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jbjumbo
03-08-2013, 08:54 AM
I'm thinking about this for the longest time.

Someone told me that it is possible to separate love and sex.
But no matter how I see it, I just don't believe.

When ppl look for ONS in club, they look for ppl whom they got feelings with.
Same for the chiongsters in ktv or gl, they all look for GFE.

So how is it possible that one can don't feel love during sex?

chnhubby71
03-08-2013, 10:56 AM
If you just shoot and go, than it will be no love involve bro

ah rat
03-08-2013, 11:05 AM
If you just shoot and go, than it will be no love involve bro

That 1 prostitute :D

kennyboy_69
03-08-2013, 11:11 AM
I'm thinking about this for the longest time.

Someone told me that it is possible to separate love and sex.
But no matter how I see it, I just don't believe.

When ppl look for ONS in club, they look for ppl whom they got feelings with.
Same for the chiongsters in ktv or gl, they all look for GFE.

So how is it possible that one can don't feel love during sex?

what is love?:confused:

wolflust
03-08-2013, 11:13 AM
If there's no sex without love, you won't have all the service ladies, FBs, ONSs, etc.

Criminalz
03-08-2013, 12:13 PM
Impossible, I love sex.

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JoySeeker
03-08-2013, 12:21 PM
definitely can:D

osborneheng
03-08-2013, 12:35 PM
All the time bro.... :D:D:D:D

high5
03-08-2013, 12:50 PM
For Men, yes we can have SEX without love.
For Ladies, generally you have to be her lover to have SEX, its a package.....

TheSeeker
03-08-2013, 01:08 PM
I'm thinking about this for the longest time.

Someone told me that it is possible to separate love and sex.
But no matter how I see it, I just don't believe.

When ppl look for ONS in club, they look for ppl whom they got feelings with.
Same for the chiongsters in ktv or gl, they all look for GFE.

So how is it possible that one can don't feel love during sex?

Hi Bro,

I'm not trying to correct you or anyone else for that matter but rather just sharing what I think..

IMHO, feelings are often misunderstood if they are not managed/handled properly.

ONS in clubs attributes to physical attraction, that exchanged first glance, the returned smile and "feelings" for ONS are generally lust driven. Love or Lust at first sight are two different matters.

Being a chiongster myself, the GFE I seek heightens the KC factor and the higher your KC skills are, it adds onto the pleasure. Especially when the FL/WL feels a little more than usual with you than with others but it does not mean I would be willing to devote or invest personal emotions into a commercial bonk.

jbjumbo
03-08-2013, 07:47 PM
For Men, yes we can have SEX without love.
For Ladies, generally you have to be her lover to have SEX, its a package.....

I used to see it this way.

But recently I see ladies in my circle seek sex with "man" mentality.

That's why I'm kind of baffled.

Ps. They are club girls, so need to pick them from there. Sadly I upped none :(

happpy
04-08-2013, 02:19 AM
I'm thinking about this for the longest time.

Someone told me that it is possible to separate love and sex.
But no matter how I see it, I just don't believe.

When ppl look for ONS in club, they look for ppl whom they got feelings with.
Same for the chiongsters in ktv or gl, they all look for GFE.

So how is it possible that one can don't feel love during sex?

very simple, nobody fall in love as easy as you noob.


if all sex involve love , that i have to love 2000 over girls including whores?

lame

heavenlychaser
04-08-2013, 03:01 AM
last time my encik said, fuck a pros, had sex with a fb, make love to your wife.:cool:

superhuman
04-08-2013, 11:18 PM
My brains are wired to compartmentalise.

Of course! It can be separated.

bokken81
05-08-2013, 12:06 AM
Yes.

You think about it, sex is a physical activity that you can enjoy.

You won't fall in love with your tennis partner, no?

IMO men are easier able to do this than women.

iatepieforsupp
05-08-2013, 02:39 AM
you telling me i'm actually in love with all the FLs i've fucked?

sex is not love. love is just an adaptation of our physiology

jbjumbo
05-08-2013, 04:06 PM
Well I totally understand how guys "compartmentalise".

If not full blown love, then what is that comforting feeling you feel when you hug this stranger and bonking her?

bochapsing
05-08-2013, 04:34 PM
sex w/o love... I dun think it's a problem for most guys...

love w/o sex is the challenge....

porscheclub
05-08-2013, 09:08 PM
Posting from a friend (lady) POV, she had 5 BFs & never loved any though she liked them because they chased after her so of course they had sex even though she never truly loved a single one.

I cheekily asked if we can have sex without love since we're good friends & she pinched me :D

So a lot of women out there may never actually loved us ;)

porscheclub
05-08-2013, 09:10 PM
Posting from a friend (lady) POV, she had 5 BFs & never loved any though she liked them because they chased after her so of course they had sex even though she never truly loved a single one.

I cheekily asked if we can have sex without love since we're good friends & she pinched me :D

So a lot of GFs out there may never actually loved us ;)

nuclearkid
05-08-2013, 10:15 PM
There certainly can be sex without love... There are some women who you simply can't connect with but you don't mind having a non-committal relationship with. That being said, without a mental connection, the sexual allure will wear off sooner rather than later. That's a personal opinion though, some guys may be able to pull it off on a long term basis.

what is love?:confused:

Baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Lyrics from Haddaway's What Is Love :D

chowchowkeith
05-08-2013, 10:31 PM
i can have sex without love but not the reverse...

why?

because i love sex..

masgnoel
06-08-2013, 08:41 AM
last time my encik said, fuck a pros, had sex with a fb, make love to your wife.:cool:

You hv a wise encik..well said....