Bump into Wife/GF/relatives when jalan jalan with WL gf

[HuiGe3387]

I am sure many here would have this experience and hope to hear from some SBFers.

For me, I am always cautious when I jalan jalan with my WL gf, avoid crowded places and try not to be too intimate in the open. However, once I bumped into 3 of my subordinates at a hawker center, the gf at that time dye the hair red !!! :eek: Goondoo also know she's PRC and you know that kind of look they give you....

Another incident involve my goondoo fren who brought the sick WL gf to the same hospital that the OC goes. However, the OC felt unwell that day and left the office to the clinic as well. As they are hugging each other on the upward moving escalator, the OC is on the way down. And imagine the commotion in the hopital lobby when the OC went bersek and slapped my fren.... What a scene.

[mahalosux]

Oh Yeah... since u brought this up...

I have a more goondoo fren (my senior in my reservid)...he brought his PRC bu to his OC fav lunch spot at Ang Teng Bey Tao to eat chicken lice.... later his OC come down to eat lunch wif 3 of her female colleague... to their surprise they saw my fren 'ni yi kou, wo yi kou' wif the PRC bu..lucky the OC never borrow the chopper from the chicken lice seller to go after my fren.... or else my fren will end up in Kallang liver liao.... :eek: :D

[sex-no-enough]

dun hv to be WL gf or bump into OC. my fren went out wif his ex, kena bump into OC best fren, go home ear long long, finally end up divorce. damn bo hua!

[milffella]

hmm, i think we tao chiak muz be careful, lastt ime i with my ex gf go bookshop see book, my other gf at the other corner....lucky no see me, i said i stomach ache go toliet hide for 20 minute then come out sia.....
drive car also be careful...my gf once caught me fetch other charbor along holland village knn....then many trouble quarrel and break up all.

[Rof|maoxz]

Another incident involve my goondoo fren who brought the sick WL gf to the same hospital that the OC goes. However, the OC felt unwell that day and left the office to the clinic as well. As they are hugging each other on the upward moving escalator, the OC is on the way down. And imagine the commotion in the hopital lobby when the OC went bersek and slapped my fren.... What a scene.

Dun say your frd goondo lah, you think he wants to make it happen meh. He also dun want, but bad timing really kills.

[ThaiPolice]

this is a good one, i remember almost 10 years back, i was caught by my ex in swensens orchard. i was walking into swensens with a wl and bumped into her at the door, so you tell me was it fated? next follow by a tight slap on my face and her friends scolded me like abt 10mins until the whole resturant turn their eyes on us. i never went back there until abt 3 years later, it was damm malu and i was caught in a situation with the wl as well so in the end everything also game over.

lesson learnt be watchful around your surroundings before you enter any resturant.

[axor3333]

It happen about 12 yrs ago during my courtship time. I still know is was a sat night. and i went for midnight show and after the show we went for a supper at a fast food rest. my wife had a very good close girl fern. and we know her boyfern (A) too. (A) was very Close to my wife good fern and even planning to get married

what happen was that we saw the (A) with other girl. But (A) did not saw us My wife was so angry straight away call her good fern. Her good fern told my wife that (A) just drop her off. My wife good fern took a taxi to the fast food rest. and confronted (A) a big who ha. Later we found out that mywife good fern had broke off with (A) after the confrontation

After the inicident. I told my wife don't be so kapo you are just spoil other people relationship

cheer

[HuiGe3387]

... to their surprise they saw my fren 'ni yi kou, wo yi kou' wif the PRC bu..lucky the OC never borrow the chopper from the chicken lice seller to go after my fren.... or else my fren will end up in Kallang liver liao.... :eek: :D
For me I avoid the places my OC patronise or hangout. Some people are so short of ideas what to do or where to go with the WL. But no 100% proof lor.

[jungle boy]

the very first time i asked my favourite, chanel, out to lunch, i saw an ex-colleague! somemore this ex-colleague knew my co, my sis-in-law and practically all my buddies. when we finished lunch, i asked her to leave first before i paid and left alone. now we meet at more discreet places and hopefully no one else i know would frequent them... :p

[sg_boytoy]

the very first time i asked my favourite, chanel, out to lunch, i saw an ex-colleague! somemore this ex-colleague knew my co, my sis-in-law and practically all my buddies. when we finished lunch, i asked her to leave first before i paid and left alone. now we meet at more discreet places and hopefully no one else i know would frequent them... :p

Wah kao~ Bro Jungle Boy, you are openly declaring that Chanel is your WL GF lah? Not scared other bros here tu-lan ah? :p

[KingBong]

This was few years back, my exgf was sq and when she's away sometimes the mouse come out to play. One weekend I happen to meet an excolleague at orchard, cannot resist not talkin to her as she is always super made over like cosmetic model. Nothing happend but it was good to catch up with a chio bu (btw she was single then, that's another story). When my ex came back we had dinner, then she held the knife in her right hand,upright and on the table :eek: Ask me what I did during the weekend and who I went with. Of course didnt mention the chio bu, then I realised that someone must have seen us, one plus one, and told her I was seeing someone else (which was not true for that time la), so I told her bumped into ex-colleague blah blah. As expected it was a soured r/s. So as long as in public, anyone can spot you.

[easyeasy]

dun hv to be WL gf or bump into OC. my fren went out wif his ex, kena bump into OC best fren, go home ear long long, finally end up divorce. damn bo hua!

lan pai OC friend your friend have. only lunch only ended divorce. that ger must have add salt add vineger

[easyeasy]

For me I avoid the places my OC patronise or hangout. Some people are so short of ideas what to do or where to go with the WL. But no 100% proof lor.

WL is for us to bring to hotel only not for us to bring all around town inviting unnecessary attention.

[singexpat]

ya.. sing reali small.. veri high chances of kanna "caught"..

n definitely not worth it when caught... :rolleyes:

[whitegals]

I remember once I was going out with a HK gal. The thing with me is that I dun cheat when I have a proper girlfriend, unless the relationship was going bad and that i was about to end it soon. I guess maybe it was my reputation but she was always suspecting that I was fucking all these other white gals behind her back.

One day, I was out on the town with one chio bu. Put simply, a netballer, tall, tanned, like to wear cropped tops with short short skirts. I wasn't shagging her, yet, but we were just jalan jalan with our arms around each other's waists. Anyway, i think kena spotted by one of the HK gal's frens and you know the rest lah.

That night, she was damn quiet throughout dinner and kept giving me dirty looks. I just ignored her and went to shower and then came out, she was in bed. After I climbed in and turned out the lights, she jumped up and turned all the lights on and asked me to start confessing. Of course, I was like, simi? WTF? :confused:

She went totally hysterical, screaming about how she's always been good to me and this is how i repay her. How she's so humiliated that her fren had to see me intimate with another gal and tell everyone she knew.

I got damn doo lan, so I said," Yah, I was with some other gal today, but we weren't doing anything." But she didn't believe me, so I said, "dun believe me, ok, let's break up." Her attitude changed immediately, jumped back into bed on top of me and hugged me and cried and asked me not to leave her. One of the best sessions ever that night.

Personally bros, with char bo, have to be tough with them ar. Whether you plead guilty or not guilty doesn't matter, to her you are guilty without doubt. So rather than to deny and then kena scold until jialut jialut, especially in public, I always go the hard way and tell them to fuck off. Somehow, this method has worked about 7 out of 10 times. Maybe the char bo here more open minded or less petty, I dunno.

But reading some of the posts here from some of the bros back home, quite frankly, some of you deserve it. No offence, but the more you give in to a woman, the worse she becomes. This is true, it is the same with kids, if you need another perspective. Everytime a kid misbehaves, you pacify him by giving him some sweets, someday he's going to be beyond control.

Sure, always to love and honour your woman, but some of the things I see the bros doing for the char bo is just ridiculous. Not going to go on, will piss off a lot of people. Stand up for yourselves Bros, I have faith in you, in the meantime, be on the lookout. Broaden your horizons, introduce your didi to pussies from other countries. :cool:

[CheongKingKong]

Advise i have:

1)Never bring 2 different gals to the same place...b'cos 1 of the gal you bring to that place will recommend to her friends.

2)Call your other gal on HP to check on her location where possible..

.... :D

[initialD]

2)Call your other gal on HP to check on her location where possible..

.... :D


definitely one of the most important item on the pre-cheong checklist..hehehe :D

[DNAT]

Some people are so short of ideas what to do or where to go with the WL. But no 100% proof lor.

I suggest they go Botanic Garden to sit, relax & 'park-thor' .. relatively very the safe there :D

[jungle boy]

Wah kao~ Bro Jungle Boy, you are openly declaring that Chanel is your WL GF lah? Not scared other bros here tu-lan ah? :p

what is there to be tu-lan about? we're all here for paid sex and along the way, some can be more friend-friend abit but strictly no emotional strings attached lah... :D

[DNAT]

In Sg, only once which a regular in-ni FL (came from Batam) asked me to bring her to City Plaza to 'jalan jalan / pass-time' on a weekday afternoon. Other shoppers / shop keepers keep starring at us ... nbzzz. :rolleyes:

Less than 1 hour uncle me quickly send her back to hotel .. tolong hor, no next time liao.

[mahalosux]

For me I avoid the places my OC patronise or hangout. Some people are so short of ideas what to do or where to go with the WL. But no 100% proof lor.

No lah... sometime bo bian wat..they everytime go to pak tor wif OC at certain place so when bring PRC bu to walk walk oso same place..my advise is to hide in hotel wif PRC bu is the best..sure wun get spot..unless OC oso tao jiak at the same place.... :D

[mahalosux]

In Sg, only once which a regular in-ni FL (came from Batam) asked me to bring her to City Plaza to 'jalan jalan / pass-time' on a weekday afternoon. Other shoppers / shop keepers keep starring at us ... nbzzz.

Less than 1 hour uncle me quickly send her back to hotel .. tolong hor, no next time liao.

come from Batam to look for u huh?? next time bring to the Nasi Padang eatery near LS orpid for us to beo beo leh... :D

sure wun run in2 ur queen one... :p

[babycheong]

"WL" ...human they maybe, respect for a human being should be given.......but it should be base on $$ transaction, shouldn't it?

IMHO, when u use the equation "WL + GF = WLGF", final answer is likely = "digging ur own grave".

For me, I always keep the relationship wif a WL within 4 walls in a hotel...nothing more, pure $$ transaction...........so far so good. *crossing me fingers*

BC

[meng]

In Sg, only once which a regular in-ni FL (came from Batam) asked me to bring her to City Plaza to 'jalan jalan / pass-time' on a weekday afternoon. Other shoppers / shop keepers keep starring at us ... nbzzz. :rolleyes:

Less than 1 hour uncle me quickly send her back to hotel .. tolong hor, no next time liao.

WOW!!! All the way from Batam see you arh Uncle....when har :D

[DNAT]

come from Batam to look for u huh?? next time bring to the Nasi Padang eatery near LS orpid for us to beo beo leh... :D



no lah .. came from Btm to 'tan-jiak' 1 .. I kai-seow to u .. ai mai?
no need bring to eatery lah .. come to MSN, I show u her pic ;) got video clips somemore

[DNAT]

WOW!!! All the way from Batam see you arh Uncle....when har :D

not see me lah .. she came to look for Sing Dollars :D
on and off .. 1 year 3-4 times .. since year 2003 ..

[singexpat]

not see me lah .. she came to look for Sing Dollars
on and off .. 1 year 3-4 times .. since year 2003 ..

Haha.. bro, tink she look for u should b same as look for Sing Dollars ah.. :D

[mahalosux]

no lah .. came from Btm to 'tan-jiak' 1 .. I kai-seow to u .. ai mai?
no need bring to eatery lah .. come to MSN, I show u her pic ;) got video clips somemore
ok ok..waiting for u.... :D

[DNAT]

..waiting for u.... :D
nbzz .. you lidat say ppl thought we 'got road' ..

[HuiGe3387]

WL is for us to bring to hotel only not for us to bring all around town inviting unnecessary attention.
Sometimes regular ones go lim kppi after the bonk also kenna spotted... :D

[HuiGe3387]

In Sg, only once which a regular in-ni FL (came from Batam) asked me to bring her to City Plaza to 'jalan jalan / pass-time' on a weekday afternoon. Other shoppers / shop keepers keep starring at us ... nbzzz. :rolleyes:

Less than 1 hour uncle me quickly send her back to hotel .. tolong hor, no next time liao.
Bro you a lot of in-ni lobang hor. Must be from your Batam outings...

[HuiGe3387]

No lah... sometime bo bian wat..they everytime go to pak tor wif OC at certain place so when bring PRC bu to walk walk oso same place..my advise is to hide in hotel wif PRC bu is the best..sure wun get spot..unless OC oso tao jiak at the same place.... :D
WL gf got auntie here stay hotel sianzzz. Also she request bring her go People's Park send money lah, go si-bey lor pray pray lah, WL sure grab your hand give very gf feeling. Kenna spotted is only a matter of time...

[evo3]

Advise i have:

1)Never bring 2 different gals to the same place...b'cos 1 of the gal you bring to that place will recommend to her friends.

2)Call your other gal on HP to check on her location where possible..

.... :D


CKK, can bring 2 ladies to the same place, but you must be able to handle them very well in order not to bica lobang lah.
Lately I did it once, brought my OC to my G/F work place and the best is 2 of them was sitting in the same room and both of them was talking, as I had trusted my G.F that she will not leak out anything to my OC, so I left the room and let both of them chit chat, but at last there is not happen even I went home on that nite. The best part is I send my OC home and ask her to go back first as I need to attend to another meeting, the time was already 2am, but actually I stay back and waited for my G/F and we go supper.
My G/F was surprise that I can handle my OC so well that she dont seem to know what is going on, maybe is my luck :D to hv 2 ladies in my life

[smiler]

Talking abt this issue, I was just spotted by a bro here when I was shopping with my PTL aka WL loh...............dun noe heng or suay............hahaha :D

[private19752000]

just to add on , unless caught red hand o the spot by oc.
if seen by oc , oc friend , relative , go back home
died died also no admit , say they see wrong person
say you with another ffriend ask him best or her to help
remember died died no admit unless caught red hand

[Horsepower]

just to add on , unless caught red hand o the spot by oc.
if seen by oc , oc friend , relative , go back home
died died also no admit , say they see wrong person
say you with another ffriend ask him best or her to help
remember died died no admit unless caught red hand
Avoid those places that your OC's siblings hangout or work....

[singexpat]

Talking abt this issue, I was just spotted by a bro here when I was shopping with my PTL aka WL loh...............dun noe heng or suay............hahaha :D

bro smiler, tink it should b heng lah cos spotted by bro, not CO..
unless e bro blackmailed u.. :D

[yanki]

[QUOTE=private19752000]just to add on , unless caught red hand o the spot by oc.



agreed die die cannot admit

[Horsepower]

Just to relate an experience more than 1 year ago I brought my WL gf to Sentosa on a weekend as my OC went overseas. That was the first time I jalan jalan with a WL on a weekend, and try to imagine how crowded Sentosa was on a Sunday aftenoon during the school holidays ...... I was damn bloody conscious about being spotted, I wear the cap almost with the front covering my nose most of the time. :p

My gf was very passionate and grabbed and hugged me most of the time. Altho' a PRC, she looked very local unlike some who dye their hair red or gold, or have the PRC look. At the Underwater World, she actually met some of her ktv customers who were with their families but they pretended like nothing happened. The closest call for me was that long narrow bridge at the lagoon where we came face to face with my OC's friend and her hubby. My cap was pulled further down to cover my mouth as my gf and I held hands to walk across the other end.

The lesson : Never choose to go to a crowded place on a weekend during the school holidays...

[HuiGe3387]

Just to relate an experience more than 1 year ago I brought my WL gf to Sentosa on a weekend as my OC went overseas. That was the first time I jalan jalan with a WL on a weekend, and try to imagine how crowded Sentosa was on a Sunday aftenoon during the school holidays ...... I was damn bloody conscious about being spotted, I wear the cap almost with the front covering my nose most of the time. :p

My gf was very passionate and grabbed and hugged me most of the time. Altho' a PRC, she looked very local unlike some who dye their hair red or gold, or have the PRC look. At the Underwater World, she actually met some of her ktv customers who were with their families but they pretended like nothing happened. The closest call for me was that long narrow bridge at the lagoon where we came face to face with my OC's friend and her hubby. My cap was pulled further down to cover my mouth as my gf and I held hands to walk across the other end.

The lesson : Never choose to go to a crowded place on a weekend during the school holidays...
Bro HP you damn steady....

[Mark26]

2 weeks ago, i went to hawker centre with my 小的 (18 yr old PRC). I was spotted by my mum.
Go home and got a big scolding by my mum...this news spread to my sister who also give me a tongue lashing session...

life tough...go out...spotted by my supervisors...

don know where should i go...
Singapore so smalll.......
Maybe we should form a CHEATING CLUB/GROUP to cover our tracks...

[HuiGe3387]

2 weeks ago, i went to hawker centre with my 小的 (18 yr old PRC). I was spotted by my mum.
Go home and got a big scolding by my mum...this news spread to my sister who also give me a tongue lashing session...

life tough...go out...spotted by my supervisors...

don know where should i go...
Singapore so smalll.......
Maybe we should form a CHEATING CLUB/GROUP to cover our tracks...
Bro you go to your mum's house downstairs hawker izzit ? 18 yo PRC wow young and juicy.... :p

[Horsepower]

My fren James is married. One day he brought the PRC ger (not WL) who works in the sales line back to his parents' place to bonk, thinking that they are not at home. Halfway thru the bonk, his father opened the door and saw them in compromising position.....

[Mark26]

Bro you go to your mum's house downstairs hawker izzit ? 18 yo PRC wow young and juicy.... :p

its some other hawker centre...
very bad....lots of.....accusation on me..(but most of them true) :D

[HuiGe3387]

its some other hawker centre...
very bad....lots of.....accusation on me..(but most of them true) :D
I can understand. Mothers have to do their part... :D

[DNAT]

The closest call for me was that long narrow bridge at the lagoon where we came face to face with my OC's friend and her hubby. My cap was pulled further down to cover my mouth as my gf and I held hands to walk across the other end.

The lesson : Never choose to go to a crowded place on a weekend during the school holidays...

wow lau ... put on a Bata Man mask :D no 1 will recognise you .. hehe.

[singexpat]

..(but most of them true)

veri honest of u bro... :D

[kenwee]

Any other "safe" places brudders can recommend to go "kai-kai" with gf?

When I used to do this, my SOP was as follows:-

a) Call OC and find out how's her day. Any meeting etc? Yes, OK on liao !

b) WEAR A FUCKING DISGUISE ! Me family,friends and colleagues always see me with spectacles. When I go "kai-kai", I wear contact lenses. ALso, mess my hair up a little. I find that this usually gives me a split second edge to avoid stares from people who know me.....close call a couple of times but as I am not with whom they think I should be with and I look slightly different, they dismiss it as someone with a passing resemblence.

c) Get a pre-paid SIM card and be disciplined in erasing messages once they are read. You want to store sweet message from GF is your own funeral. Most divorces for adultery are traced to sms messages these days. Don't believe? ask friends who are lawyers or private investigators. Pre-paid sim card means no bills and no sms beeps when you least expect it.

d) Visit places your OC won't go.....e.g. sentosa beach / cable car on a weekday, jurong bird park on week day, boat trip to southen islands, mustafa's in the morning (24 hour open!), walk along east coast during week day.......golden mile on week day, etc.

e) If you are supposed to spend time with OC on weekend, SPEND TIME WITH OC on weekend! Weekends are dangerous because all your regular friends and family are roaming the streets. Singapore is after all a small place and its more likely that you will meet someone you know than in BKK or anywhere else, for that matter.

Have fun and may the Chiong Force be with you.

[Horsepower]

c) Get a pre-paid SIM card and be disciplined in erasing messages once they are read. You want to store sweet message from GF is your own funeral. Most divorces for adultery are traced to sms messages these days. Don't believe? ask friends who are lawyers or private investigators. Pre-paid sim card means no bills and no sms beeps when you least expect it.

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Bro, store sweet messages is possible. If you use nokia phones, select "copy to calendar". The sweet messages will be kept in your selected date(s). The calendar also very good for keeping all the contacts.

Happy cheonging !!!

[nakamara]

Bro, store sweet messages is possible. If you use nokia phones, select "copy to calendar". The sweet messages will be kept in your selected date(s). The calendar also very good for keeping all the contacts.

Happy cheonging !!!

that's a piece of fucking good info man!! :)

[Horsepower]

that's a piece of fucking good info man!! :)
Want to "steal makan" must geng a bit.... :D

[nakamara]

Want to "steal makan" must geng a bit....

haha think i don't have to la...whenever i 2 time i would find those who relak relak let u do own thing type of fling...damn easy...it's like almost nothing to hide...haha

[zhu star]

Bro, store sweet messages is possible. If you use nokia phones, select "copy to calendar". The sweet messages will be kept in your selected date(s). The calendar also very good for keeping all the contacts.

Happy cheonging !!!
Look like I have to change my mobile phone :)

[Horsepower]

Look like I have to change my mobile phone :)
Nokia also got another feature. Goto text message setting and do not allow overriding of sent items. So after the sent box is full, newly sent messages will not be shown. This will save the trouble of deleting sent items.

[ronins]

for bros who use nokia, try saving all secret number under phone memory and lock access with password. store your normal number under sim card memory. but still, this dun prevent your lobang from calling, you can act blur say wrong number if kena caught :D

[zhu star]

Nokia also got another feature. Goto text message setting and do not allow overriding of sent items. So after the sent box is full, newly sent messages will not be shown. This will save the trouble of deleting sent items.
Thanks for the tips, how about gf / darlings photos that is stored in Nokia phone any way to put alock on it to prevent other ppl esp the other half from seeing it.

[Horsepower]

Thanks for the tips, how about gf / darlings photos that is stored in Nokia phone any way to put alock on it to prevent other ppl esp the other half from seeing it.
If you have Nokia 6230 or the later phones, can store on the removable memory cards. That's all I know bro. :o

[sg_boytoy]

I just experienced the opposite situation last night. Was out with my OC, kids and maid at a supermarket and while pushing a trolley down the aisle and then came face to face with a HC WL whom I visited many times previously. She was with another guy looking like a typical married couple. At first I couldn't believe my eyes but she kept her eyes on me without any facial expression, just her eyes in my direction.

I guess she didn't want to acknowledge me as well. The funny thing about her was I told her I was single and was posted to work in another country as an excuse to stop seeing her, ha ha ha... what a way to bump into each other.

[Horsepower]

.....
I guess she didn't want to acknowledge me as well. The funny thing about her was I told her I was single and was posted to work in another country as an excuse to stop seeing her, ha ha ha... what a way to bump into each other.
Same excuses I give to WL or FL when grew a bit sian liao and looking for new data .... :D

[bhoven]

I just experienced the opposite situation last night. Was out with my OC, kids and maid at a supermarket and while pushing a trolley down the aisle and then came face to face with a HC WL whom I visited many times previously. She was with another guy looking like a typical married couple. At first I couldn't believe my eyes but she kept her eyes on me without any facial expression, just her eyes in my direction.

I guess she didn't want to acknowledge me as well. The funny thing about her was I told her I was single and was posted to work in another country as an excuse to stop seeing her, ha ha ha... what a way to bump into each other.

She was a true pro wasn't she? Didn't confront u with your story of overseas posting etc ( though if she didn't have a companion with her, might have been a different reaction ??). This is one of the small advantages of commercial sex vs flings

[sg_boytoy]

She was a true pro wasn't she? Didn't confront u with your story of overseas posting etc ( though if she didn't have a companion with her, might have been a different reaction ??). This is one of the small advantages of commercial sex vs flings

Yah man, if she was alone, I'm sure she'd raise her voice and ask why so long never visit her since I came back, phew~ :p

[zhu star]

I just experienced the opposite situation last night. Was out with my OC, kids and maid at a supermarket and while pushing a trolley down the aisle and then came face to face with a HC WL whom I visited many times previously. She was with another guy looking like a typical married couple. At first I couldn't believe my eyes but she kept her eyes on me without any facial expression, just her eyes in my direction.

I guess she didn't want to acknowledge me as well. The funny thing about her was I told her I was single and was posted to work in another country as an excuse to stop seeing her, ha ha ha... what a way to bump into each other.
I think she is more worry that you call her. Suspect tat guy is her hubby!

As for giving excuses like going aboard to work, I think these gers must have heard it many times.

[Horsepower]

I think she is more worry that you call her. Suspect tat guy is her hubby!

As for giving excuses like going aboard to work, I think these gers must have heard it many times.
The seasoned players (service providers and customers alike) will not be too bothered what is said at the workplace. Everybody wear a wask, got what they wanted, and resume to be themselves once out of the whatever place...