married men chasing after what?

[Edyta]

I noticed for every single guy's attention i get 3x more married men's attention. There are many married men "dating"/"chasing" women.
What are u hoping to achieve? NSA sex/FB? Just companionship n hopefully sex as well? Escape from your oc at home (fantasy double life)? Looking for next marriage?
Married men appreciate your views
Thank u

[joncheong]

I noticed for every single guy's attention i get 3x more married men's attention. There are many married men "dating"/"chasing" women.
What are u hoping to achieve? NSA sex/FB? Just companionship n hopefully sex as well? Escape from your oc at home (fantasy double life)? Looking for next marriage?
Married men appreciate your views
Thank u

Single man looks for a potential life partner, married man looks for a potential fuck buddy...how i know, cos i'm a married man also....

[sunhuan-con]

Man is greedy for beautiful woman and sex .......even 70 year old man also love it too.....Thats the nature.

[sta1100]

most married men looking for pussy as thier wife are unable to let them have it due to many other reason.

[loneyheart]

So what abt u TS bro/sis u married / single why u join SBF SEX forum for ?? So what r u hoping / searching in SBF SEX forum for ??

[Edyta]

Thanks for all the replies. I guess i just need this kind of reality check before my wishful thinking gets me into trouble. Its kinda sad that there is no real feelings n all is fake except cold hard fact of sex pursue. I mean i thot there was at least a connection at companionship level.

[Edyta]

So what abt u TS bro/sis u married / single why u join SBF SEX forum for ?? So what r u hoping / searching in SBF SEX forum for ??

I always able to get the most honest male opinion here. So i am here to ask some questions, read the v well written sex stories (words appeal to women n we like to imagine) n also to chitchat with a few nice people here (yes there are not all are just here to find fb/ons). Hope this answers your question.

[MIFAcafe]

http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1340195941228_791595.png

When a man has a few girls, he is been call a player.

When a woman has a few man, she is been call a slut.

Life is unfair, but that is the way I love life.:D

[acidicavex]

Hmmm i think nowadays should ask what are the married men and women doing what is in their mind....


Men have a secondary brain so most probably or majority will think with 2nd brain....


However rare occassion some need a listening ear or comfort zone from the constant nagging at home and constant whinning from the kids...

Sorta like a runaway partner.

Vice versa for women.....

[urgg]

SEX

Man will never get enough of sex.. with different partners.. It may sound dirty, but how many man can control?

lets quote like this.. I can have a wife that looks like fann wong, after a few years with her.. i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her.. man just loves new and fresh thingy..

[Edyta]

Hmmm i think nowadays should ask what are the married men and women doing what is in their mind....


Men have a secondary brain so most probably or majority will think with 2nd brain....


However rare occassion some need a listening ear or comfort zone from the constant nagging at home and constant whinning from the kids...

Sorta like a runaway partner.

Vice versa for women.....

So its like building a fantasy life outside reality?
Once crunch time comes he will run bk to reality n kill the fantasy...

[loneyheart]

Thanks for all the replies. I guess i just need this kind of reality check before my wishful thinking gets me into trouble. Its kinda sad that there is no real feelings n all is fake except cold hard fact of sex pursue. I mean i thot there was at least a connection at companionship level.

I always able to get the most honest male opinion here. So i am here to ask some questions, read the v well written sex stories (words appeal to women n we like to imagine) n also to chitchat with a few nice people here (yes there are not all are just here to find fb/ons). Hope this answers your question.

thxs for yr honest reply
We mayb lost or at time searching for something tat can fill t emptiness inside us at time ... ppl r too busy nowadays n may neglect t feeling of t love ones ... as time flew by it become a nom routine n when u think n look back we mayb lost t feel what left behind mayb just a responsibility .... n inside tat what call loneliness
SEX may not b t only search but someone to talk to or relate with tat can click or get affectionate n yes mayb yes tat lead to physical ctc tat making love .... do we meet to b together ... mayb not as we will b parted eventually

I may sounded stipig as I m not good in words but tat wat I feel :(

[Edyta]

SEX

Man will never get enough of sex.. with different partners.. It may sound dirty, but how many man can control?

lets quote like this.. I can have a wife that looks like fann wong, after a few years with her.. i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her.. man just loves new and fresh thingy..

U r v direct. Thks for the wakeup call.
1 qn - so its true no matter what happens men still love only their wives, any other women are just random encounters for "newness" n variety sexual experiences?

[milfmilf]

those men that come to SBF, what can be expected from their answers? :D

ladies reading their replies should not conclude these are the norm, they belong to the humsup category ... hard truth! this is SBF wat ... LOL

of course other good man also will humsup, but is not like they will go all out to steal eat ...

[acidicavex]

So its like building a fantasy life outside reality?
Once crunch time comes he will run bk to reality n kill the fantasy...

Sorta of, can't say everyone is that way..... but do have to agree with most bros here...

SOrry not offend to anyone.... or any married bros... but of coz majority is sex.... but there are case starting out as clean but end up with emotion attachment. As the saying goes one thing lead to another.... those are likely getting messy.

As for those that solely looking for sex well like the way u say it once fantasy over mostly will step back into reality.

[urgg]

U r v direct. Thks for the wakeup call.
1 qn - so its true no matter what happens men still love only their wives, any other women are just random encounters for "newness" n variety sexual experiences?

Sis, it is not true men only love their wives.. aiya.. i will contradict myself if i explain further.. bottom line is ladies.. do not go into any bed action with married guys.. things will get complicated..

[Edyta]

thxs for yr honest reply
We mayb lost or at time searching for something tat can fill t emptiness inside us at time ... ppl r too busy nowadays n may neglect t feeling of t love ones ... as time flew by it become a nom routine n when u think n look back we mayb lost t feel what left behind mayb just a responsibility .... n inside tat what call loneliness
SEX may not b t only search but someone to talk to or relate with tat can click or get affectionate n yes mayb yes tat lead to physical ctc tat making love .... do we meet to b together ... mayb not as we will b parted eventually

I may sounded stipig as I m not good in words but tat wat I feel :(

I think i get what u mean. Seems tht u have been hurt before.
Hope a really good woman can fill your heart with happiness again.

[Edyta]

Sis, it is not true men only love their wives.. aiya.. i will contradict myself if i explain further.. bottom line is ladies.. do not go into any bed action with married guys.. things will get complicated..

Ok! I don't wana be in tht "complication" must think with my brains not my heart.

[Rocode]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVQ20P46Qwc&list=PLFOQsDL6WhhC6yjPZ4e87Awdcw4kWpbWP&index=1


Cheers
Rocode

[maxsee]

I am sure not all men have sex on their mind...I for one came to this forum simply to voice my opinions on stuffs....Not interested in sex or whatsoever...And let's not forget I even use my real name .... :D:D:D

[Almond Kisses]

SEX

Man will never get enough of sex.. with different partners.. It may sound dirty, but how many man can control?

lets quote like this.. I can have a wife that looks like fann wong, after a few years with her.. i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her.. man just loves new and fresh thingy..

OMG !! that is sooo funny :eek:

[Yakuza]

Every normal human need SEX as an essential part of nature. Birds do it, bees also do it. Hence the The Kamasutra (http://m.sofeminine.co.uk/relationships/album856252/sex-positions-kamasutra-sex-positions-0.html) is the bible of sex positions. It was written in India in Sanskrit.

All living things obey the law of nature .. less those defective brain cells ...

The moment the the egg is fertilize by the sperm ..its already cast in stone .. no 2 ways abt it.. however how hard u try to denied.. ur body mechanisms start working the unavoidable urge to fulfill and obey the law of nature ..

why do u think unlike pole magnet attract, just like opposite sex attract to each other .. of course there's always the minority exceptions which I believed, are the product of defective cells during development ..

Just a few things for u to ponder .. cheersss:)

[Castrol]

i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her..

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oaQDFLV0JrQ/Tmmfe1C_FlI/AAAAAAAAHoA/S0FRFGyEhko/s400/hot%252520girl-flag%252520salute.jpg

[urgg]

Hey dun laugh la.. heheh.. PAtricia mok also kena squeeze butt during clubbing. she still have her own value la..

[Edyta]

Hey dun laugh la.. heheh.. PAtricia mok also kena squeeze butt during clubbing. she still have her own value la..

Actually she is slim n hv her own kinda beauty, aft all she is in show biz

[porscheclub]

I noticed for every single guy's attention i get 3x more married men's attention. There are many married men "dating"/"chasing" women.
What are u hoping to achieve? NSA sex/FB? Just companionship n hopefully sex as well? Escape from your oc at home (fantasy double life)? Looking for next marriage?
Married men appreciate your views
Thank u

Everything you said. Married men & nowadays wives enjoy the chasing/attention they get with every new relationship. The hunting is the fun part for males while ladies love the princess treatment ;)

Are you over 30yrs old? Most married men are attracted to that age group as the lady will be more matured & easier to communicate vs those under 25.

[Redoxan]

Actually she is slim n hv her own kinda beauty, aft all she is in show biz

Saw her real person 2 weeks ago in KL. Still as "loud" as before.

[doubletap]

SEX

Man will never get enough of sex.. with different partners.. It may sound dirty, but how many man can control?

lets quote like this.. I can have a wife that looks like fann wong, after a few years with her.. i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her.. man just loves new and fresh thingy..

definitely TRUE! fucking TRUE!

[jj_jj]

A lot of men just want a "kill", the thrill of the chase may even be the major "enjoyment".

Some men/women just want the companionship that they lack from the current relationship, sex may not even be part of this.

Some women just crave the attention they get from suitor(s).
Some have high sex drive and do not get enough from their hbs/bfs.

Whether men or women, if they can't get it at home or not enough of it and badly need to satisfy a need, they will go out and look for a fix..

[demonhunter]

SEX

Man will never get enough of sex.. with different partners.. It may sound dirty, but how many man can control?

lets quote like this.. I can have a wife that looks like fann wong, after a few years with her.. i go out see patricia mok i also feel like upping her.. man just loves new and fresh thingy..

Brudder ... you are on your own on this one !

:D

[urgg]

Brudder ... you are on your own on this one !

:D

Bro i want also dun have ar hahaha.

[BabyEito]

Everything you said. Married men & nowadays wives enjoy the chasing/attention they get with every new relationship. The hunting is the fun part for males while ladies love the princess treatment ;)

Are you over 30yrs old? Most married men are attracted to that age group as the lady will be more matured & easier to communicate vs those under 25.

Yes most married men like matured and stable sB
Or fb or whatsoever

They need communication n enjoy having it with a worldly wise lady as compared to early 20s

[loveless1]

Yes most married men like matured and stable sB
Or fb or whatsoever


Whatsoever sounds wrong....

[bbmapple]

They are seeking their own "market value"... Probably lacking sex at home also... Tio nagged at home... No one to share their woes at work etc... See outside got more chio, new holes they never try before de, will just keep trying lo...

Whatever it is, be prepared to pay the price of being the "complication" ~~

[HonkyTonkyMan]

I noticed for every single guy's attention i get 3x more married men's attention. There are many married men "dating"/"chasing" women.
What are u hoping to achieve? NSA sex/FB? Just companionship n hopefully sex as well? Escape from your oc at home (fantasy double life)? Looking for next marriage?
Married men appreciate your views
Thank u

Some times married man gets attracted to a married woman not because purely for sex. There are times when he sees in that woman what is lacking in his wife. Not necessarily looks or figure etc but the essence of a wife or mother. Over time he learns to appreciate the other woman for this qualities and eventually might just "fall in love" again....

[bbmapple]

Some times married man gets attracted to a married woman not because purely for sex. There are times when he sees in that woman what is lacking in his wife. Not necessarily looks or figure etc but the essence of a wife or mother. Over time he learns to appreciate the other woman for this qualities and eventually might just "fall in love" again....

End of the day, the married guy will still stay in his own marriage, cos its just too troublesome to divorce la...

[Edyta]

Bro i want also dun have ar hahaha.


Haha i din know u fantasize so mch abt her

[Edyta]

Some times married man gets attracted to a married woman not because purely for sex. There are times when he sees in that woman what is lacking in his wife. Not necessarily looks or figure etc but the essence of a wife or mother. Over time he learns to appreciate the other woman for this qualities and eventually might just "fall in love" again....

U are 1 rare guy. Like everyone says its no real feelings just pursue sex n some by products like gfe, companion, hangout etc. Once the wife got suspicious they will give up n go home to wife.

[Edyta]

Saw her real person 2 weeks ago in KL. Still as "loud" as before.
Being loud is her trademark
I think some men like this type

[Edyta]

Everything you said. Married men & nowadays wives enjoy the chasing/attention they get with every new relationship. The hunting is the fun part for males while ladies love the princess treatment ;)

Are you over 30yrs old? Most married men are attracted to that age group as the lady will be more matured & easier to communicate vs those under 25.

Abv 30
Its still a pursue of sex only correct?

[demonhunter]

Abv 30
Its still a pursue of sex only correct?

Above or below 30 yrs of age is still about the SEX

more than 30 - SEX with less hassle

Less than 30 - Nicer sex with the hassle

:D

[acidicavex]

Some times married man gets attracted to a married woman not because purely for sex. There are times when he sees in that woman what is lacking in his wife. Not necessarily looks or figure etc but the essence of a wife or mother. Over time he learns to appreciate the other woman for this qualities and eventually might just "fall in love" again....

I agree but than again it only what we think. Most of the time it doesnt happen that way. She might look more womanly, more loving, more motherly with that man at hat moment. But we cant guarantee she will be the same with u......

More like a emotion needy......

[Special Spawner]

Hi TS, I think whatever you read here are all matter of opinions. Every one is different and who knows what he is really thinking??! He may just be gay but tries to be a player..haha..just exaggerating.

Anyhoo...men don't think, they act. Their brain is below the waist, never on their head. It does not matter if we are single or married. We are all the same. If we are single, we becomes potential for a relationship because we have no baggage. If we are married, the baggage is hard to let go, as you have carried too far and are comfortable with it. It's routine, it's boring, and you have probably become an inferior man in front of your wife, but they are family..and there are many implications like not wanting to be labelled as '花心/playboy', etc from people and relatives around. More likely or not, you go back.

So why do they go out and do bad things? The reason is quite simple, they can't find it at home. Different men seek different things. Some purely for sex, pay and forget. Some for emotional connection, simply to feel important from another woman. Some for excitement..adventure. Basically to get out of their routine boring life.

However, everything takes 2 hands to clap. Why do women get involved? Dig deep..what are you really hoping to happened? Men are helpless unless being led on...

[HonkyTonkyMan]

End of the day, the married guy will still stay in his own marriage, cos its just too troublesome to divorce la...

well as a married woman, what would you have done too...pack up and leave the family? some times married adults in a affair can only pick the best out of the worst solution...true be many married people and i dare say men and women alike, their initial reaction is just to look for a getaway affair with no expectation but we know these is not possible....soon it gets messy with all the emotions invested in...that where as matured adults we have to temper our expectation by realizing that to stay together..divorce may not necessary be the best solution for both parties..

[BabyEito]

End of the day, the married guy will still stay in his own marriage, cos its just too troublesome to divorce la...

Not true Different lives N stories
Some would divorce If the marriage already breaking down and the purpose is for the kids

But all no.3 must know the rules you do not break or seek to break marriages but
Then again some No.3 scheme to be No.1

While others just wanna be The lady that supports
Emotionally
Mentally

And
Lastly Physically

[porscheclub]

Abv 30
Its still a pursue of sex only correct?

I've come to realise this to be especially true:

Women give sex to find love & men give love to find sex.

A woman who's madly in love would do anything for the man just to feel important while there are men who would do everything never possible before just to win her over.

God made us to be a key & a lock so the frolicking part is inevitable. If you're just seeking a buddy kind of friendship with the opposite sex then good luck.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

I agree but than again it only what we think. Most of the time it doesnt happen that way. She might look more womanly, more loving, more motherly with that man at hat moment. But we cant guarantee she will be the same with u......

More like a emotion needy......

Well can't say you are wrong in that perhaps 7 to 8 out of 10 might just go for the physical side to it but some times there are those than when the truth is blown, you would find yourselves asking, just what the heck he sees in that other woman...no looks no figure etc. compared to their own oc...

[Edyta]

I've come to realise this to be especially true:

Women give sex to find love & men give love to find sex.

A woman who's madly in love would do anything for the man just to feel important while there are men who would do everything never possible before just to win her over.

God made us to be a key & a lock so the frolicking part is inevitable. If you're just seeking a buddy kind of friendship with the opposite sex then good luck.

Agree thts nature, apply that to 2 singles its fireworks n a relationship. If the man is married he cannot give commitment it would b messy. I am not really looking for just buddy i have many friends. I am not looking for a new partner either. I dont know what i want.

[porscheclub]

Agree thts nature, apply that to 2 singles its fireworks n a relationship. If the man is married he cannot give commitment it would b messy. I am not really looking for just buddy i have many friends. I am not looking for a new partner either. I dont know what i want.

Well, I have several friends of your of age & some in their 50s that are in a relationship but not married & cohabiting. Children is not a must so they both enjoy certain degree of freedom as a "single" & this is usually possible when both are income earners.

I guess you're afraid of commitment and getting hurt so it's better to remain single yet you feel the loneliness at times which makes you feel fragile & a man would give warmth but can he give the commitment+loyalty? Mr Right has not come along then & women past 40 loses value fast. Well, good luck & living life to the fullest is more important than finding a partner which sometimes give more troubles.

[Xyberduke]

I've come to realise this to be especially true:

Women give sex to find love & men give love to find sex.

A woman who's madly in love would do anything for the man just to feel important while there are men who would do everything never possible before just to win her over.

God made us to be a key & a lock so the frolicking part is inevitable. If you're just seeking a buddy kind of friendship with the opposite sex then good luck.

It's true in the opposite direction as well.
A lot of women, especially those under 30s give Love to have Sex as well... You will be surprised!

[Yakuza_AV]

Is a cycle. Married men will go back to chase love... That make him blind again.

[Edyta]

Well, I have several friends of your of age & some in their 50s that are in a relationship but not married & cohabiting. Children is not a must so they both enjoy certain degree of freedom as a "single" & this is usually possible when both are income earners.

I guess you're afraid of commitment and getting hurt so it's better to remain single yet you feel the loneliness at times which makes you feel fragile & a man would give warmth but can he give the commitment+loyalty? Mr Right has not come along then & women past 40 loses value fast. Well, good luck & living life to the fullest is more important than finding a partner which sometimes give more troubles.

Commitment n getting entangled with someone financially is something i know i dont want. Well life goes on just have to live it responsibly, bring joy to family n friends, invest in hobbies. Thats about it! N to always remind myself married men just want sex nothing more.

[porscheclub]

It's true in the opposite direction as well.
A lot of women, especially those under 30s give Love to have Sex as well... You will be surprised!

Oh well when girls start making out at 12 years old....

N to always remind myself married men just want sex nothing more.

Xiaojie. Single men also want sex. Geez are you really from Venus?!

Beware of the man who gets close to you & doesn't want sex then it's your money that he's after or the Singapore marriage certificate where he can amplify it's potential for his VISA (if he's a foreigner) or other illegal businesses. Some of you may not know but our Singapore passport is one of the most accepted pc of entry to most countries in the world when most 3rd world passports need to apply VISAs that are often rejected or take a long time to approve

[36SCE]

Abv 30
Its still a pursue of sex only correct?

Sex may be the end game for some but not always the reason why married man stray. If indeed sex is the only reason, then engaging prostitutes will be much quicker and cheaper and lowest cost in terms of time, money and emotional issues.

Some may be looking for a different kind of excitement in their lives, especially those older ones where the family are all doing their own things or wife overly focused on kids or career. Of course, eating the same dish everyday is also a cause for the roving eye in many men and coming onto forums like this also makes the mind a lot more imaginative :p and I'm sure some (including myself) get ideas about the possibilities that exist out there.

Another reason is also some men lack confidence when younger. Having build up a career or having gained more life experience, now have the confidence to play a wider field as compared to their younger days where they may have settled for a lot less including marriage.

So the excitement of the pursuit aka forbidden fruit is always a strong reason for men to stray and even if not all get sex, sometimes the act of pursuit makes one come alive !

[bbmapple]

well as a married woman, what would you have done too...pack up and leave the family? some times married adults in a affair can only pick the best out of the worst solution...true be many married people and i dare say men and women alike, their initial reaction is just to look for a getaway affair with no expectation but we know these is not possible....soon it gets messy with all the emotions invested in...that where as matured adults we have to temper our expectation by realizing that to stay together..divorce may not necessary be the best solution for both parties..

Recently had chance to discuss this topic with a married guy friend..

He says, legal spouse is for display at home so that ppl will see him as proper and responsible guy. He wants a family to be able to go back to.

But outside, he will hope to have a player life, find someone who can share deepest darkest fetish and fantasies about and even a swing partner or someone who can give him a much more interesting sex life. Which is something he wont expect out of a normal marriage.

End of day, I think humans are humans. Just wanna be selfish and have the best of both worlds.

I dont wish my friend gets a divorce but I hope he plays with caution. Cos women 6th sense very "zhun".. He more than once kena spotted liao :eek:

[bbmapple]

Not true Different lives N stories
Some would divorce If the marriage already breaking down and the purpose is for the kids

But all no.3 must know the rules you do not break or seek to break marriages but
Then again some No.3 scheme to be No.1

While others just wanna be The lady that supports
Emotionally
Mentally

And
Lastly Physically

Some guys just cant stick with the rules.. Not the No.3 fault also mah..

All women seek emotional support ba.. Wife or No.3.. Is the guys who cant handle more than 1 woman at a time but still try stunts la.. Then end up hurt everyone.. Haizzzz

[shazai]

Married man chased after new girl pretty girl sex and well perhaps they want to feel loved

[darknight80]

Sometimes is there isn't any love back at home anymore. Everything has changed to the worst. When husband is outside that time see something that can bring back what is lost, even for a little while, will also be something to him.

People will ask but why still keep his wife even if all is lost? Answer to that maybe that husband still cling on to the possibility, or even that small percentage, that something or someone will make the wife change and make the family love again. Afterall everyone has to think back why they fall in love last time

[Edyta]

Sex may be the end game for some but not always the reason why married man stray. If indeed sex is the only reason, then engaging prostitutes will be much quicker and cheaper and lowest cost in terms of time, money and emotional issues.

Some may be looking for a different kind of excitement in their lives, especially those older ones where the family are all doing their own things or wife overly focused on kids or career. Of course, eating the same dish everyday is also a cause for the roving eye in many men and coming onto forums like this also makes the mind a lot more imaginative :p and I'm sure some (including myself) get ideas about the possibilities that exist out there.

Another reason is also some men lack confidence when younger. Having build up a career or having gained more life experience, now have the confidence to play a wider field as compared to their younger days where they may have settled for a lot less including marriage.

So the excitement of the pursuit aka forbidden fruit is always a strong reason for men to stray and even if not all get sex, sometimes the act of pursuit makes one come alive !

Thanks. U validated another key reason thats the excitement n fun aspect of forbidden fruit. A close friend admitted he do it to feel the sexual tension n that makes him feel young n alive again. He felt that as long as he didnt kiss or do the deed he is not being unfaithful. I told himthere's another kinda affair call the emotional affair but well thats another totally different topic for another day.

[Edyta]

Sometimes is there isn't any love back at home anymore. Everything has changed to the worst. When husband is outside that time see something that can bring back what is lost, even for a little while, will also be something to him.

People will ask but why still keep his wife even if all is lost? Answer to that maybe that husband still cling on to the possibility, or even that small percentage, that something or someone will make the wife change and make the family love again. Afterall everyone has to think back why they fall in love last time

Most kept the wife to have family intact for the kids and the sense of responsibility.
Thats also main reason why men almost never leave their wives for the lovers.

[ChangeOfOrders]

Married man chased after new girl pretty girl sex and well perhaps they want to feel loved

There is some truth in this bro

[Saltyraw]

Most kept the wife to have family intact for the kids and the sense of responsibility.
Thats also main reason why men almost never leave their wives for the lovers.

Well said bro :)