How do you confess to a girl;Wish a guy confess?

[Advanced]

As above title, just wondering how you bros here confess to a girl that you like her?

I meant like tested before and worked, and tips you used that didn't?

How do you sis wish someone you're interested in confess to you?

i.e, confess face to face?
Texting?
Calling?
Directly hold your hand?

[Yakuza]

As above title, just wondering how you bros here confess to a girl?

I meant like tested before and worked, and tips you used that didn't?

How do you sis wish someone you're interested in confess to you?

i.e, confess face to face?
Texting?
Calling?
Directly hold your hand?

Bro .. confess wat harr..?? :confused:
No head no tail .. must give example mahh .. every case r diff .. so confession depends on wat u did .. like white lies .. which r good ..:D

[UbErZoNe]

Bro .. confess wat harr..?? :confused:
No head no tail .. must give example mahh .. every case r diff .. so confession depends on wat u did .. like white lies .. which r good ..:D

Lolx :D You're joker

[Lamborghini]

Bro .. confess wat harr..?? :confused:
No head no tail .. must give example mahh .. every case r diff .. so confession depends on wat u did .. like white lies .. which r good ..:D

I am thinking, confess his love ?

I'm waiting for TS to reply as well. lol.

[UbErZoNe]

As above title, just wondering how you bros here confess to a girl?

I meant like tested before and worked, and tips you used that didn't?

How do you sis wish someone you're interested in confess to you?

i.e, confess face to face?
Texting?
Calling?
Directly hold your hand?

If gal, i felt she will prefer face to face, the sincere level was there :p

[UbErZoNe]

I am thinking, confess his love ?

I'm waiting for TS to reply as well. lol.


How do you sis wish someone you're interested in confess to you?



This might be the meaning of it , Confession of Love :p

[Yakuza]

This might be the meaning of it , Confession of Love :p

g'day Bro BMw .. actually just wanted ts to tell us a little more of the background .. hehehe .. example ..number of years met or getting to know her in office / or as colleague, neighbour, sch batch mate/friend, outing, friend of friends, FL, ML, SB, .. etc... or whatever ..

sometimes a guy is so overwhelm with emotion that just a couple of days and he's madly in LUV ...:eek:

..so .. any story behind the Infatuation vs Love story ..?? camping for more ..

[Advanced]

Ya love confess :D

Actually my other thread got write lol.
Knew her for almost 8-10months time already.

[UbErZoNe]

Set up and camping .....:D TS , please dun let us keep waiting :D

[UbErZoNe]

Ya love confess :D

Actually my other thread got write lol.
Knew her for almost 8-10months time already.

And ??? Please continue :D

[UbErZoNe]

Ok I saw the other thread as well :D

[Advanced]

And ??? Please continue :D

Nothing continue leh.. now need know how to confess. Want know how she really feel :confused:
going crazy already keep kana mind game..
Hot/Cold treatment really sibei sian :(:(

Wanna confess face to face; but cannot be confess during supper right? (at coffeeshop, like abit awkward sia)
Wanna hold her hand, still cannot sia.. will scare this scare that.. (i sibei jialat LOL!)

[Yakuza]

Btw .. I think u hv ask b4 and u still not satisfied with the advises given ..

Need some advice from bros/sis, this might be a little lengthy.
I know that she have other suitors, and i know its common thing for girls.. :(:(

Her short background:
Quote:
Shes Malaysian and divorced before
have a kid around 5/6 years old in malaysia
Working as beer girl at coffeeshop and always end around 1130pm - 12am
goes back hometown twice or 3 times per month for her child during her off

I been chasing her for more then 6months now, can't really remember the exact date i started to have more then just simple crush on her.

At start, i met her in a pub; she previously worked in as a cashier.
She always been rejecting my invitation for supper(after her work) or even lunch(before her work) during the start.

I did some mistakes like texting telling her I liked her, was rejected by her previously telling me she treat me as friend and she have no intention of going into relationship currently.

that didn't stop me from chasing her and i still continue interacting with her hoping that she would at least give me a chance even after being rejected


3 months pass and she switch job, i managed to actually ask her out 3 times full day, once with her friends, another two time was going shopping with her and simple dinner and movie before dropping her home on cab.
p.s. i noticed that she mention she stays at "blk xxx" but notice that she did not actually go to the blk she said when the cab left.

There was once she text me when she was back in her hometown telling me she was worried sick that shes noticed her dropping hair, and saying shes afraid to tell anyone even her family members.
But of cause i dare not say that i'm the only one she told to.


Before her birthday told her i wanted to celebrate her birthday with her after her work, but was rejected saying there isn't any need to celebrate her birthday.
Try my luck on the night of her birthday, and she actually agreed to meet up for just plain supper before sending her home. Even through its just plain supper, i really felt happy.
Not sure if i did the right thing as some bro did mention that showering gift isn't a good idea.

But as i thought it was her birthday, so i brought her a necklace and bracelet which cost me a bomb, and not sure if its due to it being expensive or she did appreciated my thoughts.
(I know bro here gonna scold me for buying expensive stuff which cost 1k for a girl whose not even my girlfriend yet).. she did say she wanna pay me for the bracelet as she don't want owe me too much
p.s i'm not rich and merely earning just nice for myself.
Till now i'm still the one who start the texting, always trying to find something to talk to with her.
I have try calling but usually ends up with no one answering the phone. And she will text me back telling me she just woke up etc.. reason
I wanna ask bros/sis here, what could i actually do?

[Advanced]

Btw .. I think u hv ask b4 and u still not satisfied with the advises given ..

I'm just wondering how other bro/sis wish it was done.
Or done it before.. so i could try also :p:p
More experience done, maybe will better

[PreRegSimBoy]

As above title, just wondering how you bros here confess to a girl that you like her?

I meant like tested before and worked, and tips you used that didn't?

How do you sis wish someone you're interested in confess to you?

i.e, confess face to face?
Texting?
Calling?
Directly hold your hand?

its pretty obvious leh, comes naturally or girls confess.

I mean no girls will keep getting you out unless she has a liking for you.

[PPGirl]

Well.. i asked him out few times n just tell my bf i like him by action :D

Dun like wishy washy guys. Just do it if u like d ger.. at least if really she dun accept u. U can still continue ur life .

[prettymannequin]

Er if a girl is not interested, no matter what you do to confess, she won't accept... And if a girl really likes the guy, no matter how shitty the confession, she will still be over the moon.

And uh, she already knows your feelings so it's not like a 'confess your love' per se, but more like how to make her yours?

But if you want a really sincere confession, best is face-to-face and straight to the point. And remember not to leave it hanging at "I like you" because how is she supposed to respond to that? Go ahead and ask her if she'll be yours/ you can take care of her as her boyfriend/ other mushy shit.

Good luck~


/EDIT
Directly holding hands isn't a form of confession...

[Lamborghini]

I'm just wondering how other bro/sis wish it was done.
Or done it before.. so i could try also :p:p
More experience done, maybe will better

Bro, it is important to be yourself.

I would suggest to plan an approach which would set you apart from the norm.

You are going to need creativity and loads of time. :p

Good luck and I hope to hear sweet news ! :)

[Advanced]

i'm gonna guess if go have supper with her, then confess would be funny right? since the supper place we usually have is coffeeshop like those simpang bedok(1am). :p

[lostlilvirg]

But if you want a really sincere confession, best is face-to-face and straight to the point. And remember not to leave it hanging at "I like you" because how is she supposed to respond to that? Go ahead and ask her if she'll be yours/ you can take care of her as her boyfriend/ other mushy shit.



I like the way you put it, other mushy shit. LOL

Bro Advanced, sorry I dn't have anything constructive to contribute, since I've already seen your other thread and i think your situation atm is not very advantageous. THere's no need for you to re-confess.

[prettymannequin]

I like the way you put it, other mushy shit. LOL


I can't stand the mushy/ cheesy stuff so... :p

[lostlilvirg]

hehe, bit of a counter-productive advice you gave him then. What if he tried to confess to someone like you? :eek::eek:

*grin*

[fion.18]

I can't stand the mushy/ cheesy stuff so... :p

Serious ah babe, Fion is a sucker for such stuff. Not good cos too much mushy stuffs makes the heart melt a little too easily. Lol

[prettymannequin]

hehe, bit of a counter-productive advice you gave him then. What if he tried to confess to someone like you? :eek::eek:

*grin*

Lol if she likes the guy, the mushiness during the confession wouldn't matter, would still be cute.

But if she doesn't like the guy...

[prettymannequin]

Serious ah babe, Fion is a sucker for such stuff. Not good cos too much mushy stuffs makes the heart melt a little too easily. Lol

Don't so weak leh... :p

I can be sweettalked la, just don't like the overly mushy stuff. :p

[lostlilvirg]

Oh prettymannequin, you are so pretty that my mannequins pale in comparison. THeir once sleek coverings feel faded and dull, their well fitted clothes seem drab in comparison to your mannequins which shine forth in prettiness!

sweet talked yet?

hahaha

*runs from the stage as the rotten tomatoes start flying in his direction*

[fion.18]

Don't so weak leh... :p

I can be sweettalked la, just don't like the overly mushy stuff. :p

Teach me how leh :p

I like le the mushier the better lol!

[Yakuza]

Teach me how leh :p

I like le the mushier the better lol!

LOL ... ur avatar tells a story .. :p

[fion.18]

LOL ... ur avatar tells a story .. :p

Tell me leh... What story? ;)

[july3rd]

Tell me leh... What story? ;)

I know.. You found someone :p

[fion.18]

I know.. You found someone :p

I wish I did ;)

[july3rd]

I wish I did ;)

You will!

You are confident lady! I'm certain you will found someone. Just a matter of time! Meanwhile enjoy

[LeeHsienLoong]

Ok listen.. It is simple.
Walk up to her and tell her you like her.
If you fail, don't go for cosmetic surgery. Just move on.
It is not the end of the world.

[fion.18]

You will!

You are confident lady! I'm certain you will found someone. Just a matter of time! Meanwhile enjoy

Ahhh thank u sweetheart. And I wish the same for u too ;)

[Advanced]

how i wish she likes mushy stuff.. or maybe just wrong person who does that..
like what prettymannequin said :p:(

[UbErZoNe]

how i wish she likes mushy stuff.. or maybe just wrong person who does that..
like what prettymannequin said :p:(

Hey , you still didn't do or confess to her yet ? What heck you waiting for ? :D Or you found some else better ? Lol

[PPGirl]

Ts r u waiting for "天时地利人和"?
at the right time,in the right place with the right people

[big321big]

Confess to her, if you fail, move on asap. Don't get bogged down by her.

[Advanced]

Ts r u waiting for "天时地利人和"?
at the right time,in the right place with the right people

ya loh.. waiting for all 3 aspect :p
most impt is the place la.. also everytime wanna say; throat kana stuck:eek:

[PPGirl]

ya loh.. waiting for all 3 aspect :p
most impt is the place la.. also everytime wanna say; throat kana stuck:eek:

I think u better act fast. Who knows u might have other competitors?

[Advanced]

But previously like during March was already rejected, i scare like too fast?
somemore during that time she don't even wanna go out with me those kind de.. now still ok, can go out, go for supper etc.

But i found out something funny; she never once answer my phone call de.
And always tell me cause night time don't want disturb until her room mate, but i try calling her on when she on her way home also tio call cancel.

then once we were having supper; saw her answering phone. asked her, she tell me her customer at coffeeshop de, asking if she reach home anot etc..

asked her how come don't like answer my call, she tell me text her ok liao don't call :confused:

[july3rd]

Ahhh thank u sweetheart. And I wish the same for u too ;)

Haha I was being label as old woman la!

I think I just continue earning more money better.. Relationship things make me upset only.. These days guys are hard to deal with.. Even friends also hard to catch what they are thinking..

[fion.18]

Haha I was being label as old woman la!

I think I just continue earning more money better.. Relationship things make me upset only.. These days guys are hard to deal with.. Even friends also hard to catch what they are thinking..

Hahaha young at heart can le :)

Must earn $ laa but still need love de. No matter how strong a woman, at the end of the day we want to go home into the arms of someone we love who will give us a cuddle. But don't rush into finding one laaa.. Let nature take it's course. ;)

[lorddrakez]

Face to face is best la. Where got text one!

[porscheclub]

asked her how come don't like answer my call, she tell me text her ok liao don't call :confused:

She IS not interested with you. Move on now, 别在自做多情！

You keep writing here like a diary which only shows how wishy-washy you are and no woman like weak men. :cool:

[PPGirl]

You keep writing here like a diary which only shows how wishy-washy you are and no woman like weak men. :cool:



Dun like wishy washy guys. Just do it if u like d ger.. at least if really she dun accept u. U can still continue ur life .

Erm requote back what i had written on page 2 of this thread.
Ts... u really got to find a chance to tell her.

word of advice for u now.. "just do it". No point keep dragging. Dunno what d hell u waiting for. Or u scare that she reject u?

[nehnehhh]

no need confess la. like some bros said above, if the girl don't like you, she can and will find 101 excuses not to go out with you.
if she likes you or has a liking for you, theres 101 reason to go out with you.
Just go out with her, build the emotional and physical contact with her. If she like you, there shouldn't be much problem.
but if she treat you as a friend, throughout the contacts, will have hints that she doesn't want to continue i.e. she will take a step back.

[Advanced]

We were talking and then she mention that our 性格 not same, very hard.
When i told her everytime i want to know 了解 her more, but everytime always kana told off by her.

She then say her ex-bf, which only know afew months; knows her well until she don't need say anything also the ex-bf knows. Saying there's this kind of feeling de.:confused:

But i go home think and think, Starting first few months; i always kana reject, total wall off from her.
Then finally she agree go out, i also 1-2months go out once.
until now then maybe once a week, wait for her end work then go for supper.

So abit fair to me mah? directly say like that..:(

[Advanced]

We were talking and then she mention that our 性格 not same, very hard.
When i told her everytime i want to know 了解 her more, but everytime always kana told off by her.

She then say her ex-bf, which only know afew months; knows her well until she don't need say anything also the ex-bf knows. Saying there's this kind of feeling de.:confused:

But i go home think and think, Starting first few months; i always kana reject, total wall off from her.
Then finally she agree go out, i also 1-2months go out once.
until now then maybe once a week, wait for her end work then go for supper.

So abit fair to me mah? directly say like that..:(

I havent even start confess i like her, was just basically normal chatting nia:(:(