Help on my FL addiction

[sherny]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

[dragonwong]

Wow sound like you are the FL! Just joking...
Sex is addictive. What to do? Find some other distraction loh. . Or you need to have one horrible fl before you can stop...

[queenman]

ts maybe u r young and just find this playground, just continue to play ...

But also remember to have safe sex, and earn more $$ to support it :D

[sherny]

I wish i am the FL! haha. Spent over $1300. and planning for another FL tmr.

[whatever123]

Read about STD

[tcca85]

its an addiction... you got to limit yourself...like setting aside an amount to spend per month just for that.... i mean thats what i do.

[OlympusHour]

ts you got to watch out. sex is fun but than it is not worth it when you realize at the end of the day you are penniless or waiting for your salary to come in at the end of the month.

like what other bro mention. limit yourself maybe to once a week or once every fortnight.

[beaverlover]

Wank off more at home... Find a gf. Go to church, temple or mosque... Seek enlightenment and repent... If not, keep going until you're broke or in hospital... :D

[Absolute]

Na, I have my fun about 5 times a week and I don't see how it has affected my life in my negative way. You feel good and your partners feel good so you are not hurting anybody.

Of course you must be able to financially afford your pleasure-seeking activities without hurting yourself or anyone else. I have been enjoying this lifestyle for about 15 years and have no regrets.

Pamper yourself after a hard day's work and take life more easily. Why get so stress up after spending money on your fun and start feeling guilty and sinful?

If such negative feeling crops up, then it is an addiction.

Relax.

I am in my forties and is still happily single.

[huhu123]

put yr money with me can liao...once u no money cant find FL liao hehehehe joking lah

After a while u be bored of it maybe.

[ah rat]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

That why I told not to try.U will get addicted :)
If u got urge to look for FL, pcc it out,once out u will not go for FL :D

[iFuck]

I never had this problem. Maybe other member can help you.
I would say, can't control the urge, control your feeling.
No need to fall in love or have feeling with them.

Just fuck , pay and move on. Practice safe sex.

[sherny]

its an addiction... you got to limit yourself...like setting aside an amount to spend per month just for that.... i mean thats what i do.

How much do u set each month? Do u set by a percentage of your salary?

[sherny]

Na, I have my fun about 5 times a week and I don't see how it has affected my life in my negative way. You feel good and your partners feel good so you are not hurting anybody.

Of course you must be able to financially afford your pleasure-seeking activities without hurting yourself or anyone else. I have been enjoying this lifestyle for about 15 years and have no regrets.

Pamper yourself after a hard day's work and take life more easily. Why get so stress up after spending money on your fun and start feeling guilty and sinful?

If such negative feeling crops up, then it is an addiction.

Relax.

I am in my forties and is still happily single.
Wow! Your must be high earners! How much u put aside each month on fl?

[sherny]

That why I told not to try.U will get addicted :)
If u got urge to look for FL, pcc it out,once out u will not go for FL :D

You are so 110% right! Haha. What's ppc?

[sherny]

I never had this problem. Maybe other member can help you.
I would say, can't control the urge, control your feeling.
No need to fall in love or have feeling with them.

Just fuck , pay and move on. Practice safe sex.

I never have feeling for any of them. Haven't RTF anyone of them yet. I like trying different girls. I go to this fl website and there got so many nice fl that I feel like trying all of them one by one. The website really offered pretty PRC girls that look at least 80% close to the photos and the service are top notch. I hope to try all of them and stop. But then recently the website added more new hot girls and makes me itchy for them.

[Dunhill_11]

Meet a few lousy ones and you don't feel worth the money and feel lousy after that. You will stop. :D

[iFuck]

[QUOTE=sherny;9891459........ I hope to try all of them and stop. [/QUOTE]

Spotted a power quote.
Hello,
What made you think you can try all of them. You got the $$$, you got that amount of sperm to shoot. They come wave after wave.

[poipoi_81]

I never have feeling for any of them. Haven't RTF anyone of them yet. I like trying different girls. I go to this fl website and there got so many nice fl that I feel like trying all of them one by one. The website really offered pretty PRC girls that look at least 80% close to the photos and the service are top notch. I hope to try all of them and stop. But then recently the website added more new hot girls and makes me itchy for them.

download porn and pcc? think its healthier and economic that way

[comm]

If u want more time for ur money, go for legal house or can call those cheaper street walker

Usually i will suggest legal house but since ur spending out of control, i dun dare to suggest it unless u can afford

[equin0x69]

Put the money you plan to spend on the FL inside your pocket.

Whack off.

Put your hand back inside your pocket and voila!

Same feeling of release but the money is still there.

[ah rat]

You are so 110% right! Haha. What's ppc?

PCC: Pak Chew Cheng (Hokkien slang meaning masturbate)
:D

[tcca85]

How much do u set each month? Do u set by a percentage of your salary?
Say few hundreds maybe? You can do it by percentage of your salary.. as long as there is a limit. It's the same as gambling.. If there is a limit it's call gaming... If there's no limit it's call gambling.

[comm]

Legal house offer better quality girls, better service in general, 45mins to 1hour and health checks on the girl

Fl lose alot compared to legal house, 1st they like to chop ur time and rush u, 2nd their service is hit n miss, 3rd whatever type of girl u can find in fl, geylang has better

And most importantly, fl might have picked up std somewhere n keep on working

The only reason to find fl is if u live too far from geylang

[Blackrain]

TS， the FL, legal and all other sex scene is like a hobby/pastime/entertainment. You play according to what you want and can afford. You control the situation and not the other way round. Put aside what you want to spend on it and control your budget. It is like gambling... Some people bet whatever they have in their wallet and stop , some will go look for ah long.

If you feel that it is an addiction, something must have trigger this. Example you are running out of $$$? Heed this warning sign and plan your budget.

It is not an addiction as long as you can afford it and it is not causing any problem. if you can't stop even when you want to .....that is a problem ...

My two cents

[xxxaddict]

I never have feeling for any of them. Haven't RTF anyone of them yet. I like trying different girls. I go to this fl website and there got so many nice fl that I feel like trying all of them one by one. The website really offered pretty PRC girls that look at least 80% close to the photos and the service are top notch. I hope to try all of them and stop. But then recently the website added more new hot girls and makes me itchy for them.

you could move to china. then slowly work your way through the entire population. go straight to the source mate

[sherny]

you could move to china. then slowly work your way through the entire population. go straight to the source mate

HaHaHaHa... Funniest post :D

[sherny]

I'm setting aside $2000 per month then for this new found hobby.

[hardworking48]

Bro, I think you are quite young (20s-30s)? so your energy a lot and you don't have a gf and you are using FL to settle your urges.

1) To reduce your urge, stop looking at those FL websites.

2) Get a GF or FB and do it...much cheaper and definitely cleaner and healthier.

PCC only helps you reduce urge for couple of hours only and when you start thinking of them or looking at the FL sites, your urges will overcome you.

If you think of it, $2000 a month can actually buy you a nice car on instalment :D

[PassingbyJ]

Giro all your excess salary into a FD as soon as you receive, leaving you with just enough to survive for the month.
You will realise the saying of "no money no honey" is true

[sherny]

okok. I downsized my FL budget to $800. My fl dmg is $100 per session so that makes twice per week. Good enough already. haha.

[ah rat]

okok. I downsized my FL budget to $800. My fl dmg is $100 per session so that makes twice per week. Good enough already. haha.

Get 1 GF,if not PCC lah.Save money for bad weather :D

[sherny]

Get 1 GF,if not PCC lah.Save money for bad weather :D

Most GF won't do bbbj, or massage or those things that the fl can do. And GF will tie me down. With FL, I can go for different girls every week and no commitment. hehe.

[sherny]

Today just had my 11th FL. Her name is Mimi from Dragoncave.com. She makes me impossible to stop my addiction now. She's the prefect FL I have been looking for. I think I am in love! Now I am into another shit-hole. haha.

[ah rat]

Today just had my 11th FL. Her name is Mimi from Dragoncave.com. She makes me impossible to stop my addiction now. She's the prefect FL I have been looking for. I think I am in love! Now I am into another shit-hole. haha.

Any pixs sharing :p :D

[Greendevil]

Bro simple way to stop yr addiction. Just leave yr dick at hm everytime u go out.

[sherny]

Can I post my FR here? I post in the FL2 dome and it got drowned by all the okt threads.

[sammyboyfor]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

Please sign up for premium membership. You get $30 to $40 off each fuck so x10 means you save $300 to $400 per month minus your USD17.95 per month investment. :p

[ah rat]

Please sign up for premium membership. You get $30 to $40 off each fuck so x10 means you save $300 to $400 per month minus your USD17.95 per month investment. :p

Seem good for him.He can get the off $+$ to F**k :D

[inuzuka]

Maybe TS can try get a fb... once i get to know a sb from here and slowly KC her till we become fbs...:D For me, commercials bonk sometimes can be a hit or miss.. depend on your preference..if u dun mind the misses then good for u...
whatever you do, always practise safe sex

[glster]

wow thats too much unless u very well to do

[sherny]

Please sign up for premium membership. You get $30 to $40 off each fuck so x10 means you save $300 to $400 per month minus your USD17.95 per month investment. :p

Really? Wow! U should tell me earlier. Haha. But how does this works? I pay the money directly to the fl and tell her I got premium SBF membership so I have discount?

[SammyNewbie]

I feel trolled. I think the samsters are replying for fun.

[saabking]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

Go KC your chosen WL/FL..then BY her ..leave the forest for the tree..and quit the addiction once and for all ..LOL

[vdusty]

This is the truth, if you are single and have FL once before, you will continue to be addicted to FL. Just dun overspent.

The best way to get of this addiction is to get a GF.

[lausiong]

Getting a GF at this phase of your life may not work. Sorry to say this but for some "variety is the spice of life". it's like bonk 1-2x then look for a new one. Hopefully you will grow out of it or become "gelat"
However if you are in your 20s to early 30s may i suggest (as others have) 1.cap your spending / limit no. of times per wk
2. think long term e.g. for every $ spent on bonk put aside same for house/flat
3.you may be young but ammo also needs replenishing. Overuse can damage your "qi" not to mention possibility of std 'nuf said

[jemyt]

I never have feeling for any of them. Haven't RTF anyone of them yet. I like trying different girls. I go to this fl website and there got so many nice fl that I feel like trying all of them one by one. The website really offered pretty PRC girls that look at least 80% close to the photos and the service are top notch. I hope to try all of them and stop. But then recently the website added more new hot girls and makes me itchy for them.

TS.. which website you go to ah? want look see maybe try :o

[sane]

Book a FL overnight and fcuk till the rod goes limp, balls feel sore.

Try to exceed your personal best each time. Do it daily till u get phobia of sex and called it quit. ;)

[sane]

I feel trolled. I think the samsters are replying for fun.

U have every right not to read it :D

[ah rat]

Book a FL overnight and fcuk till the rod goes limp, balls feel sore.

Try to exceed your personal best each time. Do it daily till u get phobia of sex and called it quit. ;)

True or not,daily sex will get phobia of sex :D
Hear that u like to play balls :p

[sane]

True or not,daily sex will get phobia of sex :D
Hear that u like to play balls :p

Yup not play but squash it like playing base ball :D

[ah rat]

Yup not play but squash it like playing base ball :D

Ouch! Ouch!

[sherny]

TS.. which website you go to ah? want look see maybe try :o

Dragoncave01.com
Not all photos are u get what u see. I do have some disappointment as there are fl there looking older or fatter than photos but still same persons. But you can read the comments (FR) there to get some assurance.

[uniqueen]

Giro all your excess salary into a FD as soon as you receive, leaving you with just enough to survive for the month.
You will realise the saying of "no money no honey" is true

"no money no honey" universally true in modern days everywhere in the earth bro :D

[jemyt]

Dragoncave01.com
Not all photos are u get what u see. I do have some disappointment as there are fl there looking older or fatter than photos but still same persons. But you can read the comments (FR) there to get some assurance.

thanks a lot bro sherny ;)

[iron30]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

If you have a strong desire, i think no one can persuade u to reduce. Just let your circumstances slowly reduce ur involvement... like feeling bored or focus on different stuff.

I do feel in the long run, commercial sex (eg. FL) can be a little more mechanical and like some samster said, hit and miss kind. The feeling is just different from a normal r/s.

[DasQuick]

After had my first experience in FL one month ago, I couldn't stop. Now I had engaged 10 FL within last one month. I am addicted. How to stop my addiction?

Simple...u will stop when ur dough runs out.

[Summerhillt]

Nothing wrong with commercial sex lah.. if you can afford it why not? Helps to improve the economy in a socio way.

[porscheclub]

I never have feeling for any of them. Haven't RTF anyone of them yet. I like trying different girls. I go to this fl website and there got so many nice fl that I feel like trying all of them one by one. The website really offered pretty PRC girls that look at least 80% close to the photos and the service are top notch. I hope to try all of them and stop. But then recently the website added more new hot girls and makes me itchy for them.

Get a membership discount lor :D

It's ok, you just started only so still hot. Come back again after 6 months & let us know ok?

[MrStyleKing]

True or not,daily sex will get phobia of sex :D
Hear that u like to play balls :p

Actually will get sex addiction:D

[baconly]

haha....... interesting............

[MrStyleKing]

haha....... interesting............

I agree sis.. Makes for interesting read :)

[sherny]

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[SammyNewbie]

TS have been zapped for trolling and possibly advertising... LOL... it wasn't me XD.

[sherny]

TS have been zapped for trolling and possibly advertising... LOL... it wasn't me XD.

Haha! let them zap me. I don't bloody care!

[SammyNewbie]

这个人是假的，这个人是假的。>.<"

[xiaolong]

Getting a gf doesn't help in this instance lah... Multiple FBs may help... Once addicted to fcuking around without commitment having a steady relationship will mess things up further...

But wait... Seems like TS spinning some advert/promo from this addiction story?? :confused:

[sherny]

Recommending good FL kana zap. Commenting on bad FL also kana zap. Basically I learned the hard way is this forum cannot discuss on FL. Each to his own.

[MrStyleKing]

Recommending good FL kana zap. Commenting on bad FL also kana zap. Basically I learned the hard way is this forum cannot discuss on FL. Each to his own.

Because you're a stupid fool, 'lady'

[MrStyleKing]

good one queen man,add me pls

Heard you got HIV? How true is that????

[sherny]

with the 1300 u can find a sb already lol.
sorry sherny we are not each other cup :)

Just because I am bushy below? lol.
What's sb?
Can't sleep tgt still can be just friend right? :rolleyes:

[dragonwong]

Think about what you could have done with the money, think about std, think about aids. Think about the family, social and physical impact. Will this work?

[crood]

Spend more time with your family. :) Whenever u feel like doing it, think of your kids a wife waiting for u at home. Spend the $ on them instead.

[rhibs]

Since u r already spending the money, just enjoy the experiences and no point feeling guilty about it. In the beginning i had the same problem as you, feeling bad about myself for engaing FLs and it took me some time to finally understand that since i needed to fulfill my desires and the FL needed to earn the money, it was perfectly fine! We both get what we need and nobody is disadvantaged.

Instead i learnt to appreciate every woman i engaged (i especially like Milfs, haha) and after each session, make it a point to talk to the lady and be friends with her.

So chill bro and just go with the flow!:)

[wild_ren]

haha find more flings bro

[sherny]

Since u r already spending the money, just enjoy the experiences and no point feeling guilty about it. In the beginning i had the same problem as you, feeling bad about myself for engaing FLs and it took me some time to finally understand that since i needed to fulfill my desires and the FL needed to earn the money, it was perfectly fine! We both get what we need and nobody is disadvantaged.

Instead i learnt to appreciate every woman i engaged (i especially like Milfs, haha) and after each session, make it a point to talk to the lady and be friends with her.

So chill bro and just go with the flow!:)

Good points! Now I am trying to cut down to once per week only, but very difficult. I am still doing 3-4 times per week.

[fleabag]

:)Don't let it stop!happy bonking.:)

[ahmengmeng]

Hope I can control also. Just starting out nia. Haven try yet. Haha. Any advice? To walk down this path or Siam far far don't even get started?

[sherny]

Hope I can control also. Just starting out nia. Haven try yet. Haha. Any advice? To walk down this path or Siam far far don't even get started?

Don't get started and Siam far far away. Once start u can't stop. There's no such thing as just try once for curiosity. Like drug, once tried one time, it'll become a lifetime hobby till u're broke or kana caught by wife if u're married or kana STD/AIDS...

As if u'll listen to this advice. Haha.

[ahmengmeng]

Don't get started and Siam far far away. Once start u can't stop. There's no such thing as just try once for curiosity. Like drug, once tried one time, it'll become a lifetime hobby till u're broke or kana caught by wife if u're married or kana STD/AIDS...

As if u'll listen to this advice. Haha.

LOL! wah. scary 1st warning from bros. liddat i got 2nd doubt le. jialtt

[sduuu]

LOL! wah. scary 1st warning from bros. liddat i got 2nd doubt le. jialtt

Once you registered as a member of this forum, that's it already. You have already started.

Good luck and godspeed to you!

[nightren]

sad me me also same~~

[luvityoung]

Dragoncave01.com
Not all photos are u get what u see. I do have some disappointment as there are fl there looking older or fatter than photos but still same persons. But you can read the comments (FR) there to get some assurance.

Bro any recommendations? Porsche, Yuki, Eva, Coco, angel look good :)

[twilight13]

Good points! Now I am trying to cut down to once per week only, but very difficult. I am still doing 3-4 times per week.

I was in a similar situation like you when I just started out. The strange thing is I don't find sex so enjoyable but I keeps going back to them. :confused:

However, I am not as bad as your situation of 3-4 times per week. Mine is like 2 times per week initially. After 3 months, the fever died down and I only go occassionally.

First, try to limit your spending to a certain amount that you can afford this will help put a check on yourself and ensure that you don't overspend. It is a kind of restriction that you put yourself in to control yourself.

Usually most guys will slow down at some point of time after bonking for a while when the novety dies down. Maybe because you are still young and the hormones still raging that is why it will be like that.

In 3 months times if you still find the urge very strong and cannot stop, then I advise that you see a psychiatrist if it is going to wreck you life.

[sherny]

Bro any recommendations? Porsche, Yuki, Eva, Coco, angel look good :)

I haven't tried them. Be careful don't be taken in by photos. They can look different from real persons and u may not like it. I tried 8 girls from Dragoncave already, only 2 look close to photo (Tina, Carol), 2 are different but turns out prettier in real persons (Annie, Mimi), 3 are very different (but still resemble the photo) and I'm disappointed, and one is different and slightly disappointed with her look but perfect service and GFE feel that I hope to RTF (Gina-no more in DC).

[sherny]

After tried 15 FL in the last 5 weeks (I never had FL before that) and spending close to $2000 including taxi fares, I really must stop before I destroy myself. I never RTF any of them cos i keep wanting to try new pretty FL.
I think I'll look for psychiatrist to help me stop my addiction and doctor to check for STD. Gosh! There's still a list of FL I'm burning inside wanting to book them next week! And I still keep listening to Miley's song "we can't stop".

[twilight13]

After tried 15 FL in the last 5 weeks (I never had FL before that) and spending close to $2000 including taxi fares, I really must stop before I destroy myself. I never RTF any of them cos i keep wanting to try new pretty FL.
I think I'll look for psychiatrist to help me stop my addiction and doctor to check for STD. Gosh! There's still a list of FL I'm burning inside wanting to book them next week! And I still keep listening to Miley's song "we can't stop".

I think one month is still too early to say that you will be hooked so badly unless you have cleared your whatever savings or spare cash and getting you into a financial crisis or affecting your work badly. Try to control yourself and check if you are still have this issue 2 months after your first bonk.

Actually, quite a number of my friends were like you when they first started to cheong, especially first timer and with no gfs or wives. So don't worry too much as this is normal. It is like when you break the dyke, the water just rush in non stop in the begining because the sensation is too much to handle. This is the same as those who have zero interference and free access to internet porn initially. They keep thinking of porn and some surf porn while working.

In fact, most of the bros here are also hooked to WL/FL and that is why all the discussion in SBF. Look, many have cheong for years and are still doing it! It is just that we must know how to exercise self control and not to be too excessive.

When all avenue of trying to rein in yourself excessively on FL fails, then you can consider the psychiatrist.

[luvityoung]

I haven't tried them. Be careful don't be taken in by photos. They can look different from real persons and u may not like it. I tried 8 girls from Dragoncave already, only 2 look close to photo (Tina, Carol), 2 are different but turns out prettier in real persons (Annie, Mimi), 3 are very different (but still resemble the photo) and I'm disappointed, and one is different and slightly disappointed with her look but perfect service and GFE feel that I hope to RTF (Gina-no more in DC).

Thanks for the reply bro. Interested to try Tina after reading all the positive FRs. But am apprehensive about the location as my last PRC experience was pretty bad cos it was some dirty, dark shophouse in G area and the hygiene & living conditions there quite bad. Is it like that for her location?

[sherny]

Thanks for the reply bro. Interested to try Tina after reading all the positive FRs. But am apprehensive about the location as my last PRC experience was pretty bad cos it was some dirty, dark shophouse in G area and the hygiene & living conditions there quite bad. Is it like that for her location?

Her location is very residential, with shophouses in front. There got indian food stall and chicken rice restaurant. Both food very nice. Each time I went there for FL I will have my lunch/dinner/supper there. It is very very far away from Geylang. I am thinking of buying a property there, maybe the house just next to Tina's, so that very convenient. haha.

[handsomeboy888]

Do sports!

[kim-seng-heng]

You will stop once you see your good friends or love ones kena STDs or HIV...Your small brain cant even erect..

[SeniSeis]

look at those rotten kkj pictures.. then maybe ur bro will not be able to stand liao