Sex life after marriage.

[safeskin]

Like to ask bro here for some advice. Sex life use to be exciting during courtship. Frequent sex and outdoor sex happen pretty often.

After marriage. Wife spends more time on online shopping, Facebook or just simply on farking ipad. Sex has been once a week or fortnight. Being a highsex drive person I am
Its some times gets frustrating and keep wondering why this is happening or sometimes the need for sex is nt fufil. I feel sainz.

Is this normal? I tried talking to her and share with her. But no use, reasons like she is tired or she is not in the mood or spend time on the farking ipad!

Any recommendations or ideas from married bros here? Am . trying hard not.to.find FL or FB ...
Thanks in advance.

[R32wanfun]

Get her to stop sufing net and get the mood ON....

[parrotkid]

Be thankful that you are getting it once a week or 2 weeks. Many bros here go without sex with wife for months.

[S i l v i a]

U are not alone bro :(

[archer69]

It means she don't feel you are attractive.
You must work on this.
Looks fresh, smell fresh and so many ways.

[safeskin]

[QUOTwanfun;11792258]Get her to stop sufing net and get the mood ON....[/QUOTE]

Have tried tht. Ended she goes to sleep! :(

[safeskin]

Be thankful that you are getting it once a week or 2 weeks. Many bros here go without sex with wife for months.

Serious? ?? Was nt aware there.r others bros going through the same thing. .have actually consider Spanish fly n suck but mt sure is it safe for her?

[safeskin]

[Qarcher69;11792591]It means she don't feel you are attractive.
You must work on this.
Looks fresh, smell fresh and so many ways.[/QUOTE]

I think this might nt be the reason. I groom myself everyday and I coach guys what and how to wear clothes. So looking neat, fresh and smelling fresh may nt be the reason.:)

[Jamesleejamesle]

Heheh..
Welcome to marriage world bro.
Same here. Before marriage, we were fucking every moment we can get, indoors and outdoors...or whenever I want, which is all the time. Maybe it's because we were not staying with each other.
After the honey moon, the frequency lessened. And as one of our bros mentioned, it's once or twice a week and then the frequency dwindles down even further. Especially after you have one or two children.
I am also sex hungry. I don't want to force my wife to make out if she's not in the mood. It's no fun that way. So I guess, it's a couple of times a week visit to Domes 1, 2 or 3. I try not to take FLs because of the frequency of my needs, it can become quite expensive. I used to have 2 other buddies n we go to GL weekly but they are both working overseas now. So I am left hunting alone.
Of course, I do service my wife at least once or twice a week (twice a week is being lucky! Heheh).
I keep away from having FBs because it's time consuming, though the thought of having one always lurk in my mind. It would be nice to have a SYT for yourself. Staying in small Singapore, I believe having FBs when you are married, I am sure you are bound to bump into someone you know and the cat is out of the bag. I have friends whose marriage is gone because of FBs.
Today is Monday. It is horny day for me. I am looking through the FRs now on who to satisfy my needs...oh well...
Wish you the best with your wife. Hope you don't have to go the same path.

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[xmodconnects]

you should always marry the person you dont expect to fuck. no expectations, no disappointments.

[clapton]

My wife is similar

Before married always willing to fuck, and foreplay a lot, BBBJ or sometime CIM.

After married, no more BBBJ & CIM, said what, I don’t know why u ask me to do this, do you love me, do u know how dirty it is… etc

Refuse to do long foreplay and still question why I was not horny enough….

WTF, herself like a dead fish and want me hard like hell… DAMN

[loneyheart]

Human r animal ... b4 u urge more n wanting more as u hv not stay together looking forward to meet n tent to please each other .... once u married n stay together n see every days 1 party may lost t urge as not so trill anymore ... once u hv kids more worst she may put more attention to them ... as kids grow up she may share w then rather then u .... as years go by more like responsibilities then love ..... tats married :( man more like a productive tools nowadays

[ch1818]

Sex life will be lagi worst off after having the first kid lor.......

[Soltt]

Wait till you have baby.
Only then u will know that being able to have sex with wife is like dio 4-d .

My sex life with my wife dropped drastically after we have our first baby , but to be fair to her , it's really tiring to look after a baby the whole day thus sometimes we also need to feel for our wife. That being said , my wife sometimes still will make it a point to have sex with me which I appreciate it alot.

She also will help me hj or BJ when she is still recovering from birth.
The best thing is she allows me to DIY Infront of her / watch porn when she is really tired that day cause I told her it's damn frustrating to have blue balls .

It all depends on how u instill that mindset into your wife.
Make her understand that we have sexual urges too.

[Yellowman]

One of the reasons why I am here lor...but I just read and contribute only la...

[steelhorn]

Ahoy there! Looks like 是你上了贼船。ha ha..
But welcome your embarkation to another ship here.
Ship of love. If you are lucky.

[safeskin]

Thanks for all.the feedback from alll the bros here.

seems am not the only one going through. At times I wanna let her know we men jaf urges. But knowing her, female will.say wht abt me? Seems like females have a few.winning statement. Once they say liao. Win liao loh!!!

Hj? Tht has nvr happen becuase it takes along time milk me. Hand pain or hand numb. She just give up. Even massages lady find it . tiring to milk me. :(

Wonder how long can I control from FL or GL. Trying my best not too...

[R32wanfun]

Then they women blame us go curi makan?

[Ecuader]

My wife is similar

Before married always willing to fuck, and foreplay a lot, BBBJ or sometime CIM.

After married, no more BBBJ & CIM, said what, I don’t know why u ask me to do this, do you love me, do u know how dirty it is… etc

B4 marriage is just like campaigning for election.
After marriage cos you voted. LOL

[Steley]

My didi is rusty n cover with spider web

[sammyboyfor]

Marriage isn't about sex. It's about companionship.

[safeskin]

Companionship and ajust marriage's about companionship.

I do agree marriage is about companionship and not just making love. But spending more time on fb and shopping online. Then to spend time chatting or just sitting beside each other. Last time was farmville now its shopping. :(

[LouisV]

Bro, there are a few threads on spanish fly. Y dun u try that?

[safeskin]

Bro, there are a few threads on spanish fly. Y dun u try that?

Am actually considering tht. But to try it without letting her know or to let her knw. Thts the tricky part. If to ask her first, surly the ans is No. Been doing research and there seems to be some side effects but thts base on individual. Doing more research into it.

[maxman]

A dwindling sex life and libido in marriage, especially after your kids are born, is not uncommon.


An interesting article: Happy wife, happy life, says a recent study.

It concludes that when the wife is unhappy, sex stops. Then again, the same happens with our girlfriends as well.

http://www.nj.com/healthfit/index.ssf/2014/09/husbands_are_only_as_happy_as_their_wives_rutgers_ study.html

[LouisV]

Am actually considering tht. But to try it without letting her know or to let her knw. Thts the tricky part. If to ask her first, surly the ans is No. Been doing research and there seems to be some side effects but thts base on individual. Doing more research into it.

The testimonial seems quite real, but no doubt its gd to do your own research.

[MoJoe313]

Sounds familiar. But i think i managed to turn it around.

1. Talk to her on your needs. Be candid enough to say if you can't eat at home, you may have to eat outside and thats not what you want. She needs to understand a man is built differently. If men have no drive, mankind would have ended eons ago. Its not your fault for needing it.

2. Dont bother asking for it on normal week nights. She is tired, you are tired.

3. Have a fixed date night once a week. I have mine every friday night. Next day dont have to work. Not so stressed.

We force ourselves to go out for dinner, a movie, drinks or clubbing. Dump the kids at home. Make it sensual and interesting. Dont go kopi tiam lah. Bring her to a romantic place, choose a sexy dress for her. Then have sex when home or outside.

Once it becomes a routine, you will get it every Friday night. When you two get into the swing of this, weekend also becomes automatic.

4. You should not eat outside especially if you have kids. Kenna caught only is finished.

Good luck!

[MoJoe313]

Thanks for all.the feedback from alll the bros here.

seems am not the only one going through. At times I wanna let her know we men jaf urges. But knowing her, female will.say wht abt me? Seems like females have a few.winning statement. Once they say liao. Win liao loh!!!

Hj? Tht has nvr happen becuase it takes along time milk me. Hand pain or hand numb. She just give up. Even massages lady find it . tiring to milk me. :(

Wonder how long can I control from FL or GL. Trying my best not too...

Must be tactical lah. My kids got rabbits. So i showed her, See, it is always the male rabbit chasing after the female rabbit to hump her. Never the other way round. Same for dog. Same for man. Its just the way God made us. The male species always have a stronger drive. So if she cant help you unload, you have to go unload elsewhere....

[kjjsexy]

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.

[WertyQ]

Hi Kjjsexy Sis

Sent you a PM with possible reasons. Good luck.

FYI.

[cuties]

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.

masturbate may be is more straight forward and simple excitement for him.

[nottiguys]

masturbate may be is more straight forward and simple excitement for him.

I agree with it.

[kjjsexy]

Once a week, he'll say 'quota' reached. But I notice, he'll DIY every 3 days. Sigh, is having sex so tiring or not so pleasurable that he doesnt wanna return for more? In bed, he'll have his back towards me. Responsibility to family aside, I feel he's putting in little effort on creating love atmosphere.

[yesscenter]

Like to ask bro here for some advice. Sex life use to be exciting during courtship. Frequent sex and outdoor sex happen pretty often.

After marriage. Wife spends more time on online shopping, Facebook or just simply on farking ipad. Sex has been once a week or fortnight. Being a highsex drive person I am
Its some times gets frustrating and keep wondering why this is happening or sometimes the need for sex is nt fufil. I feel sainz.

Is this normal? I tried talking to her and share with her. But no use, reasons like she is tired or she is not in the mood or spend time on the farking ipad!

Any recommendations or ideas from married bros here? Am . trying hard not.to.find FL or FB ...
Thanks in advance.

Since dhe is surfing the net, whu dun you ask her to go to this website "hornbunny" this will turn her on, enjoy.

[stealthraider]

Once a week, he'll say 'quota' reached. But I notice, he'll DIY every 3 days. Sigh, is having sex so tiring or not so pleasurable that he doesnt wanna return for more? In bed, he'll have his back towards me. Responsibility to family aside, I feel he's putting in little effort on creating love atmosphere.

u 2 need to start dating again. love needs maintenance in a marriage. it doesn;t stop with marriage.

[cuties]

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.

haizz,it's normal nowadays. masturbate is fast and easy job;)

40's, tired body,stressful in his job? environment might be an issue too

try make it in holiday?

[Nokia69]

Guys who face a decline in sex frequency are luckier than me.
At least bros have had some decent fun.

My case: no sex before marriage (6 yrs dating), sex after marriage is of poor quality too...no touch here and there. No oral both ways.

We have 2 boys which are the result of "sex with a purpose" to complete her life cycle. I dun have good memories to fall back on.

I hate my life. Bros here, u all are way luckier.

[oldman1969]

I feel u bro, totally the same in mine situation.

Even after talking to wife , the ans is " old already, got kids liao no need to do liao..."

Lucky still got internet....can diy...haiz....sianz...

Although sex is not everything in a relationship, however IMO, Without phyiscal contact then the relationship is not healthy. Of course , like others has point out environment is also important for her to get into the mood.

Most important is both partners has to accomodate each other if you want the relationship to last.

Always remember that once you are caught, it takes alot of effort and time to earn the trust back from wife..if you still have a chance.

Thanks TS that start this thread so that Every married bro can spill their guts.

[ken_v2]

Those still getting once a week/fortnight or even once a month can consider yourselves to be in a better situation. The last time I had it with my wife was like a few years back. :(

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

[lotsfits80]

Purposely masturbate in her presence, watch AV aloud.

[yangguo]

Purposely masturbate in her presence, watch AV aloud.

The best way to let her know that you have sexual urge is to surf sbf in front of her.. :D:p

[gixxer04]

Agree with bros here

Before on n off have it
after marriage cut down on it
once the 1st child born........dun even remember have it

[yangguo]

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

Huh? Feeling tired after work?

I guess this is the most common reason I have read or heard for not having sex between the wife and husband.

It makes me wonder how tiring can it be to have sex for like 5-10 min? It is more tiring than running 2.4km?

I reckon the main underlying reason should be not in the mood ba..

In fact researchers found that those people who had sex once or twice a week have a better immune system in their body compared to those who had sex less often. :D:p

[highlysex]

Those still getting once a week/fortnight or even once a month can consider yourselves to be in a better situation. The last time I had it with my wife was like a few years back. :(

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

Bro same here you're NOT alone

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