Don't think I can ever settle down now

[Hatchetman]

I started chionging from a young age with my army bros. Slowly I became rather addicted and tried all kinds of flavours and types... Now I don't think I can settle down with a single girl now.

With $$ I have been banging girls which are way above my level, and with my current looks etc I don't think I can get a girl which is from those level. As such I don't have much interest in pursuing or trying to get relationship since having tried greater pleasures, I am not attracted to girls who are in my level or below. Furthermore I think I will get bored of one pussy after a while, and if I get married I will definitely go chiong some more which kind of defeats the purpose of marriage.

So what should I do? Is it a curse or a blessing? :confused:Looks like once you start you can never stop lol:o

[Tuanehkia]

You keep saying level. What level is that? You want different pussy, I can understand but what different level?

[Hatchetman]

Maybe different leagues is a better word.

For example, a supermodel may be a 10 out of 10. A model is 9 out of 10. With $$ u can probably bang a model. But will model go in a relationship with you etc is another thing, unless you are a millionaire.

I am not a very good looking person, so naturally the good looking girls are not attracted to me. I would say, generously, my level is 5-6? haha. Without paying these are the only girls who will sleep with me ... :(

[NottiSex]

Maybe different leagues is a better word.

For example, a supermodel may be a 10 out of 10. A model is 9 out of 10. With $$ u can probably bang a model. But will model go in a relationship with you etc is another thing, unless you are a millionaire.

I am not a very good looking person, so naturally the good looking girls are not attracted to me. I would say, generously, my level is 5-6? haha. Without paying these are the only girls who will sleep with me ... :(

Well my 2 cents ... U marry for love ... So if sex is all u need (which certainly seems to be the case from your replies) then no need to settle down

[89NottiBoy]

single is best!!

[BlueFilm]

N ur point is?? U too good for a lot of girls?

[*FiReWoRkS*]

I truly believe some men are borne to be the ultimate pure ancient men - just to procreate.

Maybe you are one of them but I also believe most men will eventually want to settle down with a nice girl and start a family as you will get disillusioned with the kind of hedonistic lifestyle that you are leading right now.

The fact that you are starting this thread might be a subconscious proof that you find all these to be rather meaningless and you would like to hear some views in order to ponder your next step in life?

Ultimately I don't think many men would be able to really "quit" being the primal beast that we are designed to be and consigned yourself to be the model penguin daddy. There will only be "peak" and "non-peak" period in your life and no bona-fide shutting down just like the ERP.

Most pragmatic and sensible piece of advice - just do whatever you feel like doing but if you already have a nice gf/wife and adorable kids it's better not to play but if really cannot control then use contraceptives in order to prevent unwanted pregnancy and also STD.

If you can't be a devoted man at least be a responsible man.

Cheers~

[MoJoe313]

I think men at different ages yearn for different things. When in their 20s, they want to bonk as many girls as they can. When in their 30s, they get tired and want companionship. When in their 40s, they want a family. When in their 50s, they are happy to be able to just bonk. Of course, some will grow out of each phase differently and some may never but generally, thats the trend.

When you are tired of just bonking FL, you will automatically find someone your "level" or otherwise and move into your new phase.

[Hatchetman]

Thanks for the advice from the more experienced and older bros. I will take yours words into consideration

[Metzloff]

Dear Hatchet

I'm past 50 now and all I can say is, if you don't particularly want children of your own, don't bother getting married. Stay single, be happy, have a less complicated life;)

[doubletap]

I truly believe some men are borne to be the ultimate pure ancient men - just to procreate.

Maybe you are one of them but I also believe most men will eventually want to settle down with a nice girl and start a family as you will get disillusioned with the kind of hedonistic lifestyle that you are leading right now.

The fact that you are starting this thread might be a subconscious proof that you find all these to be rather meaningless and you would like to hear some views in order to ponder your next step in life?

Ultimately I don't think many men would be able to really "quit" being the primal beast that we are designed to be and consigned yourself to be the model penguin daddy. There will only be "peak" and "non-peak" period in your life and no bona-fide shutting down just like the ERP.

Most pragmatic and sensible piece of advice - just do whatever you feel like doing but if you already have a nice gf/wife and adorable kids it's better not to play but if really cannot control then use contraceptives in order to prevent unwanted pregnancy and also STD.

If you can't be a devoted man at least be a responsible man.

Cheers~

I will definitely remember these words. ;)

[POWERDICK]

So what should I do? Is it a curse or a blessing? :confused:Looks like once you start you can never stop lol:o

bro Hatchetman, why worry now. you will settle down when that day come.
usually couple will settle down when...., 男的想通了, 女的想开了

.

[SimpleGuy099]

usually couple will settle down when...., 男的想通了, 女的想开了

Well said, wise words indeed

[jenoroth]

Settle down so early for what? Unless u are a fucking rich dude that can afford to raise your children and your wife who will most probably do nothing and spend your hard earned money.

if you are rich, enjoy life, travel the world, buy stuff for your own and ur parents, fuck girls of all sorts of pussy.

How many average Singaporean married couples u see out there are really happy? If they were this fucking forum would not have existed in the first place.

[naan1974]

Why is it even an issue that bothers you to post this?
We ,man , are born and created for polygamy by the creator.
It's an instinct to ensure our bloodline is pass down.





I started chionging from a young age with my army bros. Slowly I became rather addicted and tried all kinds of flavours and types... Now I don't think I can settle down with a single girl now.

With $$ I have been banging girls which are way above my level, and with my current looks etc I don't think I can get a girl which is from those level. As such I don't have much interest in pursuing or trying to get relationship since having tried greater pleasures, I am not attracted to girls who are in my level or below. Furthermore I think I will get bored of one pussy after a while, and if I get married I will definitely go chiong some more which kind of defeats the purpose of marriage.

So what should I do? Is it a curse or a blessing? :confused:Looks like once you start you can never stop lol:o

[*FiReWoRkS*]

TS it might also be that you have yet to meet a girl that you would really like to be in a serious relationship with. Don't worry about you being a 5/6 in the looks department yet only wanting to be with girls you deem above your league because most girls don't really care so much about their partners' looks when it comes to a serious relationship. They look more at your heart and how you really treat them.

Most importantly you need to realise that there is nothing wrong with your mentality in placing looks very high up on yr criteria list and that you feel you might not be able to really settle down because most of us feel this way too. Plus if you dont put this emotional baggage behind you then you would always have this niggling conscious that you might not be normal (which you absolutely are) and this negative thinking will then affect your mood and your life as a whole.

Just enjoy your current lifestyle and play responsibly as we have the duty to take care of our parents as well irrespective of our single/married status. Keep your eyes open for nice and pretty girls to your liking and go out all to woo her the normal and traditional way if you ever met one.

We all get disillusioned with our lifestyles, thinkings, situations etc at various stages of our lives. Don't fret and try to think and live positively.

Cheers~

[gunner77]

bro be single better :D

[igor123]

Dear Hatchet

I'm past 50 now and all I can say is, if you don't particularly want children of your own, don't bother getting married. Stay single, be happy, have a less complicated life;)

I agree with you totally.

[rrr9g]

it almost immpossible to stay true and devoted to ur spouse/wife/galfrds.. men r beast that cannot control their urge, once they tasted the forbidden fruits.. it became addictive like drugs.. once horny, forever horny..

Dont meant to makes men sound bad but I hv yet to met some1 whom can resist outside temptation.. Fyi, I am also one horny beast whom cannot resist temptation... haiz...

[MoJoe313]

TS it might also be that you have yet to meet a girl that you would really like to be in a serious relationship with. Don't worry about you being a 5/6 in the looks department yet only wanting to be with girls you deem above your league because most girls don't really care so much about their partners' looks when it comes to a serious relationship. They look more at your heart and how you really treat them.


I kinda agree with this. I do not consider myself very good looking but I snagged the prettiest girl in uni. You will be surprised how some pretty girls like geeks. They prefer character to looks. Ok, maybe I had the bad boy attitude too...

Good looking hunks do not always win, hence the "dick head flower theory" if you are familiar with the term i.e. one often see a loser with a chio bu till it became a theory.

Men are turned on by what they see. Women by what they hear. When you have a great personality, you can charm even goddesses.

[Tuanehkia]

There is nothing such as level. Love is blind. You are see dickheads marrying super model like wives or rich guys marrying plain Jane. No correlation.....

[itsabt6x]

In this day and age, marriage is no longer a must. If i can go back in time, I'll stay single.

[justdifferent]

just do whatever makes you happy.

isn't that what life is about? you should do anything that makes you happy just as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, and doesn't cause irreparable damage to your own life. be a hedonist.

being a hedonist doesn't mean doing everything you feel like doing. it means deriving maximum pleasure and minimum pain. just because fucking someone raw might be shiok at the moment doesnt mean you do it, because of the consequences. you feel good now, but you deal with probably stds, probable pregnancy.

as long as there are no consequences and no one is hurt, why not?

but seeing that you are actually thinking about settling down, that means you have gotten a little sick of fucking around and fucking whores.

let me ask you a question then: if you date a girl properly, would you be able to resist not going to visit escorts? it is fine to be tempted, and it is fine to be sexually attracted to other women, but are you able to control your own actions? if you are, then try dating someone.

you seem to think that attraction is largely about looks. that is wrong. of course, looks do play a part. but what i've come to realize is that the girls who i'm extremely attracted to physically.. after sitting down and having a good chat over dinner or drinks, i realize i don't really like them all that much, and all of a sudden they don't seem so attractive anymore.

the ones who do make me feel something are never the ones i've been very attracted to physically.

here's a quote from eleanor park: "She looked like art, and art wasn't supposed to look nice. It was supposed to make you feel something."

we are attracted to someone as a whole. the exterior attracts us, and then the interior keeps us attracted.

bothering to groom yourself helps a lot. your personality, vibe and aura is the one that actually attracts women. i don't think those 'really hot' women are out of reach. you just don't know how to reach them, but you definitely can.

back to topic, ask yourself what you really want. do you still wanna fuck around, but with non-working girls instead? do you wanna go into a serious relationship? whatever it is you want, i'm sure you know it deep down. just go ahead and work towards what you really want, just as long you don't hurt others and yourself in the process.

cheers

[purpleheart10]

I started chionging from a young age with my army bros. Slowly I became rather addicted and tried all kinds of flavours and types... Now I don't think I can settle down with a single girl now.

With $$ I have been banging girls which are way above my level, and with my current looks etc I don't think I can get a girl which is from those level. As such I don't have much interest in pursuing or trying to get relationship since having tried greater pleasures, I am not attracted to girls who are in my level or below. Furthermore I think I will get bored of one pussy after a while, and if I get married I will definitely go chiong some more which kind of defeats the purpose of marriage.

So what should I do? Is it a curse or a blessing? :confused:Looks like once you start you can never stop lol:o

U dont know what is love yet. Love is not about sex only. if you keep pursuing for looks, you are right u will not settle down.

[torrentman123]

U dont know what is love yet. Love is not about sex only. if you keep pursuing for looks, you are right u will not settle down.

What is love? What is true love?

I'm also confused like TS.

I was in a relationship. However during the relationship, my thoughts strayed to other women, and I actually slept with another partner.
I kept thinking of sleeping with more attractive partners and tried to meet them.

The thought of settling down was far away from my mind, and I evaded topics relating to marriage.

It got to a point that I was no longer physically attached to my partner.

Is that bad? Is there something wrong with me?

[MoJoe313]

Nothing wrong with you. You just make wrong choices. Like adultery, the more you sleep with others, the less you are attracted to your wife.

Its called Lust. Continue to lose yourself in it and one day you may lose your partner.