accidentally shot inside a girl cos condom tear how?!

[late bloomer]

i need serious advice and have no one to turn to
so no choice come to this forum.

i did a FL last night and it was only after i shot inside
that both of us realise the condom was alr torn.

2 reasons: the session was quite intense
and the condom quality sux ... too thin.

What was supposed to be a really enjoyable session
turned out to be a possible nightmare.

2 concerns:

1) what are the chances of both of us getting AIDS etc?

2) what are the chances of her getting pregnant?

I felt really really bad after the session and we both panicked
and asked each other if we had any disease.

any bros have similar experience can share.

condom never tear before in my entire lifetime.

this time damn suay! :mad:

as she is a street walker, I don't have her contact
so i'm thinking maybe go back to the area she stand
and look for her and check if she ok and exchange number.

so at least she can contact me if pregnant or
i can share the medical bills should things turn awry.

guys, do u think i should do this?

any ladies here to advise what is the responsible thing to do
from a girl's pov?

PS: just did research. where can i get oral contraceptive pill. OTC at guardian? or must go clinic?

[bunnyrabbit]

Well as from your signature below.. you already know your answer what..

"We live, we fuck, we die." ~~ Late Bloomer

halleluyah.. 阿弥陀佛。。

[Dogdog25]

Since she FL, why worried about her get getting pregeant. Yours concern right now are she clean. U had to wait for 2 month then go for blood test.

[neyney]

The possibility of gettings AIDS for both of you from this sexxion will be 0 so long none of you have HIV to start with.

I know this is quite bastard, but why do you even want to worry if she will get pregnant, unless you want to marry her if she get pregnant. If not otherwise, forget abt this incident, and go for your blood test later on.

[tcrecruit]

The possibility of gettings AIDS for both of you from this sexxion will be 0 so long none of you have HIV to start with.
I know this is quite bastard, but why do you even want to worry if she will get pregnant, unless you want to marry her if she get pregnant. If not otherwise, forget abt this incident, and go for your blood test later on.

Agree with this bro! Why u worry about her pregnancy when U have other more impt thing to worry!! Your own life! Don't fuck your wife until you are sure few months later.. Cook some excuse to use condom if u really need to fuck your wife or gf and try dont let go.... Otherwise u have few other lives to worry about.

[keewee]

just go for a test at least u will feel better after that

[Hardaway1818]

Within 24 hrs, u can get a pill to prevent aids as well as pregnancy.

Although not 100%, it still helps a lot in both situation. Heard must be within 24 hrs.

[3Dragon]

I think at this time, u shld worry more about urself abt getting STDs or HIV, so go do the necessary test.

[seventyfour]

I am also curious why TS is so concerned about her pregnancy. But I hope TS will be all right.

[iPhone]

Late bloomer

Don't worry. You be fine. Next time bring your own CDs

As for girl, if she pregnant she won't trouble you don't worry no burden to you

[Brainstorm]

I remember reading this some time back. Please go see a doctor asap and get Truvada.

http://www.medpagetoday.com/HIVAIDS/HIVAIDS/33767

[lemontee]

Its good you even think of the fl situation even though you are in trouble yourself. You have my admiration for that.

From a girl's POV, you can look for the fl and give her your number (prepaid number) in case she really get pregnant. But then again how can you ensure you are the cause of her pregnancy? A bit of grey area here. If you wanna help her then you have to give her the benefit of doubt. Or you can give her some money to purchase the pills.

Secondly, please refrain from sex till you are given all clear of Aids/stds, which may taken months.

Thirdly, invest in good quality condoms next time. :D

You may not help her much for her own situation, but if I will her, I be touched by your small gesture of concern.

[leo_ng77]

I hope you are not married. If u are, refrain from any activities with your wife till ur cleared.

[spinex09]

I can understand why he is worried. 5 years down the road. This lady returns with a 4 year old kid demanding compensation. That's scary esp if TS has a family

[late bloomer]

Thx all bros for the reply.

Nevertheless I will still try my luck and make my way now to where she stand usually.

I am single, not married. But that doesn't mean I want marry her.

I'm worried she don't even know anything about morning after pill.

I just have to hope I see her later and if possible bring her to 24 hr clinic at geylang if she's stupid enough not to take the pill yet.

Some of these girls are from rural area. They may not even know abt this kind of thing. Sad.

Nevertheless, thank u all bros for kind response. Off I go to GL ... :(

[flowbow]

as she is a street walker, I don't have her contact
so i'm thinking maybe go back to the area she stand
and look for her and check if she ok and exchange number.

so at least she can contact me if pregnant or
i can share the medical bills should things turn awry.


I would think it's nice of you if you really were to do this. Though I know many (or some) bros here might just say that you should be worrying for yourself instead of the FL. Still, the FL is human as well and I think if she really does get pregnant, it's only right that you share the medical costs with her.

Just my personal POV.

[aibimy]

Thx all bros for the reply.

Nevertheless I will still try my luck and make my way now to where she stand usually.

I am single, not married. But that doesn't mean I want marry her.

I'm worried she don't even know anything about morning after pill.

I just have to hope I see her later and if possible bring her to 24 hr clinic at geylang if she's stupid enough not to take the pill yet.

Some of these girls are from rural area. They may not even know abt this kind of thing. Sad.

Nevertheless, thank u all bros for kind response. Off I go to GL ... :(

Don't break another condom ar!

[skarlett]

i need serious advice and have no one to turn to
so no choice come to this forum.

i did a FL last night and it was only after i shot inside
that both of us realise the condom was alr torn.

2 reasons: the session was quite intense
and the condom quality sux ... too thin.

What was supposed to be a really enjoyable session
turned out to be a possible nightmare.

2 concerns:

1) what are the chances of both of us getting AIDS etc?

2) what are the chances of her getting pregnant?

I felt really really bad after the session and we both panicked
and asked each other if we had any disease.

any bros have similar experience can share.

condom never tear before in my entire lifetime.

this time damn suay! :mad:

as she is a street walker, I don't have her contact
so i'm thinking maybe go back to the area she stand
and look for her and check if she ok and exchange number.

so at least she can contact me if pregnant or
i can share the medical bills should things turn awry.

guys, do u think i should do this?

any ladies here to advise what is the responsible thing to do
from a girl's pov?

PS: just did research. where can i get oral contraceptive pill. OTC at guardian? or must go clinic?


You seem like a person with conscience. At least you did tot about sharing medical bills should things go awry and not leave the girl to such situTion. God will bless you.

Or at least you wont get bad karma. :) chill and jus go ahead with what you think is right, or at least that gives you a peaceful mind.

[late bloomer]

Kanna zap twice already and i am really worried if kanna zap more
but i feel i need to at least give a final reply to those
who have reply to this thread n show concern.

Thx for all replies bros.

Good news. I manage to bump into her at where she always stand.
She say no need worry as she won't get pregnant
since she had alr gone for op n got her tubes tied.
She even ask: why? you scared i give birth baby to blackmail u ar?

Even smile n ask: want to go again?

I'm like, WTF? :confused:

I tell her, relax, i talk to u again.
Went to buy some more alcohol to calm down
and then went back to clarify. R u sure u tie tube? U safe?
No need bring u clinic?

She laugh and ask me again, why u so lo so? Want to go again?

去不去?

Of course i say no.

Then she say, you don't go, at least gimme some $$$ for supper later?

I gave her some money on the spot w/o taking her anywhere
n ask her take care of herself.

Now the only issue left is the AIDS issue.

For those who zap me, you are probably right.
Serve me right for all these.
I definitely have to cheong less from now onward ...

[y&gblf]

You did the right thing.. cheong responsibly.

Go for the test soon. Hope you'll be alright!

Cheers!

[Syfer]

Eh this rather off topic, but what condom you use ar. Can avoid it .

[sta1100]

Bro, when she step into this trade she has to be prepare thing will happen if not she won't want to open her leg to other guy. If she is P how sure it your baby and I'am very sure she will know what to do if kana shoot inside. At this point you should be more worried about std or maybe HIV. Is she a PRC fl.

[skarlett]

Kanna zap twice already and i am really worried if kanna zap more
but i feel i need to at least give a final reply to those
who have reply to this thread n show concern.

Thx for all replies bros.

Good news. I manage to bump into her at where she always stand.
She say no need worry as she won't get pregnant
since she had alr gone for op n got her tubes tied.
She even ask: why? you scared i give birth baby to blackmail u ar?

Even smile n ask: want to go again?

I'm like, WTF? :confused:

I tell her, relax, i talk to u again.
Went to buy some more alcohol to calm down
and then went back to clarify. R u sure u tie tube? U safe?
No need bring u clinic?

She laugh and ask me again, why u so lo so? Want to go again?

去不去?

Of course i say no.

Then she say, you don't go, at least gimme some $$$ for supper later?

I gave her some money on the spot w/o taking her anywhere
n ask her take care of herself.

Now the only issue left is the AIDS issue.

For those who zap me, you are probably right.
Serve me right for all these.
I definitely have to cheong less from now onward ...

You did your part. Now that she said she doesnt need any form of responsibility from you then leave it as it is. Dont worry about being zap. The points wont earn you a living here.
Tk care of urself.

[flowbow]

TS, you've earned my humble 2 points :) kudos to you for wanting to be responsible even though you did not need to do so.

[crazyivan6636]

Take this as a lesson. You dun unload inside unless the gal has done a medical check up. So for you, get that done first and be in the all clear before you start unloading your spunk again even though if its just into someone's mouth.

Condoms are a must and don't skimp on these in the future. If you like to rough ride, go for the polyisoprene ones from Okamoto or a reputable brand that can work with oil and are really strong.

[Brainstorm]

I remember reading this some time back. Please go see a doctor asap and get Truvada.

http://www.medpagetoday.com/HIVAIDS/HIVAIDS/33767

Now the only issue left is the AIDS issue.


I have already posted the link to the article in my earlier post. Why don't you go see a doctor for this medicine called Truvada which has been proven to reduce possible HIV infection after high risk sex?

Why wait 3-6 months to see if you indeed have HIV when you can do something right now to reduce your chances of getting HIV?

[gayzai]

If u really worry about getting HIV, i think u can go and get PEP..........

[bombshell]

The most important thing is abt yur health now.hope everything will be alright for u.for the ladies,even if she did not tie,she would have pop the morning pill if she noticed the leak at the same time.just hope she is clear.

[lynnlammy]

Responsible guy~ ^^

[owl888]

Well as from your signature below.. you already know your answer what..

"We live, we fuck, we die." ~~ Late Bloomer

halleluyah.. 阿弥陀佛。。

Haha, well spotted!

TS, the FL while accepting your money is already accepting all possibility of risk. For yourself, health is more important, u die never mind but don't make your loved ones suffer coz of u....

[plebsg]

Ok - the estimated risk from a single encounter female to male HIV transmission is roughly 1 in 500-1000. And this is no condom and female is HIV positive while male is not.

PeP can reduce the risk by further 80%. That means that if you were unlucky enough to get it (1 in 500) then if you are on PeP 4/5 times it wont develop.

Given the chances - calm yourself. At about 6-8 weeks, today's tests are about 95% accurate. So in about 7 wks or so do a test (takes 20 mins). These tests are also offered anonymously.

[lebronjames6]

i need serious advice and have no one to turn to
so no choice come to this forum.

i did a FL last night and it was only after i shot inside
that both of us realise the condom was alr torn.

2 reasons: the session was quite intense
and the condom quality sux ... too thin.

What was supposed to be a really enjoyable session
turned out to be a possible nightmare.

2 concerns:

1) what are the chances of both of us getting AIDS etc?

2) what are the chances of her getting pregnant?

I felt really really bad after the session and we both panicked
and asked each other if we had any disease.

any bros have similar experience can share.

condom never tear before in my entire lifetime.

this time damn suay! :mad:

as she is a street walker, I don't have her contact
so i'm thinking maybe go back to the area she stand
and look for her and check if she ok and exchange number.

so at least she can contact me if pregnant or
i can share the medical bills should things turn awry.

guys, do u think i should do this?

any ladies here to advise what is the responsible thing to do
from a girl's pov?

PS: just did research. where can i get oral contraceptive pill. OTC at guardian? or must go clinic?

bro. dont use those ultra thin condom. is no good for live firing :p

[fulham]

For someone who have crossed seas and mountains to reach our shores, this girl is definitely smarter than you think, in china, they can just go to hospital and tie up with a rubber band inside her pussy to prevent herself from getting pregnant, and if she wants to be pregnant again, just remove the rubber band.

[Putin]

For someone who have crossed seas and mountains
to reach our shores, this girl is definitely smarter than you think, in china,
they can just go to hospital and tie up with a rubber band inside her pussy to
prevent herself from getting pregnant, and if she wants to be pregnant again,
just remove the rubber band.

Correct thats exactly how they do it

[Shadow_warrior]

thanks bro for a amusing story....

FL are not meant to be treated that way though, you are renting the hole, and you wear condoms because they rent it other people.

its to protect yourself, and you are just one of the many tenants, always protect your interest first.

[black84]

i need serious advice and have no one to turn to
so no choice come to this forum.

i did a FL last night and it was only after i shot inside
that both of us realise the condom was alr torn.

2 reasons: the session was quite intense
and the condom quality sux ... too thin.

What was supposed to be a really enjoyable session
turned out to be a possible nightmare.


1) what are the chances of both of us getting AIDS etc?

maybe you can read on this.

http://aids.about.com/od/hivaidsstats/f/infectionrisk.htm

[LovePotion]

not to worry la... the most become father lo hahaha,, chances is just 50 to 50... if u worry get a pregnancy test kit to test....

[crazyivan6636]

Had many friends who had littered across Asia their seeds that turned to offsprings.

It's a risk you take.. never know 10 yrs down the road a kid comes up to you calling you daddy.

[FanCheong]

i remember last time it happen on me too the Condom break. I buy 1 box 6 pieces condom but it break easy on everyone pieces. Lucky i do with my GF and i usually shot outside even i wear condom.

[crazyivan6636]

Use Sagami polyurethanes condoms as it will not break and can be used with oil.

They are a bit tight around the head so if u r doing your girl friend vs. a one night stand, just roll it down to the mid of your knob instead of the whole length.

You will get to feel her insides and when used with coconut or or olive oil thr warm sensation if skin to skin between her pussy's lips and your knob.

As the Sagamis are tight round the head, your seed will not spill out once you unloaded as long as you with draw quickly.

Finally Sagamis are non scented so get your girl to lick your knob clean after removing it.

[Wolfie_0005]

I wouldn't worry abt the FL being pregnant more than the chance of getting a STD. Most likely, the FL would have taken precautions against pregnancy.

Best way to reassure yourself is to go for a HIV test. can be stressful but best way to reassure yourself.

[ray2828]

Bro hiv actually lower chance of getting..there are many other std like herpes, a viral viral infection with no cure, gorrohrea etc that can lead to birth complications should you one day decide to get married and have a kid. Imagine what your future partner will feel.

Dont procrastinate, go see a doctor and there are prevention doses you can take. I had your experience before amd went to the doctor. However the drugs drugs especially the hiv ones will made you lou sia...

[CumExplorer]

I wouldn't worry abt the FL being pregnant more than the chance of getting a STD. Most likely, the FL would have taken precautions against pregnancy.

Best way to reassure yourself is to go for a HIV test. can be stressful but best way to reassure yourself.

bro thanks for upping, return favor and up you 12 pts, cheers

like to exchange pts with bros above 5 power, have a nice day to all bros:D

[houses100]

Be safe bro. Hope you are ok.

[Wednesday]

so i suppose, you should be more cautious next time. you'll never know when you'll be suay :)

[Squeezy]

If she is really pregnant, still not so bad. You can consider marrying her...it's a yes or no question....

For HIV issue, it's quite dangerous....I know there might be some FLs out there, charged a higher price for customers who do not use condom....then it's worrying...

No choice but to keep monitoring yourself and go for a checkup after 3 to 6 months...during this time, it's best not to have any sex...in case you spread to some other people whom you loved.

[chickenlittley]

2 concerns:

1) what are the chances of both of us getting AIDS etc?
Will not get if both dont have. But u r at high risk since she is a street walker.

2) what are the chances of her getting pregnant?
high if she is not in her safe zone.

[kpkprivate]

Happy Father's Day!

Like bro just mentioned, go for health check. . . unless you are pretty garang kind.

Play with care!

[boycloudy]

Any bros here know if its safe to buy durex condoms through amazon? is the quality as reliable as the ones we get from shops? cos the price on the web is much much lower! pls advise!

[fantasyinjector]

Any bros here know if its safe to buy durex condoms through amazon? is the quality as reliable as the ones we get from shops? cos the price on the web is much much lower! pls advise!

How much cheaper can it get? You are getting a box of 12 or a full container?

Just get it from the store locally

[ColdBlood99]

Ts you are responsible man, so you will be protect by god.

[boycloudy]

How much cheaper can it get? You are getting a box of 12 or a full container?

Just get it from the store locally

If i'm not mistaken, a packet of 50 cost only $15.88???? http://www.amazon.com/Durex-Performax-Condoms-50-Pack/dp/B0031SQ9JE/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1384599897&sr=8-5&keywords=durex+condom

[lynnlammy]

when was her last menses? if you know you can dile teduce whether she was fertile or not then?

[MrStyleKing]

Get ready to be a daddy lol

[LipLai]

go do a blood test!

[mbam]

TS, from the time you broke the cd till now is at least 5 to 6 months, you should have all the more accurate test results for STDS or HIV by now, you may want to let the helpful and concerns brothers and sisters here to know the results?
I experienced broken cd in Thailand 20 years back, once with Chinese FL in SG 10 years back and one with Viet 2 years back, but was lucky to escape disease free.. but keep my fingers cross as lucks may go off one day, very selective and careful on FB nowadays..imho, cheong safe..