Vietnamese Ladies looking for Hubby

[xiaoqiang]

Hi bros,

Saw a post from Raveforfun bro for prompting hainan ladies which keep me thinking of my wife bugging.

Anyway My wife is a Vietnamese from Long Xuyen near Cantho.

Her friends are looking for Singapore hubby, their age is from 18 - 25 which is around my wife age 23.

Any bros interested could drop me a msg and will progress from there.

[pakalolo]

Hi bros,

Saw a post from Raveforfun bro for prompting hainan ladies which keep me thinking of my wife bugging.

Anyway My wife is a Vietnamese from Long Xuyen near Cantho.

Her friends are looking for Singapore hubby, their age is from 18 - 25 which is around my wife age 23.

Any bros interested could drop me a msg and will progress from there.

My wife is from Northern Thailand around Chiang Rai area and her friends are also looking for Sg hubby.:D

[by73]

My wife is from Northern Thailand around Chiang Rai area and her friends are also looking for Sg hubby.:D

Wow.. now we r spoiled for choice..:D

[Uncouth]

Interesting! My wife is from Vietnam too and her friends are looking for SG husband too!

[sane]

Wow.. now we r spoiled for choice..:D

U like Hainan, Vietnamese or Thai wife :D

[lglg666]

Wah....we singapoor men are like "hot cakes"? Hope they not just to scam us....into a quickie marriage then go to stand at Geylang or Joo Chiat. Then that would be worst than hell...end-up "wearing a green hat" husband:eek:

[Timestopper]

My wife from singapore n friend looking for hubby too

[eddy72]

sg gal expectation too high for me.. i cannot make it..

so, which country better?

[sane]

For guys who married foreign wives, how to survive if the guy is the only one contributing?

ROM, banquet minimum 1k++ per table, wedding expenses, si dian jing+dowry, just a decent proposal ring cost 3-4k++, wedding album 6k++

flats with fairly good location cost 500-600k each with monthly housing loans of 2k , loan period of 30years ..

House, renovation(minimum 50k), car (downpayment minimum 80-100k) and kids??? Childcare cost around 1k if wife is not working, milk powder 50++ a tin, pampers 30++ a pack? Tuition/enrichment classes at least few hundreds per montjs ..

Exclude own n wife/parents' daily expenditures /food/transport/bills ... Exclude holidays, medical, shopping cost ...

How to survive if the hb is the only sole breadwinner :confused:

[autoroam]

Bro, can be cheaper...:p
ROM, banquet minimum 1k++ per table, wedding expenses, si dian jing+dowry, just a decent proposal ring cost 3-4k++, wedding album 6k++
Banquet don't need to be in 5 star hotel, unless you want FACE
Wedding album can go JB

flats with fairly good location cost 500-600k each with monthly housing loans of 2k , loan period of 30years ..
I assume you talking of 4 rooms....Go for BTO then will be 350-400k, or go for 3 rooms lor

House, renovation(minimum 50k), car (downpayment minimum 80-100k) and kids??? Childcare cost around 1k if wife is not working, milk powder 50++ a tin, pampers 30++ a pack? Tuition/enrichment classes at least few hundreds per montjs ..
Reno no need 50k, I just did my parent's 4 room hdb-major reno 30+k including furniture & app abt 40k. If BTO, 20k is enough. Now is not a good time to buy car, take cab or public transport. If require rent car lor

Exclude own n wife/parents' daily expenditures /food/transport/bills ... Exclude holidays, medical, shopping cost ...

How to survive if the hb is the only sole breadwinner :confused:

Unless you and your future wife are big spenders and don't think about saving then even both are working, staying in SG no matter how much you earn also no enough.... spend within your limit, most Singaporean want FACE and overspend:D

[Nonteerak2553]

My wife is from Northern Thailand around Chiang Rai area and her friends are also looking for Sg hubby.:D

I'm residing nearby your wife's friend. Want to intro to me? 5555+ :D

[DXman]

For guys who married foreign wives, how to survive if the guy is the only one contributing?

ROM, banquet minimum 1k++ per table, wedding expenses, si dian jing+dowry, just a decent proposal ring cost 3-4k++, wedding album 6k++

flats with fairly good location cost 500-600k each with monthly housing loans of 2k , loan period of 30years ..

House, renovation(minimum 50k), car (downpayment minimum 80-100k) and kids??? Childcare cost around 1k if wife is not working, milk powder 50++ a tin, pampers 30++ a pack? Tuition/enrichment classes at least few hundreds per montjs ..

Exclude own n wife/parents' daily expenditures /food/transport/bills ... Exclude holidays, medical, shopping cost ...

How to survive if the hb is the only sole breadwinner :confused:

what this bro said is 100% true. i married a foreign wife. she's good. and understands. but there's some things that are un-avoidable.

they come thinking this way:
- have a better life from last time
- able to get more luxuries than last time, especially if they have friends who are always fighting who has the more expensive bags, bigger house
- there's always a hidden cost which are unforeseen

when u marry foreign wifes think clearly, don't get both parties into a sad situation. make sure u love her and in mentally prepare for much heavier responsibilities than being with a local wife.

[sane]

Bro, can be cheaper...

Banquet don't need to be in 5 star hotel, unless you want FACE
Wedding album can go JB


I assume you talking of 4 rooms....Go for BTO then will be 350-400k, or go for 3 rooms lor


Reno no need 50k, I just did my parent's 4 room hdb-major reno 30+k including furniture & app abt 40k. If BTO, 20k is enough. Now is not a good time to buy car, take cab or public transport. If require rent car lor



Unless you and your future wife are big spenders and don't think about saving then even both are working, staying in SG no matter how much you earn also no enough.... spend within your limit, most Singaporean want FACE and overspend

Ermm.. I m not here to discuss about where to source for cheaper alternatives, better deals on reno/wedding packages.

My qns is how do the guys manage to survive being the only sole income provider?

Somemore with the octracising of foreigners, language barrier/culture difference, my foreign wives friends have problem getting along with the hb's family/relatives too since all are also living under one roof.

[sane]

what this bro said is 100% true. i married a foreign wife. she's good. and understands. but there's some things that are un-avoidable.

they come thinking this way:
- have a better life from last time
- able to get more luxuries than last time, especially if they have friends who are always fighting who has the more expensive bags, bigger house
- there's always a hidden cost which are unforeseen

when u marry foreign wifes think clearly, don't get both parties into a sad situation. make sure u love her and in mentally prepare for much heavier responsibilities than being with a local wife.

My friends who are earning on par or probably more than the hb doesn't even dream of getting a luxury bag :rolleyes:, they are quite tight especially for those with >2 kids and aging parents.

There's no such thing as taking household $$ from the hb, they are contributing a fair share to the household now with the increasing expenditures. Tuitions for the kids are coming close to 1k?

[xiaoqiang]

Let me do a break down on my situation when i marry my wife.

I'm not cannon-ing but all i need is just 5k.

Banquet machiam our Getai outside her house - 20 table = approx 80sgd per table. - 1600sgd

Brought a wedding ring - 4xx sgd.

Buy some decoration to deco her house - 100 sgd

Rental of wedding gown in vietnam cost ard 150-200 sgd.

I considered myself super duper lucky.

And finally her mum told me It's not $ that make it worth.
All her mum want is for her to lead a better life.

That is what my wife translate to me from her mum's words.

Why they do not want to marry their local men?
I'm not racist but they men is violent(They beat their wife for what ever reason) "correct me if i'm wrong".

They can sit at the coffeeshop to swing whole day long and live off their wife spending.

My wife is currently working in F&B line in Singapore.
My wife pick-up mandarin quite well but it's funny mandarin to me. :D

Any bros have any queries? Drop them here and i would gladly answer.

[micmac888]

Wah....we singapoor men are like "hot cakes"? Hope they not just to scam us....into a quickie marriage then go to stand at Geylang or Joo Chiat. Then that would be worst than hell...end-up "wearing a green hat" husband:eek:

Singaporean men aren't hot cakes. Singapore is a ticket out for the less fortunate in south east asia at least.

Myself am a singaporean and I shudder to think how naive some local guys are thinking like that . And even if lauding that we singapore men are hot-cakes, "we" shouldn't be unhappy at foreign guy with local gal - labeling the gal slut, SPG all that shit.

anyways, enough of this philosophy talk. Just so silly to see/read/hear a local guy getting worked up over interracial relationships, pinkerton syndrome and yet looking at himself as hot-cake, spoilt for choices, etc.

want-cake-and-eat-it-too syndrome.

Go figure.

[Cerberus]

Dun marry is the best.
Less problems.
want any gal just go overseas n whack.

[sane]

Let me do a break down on my situation when i marry my wife.

I'm not cannon-ing but all i need is just 5k.

Banquet machiam our Getai outside her house - 20 table = approx 80sgd per table. - 1600sgd

Brought a wedding ring - 4xx sgd.

Buy some decoration to deco her house - 100 sgd

Rental of wedding gown in vietnam cost ard 150-200 sgd.

I considered myself super duper lucky.

And finally her mum told me It's not $ that make it worth.
All her mum want is for her to lead a better life.

That is what my wife translate to me from her mum's words.

Why they do not want to marry their local men?
I'm not racist but they men is violent(They beat their wife for what ever reason) "correct me if i'm wrong".

They can sit at the coffeeshop to swing whole day long and live off their wife spending.

My wife is currently working in F&B line in Singapore.
My wife pick-up mandarin quite well but it's funny mandarin to me. :D

Any bros have any queries? Drop them here and i would gladly answer.

U have kids yet?

My friend is considering whether to have kids, a visit to the gynae, consulation alone cost over $100+, ultrascan $100+ n with medication easily cost over $300+ per visit excluding delivery charges.
That's already a fraction of his monthly salary.

That is for smooth delivery and with complications, that will come up to a few of ten Ks and they are not covered with medical insurance.

*Touchwood*, dun get sick ... if need operation/hospitalisation will incur hefty medical bills for Singaporean and there are no subsidies for non Singaporean.

[Cerberus]

Bro or sis sane,
So what is your point?
Ppl want to get married you come here telling the high cost of this n that?
I believe alot of things can be overcome if true love exists.
If u want to be old ah pek or old spinster it is your choice entirely.
We all know live in sg is high cost.....no need for u to reiterate.

[xiaoqiang]

To Bro Sane, - No not the time to have kids yet. I and my wife have plan to grow our income before making lives :)

[西方失败07]

For guys who married foreign wives, how to survive if the guy is the only one contributing?
How to survive if the hb is the only sole breadwinner
for once i agreed with what u said...:D
the problem about foreign wife is they can't contribute much to the bread and butter....those slightly more educated working foreign ladies will be looking for golden turtles....:(

my mum told me our neighbour the son married a wife don't do any work at home....the MIL angry the wife sleep until 12pm wake up everyday...give birth to 2 kids thats all. then i tell my mother, even if can do housework also not enough....because is not like last time u buy a cow very hardworking to 耕田 can already...but heng is the guy is fairly ok...got some $ i guess.
To Bro Sane, - No not the time to have kids yet. I and my wife have plan to grow our income before making lives :)now is summer time, nice weather for 小强 to 繁殖....:D

[Cerberus]

In villages, gals give birth smoothly even without any scan or gynae.
Why sg need?
First of, sg women give birth inlate 30s.
Thats why so many problems.

[sane]

Bro or sis sane,
So what is your point?
Ppl want to get married you come here telling the high cost of this n that?
I believe alot of things can be overcome if true love exists.
If u want to be old ah pek or old spinster it is your choice entirely.
We all know live in sg is high cost.....no need for u to reiterate.

Seeing how my married friends are struggling, it's good to hear from those sole income earners who can manage to survive.

Oh well, I dun believe in fairytales, my take is if I can't even feed myself, why should I drag another person down:confused:

To Bro Sane, - No not the time to have kids yet. I and my wife have plan to grow our income before making lives :)

Glad that both of u have plans. Kids now are super duper expensive. My estimate is minimum 1k per month.

for once i agreed with what u said...
the problem about foreign wife is they can't contribute much to the bread and butter....those slightly more educated working foreign ladies will be looking for golden turtles....:(

Where u appear from?? u kns lo, that means u always entertain me in the past la..

Of coz la, I am sharing true life experiences I've encountered.. :rolleyes:

[sane]

for once i agreed with what u said...:D
the problem about foreign wife is they can't contribute much to the bread and butter....those slightly more educated working foreign ladies will be looking for golden turtles....:(

my mum told me our neighbour the son married a wife don't do any work at home....the MIL angry the wife sleep until 12pm wake up everyday...give birth to 2 kids thats all. then i tell my mother, even if can do housework also not enough....because is not like last time u buy a cow very hardworking to 耕田 can already...but heng is the guy is fairly ok...got some $ i guess.
now is summer time, nice weather for 小强 to 繁殖....:D

Ask the mil dun complain, I heard even worse ones. :rolleyes:

[by73]

U like Hainan, Vietnamese or Thai wife :D

U got so many lobangs??:eek: PM me d contacts, okie?:D

[Iemanishere]

Well, we cant say abt the ladys as there is always good and bad.. for one to live here... yes.. must say it easier said than done..
It better u go over and stay with them as we sgp guys are worth more than thy local guys and finding a job with very good pay and mnc are so much easier for us.. life be better there....
My 20cents worth.. cheers

[eddy72]

bro xiaoqiang, no need to send $ to your wife family every month?

[xiaoqiang]

bro xiaoqiang, no need to send $ to your wife family every month?

For me? I don't send $ to my parent in law every month.
I only send back abt half a k when cny is approaching for them to buy stuffs for usher of the cny.

As for my wife, she sent $ back using her salary that she earn thru her job. once in a while. Because i educate my wife that "Don't expect luxury life in singapore when you marry into Singapore. We need to work and save $ so that when we retired, we can lives carefree back in your hometown."

My father in law is a Lorry driver which barely earn 350 sgd per mth.
I asked my wife to told her family that when we save enough $ for a piece of land, we will sent back and buy, so that it can use as a $ generator for all of us in future.

[sane]

U got so many lobangs??:eek: PM me d contacts, okie?:D

That will depend u like chix rice, rice roll or tom yum :D

[西方失败07]

Glad that both of u have plans. Kids now are super duper expensive. My estimate is minimum 1k per month.Where u appear from?? u kns lo, that means u always entertain me in the past la..Of coz la, I am sharing true life experiences I've encountered.. :rolleyes:
true life? u married? entertain u or not not important la....happy can liao
came from outside space dash through the haze to post in sbf...:D
i busy no time to post lah....si bei siong....and hor, my nick in chinese more difficult to type and login leh...

wow $1k...some people only earn $1k....last time 20yrs ago alot of ppl earn $1k or less...then still have children....now $1k is sunk cost for children every mth....$1k is how many child? 1 only? :eek:

[eddy72]

bro xiao qiang, sound like u quite lucky..

may know what yr wife working as? that is to say that if send $ to vietnam, mainly by yr wife.. that mean $wise, still manageble..

[sane]

true life? u married? entertain u or not not important la....happy can liao
came from outside space dash through the haze to post in sbf...:D
i busy no time to post lah....si bei siong....and hor, my nick in chinese more difficult to type and login leh...

wow $1k...some people only earn $1k....last time 20yrs ago alot of ppl earn $1k or less...then still have children....now $1k is sunk cost for children every mth....$1k is how many child? 1 only? :eek:

My friends' experiences la .... how i can marry foreign wives :confused:
u really getting smarter and smarter hor :rolleyes: n who ask u to create a chinese nick???!!

U really lost track of the world now, of coz only 1 .. nowadays infant care already cost 1k and nanny cost 550-750, more if babies start eating solid food. Good branded childcare cost 1.4k. Ask them out, keep saying tight tight, no budget.
That's y some of my friends quitted their jobs to look after their own children.
The super kiasu ones already sent their toddlers n children to multiple enrichment courses coming close to 2k. Somemore very fussy, milk powder, pampers everything want to buy the most ex!

[by73]

That will depend u like chix rice, rice roll or tom yum :D

Erm.. all i like! How??:p

Seriously, fr my experience, i'm single but have 4 married siblings. Their wives/husband r fr different countries but all got along well. IMO as long as both parties can click, have a common goal n happy tgt, all obstacles can be overcame.
My 2 cents.:)

[eddy72]

4 different country? all so special taste..

[sane]

Erm.. all i like! How??:p

Seriously, fr my experience, i'm single but have 4 married siblings. Their wives/husband r fr different countries but all got along well. IMO as long as both parties can click, have a common goal n happy tgt, all obstacles can be overcame.
My 2 cents.:)

Marry all lah :D

[Daiso]

How much will it usually costs?

[by73]

4 different country? all so special taste..

Yup.. machiam MNC liao..:D

[by73]

Marry all lah :D

Wa.. then i very bz leh.. Bz make money n bz make.....:D

[eddy72]

bro xiao qiang.. k.. tks.. msg got some problem..

[xiaoqiang]

bro xiao qiang, sound like u quite lucky..

may know what yr wife working as? that is to say that if send $ to vietnam, mainly by yr wife.. that mean $wise, still manageble..

My Wife is working as a stall helper, earning barely 1.5k per mth which she sent half of her earning back to her parents.

I'm only working as a delivery man. My gross is abt 3k so ya...

[iPhone]

Interesting thread. In my old office I had a Vietnam colleague she told me not uncommon for view bride match make to Singapore men and they would make recommendations if they know the person directly. Yes all young between 20-25. Spoilt for choice indeed

[slicknsmoov]

Bro, can be cheaper...:p

Banquet don't need to be in 5 star hotel, unless you want FACE
Wedding album can go JB


I assume you talking of 4 rooms....Go for BTO then will be 350-400k, or go for 3 rooms lor


Reno no need 50k, I just did my parent's 4 room hdb-major reno 30+k including furniture & app abt 40k. If BTO, 20k is enough. Now is not a good time to buy car, take cab or public transport. If require rent car lor



Unless you and your future wife are big spenders and don't think about saving then even both are working, staying in SG no matter how much you earn also no enough.... spend within your limit, most Singaporean want FACE and overspend:D

Thanks for the suggestions, bro!

[SiliconVibrator]

For guys who married foreign wives, how to survive if the guy is the only one contributing?

ROM, banquet minimum 1k++ per table, wedding expenses, si dian jing+dowry, just a decent proposal ring cost 3-4k++, wedding album 6k++

flats with fairly good location cost 500-600k each with monthly housing loans of 2k , loan period of 30years ..

House, renovation(minimum 50k), car (downpayment minimum 80-100k) and kids??? Childcare cost around 1k if wife is not working, milk powder 50++ a tin, pampers 30++ a pack? Tuition/enrichment classes at least few hundreds per montjs ..

Exclude own n wife/parents' daily expenditures /food/transport/bills ... Exclude holidays, medical, shopping cost ...

How to survive if the hb is the only sole breadwinner :confused:

singapore wife, untouchable.
foreign wife, as wat bro mention above... xiong r!!!

[application9999]

Not forgetting now pinoy also after our dick to get them out of their slum

[pakalolo]

I'm residing nearby your wife's friend. Want to intro to me? 5555+ :D

Sure no problem but if you are residing near where i am don't think you need me to intro,I am sure you got some over where you are too:D

[AzzHole]

i also now with a siam bu gf, 7mths.. super stick to me, i dun have looks nor alot of $. but i still can live quite ok-ly.

everyone thinks it's more cost effective to be with a foreign gf/wife, but think again.. the +++ hidden, u will count back and think having a singapore GF is much better..

once my gf got me, i also don't want her work TD liao, so got to pay for everything. family(if i can siam of course i siam, not as if i married to her yet).

her "CAR" said she bought last time on impaulse for parents to use.

then like earlier bro said, her TD friends carry what bag, she will follow. so far takboleh from me.

always eat better, go shopping, have fun..

when u say u work hard, she sit down everyday do nothing just spend $, then kena fuck, say not happy then go back work.. then lan lan we keep quiet. if not sua just move on... either way..

there are nice ladies, but just advise pls make sure they come from a normal back ground, not those in trouble ones.. else you are their only way out of these problems..

[cheong jb]

malaysia girl the best choice? :D

[Nonteerak2553]

Sure no problem but if you are residing near where i am don't think you need me to intro,I am sure you got some over where you are too:D

5555+ the more people I get to know, the more choice available for me. :D



i also now with a siam bu gf, 7mths.. super stick to me,
once my gf got me, i also don't want her work TD liao, so got to pay for everything.


there are nice ladies, but just advise pls make sure they come from a normal back ground, not those in trouble ones.. else you are their only way out of these problems..


You pay everything for your TD gf? That's it. Once you got no more money prepare to suffer heart broken. Your advise is good, but why doesn't apply to yourself too? :confused:

[JoySeeker]

malaysia girl the best choice? :D

most of my gf are mslaysian:)

[sane]

My Wife is working as a stall helper, earning barely 1.5k per mth which she sent half of her earning back to her parents.

I'm only working as a delivery man. My gross is abt 3k so ya...

She is a filial daughter, sending half to parents ... Actually y not she source for export from Vietnam to SG? Clothes, Bags, shoes ....

Alternatively set up her own food stall of Vietnam food in SG, Vietnam food is healthy n low fat, should be a hit for ladies!

singapore wife, untouchable.
foreign wife, as wat bro mention above... xiong r!!!

Y SG wife untouchable?

i also now with a siam bu gf, 7mths.. super stick to me, i dun have looks nor alot of $. but i still can live quite ok-ly.


what is TD :confused:

[sane]

malaysia girl the best choice? :D

Actually true, cook v well too n makes v good housewives ..

[pakalolo]

5555+ the more people I get to know, the more choice available for me. :D

True,true but need to be careful they invented the cutting dick fist:D




You pay everything for your TD gf? That's it. Once you got no more money prepare to suffer heart broken. Your advice is good, but why doesn't apply to yourself too? :confused:

Pay everything for TD gf? wrong move then again enjoy while it last:D

[Cerberus]

Actually true, cook v well too n makes v good housewives ..

i like the way they speak mandarin.....canto mixed type.

anyway best part is CNY can go to their hometown n celebrate.
mood definitely better than hazy sg.
can even play firecrackers.

the best best part is....can buy cheap housing.

my friend n his msia wife already got 2 storey bungalow in Johor liao.:eek:

most know how to bake cakes n things.

Sg chicks......zzzzzzzzz.

[xxFTOxx]

for once i agreed with what u said...:D
the problem about foreign wife is they can't contribute much to the bread and butter....those slightly more educated working foreign ladies will be looking for golden turtles....:(

Hahah golden turtles...shat myself laughing sia.

[sane]

i like the way they speak mandarin.....canto mixed type.

anyway best part is CNY can go to their hometown n celebrate.
mood definitely better than hazy sg.
can even play firecrackers.

the best best part is....can buy cheap housing.

my friend n his msia wife already got 2 storey bungalow in Johor liao.:eek:

most know how to bake cakes n things.

Sg chicks......zzzzzzzzz.

SG ones noe how to bake n cook also mah, cannot stereotype :rolleyes:

but the role models i looked upon r my msia friends, good in cooking, housework, look after kids n work too!

v chin chye n easy to get along with!

[pakalolo]

SG ones noe how to bake n cook also mah, cannot stereotype :rolleyes:

but the role models i looked upon r my msia friends, good in cooking, housework, look after kids n work too!

v chin chye n easy to get along with!

Sg girls know how to cook and bake? yes have, the one over 50:D

[hunter12]

My Wife is working as a stall helper, earning barely 1.5k per mth which she sent half of her earning back to her parents.

I'm only working as a delivery man. My gross is abt 3k so ya...

actually ur wife is gd.. 1.5 send half back to take care her parent mean only she got a gd heart.. left over plus ur gross is ard 3+, it depend on how u all wanna spend.

[hunter12]

it actually depend on the gal u marry n not from where she come from. Many bros say foreign gal got ++ hidden, gold digger... but for me somehow I dun really agreed.. I believed a sg gal with education, with a agenda n forcus on doing it right.. I personally feel that it is 100x more dangerous than any foreign gal with not that much of education. this is purely personally view.

I saw few cases, my friend, myself. especially 1 of my frd.. slog to give the best to his fucking sg wife.. yes best.. he rather starve himself but provide the best to his wife n mind u, he not low income, he take home ard 5k++, yet he had to slog like a dog n as his frds, we see Liao really heart pain, he dun fool ard, he dun go drink, he dun go cheong, yet his wife go fuck ard, when thing burst, she still can complaint my frd got no time, tat y she got other man n is all my frd fault.. Really take my hat off her can twistn turn, from black to white from wrong to right.. Jus because she sg, she got some education, know how to consult lawyer, know how to go ard the loopholes.. she got 1/2 of the condo my frd pay, n my frd still need to give her monthly maintainance.

Sry abt letting out cause when I read the thread this incident come to my mind...

If can, hehe dun ever marrried but I really happy for those really happily married couple. :)

[demonhunter]

it actually depend on the gal u marry n not from where she come from. Many bros say foreign gal got ++ hidden, gold digger... but for me somehow I dun really agreed.. I believed a sg gal with education, with a agenda n forcus on doing it right.. I personally feel that it is 100x more dangerous than any foreign gal with not that much of education. this is purely personally view.

I saw few cases, my friend, myself. especially 1 of my frd.. slog to give the best to his fucking sg wife.. yes best.. he rather starve himself but provide the best to his wife n mind u, he not low income, he take home ard 5k++, yet he had to slog like a dog n as his frds, we see Liao really heart pain, he dun fool ard, he dun go drink, he dun go cheong, yet his wife go fuck ard, when thing burst, she still can complaint my frd got no time, tat y she got other man n is all my frd fault.. Really take my hat off her can twistn turn, from black to white from wrong to right.. Jus because she sg, she got some education, know how to consult lawyer, know how to go ard the loopholes.. she got 1/2 of the condo my frd pay, n my frd still need to give her monthly maintainance.

Sry abt letting out cause when I read the thread this incident come to my mind...

If can, hehe dun ever marrried but I really happy for those really happily married couple. :)

Bro , can intro your frens wife ?

[hunter12]

intro? well I not a saint, but I dun rub salt on a frd wound.. especially a gd frd like him..

[xiaoqiang]

actually ur wife is gd.. 1.5 send half back to take care her parent mean only she got a gd heart.. left over plus ur gross is ard 3+, it depend on how u all wanna spend.

we save to buy rice field(size of football field) in vietnam which cost ard 6k sgd, I told my wife, we need to suffer in order to enjoy when we grow old.

Still remember during our early stage of marry life. when i going to bath, she squat down and remove my boxer which i zzzzz-ed and i told her she need not do it as i can take off myself xD

[hunter12]

we save to buy rice field(size of football field) in vietnam which cost ard 6k sgd, I told my wife, we need to suffer in order to enjoy when we grow old.

Still remember during our early stage of marry life. when i going to bath, she squat down and remove my boxer which i zzzzz-ed and i told her she need not do it as i can take off myself xD

nice to hear that n happy for u :)

ya.. just like my friend whom married a Thai lady.. eventually, they brought a plantation of fruit (durain, rambutan etc) for 20k sg for investment and let her family maintain it... hehe.. in sg he look like damm poor guy, back in thailand, he is a plantation owner lo.. n they planning to buy over the neighbour one :eek: :D

[Wintermelontea]

we save to buy rice field(size of football field) in vietnam which cost ard 6k sgd, I told my wife, we need to suffer in order to enjoy when we grow old.

Still remember during our early stage of marry life. when i going to bath, she squat down and remove my boxer which i zzzzz-ed and i told her she need not do it as i can take off myself xD


very happy for you and your wife. :) and if you keep this buying trend up, you will be a rich towkay when you are older. vietnam economy is picking up...good time to invest. any later, may be too expensive for the average joe.

[xiaoqiang]

very happy for you and your wife. :) and if you keep this buying trend up, you will be a rich towkay when you are older. vietnam economy is picking up...good time to invest. any later, may be too expensive for the average joe.

i foresee this investment plan, That's also one of the reason i don't give a dxmn on local self-proclaim golden plated p*55y lady

[xiaoqiang]

it actually depend on the gal u marry n not from where she come from. Many bros say foreign gal got ++ hidden, gold digger... but for me somehow I dun really agreed.. I believed a sg gal with education, with a agenda n forcus on doing it right.. I personally feel that it is 100x more dangerous than any foreign gal with not that much of education. this is purely personally view.

I saw few cases, my friend, myself. especially 1 of my frd.. slog to give the best to his fucking sg wife.. yes best.. he rather starve himself but provide the best to his wife n mind u, he not low income, he take home ard 5k++, yet he had to slog like a dog n as his frds, we see Liao really heart pain, he dun fool ard, he dun go drink, he dun go cheong, yet his wife go fuck ard, when thing burst, she still can complaint my frd got no time, tat y she got other man n is all my frd fault.. Really take my hat off her can twistn turn, from black to white from wrong to right.. Jus because she sg, she got some education, know how to consult lawyer, know how to go ard the loopholes.. she got 1/2 of the condo my frd pay, n my frd still need to give her monthly maintainance.

Sry abt letting out cause when I read the thread this incident come to my mind...

If can, hehe dun ever marrried but I really happy for those really happily married couple. :)

Like Bro hunter said, Local lady think they deserve more. _|_, not until i 1st saw my wife. Her family is what i respect. They stay in a kampong whereby when you are sh*tting, fishes are below ready to eat your shit and their fish is xtreme size.

I once told my wife if there's a divorce between us, if u want to go back vietnam you go back yourself.

Why she asked me?

Because i told her, i'm not rich enough, not handsome enough. And i don't love you enough that if you were to find someone better overall or what so ever than me. go ahead.

she cried and told me, No, Else my mother will not want to see me anymore.

next mth will be our 1st anniversary, just a praise for my wife that she picked up mandarin pretty fast. although it's still funny mandarin to me :D

[PLSLETMETALK]

As a highly skilled bodyguard cum transporter who had been travellling around the world and meeting many important people from all kinds of trades , i had also been receiving many marriage proposals from all types of ladies , but i rejected all of them because i believe that marriage is a sacred affair and should'nt be taken for a transaction or a kid's game .

[eddy72]

good to know that both of u reaching 1st year.. more good years ahead..:)

[xiaoqiang]

As a highly skilled bodyguard cum transporter who had been travellling around the world and meeting many important people from all kinds of trades , i had also been receiving many marriage proposals from all types of ladies , but i rejected all of them because i believe that marriage is a sacred affair and should'nt be taken for a transaction or a kid's game .

Agreed with a benefit of doubts

[IAmAwesome]

Good insights ;)

[xiaoqiang]

Hello bros, those who had given me their contact number for more information regarding about my thread, Pls give it to me again as i lost my HP :(

Thanks

[lovestobonk]

Like Bro hunter said, Local lady think they deserve more. _|_, not until i 1st saw my wife. Her family is what i respect. They stay in a kampong whereby when you are sh*tting, fishes are below ready to eat your shit and their fish is xtreme size.

I once told my wife if there's a divorce between us, if u want to go back vietnam you go back yourself.

Why she asked me?

Because i told her, i'm not rich enough, not handsome enough. And i don't love you enough that if you were to find someone better overall or what so ever than me. go ahead.

she cried and told me, No, Else my mother will not want to see me anymore.

next mth will be our 1st anniversary, just a praise for my wife that she picked up mandarin pretty fast. although it's still funny mandarin to me :D

dats very sweet.. wish u 2 last long and happy...

doesnt mean find foreign wife mean the solution.. also must find correct one... looks like u found a good one... :)

[valkyrierune]

grates.. find the right one who has the right mentality...

met too much whom just want to leave off their hubby or bf when they are searching for oversea lobang...

just want to spend money and lazy to work to survive.. cmi

[Hurricane88]

Let me do a break down on my situation when i marry my wife.

I'm not cannon-ing but all i need is just 5k.

Banquet machiam our Getai outside her house - 20 table = approx 80sgd per table. - 1600sgd

Brought a wedding ring - 4xx sgd.

Buy some decoration to deco her house - 100 sgd

Rental of wedding gown in vietnam cost ard 150-200 sgd.

I considered myself super duper lucky.

And finally her mum told me It's not $ that make it worth.
All her mum want is for her to lead a better life.

That is what my wife translate to me from her mum's words.

Why they do not want to marry their local men?
I'm not racist but they men is violent(They beat their wife for what ever reason) "correct me if i'm wrong".

They can sit at the coffeeshop to swing whole day long and live off their wife spending.

My wife is currently working in F&B line in Singapore.
My wife pick-up mandarin quite well but it's funny mandarin to me. :D

Any bros have any queries? Drop them here and i would gladly answer.

nothing mentioned how you meet your wife...what is she working before she married you...?

marriage is not about one year...is about lifetime...you planning so much things...buying land in Vietnam which will be under her name...foreigners not allowed to own land in Vietnam...:)

better be careful and dun trust yoru wife so easily...I had read and heard many unfortunate stories in Vietnam...although I am not an expert...I been flying there frequently for past 7 years...knew plenty of things..saw plenty to understand Viets...btw, I been to Long Xuyen, province of An Giang which is 5 hours by bus from HCM....The economic centre for An Giang province is in Chau Doc...:)

I contribute to most Vietnam threads...hope you do read them...especially this thread...http://www.sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?t=64297

I also sincerely hope you had been practising your tieng viet...if not then you will be disadvantage...and never knew what yoru wife talking about with her friends and family...:)

above is my personal opinion and not to hurt or anger anyone...^^

[hornysquirt]

i like russian wife

[Hurricane88]

I once told my wife if there's a divorce between us, if u want to go back vietnam you go back yourself.



if there is divorce...women charter law appplies...you will still need to give her half or more of your assets...:)

also if she is PR already, she dun need to leave Singapore...she can stay on and find another richer hubby...:)

my post above is not to hurt anyone but just to share personal opinion...:)

[Joyluck]

Singapore men are in high demand especially those from our neighbouring countries. They think that Singapore men are loaded with CPF , have good housing, can provide them a PR and a decent living in Singapore.It is a way out for them to get a better lifestyle.

[Hurricane88]

Singapore men are in high demand especially those from our neighbouring countries. They think that Singapore men are loaded with CPF , have good housing, can provide them a PR and a decent living in Singapore.It is a way out for them to get a better lifestyle.

very very high demand...haha...if not better than why anyone bother...:)

[real_king]

it all depends on your lady luck.

Like me, i had bad luck. its my own fault for spoiling my wife and she also took it for granted.

Seriously, i dont really think SG girls are that bad. its just becoz aint met the right one.

FYI, i married a hanoi lady.

[jackbl]

Seriously, i dont really think SG girls are that bad. its just becoz aint met the right one.

I agreed!

FYI, i married a hanoi lady.

Wow! Are u able to comm with her in her language? Wish you all the best!

[Hurricane88]

lesson learnt never put ur foreign wife name on ur flat
go cpf make ur nomination leave the $$ to ur parent in case anything happen to u, do u think they will take ur cpf $$ to support ur parent or buy ticket back home to enjoy life?

haha...think you dun fully understand the women charter...read it here...http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=5940176&postcount=20

http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/aol/search/display/view.w3p;ident=dd4cd609-41e4-4c87-bc50-4441ca7c7acd;page=0;query=DocId%3A%22f0897dd7-1f3a-45a9-b1e7-ba30fef2dbba%22%20Status%3Ainforce%20Depth%3A0;rec =0#legis

[BowieKnife]

it all depends on your lady luck.

Like me, i had bad luck. its my own fault for spoiling my wife and she also took it for granted.

Seriously, i dont really think SG girls are that bad. its just becoz aint met the right one.

FYI, i married a hanoi lady.

At least you are lucky you have a wife. I am still searching for my Ms Right. :o

[MMKing]

My wife is from Northern Thailand around Chiang Rai area and her friends are also looking for Sg hubby.:D

boyfriend can hehe :rolleyes:

[MMKing]

Wah....we singapoor men are like "hot cakes"? Hope they not just to scam us....into a quickie marriage then go to stand at Geylang or Joo Chiat. Then that would be worst than hell...end-up "wearing a green hat" husband:eek:

just keep them busy giving birth to babies hehe.

[real_king]

http://www.theonlinecitizen.com/2012/05/singaporean-loses-hdb-after-foreign-wife-runs-away/

http://therealsingapore.com/content/my-fathers-new-foreign-wife-ran-all-his-inheritance-and-left-us-nothing



lesson learnt never put ur foreign wife name on ur flat
go cpf make ur nomination leave the $$ to ur parent in case anything happen to u, do u think they will take ur cpf $$ to support ur parent or buy ticket back home to enjoy life?
i nvr did.

[real_king]

At least you are lucky you have a wife. I am still searching for my Ms Right. :o

think twice, or thrice before settling down.

[Bote]

Are you crazy? 6K SGD can bonk how many Viet girls? Cannot believe u want to invest on that land. Go to Vietnamese life partnar thread you will understand, you learn how to fully utilize your 6k SGD to bonk more girls. More bang for your buck.:D

we save to buy rice field(size of football field) in vietnam which cost ard 6k sgd, I told my wife, we need to suffer in order to enjoy when we grow old.


Of course SG girls are better, same culture, same language, but if u reach certain age, u are consider too old for the young sg girls so have to hook foreign xiaomeimei,

Seriously, i dont really think SG girls are that bad. its just becoz aint met the right one.
.

The real lesson learned is to treat all of them as whore. Try to tell them u are rich, have value, bonk them as gf..then ditch and change another one. Dont get into serious relationship.:D

lesson learnt never put ur foreign wife name on ur flat
go cpf make ur nomination leave the $$ to ur parent in case anything happen to u, do u think they will take ur cpf $$ to support ur parent or buy ticket back home to enjoy life?

[tryying]

Oversea spouse might be ok to you at beginning. Then when they are introduce back to their home town people, they will stray. Esp you always need to work while she, at home nothing to do, bonk with them lor. Cause she cannot express herself when bonking with you but not with someone understand her language. haha! :D

Add on : Even Malaysian, we also got to pick the right one. They even more "POWERFUL"!

[jacky43]

Share with you guys. I was on a bus and overheard a 30 plus lady, not sure whether local or PR. Chinese and heavy weight but it is her conversation.

She is in final stage of finalising her divorce. She was on her phone and rather loud. She complaint her cousin had his settle less then a year, because he had engage a lawyer. So she does not have one? No matter mine KP wake me up so to speak.

If the faults is with her ex, and I believe usually is the guys who screw around. And if he is hook up with a FT then she should let him wait more then 2 years. Why let him get what he wish for that's to approve his next marriage and his wife PR. She should exercise patient let him blow his top maybe he will pay her more just to get it over with.

I will end this by borrowing from the crypt keeper, that is tales from the crypt.

Let the punishment fits the crime.

[Hurricane88]

what happen to this thread...no update...:confused:

TS thought your wife wants to find her sisters (whole kampung women are called sisters in Wetnam)...a singaporean hubby...:confused:

Let me share a bit IMHO...since I had been to Wetnam so many times for past few years...

Vietnam gals are fiercely loyal and will love only their man provided their men can able to win their heart...
Vietnam gals are not for the weak hearted...
Vietnam gals are best mothers...
Vietnam gals are best cook provided you love Vietnam food..
Vietnam gals can be best domestic helpers...

also the Viet gals have plenty of cons/negatives....not going to mention here...

they are plenty of nice decent Viet gals but you need to go find them in Wetnam...most cannot speak english or mandarin...so I suggest if you want to marry a Viet gal, please learn tieng viet...so you can speak to her and her families...most important understand what she speaking and writing....:)

[xiaoqiang]

com on bro Hurricane88. i agreed with all u said.

I don't have look + $ yet she love me for who i'm.

Btw she's expecting out 1st child. so while it's still in early stage probably edd on next yr feb. I will be visiting wetnam this coming sept.

Yes, i will organise and inform my mother in law to get the show parade this coming september as well if there's someone who tag along.

Anyone who is interested can tag along. If u don't mind kampong style. Bath using river water, sleep in kampong. u stay @ my place = my wife house in vietnam. alternatively, there's some hotel in town which takes about 30min motorbike ride if u are uncomfortable.

Need more info? pm me =D

[jackbl]

Anyone who is interested can tag along. If u don't mind kampong style. Bath using river water, sleep in kampong. u stay @ my place = my wife house in vietnam

I thou Long Xuyen is a city, shouldn't be so kampong ma....

[killer]

I thou Long Xuyen is a city, shouldn't be so kampong ma....

bro return your points ... do post and support the "New gals" thread in my signature

[volcano]

I thou Long Xuyen is a city, shouldn't be so kampong ma....


the province although has a city statues still has area which is very ulu ulu...certain places cannot be reach by road,need to take ferry over

[Kim91]

Wow there's so many ox around.. come come...join in the Singviet's vietnamese life partner tread. ..

[williamsF1]

want to find viet bride, maybe need to learn their culture & mentality from this movie 1st. no matter where they go on the planet, there's still no place like home.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iORfsgeqZrM

[Hurricane88]

want to find viet bride, maybe need to learn their culture & mentality from this movie 1st. no matter where they go on the planet, there's still no place like home.

[/CENTER]

dun just learn from movies...go live in Vietnam to learn their cultures and language...trust me is an eye-opener...:)

[xiaoqiang]

I thou Long Xuyen is a city, shouldn't be so kampong ma....

have u been there ?

[jackbl]

have u been there ?

Sorry I mountain-turtle... been to chau doc and cho moi of An Giang only :(

[opqwopqw]

care to share some experience from bros who have viet wife?

[Hurricane88]

have u been there ?

I had been to Long Xuyen and the city is not as ulu...in fact is a pretty city..plenty of small villages within 1-2 hours away from city...:)

[boyboyccs]

the province although has a city statues still has area which is very ulu ulu...certain places cannot be reach by road,need to take ferry over

Is it call something like mee wo heng? ? The place where the president before HCM?

[Hurricane88]

care to share some experience from bros who have viet wife?

not sure what you want us to share...pls be specific..suggest you read this thread...full of sharing inside...:)

http://www.sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?t=64297

Is it call something like mee wo heng? ? The place where the president before HCM?

not sure what you meant "mee wo heng" ...really catch no ball...also who is the president before HCM...if you know also never mention name...:)

from the wikipedia...Ho Chi Minh is the 1st Vietnam President...and formerly the president of North Vietnam...:)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ho_Chi_Minh

[opqwopqw]

not sure what you want us to share...pls be specific..suggest you read this thread...full of sharing inside...:)

http://www.sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?t=64297



not sure what you meant "mee wo heng" ...really catch no ball...also who is the president before HCM...if you know also never mention name...:)

from the wikipedia...Ho Chi Minh is the 1st Vietnam President...and formerly the president of North Vietnam...:)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ho_Chi_Minh

Like their attitude, and can they accustom to SG life and are they a good housewife etc

[Hurricane88]

Like their attitude, and can they accustom to SG life and are they a good housewife etc

ha..what attitude..lying, gossiping, tidak apa or bo chap, dress sexily, etc, etc...haha....:)

suggest you read the thread I ask you to read to answer your other questions...also I written the qualities of Viet gals in my earlier post in this thread...proved you are not keen to read any...:p

[jacky43]

Yes! 1993 mine ex army friends and I watched Heaven and Earth. I am afraid today it is nothing more then Hollywood movies that worship white man dick.

Then one issue which Oliver Stone got it right, white man married foreign brides have to be well off. If not the least he could do is moving forward or else his wife will look down on him.

This too happen in this country especially this generation. Mine advice to local man hold back your wife passport and permits. But treat her good this will both scare her as well as earn her respect.

Remember mine man our idol is the world longest serving politician. His name his laws is never to be shaken. A click of the old man finger GL will be erase from the faces of the earth.

[milfmilf]

com on bro Hurricane88. i agreed with all u said.

I don't have look + $ yet she love me for who i'm.

Btw she's expecting out 1st child. so while it's still in early stage probably edd on next yr feb. I will be visiting wetnam this coming sept.

Yes, i will organise and inform my mother in law to get the show parade this coming september as well if there's someone who tag along.

Anyone who is interested can tag along. If u don't mind kampong style. Bath using river water, sleep in kampong. u stay @ my place = my wife house in vietnam. alternatively, there's some hotel in town which takes about 30min motorbike ride if u are uncomfortable.

Need more info? pm me =D

wah missed this good lobang!

[n0_fearless]

Like that can intro ma

[shsiher]

wah missed this good lobang!
lobang still available. pm me if you are very keen. :D

[henabi]

may I join as well? my girl friend in HCM has a few female friends (age 18 to 21) looking for SG hubbies

[LimLin]

Can I join?

[milfmilf]

may I join as well? my girl friend in HCM has a few female friends (age 18 to 21) looking for SG hubbies

why do you need to join then? :confused:

[JChoo]

One of my friends married a China lady. She is super good. Anything a man could not imagine, she could still do for her man. :D

[xiaoqiang]

I brought a bro back last sept 2014 from this forum and got him a syt sweet 18 yr old wife.

let's congrats him of his big day this coming sunday. He will be married this Sunday 25 Jan 2015 @ Vietnam through my intro of vb.

He's turning 35 this year while his wife is 18 yr old.

A break down on the expenses

$4000 - Wedding dinner + Photo taking + Costume renting
$300 - For 3/4 mth basic mandarin course in vietnam
$700 - (A set of gold)
$250 x 4 = $1k (Allowance for his wife)
$2000 - (Ang Bao for me)
$600 - (Air Ticket for his wife parent to come to singapore to witness their married under singapore law as his wife is Abv 18 and below 21.

Total $8600

As his wife has not met the legal age to get married in singapore, We have to wait 4 mth.

I will not be going back this year as my wife is giving birth in a mth time.
Any bros who are interested in getting a vietnamese wife could still pm me and i will keep in touch with you.
When i have the date of going back vietnam, i will still jio interested parties to tag along too.

As for this bro, It will be great if you could share your experiences with the rest on your journey with me to meet your wife till your are official married. Thank you and 白头偕老 ok ;)

[Gabriellien]

Is it like looking for a viet wife?

How much it cost?

What the requirement and how to go about it?

[rachgu]

Are you agent?
Agent fee $2000?:eek:


$2000 - (Ang Bao for me

[comm]

well...i think the important thing is whether bro can introduce the genuine wife type

2k angbao for helping u find a good wife....i consider it as something that should be given happily

[xiaoqiang]

2k for bringing u back u to Vietnam and host an audition with translation.
vietnamese does not understand mandarin when u first meet them. How are u going to communicate?

Worth it or not worth it? I leave it to the rest. Maybe the bro whom I intro him his wife could give his share view of feedback ;)

I'm not an agent, if I'm a agent, I believe it will cost more than that.

[jacky43]

Brides agencies is looking at sundown. Last year the most important man in this country cramp down the % of PR. It so happen mine colleague was hit, his VN wife visas is rejected.

Although his divource is finalised, due to this new regulation he is screw. Actually I agreed with this crampdown. He is not paying child maintenance yet he had $10k to marry a SYT bride.

Share with you guys on this as i heard from HR manager. Past 15 years there were foreigners factory girls who got arrested for selling pussy. The shocking is some girls got pregnant and cook up stories in order to return home to solve her problems. She need passport to fly home you see.

People in HR allreally seen this for past 15 years, even back into the 80s. And that male FT were warn by co to obey laws, not to hook up local girls. Some MNC also kept his passports, this never happen 15 years ago. Because male FT in Managers post were consider as professional plus role model.

Co does not believe in FT anymore.

[milfmilf]

well...i think the important thing is whether bro can introduce the genuine wife type

2k angbao for helping u find a good wife....i consider it as something that should be given happily

agreed .... :D

[TadaoKumagai]

Any update?

[Dhornyboy]

Ermm.. I m not here to discuss about where to source for cheaper alternatives, better deals on reno/wedding packages.

My qns is how do the guys manage to survive being the only sole income provider?

Somemore with the octracising of foreigners, language barrier/culture difference, my foreign wives friends have problem getting along with the hb's family/relatives too since all are also living under one roof.

If u r not capable enough to support a foreign wife, then go local.
If local see u no up, then really, no offence, you must ask yourself how come there r people who can, and yet you can't.

2cents.

[ah rat]

If u r not capable enough to support a foreign wife, then go local.
If local see u no up, then really, no offence, you must ask yourself how come there r people who can, and yet you can't.

2cents.
Bro, local ask for many C :D
Sane is a lady :)

[Dhornyboy]

lol.. she sounded like a man. a loser who blames the society for everything.

[ah rat]

lol.. she sounded like a man. a loser who blames the society for everything.

She missing since last year in Jan 14 :D

[xiaoqiang]

Latest updates:

I'll be going back to vn next ur feb Chinese new yr, those who are interested could tag along. My flight to vn is on sq, 3 February 2016.

Drop me a pm if anyone are keen.

[assrammer]

pho........ beef pho........

[singlun]

Latest updates:

I'll be going back to vn next ur feb Chinese new yr, those who are interested could tag along. My flight to vn is on sq, 3 February 2016.

Drop me a pm if anyone are keen.

It was said that during cny period,the city is dead.they have their own new year call tet. Bad decision,bro.

[xiaoqiang]

It was said that during cny period,the city is dead.they have their own new year call tet. Bad decision,bro.

Their own new yr tet is the same as our cny, they followed Chinese lunar calendar btw.... Why is it a bad decision???

[hoian]

What they mean is.. CNY or Tet...everybody go back to their respective home towns. The city is "dead" except maybe KFC or Pizza Hut. Unless the chiongsters are also invited to the gals' home towns... otherwise they just eat pizza every day. :p

Their own new yr tet is the same as our cny, they followed Chinese lunar calendar btw.... Why is it a bad decision???

[Hurricane88]

What they mean is.. CNY or Tet...everybody go back to their respective home towns. The city is "dead" except maybe KFC or Pizza Hut. Unless the chiongsters are also invited to the gals' home towns... otherwise they just eat pizza every day. :p

bad idea to go gal house during TET...just like giving lixi to all...:)

most Viets in province will do nothing except gambling and drinking during TET...:)

main city HCM will be ghost town and no hawkers open exept 3rd day with high increased prices...:)

[Hurricane88]

2k for bringing u back u to Vietnam and host an audition with translation.
vietnamese does not understand mandarin when u first meet them. How are u going to communicate?

Worth it or not worth it? I leave it to the rest. Maybe the bro whom I intro him his wife could give his share view of feedback ;)

I'm not an agent, if I'm a agent, I believe it will cost more than that.

wow...dun know you charge S$2,000 to bring...and still dun include air ticket...:confused:

I was thinking you are doing this out of goodwill...now that you charge is a different thing altogether...:)

[faszcom]

A break down on the expenses

$4000 - Wedding dinner + Photo taking + Costume renting
$300 - For 3/4 mth basic mandarin course in vietnam
$700 - (A set of gold)
$250 x 4 = $1k (Allowance for his wife)
$2000 - (Ang Bao for me)
$600 - (Air Ticket for his wife parent to come to singapore to witness their married under singapore law as his wife is Abv 18 and below 21.

Total $8600


I'm also planning next year to marry my Vietnam's gf. the above expenses is it applicable to HCM?

[xiaoqiang]

I'm also planning next year to marry my Vietnam's gf. the above expenses is it applicable to HCM?

Nope, will be higher most probably. If ur future wife know how to take care of you, it will be around the same amount.

[xiaoqiang]

wow...dun know you charge S$2,000 to bring...and still dun include air ticket...:confused:

I was thinking you are doing this out of goodwill...now that you charge is a different thing altogether...:)

If i includes the air ticket, what if bro goes there and can't seem to like anyone during the audition ?

[darkness4311666]

bro any small size and skinny young girls to intro. best with picture. most importantly still virgin. will take them out for meals and drinks to see whether we click or not.

[Huricane88]

wow...this xiaoqiang charge S$2,000....and still dun include air ticket...:confused:

I was thinking xiaoqiang doing this out of goodwill...now that he charge is a different thing altogether...:)

Earning money this way no difference from pimping whores, it will bring bad karma.

The above is my personal opinion, not to upset anyone.
Pls skip if you do not like to read :)

[darkness4311666]

where to find vietnam girls over here for dates not the ones working in ktv

[xiaoqiang]

where to find vietnam girls over here for dates not the ones working in ktv

Follow me ;) 100% pure village Vietnamese. But u need to put in effort as well to groom them.

As for h88, I hVe a few question which needs ur advise. Will pm u soon ;)


For the rest, the date will be reschedule to 16/2/2016. Hence those who are interested can tag alone if u wan. So far 1 bro Cfm and 1 bro tbcfm.

[Bennyl]

best is able to provide with photo before deciding to go and pay the fee.

[Hurricane88]

best is able to provide with photo before deciding to go and pay the fee.

Let me post some photos of VB but dun expect village gals to dress like this immediately when you see them first time...to me any village gals can be beautiful after make up and dress up...:)

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Note - I just post to share as photos...pls dun pm me to get contact...:)

[xiaoqiang]

best is able to provide with photo before deciding to go and pay the fee.

I did't request u to pay the fee when u follow me back to Vietnam. Only when u confirm want to marry the Ger I intro, after Rom in Singapore, then pay.

[Batiusta]

I did't request u to pay the fee when u follow me back to Vietnam. Only when u confirm want to marry the Ger I intro, after Rom in Singapore, then pay.

What happened if the ger run away after ROM?

[xiaoqiang]

What happened if the ger run away after ROM?

It's not within my control, I believe as fate and if we treat them nicely, they will return us favour right? Those bridal agency can't do anything also if the vb run away.

[xiaoqiang]

For eye pleasure.

Normal Village ger
http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/vb/5CA930BA-9D1B-438D-BA14-FCCFBA910772.jpg

Another vb With makeup
http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/vb/DC8AE1D1-2861-48F3-B46D-14CBDD201E02.jpg

[Batiustar]

I did't request u to pay the fee when u follow me back to Vietnam. Only when u confirm want to marry the Ger I intro, after Rom in Singapore, then pay.

What happened if the ger run away after ROM?

[xiaoqiang]

What happened if the ger run away after ROM?

This is a very good question, any expert pros in giving advice?
Legal issue as well if the wife runaway?

[sadfa]

This is a very good question, any expert pros in giving advice?
Legal issue as well if the wife runaway?

Divorce Lo.

Won't one la. She never get pr run away for fuck.
Unless the agency crooked.
But some of the agencies got money back guarantee or replacement.

[xiaoqiang]

any more advice?

I have a queries, if after marry and divorce, and the victim felt cheated, is this consider marriage scam ?

[sadfa]

any more advice?

I have a queries, if after marry and divorce, and the victim felt cheated, is this consider marriage scam ?

What more u want? Don't marry someoneu don't know?

Not marriage scam la. This call failed marriage.

[xiaoqiang]

What more u want? Don't marry someoneu don't know?

Not marriage scam la. This call failed marriage.

u sure ?

because there is $$ involved in this marriage which suppose to be introduction fee.

[sadfa]

u sure ?

because there is $$ involved in this marriage which suppose to be introduction fee.

How to prove scam?
She don't love you? Don't clean house? Don't talk? Dint cook? No kids?
How many normal marriages are like that?

And so what if money involved?
Agency guarantee no divorce? Guerantee loving marriage? If don't have how? You take over agency?
Agency is introduction fee ok. They have some screening at most bt not perfect. The ger may have vd when she claim she virgin.

And don't ask me I sure or not.
All my posts motherfucking solid.
One shot one kill.
While ppl post a lot of shit, I post one time I point out wad a lot missed n I is one sword see blood ok. Take out sword sure got blood.

I is solid. In addition to my Dick of cos

[xiaoqiang]

How to prove scam?
She don't love you? Don't clean house? Don't talk? Dint cook? No kids?
How many normal marriages are like that?

And so what if money involved?
Agency guarantee no divorce? Guerantee loving marriage? If don't have how? You take over agency?
Agency is introduction fee ok. They have some screening at most bt not perfect. The ger may have vd when she claim she virgin.

And don't ask me I sure or not.
All my posts motherfucking solid.
One shot one kill.
While ppl post a lot of shit, I post one time I point out wad a lot missed n I is one sword see blood ok. Take out sword sure got blood.

I is solid. In addition to my Dick of cos

:D:D:DFuuny sia, but bro, thanks for your comment.

so that means if i intro u a wife and take $ from you, it's not a crime ?
and if i intro u and the wife run away within a month, ur $ for my service is gone and the sg law is not able to step in ? and u can do nothing about it ?

[sadfa]

:D:D:DFuuny sia, but bro, thanks for your comment.

so that means if i intro u a wife and take $ from you, it's not a crime ?
and if i intro u and the wife run away within a month, ur $ for my service is gone and the sg law is not able to step in ? and u can do nothing about it ?

I didn't know you asking from perspective of introducer.

Marriage agencies been around in the open so long liao.
So u never register, shouldn't be a problem.
BUT they compiled the law recently on fake marriages so you may check it to make sure esp if u r taking money for it.

Also don't talk too much cock n make promises that can backfire like the ger very homely, good etc bt I see the difficulties if u dont do that

You Think you in china meh.
Spore only got one modern slavery system. It's called saf.

If you go police n say u bought wife n she cannot leave house without yr permission they'll think u Siao.

The important thing is agency got promise NO divorce?
No runaway? Even maids Runaway wad abt wife?

I say liao. Agency only introduce. If you hamtum her, she cannot run off meh.

That one is slavery hor. Got middle east ppl do that to their maids TODAY OK.

[Hurricane88]

u sure ?

because there is $$ involved in this marriage which suppose to be introduction fee.

no proof that you record any introduction fee...except the proof here written as xiaoqiang collect 2k...but you mentioned that 2k as "ang bao" for successful marriage after intro...:)

just ask boss to delete this thread then no more proof here...:)

[Hurricane88]

I didn't know you asking from perspective of introducer.

Marriage agencies been around in the open so long liao.
So u never register, shouldn't be a problem.
BUT they compiled the law recently on fake marriages so you may check it to make sure esp if u r taking money for it.

Also don't talk too much cock n make promises that can backfire like the ger very homely, good etc bt I see the difficulties if u dont do that

If you go police n say u bought wife n she cannot leave house without yr permission they'll think u Siao.

The important thing is agency got promise NO divorce?
No runaway? Even maids Runaway wad abt wife?

I say liao. Agency only introduce. If you hamtum her, she cannot run off meh.

That one is slavery hor. Got middle east ppl do that to their maids TODAY OK.

right from beginning I had disapprove you doing this and charging "ang bao"...if Vietnamese marriage agency can be successful then those marriage agencies will only increase and not close shops like current because too many brides run away after 1 month or 1 year of marriages...:)

the brides solved their short term family problem because all the brides wanted is a few thousand in SGD and these can get from dowry and initial deposit payment...after that the brides will say sayonara...:)

I had advocated any man who wanted a Viet wife must go Vietnam and meet their prospective wife and get to know each other at least 2 years with monthly visits...if any man unable to do so then just forget it...dun bother to marry a Viet wife...:)

[sadfa]

right from beginning I had disapprove you doing this and charging "ang bao"...if Vietnamese marriage agency can be successful then those marriage agencies will only increase and not close shops like current because too many brides run away after 1 month or 1 year of marriages...:)

the brides solved their short term family problem because all the brides wanted is a few thousand in SGD and these can get from dowry and initial deposit payment...after that the brides will say sayonara...:)

I had advocated any man who wanted a Viet wife must go Vietnam and meet their prospective wife and get to know each other at least 2 years with monthly visits...if any man unable to do so then just forget it...dun bother to marry a Viet wife...:)

These agencies are still needed cos in rural places like China n s Korea, they can't afford to visit Vietnam for two yrs. Not practical. And don't forget Americans n Europeans oso gt such arranged marriages hor

If you ask spore guy do that, he might as well go Malaysia two years n not Vietnam. Less likely to divorce.

And I don't think anyone succeeded in suing the agency cos wife run off or fucked by samsters here. Becos agency never say that won't happen n its out of their control.

[Hurricane88]

These agencies are still needed cos in rural places like China n s Korea, they can't afford to visit Vietnam for two yrs. Not practical. And don't forget Americans n Europeans oso gt such arranged marriages hor

If you ask spore guy do that, he might as well go Malaysia two years n not Vietnam. Less likely to divorce.

And I don't think anyone succeeded in suing the agency cos wife run off or fucked by samsters here. Becos agency never say that won't happen n its out of their control.

read my quote...:)



I had advocated any man who wanted a Viet wife must go Vietnam and meet their prospective wife and get to know each other at least 2 years with monthly visits...if any man unable to do so then just forget it...dun bother to marry a Viet wife...:)

I had friends who had married Vietnamese wives but they met the girls there and took their time getting to know each other a few years before marriage...plenty of hard work traveling...:)

must learn their culture and language in order to be successful...

[sadfa]

read my quote...:)



I had friends who had married Vietnamese wives but they met the girls there and took their time getting to know each other a few years before marriage...plenty of hard work traveling...:)

must learn their culture and language in order to be successful...

Actually itll b interesting if garbagement take all these arranged marriages n see 5 or 10 yrs later, do they divorce more than normal marriages

If they're together significantly more than norm, maybe garbagement will form own agencies sourcing more Chinese brides n even bridegrooms wor