Falling In Love With HC Gal

[NotByChoice]

Dear Brothers,

Has anyone had this experience before?

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Worst thing is, I'm married and although I sleep next to my wife, I can't help but think of the HC gal all these while...cham liao lah.

I've been to HCs countless times but never have I felt this way...her face, the image of us bonking, and her alluring demeanour, has captured my heart and has occupied my mind for the past two weeks.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???

[xMarlborox]

Dear Brothers,

Has anyone had this experience before?

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Worst thing is, I'm married and although I sleep next to my wife, I can't help but think of the HC gal all these while...cham liao lah.

I've been to HCs countless times but never have I felt this way...her face, the image of us bonking, and her alluring demeanour, has captured my heart and has occupied my mind for the past two weeks.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???
i hate u this type of ppl...

[NotByChoice]

Why? U wanna explain your reason?

[t123]

Bro, just be careful. in case she might take you for robert.

[Horsepower]

There's a thread on falling in love in WL. Check it out...

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=37737&page=1&pp=15

The WL get screwed by so many men daily. You can accept the fact ?

I knew a 25 yo guy who fell in love with a Thai street walker 10 years older. He got jealous during 1 incident and fought with her customer. He even planned to marry her.

Stay away from trouble bro. Just fcuk, pay and go.

[QooMilk]

totally agreed with bro horsepower, I once oso 2tuip eff 2 fell in luv with a health centre gal, end up getting more jealous then happy. There not happy ending bro, unless she not working in that line animore.......be smart u pay, u fuck, u enjoy and u move on bro. :cool:

[Iluvoyster]

Bro, plaese remember the rule of the game. my suggestion, divorce your wife and marry her.
Not possible right, then forgot about everything and be a good husband

[Schrodinger]

...Stay away from trouble bro. Just fcuk, pay and go....

Bro HP's philosophy is a good one... but it seems many just cannot practise it!

I think in your case, Bro NotByChoice, it's more a case of infatuation. So far, it's just sex. And I think I do not need to remind you that love is about more than just sex! From one session, I can't believe you have 'fallen in love' with the WL...

[Castrol]

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???

but did you you tell her you have a blackhawk for commuting, a thoroughbred horse for racing, a yacht for sun tanning...? :D

[MoonBlaze]

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her....how, man? HOW???Sensible thing to do after a good bonk go home and not forgeting bring your heart with you. Moroever, you are married and do you want to put your marriage life on the line? What you intend to do? Marry her? Few can accept the fact and live happily ever after with a WL. Most man cannot face it when their ex-WL wife past catches up them..... If you are just having some fun out there...let it stay that way, dun screw up your life. Be rational!!! :)

[Hasa Sas]

Dear Brothers,

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.



It is never too late to make a U-turn.
You will regret if you dun heed the advice.
Might mess up your life and turn topsy turvy :(

[NotByChoice]

but did you you tell her you have a blackhawk for commuting, a thoroughbred horse for racing, a yacht for sun tanning...? :D

No lah....she knows what I work as and know I got no money...so definitely dun take me for a Robert...

[NotByChoice]

Dear Brothers,

As a matter of fact, I have always been a rational guy - not one to fall prey to impulses.

But, somehow, she's very different. The way she behaved towards me was very different from other WLs...there was this chemistry that I couldn't explain - not even after so many sessions of commercial sex, and not to mention the countless relationships I was in when I was younger. By the way, she almost let me do it RAW, which is something she doesn't allow others to do.

Cham lah...I really dunno how to explain this feeling. Thanks for all the advice! I will update you guys on the latest development, if any.

I will pay her another visit next week to see if the feeling stays....

[plman2002]

I tot sch holiday over liao.......... :confused: ???!?!??!?

if u no $$ type, u think she wanna u.
maybe she's just lonely n just nice she found u to be her type.
wait till she wake up fr her fantansy n u will fall into misery.

cheong happily. cheers,

[sadfa]

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???

in the first place, ask yourself why u in love with her?
u only meet n bonk her in the span of 45 min.
based on that, u can say u love her?
control your emotions. these wl r alot of trouble n cause many unhappiness. the bitternes with them outweighs the sweet.

[jungle boy]

Dear Brothers,

As a matter of fact, I have always been a rational guy - not one to fall prey to impulses... I will pay her another visit next week to see if the feeling stays....

frankly, i find that very irrational, you only had sex with her one time, you are not the loaded type, she even offered raw and asked you to go malaysia with her during her off days.

either you are taking all of the bros here for a ride to believe your story or you have some other agenda up your sleeve.

why not identify this hc girl and let the other bros who know her help you to make up your mind? if not, who will believe you?

[NotByChoice]

I tot sch holiday over liao.......... :confused: ???!?!??!?

if u no $$ type, u think she wanna u.
maybe she's just lonely n just nice she found u to be her type.
wait till she wake up fr her fantansy n u will fall into misery.

cheong happily. cheers,

Bro,

The last time I celebrated Youth Festival was like damn fucking long ago liao lah....and I wore BM2000...

Really not a hoax lah...feeling damn sian and perplexed...

[NotByChoice]

frankly, i find that very irrational, you only had sex with her one time, you are not the loaded type, she even offered raw and asked you to go malaysia with her during her off days.

either you are taking all of the bros here for a ride to believe your story or you have some other agenda up your sleeve.

why not identify this hc girl and let the other bros who know her help you to make up your mind? if not, who will believe you?

Bro,

Believe or not it's ok with me lah...zap my points till I got nothing left, I dun care....

I dun even wanna let my close friends know that she's damn good at providing sexual service, so what's the chance of me exposing her here for all to know?

Sian man...nothing has been going right these days.

[NotByChoice]

totally agreed with bro horsepower, I once oso 2tuip eff 2 fell in luv with a health centre gal, end up getting more jealous then happy. There not happy ending bro, unless she not working in that line animore.......be smart u pay, u fuck, u enjoy and u move on bro. :cool:

Bro,

Agree with you lah...somehow the thought of her working in this line will always bug me....how did you get yourself ouf of the fix?

[mega2hard]

I dun even wanna let my close friends know that she's damn good at providing sexual service, so what's the chance of me exposing her here for all to know?

My brother, be it whether or not you mention whom it may be is not an issue. She is already "doin it" with other men whom are paying for her services. I guess the real reason why the bros out here are asking is that they will be able to provide you with the REAL feedback on her? Who knows she could be doin this to everyone and you're just another sucker? Don't mean to be harsh here but that's the reality of life. Rather us be harsh to you then see another cheonging bro destroyed...

[PASSIONAETE04]

Dear Brothers,

As a matter of fact, I have always been a rational guy - not one to fall prey to impulses.

But, somehow, she's very different. The way she behaved towards me was very different from other WLs...there was this chemistry that I couldn't explain - not even after so many sessions of commercial sex, and not to mention the countless relationships I was in when I was younger. By the way, she almost let me do it RAW, which is something she doesn't allow others to do.

Cham lah...I really dunno how to explain this feeling. Thanks for all the advice! I will update you guys on the latest development, if any.

I will pay her another visit next week to see if the feeling stays....




Bro, sorry if you find my message below offending.
First, Only ONE bonk and you get tied up, what a pity fellow !
You should now go to Geylang to look for a Beautiful Model like prositute, give a GOOD bonk, sure you will forget that HC gal.

What make you so sure that she never offer others RAW ??
I also have such experience B4, BUT I OLD BIRD already, HC gal can't get any advantage.........hehehe
Steady bro, have FUN then Pay and GO !

[sg_boytoy]

Bro NotByChoice, what type of advice do you expect from this forum?

Let me give you the 2 types of advice you should expect:

1. Go for it! Instant chemistry with a HC girl and she even offer to do RAW with you on your first visit, where got such luck? She must really like you even though you told her what you do and she knows you are not wealthy. Go to Malaysia with her on her off days? Mai tu liao, pack your bag and go for with her to meet her family there! I tell you, many bros here don't have such encounters and you are so special that she can do all this for you after only 1 visit, you are her fated one lah! Since your chemistry so good with this girl and even when sleeping next to your wife you're still thinking of her, obviously the chemistry with your wife is not there anymore. So being a rational guy, do the next rational thing, leave your wife and seek your destiny with this HC girl, life's too short for opportunities like this to pass by!

2. What are you? Some fucking clown?

So how bro? I'm sure you must be expecting either one of the above advice right? To quote your starting thread, "...how, man? HOW???"

[NotByChoice]

Fucking Clown? Pretty much like it, you CCB...

Lost my sanity I guess, but hope I won't be reduced to a servile wreck...you CCB...

Like I said, will update you guys when I pay her another visit next week. Hope her attitude change and that would help me make up my mind. Still need to work, you know...

[Zack Tan]

Fucking Clown? Pretty much like it, you CCB...

Lost my sanity I guess, but hope I won't be reduced to a servile wreck...you CCB...

Like I said, will update you guys when I pay her another visit next week. Hope her attitude change and that would help me make up my mind. Still need to work, you know...
Ok Bro. notByChoice, Let this old man said something. What do you expect bros.here to advise you? If you are sensible, you already know the answer right? What's more you are married and a working man...think rationally and get your pirorities corrected ok. So focus on your pirorities and move on. Don't be a bigger moron than what you are already. I meant well.
Cheers,

[sg_boytoy]

Fucking Clown? Pretty much like it, you CCB...

Lost my sanity I guess, but hope I won't be reduced to a servile wreck...you CCB...

Like I said, will update you guys when I pay her another visit next week. Hope her attitude change and that would help me make up my mind. Still need to work, you know...

Bro, why like that lah? WHY???

No need for female private parts to be mentioned like that lah, by the way, what's a "servile wreck" ah?

Actually I also sympathise with you, so easy kenah led to believe something more can grow out of this situation, but I guess only you know best.

You know yourself lah, human excreta happens! :D

[steamer]

Bro,

Believe or not it's ok with me lah...zap my points till I got nothing left, I dun care....

I dun even wanna let my close friends know that she's damn good at providing sexual service, so what's the chance of me exposing her here for all to know?

Sian man...nothing has been going right these days.

bro,
something not right leh...u juz met a great gal, had a great bonk, think u hv fallen in love...shud be feeling wonderful...but u feel depressed. Tats not true love. Are u saying u are feeling worse off after meeting this gal?
dun read too much into her show of affection for u; trust me, hc gals n wls need some level of gfe skills too; u r probably not the onli one getting this special feeling, no offence intended.
many of us here hv had some special feeling for some hc or wl gal/gals b4 or even now.
take care

[sadsea]

mr notbychoice, all bros here had took up their time to give u quality advices, better take it. and mine is simple.. wake up ur bloody idea, nice day.

[nukebomb]

Bro fm yr past thread i guess the gal might be fm legend, also fm yr post Re: On the admission of indulging in commercial sex to female friends...
U claimed to be a grad fm NUS, also u claimed that u look like ah beng n cheongster, than now u said u fall in love wh a HC gal ( maybe fm legend ) i guess the gal maybe want u to protect her lah, since u said u like piakia, but u must prepare to help her settle all the problem wh other piakia whether singapore or malaysia, u shld must be a big time paikia across th straits.

[imom]

...But, somehow, she's very different. The way she behaved towards me was very different from other WLs...there was this chemistry that I couldn't explain....

...I really dunno how to explain this feeling....


The feeling is called... INFATUATION!!

Please, please, do not mistake it for love.

If you still think it's love, ask yourself what it is you love about her. It's just that 'feeling' isn't it? What of her personality and character traits - can you list any that might be worth your love?

And what about the qualities of your wife that made you want to marry her? I hope you didn't decide to marry her just cos she gave you that 'feeling'... Because, look at what is happening now - you are thinking of another woman who gives you that 'feeling' while lying next to your wife. What's to stop yet another WL making you think of her while lying next to this current muse of yours? It will never end if you let the whole thing ride on a 'feeling' from one session....

Take Bro HP's advice and do the fire-and-forget thing.

[Idoru]

Dear Brothers,
But, somehow, she's very different. The way she behaved towards me was very different from other WLs...there was this chemistry that I couldn't explain - not even after so many sessions of commercial sex, and not to mention the countless relationships I was in when I was younger. By the way, she almost let me do it RAW, which is something she doesn't allow others to do.
Cham lah...I really dunno how to explain this feeling.
I..

Bro. I totally believe what you say. Once in a lifetime you will meet your Soul Mate she is part of your missing rib. There are incidences when both parties leave their love ones and wealth just to be together. Follow the flow and enjoy to the maximum but remember every happiness eventually will ends with sadness so keep your family intact.
Cheers

[Rof|maoxz]

Dear Brothers,

Has anyone had this experience before?

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Worst thing is, I'm married and although I sleep next to my wife, I can't help but think of the HC gal all these while...cham liao lah.

I've been to HCs countless times but never have I felt this way...her face, the image of us bonking, and her alluring demeanour, has captured my heart and has occupied my mind for the past two weeks.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???

Hey, look at your post in bold. I can't find there is any love in betweeen it. It's your sex fascination which you can't achieved between your wife. Ask yourself this, what if she go back china how? Jump to another TN and fall in love in another. Please rethink again....peacefully.

[HC_Cheongster]

Sigh..... another one.... never ending sia....i posted this just a few days a go nia. i just wanna shared my experiance wif u a few yrs back.
i have a nice and caring wife at home. but at tat pt i did not realised it. oni find her nagging and sianzz. soon after i got involved with a wl in one of the hc. then i spend most of my times wif her negreting my wife. and of course she found out later tat im involve wif the gal and wanted to divorce. and the gal hoping tat i will hopefully patch back wif my wife left me. she quit her job in the hc and went aust to pursuit her studies. at tat moment my whole world just fell apart.
i started drinking and shutting myself up. knowing too well tats its too late to turn back the clock. and i hate myself for hurting two gals who love me as well.
then i had an accident one night after drinking. and was sent to hosipital. there i was injured and throughout the odeal it was my beloved wife who still stand by me and care for me. i beg and beg for her forgiveness and lucky for me she accepts.

i realised i was very lucky. in the sense the wl is not those sucker for money oni type. or i will lose more. i still hve fond memories wif her. and lucky not to hve die in the accident and instead hve used it to patched back wif my wife. thirdly im darm lucky tat my wife loves me so much so much.

But well guys r still guys. i still cheong once in a while but i never cheong with feelings involved any ever again. but i do agreed tat true love can be found in wl but whether its worth it or not better think twice. it oso just to serve as a warning to other bros around. so

BEWARE :mad:
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[Rof|maoxz]

Bro. I totally believe what you say. Once in a lifetime you will meet your Soul Mate she is part of your missing rib. There are incidences when both parties leave their love ones and wealth just to be together. Follow the flow and enjoy to the maximum but remember every happiness eventually will ends with sadness so keep your family intact.
Cheers

This is what you call fuck-buddy. :rolleyes:

[FuglyMan]

Bro NotByChoice,

Y not tell us the name & where the gal is from ???
i will to there & help you find out the truth !!!
if she is really in love with U, then there should be no worries rite ??
if not ...take it as me contributing to your future funds la.

p.s. if you are angry by my words......think of bros banging her rite now !!!
and the moans cumming from her.
cannot take it ?!?!?!?! THEN FORGET IT LA !!!!!! :D

[notEnuff121]

NOT SURE IF THIS WILL WORK FOR YOU.. BUT IT MAY...

1. Understand what is the gap that existis between your wife and her ?

2. What can yr wife do to fill that gap alittle bit more to meet your expectation?

3. Think about old times, and how good it was then.. dont loose those for afew free fucks... (if you have any)

4. Take a short trip of like 4days, bring your wife for a trip.. bang her like hell and treat her well. all this to rekindle the spirit back. Get the free fcuk off yr head of the moment, take a closer look at the values between u and yr wife.

5. By the time, u return u will understand and have a clear view of a relationship the cherish.

DONT BE SMOKE BY A MOMENT OF DESIRE, YR WIFE CAN ALSO GIVE YOU HELL OF A RAW TIME TOO !!!! FURTHER ITS FREE RAW EVERYNIGHT IF YOU CAN TAKE IT.

hope this will focus on recovering / rekindle the spirit, and add a balance view to saying "dont go there"

[plman2002]

Bro imom, it should be Fatal Attraction lah. kekeke

Jokes aside, Bro NotByChoice, u mentioned that u wore BM2000 which means u r at least 35years n above so why u havent seen enough.
You got rough over some advice from other bros which i think is not necessary.
well, if u have decided to go ahead wif the hc gal, i dun see why u r asking for advice in sbf.
i think u still care for yr wife n want to end this silly act of yours.
most bros here are telling you to quit, so whats yr call?!

cheers,

[IloveBusty]

If she fall in love with your lanjiao every time you visit her get free fcuk....then worth it lah ;) But if you have to pay to fcuk her then i think she fall in love with your S11 more..........think twice Mr. Robert-San :cool:

[NotByChoice]

Bro Sh_BoyToy,

I apologize for getting worked up...it's really frustrating for me, so I hope you understand.

To all other Bros/sis,

Thanks for all the advice! Yes, some of you are right by pointing out that I know what I want. But, more often than not, the heart rules the head to the point that logic is thrown out of the window.

Yes, I think some of you have hit the nail on the head...she gave me this feeling that I've been missing for the past decade or even more. Suddenly, there's this gal that is able to s+++e up the dead passion in me and makes me feel like falling in love once again. It's hard for me to resist this because, quite funnily, I'm more attracted to how a girl can make me feel - in other words emotionally - than the physical aspect of things.

Do not get me wrong. I love my wife, but I sorely miss the feeling of being "in love". I think imom is right (you're a lady, right?), this is infatuation...hahaha...ladies should understand how I feel.

Once again, grateful for all the advices. I'll still pay her a visit next week and shall take it from there....she has been sms-ing me, for your info. Not making things any better.

[h_lover]

Dun worry so much lah. Give urself some time. U will noe wat is best 4 urself soon enough. Dats wat happen to me when I fall in love wif a HC Gal long time ago.

[NotByChoice]

I think I owe it to everyone as to how it all happened. So, here goes:

Like most men here, I visit HCs but the frequency has reduced since I got married two years back. Honestly, I have this sense of guilt everytime I visit a HC and have problems enjoying sex at these fuck shops.

None of the HC gals have been able to make me fully enjoy commercial sex, until I met her.

During a visit to this HC, I suddenly saw this eye-catching gal pass by me. Damn, I though, was she attractive. My friends told me she had just started not too long ago and is not known to provide good or a friendly service. In a nutshell, she's like a dead fish.

Somehow, I stuck to my "feelings and instinct" and made an appointment with her two weeks later (I visit HCs only 3-4 times a year after marriage). When I waited in the room, my heart was pumping very fast because I did not know what to expect from her. Would she be as bad as what some people said she was? I didn't know, but I was full of anticipation.

When she walked into the room, she gave me a weak smile. I smiled back, not daring to look at her directly in the eye and she laughed. Hmm, she's not so bad after all, since she laughed, right?

Everything went on as per normal. The first 5 minutes was filled with an awkward silence as she gave me a half-hearted massage. I tried my best to break the ice and things got better and warmer when the conversation touched on mundane things like travelling overseas, the horrible men that visit HCs and her experiences with them.

I, of course, offered a listening ear and not too long after, she was lying next to me and chatting chirpily like a beautiful canary let out of the cage. Our eyes met throughout the conversation and she started to kiss me on my lips (Damn! I've never kissed a HC gal for obvious reasons). Strangely, my heart melted and I gave in...we were soon frenching.

Then the obvious thing followed....Like I said, I nearly did with her raw but she suddenly stopped me just before I pushed my cock into her. Wah...being a careful person, I was brave enough to wanna do it raw...

When I cum in her (with caps of course), she allowed me to stay in her for a good few minutes, kissing and caressing each other.

She then told me about going back to Malaysia and asked me if I want to join her in the trip...I was a bit taken aback, but, already swept off my feet by her, I did not know how to respond. How to go when I have a wife here?

She looked a bit disappointed and got up to help me dress up...before I went out of the room, she pulled my hand back, gave me a kiss and asked me if I would visit her again. She then gave me her hp no...

The rest is history....I walked around the entire day feeling and looking lost. The feeling was great. It was wonderful, but other negativities came into me mind and that's why I'm struggling now.

I hope you guys have a better picture now...I know WLs are practical ladies and I shouldn't be messing around since I'm married. But, humans are humans and men are prone to temptations.

[t123]

I can understand that for married bros, sometimes, go home after work, face the same things daily.

Sometimes, we really do not appreciate of what we have, maybe blinded by the surroundings which have become a ritual to us. We often have a tendency to look for newer things, hope to stimulate ourselves.

We also can get confuse about what we actually want, the feeling of that moment is overwhelmingly tempting.

Bro, try to communicate with your wife more. I know to relive that courtship lovey dovey feelings is almost impossible. Maybe try other means to revive the passion and feelings and you will discover why you want to marry your wife in the first place.

Your experience is similar to many that's why lots of the bros try to wake you up. Hope you will lead a better life.

[LengKia]

If she fall in love with your lanjiao every time you visit her get free fcuk....then worth it lah But if you have to pay to fcuk her then i think she fall in love with your S11 more..........think twice Mr. Robert-San :cool:

Sometimes it can be quite deceiving even without paying fuck..she love me??
doesn't collect $$ from us doesn't prove that the WL is in love you....agree?
how about letting u do raw? does it show that she is in love with you too
quite contradicting at times.....what is your findings.
Sigh! fallen in love with a WLs is very stressful :(

[imom]

...I think imom is right (you're a lady, right?)....

Hahaha..... Now that is one funny conclusion...
Me with my numerous FRs - a lady....

Rest assured, Bro NBC, I am no woman... :D

Anyway, look, not many couples can maintain that 'being in love' feeling throughout the years of marriage. Passion gives way to care, love, respect, etc after the initial 'honeymoon' period. Those are the things that can keep a marriage/relationship going strong. Not the fleeting moments of passion. That is why so many men come to their senses after having affairs (commercial or not) and go back to their wives. They realise that the passion and 'being in love' feeling doesn't last.

[steamer]

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she looked a bit disappointed and got up to help me dress up...before I went out of the room, she pulled my hand back, gave me a kiss and asked me if I would visit her again. She then gave me her hp no...

The rest is history....I walked around the entire day feeling and looking lost. The feeling was great. It was wonderful, but other negativities came into me mind and that's why I'm struggling now..[/QUOTE]

reminds me of one gl150 ang pai, with great gf factor, many bros got her hp no. Many were won over by her charm, incl yours truly; many did favours for her..etc..until notes were compared one day..then got some reality set in.
But many, incl me, still look for her svc sometimes, but with eyes open wider lah now. However, her svc n gf feeling still great.. :D

[sg_boytoy]

Bro Sh_BoyToy,

I apologize for getting worked up...it's really frustrating for me, so I hope you understand.

Bro, like my signature states, we're here for a bit of fun, relak lah, my feelings not hurt :D

Stay true to your family, remain rational and when you bonk her again next week, have a fucking good time, pay her and fuck off, don't leave your emotions there, swee boh?

[balonglong]

if u not rich and she willing to provide for your living, and u dun mind to take her hard earn money :rolleyes:
go ahead but i sincerely doubt it :cool:

[sadfa]

To all other Bros/sis,

Thanks for all the advice! Yes, some of you are right by pointing out that I know what I want. But, more often than not, the heart rules the head to the point that logic is thrown out of the window.



bro,

some people find it hard to take advice from others n must go thru things the hard way, themselves. some people do take advice n avoid all the shit n with it, some sweetness.

anyway u take care n let us know what happen.

[ang076]

Remember this:

HC gal dont really love you, but love your $$$$$$..

Take me for instance, I am a disabled guy who is not likely to find gf..

But HC gals from Legend and Dragon, said "can you come again in 2 weeks time?" I told them I might see them again in a month or so.. but they all said , "dont want.. I will miss you.." In my heart, I know they dont love me but only $$$ and as well as my submissiveness during FJ session.. ( I am a subserviant male who is forever dominated by female species.) :D

They would use this opportunity to vent their frustation on me by rocking me hard and shook my cock hard ( for HJ) ( until my legs and cock feel numb). :o

[12345678910]

yeah its very sad but true that they only will love your money, though of course there is a small possibility that u can slowly make them fall in love with you.

But think abt it, if u fall for her, there's a possibility that many guys have been in your shoes before, she has seen more guys then u've eaten grain, can u do what others guys have been unsuccessful in ?

btw is it very common for guys to fall in love with ktv/hc girls, i've got many crushes there before too

Remember this:

HC gal dont really love you, but love your $$$$$$..

Take me for instance, I am a disabled guy who is not likely to find gf..

But HC gals from Legend and Dragon, said "can you come again in 2 weeks time?" I told them I might see them again in a month or so.. but they all said , "dont want.. I will miss you.." In my heart, I know they dont love me but only $$$ and as well as my submissiveness during FJ session.. ( I am a subserviant male who is forever dominated by female species.) :D

They would use this opportunity to vent their frustation on me by rocking me hard and shook my cock hard ( for HJ) ( until my legs and cock feel numb). :o

[CPTMiller]

If anyone want to fall in love with HC/KTV girls etc.
First thing bear in mind is that you must change her from the start.
Either get her out of this job.
After that than talk about love or having a relationship.
If not it will give you more trouble, jealous, stress ,financial problem and unhappiness too.



totally agreed with bro horsepower, I once oso 2tuip eff 2 fell in luv with a health centre gal, end up getting more jealous then happy. There not happy ending bro, unless she not working in that line animore.......be smart u pay, u fuck, u enjoy and u move on bro. :cool:

[nukebomb]

Bro u claimed to be NUS grad n ah beng n cheongster, so can i said u r NUS piakia how come got so emotional paikia, paikia is tough one mah, flow blood dun flow tears mah.Legend gals n melt gangster meh, then i must transfer all those changi prisoners to Legend liao.

[kopties]

firstly, are you fathering any kids now? (The price of your infatuation with this WL will be even costly with kids around) THINK TWICE!

Secondly, Four visit to HC a year !!!!
Y not try to pay a visit to those famously known HC gals shared in the SB forum. They all are povide good services with GF feeling. Ex: Bugis, executive etc. Try doing this for 3, 4 times a week for the whole of next month. See whether yr feeling for this gal still remain the same. I PERSONALLY DOUBT SO.....COS yr is just only infatuation. Anyway the costs for u will be lesser if u were to break up your family now. :D

[Tian Xin]

can pm me the girl's name? after reading so much about the beauty of the girl, raw lah wat lah i also fall in love with her liao leh. how? HOW??

[Tian Xin]

this falling in love with HC gal will not get you anywhere dude. heng i not married yet. :cool:

[NotByChoice]

Dea Bros,

Wife is sleeping so got up to read this thread since I'm unable to sleep...

Thanks for all the kind attention. Some are sympathetic; some share their experiences; some display scarcasm; and some show scepticism...

Whatever it is, thank you all for sharing....this is a rather embarassing matter so this is the only avenue for me to pour my woes...

This is my life, so I am the only one who can solve this problem...the reason for me posting this thread is not to catch attention but, like I said, to pour my woes...

Please let this thread die...will let you guys know my decision (if any) when I visit her next week (not in the HC)...meantime, still sms-ing her...

Thanks all!

[CPTMiller]

It is always your choice, pal.
Whether it can work out or not.
Only time will tell.
I wish you good luck in everything.
:cool:

Dea Bros,

Wife is sleeping so got up to read this thread since I'm unable to sleep...
Please let this thread die...will let you guys know my decision (if any) when I visit her next week (not in the HC)...meantime, still sms-ing her...

Thanks all!

[flameboy]

Just remember to delete the sms between you and her so wife can't find out. Got a few stupid friends kenna this way when they chiong KTV gals

[HC_Cheongster]

If u r single, u got nothing to lose, but if ur married, u will lose everything!!!

[h_lover]

I used to hav a relationship wif a prc who work in the ktv. I even went back to china wif her when her visa expires. She and her frenz treated me very well when I was in china wif her. I visited her family and she even mention about getting married wif me. But we still broke off in the end because my frenz dun support me and my family disapproved us. So the moral of the story is, unless u hav the support of ur frenz and family, it is difficult to struggle in this kind of relationship.

[xMarlborox]

i hate u this type of ppl...
post this msg also will get zap 1? power...

[Rof|maoxz]

I used to hav a relationship wif a prc who work in the ktv. I even went back to china wif her when her visa expires. She and her frenz treated me very well when I was in china wif her. I visited her family and she even mention about getting married wif me. But we still broke off in the end because my frenz dun support me and my family disapproved us. So the moral of the story is, unless u hav the support of ur frenz and family, it is difficult to struggle in this kind of relationship.

This is very true. Trust me bro.

[Trust]

Falling In Love With HC Gal
hi bro, never continue, try to forget her unless you do not want your wife, don't forget what ever you gain later might be your greatest lost.
this is purely business, pay and go,, happy about the service, RTF.
trust me

[Horsepower]

Like most men here, I visit HCs ......
Why don't you tell us which HC and which ger, or anybody post the FR on her before ? WLs have standard script they say to everyone. They can also capture your heart by acting disappointed because you turn her down to join her in M'sia. This is what I call good PR.

Don't be goondoo. All WLs I meet at the workplace and outside the workplace are completely 2 different persons. They have even forgotten what they told you. Why don't you call her out for dinner and try ?

[Horsepower]

)...meantime, still sms-ing her... Put password on your handphone at home. Trust me ! :rolleyes:

[ang076]

All WLs I meet at the workplace and outside the workplace are completely 2 different persons. They have even forgotten what they told you. Why don't you call her out for dinner and try ?

Rather , they pretend they dont remember you when they are not in duty.
They would turn their faces to other side, their hearts must be cursing you for making them do this and that..

However, if you treat them well, be sympathetic to their sufferings, they would remember you and treat you as their friends provide that you dont talk about sex to them..

[flcult]

to the threadstarter: dun need to think too much, your wife is the one who loves u whole-heartedly. turn back, tell your wife u love her and use yr head above yr shoulders not yr dick.

i had the same experience back in 2000, i was 15000 poorer after the incident and i broke up with my wife. worth it? NO WAY! you still have a chance to turn back...do it while u still can.

[sopil]

wat i am going to say might not be so nice to ears,
if u r married, then better to leave ur feelings at home.
do not visit her anymore or u will fall deeper.
even if she is true to u, r u prepare to forgo ur family.
although not all wl r emotionless, there are quite a number who prey on our heart, i personally know a few of them, the former and latter.
if u r not attached at all, then prepare to accept her for wat she is.
in future if u r married, i m sure she will not be in this line anymore, unless u wan her to be. but in the meantime, if u really like her, unless you are able to support her or her problems, i dun think she will stop.
there will be pressure all ard no doubt, but which relationship dont, its how u both face it.
i got frens who married n migrate to thailand with a thai wl, n some frens who r currently in relationship with hc gals. i do not look down on them, n told them if any of their fren look down on them, they r not worth the trouble. ur gal might get screw by several guys a day but wats the big deal. dun tell me all ur frens wife of gf nvr get screw b4 by others. only different is between feelings n work. wat matter most is she is faithful to u after marriage.

anyway, bottomline is
nvr get involve if married,
if unattached...........its up to u n ur partner.
dun bother abt ignorant ppl, who think their wife or gf nvr been f... b4.

[Horsepower]

wat i am going to say .........
Well said bro. Up you.

[jojoman]

:eek: Dear Brothers,

Has anyone had this experience before?

I'm in trouble, because I've recently bonked this HC gal and fallen for her.

Worst thing is, I'm married and although I sleep next to my wife, I can't help but think of the HC gal all these while...cham liao lah.

I've been to HCs countless times but never have I felt this way...her face, the image of us bonking, and her alluring demeanour, has captured my heart and has occupied my mind for the past two weeks.

Help! This is the only time I've bonked her so far! Friends who have tried her told me she's not too friendly towards them, but she's exceptionally nice to me, which surprised me...before I left, she even pulled me back into the room and asked when I'm going back again. She even asked me to go Malaysia with her during her off days....how, man? HOW???
u are not alone in this, i also have a 'crash' with a girl from KTV...
although i have bonk her, i dun know why, u jsut keep thinking of her, i think is a inflatuation...hope fully it go away soon....
when i think back she is not pretty....
how come this kind of thing happen to me

[full of crap]

Brothers...
Come on... think rationally... it's lust... not love... would you give up your life for this girl...?
If you guys are friends... ok, that's fine... take her up as a fuck buddy... but how long can a relationship with this type of girl last...?

Seriously... use your brains... not your dick... thinking about having sex with her is not love... that's you getting turn on... getting horny... not falling in love...

It's just a fuck... thrust me... I know what I am talking about... at the end of the day, it will cost you... not only money, but a lot of other things in your life if you mess around with this shit...

Remember... it's just a fuck, a good screw, a bang of a time, a romp in the sack.... what ever you call it... it's not love...

[cactusrose]

hi bro,
my advice is don't fall in love with hc girl since you are married ; bonk them as much as you want and that's it.... if you single tt is another story...

after one session you can fall for her ?... more likely its just physical for you .. dont be taken in just bec she almost let you do it raw ... don't do it raw ... the chances of getting aids is high... don't regret later bro ... i am no square .... i bonk gasl all the time ...but take physical n emotional precautions....cactusrose.

[Da Ming]

my advice is don't fall in love with hc girl since you are married ; bonk them as much as you want and that's it.... if you single tt is another story...



Not only HC girl. WLs and FLs also included

Someone with a right minds will not get involve with any of those
mentioned above. Social stigma and stereotype

Gals working in the flesh trade know that too ;)

[jojoman]

Not only HC girl. WLs and FLs also included

Someone with a right minds will not get involve with any of those
mentioned above. Social stigma and stereotype

Gals working in the flesh trade know that too ;)

u r right.i let myself fall into a trap unknowingly,will eb carefull next time
fuck and forget

[tanterry]

The HC gals I know are all very rich. Certainly, I feel safer to be with them than with wls in ktv. Somemore the kamcheng only last 45 minutes each time :p

[ang076]

That is correct , HC gals are rich because they make money from all of us and suffer the pain , but money goes to payment of hospital bills of their beloved, and debt incurred..

Going to HC is safer than KTV, because some KTV gals will make you drunk, and run away with your $$$$$$..

Maybe, some KTV gals had some enimity with you but you dont know, when you are drunk, you cannot tell whether they put on condom on you or not..
:eek:

[NotByChoice]

I tried to stop myself from coming back here...but I just can't handle this.

I met up with her over the weekend and altho we didn't have sex, the feelings I have for her seem to be getting stronger. She was really nice to me, paying for everything even though I can well afford to pay. She knows that my resources are limited and her kindness is making me crazy!!!!

There doesn't seem to be an ending....I now realize that bros here suffer from the same fate. A generous and big-hearted bro even gave me his number in a PM to offer me his advice over a kopi session.

To all those who care, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!

She doesn't want me to pay to visit her, which I intend to do on Thursday...will probably bring her flowers...

Wish me luck, bros...and the strength to get over this

[Zack Tan]

Wah Bro. Notbychoice, you are serious leh. Ok we are all human being and have feelings. but remember we need to be sensible and practical about the affair of the heart more so with a WL. Don't be a bigger maroon and get yourself emotionally involve further as the end result is more people will get hurt. Maybe you should do what I did,i.e. go for a "cold turkey' treatment and lock yourself in the room! Bro. it's your call but do spare some thougths esp. for your family and wife. You should know what is best for all of them.
Cheers,

[Horsepower]

I tried to stop myself from coming back here...but I just can't handle this.......will probably bring her flowers...

Wish me luck, bros...and the strength to get over this
You trying to court her ? WL are human beings and can have true feelings too. Maybe she likes you. But as I have said earlier, can you handle your own feelings thinking she get screwed by every customer at the HC ?

[bakah]

If you are married stay true to ur wife!!!Screw around pray heaven close one eye.Sperm can give no problem but heart promised to wife let it stay with her.But if you single, then while we all say must be rational...but love is blind so if you think the risk is worth it,why not?The 'Robert' issue stands lah but so does the part on the fact they are still humans and have feelings and will also one day hope to settle down wat.Who knows maybe one will get lucky??In all fairness there are examples of such successful relationships and also got the bad examples too.See your 'zhao hua' lor

[SFLS]

I have been going out with this pretty KTV ger for a couple of months and can say we are very much in love. However, I realised that she is a mahjong lover and I hate mahjong.
After knowing me, she have since been playing more mahjong than to work giving excuses like not safe recently as she have info about raids going on. I therefore have to support her and her hobbie.

Last week, I have finally told her enough is enough, I can't support her anymore and I call it a quit. She is very angry with me but who give a damn about it. We can't possibly stay together as we are from different part of the world.

I have to thank the bros in this thread who have given so much advise. Thanks again bros.

[sadfa]

After knowing me, she have since been playing more mahjong than to work giving excuses like not safe recently as she have info about raids going on. I therefore have to support her and her hobbie.


bro,

so how much u pay her every month to support her aspirations 2 b a professional mahjong player?

[Castrol]

I have been going out with this pretty KTV ger for a couple of months and can say we are very much in love.

We can't possibly stay together as we are from different part of the world.
.

well, so much for "very much in love"... ;)

[MoonBlaze]

She doesn't want me to pay to visit her, which I intend to do on Thursday...will probably bring her flowers...Wish me luck, bros...and the strength to get over thisBro, need to give you this wake up call. Stop getting yourself deeper into this nonsense. Are you really going to carry on with her and forgo your family? There are tons of examples out there without happy endings. Heed my call....years later when you look back, you will not regret following what we had adviced. Dun ruin your family like this....it is not right.

[chikok]

The HC gals I know are all very rich. Certainly, I feel safer to be with them than with wls in ktv. Somemore the kamcheng only last 45 minutes each time :p


You are luckier then me.
For my case, before any "Gan Qing" can come up.
The WL says times up liao.... :D

[NotByChoice]

Bro, need to give you this wake up call. Stop getting yourself deeper into this nonsense. Are you really going to carry on with her and forgo your family? There are tons of examples out there without happy endings. Heed my call....years later when you look back, you will not regret following what we had adviced. Dun ruin your family like this....it is not right.

Bro MoonBlaze,

I know it's wrong and I could potentially be heading towards ruins...but I can't stop myself now...

Perhaps when the fact that she's still sleeping with other men sinks in, I'll wake up. But, at this moment, this has yet to affect me.

Thanks for your concern.

[airbrush]

It nice to fall in love. Take one step at a time. Have mutual and adult way of dealing with the situation. Be patience and manage it properly. There are many unsuccessful situations, but I believe there is also successful case.

Come on we are all adult. Every one has the rights to enjoy, fall in love, and having good sex and sex partner. Not say that we are marry and we cannot have good sex, what happen if you married partner is not good at sex, shall we live with it? As long as you can afford and be responsible for our family.

Deal with it with full understanding, responsibility and agreement. My sex partner which I fall in love understand my situation and we do keep it very discreet. Until todate, we still miss each other like lover.

I not encouraging you to go all out but to give my view and experiences.

Anyway wish you success.

[MoonBlaze]

Bro MoonBlaze,

I know it's wrong and I could potentially be heading towards ruins...but I can't stop myself now...

Perhaps when the fact that she's still sleeping with other men sinks in, I'll wake up. But, at this moment, this has yet to affect me.

Thanks for your concern.That is exact how some ppl get into ruin becasue they fail to wake up...they fall deeper. Some believe exclusiveness with WL but it does not exist. It is a matter of time when you cannot bear to see her serving other clients that you will want to "help" her to exit her current trade. The solution to her problem is money. I believe you are not exactly with tons of money to burn...so when it takes the toll on you. Your solution to that problem will be doing something silly, borrow from frens, credit company, banks. Some ppl at extreme, like a fren of money of mine resorted to cheating, forging of signature on cheques to get the money and landing himself in jail and lost his job that had been providing him a decent income. All because of a his love for his Thai WL Tirak

Making one feel "special" is what WL is good at so as to entice regular customer patronage. She did it successfully with you.... for now.
What i have to say is all this false illusion of being loved and in love isn't worth it. Tread with care....
The fact that you started this thread means that you were sensing that something is not right and you needed help. Working on that flow, heed the advice given by the bros here. You can't go wrong with this.

I had also linked the URL to Bro TheUnforgiven's post which hopefully can shed some light into your rather "love-struck-dizzy-hazy" (false illusion of being in love) situation.
The Tirak Problem (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=37419)
Good luck and tread with care....

[jungle boy]

... Perhaps when the fact that she's still sleeping with other men sinks in, I'll wake up. But, at this moment, this has yet to affect me...

bro notbychoice, at some point in time, i also thought i found a soulmate in a wl when she shared details about the first hc she worked at, how much she earned, her family, her siblings, what she does with other cheongsters, etc, etc, and she would even sms me saying she missed me and to look for her and whenever she went on leave. at the end of the day, they are also human, they also yearn for friendship and genuine concern but the buck stops there, we have to very clearly identify who they are, unfortunately, wls, so there are social ramifications attached to these relationships. it's even worse that you are already a family man, so you have to really dig deep into your conscience and not fall unnecessarily into such a situation beyond what it is now, my small advice...

[SFLS]

bro,

so how much u pay her every month to support her aspirations 2 b a professional mahjong player?
If she have been a professional mahjong player, than she would have dig into my pocket? The worse thing is that she lost 9 games out of 10!!!

[WicketKeeper]

U have to do what u have to do.Actually what would be more unfair, would not to do something about the feelings.The faster this is resolved the better :) Best of luck

[Plugger]

Bro MoonBlaze,

I know it's wrong and I could potentially be heading towards ruins...but I can't stop myself now...

Perhaps when the fact that she's still sleeping with other men sinks in, I'll wake up. But, at this moment, this has yet to affect me.

Thanks for your concern.

Bro NBC,

I know what you mean and how you feel....i am no expert but i went thru a couple of such relationships. At the end of the day, it still boils down to money and unless you got enuf to support her and bail her out from her current situation, it is going to be an uphill task. They do what they do primarily becos of money and if they can fall in luv along the way or have someone fall in luv with them, why not. Don't learn it the hard way brother, walk off before the stakes gets higher or else by then, it could be hard for you to pull out. You are not the 1st to experience such thing or the last either. Everyone no matter how strong we are will be put to the test because that is part and parcel of going to such places. But it is at such a time we need to use our head instead of the heart. May the force be with you.

__________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________ Play Hard, Live strong

[sadfa]

The worse thing is that she lost 9 games out of 10!!!

hahaha! sounds very familiar. other charbor i know, always tell me lose everytime. yet they still love to play so much.

[LengKia]

But if you single, then while we all say must be rational...but love is blind so if you think the risk is worth it,why not?The 'Robert' issue stands lah but so does the part on the fact they are still humans and have feelings and will also one day hope to settle down wat.Who knows maybe one will get lucky??In all fairness there are examples of such successful relationships and also got the bad examples too.See your 'zhao hua' lor

how to give the WLs chance after hearing bad comments and experiences
from so many cheongsters here...who would want to take risk.
Perhaps heaven is playing a joke with us....kind of punishment :o

[Optimus_Prime]

You trying to court her ? WL are human beings and can have true feelings too. Maybe she likes you. But as I have said earlier, can you handle your own feelings thinking she get screwed by every customer at the HC ?

Yeah... not many ppl can handle it... this is the No.1 Obstacle that anybody dating a WL must face... ppl might say u "wearing green hat" or "little white face"

and Bro Notbychoice... if u wanna COURT her... u better be prepared for the outcome if you do manage to "hook" her. If you not prepared or just thinking of playing the field... I suggest u just leave it as it is....

[Skylex]

how to give the WLs chance after hearing bad comments and experiences
from so many cheongsters here...who would want to take risk.
Perhaps heaven is playing a joke with us....kind of punishment :o
True bro, like what people always said, "Bu shi bu bao, er shi shi jian wei dao....." ( Retribtution ) :(

[damnhorny]

I went thru the same shit, but didn't divorce my wife, but managed to dump my lover completely.

My advice to you:
Stick with your wife.
Pros & all sex workers are strictly for fxcking only. Just fxck and then go home. Don't get emotionally involved, it will only waste your time, money & even worst, you will lose your friends & family members.
Not worth all the risk. And divorcing your wife (a good lady I presume, someone who is your soulmate, who is faithful to you) for a cheapo slut who fxcks anyone who pays her money (andeven if u marry her, what makes u think she'll remain faithful to u, u never know if she goes back to work in the sex industry part-time behind your back), is definitely the dumbest decision one can ever make. Divorce is an expensive affair.

I got out of my shit hole and so can u.
Just change your phone number and don't ever call or look for her ever again.

[nickhornz]

Hey bro, maybe i am much younger than you, but i HAVE BEEN in your situation before.

She was 21 i was slightly older then. I had a gf who loved me so much that i doubt there's a measurement for it. And instead of cherishing that, what did i do, i went and PAID a visit to this gal almost every week. She was generous enough not to charge for the special and all. She even paid for food when we went out. Let me into her house for the night when things were troubling at home. We were like lovers . It was CHEMISTRY. The moment i saw her, and she saw me.. we knew that "we were meant for each other"... or were we?

Well that just probably the question you are asking yourself. And if you DO analyze the replies here, you'd realise the percentage of bros asking you to drop the notion about feelings and love is an amazing 85%+++, added with GST plus ROAD TAX plus CAUSEWAY SURCHARGE plus plus plus. :) I hope you are getting what i mean.

You see sometimes feelings and emotions bring us somewhere, some place we can NEVER imagine. The feeling is so SHIOK, so wonderful, even better than sex itself. But then bro...think about the REPERCUSSIONS.

Imagine a friend from malaysia visits you, stays at your home and then brings gals home to screw everyday for the length of his visit. At the end when he leaves a happy man, what are the repercussions?

1. Your neighbours will wonder... what kind of man u are bringing women home although u are married..

2. xxxxxxxx
3.xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
4. and the list goes on.

Although you didnt do anything, imagine the gossip going round. Well on one side u can 'bo chap' it, but then again, it'll remain for years if u stay there. And this is the repercussion that YOUR friend left. NOT YOU!

So imagine now, what repercussions will be caused by these actions?

Bro i am not discouraging you. IN fact i am ENCOURAGING you. i am encouraging you to sit down and think. Take a piece of paper, and write down all the possible repercussions. Weigh the pros and cons. See for yourself what is best.

Keep the paper.

If your decision goes bad, look back at it and see what the other path could have taken you to.

If your decision goes sweet, frame it up, write a book. :) I'm sure it'll be titled ' My Happy Family'

Just a phrase for you to think about.

*The heart can make you dream............................................. ......

the brain makes sure you're in reality.*


Cheers bro, God bless.
I really hope u DO make a WISE decision.

[bakah]

*The heart can make you dream............................................. ......

the brain makes sure you're in reality.*


You see bro,after you take away the caffine,alcohol,nicotine and other mind affecting substances and leave the brain in its purest state,chances of it working and telling the heart to stop dreaming is still pretty low.Men can consider themselves lucky if the damn brain don't join in the dreaming :D

[machoman]

Ah...many married men like to play with fire and finally, get scorched by the flames of so-called "Kan Ching" with WLs. A lot of us assume that we can easily escape and some do, with only minor degrees of burns but others who are not so fortunate, get scarred permanently.

It's an extremely bitter lesson to be learned that "there is no such thing as a free lunch", especially with WLs. Yup, usually the men end up paying a much higher price in the end, not only in monetary terms but also emotionally and mentally.

[CPTMiller]

Meaningful and well said.


wat i am going to say might not be so nice to ears,
anyway, bottomline is
nvr get involve if married,
if unattached...........its up to u n ur partner.
dun bother abt ignorant ppl, who think their wife or gf nvr been f... b4.

[taurus75]

pls dun try this thing..it will hurts in the end.
most of them are very heartless in the end when things turn ugly...
bear in mind..this work brings them easy money..once u turn poor...problems will arise
same goes to ktv and WLs...
morever u r married ..so stop all this.

[LengKia]

True bro, like what people always said, "Bu shi bu bao, er shi shi jian wei dao....." ( Retribtution ) :(

have to be ruthless...sorry to say that


" Ming zhi shang you hu , pia yeow xiang shang xing"

peiseh english no good

The tiger is onto the hill , yet still insist on heading up

know the danger and consequences of falling in love with a WLs yet still die
die want to get entangle..human very funny always want to take the risk
is this what we called thrill?

sorry to the WLs....we have to think of ourselves otherwise we die until no eyes to see...chop until like carrot cake..one piece one piece :(

[Angel_Zen]

Hmm....look like there are alot of gd bros out there that share their views and even truth experience. Think it's best to learn from what they had experienced rather than through the hard way which will REALLY HURT.

We may sometime be blind when our emotion take over but I think that in your mind you should know that it will mostly be a dead end if you decide to carry on ....

Below is my analysis and hope that it will be good to you :

HC girl's Goal : To make as many as $$$ as possible through this line.
Reasons : They are materialistic or they own other pple $$$ or their
family ..etc (If not, who will wanna be in this line ? High sex
desire :P

So your consideration,
1) Can you satisfied her needs... (can you give her the easy money she wanna to buy what she want, can you help her to pay her debt)
2) Can you accept that alot of man had bonk her and maybe 1 of them is your
gd friend or buddies
3) Can you ensure that she will not play you out in the end....because of
short term investment (her) you lost your long term (wife) ?

Cheong is a game, it's like acting, you need to differentiate between reality & virtual. When it's time to cut, you have to cut. Always respect the game you play or you might get hurt or even your love one ...

To have a long term relationship, is not just about passion and emotion....it's about caring,trusting & respecting each other that make it last ...

[airbrush]

Cheong is a game, it's like acting, you need to differentiate between reality & virtual. When it's time to cut, you have to cut. Always respect the game you play or you might get hurt or even your love one ...

To have a long term relationship, is not just about passion and emotion....it's about caring,trusting & respecting each other that make it last ...
xxx

Cheong is a game just like life is another kind of game....respect the rules of the game when end the game is a art. Like what brother says "It's like acting"

[megapenis]

For guys we screw any that come across, our gene is build that way. Many times husband went out to fool ard, but they dun bring emotion out, bcos they know that the person really cares is their wives, therefore play with yr dick not yr mind n soul.

[NotByChoice]

I took half day and went to see her just now, of course, without my wife's knowledge that I was on half-day.

We sat in the room and talked the entire hour or so...told her how I felt and she was very very nice to me...held my hand and told me that she just enjoys my company and wants nothing else.

This is all I can update...will probably be in this for quite some time, so if there are any changes I will let you guys know. Till then, please take care and thanks again!

P.S. I think it is pretty harmless if we maintain our relationship this way. It is "healthier" and we both get what we want and lack.

[LengKia]

I took half day and went to see her just now, of course, without my wife's knowledge that I was on half-day.

We sat in the room and talked the entire hour or so...told her how I felt and she was very very nice to me...held my hand and told me that she just enjoys my company and wants nothing else.

This is all I can update...will probably be in this for quite some time, so if there are any changes I will let you guys know. Till then, please take care and thanks again!

P.S. I think it is pretty harmless if we maintain our relationship this way. It is "healthier" and we both get what we want and lack.

really envy you but do you have to pay...small amount of +++en sum :)

[taurus75]

I took half day and went to see her just now, of course, without my wife's knowledge that I was on half-day.

We sat in the room and talked the entire hour or so...told her how I felt and she was very very nice to me...held my hand and told me that she just enjoys my company and wants nothing else.

This is all I can update...will probably be in this for quite some time, so if there are any changes I will let you guys know. Till then, please take care and thanks again!

P.S. I think it is pretty harmless if we maintain our relationship this way. It is "healthier" and we both get what we want and lack.


yah correct brudder...wat if one of those days some brudders here go visit her and give her a good fuck too? will u mind? if no.., give her name and her HC... now u understand..? not every man can tahan his own loved one doing KTV, WL or FL or even HC gal..ok for now..u dun mind..but as time goes by..love deepens..things happen!
she will start to say u dun trust her this and that...
to summarize brudder...pls let go now when it's early. i been thru there, and i can tell u ..till now the feeling stills sucks!!!

[bakah]

Getting too involved with them is trouble.As i say this i am slapping myself cause currently I am involved with one.But I am single and dun earn much so no major issue for me.Worse to worse heart pain followed by a period of feeling stupid :D Anyway I've come to realise that if you treat them too nice during your sessions you got problem too if they start to like you.My situation is as follows.I'm involved more than I should with PRC A (HC/KTV) and told her she is the one vice versa got do bf/gf stuff,skip work etc to spend time with me,really dunno what came over me reagrding this one,calls me everyday from china now and vice versa(very very danger but you think my brain will listen???!!)PRC B (Street walker) calls me from time to time when she was here,tell me 'xin shi' etc..sometime say miss me tell me visit her and get free FJ,i stress sometimes only hor other times L L must pay,back in china still call me form time to time sms etc,think she got feeling for me but never make any verbal commitment,had tell her sorry cause i got PRC A, poor girl was really disappointed(danger!!) Malaysia A (HC) calls from time to time also when she on duty here and when she is home in JB.she goes home daily that type,got hint to me but i act blur(danger!!) Phillipine A calls me from Cebu almost daily but 80% of the time I dun answer and when I do I sound sian sian act busybut she does'nt get the hint (very danger!!) I'm assuming that for them to call you from their hometowns it actuallys means something.Honestly whenever i visit them i dress lok kok lok kok wan and tell them my REAL pay figure which is fairly low,intention is to send out the message that i am no 'golden tortise' if they want to settle down with someone they have much better choices.If they are shooting for a PR no real reason to pick me also cause i also got tell them i work for 'gamen' want to marry them very difficult due security blah blah blah.I mean if i were them i won't pick me cause pay low and get married difficult might as well go for a richer 'robert' in private sector.Unless they stupid lah but 90% of WL on the other hand are smart!Maybe i heng heng kanna the stupid ones lolx.Suggestion is treat the WLs good,by good i mean friendly etc...but not too good cause they may actually like or pretend to like you then your heart will get tempted.I think i made a good example rite?

[LengKia]

Unless they stupid lah but 90% of WL on the other hand are smart!Maybe i heng heng kanna the stupid ones lolx.Suggestion is treat the WLs good,by good i mean friendly etc...but not too good cause they may actually like or pretend to like you then your heart will get tempted.I think i made a good example rite?

Strongly agreed with you and timely advice given. Seem like emotional feelings always get the better of us..very hard to control Notice most of WLs will pretend to like you...haha say maybe 90% of them as you mentioned 90% of WLs are smart...by faking to love someone is not difficult to them. Also get involved with one WL presently and trying my best to stop this nosense...life will be in a mess if things get out of hands. Men's heart are soft and weak ....how to overcome this.. :( trying my very best to forget

[LengKia]

[QUOTE=bakah].Honestly whenever i visit them i dress lok kok lok kok wan and tell them my REAL pay figure which is fairly low,intention is to send out the message that i am no 'golden tortise' if they want to settle down with someone they have much better choices.QUOTE]

good move...lay the cards on the table. Make it clear with the WLs
good for both parties before proceed further on the relationship.
Never let them know you are rich...sure die.Think i have to be realistic and move on. Heaven give chances to everybody but it is up to us to decide our fate. :)

[Infiniti]

Strongly agreed with you and timely advice given. Seem like emotional feelings always get the better of us..very hard to control Notice most of WLs will pretend to like you...haha say maybe 90% of them as you mentioned 90% of WLs are smart...by faking to love someone is not difficult to them. Also get involved with one WL presently and trying my best to stop this nosense...life will be in a mess if things get out of hands. Men's heart are soft and weak ....how to overcome this.. :( trying my very best to forget

Its their job and they have to give you that GFE feeling so that you will go back to them instead of looking elsewhere ... we will become their "long term investment plan" ... haha. I got into a fix once when I started to cheong KTV 2 years ago. Started buying her gifts, called her almost everyday and met up every week. After that was caught one day by my GF when I arranged to meet her in private and caused a big hoo har (lucky she forgave me, or else I would have regretted). Come to think of it, its the GFE feeling ... it makes up for the lost feeling between me and my GF (been together for 7 years then), and that is why I fell deep.

After this incident, everything changed and now I cheong with my body and not my soul. So just enjoy the GFE feeling which makes up what is lost deep inside you for that session only and forget about it once you are out. As mentioned by other bros, just by thinking "beloved" WL doing the same thing or worse with other guys out there will be almost unbearable ... unless she quit her job ... and that is if you are rich enough to get her out.

Anyway, I just got to know another Singapore WL with great GFE feeling and kept having that lingering feeling every now and then, so I better not say too much for now ... haha ... :D

[sg_boytoy]

I saw Chanel from Premier kissing a guy outside Pacific Plaza last night around 10+pm, wondering if it's a samster here? ke ke ke :D

[NotByChoice]

I saw Chanel from Premier kissing a guy outside Pacific Plaza last night around 10+pm, wondering if it's a samster here? ke ke ke :D

Bro SG_boytoy,

Are you insinuating it's me? That guy handsome or not?

I've never visited Premier and, quite naturally, I do not know anyone there.

And I believe Chanel is quite hot there, so why should she be involved with me?

[jungle boy]

I saw Chanel from Premier kissing a guy outside Pacific Plaza last night around 10+pm, wondering if it's a samster here? ke ke ke :D

who saw me??!! :p

[Optimus_Prime]

I saw Chanel from Premier kissing a guy outside Pacific Plaza last night around 10+pm, wondering if it's a samster here? ke ke ke
who saw me??!!

Huh ?? I thot I was pretty careful not to let anybody catch me SMOOCHING Premier... :p

Bro Jungle boy.... I saw u too... you just a few corners down smooching SHERINE mah !! Heheheh :p

[Doenitz79]

Damm,I am starting to feel for this HC gal,I think I must stop the urge to visit her.

I am unattached by the way.

[jungle boy]

Damm,I am starting to feel for this HC gal,I think I must stop the urge to visit her.

I am unattached by the way.

another chanel fan in the making? any fr on her? share share leh... :p