brother get soft during sex with gf

[bpafree]

Guys, I wanna ask if anyone has this problem? My gf and I have been together for 2 years already and sex was more frequent in the beginning stage.

Nowadays, sometimes my brother will get soft halfway while pumping her in missionary style, and I think the reason it because she is too wet which will reduce the 'grip' there.. After that, no matter how my gf give me a hj, it wont get hard. The only way to get me hard again is a bj from her then back to complete the mission.

The thing is, I love my gf but im also afraid that too much of this incident will make my gf think that I dont feel sexually attracted to her anymore. Well, I think i may have some of that feeling too(is it due to fucking the same person for so many years?). So if it's the case, how am I going to prevent or reduce this in the future, say 10years later? any advice bros? e.g dont diy or watch porn at all? or eat some specific food to enhance the sexual drive?

Thanks for listening people :(

[banana81sg]

watch porn together

[69sex]

Maybe time to marry and have babies, so can take break from sex. So maybe the freshness will cum back........:D

[amostio]

TS,

How old are you? This normally happens to older men.

A few things to try:
1. Mix up the sex part. Don't fall into a routine. Be adventurous.
2. Go for holidays nearby more often together.
3. If all else fails, get a prescription for Cialis.

[conquer]

Does it happen when you are banging some other girls? If it does, you seriously need some medication, bro.

:)

[sammyboyfor]

Try fucking some other girl and see whether it makes any difference. ;)

[stillgottheblue]

How long do you last for each session? If it's long, maybe you need to go buildup your strength. If it's short, then you may be under stress or having health related issues.

You did not provide enough details for us but this is definitely not due to your gf having too much water.

[bpafree]

Try fucking some other girl and see whether it makes any difference. ;)

Never try, but sometimes I would think of other girls like my female colleague to make it hard and cum..

[bpafree]

How long do you last for each session? If it's long, maybe you need to go buildup your strength. If it's short, then you may be under stress or having health related issues.

You did not provide enough details for us but this is definitely not due to your gf having too much water.

Not too long or too short, probably around 10-15mins ba.. Used to watch porn and pcc a lot when young, dunno if it is due to my past bad habit leh.. Now still got watch and pcc, but a lot less frequent than last time liao..

[bpafree]

Does it happen when you are banging some other girls? If it does, you seriously need some medication, bro.

:)

Lol, sometimes I would like to try sia.. But what if the result is totally different from my gf? Meaning I really feel lesser sexual attracted to my gf liao lo.. :confused:

[Hurricane88]

this is so common...can be a number of reasons...but TS need to reveal more like his age and how often he had sex before we can comment...:)

1. age
2. frequency of sex or masturbate
3. influence of alcohol
4. stress related work
5. exercise frequently

[Johnbass]

Means u PCC too much lah...

Every relationships will have ups and downs...
Likewise it will affect your sexlife...
Depends on what you and your partner does...
You may see better or worse days ahead.

Pornstars' kind of sexlife only happens in porn movies.
:D

[conquer]

Lol, sometimes I would like to try sia.. But what if the result is totally different from my gf? Meaning I really feel lesser sexual attracted to my gf liao lo.. :confused:

Well. if this is the fact, you can't run away from this. Ostrich mentality doesn't solve the problem. :)

Keep us posted of further update. Good luck!

Never try, but sometimes I would think of other girls like my female colleague to make it hard and cum..

I doubt you can fuck your female colleagues just like that. :D Have you ever thought of getting a bitch for this experimenting purpose?

[seabass]

TS

You are allegic to your gf(kidding). If you continue to do the same thing and expect a different result, your may end up disappointed.

There are exercises to remedy the problem.

One is to transfer the stress of cumming to other activities like fore play. Who says you must cum to enjoy sex.

Environment - go on a road trip. The familiarity of the same place in love making breeds contempt and in this case may have unconsciously affected your performance. I will be stretching if I over emphasis this point but try love making after having a good time of shopping and sighseeing will lend a whole new dimension to the concept of transferance of emotions not focus on the very act of cumming. Don't be myopic with missionary position and HJ but rather explore creative form of sex like role play and incorporating toys in the process.

I suspect fatigue is the root cause and if you are well rested, you will be pleasently surprised you can achieve cloud nine each and Everytime u do it.

Try not to have too much distractions in the room. Just focus on your girlfriend and having a good time. Sex should be free from stress but some sexual tension is actually good. Communicate with your gf your apprehension and your gf will love you for being open. Good luck and let your seeds shoot.

[Castrol]

its just a spell you're going thru.
fucking the gf of 2 years is defintely not as exciting as fucking the gf of 2 months.

go fuck an uglier girl or a hooker with fucked up service, after that your brother will remorsefully make things harder for your gf. :D

[demonhunter]

I got a solution

1) let me try her , if I get soft , it means your GF not up to ISO standards

2) play some BDSM to make yourself excited .

:D

[conquer]

go fuck an uglier girl or a hooker with fucked up service, after that your brother will remorsefully make things harder for your gf. :D

LOL... What kinda logic is that?

It is just like you ask someone go eat shit after that any food will also taste delicious. :D

[a2014]

Not too long or too short, probably around 10-15mins ba.. Used to watch porn and pcc a lot when young, dunno if it is due to my past bad habit leh.. Now still got watch and pcc, but a lot less frequent than last time liao..

I guess a few thing can be affecting:

1) pcc too much as the grip and pressure apply is different, during the younger day maybe no difference as we are all strong and get going. As we age it not going to be the case. Yes pcc too much take very long to climax, maybe should stop pcc and concentrate on your actual action.

2) fatigue is another issue.

3) looks like you got sick of what you are having especially when you may desire those action and position in the porn which your gf is not performing to that standard yet. Asking her to do it is just telling her you are an expert and invite unnecessary suspicious from her. Do what you are doing now, NO KICK especially when you pcc often and she is too wet that you do not have that kind of grip feeling.

I guess this is very common to man as man all love adventure and excitement. At the initial stage anything will do, once you are on it you will expect more. There goes to same to the other party as well.

Well maybe you can try some herbal hard on kind of pill if any good and safe one in the market. Not sure does that help you temporarily.

[bar201444]

started slow. need to talk with ur girl. spend more times in foreplay. slow bj and hj. stop in btw to touch other area. get yourself really high before u start the sex play. sometimes it help. :)

[big321big]

1. Identify what gets you hard in the first place. Maybe by watching porn and see which parts you get most aroused with.

2. Do it in such a way that it arouses you every few mins to prolong your stiffness.

3. Assure her that she isn't the problem. ;)

[Castrol]

LOL... What kinda logic is that?

It is just like you ask someone go eat shit after that any food will also taste delicious. :D

haha... yes something like that... :D

[hamsapkwai]

brother tie rubber band lah once it gets hard, tie at the base :p

[porscheclub]

Two issues:

Health & mind. First is to see a doc or fatigue but yours sound more likely on 2nd. You could be too focused on performance resulting in stress or getting bored with the same partner.

Sex needs a creative mind & partner to stay happy so be creative ;)

[Rocode]

Midnight!

Primary Reasons are..

-You Expect Too Much
-Mental Stress
-Frequent Arguments
-Tired
-Too Routine
-Make Up Sex
-Break Down In Communication
-Trust & Honesty Issues

Secondary Reasons Are..

-Chemistry Failing
-Interest In Others
-Medical Conditions
-Lack Of Exercise
-Unhealthy Diet
-Commitment

Nitez

Rocode

[stillgottheblue]

Firstly, I suggest you go for regular exercise, 3-5 times a week, 30 min each session, and eat healthy.

Report back after a month. 10-15 min going soft is very bad news. You need to work on your body first.

Anything stressing you, need to be dealt with too.

[bpafree]

Guys, thanks for the advance. I will try to exercise more often and i guess the most important part is pcc much less often lol.

Anyway regarding some bros here who suggested to be adventurous in sex life. I rarely have to 'mood' to be be adventurous but i remmeber there was this time where we try putting ben and jerry ice cream on my little bro and she suck it. Boy i really got turn on and i just flip her and fuck her hard.

During our 1st year, we will did it almost everytime we met. I guess its the routine that makes everything not that 'sparky' anymore :mad:

[dungyeu]

Might be due to Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction. I had exactly the same problem in the past, didi got soft during intercourse because I diy too much, couldn't enjoy sex with my gf.

Abstain from diy-ing for about a period of time, 30 days worked for me

just my 2c, might be due to other factors too

[PRCktvbonker]

Guys, thanks for the advance. I will try to exercise more often and i guess the most important part is pcc much less often lol.

Anyway regarding some bros here who suggested to be adventurous in sex life. I rarely have to 'mood' to be be adventurous but i remmeber there was this time where we try putting ben and jerry ice cream on my little bro and she suck it. Boy i really got turn on and i just flip her and fuck her hard.

During our 1st year, we will did it almost everytime we met. I guess its the routine that makes everything not that 'sparky' anymore :mad:

KNN both of you r bloody fucking disgusting YUCKS!

[conquer]

Guys, thanks for the advance. I will try to exercise more often and i guess the most important part is pcc much less often lol.

Anyway regarding some bros here who suggested to be adventurous in sex life. I rarely have to 'mood' to be be adventurous but i remmeber there was this time where we try putting ben and jerry ice cream on my little bro and she suck it. Boy i really got turn on and i just flip her and fuck her hard.

During our 1st year, we will did it almost everytime we met. I guess its the routine that makes everything not that 'sparky' anymore :mad:

Do you use ice cream every time? Maybe your partner and you have got bored with the same ice cream. Try use other stuff like ketchup, wasabi, chilli sauce, sambal belacan...

Hope you would revitalize your sex life again. :)

[diputs1269]

Time to change girl?

[demonhunter]

its just a spell you're going thru.
fucking the gf of 2 years is defintely not as exciting as fucking the gf of 2 months.

go fuck an uglier girl or a hooker with fucked up service, after that your brother will remorsefully make things harder for your gf. :D

You meant 2 days ??

:eek:

:D

[demonhunter]

Do you use ice cream every time? Maybe your partner and you have got bored with the same ice cream. Try use other stuff like ketchup, wasabi, chilli sauce, sambal belacan...

Hope you would revitalize your sex life again. :)

not forgetting oyster sauce with a dash of pepper ....

:D

[mybruce]

Cialis is your answer

[Captainoceania77]

Cialis is your answer

True thats right

[sgbeautycastle]

You need to be at a very relaxing stage to build up the foreplay, painting her and ask her to BBBJ you at 69 position helps.