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Audre
06-12-2014, 02:32 PM
Hello..
If my bf is consistently initiating from me
i not prepared at all, what should i do?

Thanks
Notti555
07-12-2014, 05:42 AM
There's nothing like if u luv me, u must give me. If he really luv u, he will not keep asking. It's for his own lust and my point of view is he is selfish for his personal lust release only. I would call yr relationship as puppy love. Cherish yr virginity n save it for someday who really love u.
DemonicSS
07-12-2014, 07:31 AM
TS, you already know in your heart what to do. You said you are not prepared at all. So, go get yourself prepared. Think about it and consider if you want to. If your answer is no AND you are an adult, I think something is wrong. Every relationship must have a sexual component to it to ensure compability. So if your sex drive is zero and his is 100%, you can ditch the relationship because it will only become painful to both of you.
MoJoe313
07-12-2014, 10:04 AM
It is either you have a lower sex drive or you have not met your real love. If you met your Lee Minh Ho, you will throw yourself at him.

Incompatible sex drive is the reason why some marriages breaks up. I mean, if the guy is eating well at home, does he need to eat outside? It will be wise to talk it out early, or if cannot find a compromise, to split before you get more serious.
twinresist2
07-12-2014, 10:53 AM
Hello..
If my bf is consistently initiating from me
i not prepared at all, what should i do?

Thanks

There is always a time for something. If you are not ready, perhaps because subconsciously you do not believe he is the right person or this is the right thing to do. I guess you really got to dig deeper into yourself to understand why instead of giving in to pressure. I believe when once you find the right reason, you will be ready :)
dylanhong
07-12-2014, 11:31 AM
Sis, if your bf truly loves you, he wont have to force you or say any ultimatums for you to have sex with him, you would do it willingly.

sexual compatibility aside, if he use the 'if you love me you should have sex with me' you will be better off with another guy. no one should be manipulated into having sex.