If yr gf is a Fl

[primero]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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[octman]

First..... I will not fall in love with FL and remember that most of them probably make use of u( want to be PR) or want yr money only....... Just pay to bonk and move on.... No true love.

[mann3073]

Since you go in with your eyes open, it's not about if she is fl.
Cannot tolerate the habit then walk out.

[wolflust]

Local or foreign?
Circumstances which made her a FL?

Besides the above 2 questions, ask yourself this question also.

Can you take it that your relatives, friends, colleagues or anyone you know may have been one of her clients before?

It is not easy especially Singapore is such a small place, secrets cannot be kept long. Furthermore, it can be difficult for her to leave this trade especially if she is deep financial difficulty.

If she can't or won't leave this trade, it maybe difficult for both of you to be together. But ultimately it is your own life, here we can only give our views and advice. The choice and consequences is still your's.

[lawry]

Nowadays very rare due to financial difficulty

Think about it local FL their take back is anything from 150 to 1k (min after OKT cut)

Do you think any other job would be able to pay that well?

All in the name of Prada LV Chanel.

Overseas FL? Same.

[wolflust]

Yes, you are correct in that sense that some are in it for luxury.

But there are some who are in it because it is one of the quickest way to gather big amounts of money.

[lawry]

Not some buddy. Hell a lot. Buy branded buy house... Etc etc

We're not living in ancient times where women or men sell their bodies to burry their dead parents (pun intended)

Now it's all in the name of luxury.

If a beautiful FL told you it's because of this and that. It's mostly a lie.

Yes, you are correct in that sense that some are in it for luxury.

But there are some who are in it because it is one of the quickest way to gather big amounts of money.

[wolflust]

Ok.
Well it's up to TS to discern and decide, it's his life and his choice.

[xiaopangge69]

A guy told me: 爱一个人不是爱她的过去, 是爱她的现在. How many people can actually do it?

[primero]

If u intend to married her,would u mind abt her past? Will her past hunt u for de rest of yr life?

[Jaguar99]

在你面前,她是属于你的.
在你背后,她是别人的.

[primero]

Yes, you are correct in that sense that some are in it for luxury.

But there are some who are in it because it is one of the quickest way to gather big amounts of money.

I agree wif u,she jus wan to earn quick bucks.

[4Dguru]

可以娶娼为妻
不可娶妻为娼

[alanthedevil]

no way i will accept her being an fl, whether current or retire fl.

i know i am not a saint, so i cant expect her as an angel, but i believe most are not able to tahan that thought of her being screwed for $. she may have 101 legit reasons, but still, i wont accept it.

[Choon Peng]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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Cannot imagine that the hole had been ram by many players. How can you accept that when having the bonk action!:mad:

[happpy]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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Bro you have quite a sad life. :(

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

I think many here forget the very simple fact that FLs and pros are also humans. They too have needs for intimate moments with loved ones. They have their reasons for plying this trade be it noble or selfish - it is their choice. The question u want to ask yourself is whether u will accept her as who she is, and after which, move on from there. My baseline to you is this: it doesn't take a FL to cheat you of your feelings and money, any girl can if u view and approach love blindly.

[AmericanExpress]

If you help with her liabilities maybe she doesn't have to anymore...good luck

[lawry]

Hi TS,

I think many here forget the very simple fact that FLs and pros are also humans. They too have needs for intimate moments with loved ones. They have their reasons for plying this trade be it noble or selfish - it is their choice. The question u want to ask yourself is whether u will accept her as who she is, and after which, move on from there. My baseline to you is this: it doesn't take a FL to cheat you of your feelings and money, any girl can if u view and approach love blindly.

Very true.. It also means her character.
Ask yourself, are you able to support her lifestyle?
If yes, why not?
Take for a fact that she also know men loves to go out find chicken. The trust level will not be there once she fall in love with you.
She will spot check you like hell..

These are the negative things you must take into consideration.
Seems like many here think with their small head without considering the negative side of it.
Everyone is human. Some are more evil some are nicer..

The question is
Are you able to handle?

[rexoanwong]

Hmmmm , to all guys and lady's here , answer to this topic is can ur wife , GF know u fling with FL or pros ... Will they accept u being their husband or boyfriend ... Who don't have past ... If u can't support her then leave it ... Life in Singapore is not as easy as ABC ... Touch ur heart and answer it to urself ... Be fair to both party ...

Those who say no or can't accept , then why are u still surfing SBF looking for fling ...

[Floss]

TS,

Doesn't matter how anyone here thinks or feels. Ultimately it's how YOU feel.
Cuz it's you who are going to live with her, not any of us here.

If you doubt your choice or uncomfortable about her profession, I think you already know what to do.

[primero]

Actually we had not been tgt since last year CNY? I dunno why suddenly she left me? We did not quarrel and she left me without a reason. I did called her or sms her but she din pick up or reply and I din look for her cos I know her temper. She had changed her contact but still staying at the same area,i din look for her cos i wanted to give her some peace,den i saw OKT posted her photo. I felt very sad when she into FL again,it really hurts me a lot. But if i have a chance,i really wish to be with her again cos i loved her deep.

[CyberRod]

Actually we had not been tgt since last year CNY? I dunno why suddenly she left me? We did not quarrel and she left me without a reason. I did called her or sms her but she din pick up or reply and I din look for her cos I know her temper. She had changed her contact but still staying at the same area,i din look for her cos i wanted to give her some peace,den i saw OKT posted her photo. I felt very sad when she into FL again,it really hurts me a lot. But if i have a chance,i really wish to be with her again cos i loved her deep.

Bro... I understand how you feel. Was in a similar situation like you but if you have to let it go, you need to let it go... FL's mind is very difficult to comprehend. It took me a few years to heal my wounds. Not completely yet but still healing...

Now I learn how to be hard and safeguard my weak & fragile heart...

[TheSeeker]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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Hi Bro,

It is a fact that FLs and WLs ply their trade for fast monetary gains. While they have their reasons, what undeniable doesn't change is they are exposed to such a financial option.
Unless you earn substantially and is able to support her for whatever reasons that made her resort to vice. What makes you think she would not stray back into the trade if you cannot support her responsibilities, debts, liabilities or lifestyle?

I agree that FLs and WLs are human too and personally I do not despise them. Honestly, I have friends in this trade and yes they have it hard serving all sort of men but retrospectively it hardens up their character/mentality.
Sex to a lady in this trade may only be work.. But bro, are you able to take it if like you said, she refused to stop working as an FL?

As long as you are able to take it, why bother about what society thinks or feel..

Ultimately, the decision is between the parties involved. Wish the both of you well..

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=primero;9478814]Actually we had not been tgt since last year CNY? I dunno why suddenly she left me? We did not quarrel and she left me without a reason. I did called her or sms her but she din pick up or reply and ==========
u don't know why? $$$ stupid!
they change laogong every 1/2 hour because of $$$, stupid?
u from Singapore?

[iceage]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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You should find out if you are the only bf and if you can afford what she want. I cannot believe she want to do FL because of fun.

[Nomster]

在你面前,她是属于你的.
在你背后,她是别人的.

可以娶娼为妻
不可娶妻为娼

Totally agree the Bro here.

TS, since she had already made up her mind to leave you and go back to her trade. Its time to move on.

Had my fair share of experience falling in love with a FL. She told me she can earn more than $10K per month. Will I be able to provide that amount for her to spend?

I am not judging anyone but its human nature to compare. Will you be able to stand up to the humiliation when she compare you with her client? Showering expensive gifts and dates which you know you can't afford?

[DemonicSS]

Errm.. Last saw her last year CNY? That's like 1 and 3/4 years ago man. Time to move on. I think you took too long to come to the idea that u miss her. I mean, think about it, you took that long to figure out, u sure you really like her in the first place? It's hard to believe it in my perspective.

[primero]

Errm.. Last saw her last year CNY? That's like 1 and 3/4 years ago man. Time to move on. I think you took too long to come to the idea that u miss her. I mean, think about it, you took that long to figure out, u sure you really like her in the first place? It's hard to believe it in my perspective.
I had been thinking of her this past year but i din post any thread. Till recently i called the OKT and check with them if she the one. And they clarify with me she is the one.

[primero]

[QUOTE=primero;9478814]Actually we had not been tgt since last year CNY? I dunno why suddenly she left me? We did not quarrel and she left me without a reason. I did called her or sms her but she din pick up or reply and ==========
u don't know why? $$$ stupid!
they change laogong every 1/2 hour because of $$$, stupid?
u from Singapore?
If sg so? Any diff? No wonder u have -200,my kudos to u.

[CarRot9]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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can u support her lifestyle if you dont want her to work?

[SuperFAT]

Follow your heart . But I am sure majority of the bros here do not agree at all being together with a FL. But if you are earning and rich enough to support her for life, you can go for it. But if you are avg earning 8k or below. I advice you to give up that idea.
One day if your income stops coming in, she will also stop seeing you. After all they are in this line for money, not to find love.

[alanthedevil]

Hmmmm , to all guys and lady's here , answer to this topic is can ur wife , GF know u fling with FL or pros ... Will they accept u being their husband or boyfriend ... Who don't have past ... If u can't support her then leave it ... Life in Singapore is not as easy as ABC ... Touch ur heart and answer it to urself ... Be fair to both party ...

Those who say no or can't accept , then why are u still surfing SBF looking for fling ...

i say i didnt accept. i have never patronise any fl or pro for the matter. u dont come to sbf for fling but for porn and casual read.

dont generalise. and dont act as an angel urself too.

[lawry]

I had been thinking of her this past year but i din post any thread. Till recently i called the OKT and check with them if she the one. And they clarify with me she is the one.
Lol. A lot of people ask you to move on. Why you still think of her?
Ok let Lawry help you. Give me the OKT number and your girl name.
Lawry go ask for her and give you a full FR of what Lawry done. Plus pic and vid taken. After that maybe you will move on?

Come come quick PM Lawry the contact and name. Lawry go hoot her to the moon!

[iceage]

Lol. A lot of people ask you to move on. Why you still think of her?
Ok let Lawry help you. Give me the OKT number and your girl name.
Lawry go ask for her and give you a full FR of what Lawry done. Plus pic and vid taken. After that maybe you will move on?

Come come quick PM Lawry the contact and name. Lawry go hoot her to the moon!

Yes. I would join Lawry to help you to move on. Give me the OKT number and your girl name.

[justl00king]

I feel it's fine to have a fl as gf, but she must be a ex fl. If still working, then big NO!

If u truly love someone, should look forward to building a happy life together and not dwell on the past.

Anyway, just gf only not getting married. Have fun! :D

[Auraz]

I feel it's fine to have a fl as gf, but she must be a ex fl. If still working, then big NO!

If u truly love someone, should look forward to building a happy life together and not dwell on the past.

Anyway, just gf only not getting married. Have fun! :D

I agree on these.

[Tuanehkia]

If she is my gf, I sure super happy to be service till song song...I don't think I will marry her

[gjlow]

What will happen if yr gf is a Fl and still continued to work since dating? Kicked up a fuss when u wan her to stop,wat will u do?
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Try not to fall for a working FL as relationship can be difficult.

[kukumalu]

Yes. I would join Lawry to help you to move on. Give me the OKT number and your girl name.

U going for threesome? :eek:

[ben.now]

I have a ex gf who is a fl..

I met her in some pub along clarke quay. After tgt for sometime, my friend told me he fucked a fl that look exactly like my gf. I was like wtf.. he was tipsy when he fucked the fl. So he couldnt be sure. He gave me the number and I waited at the hotel she wanted. She knocked on my door.. door open... heart sank...

[milan2009milan]

Try to move on bro!

[jackie73]

i've swinged with cpls that the girl is FL,
not too much of a problem la if the guy is open minded and the girl is high sex drive 1 the guy cant satisfy her 100% ma..

[FlashTT]

My Ex also became FL, was with her for a year had great sex life, but....... she try to work a regular job but can never last for more then 6 months.

During her time with me she did not do FL.

I always wonder whether she was an FL before we were together.

Damn, and she is stilll an active FL now. Was in deep love when we were together. Now don't know if I should book her and surprise her at the hotel or tell her parents and rescue her from doing FL. I just married another women thus should not get involved in her life but always feel like asking her why she do this. Sigh she still hold a soft spot in my heart.

[badyrag]

Falling in love with a ex FL is hard
falling in love with a current FL is even harder:(

[bb300]

gf is ok, but no marry (of course) cos i not ang mo (not that open-mind set)

[alanthedevil]

I feel it's fine to have a fl as gf, but she must be a ex fl. If still working, then big NO!

If u truly love someone, should look forward to building a happy life together and not dwell on the past.

Anyway, just gf only not getting married. Have fun! :D

bro, i agree that true love can overcome everything. but what about if u already know that she is an ex fl or current fl during the courting stage? will u still proceed?

I have a ex gf who is a fl..

I met her in some pub along clarke quay. After tgt for sometime, my friend told me he fucked a fl that look exactly like my gf. I was like wtf.. he was tipsy when he fucked the fl. So he couldnt be sure. He gave me the number and I waited at the hotel she wanted. She knocked on my door.. door open... heart sank...

i feel u bro. it is really like those drama..

[Sirrus]

simple, as long if she doesnt ask you for anything but just your time and dick then whats there to lose. just treat it as a fuck buddy since it wont last anyway

[cckman]

I was 18 & working at GL as a OKT many years back. This Thai pretty gal was particularly click on with me. She was under my group who I take charge. She was 21.

We chat & joke a lot everyday. not those kind who i think i will want to take advantage, maybe still green. The first time we had sex was when she had no one to buy her overnight. So I paid from my own pocket. That night I had some of best sex in my life till now. I was almost crawling out from her room as we fuck the whole night.

We started dating, watch movies, shopping just like any lover but in the late afternoon, I became my GF's OKT, my GF is my whore at GL. I quit after 4 months, back to school before NS. We continue to keep contact. She even paid for me to spent some nights with her.

Relationship continue for 2 years till she left SG. We continue to keep in contact for many years till she committed suicide back in her hometown after many years.

She hurts my heart many times as I really heart pain to see being fuck by many men & I collect money while she was in SG. Even when she went back Thailand, she continues to be a FL. We will wrote letters or through IDD.

After my NS, I visited her many times in Thailand & it was very memorable every time we were together. I will stay at her place every time & several occasions, she recommended her friend to sleep with me but I never accept it.

I never lied to her that I have SG GF & she also never lied to me about her BF in Thailand & our relationship continues till she was overdose with drugs.