My PA

[outofmind]

I have a PA and I developed feelings for her. She got a bf and I got a gf. I see her in office every day and often after work we will go out together be it in groups or just the 2 of us. Office people are making fun of us and making the situation kind of awkward. I enjoyed her accompany and I believe she feels the same too and we would avoid mentioning about each other partner. Recently I overheard that she was going on a date with bf and I felt really uncomfortable. My feeling was written all over my face the next day in office and I avoided her the whole day. After work I also did not joined her and the colleagues for dinner and I made a stupid excuse for not joining. I'm in a dilemma and don't know what I should do.

[MrBaller]

Depends whether you wanna be a bad or nice guy.

You have a gf and ought to stay faithful. But then again, we are men and we err sometimes. Keep urself in check if you don't want to go astray.

I do not experience such sticky issues before so its not to me to comment too much.

[Big Sexy]

how do u feel if you girlfriend falls for another guy whilst still with you?

I have a PA and I developed feelings for her. She got a bf and I got a gf.

[maxsee]

Leave her alone....If you hit on her.....someone will do the same to your gf or wife next time....what comes around goes around...there is this thing call karma....:D:D:D

[Triple70]

Not suggesting anything.. but seriously ask yourself.. who are u more comfortable with?

Which one do u prefer to hang out with, and which one do u prefer to go home to?

[prettymannequin]

You don't gotta act on every attraction bro...

[fk4ever]

Bro, don't eat and shit at the same place...

[chanster]

As you say , it's gf , so you have the freedom to choose still :) what are you waiting for ? Follow your heart and live no regret

[Stewardess]

how do u feel if you girlfriend falls for another guy whilst still with you?

This is a good one. Would love to hear the reply.

[Wintermelontea]

is that why your handle is "outofmind"?

[demonhunter]

. I'm in a dilemma and don't know what I should do.

I tell you what you should do ...

You should grow up . Its only right that she goes out with her boyfriend , and after that ,the night will end with a hot fucking session .

You should be with your girlfriend more often , on a side have an affair with your PA

This is what you should fucking do for now ...

:)

[demonhunter]

This is a good one. Would love to hear the reply.

My reply is , I wish her all the best !

:D

Time to get a new one !

[eatingcrayons]

If she cheats to be with you, who's to say she won't to be with someone else. Plus, if it doesn't work, it would be even more awkward at work and some tasty blackmail material.

[tomyumgong]

if just to play and release, then just do it if she also into it...if develop feeling, no no...allparties hurt...dun do that lah

[tryherout]

What if someone in the office has been checking both of you?

[outofmind]

I thought out of sight then out of mind. I am always not at my office so to avoid her and i think she can sense it too. yesterday she msg me if she should wait for me then we go dinner or she should go first? I hesitated awhile and told her to wait for me. While having dinner at a restaurant, it starts to rain and we got stuck till about 11pm. we had a good chat and I get to understand more about her. When I returned from washroom she even paid for the bill. I am really lost don't know what to do.

[outofmind]

You don't gotta act on every attraction bro...

bru my first time after 2.5 years in this office. She is attractive cool and really one of a kind. not usual girls u see in everyday life.

[outofmind]

What if someone in the office has been checking both of you?

I am consider a higher lvl staff in office and the only person who watching me is my boss. He himself also got a fling in office and he always encourage me and put us together making us feel awkward. Now the new staffs who just joined us would asked if my pa and i were together?

[Wintermelontea]

I thought out of sight then out of mind. I am always not at my office so to avoid her and i think she can sense it too. yesterday she msg me if she should wait for me then we go dinner or she should go first? I hesitated awhile and told her to wait for me. While having dinner at a restaurant, it starts to rain and we got stuck till about 11pm. we had a good chat and I get to understand more about her. When I returned from washroom she even paid for the bill. I am really lost don't know what to do.


After the long chat...what do you know more of her then? Can you share?

[MrPleaser]

Bro.. it seems that you are obsessed with your PA. Are you in love with your PA?:confused: (thinking about her good and bad points, how her bad points are cute, etc; do you think of her like u thought about your GF in the past or even present?) or is it just lust?

Do you treasure your relationship with your GF? Are you still in love with your GF? If you feel you do not love your GF, please break up with her. A relationship with no love or one-sided love is not going to be sustained.

If you are in love with your PA, I strongly sugggest for you to test water and talk to her about her BF and maybe jokingly ask about her feelings for you (if it seems she is not really in love with her BF... of course at the right timing la..). That way, you will be able to judge whether a relationship is possible between the two of you. If somehow you manage to get together, please let your girlfriend know and DO NOT double-date!

What goes around comes around.:cool:

[wantanabee]

Never shit in your own backyard

[KaniNababe]

I have a PA and I developed feelings for her. She got a bf and I got a gf. I see her in office every day and often after work we will go out together be it in groups or just the 2 of us. Office people are making fun of us and making the situation kind of awkward. I enjoyed her accompany and I believe she feels the same too and we would avoid mentioning about each other partner. Recently I overheard that she was going on a date with bf and I felt really uncomfortable. My feeling was written all over my face the next day in office and I avoided her the whole day. After work I also did not joined her and the colleagues for dinner and I made a stupid excuse for not joining. I'm in a dilemma and don't know what I should do.

If u don love ur gf anymore pls leave her and allow her to seek better guy elsewhere.不要害人!