BeGGAR for Love

[Spytheman]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?"
Will you beg her/him to stay ?
Can any bro or even sis . please enlighten me on this issue?
I love her every much . Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me. I didnt even do anything wrong to her. I am confused ?
So ya.. thank you to those who help me now

[Cupid-Escorts]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?"
Will you beg her/him to stay ?
Can any bro or even sis . please enlighten me on this issue?
I love her every much . Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me. I didnt even do anything wrong to her. I am confused ?
So ya.. thank you to those who help me now

I will never beg her as to me, the forest is very big and i will not because of one tree then give up on the other trees. And if i guess, you keep begging her, she will get fert up and feel very irritated and she will avoid you and it will be worse that even friends also cannot be. :eek:

[funlovingboy]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?" Will you beg her/him to stay ? I love her every much . Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me. I didnt even do anything wrong to her.

bro,

honestly speaking, i believe no matter how hard you try to beg her to stay by your side, it is but futile. will you still want to try despite knowing the likelihood? are you still willing to tread forward though the tides are against you?

when you start to beg for love, you will not get love but compassion. love, in my humble opinion, builds on trust and the wonderful feeling of being with each other. perhaps, just perhaps, it is time to move on with your life without her. i have been through a rather similar route as yours, bro. it is tough, indeed. and knowing that she was in another guy's arms simply made it tougher. but we still got to move on, isnt it?

everything happens for a reason. maybe the love of your life is waiting ahead for you, patiently and surely. all the best.

[The_Unrepentant]

Yes .U should beg.

items needed:

1) a bowl.
2)a guitar.
3)microphone.
4)u must be able to sing.
:D

[cummie]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?"
Will you beg her/him to stay ?
Can any bro or even sis . please enlighten me on this issue?
I love her every much . Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me. I didnt even do anything wrong to her. I am confused ?
So ya.. thank you to those who help me now

yeap dude. totally agree with the previous post by the bros here.

btw wat special circumstances u +++ing abt?

is there still love even if she relents and come back to you? chances are she will have a feeling of burden on her. in the long run, ur r/s will fail again

y not have a gd +++ with her y things ended up this way? the way ur post seems to me u have no idea wat is gg on. or perhaps u have chose to ignore the problems.

sometimes, couples split dosnt mean 1 have to do smthing wrong to another. people do change and feelings change too.

yea and like wat bro xiaobai mentioned, if u continue with your persistence, she might jus very well avoid u. tat's even worse. trust me, i have seen similar situations.

if u realli love her, then give her the freedom she wants. its never abt possesion all the time dude.

[kel_te]

agree to bro xiaobai, no point crying over spilt milk, y force her to come bk to u when she no longer loves you.

look ahead of you there are a lot more outside beside her (i m nt saying she is no gd), but you have to go on

guess you are young, don waste ur time.

gals seem to be stronger when relationship falls apart, believe.

look ahead

[KingEros]

Will you beg her/him to stay?
..... I am confused?
Move on ... if you try hard enough, you'd be able to look beyond this tree & see the entire forest. ;)
More importantly, love yourself enough to know that no woman is worth the effort of your true love IF & WHEN she doesn't love you more than you love yourself. :cool:

[Castrol]

1) a bowl.
2)a guitar.
3)microphone.
4)u must be able to sing.
:D

times are bad now, maybe i should go learn to play the guitar too... if one day jobless at least can go underpass sing song and kay kium qio, better than kar lung chio... :D

[chickenzip]

Will you beg her/him to stay ?

bro..if it is a lady...there is nothing much u can do since she had make her decision. woman are funni creatures...if u beg them, they think u are weak..if u don't, they think u are heartless or no sincere...hard to please lah.

[Faint]

times are bad now, maybe i should go learn to play the guitar too... if one day jobless at least can go underpass sing song and kay kium qio, better than kar lung chio... :D

if one day you go blind, you could be the next Superstar...

[newbadass]

Begging is out of the question.

A man can be weak or short, ugly or poor... or even all of the above. But he cannot do without his dignity. That's what makes him a man. Not how many times he can shoot in one night, not how many hearts he has broken before, not how many people know his name... but his dignity.

If you were to throw even that away just to get back this woman, is it worth it?

[tobi69]

[QUOTE=The_Unrepentant]Yes .U should beg.

items needed:

1) a bowl.
2)a guitar.
3)microphone.
4)u must be able to sing.

Hahahaha...bro u funny siak!!!!maybe he needs sunglasses also...wahahahaha :D

[Tai_zi21]

Wat ur will be ur! even u cry and beg her to stay,u think she will? even if she does,i think it be cos she feel pity for u lor! not be cos she love u!

Why not move on with ur life rite?

Sure there r better gals outside waiting for u! :)

[The_Unrepentant]

Wat ur will be ur! even u cry and beg her to stay,u think she will?
U mean this?
命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求。
:D

[The_Unrepentant]

times are bad now, maybe i should go learn to play the guitar too... if one day jobless at least can go underpass sing song and kay kium qio, better than kar lung chio...

Actually hor......, if u can speak a little bit thai , u can teach conversational thai for $20 per lesson.Or ask JUN ge the god of gambler,legend of singapore to teach u how to make $$ in betting.:D

[The_Unrepentant]

I didnt even do anything wrong to her
Things u do wrong:

1)never let her wear bikini.
Can anyone kindly enlighten me whether am i so conservative tat i cant accept my GF to dress in bikinis ( at Beach , not beach road lah) when i am not with her?

solutions:
Let her wear bikini.

2)got wife and gf.
i was like you ... after one yr plus of marriage den we have sex cos my wife scared of pain...

My current gf is dammm pretty, she is wearinf braces now but she looks like a korena actress called " song ... " acted in that korean soap opera. My presence turns her into a great beauty. Deep set...
solutions:
if ur loved one is ur gf divorce ur wife.Vice verca.
]Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me.
Now tell me wat special circumstances?:rolleyes:


when my gal told me , So Big so hard and used her damm sexy eyes and DIAN me... F.... i am dead and cock stand... her face is a turn on....


No need beg her lah.Use ur damm sexy eyes and DIAN her.she will stay:D

[Spytheman]

Bro ,
you are GOOD!!!
yup i am a two timer ass !!!
HAHA .. but she knows about my situation.
but now she realli cant accept my status and ya.. she has to leave.
To be honest , i love her more than my wife.
yup. but you are right ... She will be happier ...

Thank you so much for all the feedback man!!!!

[Randi_Candi]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?"
Will you beg her/him to stay ?
Can any bro or even sis . please enlighten me on this issue?
I love her every much . Due to our very special circumstances, she wants to part with me. I didnt even do anything wrong to her. I am confused ?
So ya.. thank you to those who help me now
No offence but if its over, its over.
If she can choose 2 walk out on u, so wat if u beg her 2 stay? cos it had happenned n she can still choose 2 walk out again another fine day

If its possible 2 mend the relation in a compromising way such s resolving the differences in long term i thk tat wud b a better solution rather than 2 go on a beg strategy

No 1 likes 2 give up on somthing they deem goot, but if the fate is over, its better 2 move on

my 2 cent

[Nismo]

What happen when your loved ones say " it is the end between us?"
Will you beg her/him to stay ?

For this, I'd have to quote myself from a previous thread:-

... just as steadfast as ladies are to their men, ... when they actually do have a change of heart, ... WOAH!!! It's a one way super-duper-express train. No matter how hard a man pleads with them, ... NO means NO! (have witnessed many of such scenes). Usually when a girl pleads tearily, a gentleman's heart will inevitably (mine at least) soften ... and accede to a reconcillation.

Tears from a girl implores forgiveness, while tears from a guy implies weakness on his part. ......

IMHO, it depends greatly on who's doing the 'begging-pleading-crying' role.

If its the lady, .. the guy will probably agree to 'stay' cos it breaks his heart that she's tearing herself up fom within.

If its the guy, .. the girl MIGHT decide to stay (for the time being at least) cos it is truly an ugly sight for a grown man to be behaving in a manner as such. For that moment, she has to take you back (sounds pathetic doen't it?) However, this scenario will soon repeat itself - time and time again. Till the lady is finally tough enough to put her foot down ... and that's when NO really means NO!

If ever one is going to convince a lady, who's intent on leaving, to have a reversal of hearts, and stay ......

..... Make sure she's staying because she WANTS TO .. and not because she HAS TO.

Just my humble opinion.

Cheers!

- Nismo - :cool:

[beck7777]

well i felt that usually is the guys that tend to give in to the girls shd they beg but when girls make up their mind to leave you, they are really determind to do so... even if managed to beg her to stay, it wun last.... just my thoughts.... cheers! :)

[Spytheman]

she still loves me, why ? for the fact that leaving me is to solve this problem in our relationship. But This makes the whole thing worst. I have to pretend to her that i am happy but in actual fact , i cried during the nites and ok in the day. I am now like an actor ... in a real life and i am living like an actor. But i hope she understands thatI will never forget herand i will always love her always always.

[beck7777]

from wot i see this relationship is going nowhere... bro dun waste time lah... next time sure got someone better more worthy of ypur time n effort.... let it go....

[LFCA]

He jus cant let go. All he need is time

[beck7777]

He jus cant let go. All he need is time

agreed... any normal person do need time to get over a relationship unless he is not serious abt it....

[XHunter]

Bro,

me also got similar situation lah, she asked me 2 leave becoz of some1 else. said dowan me 2 gt hurt, n all tat rubbish. wat 2 do? i love her alot n in de end also like tat.i feel pain lah of coz, coz i realli luv her. me thot of many reasons y she wan it like tat, trying 2 make myself feel better, but jus feel lagi worse. me thot of begging her, but then how? if she come back, is coz she pity me? tat 1 more worse rite? after tat she asked me if i still luv her, of coz i say yes but me also say dun luv me if u wan 2 pity me. she say she realli luv me, but all her actions tell me otherwise leh, how?i still feel very sad even now, but at 2 do?i think better jus carry on wif life lah, u think man cry n beg, wat u get bk is no luv liao but sympathy, u wan tat meh?i cry n feel pain jus by myself, no 1 knows, not even her, becoz me dowan ppl to pity me, i am not some fucking beggar looking for charity, looking 4 luv man.she choose 2 go, i also lanlan. i feel angry lah n also sad, onli thing is cry n jus gt on living.sometimes bro, u haf 2 be a better man n jus go away veri "siao sah-ly". sorri me cannot help , jus tell u my expienrence.u take care lah, time will heal all hurts.

Xhunter

[Spytheman]

i cant deny i am a beggar for love . time can heal my pain. i hope. yup
you take care too xhunter ... Happy new year

[tittyhawk]

Love is blind and love hurts the most.

:)