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hornybastard
15-06-2013, 10:32 PM
What shld one do if the above happens to you?

alangoh
15-06-2013, 10:39 PM
Then it's time to change your FB...

cheatingchris
15-06-2013, 10:40 PM
Sometimes it is vice versa!

hornybastard
15-06-2013, 11:09 PM
Both knows that it is not possible. That's about it:)

r0y1981
15-06-2013, 11:13 PM
It depends on the individual if he/she see his/her partner is worth it to be in a relationship material. If it's really for FB thing, best to have an agreement first with the status as to avoid hurting one's feelings.

BrandonNg
17-06-2013, 09:50 AM
The reason she is a FB is because you cannot commit for one reason or another. So the best course of action is to run. pass me her contact :) haha, just kidding bro.

aibimy
17-06-2013, 09:52 AM
If you're still single, why not? Haha!

Snipers
17-06-2013, 09:59 AM
That will never happen to me haha

FatSpider
17-06-2013, 10:00 AM
What happens when it's both way

thisisme
17-06-2013, 10:13 AM
Both knows that it is not possible. That's about it:)

Agree ... it can turn out ugly ..

KhunnTey
17-06-2013, 11:26 AM
wah sey! Congrats bro. :D

fictionman
17-06-2013, 11:37 AM
Then it's time to change your FB...

The best answer ever....+4 cherries for u

ohgolly
17-06-2013, 11:43 AM
If you're still single, why not? Haha!

I agree, nothing says that FBs can't develop feelings and end up as something more, right.

owl888
17-06-2013, 11:48 AM
depends on how deep is her love.....to be FB there shd b certain level of love else would be fucking another gal rite? :D

cyclotron
17-06-2013, 03:31 PM
Its okay. Just screw her for as long as you like it.

hornybastard
18-06-2013, 02:58 AM
One is attached.
One is married with family.
Headache.
Didnt expect the unexpected

xinsuile
18-06-2013, 11:27 AM
Your FB and you should come to an argeement before going into this FB commitment.

You can choose to change an FB, or enjoy getting love from both sides (with high risks)!

hornybastard
18-06-2013, 11:30 AM
Your FB and you should come to an argeement before going into this FB commitment.

You can choose to change an FB, or enjoy getting love from both sides (with high risks)!

Mutually agreed n understood already.

sta1100
18-06-2013, 12:03 PM
Before you go in FB game you must make the rele clear :

rule 1 let him/her know you ae married or attach, 2 : able to spend time only on which date, 3 : $$$.

If the opp show sign of love to you better to let he/she know. if still can't better to cut. This is what I did. to save yourself problem later. good for you and the other party.

cncs
18-06-2013, 12:26 PM
I had experience a few years back.
She was married, I was divorce but had a girlfriend. Her sex with hubby wasn't that good and after sometime of chatting and going out we final landed in bed.

At first we had protected sex and after that raw. We only did raw after her menes but there was once she wanted raw during her unsafe period and let me shoot in. I really didn't think much but after that then I realise she wanted to get pregnant so she could be with me.
We talked and told her she could only be my FB, just FB and nothing more than that. She told me she was in Love with me and willing to divorce her husband.

Then I decided that it should come to an end, that's why we split. To me FB will always be FB, nothing should further develop. If you are looking for someone that will lead to a relationship then don't start as FB first, start as friend then to BF/GF.

nuclearkid
18-06-2013, 12:37 PM
If you are getting love from your FB when you are not having any at home (if you are married), it may not be a bad thing. With numerous anecdotes from fellow forummers staying in a loveless marriage, having someone who loves you may not be a bad thing. You both can love each other but return to your own normal lives after each rendezvous, no third person need to know. That's no easy feat to maintain but its not impossible. And personally, with age catching up on me, just pure lust-driven screwing becomes mechanical if you have no feelings for that person.

Its a dangerous game to play but logically, is it not an extension of the one from the beginning? If your FB is ok, you make out and the sex is great, you'll be banging like rabbits until the sex doesn't seem that great. Then boredom sets in and you'll be keeping an eye open for the next adventure. If you develop some liking for your FB, then it kinda evolves into a more interesting relationship which can keep you going daily? A little kind of buzz/excitement to have something to look forward to? You will probably understand my last point better if stuck in a rut of a loveless marriage.

In spite of all that's said above, if you do however love your spouse at home, the day your FB confesses his/her love for you, is the day you need to plan your exit gracefully.

Bastarduo
18-06-2013, 01:45 PM
If u never intend to go further with her then whats there to b worried.

Bro i teach u... u shout your wife or gf name when u hv sex with her.. she will
know where she stand n let her decide if she wan to carry on :D

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BiRd13
18-06-2013, 02:19 PM
Nothing much happened... Individual...

For me, I still continue bonking her as usual...
But probably will tell her that we are nothing more than just fb...

tttk3388
18-06-2013, 02:29 PM
Throw a smoke bomb & disappear! Its time to find a new FB! :D

KevinJacob
19-06-2013, 04:53 AM
Before answering TS question, i guess his FB is less than 23 years old?

I think to give a definite answer is tough because of different situation/scenario.
If your FB is single, then feelings definitely tend to develop as her heart is not occupied by any other guy.
If shes attached, i guess you should stop all activity and take it as history. From the FBs i had, usually all are less than 21 years old. Maybe because i'm still young.
Think girls my age might have the ability to think maturely but can't handle emotions maturely. I always have a principle which i stick till this day, which is i will never ever get together with my flings/FBs/ONS regardless how much chemistry i have with them.

Think to avoid such drama, you must state clearly from the start. If it still happens, you just gotta leave. Short pain better than long pain.

Best solution now for you is say Goodbye.

KimSiew769
19-06-2013, 02:33 PM
One of my FB is my ex, she is married...but still think of me.... So she suggest we keep in contact.... We had a good sexual life but we don't talk about any other stuff

joncheong
19-06-2013, 10:24 PM
sometimes it's inevitable cos women are unable to separate sex from love ....not like us males....we can take sex as a purely physical activity ....

Oldhorse007
19-06-2013, 10:36 PM
Just remember why you start with this fb.... It is not love

Camel
19-06-2013, 10:46 PM
Throw a smoke bomb & disappear! Its time to find a new FB! :D

Hahaha, :D

hornybastard
20-06-2013, 01:27 AM
I think its just love n lust,that's it.
Both knows the rules of the game n the limits.
Imptly there is mutual respect n we do not 'disturb' each other during private times with official other halfs.

sane
21-06-2013, 11:06 AM
Best is not to get involved with any.. troublesome n complicated.

Hassle free n 不要来烦我 will always be the best, y ppl like to look for trouble :confused:

西方失败07
21-06-2013, 01:16 PM
One is attached.
One is married with family.
Headache.Didnt expect the unexpected
the attached one can breakup to be with u...
the married one can divorce and marry u...
if u like both of them...:cool: ;)