Is it wrong to lead her on?

[inkrubber98]

This is her first time in SG providing massage services. Afaik she don't even kiss or french other customers, only provide massage, bbbj and hj services. But of course I can never know the truth. Anyway on my 3rd visit she let me bonked her. After that she started texting me throughout the week asking if I miss her etc. She seemed genuine.

While I do like making out and bonking her, I don't really have any emotional feelings for her. Not that I don't care about her, but just not in a 'romantic' way. It's all just physical attraction for me.

Question here: if you were me what would you do?

1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings towards me? The lovemaking is just fantastic when it is non-commercial and natural like this. Should I tell myself in this industry when it comes to KC it's all fair game. Who really knows if she's for real anyway right?

2. But somehow I don't feel completely ok to lead her on like this, as I am not prepared to give her anything more like supporting her financially or be her long term lover. I enjoyed the sex but don't really want to end up causing anyone emotional hurt. I have since stopped communication with her for the past week already. Should I just ignore her now, quit and walk away and look for the next target? Bros here should know such chemistry and rapport with another woman is really hard to come by.

Any advise, suggestions or comments?

[Big Sexy]

3. look for other bonks


Question here: if you were me what would you do?

[Johnbass]

TS, I think it's the other way round... she's leading you on...
Good luck.
:cool:

[kiario]

TS, I think it's the other way round... she's leading you on...
Good luck.
:cool:

Fully agree!

[Intltuk]

TS, there's a saying....`A Fool is born every minute'....and u've just put urself in tat category.

How high a value u think she puts on her pussy when her mouth is being used to service customer dicks??? Women in service industry are very good in KCing. Some sweet words and u crumble in her hands? I hate to think where u will end up at the end of this fantasy u think u're in.

[justl00king]

Bro, just enjoy until it's time to move on.

Dun think, just bonk. :D

[Johnbass]

Bro, just enjoy until it's time to move on.

Dun think, just bonk. :D

Wahahaha!
Best advice!
Upz!
:D

[Ken79]

TS bro, if she can let u bonk her on the 3rd RTM, then there are many other guys she would allow either past, current or future.
Maybe she does like u personally but it will never be more than her love for money and she will always be trying her luck on any guys who show weakness towards her and try to rip that person off.

Lastly, if she is really serious about u and u guys happen to be together, what will she be expecting from u in monetary terms?
like what other bros mentioned, she is the one leading u on and being an ace in this game she makes it look as if u are the one calling the shots and puts herself in a vulnerable position to gain brownie points.

[Summerhillt]

Why think with the smaller head again

[leekwantew]

1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings towards me? The lovemaking is just fantastic when it is non-commercial and natural like this. Should I tell myself in this industry when it comes to KC it's all fair game. Who really knows if she's for real anyway right?

2. But somehow I don't feel completely ok to lead her on like this, as I am not prepared to give her anything more like supporting her financially or be her long term lover. I enjoyed the sex but don't really want to end up causing anyone emotional hurt. I have since stopped communication with her for the past week already. Should I just ignore her now, quit and walk away and look for the next target? Bros here should know such chemistry and rapport with another woman is really hard to come by.

Any advise, suggestions or comments?

If I was you I'd do 1, enjoy the moment but keep the feelers out, once she start asking you for money, 翻脸, drop her and move on

[Skarlett0]

U should just look for othrs and carry on. Don play with her feelings if she had been nice to you. Eg: did not ask u for money.

You might have a daughter someday. Imagine guys playing your daughter out.

Karma bites like a bitch. Move on.

[Kalv]

..her first time in SG .. don't even kiss or french other customers,.. massage, bbbj and hj services. .. I can never know the truth. .. 3rd visit .. let me bonked ...
Question
1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings
2. ..ignore her .. quit and walk away ..

Any advise...
WLs will KC those who are hansome (for "tirak"/BF) or rich (sugar daddy). Make yourself clear just $$$ transactions - you have many GFs/other WLs. Not good to cheat on feelings. If no agreement, move on.

WLs will always give the impressions that you are great/special/the only one. If bonk U, most likely many others too. Many problems if go into long term/special relationship - not recommended. Do not answer/reply her SMSs. Cut down the visits. "Spread you " loves" to other WLs."

Sammyboyfor advice: :p Should be advice (noun) not advise (verb).

All the best. :) Cheers.

[inkrubber98]

Thanks for the advice Kalv, this makes a lot of sense to me now.

WLs will KC those who are hansome (for "tirak"/BF) or rich (sugar daddy). Make yourself clear just $$$ transactions - you have many GFs/other WLs. Not good to cheat on feelings. If no agreement, move on.

WLs will always give the impressions that you are great/special/the only one. If bonk U, most likely many others too. Many problems if go into long term/special relationship - not recommended. Do not answer/reply her SMS. Cut down the visits. "Spread you " loves" to other WLs."

Sammyboyfor advice: :p Should be advice (noun) not advise (verb).

All the best. :) Cheers.

[Johnbass]

Wahahaha!
Building war chest liao ah?
:D

Haha!
Your war chest ran out of zaps on me liao ah?
*Pew pew pew*

I rather spend my time on building my treasure chest.
:D

[porscheclub]

TS should just put her contact here & we'll know if she's exclusively yours ;)

Bro, you're an old bird but still post this kind of Q?!

[Johnbass3]

Any advise, suggestions or comments?

Since she is in this trade and you enjoy the sex, you can always make this a commercial transaction. Pay her for her service and dun be cheapo.

[runfishyrun]

TS u get to bonk her for free now. Later u definitely gotta return back one...
Buy this buy that... it will come... just a matter of time...

[conquer]

If she lets you f*cked her just at the 3rd time you met her, probably many bros have already f*cked her many times.

These girls come here to make money, they will think of any manner to take the money out from your pocket. It's just a business, bro. Just f*ck her and get the f*ck out of the place. That's it.

:D

[demonhunter]

Bro , PM me contacts ?

Ty :D

[James Porn]

Personally I don't think you are leading her on. She is just enjoying the game with you, what has she got to lose anyway, right bro? If you like her for the lovemaking sessions, just pay more than normal rates. Keep repeating the sessions and you will probably get bored after a while. Hope that help :)

[Footman]

Don't forget ... how u knew her was through playing & in this industry, its all about who can play the game better...

[mrclen]

Similar situation! Started out great--went to good--now just OK. Moved from a cash only transaction to a gift, to no cash. But has cooled considerably. Would like to keep the sex good but move back into a cash only situation. Does anyone have any advice on this? It never was an exclusive either way as she is a KTV girl and does work.. mrclen

[Accela]

You really need to decide where you feel the line is drawn and proceed from there, in my opinion.

You COULD give it a chance and go with the path that works for you (The former option) since it's "fair game" like you've stated.

You shouldn't really shit where you eat, and while it's harsh I don't think you ought to be playing the nice guy IF (really, really big IF) she's actually the one leading you on instead.

Just my two cents' worth, sorry if it's a bit long.