New Pinay in my Life

[miumiu6464]

New Pinay in my Life

Recently got to have this pinay in my company for a short term project. It's hard work. Hard as in having to be on the feet whole shift and handle 2 different groups of people. One, customers and "partners" for the other. Sometimes, she may get into verbal abuse by the partners group. And in times of manpower shortage, she just suck it up and push on.

These qualities made me admired her a lot, and slowly, found myself in love with her. Ok, maybe too fast to say love, but the attraction is definitely there. Unfortunately, being a short term project, her time in the company is almost up. As one of her supervisors, I've to keep my distance from her to avoid talks of favoritism. But, lately, I've found it hard though and succumb to my feelings and started messaging her. I've been keeping things on low profile though.

Things I've always knew about her... she's a single mum of a daughter and, I think, a son too. She used to have a husband here though I'm not sure is lawful husband or someone she view as her husband. That's all.

And, today, I spent some time looking at her Facebook only to realise that she used to work in a pinoy pub here and is one of the more popular girl. This made me even more attracted to get cos normally girls in this line , they are used to the easy money ( and perhaps gifts) going through hands and here she is, putting in hard work doing a job that doesn't even pay her anywhere close to her pub job. Not to mention the verbal abuse she sometimes get and the working environment.

(I'm trying to be as vague as possible as I don't want anyone to read this and zoom in to identify us.)

She's like an angel to me. I think of her a lot when I'm working and she's off. And, vice versa. She's gorgeous and, knowing her past job now, made me much much more attracted to her. Guess I'm just feeling inferior now.

[contrafighter]

Could this be a temporary crush? Perhaps the feeling may fade as the time goes by.

[Greendevil]

the pinay are only good for fuck onli, don waste your feeling on them.

[kurios]

Pinay are horny bitches, just be careful when fuck them. Make sure safety gadget are in place. Otherwise, enjoy one time and suffer the rest of your life.

[milfmilf]

I like pinay look too :D

but I always wonder if got pinay gf or wife, can I mix well with her family and friends ... cos the impression they gimi is they very noise and big family

if that pinay is a nice lady, and no longer any contact with her ex, best her ex die liao, cleaner... and if her ok you, then I suk-pot you go for her :D

[miumiu6464]

Thanks for the reply.

We have been spending quite a bit of time together recently. But now that she ended the project with my company, meeting up time will be less frequent.

She does keep contact with the ex, but it's more for child support. Her words though.

Our progress now is actually not as smooth as I would like it to be. Oh well... I'll keep going on though.

[milfmilf]

have you dated her already?

[crood]

Go for it. Everything start as friend. Good luck.

[miumiu6464]

Yes, we've gone out on a few occasions. As friends though.

Now, she just broke the news to me.. she's going back working in the pub. Need to save up money as she look for job. Mainstream job pays too little to support her kid and house loan.

Really at a dilemma of what to do now.

[miumiu6464]

Really bring meaning to this saying...

You can bring WL out of the ktv, but you can't bring the ktv out of the WL.

[Intltuk]

Yes, we've gone out on a few occasions. As friends though.

Now, she just broke the news to me.. she's going back working in the pub. Need to save up money as she look for job. Mainstream job pays too little to support her kid and house loan.

Really at a dilemma of what to do now.

Not a good sign. It's best to treat relationship as FB rather than marriage mat'l.

[miumiu6464]

Thought so too. But main reason is that she's got a house that she bought and paid partly with money she made from working in pub. Says "proper" job pays too low.. haizzzz. Sianz...

[lurpsexx]

Thought so too. But main reason is that she's got a house that she bought and paid partly with money she made from working in pub. Says "proper" job pays too low.. haizzzz. Sianz...

U mean she bought a place in Sg? Can meh? She pr? Wa, if not then how to buy Sg house? Hear from u she needs $$ now, so careful on your spending bro..

[miumiu6464]

U mean she bought a place in Sg? Can meh? She pr? Wa, if not then how to buy Sg house? Hear from u she needs $$ now, so careful on your spending bro..

Nope. Her house in her hometown in pinoyland. Says now on the verge of foreclosure.

Thanks for the warning. Am trying to think rationally. Lol

[Intltuk]

Thought so too. But main reason is that she's got a house that she bought and paid partly with money she made from working in pub. Says "proper" job pays too low.. haizzzz. Sianz...

Think u know where she's coming from. Money is the key driving force here and any relationship base on tat premise will fail once the moolah stops flowing.

Satisfy urself if need be but just know it's not a permanent relationship.....just don't get too involve and burn urself in the process.

[milfmilf]

And, today, I spent some time looking at her Facebook only to realise that she used to work in a pinoy pub here and is one of the more popular girl.


wow, she doesn't others know she worked in the pub?

[miumiu6464]

wow, she doesn't others know she worked in the pub?

That's what she does in the past. No reason for her to publicize her last jobs. Anyway, by posting on FB means she's not worried that others know about her past. Confident lady here.. spent a great time with her yesterday. Our relationship took a great step forward.

[whiplash]

Drop her like a hot potato and spare yourself a world of hurt. Shoot and scoot.

[sta1100]

New Pinay in my Life

Recently got to have this pinay in my company for a short term project. It's hard work. Hard as in having to be on the feet whole shift and handle 2 different groups of people. One, customers and "partners" for the other. Sometimes, she may get into verbal abuse by the partners group. And in times of manpower shortage, she just suck it up and push on.

These qualities made me admired her a lot, and slowly, found myself in love with her. Ok, maybe too fast to say love, but the attraction is definitely there. Unfortunately, being a short term project, her time in the company is almost up. As one of her supervisors, I've to keep my distance from her to avoid talks of favoritism. But, lately, I've found it hard though and succumb to my feelings and started messaging her. I've been keeping things on low profile though.

Things I've always knew about her... she's a single mum of a daughter and, I think, a son too. She used to have a husband here though I'm not sure is lawful husband or someone she view as her husband. That's all.

And, today, I spent some time looking at her Facebook only to realise that she used to work in a pinoy pub here and is one of the more popular girl. This made me even more attracted to get cos normally girls in this line , they are used to the easy money ( and perhaps gifts) going through hands and here she is, putting in hard work doing a job that doesn't even pay her anywhere close to her pub job. Not to mention the verbal abuse she sometimes get and the working environment.

(I'm trying to be as vague as possible as I don't want anyone to read this and zoom in to identify us.)

She's like an angel to me. I think of her a lot when I'm working and she's off. And, vice versa. She's gorgeous and, knowing her past job now, made me much much more attracted to her. Guess I'm just feeling inferior now.

Bro, she work in a pub b4 she know how to play the game and knowing she has kid you still want ??

[hamsapkwai]

good catch brother , dont let her get away :cool:

[miumiu6464]

Children are innocent. Having kid means all single mums must kena death sentence? Accepting a person is accepting the entire package, not just her, or her looks, or her boobs etc.... I myself love kids too.

Yes, she's in the game before and play it very well too. For now, I'm not putting too much commitment into it. Thread carefully, as some of you said.

[Jamesleejamesle]

Children are innocent. Having kid means all single mums must kena death sentence? Accepting a person is accepting the entire package, not just her, or her looks, or her boobs etc.... I myself love kids too.

Yes, she's in the game before and play it very well too. For now, I'm not putting too much commitment into it. Thread carefully, as some of you said.

Bro,
There's lots of fishes in the sea...
Don't go looking for love..it will find u...
In the meanwhile, just go with the flow...
She's been a player before...hope u don't mind me bringing this up - I am not sure how u would feel if one if these days, one of your mates say to u that they have upped her before at the pub.
If u don't mind, then I guess u are a real saviour...
Take care and tread carefully

[hamsapkwai]

Children are innocent. Having kid means all single mums must kena death sentence? Accepting a person is accepting the entire package, not just her, or her looks, or her boobs etc.... I myself love kids too.

Yes, she's in the game before and play it very well too. For now, I'm not putting too much commitment into it. Thread carefully, as some of you said.

we are convinced u are on to something good, go propose and marry her already :)

[demonhunter]

Children are innocent. Having kid means all single mums must kena death sentence? Accepting a person is accepting the entire package, not just her, or her looks, or her boobs etc.... I myself love kids too.

Yes, she's in the game before and play it very well too. For now, I'm not putting too much commitment into it. Thread carefully, as some of you said.

Just ask her how much are her charges , pay and be done with it .

Buy a pack of milk , instead of a cow .

not enough ? go for second round !

:D

[whiplash]

Why do you bother posting and asking for advice? Tell you also no use as you will not listen. As what bro said. How much she charge? Regular got discount?

[miumiu6464]

Seriously, I'm beginning to have doubt as well. Much as I wanted a long term future with her, in not even sure if she's moving in the same direction as I'm. Last night is her first night back in the pub scene and I'm already imagining things already.. Haizzzzzz

[miumiu6464]

Bro,
There's lots of fishes in the sea...
Don't go looking for love..it will find u...
In the meanwhile, just go with the flow...
She's been a player before...hope u don't mind me bringing this up - I am not sure how u would feel if one if these days, one of your mates say to u that they have upped her before at the pub.
If u don't mind, then I guess u are a real saviour...
Take care and tread carefully

Advice well heeded. Thanks...

[busterdoug]

imo i think you should do a background check on her before delving deeper and not take everything at face value ba..i mean especially on her ex husband and why they divorce bcos her history like v complicated..i think you have the rights to know what you entering into since you're serious abt her..

my humble 2 cents..

[SoulRift]

Good luck.
Pinays when they fall in love with you take care of you very devotedly from my experiences.
All the best bro.

[miumiu6464]

imo i think you should do a background check on her before delving deeper and not take everything at face value ba..i mean especially on her ex husband and why they divorce bcos her history like v complicated..i think you have the rights to know what you entering into since you're serious abt her..

my humble 2 cents..

Thanks. I had a very long chat with her. In fact, throughout the night. We're in a hotel room and did nothing but drink beer and talk about her past. I believed she had not hidden anything from me. With regards to her ex husband, they weren't married. That guy is a Singaporean and is her customer for 5 years before they got together. But just as mistress.

Yes, complicated history she has. It's something I'm still trying to come to term with. Haizzz...

[miumiu6464]

Good luck.
Pinays when they fall in love with you take care of you very devotedly from my experiences.
All the best bro.

Thanks bro.. I'll need all the luck.

[porscheclub]

Why are you getting yourself involved in a woman with so much complications?

Are you capable of supporting her household? Don't be a fool by thinking that you can be a white knight, saving a damsel in distress.

You don't need luck. You just need to wake up & walk away from her.

[miumiu6464]

Got involved with her when she's a staff in my company, before knowing all the complicated history. She's was the quiet and obedient type in my company.

By the time I knew about her history, already kena poisoned deep deep. :(

But now, am just looking at it from a FB angle, anything more will be a bonus.

[porscheclub]

She's was the quiet and obedient type in my company.

Quiet & obedient doesn't find work in a pub nor become a mistress. Don't stick stamps on your eyes.

You can't control your heart so don't even talk about FB :cool:

[whiplash]

I was once told "there is no such thing as an honest Pinoy". After dealing with them for a number of years I know this is the truth. I have been told the same thing over the years by a number of people including pinoys themselves.
When it comes to Pinay, fuck and forget.

[etsys]

I was once told "there is no such thing as an honest Pinoy". After dealing with them for a number of years I know this is the truth. I have been told the same thing over the years by a number of people including pinoys themselves.
When it comes to Pinay, fuck and forget.

I don't know how many Pinoys/pinays you have worked with ..

I can safely say 50% I know fall into your category .. and those are mostly those I meet in bars/clubs .. and likes

the other 50% will take a bullet for me, die for me, and will make sure I am out of trouble

well, there only reason I have seen professional pinay lie, is, when they are caught in a tricky situation, rather than admit they don't know, they will switch to a story, and that works, mostly, if you are dealing with govt agencies

example, "Can I get this approved ?
reply, "sir, we will not approve this" (that saying she is not sure .. )
Q: "Why?, last month i got this done.."
reply: "Ever since, the rules have changed"

the above types, even my close filipino friends call them as "professional liars.. "

As for filipinos saying their countrymen are liars, well, if you know enough, those are the type who will say stuff to make you happy, while lubricating your ass to shove something up your ass .. or kill you painlessly :D

If some filipino says their countrymen are liars, i will ask nicely if that includes the person saying it also ..

That ends my 2 cents on Pinays

back to regular programming:

miumiu6464, I have seen, as above, a lot of good girls, and a few bar girls who were in the bar because of circumstances beyond them

as long as you can see the warning signs, like "i lost my phone" and that happens every month .. or .. "my grandmother need medicine" or "my family carabao needs a new kidney ..." (or was it the other way around ?? )

Unfortunately, for the above types, when the requests start coming in, it is hard to say no .. and sometimes it can be heart wrenching, as a recent example ...

A girl I know, who met me here in a bar, went back and then when I go to Manila, met me twice and then claimed she is working here or there and unable to meet

Fast forward 3 years, with occasional requests for money, which i say no .. and then suddenly she makes a tearful request, that her child has cataract in both eyes, and it will cost 200K peso "PER EYE" .. so she needs 400K peso (about 15,000 S$..)

Now, I can tell her not to lie, as firstly, cataract operation costs less than 1k S$ per eye, and telling her additionally that her Philhealth should cover most of it, if she was working .. and .. the clincher, if her son is 2 year old, where the F is the husband .. etc. etc ..

Now I don't tell her off, as I know, no point telling her off and secondly, why spoil the chance of a future screw or future reference for a screw .. so I play along and tell her nicely that i will try my best to find money .. but don't depend, as I got retrenched etc. etc.

Play along, if it sounds dodgy

Don't throw it all away

As somebody said,you will 100% of the shots you didn't take

Hope above all was not too much ..

[miumiu6464]

Etsys

Thanks.. Spoken like the experienced cheongster that you are.

To be honest, I'm not exactly a noob in this pay 4 play game. These girls, their parents are forever in debt, their siblings are forever in school and need new computer or text books, their relatives are forever going in and out of hospitals. This is the first time that I'm dealing with a pinay though. It's always been Thais, Viet's and PRCs in the past.

So far, the $$ requests have not come in yet. Guess when it comes to that point, I'll have to deal with it. Since now, I'm still getting the bonks and quality companionship, why spoil it? I do want to see if it'll lead to something permanent.

And, to the bro who's been pm'ing for her identity and work place, sorry, I'm not going to tell. This is not a share my contact thread nor section.

[etsys]

To be honest, I'm not exactly a noob in this pay 4 play game. These girls, their parents are forever in debt, their siblings are forever in school and need new computer or text books, their relatives are forever going in and out of hospitals. This is the first time that I'm dealing with a pinay though. It's always been Thais, Viet's and PRCs in the past.

Then again, you may have landed a girl, like one I met in a pub, she was killing time, but turn out she damn well to do, just got dragged by a friend to SG ..

She even pay for my travel, to Genting, when I told her I am broke :D Paiseh .. though ..


So far, the $$ requests have not come in yet. Guess when it comes to that point, I'll have to deal with it. Since now, I'm still getting the bonks and quality companionship, why spoil it? I do want to see if it'll lead to something permanent.

Well, maybe she will not ask you .. hope for that ;)

Enjoy the ride, while it lasts, and don't forget to get off to solid ground, when the sea swell picks up, said an ancient marine !!

[hamsapkwai]

. This is the first time that I'm dealing with a pinay though. It's always been Thais, Viet's and PRCs in the past.



thais, viets prcs play different game? seriously ? hmmm......

[etsys]

thais, viets prcs play different game? seriously ? hmmm......

end objective maybe same, but method different

if you have screwed a pinay, you will wholeheartedly agree, Pinays, if they decide, can control your brain through their pussy .. passionate love making :D

[hamsapkwai]

end objective maybe same, but method different

if you have screwed a pinay, you will wholeheartedly agree, Pinays, if they decide, can control your brain through their pussy .. passionate love making :D

and girls from other nationalities cant do that ? seriously? hmmm......

[etsys]

and girls from other nationalities cant do that ? seriously? hmmm......

aiyo, it's about comfort level.

Some people can understand, say, viets like the back of their palm and know their tricks, but get sold out by Thai or Filipinas .. and vice versa

Then again, those days, my experience with pinays was always good till I got tripped, and the I became wiser .. :D

[hamsapkwai]

aiyo, it's about comfort level.

Some people can understand, say, viets like the back of their palm and know their tricks, but get sold out by Thai or Filipinas .. and vice versa

Then again, those days, my experience with pinays was always good till I got tripped, and the I became wiser .. :D

you`re the Man brother :)