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Let say one of my friend got addicted to sex, how to cure? Anyone got any clue?
uzumaki_naruto
03-06-2005, 05:14 PM
I think everyone here on this board is suffering from sex addiction but with different degrees.
Those who must get their fixed of fucking a different woman everyday should be on one end.
The other end is those guys who has commercial sex with a different woman(not spouse or gf) occasionaly (once a month).
Sadly, you can't really do much about it if you do not have the will power.
Anyway lets just say you have willpower:
1.) Do not login to sammyboy or other local forums which shares sex FR. Cos this just makes your imagination run wild. And it will spoil your plan to contain your sex addiction. KEEP AWAY FROM THIS FORUMS.
2.) Exercise or take up in sports. This could be a double edge sword. Some people do this strenuous activities and are too tired to fuck. But others will head to Tui na to massage their sore joints and in the process they will engage in commercial sex. So it really depends.
3.)If you do not have a girlfriend. Then get one and be faithful to her and only her.
4.) KEEP AWAY FROM IRC. Alot of empty temptations there. But at the end of the day you would just be wasting your time cos there are absolutely no chance you can hook up a hot chick. This would just make you sexually frustrated and you need to find someone to fuck. Which leads you to get commercial sex.
5.) KEEP AWAY FROM PORNO SITES. Sure you argue you could jerk off to them and keep away from commercial sex. But it does not.
6.) This is a little extreme. Throw away your computer. Why? Because the computer is where it all begins. It connects you to the World wide smut known as the internet. I do not have the figures but i am sure the rise of sexual addiction could be attributed to the increase in the number of people owning computer with internet connections.
Hope this helps.
uzumaki_naruto
03-06-2005, 05:15 PM
Anyway i am trying to curb my sexual addiction to.
I promised myself no more commercial sex of any forms after today.
MMM88
03-06-2005, 05:30 PM
Anyway i am trying to curb my sexual addiction to.
I promised myself no more commercial sex of any forms after today.
Bro ...with a Japanese name like tat...sure u can hur....i think one can minimize but entirely give up ...is going to be real tough....nevertheless wish u t best..... :p
Doenitz79
03-06-2005, 05:41 PM
2.) Exercise or take up in sports. This could be a double edge sword. Some people do this strenuous activities and are too tired to fuck. But others will head to Tui na to massage their sore joints and in the process they will engage in commercial sex. So it really depends.
Regular weight training makes your balls release more hormones into the rest of the body and you know what increased hormones can do to you.Sure you will be totally shacked out,but once you have recovered sufficiently,hor say liao! I can attest to that.
:)
glfingers
09-06-2005, 03:37 PM
May I suggest installing a nanny-software that bars your access to adult sites and forums like this one. Also, try not to keep more than $40 cash in your wallet. Do not carry an ATM card instead pay with credit card for bigger purchases. Hookers and brothels accept only cash. Your credit card is useless there. No money, no honey.
xxpp_z
09-06-2005, 03:56 PM
Haha, Don't think all these will works. There is only one thing that can heal a addiction, that is power of will. If you don't have the will to over-come it. No matter what method u use, all are useless
JingQiangBuDao
09-06-2005, 04:01 PM
I find it funny as most of the sex addicter are guys. Gals can have months and years not having sex but guys 1 month already overflow liao, lolz... :D
glfingers
09-06-2005, 04:02 PM
I'm just guessing. But I think a person's occupation may have contribute to sex addiction. Perhaps those whose job involves creating fantasies, illusion, art and entertainment are more prone. Perhaps advertising, media, marketing and PR folks are at greater risk?
glfingers
09-06-2005, 04:21 PM
Here's a technique that has worked for me in the past. If the craving for sex is a result of boredom, go buy a bar of your favourite chocolate. The act of hunting for chocolate will work off some of the sexual energy. Eating the chocolate will give you a similar satisfaction as ejaculation.
If the urge is a result of hunger, (Yes, when you're hungry, you can get horny) eat some oily meat like steak or chicken chop. You won't feel so horny after fatty food.
initialD
09-06-2005, 04:31 PM
Let say one of my friend got addicted to sex, how to cure? Anyone got any clue?
actually wanna 'chop hand' not so easy, its a combination of mind + biological needs.
Prob u can ask abt those chemical castration medication from your docs...like what is being used to treat sex offenders in the US/UK etc...not sure if there is any long term effect or whether it is available though
JingQiangBuDao
09-06-2005, 04:32 PM
If the urge is a result of hunger, (Yes, when you're hungry, you can get horny) eat some oily meat like steak or chicken chop. You won't feel so horny after fatty food.
Just checking, cos people said that after eat full liao, will start to think of having sex, is it true?? Like wat Teocho people say "eat finish free free, pnn" :D
Wang Ye
09-06-2005, 04:42 PM
Let say one of my friend got addicted to sex, how to cure? Anyone got any clue?
True love will cure all!:D
Ok, jokes aside, your friend needs to know what drives him when it comes to sex. Solve that question and the solution will come naturally.
Worst case give him the scare of his life (ie. getting caught by AV the press, relatives or getting some VD etc). Alternatively keep him so busy that he has no time to go looking for it.
excm69
09-06-2005, 06:27 PM
Let say one of my friend got addicted to sex, how to cure? Anyone got any clue?
Try looking for answers here:
Sexual Addiction (http://www.sexaddictionhelp.com/general.html)
:cool:
madix
10-06-2005, 02:58 AM
limit yourself to number of times a week...set long term and short term targets la...
if really hot and bursting with nourishment then pcc...it'll get your mind off bonking a while...soon quit that as well...
Sornporn
12-06-2005, 06:13 PM
I work 7 days a week most of the time. That keep the addiction away. :D
I work 7 days a week most of the time. That keep the addiction away. :D
I think better not, becos when I am tied down with projects and other work. The very day when I get to finally rest, either my Manager will want me to accompany him to Joyful or....... my muscleaches does the calling. Like Yugi-oh, I got another side of me which sometimes personifies Tarzan, Zhu Ba Jie, or even wei xiao bao. I think I better take medicine with morphine in it becos I learnt that mrophine actually reduce potency.
collin_23
12-06-2005, 06:55 PM
Get a wife lor. :)
Sornporn
12-06-2005, 07:01 PM
Get a wife lor. :)
But I see many with wifey still very addicted. Maybe wifey too stress out with work and children until hubby scare to disturb her.
collin_23
12-06-2005, 07:11 PM
This kinda thing need to sit down and talk lor.
If need be go see a counsellor together.
Another way go toilet b4 want to have sex everytime look into mirror and chant:
' She is not my wife, she is not my wife...quick tempo x until u convince she is not your wife.... :D '
Yah, sex addiction is kinda 'will' power thingy. Yah, guys think of sex everytime but it all depends on oneself in the end.
The least that one can do is to rape a girl. This is very wrong. If really buay tahan, DIY or find someone to do for u. Safe sex more important.
HIV once tio read big sexy's thread u at most live 10 yrs or more. So not worth it.
Cheers
But I see many with wifey still very addicted. Maybe wifey too stress out with work and children until hubby scare to disturb her.
smackdown278
13-06-2005, 04:42 PM
hahaha... a nonsense 1... sex everyday till u no money to have sex... or will get tired or bored of it...Hehehehe... just joking...
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