Find prostitutes = loser?

[Beasty]

Anyone thinks finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour? It's like paying for someone to love you.

[dmc80]

Don get it wrong
U don pay for the love
U pay for the service that's all.

[chowchowkeith]

Don get it wrong
U don pay for the love
U pay for the service that's all.

its more like paying for different experience
better than jerking off in the toilet.
if you eat rice everyday, you will still want to try noodle now and then.

no offence but i dont think everyone can afford to purchase the service.

[Tai_zi21]

Then in our small country there are sure alot of losers around

From school principal to successful biz man not to forget our government sector top management! :D

[crood]

Anyone thinks finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour? It's like paying for someone to love you.

U should post this qns in motherhood forums instead, what ans u want to post, post in whatever forums.

come sex forum and ask this, 2 words for u - Khiam kan :cool:

[bigbrudder]

KNN ... are you one of those who post that you are tall and handsome and have screwed many gals.

[singleman]

Anyone thinks finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour? It's like paying for someone to love you.

hi TS, so do u think that finding pro is a loser behaviour? if so, then wad is the logic behind that make u think finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour.

u mention finding pro to relieve urge, then u said paying someone to love you.. these are 2 different things.. even though when the pro said "oh darling, I love u".. that is not REAL love.. wad the pro mean is "oh darling, I love ur money":D love cannot be buy or sell of... finding pro is purely for the sake of relieving our urge.

if finding pro is a loser behaviour then I hv been a loser for 20 yrs le.. :D I dun care wadever other pple said.. I dun think I am a loser by finding pro.. I pay for it and I get wad I wan and she get wad she wan. So is a win-win situation, where got lose? :D

[wolflust]

Paying for pros is like paying for a service. You need a service, they provide a service and you pay for it. That's all to it.

[Sirrus]

find me a wife/gf that doesnt need a single cent to upkeep.

that includes transport/petrol fee to meet up.

everything cost money except death.

[Beasty]

I'm not those pure and holy who have not find a single prostitute before in their life and come here tell people to repent. I'm just interested to know about what fellow bros think about our kind of lifestyle.

I'm sure many of you have friends who do not know your secret hobbies. Yes, some of you have strong reasons to say that finding prostitutes is nothing wrong. But the question is, are you proud of your lifestyle?

For me, i think finding prostitutes is a very practical way to get physical satisfaction. It is less time consuming and emotionally draining than courting a gal. But i guess it will be hard for anyone around me to understand my lifestyle.

Some of you says the love is fake. But how do you explain gfe?

[sadfa]

Haha. Crood is right.

Ask at some woman, motherhood forum and see what they say
Bet its overwhelming loser loser.

If guy is married, they will say he is scumbag and loser and liar and betrayer etc.

Even if its the wife who refuse to have sex. They will say husband muz 'respect' her body and be celibate with her as long as it takes!

[Tai_zi21]

Haha. Crood is right.

Ask at some woman, motherhood forum and see what they say
Bet its overwhelming loser loser.

If guy is married, they will say he is scumbag and loser and liar and betrayer etc.

Even if its the wife who refuse to have sex. They will say husband muz 'respect' her body and be celibate with her as long as it takes!

Haha thread starter think u go this forum suit u better

Www.flowerpod.com.sg

[RacingRed]

find me a wife/gf that doesnt need a single cent to upkeep.

that includes transport/petrol fee to meet up.

everything cost money except death.

Dead people also need to pay for funeral services.

[sadfa]

The fact is there's so much commercial sex in geylang n HC and KTV and all other places going on every day. I think in 1 month, will be literally high 5 figures. Like 10,000 plus and more DIFFERENT guys. And historically, can be 6 figures.

Unless spore women think these men are ALL foreigners, which is not possible.
There are many losers in Spore lor.

Juz like women who have sex with other men than bf or husbands are sluts.
There muz be thousands of sluts in spore too!

[bombshell]

Loser is one who fuck the girl w/o paying for her services. We pay & fuck plus contribute to economy growth...& we dun ta bao home. leave everything at the street level.:D

[Sirrus]

Dead people also need to pay for funeral services.

sad eh....

[HCKing]

Anyone thinks finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour? It's like paying for someone to love you.

no leh, loser actually belongs to one who believes that finding prostitutes means paying for them to love him.:D

[p00t]

death is free? not in SG :)

find me a wife/gf that doesnt need a single cent to upkeep.

that includes transport/petrol fee to meet up.

everything cost money except death.

[xxxaddict]

prostitute will never love you, no matter how much you pay them.

you should bear in mind that whenever you go to bed with a prostitute, there will be 3 people in bed at all times.

you, the prostitute, and yusoff ishak.

[lixiao17]

prostitute will never love you, no matter how much you pay them.

you should bear in mind that whenever you go to bed with a prostitute, there will be 3 people in bed at all times.

you, the prostitute, and yusoff ishak.

Damn, I envy Yusoff Ishak :D

[xiaolong]

Haha... 3 people in bed is farni! I never thought of it this way...

On the other hand, I do get what the TS is saying... Paying for sex is probably frowned upon everywhere one can think of. Is it wrong? Possibly is in a moral sense.

Do men still pay to get our sexual urges relieved? Yes, we still do. Generally small head takes over and we give in and surrender our yusoff ishaks. Does that make all of us losers? I'd say morally skewed. Loser? Not sure...

Possibly deep in, none of us are proud of doing so. Would you declare to your boss/wife/gf/secondary school/poly/uni crush when donating blood together one day? But ya, Sammyboy is seriously the wrong site to discuss morals especially when it comes to sexual ones. :D If so, then all members in sammyboy are losers. Maybe happy ones.

[westendgirl]

i see prostitution as an outlet for ppl with needs. beside chickens, there r ducks also. so r women losers if they like duck rice?

in modern society, where there is dd there is supply. i reserve our judgement as different ppl has different nid.

[freezetheDB]

loser is those who fall for the KC trap

[jason_]

a massage lady who also does special services with me once told me "if you want to drink milk just drink outside your house, no need to bring the cow home." she means men have needs that cannot be fulfilled at home then just get satisfied outside and not carry the problem home. i guess paid sex satisfy some physical part that the men cannot get from his wife, like many wives do not do blowjob as they think it is dirty.

[sadfa]

so r women losers if they like duck rice?


According to typical spore women, yes. Women are losers too

[zeebji]

I'm not those pure and holy who have not find a single prostitute before in their life and come here tell people to repent. I'm just interested to know about what fellow bros think about our kind of lifestyle.



Dont pretend to be nice after anyhow making a sweeping statement.

Ronaldo a loser? Justin Bieber a loser? Silvio Berlusconi a loser? Howard Shaw a loser? Frank Ribery a loser?

[ahjohn888]

I think a wise man once said "KNN chee bye where got free one? Pay one time or pay installment only. In the end, also die die must pay."

When you visit a pro, always remember you are paying for pussy not for love.

[Botakhead]

Looking for love or for release, if you find D I Y too boring, find WL or FL.

Love dun cum from going to WL or FL, love you got to pay extra careful attention to one particular individual, you need to commit and meet demands.

If going to visit WL or FL = to losers, why is this trade been around for so many generations for over thousands of years? Would this world be full of losers?

[mcyeoh]

how about you....it is not the same thing of stating a loser if one is just right at you all te time

[sgjoey]

I'm not those pure and holy who have not find a single prostitute before in their life and come here tell people to repent. I'm just interested to know about what fellow bros think about our kind of lifestyle.

I'm sure many of you have friends who do not know your secret hobbies. Yes, some of you have strong reasons to say that finding prostitutes is nothing wrong. But the question is, are you proud of your lifestyle?

For me, i think finding prostitutes is a very practical way to get physical satisfaction. It is less time consuming and emotionally draining than courting a gal. But i guess it will be hard for anyone around me to understand my lifestyle.

Some of you says the love is fake. But how do you explain gfe?

I can empathise with this view. Most people will not want to reveal to the world that they love visiting sex workers because the conventional values of the world disapprove of paid sex.

On the other hand, most of us see paid sex as a simple economic transaction that doesn't hurt anyone (assuming willing seller-buyer scenario). However the pressure of conventional values is a heavy one, and we are left with feelings of shame and guilt -- which we should actually attempt to throw off because for most bros who visit sex workers, there is really nothing wrong with this practice. In fact, arguably, we are helping others to make a living.

Conventional values such as paid sex is wrong and for married bros, we need to stay faithful to our partners are nothing more than the values that have been instilled in our minds from young. They are not necessarily inherently moral or ethical in any way.

[KhunnTey]

going to paid sex = to relieve my sexual urges... that's all bro. Chill! :D

[iFuck]

Anyone thinks finding prostitutes to relieve urge is a loser behaviour? It's like paying for someone to love you.

You are naive. They only love your money.
Whether u love them or not is entirely up to u.

For me, is a supply n demand issue.
If u think it is a winner n loser issue is up to u.
How much you win or lose is none of my business.

[LovePotion]

By paying a prostitutes to have sex is not been a loser but a transaction.

The real loser, is someone who use money to buy a relationship. He knows his partner does not love him but his money.

However, he still keep her to accompany or ease his sexual desire.

This is what we call loser because he live in the world or denial.

[jaggabatta]

I will quote an old friend who loves contract relationships:

"I am merely hiring a contractor to meet some of needs. Part of that contract is to leave once the deeds have been done!"

Crude but funny as hell!

[coffeevan]

They don't love u, but they love your $$$$$.

[Beasty]

You are naive. They only love your money.
Whether u love them or not is entirely up to u.

For me, is a supply n demand issue.
If u think it is a winner n loser issue is up to u.
How much you win or lose is none of my business.

It is supply and demand issue. But the demand comes from not being able to get a gf to do it for you free. Isn't that an issue?

I just wonder how you guys can enjoy a prostitute's gfe knowing that all those feelings are fake.

[UltraSeven]

I will quote an old friend who loves contract relationships:

"I am merely hiring a contractor to meet some of needs. Part of that contract is to leave once the deeds have been done!"

Crude but funny as hell!

you don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave. :D

[UltraSeven]

It is supply and demand issue. But the demand comes from not being able to get a gf to do it for you free. Isn't that an issue?

I just wonder how you guys can enjoy a prostitute's gfe knowing that all those feelings are fake.

It's the same as watching a movie. why will you enjoy a good movie when you know no matter how good it is, it is still fake?

[sgjoey]

It's the same as watching a movie. why will you enjoy a good movie when you know no matter how good it is, it is still fake?

The plain fact is that many people enjoy watching good movies even though they know these movies are unreal.

Only obvious to those who have tried it -- visiting sex workers can be an intensely thrilling experience.

[marclove]

It's just transactional.. U have needs, they provide a service that meets your needs. That's all.. Nothing loser abt it.

[Botakhead]

In our fast paced and uptight society environment, we need sum kind of comforting, sum get it direct from family and friends, sum through gfe feel from WL / FL / FB / ONS etc.

End of the day, we will still be around to live for another day, whatever you do, never get "走火入魔“ can ler.

[Beasty]

Having said that gfe is fake, i do experience fl who really love to be fucked and wants to make her customer happy. That makes the deed feel less commercial.