Not cumming when fucking

[nocumcumout]

Hi guys. This is a bit weird but when I met my fwb for the first time a few days ago. I had trouble getting hard (most likely due to me being a virgin and nervous). However when I did, I fucked her for maybe an hour or even longer. Without cumming at all. She was wet as fuck and told me it was the first time she trembled through sex.

I'm not trying to brag but does anyone face the same problem as me? Was it because I was too nervous or perhaps the condom? I have no problem masturbating and cumming btw. Any help? :confused:

[hawk007]

you are one superman. Where were you born?

[bigbadbear]

I have the same issue as you, as in I get hard, can go on and on, but just cannot shoot... sometimes I have to force myself to shoot too... not sure why cause it is sometimes a little frustrating as you cannot climax and still remain hard...

[bunty]

Haha, I thought I was the only one with such a problem. I faced the same issue as well. First time I fucked, 1.5 hours I couldn't come either. It's probably due to nerves, cause the second time onwards it was okay. Within 15 minutes I came.

You just need to relax and you'll be fine.

[nocumcumout]

Dammit. Anyone knows about this?

[Naka_Timo]

There is many reason behind it that you cannot cum. Maybe you are too tired, that could be one of the reason too.

[devilust]

you masturbate too often

[LightningGalAss]

for me is i shoot to fast :(

[MrSoapy]

There's 3 reason that I've gathered from some of the guys:
1) You are physically tired but mentally aroused
2) The lady is not physically attractive enough to meet your requirement
3) You don't like the lady even though she can seduce and arouse you

[yuddle]

Hi guys. This is a bit weird but when I met my fwb for the first time a few days ago. I had trouble getting hard (most likely due to me being a virgin and nervous). However when I did, I fucked her for maybe an hour or even longer. Without cumming at all. She was wet as fuck and told me it was the first time she trembled through sex.

I'm not trying to brag but does anyone face the same problem as me? Was it because I was too nervous or perhaps the condom? I have no problem masturbating and cumming btw. Any help? :confused:

I have heard of similar cases. You mentioned you're a virgin, but i would venture to say you've had your fair share of masturbation. This means your brain has for a long period of time associated the pleasure of ejaculation with that of the texture, pressure and rhythm of your hand. Hence, though it seems weird, it is perfectly normal for the sensation of actual sex not to trigger an ejaculation. But as all awkward matters during your virgin experience, they will pass with time ;)

[woohooo]

Probably the following reasons:
- anxiety because it is your 1st time
- not used to the idea
- not used to the different sensation

[jonathanlim]

I have heard of similar cases. You mentioned you're a virgin, but i would venture to say you've had your fair share of masturbation. This means your brain has for a long period of time associated the pleasure of ejaculation with that of the texture, pressure and rhythm of your hand. Hence, though it seems weird, it is perfectly normal for the sensation of actual sex not to trigger an ejaculation. But as all awkward matters during your virgin experience, they will pass with time ;)

Unfortunately it may not. I have been with my gf for a long time, and quite a few ex-gfs before this, but still found it difficult to cum. Sometimes, this gets my gf really pissed off cos she thinks that I am not into her. But I am seriously crazy about her.

I recently tried reducing masturbation and have finally managed to cum with my gf, although it is still very difficult. I would sometimes go on and on, till my gf has finished with her orgasm and became dry. You should try reducing masturbation.

[Yoshi]

Agree with the folks here.I share the same problem.

1) Too much masturbation - this creates a more vivid imagination of sex because you fantasize and when compared to reality, the latter may look a bit dull. So stop masturbating.

Second, the sensory perception is different and you begin to get accustom to your hand then the vagina

2) Anxiety - Getting all excited and worrying about if you are gonna cum or if your erection is waning can certainly put off your parasympathetic system as the opposite system will remain dominant.

3) Last, you may be bore with the relationship and trying to keep it alive or you may be a closet bisexual or gay. Having had an experience with the same sex somehow makes it more sexciting and it may dull your relationship with yur gal. No pun intended.

[mrclen]

Solution: He needs more foreplay! BBBJ, DATY, etc, should at least go on for at least more than 30 minutes. With me (an old guy), a quick in and out will never make me cum. However the good foreplay from me and to me will make it difficult not to cum too quickly when the "real" action starts! Then I've got to concentrate "NOT" to cum!

The real story---take your time!!!

[DDAMn]

Solution: He needs more foreplay! BBBJ, DATY, etc, should at least go on for at least more than 30 minutes. With me (an old guy), a quick in and out will never make me cum. However the good foreplay from me and to me will make it difficult not to cum too quickly when the "real" action starts! Then I've got to concentrate "NOT" to cum!

The real story---take your time!!!

Yeah bro agree wit u as we aged sex is just not about wham bam see you.its takes good forplay n time cos sex is enjoyment not a rush when u r been rushed momentum spoilt then might as well forget it.take ur time best sex is when both side feels the pleasure.

[cumfast]

Bro normal.

Once upon a time I couldnt cum the first 2-3 times I had sex.

Now? Cum fast!

It's the anxiety. Don't worry. Do it more and you will be able to shoot like all of us.

[nocumcumout]

Woah I'm glad to see people facing the same problems as me. Definetely will stop masturbation from now on! Feel free to offer extra tips and advices!

[axxo]

Did you cut your foreskin?

[bunty]

Hahaha, as one samster mentioned earlier, more foreplay and bbbj.

[nocumcumout]

No bro. Uncut.

[valkyrierune]

try to enjoy it and don't be too nervous

[vader_7]

my problem is slightly different. i've similar issue with FL and WL. once it comes to my wife, cum in under 10 strokes.

i attribute it to too much feel with wifey even though we didn't do raw.

[luckyboiboi]

used to pew fast, now can control when i want.

[D-joker]

Same probs here. Tat y i dont visit fl or go geylang.

[nocumcumout]

Just received blowjob twice from another girl recently, had to rely on my hand till I used her mouth to CIM. Quite scared now :( Any help

[geckoSG]

This may happen, when you try to hold too much to last long...

[tcca85]

used to pew fast, now can control when i want.

Whats your remedy? ?

[jizzmo]

Whats your remedy? ?

don't stress too much. Relax your whole body and use your ass to push the pussy. If you really too tense, stop working on the pussy.

- Do some foreplay like body rubbing.

- request the girl to give you boobs fuck to build up the rhythm to shoot.

-When you get the the feel to shoot than you continue to slowly work on the pussy.
You lie down. get the girl to stroke her boobs against your cock on top. Stroke the nerve area (bottom part of your didi)

during my virgin fuck. I had a hard time coping with the Condom. I totally lost it when I had to wrap a condom.
Do the above steps will help. You remove the condom, go toilet wash your didi, towel dry than do boobs fuck to gain feeling to shoot. than wear cap and slowly work on the pussy. it works man. try it.

One of the reason, when people masturbate too much cannot shoot. Is because there is no MOANING. When you have sex with a girl, she will moan. so you get Super Extra excited especially if its your first virgin fuck.

I posted this china girl super sex moaning clip: http://dropdeadgorgeous.org/impotent-man-regain-erection-after-listening-to-this-music-daily

for those who cannot shoot , listen to the clip when you masturbate, than when it comes to the real thing, with a charbo moaning, you can handle the heat. Its all about Mentally.

[iceage]

my problem is slightly different. i've similar issue with FL and WL. once it comes to my wife, cum in under 10 strokes.

i attribute it to too much feel with wifey even though we didn't do raw.

Maybe become your wife pussy is much tighter. :D