What do Guys look for on the First Date?

[bubblebutt]

Hi boys! I'm a Sis doing Paid Dates (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17) (on the orgy/SB/SD forum).
Usually I ask my potential dates what expectations they have of the girl date on their first date. They usually reply with another question "What are your dos and don'ts on the date?"

So let's answer the Qn truthfully here boys!

[Ninja_Assassin]

Hi boys! I'm a Sis doing Paid Dates (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17) (on the orgy/SB/SD forum).
Usually I ask my potential dates what expectations they have of the girl date on their first date. They usually reply with another question "What are your do sand don'ts on the date?"

So let's answer the Qn truthfully here boys!

Let's be honest okay :D
Firstly must have an ok looking face.
Secondly at least a C cupper.
Thirdly have a proportionate body structure.
Fourthly and which is the most important point for me - does she swallow? :p

[mecurix86]

imho, i look for...ward to bed the chick. no offence, just my opinion. cheers bros!

[hardpoke]

i actually have a thread on first impression, but not many people replied there.. :o

personally, i go for the following (not in order, more as a whole):

1. boobs - i think 99% guys look at this.. no need to see flesh lar, but if your dressing shows your curves well enough, it does add massive points..

2. body - not slim, not fat, not average.. bro ninja_assassin used the right term - proportionate.. i've seen your picture in your thread, you no problem lar.. :p

3. your walking style - no need those cat walk kind, nor those seductive butt swing to extreme left and right.. just plain simple yet elegant way of walking is good enough.. some girls don't realise they walk very boorishly.. can be a major turn off.. :eek:

4. character - this is a trait that can be felt.. a bubbly and positive character can bring your date into the mood right away.. some people meet up with a "meh" face, the date tend to be jittery as the other person will wonder what to say or not to say..

5. face - no need those fiona fussi kind of face, just a clean and bright look carrying a sweet smile would suffice.. :)

the most important part of all, for me, is etiquette.. extremely important in fact.. however high score you get for the above mentioned, the date will be totally ruined with bad etiquette..

[bubblebutt]

some girls don't realise they walk very boorishly.. can be a major turn off.. :eek:



Omg what's a bo͝oriSH walk?

(So other than etiquette which u must see for yourself), how many ticks out of your 5 judging criteria does bubbles score?

[bomberbird]

Just my 2 cents if I were paying for a date, the minimum I would expect is at least holding hands or hugging like a normal clean couple. The reason I have been holding back from the recent date services available is because almost all have no touch policy. If that's the case I can just ask any female friend to watch movie or go massage with me right?

[sadfa]

Very obvious aint it?

The more the guy spends, in terms of money, time n effort, the more the girl should put out for the guy.

[bubblebutt]

Just my 2 cents if I were paying for a date, the minimum I would expect is at least holding hands or hugging like a normal clean couple. The reason I have been holding back from the recent date services available is because almost all have no touch policy. If that's the case I can just ask any female friend to watch movie or go massage with me right?

The no touch policy is for those student newbies copying my idea.

The reason I will never date u is because u asked me out & flew me aeroplane back in July. U told me to wait an hour while u get prepared & book the place. The least u can do is drop me a courtesy text saying u aren't coming instead of making me wait at the Novena train station for almost 2hours.

[2centsworth]

The reason I will never date u is because u asked me out & flew me aeroplane back in July. U told me to wait an hour while u get prepared & book the place. The least u can do is drop me a courtesy text saying u aren't coming instead of making me wait at the Novena train station for almost 2hours.

Wow. Time to pitch tent and eat pop corn. Are you sure the guy who flew you an airplane is him? :p

[maxsee]

If i need to pay for my date, she definitely has to be extremely beautiful and secondly she has to be very intelligence so that i won't get bored having a conversation with her....the rest is not important since i am not a touchy touchy person....:D:D:D

[bubblebutt]

If i need to pay for my date, she definitely has to be extremely beautiful and secondly she has to be very intelligence so that i won't get bored having a conversation with her....the rest is not important since i am not a touchy touchy person....:D:D:D

*intelligent

and thirdly, a spelling Nazi too?
Haha

[acidicavex]

Paid date only expectation behave like one....... I think most important feature. The lady must at least be able to conserve well... keep young client engage and keep them interested in the dating process. Isn't it that way so at least that person will RTF.Some guys are shy or dumbfold in nature. So I think if the gal is providing such service she should at least be a conservationalist. Of cause the no touch policy can be apply or not depend on both.
Frankly to some who point out the "no touch policy" would u be going all Spiderman on a normal 1st date with someone outside sbf??

[takashi2411]

1) Physical attraction - is very normal for us as we wont be dating someone who we not comfortable looking at, right? Not need super model like or FHM cover girls...just pleasant & sweet. Since I also not a handsome guy; it will be very pressure if my date is too good looking.

2) Attire & charisma - I have seen above avg looking gals/ladies just dont know how to dress to make them look good. They must learn from those Korean MTV.(Maybe they being lazy) Cover their flaws and present their strong point and make them attractive. Is really a plus point if my date have aura to attract me without saying any words.

3) Being smell good - I think this is the most easy criteria but putting a perfume which guys like it a lot depending which age range you dating could be challenging. So experience do help in this section. Personally, if my date puts on my favourite perfume - straight away score 25pts out of my this 4 criteria.

4) Chemistry - IF my date is death log like....means she not being comfortable/interested with me. Then I will know how to do and be the first to cut short the date so both of us wont feel bored dragging the whole session. So being able to "click" is very important to keep the whole date interesting and enjoyable. She gonna be proactive since myself not a very chatty person. Any moment of weird silence, she gonna break it and means she a good date partner. Not necessary always talk...would be tiring; maybe share some pic where she been travel to, short video clip found in facebook which interesting to watch together and create something to discuss.

[Johnbass]

The no touch policy is for those student newbies copying my idea.

The reason I will never date u is because u asked me out & flew me aeroplane back in July. U told me to wait an hour while u get prepared & book the place. The least u can do is drop me a courtesy text saying u aren't coming instead of making me wait at the Novena train station for almost 2hours.

OIC... So can touch lah... I mean those normal hold hands or hook arms thingy... *no sweaty palms*
Wah... Who so chek ark made u wait for 2 hrs?
I also won't wait for my wifey for that long...
:D

[tryherout]

Make up, dress up and wired up.

[bubblebutt]

Paid date only expectation behave like one....... I think most important feature. The lady must at least be able to conserve well... keep young client engage and keep them interested in the dating process. Isn't it that way so at least that person will RTF.Some guys are shy or dumbfold in nature. So I think if the gal is providing such service she should at least be a conservationalist. Of cause the no touch policy can be apply or not depend on both.
Frankly to some who point out the "no touch policy" would u be going all Spiderman on a normal 1st date with someone outside sbf??

No worries, Bubbles is a good conversationalist!
Yes, she is also a conservationist of our ailing environment too!

Haha. A cat woman latex outfit will be better than Spidey's!
But Bubbles rather be wrapped up in a bandage dress like this! (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17)

[bigbrudder]

Hi boys! I'm a Sis doing Paid Dates (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17) (on the orgy/SB/SD forum).
Usually I ask my potential dates what expectations they have of the girl date on their first date. They usually reply with another question "What are your dos and don'ts on the date?"

So let's answer the Qn truthfully here boys!

Hi Bubbles, interesting you should be starting this thread. It all depends on what sort of date, right? Is it:

1) A paid date;
2) Guy-Gal leading to a potential relationship; or
3) A casual get together.

Expectations vary depending on circumstances. Naturally if there is 'extrinsic benefits' (like how someone else put it), expectations will be higher.

[Johnbass]

No worries, Bubbles is a good conversationalist!
Yes, she is also a conservationist of our ailing environment too!

Provided the guy can pronounce "conversationalist"... Else a bit tough if different wavelength.
Maybe that's why most guys prefer more actions than talk?
Anyway, i guess there shld still be some demand for your dating services... But maybe less takers compared to the other services available.

:)

[bigbrudder]

Just my 2 cents if I were paying for a date, the minimum I would expect is at least holding hands or hugging like a normal clean couple. The reason I have been holding back from the recent date services available is because almost all have no touch policy. If that's the case I can just ask any female friend to watch movie or go massage with me right?

If I have to pay, will be in this camp too.

[bigbrudder]

Provided the guy can pronounce "conversationalist"... Else a bit tough if different wavelength.
Maybe that's why most guys prefer more actions than talk?
Anyway, i guess there shld still be some demand for your dating services... But maybe less takers compared to the other services available.

:)

As in all products services, need to push the right specs to the right people. No sense selling Ferrari to supermarket auntie.

[takashi2411]

I guess the title should be

"What do Guys look for on the First PAID Date?"

[bigbrudder]

Maybe you can have different persona for different client. Just a sugg ... 4 main categories of potential clients:

1) The bored;
2) The low esteem (need to practice to get real gf);
3) The matured; and
4) The rich asshole.

Not sure if you still ok with immature young ones.

The bored will need someone to organise interesting things to do and need interesting conversation.

The low esteem will need aunt agony / counselling ... and 'you are the best' type of dates.

The matured will need more subtle and intelligent conversations and dates.

The rich asshole ... better bring along things to defend yourself. :D:D

[acidicavex]

No worries, Bubbles is a good conversationalist!
Yes, she is also a conservationist of our ailing environment too!

Haha. A cat woman latex outfit will be better than Spidey's!
But Bubbles rather be wrapped up in a bandage dress like this! (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17)

Well that is a very nice dress to be wrapped in.... Anyway I guess men mentality as long as u are for hired n they are paying.... and if the photo is really u n wrap in that dress I guess they will become Spiderman naturally. Good luck in your biz.

[bubblebutt]

I guess the title should be

"What do Guys look for on the First PAID Date?"

Yes you are right! Too late to change title :(

So the context on this thread discussion is based on the uncommon paid date scene:

"Guys, say for example you are intrigued with Bubbles' paid date (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17) idea, what do u look expect on your First PAID Date? Be honest."

This is assuming u dun belong to the same camp as aeroplane pilot "Bomberbird".Ironically both can fly & like to fly kite.

[bubblebutt]

Well that is a very nice dress to be wrapped in.... Anyway I guess men mentality as long as u are for hired n they are paying.... and if the photo is really u n wrap in that dress I guess they will become Spiderman naturally. Good luck in your biz.

Depends on which Spidey they become.
I prefer James Franco's Goblin.
I guess I'm a more GND MJ Watson.

[Johnbass]

This paid date thingy is something similar from Japan's "Moé Date"?
Mainly targeting at Japanese nerds.
Think hard to pick up in SG.
:confused:

[ilikeoldchangke]

I look out for the tell tale signs that my date is going to be trouble. :D

红颜祸水

haha



Kidding.

I haven been on a date in a very long long long time.

[Johnbass]

All the piaking sexperts in sbf come out Liao.
:D

[acidicavex]

Depends on which Spidey they become.
I prefer James Franco's Goblin.
I guess I'm a more GND MJ Watson.

Wooo GND MJ Watson. That should sweep many goblins off their feet...........

[bigbrudder]

Want to do this professionally or seriously, also need to be mindful of the image. Take for example, restaurants that charges customers for water, customers' complaints being ignored, or messy disputes with customers ... all these will ultimately reflect badly on the institution / person.

I think, being generous, humble and forgiving is also a given. Beyond the initial impression (the first 15 minutes), the personality has to come through. Afterall, we are not talking about modelling where looks is everything, I think the fee is more for the charisma and personality, to a lesser extent looks and image.

[takashi2411]

Hi Bubblebutt,

Normally, guys who engaged your service would be those boring type of guys. Guys which dont have much female friends that can hang out with...or even very limited experience dating a girl. Sadly I'm one of them in this group.

If I engaged you as my dating partner; I would like

1) To have girlfriend experience - having the feeling being cared or you need to be shower by love. Even just meet for few minutes; holding hands / wrap your arm around his as if you need his protection. I believe touching is one of the most powerful form of communicating with each other. I dont mean those naughty ones....but I ever feel useful or boost of moral when a girl if paid to date take the first move to hold my hand or wrap arm around me. Remember, we are lonely guys....how often we got such feelings, right?

2)You become a good dating teacher - since on a date and doing things together; is good both parties contribute ideas and at the same time get to know each other better. SOMETIMES is good to have a leader. For example: Really turn off when the ladies have no ideas what to eat and dont want make the decision. Being gentlemen, surely we want our date partner comfortable so we will ask opinion and ask them make decision. Eat what? Is very headache question. Everyone have their own preferences. Moreover, boring guys are very simple about choosing food. Since you are more experience in dating; I would expect you lead and guide so can learn one or two things how to impress a girl based on the experience dating with you.

[Johnbass]

takashi2411, go for it... Share share DR later.
:D

[bubblebutt]

Takashi2411,

Write in to me!
Bubbles welcomes a change! I prefer Option #2 :)

#1 GFE is pre-requisite for all my dates!

[takashi2411]

takashi2411, go for it... Share share DR later.
:D

I would; if there is version 3.0.

[hardpoke]

Omg what's a bo͝oriSH walk?

(So other than etiquette which u must see for yourself), how many ticks out of your 5 judging criteria does bubbles score?

hmm.. boorish walk.. i dunno how to explain leh.. not exactly walking like a man, somewhat similar.. some walk like their legs very heavy, stamping with each step..

i dunno how to rate you wor.. i've never dated you before, so can't really tell your character and walking style.. picture only shows your figure and leg, no face.. cannot judge.. hehe.. and moreover, these criteria are mine, not necessarily what other bros are looking for.. so you can take it with a pinch of salt lar.. :p

[bigbrudder]

hmm.. boorish walk.. i dunno how to explain leh.. not exactly walking like a man, somewhat similar.. some walk like their legs very heavy, stamping with each step..

i dunno how to rate you wor.. i've never dated you before, so can't really tell your character and walking style.. picture only shows your figure and leg, no face.. cannot judge.. hehe.. and moreover, these criteria are mine, not necessarily what other bros are looking for.. so you can take it with a pinch of salt lar.. :p

Izzit macam girls who have ballet background ... ie. walk a bit like duck?

[hardpoke]

Izzit macam girls who have ballet background ... ie. walk a bit like duck?
haha.. no need ballet background lar.. actually this walking trait quite hard to explain, it becomes more like a fetish for me.. :o there is this walking style from ladies that really attracts me.. those simple yet elegant feel.. with their hands never hanging loosely by the side when they walk.. always held up half arm holding something, or folded behind clasping their palms together..

[bigbrudder]

haha.. no need ballet background lar.. actually this walking trait quite hard to explain, it becomes more like a fetish for me.. :o there is this walking style from ladies that really attracts me.. those simple yet elegant feel.. with their hands never hanging loosely by the side when they walk.. always held up half arm holding something, or folded behind clasping their palms together..

Wah! Must say you are quite particular about mannerism. For me, so long not walk around like 大山婆 ... good enough already. One pet peeve, some walk with hands that swing all over the place, like dislocated arms. :(

[bubblebutt]

Must be hard on you guys straddling between both threads!
Dun forget to keep your comments coming in on the official Bubbles' thread. (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=29)

[hunted]

It depends on the age band I guess. Just like guys, when u experienced more the criteria suprisingly becomes more towards inner attraction. As long as the girl knows her stenght and carries herself well, it will be a perfect date!

I would prefer one that is true and fun to be with. If she has chrisma it will be a plus.

[Beasty]

Since you charge a fee for it, minimum you can give in return is allow light petting. Obviously guys who approach you needs someone to love them. One hug by a gal beats ten compliments on a guy.

[bubblebutt]

Just 3 pages into this segment of the forum, Bubbles has received her first Fan Mail! He seems to like Bubbles' display of wit & dry humour. Too bad he doesn't believe in paid dates.

Other guys, what do you? Will u pay to date me?

[sadfa]

Just 3 pages into this segment of the forum, Bubbles has received her first Fan Mail! He seems to like Bubbles' display of wit & dry humour. Too bad he doesn't believe in paid dates.

Other guys, what do you? Will u pay to date me?

NO!

What qualities n attributes you possess that a man should pay for your company on top of paying for the meal? I bet you expect your transport 2 be paid too.

Your wit n dry humour is at best kindergarden level. And I doubt you can carry on a conversation on anything under the sun

[loneyheart]

As a service provider as a PAY DATE ...mean u get paid for kind of "Dream Girl " tat t guy wishes to date
So there no 1 size Fit All
Some like JC girl ... Some like OL ... Some like Sunshine girl ... Some like Sexy Bimbo .... Some like teacher .... etc ...etc ...etc

So u must b able to Cosplay ... dress like 1 ... be like 1 ... Act like 1 ....
Service Provider shall come out w package 1 ... 2... 3 .... to et t customers choose
Rather then ask ... What U Want ?? Sorry We dum Provided tat Service

Conversationalist does not mean u must b a good talker ... argue to win ... Q n A ... talk to kill time ... so do we need one ??
BEST TO BE .... Actress ... Observer ready to react to his best mood ... Body language ... Sign .... As most of t time guys ... especially shy shy guys ( I suppose only this group of guys wil go for pay date ;) ) do not like GF to talk too much ... keekee ... Be a sweet talker rather in need n praise or KC teh even if u need too ... haha

So $$$ dum come easy isnt it :p sorri just IMHO ... so r u ready ??

[loneyheart]

Sorri for just to b straight forward

Most of t bros here whom can or dare to post to u open ideas ... r mainly good or acceptable talkers ... most can get a date ( Not Pay Date ) if they do try or want

KTVs with mei mei butterflies ... Pubs or Clubbing ... HC or TN with or without extra svs ... GL ... FLS ..... etc
Above r our PAY DATE

So unless u can come out with better DEAL ... Sorri hope no hard feeling just true words IMHO

[bigbrudder]

I think some of the comments may be a bit harsh. For the older ones amongst us, we may know what we want and TS may not be what we are looking out for. Surely, there will be a niche she can carve out in the market.

TS's biggest challenge is to straddle between pure GF and KTV, and I think there is enough niche space. If there is intention to do the "mature" market, then will definitely need to read up a bit more and bring the conversation to a different level.

[bubblebutt]

NO!

What qualities n attributes you possess that a man should pay for your company on top of paying for the meal? I bet you expect your transport 2 be paidbtoo.

Your wit n dry humour is at best kindergarden level. And I doubt you can carry on a conversation on anything under the sun

Chillax. It's just a discussion thread.

Maybe u are lacking in real life date experience, so let me remind u how a gentleman (way past his kindergarten level) offers to pick up his date, flowers are optional, opens the door, pulls the chair (unless the waiter beats him to it), & offers to send her home.

A lady who possesses the right qualities & attributes doesn't have to expect or demand this, she is well-deserving of this (with the right date of course!)

[johnsm]

Its lunchtime and I think its time I made a quick comment. I am a fan of Bubbles and have been silently supporting.

Granted that this idea of paid dating is a little unorthodox. I think the guys are too demanding, especially true in this small country-state. She has also made it so clear that she is not looking to provide intimate services. However everyone is still trying their luck.

I do not fully agree with Bubbles on some of her thoughts too. However I believe guys should be gentlemanly on any date, paid or not. Give flowers, compliment her (After all, she spent the effort to dress up and make up for your benefit), open the doors, help with her seat etc. Many years ago, I once took off my shoes for a date, who was in high heels as she was slightly drunk and could not walk properly. That felt good to be honest and she was happy about it.

However, if I behave like a gentleman, the date will need to show the same etiquette. I know a couple of girls in England that used to attend lady training school, when they were younger. They were taught how to sit, walk and talk properly, how to present themselves, how to set the table etc. Everything a lady should know was taught. I remember one of them told me they have to learn to walk with a thick encyclopedia on their head. Haha.

After so much bullshit above, I look for the following in a paid first date in my perspective:
- Be decisive if he is not (When he is not sure where to bring you, dun second-guess his intentions and tell him where you want to go or do instead.)

- Act like a lady (Sit, talk and walk like one and not like a spoilt brat or
princess-type character)

- Ability to react to ad-hoc situations if he was taken by surprise (I had situations in the past, where I was spotted by a ex-girlfriend dining with a date. My ex-girlfriend decided to drop by, which surprised me but my date acted cool about it and impressed my ex-girlfriend.)

- Be Appreciative (I am not sure if this applies but I like my date to appreciate what I am doing. For example, offering to go dutch when I will not let her do so for sure. I like my date to appreciate and not take me for granted but be genuine about it.)

- A hug and a kiss (You are not obliged to do this, but I always think its nice to end the date with a kiss on the cheek if you enjoyed the date, or on the lips if you really like your date. I am not asking you to make-out, just a peck would make the guy's day followed by a nice genuine bear hug.)

Hope this helps! :)

[Johnbass]

Hi John, I'm John too. :D
I agree with the taken-by-surprise situations and kiss...
That's why not worth risking my life for a kiss.
:eek:


- Ability to react to ad-hoc situations if he was taken by surprise (I had situations in the past, where I was spotted by a ex-girlfriend dining with a date. My ex-girlfriend decided to drop by, which surprised me but my date acted cool about it and impressed my ex-girlfriend.)

- A hug and a kiss (You are not obliged to do this, but I always think its nice to end the date with a kiss on the cheek if you enjoyed the date, or on the lips if you really like your date. I am not asking you to make-out, just a peck would make the guy's day followed by a nice genuine bear hug.)

[bubblebutt]

Hi John, I'm John too. :D
I agree with the taken-by-surprise situations and kiss...
That's why not worth risking my life for a kiss.
:eek:

No worries John, u won't be getting any life-threatening kiss.
Cos bubbles would have popped by the time u make up ur mind.

[bubblebutt]

I wud rather prefer some smooching or kotc along the date. Gfe mah. If holding hands only that one normal.

Normal? I think other girls dun even offer such normal paid dates.

I dont pay to date. Simple. Not negative abt it but just my type. Paying for expenses during dates, yes. But not for gfe of 1 day. Sorry if im offending anyone here. I know Bubbles is tempting but I will skip and keep support here thru this thread. ^_^


Are u and Johnbass peas from the same pod? all talk no action.
He's free today cos he rejected me. Why not ask him out for a men date (I suggest a bubbly) feet spa to soak your humji.

[Johnbass]

Are u and Johnbass peas from the same pod? all talk no action.
He's free today cos he rejected me. Why not ask him out for a men date (I suggest a bubbly) feet spa to soak your humji.

I dunno y u sound angry.
Chill lah...
:)

[Tai_zi21]

No worries guys...

Bubble no 1 fan Gargar78 here will be here to console her later :D

[Johnbass]

To help clarify...
Bubble asked me what's humji... I said it is coward/cold feet...
So she took it out of context and typed "...feet spa to soak your humji"

I just checked online for better definition... Cos' it sounded a bit wrong.

http://www.sg-city.com/smf/index.php?topic=2321.0;wap2
HUMJI = no balls/coward

Cheers... Before gargar78 to the rescue.
:)

[bigbrudder]

Wah. So tension ah miss bubble. Cool down. U asked for honest replies and here I am giving u honest answer. And u are angry with me. Im stating what we guys really want. Money cant buy happiness. So if I dont have money to date you but fun loving time, isnt it happy for both party? :).

It is interesting to see how a supposedly discussion thread seem to degenerate to accusations and tension. :eek:

[Tai_zi21]

It is interesting to see how a supposedly discussion thread seem to degenerate to accusations and tension. :eek:

Never be honest with ur answer with gals! And nothing like this will happen! :p

[bigbrudder]

Never be honest with ur answer with gals! And nothing like this will happen! :p

You are so right! :D

[bubblebutt]

No la.. Not angry.

[ljdevil]

Possibly one thing that will make this meetup work, the very first baby step would be to have both parties going for the meetup willingly isn't it? However good a person's traits may be..however refined or eloquent either party would be expected to be, if neither party are willing to go/going for it half-heartedly for the meetup..paid or unpaid...it wouldn't matter much i guess? £5cents thoughts...

[sadfa]

Chillax. It's just a discussion thread.

Maybe u are lacking in real life date experience, so let me remind u how a gentleman (way past his kindergarten level) offers to pick up his date, flowers are optional, opens the door, pulls the chair (unless the waiter beats him to it), & offers to send her home.

A lady who possesses the right qualities & attributes doesn't have to expect or demand this, she is well-deserving of this (with the right date of course!)

Small girl come here 2 teach ppl fairytales.
Your perception of gentleman n dating is for kids n univ students.
They can even let you walk inside of the pavement, away from main road (OCS got teach wor) and open the car door for you.
BUT the question is will you put out?

Only golden cheespie spore Chinese gals think don't need 2 put out after dating the thousandth time n free load the guy cos guys muz pay for everything including Kruegar champagne cos the golden cheespie is worth it.

Even white gals after dating the nth time, if the guy don't make moves on her, she will think he's gay.

So what about you, what do you offer for tons of expensive French, Italian food and wine, if you don't put out? Your sparkling wit n personality? Can you carry on a proper conversation wif the guy on things he likes and current affairs?

[bubblebutt]

Only golden cheespie spore Chinese gals think don't need 2 put out after dating the thousandth time n free load the guy cos guys muz pay for everything including Kruegar champagne cos the golden cheespie is worth it.

So what about you, what do you offer for tons of expensive French, Italian food and wine, if you don't put out? Your sparkling wit n personality? Can you carry on a proper conversation wif the guy on things he likes and current affairs?

Sorry Bubbles' baseline is she doesn't put out. If u don't accept that, move on. Find the next thread to lash out on.

Ps. I'm lactose intolerant so no golden cheesepie for me
French tartare gives me the runs & I'm on a diet so no Italian carbs pls.
Champagne? A glass of bubbly will quench my parched throat after holding a convo on guys stuff and current affairs (minus politics & religion of course)

[Martian.C]

Just contributing my 2 cents here - the main thing is that there are certain expectations for paid dates which may not be present for usual dates.

For example, personally if I were to pay for a date, I'd expect a certain level of attractiveness. It might not be celebrity level, but at least on a level which I would otherwise not have been able to snag. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be very pretty - makeup, attention to dressing, mannerisms, having a relatively fit body all go towards physical attractiveness.

That being said, since you have a strict policy against putting out, then the expectation is that you must be able to engage me for the time spent together. This would probably mean attentiveness, reasonable intelligence, ability to converse on a number of topics and issues, and generally ensuring that the date was interesting.

Ultimately I'd expect that people are paying to have a good time with reasonably attractive company so if you have that covered you should be fine.

[bubblebutt]

Thanks for the solid advice. Definitely more than 2 cents worth!

[sadfa]

Haizz. Small girl come here want to make money, but cant explain how she is worth the money. And cant realise she has typical spore golden cheespie mentality like open hand n want money money money. And cant offer anything substantial for it. Except the 'fact' that she is 'worth' it!

Like many sellers on the internet, the more they talk, the more they expose themselves.

Golden cheespie mentality n very soon, the personal attacks will start.

[Tai_zi21]

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/singaporeseen/confession-of-the-day/confession-i-dont-believe-in-feminism-because-i-love-exploiting-men

Is this our dear TS? :D

[bubblebutt]

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/singaporeseen/confession-of-the-day/confession-i-dont-believe-in-feminism-because-i-love-exploiting-men

Is this our dear TS? :D

Quote: "All my guy friends often pamper me with free gifts and all my boyfriends willingly treat me on all our dates without expecting anything in return."

Wow. If I'm still in school, she would be the common enemy of us not so "pretty ravishing" girls.

None of my dates give me gifts. I don't bring them on shopping dates unless they want to. Since the date is already paid for, I'd let the date decide where to go /do /eat. No one brought me to kopitiam so far... I guess local guys still like to impress their dates.

[sadfa]

None of my dates give me gifts. I don't bring them on shopping dates unless they want to. Since the date is already paid for, I'd let the date decide where to go /do /eat. No one brought me to kopitiam so far... I guess local guys still like to impress their dates.

Ahem. Article is normal date. You talkin about paid dates.
Got difference

[bubblebutt]

Ahem. Article is normal date. You talkin about paid dates.
Got difference

Many thanks for pointing that out.

Where's the citizen journalist?
Come come, join mr Sadfa & stomp Bubbles. *Pun intended*

[sadfa]

From personal attacks 2 being the matyr.
Quite melodramatic

[bubblebutt]

Wow. Time to pitch tent and eat pop corn. Are you sure the guy who flew you an airplane is him? :p

Yup and this aeroplane flying Bomberbird has very creative date ideas...
Dig this out from my inbox archive:
http://img2.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/18773/18773992e13374baf3002763b1cdf0b0d5516dd8.jpg

[flowbow]

Thanks for the solid advice. Definitely more than 2 cents worth!

• Clearing your annual leave?
• Looking for alternatives to spend your bonus?
• Need a partner for your company D&D or relative's wedding?

Drop Bubbles (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=400181&page=17) a line!
Do you really have to start two threads on two different sections of the forum just to promote your services?

Just asking.

[bubblebutt]

Do you really have to start two threads on two different sections of the forum just to promote your services?

Just asking.

U are right. I got mixed up when posting. Have amended the above accordingly.

This thread is for discussion only.
Maybe it's cos of the TS :(, but some other dude's "Paid Dating A Trend" got more hits.

[HCKing]

U are right. I got mixed up when posting. Have amended the above accordingly.

This thread is for discussion only.
Maybe it's cos of the TS :(, but some other dude's "Paid Dating A Trend" got more hits.

paid dating is nvr a trend one lah just tat sg got too many busy guys with little social life plus many commitment so gotta use paid dates to at least spice up abit of their life. esp when dating sg girls and meeting their expectations are getting more and more siong than work.:p:D

[intelcore3]

*intelligent

and thirdly, a spelling Nazi too?
Haha

Yes, and why not be a grammar Nazi too?

I appreciate your coherency. Your wit ... not sarcasm? I am having fun reading it. It is hard to follow some of the interesting replies when it is long and the English mangled. Anyway I am a spelling and grammar hippy. I am putting an effort here.

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Paid Date ...

1) Come looking nice is the minimum. Smelling nice ...mmm... Slutty is out.
2) Above all, I love a great conversation. History, Politics, Sex, Money, Love, Lust, Music, "Make-Up Best Practices" and what do you think of Justin something... Anything ... but don't be boring.

[mattress]

Interesting thread, I gotta say.

I'm not sure about the rest of you, but personally, I find this paid date phenomenon rather fascinating. To be honest, I'm really not digging this whole idea of being in a paid date but I must say, I'm pretty amazed such a concept bubbled out (no pun intended). Look, I'm not singling out any particular individual nor judging anyone but I just would like to say, human socialisation has certainly gone a long way since the beginning of time.

Looking forward to more outputs from the community here! Good read!

[bubblebutt]

1) Come looking nice is the minimum. Smelling nice ...mmm... Slutty is out.
2) Above all, I love a great conversation. History, Politics, Sex, Money, Love, Lust, Music, "Make-Up Best Practices" and what do you think of Justin something... Anything ... but don't be boring.

Dun get me started on Justin Timberlake. I have a weakness for guys in Suit & Tie...


To be honest, I'm really not digging this whole idea of being in a paid date but I must say, I'm pretty amazed such a concept bubbled out (no pun intended).

Nice pun. Just dun pop my bubble!


Do you really have to start two threads on two different sections of the forum just to promote your services?

Just asking.

Thanks for the Zap.

[mattress]

Stay bubbly!

[Mephistophilus]

What there to look for on a first date? Expectation is such a killjoy. Just enjoy the companionship even if it is with a chimpanzee.

We only look for dates when we are lonely, so any companionship offered beats being alone.

Keep an open mind, anyone can be a hot date if both can contribute.

Anyway, this is my first post to test my account, looks like it is working if you are reading it.

[ljdevil]

Interesting thread, I gotta say.

I'm not sure about the rest of you, but personally, I find this paid date phenomenon rather fascinating. To be honest, I'm really not digging this whole idea of being in a paid date but I must say, I'm pretty amazed such a concept bubbled out (no pun intended). Look, I'm not singling out any particular individual nor judging anyone but I just would like to say, human socialisation has certainly gone a long way since the beginning of time.

Looking forward to more outputs from the community here! Good read!

This is damn true...i'm quite lost with regards to how, we, as singaporeans, communicate with one another nowadays. Perhaps its so called the "IN" thing now? Are we back to the days where matchmaking were pretty popular in the previous years...? Stone age much?

[bubblebutt]

Hope u have had a great X'mas.

Keep the discussion burning bright!