Sil

[heavy metal]

After a full year of teasing and games, I finally got to bonked my sister-in-law (SIL) yesterday, Saturday 14th Jan. She is 24, nice bod, A-cupper, fantastic ass and has the smoothest facial complexion for a girl I have ever seen.
She is my wife's younger sister.

I've been married for two years after a 3-year courtship. My SIL admitted to me that she looked-up to me not only as her bro-in-law but also because I helped her financially with her polytechnic education. As she is two years younger than my wife, they share some similar characteristics and one of those is their preference for men. She told me before that I was her type but at that time I did not take any real meaning to it. I was also quite attracted to her simply because she is better looking than my wife, bod about the same, he boobs were smaller but she has better legs and ass. But then again she is my SIL

Anyway.....

I realizes there were some serious teasings between us since last Christmas. She was drunk at a party and called me to bring her home which I did. That time, she kissed me and raba-raba my dick, ouside of my 3-qtr. I put it to her being drunk altho I enjoyed it. The next tension was her birthday in Feb. I asked her in private what birthday gift she wanted and she replied all she wanted from me was a kiss. I planted an innocent one on her cheek but somehow the kiss 'migrated' to her mouth. We were locked in a passionate kiss for what seems like an eternity before we broke apart. I remembered that was one fucking awkward moment for me.

The most memorable tension was in August for National Day. My wife was abroad for business and I took her out for dinner. We had a serious talk about relationships and it was at this moment we admitted our feelings for one another. We agreed that it was a dangerous game we play and that it should not progress any further. That moment was also memorable for what I would consider our first heavy petting. No holds barred. I touched her everywhere and she likewise. We kissed like lovers.

After that we continue teasing witch other and stealing kisses and touches to the genitals when nobody was looking.Anyway to cut the story short....

Yesterday I picked her up after work to bring her to my in-laws for dinner. It was along the way for me from work. We were talking in the car when the subject about sex cropped up. She told me she was ready to bring our wiered relationship to the next level. So I drove us to this Fragrance Hotel in Balastier. We did not say a word untill we entered the hotel room.

It was heaven....I came three times. I dunno about her but hell I was floating. Because we were so in a hurry to have sex we did not purchase any condoms. I first came on her tits but the subsequent cums were inside her.

We are trying to be descreet about it and agreed to continue enjoying the moments that we can have untill something better comes along. We both took leave this coming Wednesday and intend to book into the Hyatt JB for another escapade. Hope everything turns out the way we plan.

I share this experience with you bros because firstly I feel like I kena the 1million toto. Secondly, this is one experience I definitely cannot tell any relative or friends. So you bros are it...

[tryying]

Ok. Noted. :p

[whitegals]

I share this experience with you bros because firstly I feel like I kena the 1million toto. Secondly, this is one experience I definitely cannot tell any relative or friends. So you bros are it...

Wait one of these days she suddenly buay song you about something go and tell your wife, that time, you really is kena the 10million toto... :D

[suckcock]

My samster teacher always teach me, "Never shit in your own backyard..".. The feeling is shiok bonking ur SIL but once things failed, you 're gonna lose everything..:eek:

[singexpat]

Wait one of these days she suddenly buay song you about something go and tell your wife, that time, you really is kena the 10million toto...

haha.. good one bro..

hows ur PTI?? still havin tht S80 at home??:D

[aikoN79]

OMG :eek: have u thought of the consequences ???!!!

[owen10]

i dunno if yr story is fact or fiction 'cos i didnt bother to read d whole post. well u seemed so proud of yr 'achievement' to have bonked yr VERY OWN WIFE'S SISTER! how would u feel if yr wife is bonked by yr brother or yr cousin??? :mad:

[naemlo]

I believe in retribution...... :rolleyes:

[Curry Chicken]

I hope this is not the real story of ur real life.... I also believe in retribution:rolleyes:

[whitegals]

haha.. good one bro..

hows ur PTI?? still havin tht S80 at home??:D

The PTI boh leow lah, she kena reposted to the north, so break lor. Now no gf, only got one casual one, police officer, similar body type, but the stamina not as good, cannot fark all night one, once or twice she tired leow want to go koon, si bei sianz. Then some more not adventurous, not like the PTI, like to dress up as nurse or schoolgirl type, damn i miss her....

:(

[Microsoft]

I feel like I kena the 1million toto.

Ur wife marry such a goot hubby like ur goot self i think she oso kena 1 mil toto...:D :p

[Cheri_Popper]

I believe in retribution...... :rolleyes:
Peng You, you like that scare people good meh? :rolleyes:

[Cheri_Popper]

ThreadStarter, there is a saying "never shit at the place you eat"! :rolleyes:

All hell will break loose if she tell your wifey about it! :D

[naemlo]

Peng You, you like that scare people good meh? :rolleyes:


Peng you, I where scare ppl??? I talking to myself leh..... ;)

[Rof|maoxz]

After a full year of teasing and games, I finally got to bonked my sister-in-law (SIL) yesterday, Saturday 14th Jan. She is 24, nice bod, A-cupper, fantastic ass and has the smoothest facial complexion for a girl I have ever seen.

She is my wife's younger sister.

I've been married for two years after a 3-year courtship.

I share this experience with you bros because firstly I feel like I kena the 1 million toto. Secondly, this is one experience I definitely cannot tell any relative or friends. So you bros are it...

I know you are trying to share, No harm actually. And I know this is not your fault either. Because you are bestowed in a very favourable situation. But you as a married man, It's your call as want/do not want to fuck around when behind wife back. "Dun forget your wife goes aboard frequenly." :cool:

[tryying]

But you as a married man, It's your call as want/do not want to fuck around when behind wife back. "Dun forget your wife goes aboard frequenly." :cool:

Then the wife come back and sing to him. "Ops, I did it again." :D

[xxxaddict]

never use condom?

You not scared your nephew is also your son?

[cwpoah]

:eek: the baby should call him papa or uncle:confused:

[KingEros]

u seemed so proud of yr 'achievement' to have bonked yr VERY OWN WIFE'S SISTER! how would u feel if yr wife is bonked by yr brother or yr cousin???
Still okay lah ... at least it still benefits the family.
Imagine a case of your own wife having an affair with your sister's husband ... then it's a classic case of 赔了夫人又折兵!!!

Just being playful with tongue firmly in cheek, of course.:p

[SamiHyypia]

I was seriously even contemplating whether to post in such a thread...na bei...shoot inside somemore....wa kao....if accident happen, dont know its son or nephew...LOL

my didi already shrink into a concave position thinking what if sil tio shotgun, then threathen to let wife know, then the stupid bugger tio divorce, pay almony, pay maintenance.

PAY PAY PAY!!!

[PegasusBoy]

Never shit in your own backyard.... you kanna SIL pregnant= strike toto :rolleyes:

[Frankiestine]

I share this experience with you bros because firstly I feel like I kena the 1million toto. Secondly, this is one experience I definitely cannot tell any relative or friends. So you bros are it...
wait till your wife finds out then you really feel you kena hit with 1million toto fine...read alimony..

[Castrol]

:the baby should call him papa or uncle:confused:

it depends on who's around, the wife or the sister in law... :D

[yanki1]

i agreed its a dangerious game. but the fun is there. taboo. im full of envy for u.:p

[Frankiestine]

it depends on who's around, the wife or the sister in law... :D
hahahaha bro wat happens if both also around??

[Microsoft]

the baby should call him papa or uncle

There's a proper name 4 dis type of hock chup relationship i think... Hmm... I think it's call Fathcle... Combination of the word Father and Uncle... pronounce as Farker.... Hehe :D :D

[acer3939]

Combination of the word Father and Uncle... pronounce as Farker.... For anyone to think of such a name it just have to be MS!:D keke

[Microsoft]

For anyone to think of such a name it just have to be MS! keke

No i think i saw it in 1 of the dict.. i go bk n dig dig c can find onot then show u nxt x we kopi. :D :p

[SamiHyypia]

haiya....now then i realise, bomb him so much also no use...lian he wan bao one less news to report in the future...

eh threadstarter, maybe you can propose a tarma with your sil and your wife...then get sil pregnant by shooting in her. Three of you + baby can start a happy family liao... I be awaiting your news on lian he wan bao hor... :D

[Castrol]

hahahaha bro wat happens if both also around??

when that happens, threadstarter wont be around, hahaha... :D

[wayfarer]

hahahaha bro wat happens if both also around??

hehe then call susu papa (uncle papa) keke. honestly I think he will be in the deepest shit when tat happens.

[Frankiestine]

hehe then call susu papa (uncle papa) keke. honestly I think he will be in the deepest shit when tat happens.
susu papa?? nai pa....:confused:

[youngboy_jb]

hehe...since i live so near hyatt (jb)...i feel so tempted to go be a PI on wednesday....

[Frankiestine]

hehe...since i live so near hyatt (jb)...i feel so tempted to go be a PI on wednesday....
yes take note of any singapore cars coming in...especially if there are a couple inside..

[parkerpenn]

After a full year of teasing and games, I finally got to bonked my sister-in-law (SIL) yesterday, Saturday 14th Jan. She is 24, nice bod, A-cupper, fantastic ass and has the smoothest facial complexion for a girl I have ever seen.


Bro, I say good luck to you. I do not have such guts, or foolhardiness. If she gets sticky, you can never kick her off, and you will be in deep shit splitting your time between her and your wife.

[wayfarer]

susu papa?? nai pa....:confused:

no no - is susu(uncle) in chinese, not susu(milk) in melayu :rolleyes:

hmm nai pa? then can be turn to naibei keke - very dangerous u know.

[hotarrow1]

yes take note of any singapore cars coming in...especially if there are a couple inside..

Roger, roger all 4 roads leading to Grand Hyatt including the open space padang got kakis on surveillance, team alpha spying fr surrounding trees,team bravo in 4x4 pickup, team charlie got road sweeper + Indian roti seller on motorbike,
team delta mixing as hotel staffs and team echo on standby..... :p over and out....

[Fuuck]

U big head asshole. this must be a fiction , based on your point. Imagine maybe your wife get fuck overseas.Ha Ha HA

[OceanEleven]

What if the wife and SIL both get pregnant at the same time? :rolleyes:

[itsabt6x]

After a full year of teasing and games, I finally got to bonked my sister-in-law (SIL) yesterday, Saturday 14th Jan. ......I share this experience with you bros because firstly...

hi bro heavy metal, whether your story is true or not, only u know....whatever bros here may say...i say u could b the 2nd luckiest or unluckiest guy i've heard about...much depends on how your life turns out...

i remember when i was young, where my mum lives, there's thius kindergarten teacher who has both sisters as wife....back then, polygamy was accepted....although i was fairly young then, i was evious of him b'cos my dad too have 2 wives...but both families live apart and there were frequent quarrels....

well, who knows, since u said both yr wife n sil share similar taste in men, then just maybe they'll be prepared to share u....how's that for a thought???

[owen10]

hey, anyone read d ST today (H7)? Man jailed n caned for raping SIL. 1st glance at headline i tot of d threadstarter :D . heeeeeng ahhh ... case took place in 2002 but that bugger was jailed 20 yrs + 18 strokes rottan.

hey, imagine if 1 day threadstarter n his SIL r'ship turns sour n she decided to turn against him, accuse him of rape, n twist some stories ... that could be very very very very interesting!!! :D

[KingEros]

What if the wife and SIL both get pregnant at the same time? :rolleyes:
Threadstarter is the single winner in the CNY Toto Hongbao?? :D

[Sorin^^]

Threadstarter is the single winner in the CNY Toto Hongbao?? :D

Originally Posted by OceanEleven
What if the wife and SIL both get pregnant at the same time?

Ermmm, isnt this called Twin Happiness? as in Shuang Xi Ling Men?

:eek:

[heavy metal]

Thank you bros for all your comments....positive and negative. I accept them all in good faith. My apologies for such a late respond. I am an air force regular and so I can only access my pc in private over the weekends. My experience with my SIL is really, really out of this world. Like I mentioned earlier this is something I cannot talk with my family nor frens about. With you guys I guess its okay as even though we are bros in this forum, we are all anonymous to one another.

My wife has not been the same woman I married back then. She indulges herself into her career even though I can very well afford to keep her as a homemaker if she wants to stay at home. My job requires me to be away time and time again and I guess maybe thats why she do what she does. I also suspected her of having an affair as I found some dubious sms in her phone. Of course she denied it. My SIL knows and understand the tension between us and maybe I guess she was just being sympathetic towards me.

You think you are in the military and well capable of handling any million dollar equipment with ease you will have this macho thingy going on. Let me tell you, all the Rambos is the world will feel like shit if they know their wifes are not faithful. Maybe I was vulnerable or I want to get back at her but sincerely I feel my SIL came along at the right time to lift me off the depression I fell into.

We are taking our time to see how can we develop our relationship. Maybe if fated we can be married but it is still to early to tell. We both agreed and promised that should something better comes along for either one of us, then we will not stand in each other's way

I am beginning to love her beyond that the love of a brother-in-law. Last Wednesday we spend an amazing day together. I may be despised for what I've done but I am happy and my conscience is clear. My wife will be away to Hong Kong for business this week. With CNY coming an all the shut downs of all Chinese related businesses all over the world...you guys go and figure.

Anyway, thanj you for all your comments bros

[Frankiestine]

Bro Heavy Metal, on all accounts you should be stopping this relationship, no i am not speaking it from a moral point of view, hell who am i to talk about morals. But if what is really developing btwn you and your SIL is true then you have to think about the other repercussion. Not unless both of you enjoys the solid support of your respective families, have it occur to you that both of you might just be ostracised and outcast by your own families? Are both of you willing to brave it alone? Even if you were to divorce your current wife and marry your SIL, then wat will happen to the relationship betwn both sister, can the elder sis accepts this fact that her ex is now her bro in law?

[KingEros]

Ermmm, isnt this called Twin Happiness? as in 双喜临门??
All depending on perspective (当局者?? 旁观者??), it could well be a case of 祸不单行?? :D :D

[XuMeiFong]

Hi bros

Just be very careful. In the midst of going thru a possible divorce now myself. Had indulgded in great sex with a beautiful body collegues. At that point, everything was blissful. Until she turn posessive and demand time from me all the time. I had to give tons of excuses to my trusting wife for not being to go home early.

Wanted to break off the affairs and she turns totally not her usual self. From a cheerful and understanding person into those 1. cry 2. make fuse 3. threaten to die .... Life had been miserable to me and that make me realize that woman is woman.. Just got caught on the phone with her last Thursday by my wife and now she is filing for divorce... Going to lose my son, her and the entire family soon...

My advice.. Stop before it becomes too late.

[wayfarer]

Bro Heavy Metal, on all accounts you should be stopping this relationship, no i am not speaking it from a moral point of view, hell who am i to talk about morals. But if what is really developing btwn you and your SIL is true then you have to think about the other repercussion. Not unless both of you enjoys the solid support of your respective families, have it occur to you that both of you might just be ostracised and outcast by your own families? Are both of you willing to brave it alone? Even if you were to divorce your current wife and marry your SIL, then wat will happen to the relationship betwn both sister, can the elder sis accepts this fact that her ex is now her bro in law?

hear hear - give the man a Tiger. can't have put it better myself. sexual gratification can be had at much lesser the risk or rather it's a case of never shit at the table where u eat.

then again CNY is coming, all China factories/biz are closed for the hols (Golden Holidays - abt one month?) and your wifey goes on a biz trip...meeting who? yeah I figured and I won't like it one bit if I were u but the cost is too high, colonel..... u will have to abort the mission.

[whitegals]

My advice.. Stop before it becomes too late.

He arrived at the point of no return when he put his dick into his SIL's fanny. He went past it when he made a creampie with her.

Now even God also cannot help him, he is on his own.... To the threadstarter, BEST OF LUCK MATE! :D

[Frankiestine]

Hi bros

Just be very careful. In the midst of going thru a possible divorce now myself. Had indulgded in great sex with a beautiful body collegues. At that point, everything was blissful. Until she turn posessive and demand time from me all the time. I had to give tons of excuses to my trusting wife for not being to go home early.

Wanted to break off the affairs and she turns totally not her usual self. From a cheerful and understanding person into those 1. cry 2. make fuse 3. threaten to die .... Life had been miserable to me and that make me realize that woman is woman.. Just got caught on the phone with her last Thursday by my wife and now she is filing for divorce... Going to lose my son, her and the entire family soon...

My advice.. Stop before it becomes too late.

Bro take it from me, save the marriage in any way possible..for one who has gone thru this road..i can only say "A moment of folly a life time of regret"...I thought life will be wonderful with the other woman, so I packed my bags and left the family to be with her...but now i know it all a fallacy....honestly i am probably looking at my second divorce...:(

[japboy]

the threadstarter will lose both his wife n his SIL in time's to come.... n d sisters will not talk to each other again.... dat has been an experience of a story-teller here... n trust me, it will not be pretty ending.....:eek:

[sex1over]

My wife has not been the same woman I married back then.... I also suspected her of having an affair as I found some dubious sms in her phone..... My wife will be away to Hong Kong for business this week. With CNY coming an all the shut downs of all Chinese related businesses all over the world...


Hi Bro,

With references to your previous post, it indeed seems like you're going thru a bad patch with your wife and there is alot of doubts on her. IMHO, why not resolve the problem about your wife dubious actions/smses before moving on to a new relationship (be it with your SIL or someone new). I think the last thing u want is (TOUCHWOOD) a divorce when your wife is unfaithful and she accuses you of adultery. Just my 2 cents worth. Cheers.

[Legend]

Bro,

Just wanna tell this to u (same as wat i tell my close brothers when they induldge in something like this).

Know and be most happy that u have tasted the fordidden fruit (your 1mil toto). U have gotten what u wanted. This is almost the pinnacle already. Climb any further and there is a chance u will fall over the edge. So time to stop :) while you at at the height of it.

just my humble thoughts.

Cheers!

[xxxaddict]

You get together with your SIL, one night you come back and see your ex-wife, you have feelings for her and then bonk her. After that you will come back to this forum and re-post a new SIL story with a twist...

[MuffDiver69]

Hey threadstarter, why don't you have your SIL talk to your wife, not about the sex you guys had, but about her feelings for you. your wife might understand her sister better and offer to share with her. Then you kena the UK 150M Lotto liao!

both my grandaunts married the same guy. they are happy about it. They are still very close, and their kids (my uncles and aunts) seems to be pretty normal to me. 1 dad and 2 moms. more love to share.

[owen10]

the threadstarter will lose both his wife n his SIL in time's to come.... n d sisters will not talk to each other again.... dat has been an experience of a story-teller here... n trust me, it will not be pretty ending.....:eek:

i concur wif u bro. if d threadstarter decided to continue his r'ship wif his SIL or worse still eventually marry her, she'll definitely live with guilt for d rest of her life unless she has got no feelings at all. of all ppl y choose to have an affair wif yr sis' hubby? im sure there r so many better guys out there.

[owen10]

...
both my grandaunts married the same guy. they are happy about it. They are still very close, and their kids (my uncles and aunts) seems to be pretty normal to me. 1 dad and 2 moms. more love to share.

bro d era is diff now. do u thk gals in our modern generation r willing to share husbands, esp in s'pore? unless of cos if d husband is some tycoon with $$$$ to burn. :D

[Brainer]

Threadstarter , that is very risky game u play to spike ur wife. Do take care:cool:

[heavy metal]

Am on leave today....
I was out with old friends on Saturday night and I was telling them about my problems with my wife when one of them told me about meeting my wife in Hong Kong last year in March. They met at the Peninsula Hotel lobby, apparently while they were talking this guy came over and put his arm around her waist not realizing who my fren was. She shrugged it off jumpily and made an excuse about that guy - a colleague - who likes to grab his lady frens around the waist. How lame a story can it get ?

I am seriously thinking of confronting her about this. My SIL actually adviced me to hire a PI to gather the necessary details. She was in the opinion that like that should we get a divorce, it wouldn't get ugly. I dunno.....I can decide how to enter a target zone and what to do but I dunno when it comes to this simple decision. I guess I am afraid that my fears are true.

My SIL has been very supportive. She told me that even my mom-in-law feels for me. Her relationship with her sis - my wife - is obviously strained. I dunno. I am beginning to hate my marriage. The more I feel like when I hooked up with my SIL, it was more for getting back at my wife. I sincerely hope that is not the case as she is truly a wonderful and beautiful person, so different from her sis.

I will be meeting her later for lunch. I know she is going to try and persuade me to end the marriage. I should listen to her considering all the mee I'm in. I dunno.....Maybe later I would be able to decide

[Castrol]

I will be meeting her later for lunch. I know she is going to try and persuade me to end the marriage. I should listen to her considering all the mee I'm in. I dunno.....Maybe later I would be able to decide

this is becoming like a reality show siah... :D

[wayfarer]

this is becoming like a reality show siah... :D

yup and with free tix huh? wonder where to get the popcorn and cokes?

[singexpat]

this is becoming like a reality show siah...

Bro.. i didn't know u like watchin show one..:D

[newby010]

bro heavy metal,

sorry to hear abt yr situation, man. only after reading yr latest revelation abt yr wife and marriage, i decided to toss my 2cents into the fray.

sigh, i've always maintained that BETRAYAL is the worst of all human emotional pain.

but rather than outrightly confront yr wife, why not initiate heart-to-heart discussions with her? i know its easier said than done but u have to try, after all that's what marriage is all about. to continue to communicate, to trash out issues, to fine-tune yr lives together, etc.

surely there are telling signs of her infidelity from yr day to day interaction? stuff like eye contact, speech, body language, even sex life, can tell a lot.

but bro, 2 wrongs simply dont make 1 right.

hypothetically speaking, even if u have proof of yr wife's indiscretions, the situation will NEVER be conducive for u to be together with yr SIL. NO family will give their blessings to this union.

unless u r the type who believes that love conquers all, and are prepared to make the sacrifice to either move away to start afresh, or stay put but be outcasts of both families forever.

also, think about the repercussions of this relationship, the impact on both yr families and loved ones.

Alternatively, u can be rational - u have a great career ahead, still young i presume, lots of promise and bright days ahead - so, why not end this chapter of yr life and move on, bro.

heart's a funny thing, it makes those who r too wrapped up by matters of the heart lose focus on the big picture, it makes us romanticise every freaking gesture, thoughts in our head. turns us into indecisive love-crazed wuss.

so, take a step back, and chill. do nothing. see no one. cold turkey works. and hopefully, u regain yr focus.

cheers,
NB

[Castrol]

yup and with free tix huh? wonder where to get the popcorn and cokes?

well, this is a lunch show as advised by heavy metal. no popcorn i'm afraid, you'll need to order a set lunch from the main menu. good shows dont come cheap...

Bro.. i didn't know u like watchin show one..:D

hahaha... bro i enjoy watching kiefer sutherland make the clock tick in 24, and i dont mind watching Jerry Springer making the cock tick too... :D

[blackeagle10]

Think there will be fireworks starting soon. It will get quite ugly as we don't know how his bro-in-law will react to his wife getting bonked by threadstarter.

The 2 sisters will accuse eash other of undermining each other's marriages and all hell will break loose over CNY period.

Imagine all yr relatives and friends looking at you like a disgusting pervert, and probably yr army colleagues will learnt about this too and that will spell the end of a promising career. You will find short term happiness but a lifetime of regret. The only people who will gained are the lawyers..

[Easydeals]

Hi bros

Just be very careful. In the midst of going thru a possible divorce now myself. Had indulgded in great sex with a beautiful body collegues. At that point, everything was blissful. Until she turn posessive and demand time from me all the time. I had to give tons of excuses to my trusting wife for not being to go home early.

Wanted to break off the affairs and she turns totally not her usual self. From a cheerful and understanding person into those 1. cry 2. make fuse 3. threaten to die .... Life had been miserable to me and that make me realize that woman is woman.. Just got caught on the phone with her last Thursday by my wife and now she is filing for divorce... Going to lose my son, her and the entire family soon...

My advice.. Stop before it becomes too late.

This is the problem. If the affair ends with mutual consent, then hey lucky u! If the affair turns out as above, ie. the woman starts crying, being possessive, threaten life & death, then all shit break lose. At the end of the day, it's a gamble. What kind of woman are you dealing with? but sadly, the small head usually rules over the big head.

[vesfreq]

To the threadstarter,

The thing about being wrong or right is, sometimes, hard to tell.

Ask a man who had just survived a fatal car accident and he will tell you life is more precious than anything else. But, ask the drunk heart broken king, he will tell you life is worthless.

To the man who had made history by being the first on the moon, it just another chapter in his life. Ask the child studying the history about the first man on the moon, he will tell you that its amazing.

The matter about significance and morality behind action is little more than relativity in action.

[heavy metal]

am on urgent leave today......have not slept since yesterday
I confronted my wife yesterday afternoon....it wasn't planned but circumstances forced my hand. I went to her office at 6pm - her knock-off time. She didn't know I was on leave. Her colleagues told me she was on leave. A very sympathetic colleague told me she mentioned about going to the Shangri-la Sentosa. I didn't know what to think...what to do and so I went home
She got back home at around 8pm - that is about the usual time she reaches home. Normally I will reach home around 7pm. Anyway, I immediately confronted her on her whereabouts, telling her that I was at her office and that I knew where she went. We started arguing but strangely there were no shouting or anything like that. It was more like two people sitting down at the dinner table and arguing - business like - about a screwed-up project. Damm strange. In fact it was outright wieired.
She finally admitted to having an affair - it was a guy from a neighbouring office. They have been at it for almost 1 year now. My whole world came crashing down. We wer silent for a while. Another strange thingy was, there were no tears. In fact I could read the relief in her eyes. Finally I can't stand it anymore and left the house.
I went driving round and round Singapore from one expressway to another another. Kena caught speeding at 125km/hr off the Adam Rd flyover...knn.
My SIL contacted me around 1AM telling me that she found out from my wife about our break-up. Funny I didn't mentioned anything of the sort to her...she came to that conclusion herself. We met at her condo - she's sharing the condo with two other gfs. Finally there was the release point I needed and I broke down in front of her. Her comforting words and loving touches were such a great consolation and embrace to my pain. We held each other on the bed until the morning.
I came home just now - around 6am - my wife was gone. Some of her clothes were also gone, not to mentioned my original Liverpool jersey with Steven Gerrard's autograph..knn - wat the fuck she want that shirt for I dunno....
Anyway, my SIL - her name is Laura and mine is Christian - is sleeping in the bedroom. I didn't feel like sleeping. Watched a little TV, then surfing the net - doing something I haven't done for a long time - trawling the porn sites...etf rite ?. A little part of me is very relief that this is out in the open and finally everything is so clear. If my wife - her name is Lorienne -wants a divorce I will gladly consent. Enough of this pain and shit she put me through. Rite now I feel its the right time to move on.
I would like to say thank-you to all the bros in this forum for all your insights and inputs. Getting advices - negative and positive - from you guys have been really beneficial to me. The fact that you bro dunno me personally makes for a sincerely independent assessment of my predicament. Thanks bros...
And for those of you who really like to know - yes I did have sex with my SIL some moments ago and now shes sleeping it off, having stayed awake all nite to be with me.

[verylucky_88]

Please take care! At least, you don't have any children. There isn't any fall out. The pain will end soon. Leave as friends rather then enemy.

[nismo88]

Bro my condolences goes out to u....

life is somewhat unpredictable from the beginning...
but we all have to move on...
hope u pick up the bits and pieces soon n move on....

n if still able to provide... FR with SIL or mayb ex SIL will prove to be welcoming... :D (jokin)

[hubber26]

Well, your case was quite a norm to me. I saw a couple of friends's uncle ended up marrying their SIL and then recently, one of them (uncle) having affair again. :eek:

One of them often have family meetings regarding serious issue such as this and IMAGINE your wife's sister (aka ex-wife) sitting together with their Bros and in-laws firing at him. I cant imagine the sight.

[Wins88]

She finally admitted to having an affair - it was a guy from a neighbouring office. They have been at it for almost 1 year now.

Bro - I am so sorry to hear this and I wish you all the very best. I do advise you to get a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings as she was the unfaithful party and u can safeguard yourself in case she wants to claim maintenance from you - since she was CAUGHT! Good luck!

[japboy]

am on urgent leave today......have not slept since yesterday.

breakups are always painful.. esp for the party who's d one being told.... i think d strain between u n ur wife came in long time ago but u jz trying to sleep it off.. alot like me... but u will have to make a painful decision to get over it once and for all.... drag on n it will hurt both of u... n d lucky thing is dat both of u got over it fast (i oso wanna know y she took ur liverpool tees w gerard's signature...)

anyway, i dun think u can honestly go back to ur SIL now... can u bear looking at ur ex-wife n call her SIL?... well, jz move on w life n hopefully u will land in a betta situation than before n cherish ur new lady in life.... keep it up.... u have my support if u need it... but i can't intro u gals though... maybe sum of my buddies can help but i can't as i'm a teapot (short, fat and ugly..) :D

[ct75]

PROTECT YOURSELF!! Seriously dude you are on dangerous ground here now. You started an affair with your SIL and knowing Singapore law... you will most likely be paying maintanence to your wife UNLESS you can have proof that she had an affair first. Even then you having an affair doesnt look good on you. Yes sad to sad, we men are condemned before even being judged. So you might still end up having to pay something. There is also the issue of the flat or apartment and car if you have. Get a lawyer quickly to work out a plan of action. I'm sure she is doing so on her part. Women are ruthless creatures, when they fall out of love with you, they work real fast to get their most out of you.

Be careful too of the "I want to come back to you" The guy she is fucking with might be as I said just fucking with her and not expecting to get caught. So she might come back begging for your forgiveness when the guy tells her hey lady I just want to fuck not marry you. For your own sake, DON'T forgive her, she can betray you once, she can betray you twice.

And for your SIL..... frankly you think it's really a good idea? I mean if you feel so then I got nothing to say but frankly its too dangerous man..... history may repeat itself....

[jacksz]

think there's no right or wrong to this. we are not the ones bonking our SILs so we won't know the emotional or mental elements involved.

anyway, the consequences might even turn out to be a positive one. the wife might be bonking with another dude.

but if this whole thing goes rotten, be prepared to lose your pride & integrity.

[Oracle0711]

Divorce comes with implications. Implications that results in the curse of divorce. Things don't get better after divorce, it gets from bad to worst and all things around you along with it. Just look around.:eek:

[ct75]

Divorce comes with implications. Implications that results in the curse of divorce. Things don't get better after divorce, it gets from bad to worst and all things around you along with it. Just look around.:eek:


I beg to differ!! In this case, the threadstarter's wife has been humping happily with another man behind his back and after being confronted with the issue chose to pack up and leave home. And still don't divorce his wife??? For what? Keep on spending money on a ungrateful bitch who gets fucked by a colleague and gets fed by a husband who only exists on paper?

[devilboy99]

To the threatstarter,
Your story is really like Melrose Place... very complicated.......

What rite do u have to be pissed with your wife? U slept with her sister, she slept with another man.... Both of u have been unfaithful to each other... n the best part is u have just made things worst by sleeping with of all people her sister...

Can u imagine how wonderful your next family gathering will be like?

For eg: Your wedding with your X wife sister:

The emcee will announce: Welcome to the wedding ceremony of the former brides sister and brother in law of the bride.... Interesting rite???

This is getting too complicated for me ........

[Frankiestine]

To the threatstarter,
Your story is really like Melrose Place... very complicated.......
For eg: Your wedding with your X wife sister:
The emcee will announce: Welcome to the wedding ceremony of the former brides sister and brother in law of the bride.... Interesting rite???
This is getting too complicated for me ........
Lets make it a bit more cuntfusing...what happen the wife so happens to be humping with his own brother...??

[KingEros]

Divorce comes with implications.... Things don't get better after divorce, it gets from bad to worst and all things around you along with it. Just look around.:eek:
Beg to differ ... was divorced & can't be any happier.
IMHO ... if there's no children to think about, then it's purely a matter between 2 adults ... if neither also not in the mood to COMPROMISE (notice I didn't use the word SALVAGE), then why still drag on??

[KingEros]

Lets make it a bit more cuntfusing...what happen the wife so happens to be humping with his own brother...??
Then, they can consider a BIG foursome on their re-wedding nite?? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[Promfret]

First of all...
Do you have any concret proof that ur Wife is having an affair?
Or issit just an excuse for ur WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE?

If this AFFAIR were to come to LIGHT,
How do you think your wife's and your family will react?

Issit something like this:
From your In-Laws,
Thanks for Fcuking both my daughters? or
Thanks for having Faith with our teaching and educating
of our daughter that you dun wan the Elder one but still choose
the Younger one?

From your family,
Wah not bad ah...
Dun wan Big one take Small one...

And how r the 2 sisters going to face each other?
Have you ever thought of the consequences?
Guess its another situation where Small Head
takes over Big Head...

Well, having typed so much,
Think its time for you to seriously sit down and consider
what to do nxt.

All the Best.

[dalps]

Bro Heavy Metal,

sympathies to u...but really hope u think things carefully thru abt SIL..a screw is a screw,end of story!! dun go further.

U think u love SIL now cos she gave u something which yr wife( or soon to be EX-wife) could not at this time. but think abt it, the more u screw her, the more u know her beter, u wil most likely find out her faults and get tired of her. den what?? divorce or break off again?? aha, but now the price to pay is higher cos its SIL..

its jus like when guys advise their female frens who jus broke up and then sometimes their female fren will now fall for them cos they are abit emotional unsteady at that pt & its easier to sweep them off their feet.

so right now u may b that bit emotional unsteady too so any gd soul giving yr advice can easily sweep u off yr feet.

jus my thoughts

[ct75]

People I think that you guys should take the time and go read back 10 posts earlier before lambasting the threadstarter. He is definetely wrong in my opinion for having even ideas about his SIL, however in his case, his wife has admitted to having an affair with her colleague.... so its a case of both parties fucking behind each other's back

[devilboy99]

People I think that you guys should take the time and go read back 10 posts earlier before lambasting the threadstarter. He is definetely wrong in my opinion for having even ideas about his SIL, however in his case, his wife has admitted to having an affair with her colleague.... so its a case of both parties fucking behind each other's back

We did read the entries earlier and that is why we are blasting him away for his behaviour.

I agree with u bro that its a case of both parties fucking behind each other's back and that is why i am telling the threatstarter u deserved no sympathy nor have the rite to be sad or piss with your wife as u been a jackass too, screwing around.

[KingEros]

He is definetely wrong in my opinion for having even ideas about his SIL, however in his case, his wife has admitted to having an affair with her colleague.... so its a case of both parties fucking behind each other's back
We can all see that you are a believer of "2 wrongs make 1 right" ...
From my perspective though, the thread-starter would still be considered okay if it was a tit-for-tat with just another lover-girl ... in this case, the complication comes about becoz it's his SIL we're talking about.

Next, has anyone noticed or analyzed why the SIL became a willing "victim of circumstances"??
My takes:
Possibility 1 ... this SIL has a thing for him, ever since he fulfilled the BIG BRO role by supporting her studies financially & spiritually (?)??
Possibility 2 ... this SIL knows about the betrayal her own sister bestowed upon this "good" man, someone she'd love to have as her own??

At the end of the day ... just like war, there's no right & wrong in the matters of the heart too. I would neither encourage nor condemn the threadstarter, where the bonk was concerned. I've long given up on him - that's when he expressed in no uncertain terms that he's actually contemplating marriage with the SIL.

How more irresponsible can a man be?? I mean, does he give a hoot about ruining the life of a 3rd innocent person, even if he thinks that his & his wife's have been thoroughly screwed beyond repair?? :eek:

[ct75]

We can all see that you are a believer of "2 wrongs make 1 right" ...



I am not saying that he is right..... I am saying that his wife is no better fucking behind his back. Trust me I have seen such women with my own eyes. My ex colleague was one such person. Married at a young age and has 3 kids. Marriage stable but boring to her.... So she started going out and started partying and heard her talking openly on the phone with her gfs about this guy that she met lah and that guy that she met lah. Apparently her so called ladies night out were actually get to know more guys nights. It was not before long that she started dating them and soon bonking them.... Finally one day she just left the house, saying that she enjoys her new life more than her marriage which she has grown bored of... The poor hubby even called the office looking for her cos she just simply packed up without saying a word one day and left for her bf's place.

I agree that the SIL thing is a big no no which is why I did say the the threadstarter does he want to have a part 2 of the whole damn thing? But I am also saying that give the poor guy some slack as his wife was clearly happily fucking behind his back.... and it wasnt due to cos he was having some affair....