroused she becomes, the harder you can manipulate it. If you are doing it correctly, she will get the sensation that she needs to pee. Just ignore her, the feeling will pass as you continue to play with the g-spot. Some women can cum numerous times from g-spot stimulation. For others, it may speed up the time it takes them to cum from oral.


Anal: Yes, you read it correctly. Anal play during oral sex can feel absolutely fantastic. Make sure you have some lube handy if you wish to play with her ass while you are licking her pussy. Even if you are only going to stroke around her anus, you still need to use lube because the area is easily irritated. Anal play can be an exciting addition to oral. The same rule applies here for finger thrusting. Make sure your nails are smooth and you don’t have any rough areas of skin. A thin dildo can also be used.



Oral sex is a wonderful addition to a couple’s sexual relationship. If you pay attention to how your partner reacts, you can bring her much pleasure and have her coming back for more.

a million thanks to dat samster who taught me how to be a skilful tongue person. l0lx!~ happi cheonging!

[gyaradoz]

I have been doing much research...(after creating this thread)

heres my post... No.. I am not contradicting myself.. its just that I am plain lazy earlier to visit other forums other than this wonderful forum...

Bros pls up my rep if you like it... Thanks a million... :)

[gyaradoz]

Play with her first. Kiss and touch her a bit. Rub your face all over her body. Start at her neck and go to her breasts for a while before going South. Don’t tell her you are going to eat her.

You want to do two things in general, followed later by a third, and this will be true for most sexual techniques. The first two are “Tease” and “Suggest”. Suggesting is more like a preparation to teasing. You want her to be comfortable with a sensation and also let her know where you are going. So with her breasts, you would want to lightly trace them before squeezing. It can also be touching near the “target” to be teased, like her belly or between her breasts. Teasing is a retreat from a suggestion, as well as a reinforcement of the suggestion in a building fashion.

Teasing would be to lick around her nipple but stay away from it. Start kissing around the breast for a bit and then come up to the areola. Swirl your tongue around it getting ever closer to the nipple. Hold the breast and come up. Look at her and smile, and move quickly back to the breast with an open mouth. Place your open mouth over the nipple and slowly close it, taking the areola with your closing lips. Let it go before touching the nipple. All of this will suggest nipple stimulation to her, but you will not give it right away. You will be teasing her. Do this back and forth between breasts for a bit. You can also kiss her belly to confuse her. You can also exhale you warm breath slowly on the nipple. You can also add how nice they look, and/or how much you would like to suck then. But don’t, even if she says she would like you to. Just suggest and tease.

The third thing is to “Give” her what you have made her want. Start kissing around the round of one breast. Swirl you cheek around it, and when she least expects it pounce with a sucking mouth upon her nipple. You can of course tease more. Tease less this time and go back and give it to her.

Oral
Foreplay
Drag your fingers along her thighs. You can also bush you hands over her lips and or lighly hold you hand against her lips. Remover your hand. You can start low or high meaning at her neck then breasts, and belly or from her ankles. Either way, brush you check over her skin in a sweeping motion. With one cheek against her skin, turn you head slowly, dragging you face as you move your face from one cheek and end in the same spot, or moving down or across a bit, to the other cheek. You can also do a figure 8, with some kissing before you start to sweep back in the other direction. You will be moving down and suggesting that you are moving your mouth to her vulva (large lips, small lips, hood, clit under the hood). You can continue this, or do it once, move down, kiss, repeat, or just mix the number of times you sweep and kiss. You can also add a light running of your tongue tip in place of kisses. When you reach 3/4 down, you can also move to the belly if you are at her legs, and vise versa. Try to end up at her inner thigh, at her crotch. Do the head sweep across her vulva, very lightly. Lightly kiss her lips once. I would also advise some light face sweeps. Look at what is before you and try to get and understanding for her parts. Look at some porn pictures before you get together.

Start
In time, you can mix and match techniques here. It will never be the same each time, and you will come to know what to do with each of her responses. Aging, look at what is before you, and think about what you are doing and to what.

Then kiss her lips from the bottom up. Leave her hood and clit alone! Run the tip of your tongue along the very edge of her lips. You can also kiss along them too. Do this twice. Once at the top of the lips, go to the middle of the hood. Kiss it lightly several times. Then make on long harder kiss and hold it there. Then with the same firmness, wipe your lips over the hood. Go to the bottom of the lips again. At this point you can press your cheek to her vulva and take in her sent. Moan and tell her how sweet she smells. Kiss the bottom of her lips twice. Then with your tongue were the lips connect, press in a bit and drag it up slowly causing them to part. Do this twice with kissing in between.

Now you can lick a bit with more force and speed. Just think about how good it feels. Think about how she is responding. Lick in different directions and the figure 8 and upside-down J’s.

Return to some slow upward light licks. End at her hood. Trace the edges of the hood. Move under the hood at the end of one of the tracings. Swirl around the base of the clit like you did the nipple. You can move to the hood and then back. A nice “J” around and down. Once back, swirl extremely slow around the tip of the clit. Stop and leave the tip of your tongue there. Let it mover back and forth as if just vibrating. Kiss her hood and go back to licking. Do some more face brushing, but this time, harder so it drags a lip with it. Mix this with licking. You can also move up to go back to a nipple for a little, and then back to licking. During this, you an also reach up and play with her breasts.

At some point, you will start to concentrate on a lot of clit play. You can also always lick during this time. Giving her clit attention can be done through her hood as well. Mix between hood/clit and bare clit. Sucking, licking and pressing with your lips works well. You can also hold her hood back with your lips as you directly lick or suck the clit. When she really gets going and you are nearing the end, you can trap her clit and or hood/clit with your upper lip, and mash it with you hard tongue against your upper lip. Fast feverous, concentrated tonguing to this area can also finish her off. Every woman is different, and the clit can be over stimulated. I only know one woman that only likes attention to her clit, no lips, but I think that is rare.

source : www.femalefirst.co.uk

[gyaradoz]

Heres more : (these are the two which I feel are the better ones I read so far)

My suggestion for improved pussy licking can be summarized in two words: pressure and texture. After reading and understanding the following brief explanation, even an inept cunnilinguist can become competent merely by remembering and implementing the aforesaid two words.
Pressure
When applying pressure with the tongue, inept cunnilinguists confuse pussy licking with f*cking. They penetrate the pussy roughly as if their tongue were a penis, ignoring that the most pleasurable areas for a woman to be licked are outside the vaginal walls. Inept pussy lickers also apply immediate and excessive pressure on the clitoris, ignoring its ultra-sensitivity (particularly when aroused). One should first lick lightly and gently along the outer vaginal lips until the woman becomes wet with arousal. This should be followed by gentle lingual forays to the area surrounding the clit without directly contacting the clit. Then lightly lick in circular fashion along the perimeter of the clit, still without contacting it but with intermittent light blowing of air on the clit itself. If done correctly, the woman will now direct – hopefully implore – that lingual attention be paid to the clitoris. Initial contact with the clitoris should be gentle and light: no biting; no licking with force; and no hard sucking. Begin with gentle and intermittent licking – think of a make-out rather than a f*ck. Increase tongue pressure on the clitoris very gradually and moderately in response to the woman’s expressed pleasure.


At this point, the woman will usually communicate unambiguously if she desires increased tongue pressure. Continue licking – with intermittent blowing – the clitoris until the woman’s arousal builds, then retreat to the vaginal lips. Repeat this procedure as required.

Texture
Altering the texture with which the pussy is licked may seem impossible because we each have only one tongue that cannot be fundamentally altered on demand. This defeatist notion ignores the different textures resulting from different shapes of the tongue. Inept cunnilinguists who confuse licking pussy with f*cking employ a hardened, narrow, pointed tongue shape in an attempt to simulate the penis. The resulting texture applied to the pussy generally does not arouse. The one exception is when the very tip of the tongue is used to lightly lick the clitoris, but this skill is outside the scope of a novice's abilities and thus should be attempted only by intermediate or advanced cunnilinguists. The novice should generally lick pussy with a wide and flat tongue shape, which increases surface area contacting the pussy, provides a more pleasurable texture for the woman and makes it more difficult to use excessive pressure.
Above all, any direction or suggestion by the woman during cunnilingus should be followed religiously.

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tks for the info! thumbs up! good effort! :cool: