my crush with a milf

[sillydude]

Hey, an new here.
Just want seek some expert opinion here..
I am married with 2 kids...
Wifey lovely and love me alot..

Recently, I met my old friend, a malay milf,
She too is married.
We chat on the phone and get pretty hit off..
Recently, she told me she miss me when she don't hear my voice..
She told me she want to be my part time lover..
She asked me out many time but I turn her down...
Am I stupid...

Once, she call me and told me she was resting inside a hotel near east side and ask me to go over..
I drove there but back out subsequently...
She sent me a whatspp, said she is sad

I would love to stray but afraid it may hurt my family..
Sorry.. guess some bros here must be crusing me..
But, she is really hot and I am so tempted...

[edmund899]

Do you love your wife? You willing to risk breaking up your family?
I think you know the answer.

[LateHunter]

Bro, your inbox is going to be full. Please clear it

:p

[justdifferent]

Hey, an new here.
Just want seek some expert opinion here..
I am married with 2 kids...
Wifey lovely and love me alot..

Recently, I met my old friend, a malay milf,
She too is married.
We chat on the phone and get pretty hit off..
Recently, she told me she miss me when she don't hear my voice..
She told me she want to be my part time lover..
She asked me out many time but I turn her down...
Am I stupid...

Once, she call me and told me she was resting inside a hotel near east side and ask me to go over..
I drove there but back out subsequently...
She sent me a whatspp, said she is sad

I would love to stray but afraid it may hurt my family..
Sorry.. guess some bros here must be crusing me..
But, she is really hot and I am so tempted...

well not exactly an expert but i can definitely offer you advice. in matters like these, it will never be your last time. you might think: ok this is too good a deal to resist, let's just do this one time and then after that i'll remain faithful.

but things don't work this way. if you start, then there's no stopping. the logic is simple, but sound: if you can give in to temptation once, what makes you think you can resist the temptation the second time? in fact, it would be even easier to give in the subsequent times because you've already done it before.

are you prepared to be the type of husband who cheats outside and comes back pretending nothing has happened and becomes a loving father again? if you're prepared for that kind of jekyll & hyde lifestyle, then by all means go ahead. but if that's not the lifestyle you're seeking, then just steer away.

temptation works in several steps. you don't just give in straight away. every step you take is a little bit that you've given in. the fact that you can actually stop to ask if you should continue shows that you can actually control yourself and resist the temptation if you want to. since it's resistible, then it becomes a viable option, does it not?

[Papadude]

Bro, the grass is always look greener and tastier over the other side of the field..
You did the right thing to bsck out..
But how long can u tahan?
My advise is stop all phone call with her now...
You may then really resist the devil of lust...

Jus my opinion...
Gd luck Bro!

[Hardstick15by5]

Bro, any chance it's a scam to bed you with hidden cameras in the hotel room... Then threaten you for money..

You'll never know..

[Red_Wine]

Hey, an new here.
Just want seek some expert opinion here..
I am married with 2 kids...
Wifey lovely and love me alot..

Recently, I met my old friend, a malay milf,
She too is married.
We chat on the phone and get pretty hit off..
Recently, she told me she miss me when she don't hear my voice..
She told me she want to be my part time lover..
She asked me out many time but I turn her down...
Am I stupid...

Once, she call me and told me she was resting inside a hotel near east side and ask me to go over..
I drove there but back out subsequently...
She sent me a whatspp, said she is sad

I would love to stray but afraid it may hurt my family..
Sorry.. guess some bros here must be crusing me..
But, she is really hot and I am so tempted...

U are not stupid at all. Just remb that u hv two kids & yr wife is lovely & love u. Just as the bro said maybe there's a hidden camera? Or worst maybe she has AIDS?

[hardworking48]

Bro,

Don't start this adulterous thing.....its a slippery slope of no return.
I know its tempting and very gian, but certain things just keep in yr mind and imagination OK liao.

Once you start, good luck to you....

[sta1100]

Hey, an new here.
Just want seek some expert opinion here..
I am married with 2 kids...
Wifey lovely and love me alot..

Recently, I met my old friend, a malay milf,
She too is married.
We chat on the phone and get pretty hit off..
Recently, she told me she miss me when she don't hear my voice..
She told me she want to be my part time lover..
She asked me out many time but I turn her down...
Am I stupid...

Once, she call me and told me she was resting inside a hotel near east side and ask me to go over..
I drove there but back out subsequently...
She sent me a whatspp, said she is sad

I would love to stray but afraid it may hurt my family..
Sorry.. guess some bros here must be crusing me..
But, she is really hot and I am so tempted...

think & rethink agian unless you want to screw yourself upside down.

[skihon]

Bro, keep thinking of your wife and family, this will help you away from her. You can do it. Maybr you can try some things new with your wife if you want to spice up your sex life

[ah rat]

TS, U are not stupid.U do the right thing :D

[dpornk]

be a man,stop being wishy washy about it. Fidelity has no place in this forum. Go fulfill ur desires.

[dpornk]

be a man,stop being wishy washy about it. Fidelity has no place in this forum. Go fulfill ur desires.

[Nomster]

As with what other bro have said. Don't think about it if you are not prepared for what's to come later on.

You might lose it all if you are not careful.

[ah rat]

TS,don't let yours Big head rule by yours small head :D

[Rockstar10]

Just something to share...im married too with two kids,lovely wife and family..i involved with so called scandal with my female colleague back then in 2011...she is married with kids and hubby is always posted overseas..being always alone...she became my FB for a year when finally we both realised that we have to put astop to this...mutual agreement and finally we are off n since then we never contact ech other and she left my company...since then ive stopped doing this..i think its not worth it bro...seriously....just go MP and JG then end story liao...no string attached...

[sky_liner2]

Bro Sillydude, u r not silly and must salute u for doing the RIGHT thing, not many ppl cannot resist the temptation I must say. Maybe pass down her contact as I'm sure there will be takers here......hehehe.....

[dpornk]

The way I see it, you first have to assess yourself, your potential fb, and the circumstances around you. Draw up scenarios, and possible solutions. Treat an affair as you would treat sex, which is to know when to ejaculate before you impregnate.

Your main concern should be making calculated risks.

Most will tell you its not worth it, but if it wasn't then one wonders why it takes 6 months to a few years before realizing it.

[dpornk]

The way I see it, you first have to assess yourself, your potential fb, and the circumstances around you. Draw up scenarios, and possible solutions. Treat an affair as you would treat sex, which is to know when to ejaculate before you impregnate.

Your main concern should be making calculated risks.

Most will tell you its not worth it, but if it wasn't then one wonders why it takes 6 months to a few years before realizing it.

[Squeezy]

TS,

The important rule of chonging is never to get attached.
I know there are lots of stories out there witha FB and we always wish we have a FB too right?
But very often, u will start to get worried on whether your wife check your hp...we can always delete the sms right??? I tell you....once is enough...we can hide 1000 thousand things from our wife but some how in one way or another, wives always have the luck of finding out accidentally....
Conclusion, we love our wifes and we always go back home to sleep. Just remember who has gone through thick and thin with you.

[Hardstick15by5]

I'm not surprised of you've received several PMs to get the contact of this horny milf...


Everytime before you meet her, please go jerk yourself off. Lesser semen within you, the clearer you think and won't succumb to temptations.

[sillydude]

Hi, Thanks All Bros ans sisters for ur valuable advices...

For bro who pm me to give u the ctc...
My apology pls.. I don't is right for me to do that....

I don't think she has Aids or hidden camera la
We were actually classmate from poly..
Back then we are just classmate, nothing else..
We talk but not really thst close...

We coincidentally met in a seminar...
Surprise of cos..
Exchange phone number and there's goes..
We chat often during office hours but when evening came..
No mushy sms and calls made..

Why I said she is hot and I am really tempted to...
She love to wear mini skirt.. you know those really short,
The moment she entered the car and there some free show...
The pair of boobs, I must say, lovely...

One of the days, last month, I sent her home
She toldme she miss me when she don't get to see me and felt I broughf her laughter more than her husband..
Then, finally she asked me... do you stray...
I answered... never..
She then gave a kiss on my cheek and alighted real quick..
Just old school children stealing a quick kiss on her crush...

The next day and days follow...
All the sexy and mushy sms started flowing in....

Then, one day, she told me she need me and wanted to be mt part time lover..
I ask her what she meant...
She told me, "we are adult... you know what I meant right?"

Till today, I am still resisting and avoid replying her sms..

[sillydude]

TS,

The important rule of chonging is never to get attached.
I know there are lots of stories out there witha FB and we always wish we have a FB too right?
But very often, u will start to get worried on whether your wife check your hp...we can always delete the sms right??? I tell you....once is enough...we can hide 1000 thousand things from our wife but some how in one way or another, wives always have the luck of finding out accidentally....
Conclusion, we love our wifes and we always go back home to sleep. Just remember who has gone through thick and thin with you.

Agree fully with you... Bro.
Tks!

[pizzaboy]

Y not pass tis horny malay milf ctc to è bros here if u r prepared to give her up, i'm pretty sure alot of them here will b most glad to fulfill ur temptations.

[utd4ever59]

Bro,we go ,we pay,we fuck,we go home . Do not go into this extra martial affair. Too risky bcos the third party will want to have more time with you as times goes on.What if her hubby finds out.........:mad:

[sillydude]

Y not pass tis horny malay milf ctc to è bros here if u r prepared to give her up, i'm pretty sure alot of them here will b most glad to fulfill ur temptations.

Hi Bro pizzaboy, she is a lovely and sweet lady, even if I am giving up, I don't think is ethically right for me to do things that hurt her..
I have nothing against her,
Just too bad the timing and the status of both of us is at the right place but at the wrong time
She is a successful executive working in a mnc so it will be very cruel of me to do that.
I am not playing saint here which I am not... or else this thread will not be here in the first place...

So, Bro here,
My apology once again, I am unable to and never will oblige yours request to give u the ctc..

[NRider]

In my humble opinion may be it's a case of rekindled of old time seek love crush or I rather do it with the one I knew before then a total stranger ya..:confused: TS, just be cautious ya !!!

[chargebattery]

I was reading TS's story and in my mind, I was expecting to see some replies like: "go ahead!" or "don't miss the golden opportunity" and things like that.
I was really surprise that all the replies supports TS not to go ahead, which is of course the right thing.
Sorry to say that I always feel disgraced about visiting this site, but not anymore.
You guys are awesome!! :):)

[t123]

To be or not to be, that is the question. If u never thought of it, u never get tempted at all. Once in a blue moon, such honey pot or trap depends on the outcome do come by. Wanna eat Xiang Yu Set meal, must be able to wipe your lips and brush teeth. If not whatever we said or encourage doesn't hold water.

[Teo Ken]

TS,

The important rule of chonging is never to get attached.
I know there are lots of stories out there witha FB and we always wish we have a FB too right?
But very often, u will start to get worried on whether your wife check your hp...we can always delete the sms right??? I tell you....once is enough...we can hide 1000 thousand things from our wife but some how in one way or another, wives always have the luck of finding out accidentally....
Conclusion, we love our wifes and we always go back home to sleep. Just remember who has gone through thick and thin with you.

Totally agreed with bro I have such encounter too. Wifey use to have trust in past and dun check hand phone after got caught 2 twice having Xiao San all trust gone. Conclusion is paid sex is the safes.

[glster]

for me if married ons, fb still ok if didnt find out but those involve with feeling is sticky especially you got a blessed family. my slogan "drink milk noneed rear cow"

[smooth288]

Hi, Thanks All Bros ans sisters for ur valuable advices...

For bro who pm me to give u the ctc...
My apology pls.. I don't is right for me to do that....

I don't think she has Aids or hidden camera la
We were actually classmate from poly..
Back then we are just classmate, nothing else..
We talk but not really thst close...

We coincidentally met in a seminar...
Surprise of cos..
Exchange phone number and there's goes..
We chat often during office hours but when evening came..
No mushy sms and calls made..

Why I said she is hot and I am really tempted to...
She love to wear mini skirt.. you know those really short,
The moment she entered the car and there some free show...
The pair of boobs, I must say, lovely...

One of the days, last month, I sent her home
She toldme she miss me when she don't get to see me and felt I broughf her laughter more than her husband..
Then, finally she asked me... do you stray...
I answered... never..
She then gave a kiss on my cheek and alighted real quick..
Just old school children stealing a quick kiss on her crush...

The next day and days follow...
All the sexy and mushy sms started flowing in....

Then, one day, she told me she need me and wanted to be mt part time lover..
I ask her what she meant...
She told me, "we are adult... you know what I meant right?"

Till today, I am still resisting and avoid replying her sms..

brother u say she wear miniskirt, does she wear stocking too and she put on makeup too?
you should keep up in touch with her and not lose contact or kill the contact....let things flow smoothly brother

[fly2mars]

Been there, done it....

Then what?

Happily ever after? Boldly hold her hand and walk down orchard road?
Miss her during all the festive seasons and valentines day?
Sitting there looking at your wife while thinking of another woman?
Pretend that everything is going to be OK?

If I can turn back time, I would spend those time that my wife thought that I was out there busy providing for the family but instead with another woman on WL or FL.
Bang and forget. Go home and you are the man there.

Why WL or FL, cost lower (believe me), no strings, no aftermaths, flexible timing,
no SMS or whatsapp communication that you may forget to delete, lastly, ALWAYS there for you....

[Morgan01]

Ya does she weigh >200 lbs?

[sillydude]

I was reading TS's story and in my mind, I was expecting to see some replies like: "go ahead!" or "don't miss the golden opportunity" and things like that.
I was really surprise that all the replies supports TS not to go ahead, which is of course the right thing.
Sorry to say that I always feel disgraced about visiting this site, but not anymore.
You guys are awesome!! :):)

Yes... Bro..
They are best and most "trained" counsellor la...
Who said Sammyboyforum is all about sex and lust....

Tks for all the wise advices given here...

I have decided to give this lustful temptation of mine up..

This morning, i Sent out a sms to her and that's it...
Apology to her and told her my thought...
She requested to meet up tonight to talk about it but I turned her down...
Very mean of me... I guess..
But, The last thing I wanna do is hurt my wife and my two lovely kids..

Finally I can have good night sleep and hug my wife without sense of guilt..;)

Thank you all Bros And Sisters...

Sincerely Yours..
Sillydude...:D

[RADIOJ]

If still not married, can i go stray? >,<

[Rockstar10]

Yes... Bro..
They are best and most "trained" counsellor la...
Who said Sammyboyforum is all about sex and lust....

Tks for all the wise advices given here...

I have decided to give this lustful temptation of mine up..

This morning, i Sent out a sms to her and that's it...
Apology to her and told her my thought...
She requested to meet up tonight to talk about it but I turned her down...
Very mean of me... I guess..
But, The last thing I wanna do is hurt my wife and my two lovely kids..

Finally I can have good night sleep and hug my wife without sense of guilt..;)

Thank you all Bros And Sisters...

Sincerely Yours..
Sillydude...:D

Bro i salute u....

[CoconutGrove]

Bro i salute u....

Same here as well :cool:

[gotsex]

Yes Bro a BIG SALUTE TO U WELL DONE

[jasperonhigh78]

Yes... Bro..
They are best and most "trained" counsellor la...
Who said Sammyboyforum is all about sex and lust....

Tks for all the wise advices given here...

I have decided to give this lustful temptation of mine up..

This morning, i Sent out a sms to her and that's it...
Apology to her and told her my thought...
She requested to meet up tonight to talk about it but I turned her down...
Very mean of me... I guess..
But, The last thing I wanna do is hurt my wife and my two lovely kids..

Finally I can have good night sleep and hug my wife without sense of guilt..;)

Thank you all Bros And Sisters...

Sincerely Yours..
Sillydude...:D


Salute you bro! Well done!

[simplewoman80]

well not exactly an expert but i can definitely offer you advice. in matters like these, it will never be your last time. you might think: ok this is too good a deal to resist, let's just do this one time and then after that i'll remain faithful.

but things don't work this way. if you start, then there's no stopping. the logic is simple, but sound: if you can give in to temptation once, what makes you think you can resist the temptation the second time? in fact, it would be even easier to give in the subsequent times because you've already done it before.

are you prepared to be the type of husband who cheats outside and comes back pretending nothing has happened and becomes a loving father again? if you're prepared for that kind of jekyll & hyde lifestyle, then by all means go ahead. but if that's not the lifestyle you're seeking, then just steer away.

temptation works in several steps. you don't just give in straight away. every step you take is a little bit that you've given in. the fact that you can actually stop to ask if you should continue shows that you can actually control yourself and resist the temptation if you want to. since it's resistible, then it becomes a viable option, does it not?

nice one, care to be friend ?

[wackyboy]

All the guys here love to hear from bros with FB story. But if you ever ask us whether its morally right to stray, the only way to go is NOT to do it. Once you step out that door n do it, there's no turning back. Remember, Singapore is very very small... no way to run n hide. The risk is too damn high.

Now... how do you get out of this pickle? I would strongly suggest to get a buddy of yours to erase her number, cut your sim card into half n sign up for a new number. :)

[mykonos]

It's like me getting involved with a married milf, bonked her once over at her house while her baby was sleeping.
I have come to realized I love my family more and know it will get me nowhere.
Especially when she kept asking me to go over when her hubby working night shift.
Have since changed my number 2 weeks back and cut off contact with her.

[AgentSmith]

Soooooooooooooooooo MANY Fake Saints in this Folder.
Irony again ..

[freezetheDB]

bro TS never let your small head rule over your big head in this instance
you got too much to lose. A lovey dovey wife and kids... what more can u ask for bro? dont break your own happiness.

[sillydude]

What a Christmas Eve!
Was attending a company event in one of the hotels...
Thought this only appear in TV Drama...
But its happened...
Saw my Milf classmate at the ball (I shall call her rina):eek:

I will try my best to recall what the actual conversation we had...

What the Fuck sia...
Such an awkward situation...
It has been months since I last sms her...

Rina was dressed in a Very tight fitting night dress..
Her hour glass body and the tightness on her butt area..
Really made me took a second glance on her..
"She must have worn a G String..". I thought to myself..
Cos you can't see any panty line on the exterior lor...

Soon our eyes met...
She smile and walked towards me with that high heel she worn...
Like a super model...
What a sight! She looked great, I meant marvellous...
She was stunning...

My heart was drumming...
"What am I suppose to say to her.."..I mumble...
"How am I ...... shit!

Rina: hi Tim, how are you?
Me: hmmm... Good (stumble a little)
Rina: So, u look abit lost..
Me: (forcing a fake smile) where got? I was just shock to see u here ma.. and u look great tonight...
Rina: (broke into laughter) is it! So later u want to have a dance with me?
Me: Sure sure... why not! Is my honour ma...
Rina: ok.. we will catchup later... u better don't MIA ok....
Me: no... no... no.. I won't..

Smiling at me, she turned and walk away to join her friends holding onto the glass of red wine in her hand...

She turned and gave me another seductive smile while chatting with her friends..

[hotguy2406]

wat happen next bro

[angurvadal]

Ts, u did the right thing . If need to, pay , fuck & forget . This is not worth it

[arsenic401]

Be a man, do the right thing.
Love you family, only they will be by ur side no matter what happens bro!