True love is only found when you have no money

[zan888]

In all the relationship which I have been, I think only 1 in which I felt that money was not an issue in our relationship. What I mean is that I felt that even though I had not much money, she would still be with me. Unfortunately due to circumstances, we split up. I still hold her in high regard in my books.

Of course in most relationship, money or the promise of it, does play a major role. So a girl may not choose a rich guy but chooses a guy with promising career, so she forgo instant gratification for long term gains( this type girl too smart? haha )

I guess that is why most people would advice staying away from WL/FL as long term partners, because money issue is always going to be there( in other words no money, no honey). Then again which girl have you encountered before when money was never an issue? Maybe in primary school crush? Ok maybe if you are blessed with good genes and look like a chinese version of Brad Pitt version, you would claim that the girls lavish you with money and gifts instead.

So my question is was there was there ever a relationship where the girl loves you for your mind/personality alone and how would you know this? Maybe if she doesnt complain if she eat MacDonalds cos you say you no money due to lost football siong siong? I think there types of relationship though rare, can be a basis for a lasting relationship?

[surbana]

Nothing is free in this world....

[MoJoe313]

There is a girl who never looked at me with any money expectation. She is happy when I bring her eat hawker food all the time. I had a dead end career then. She had many other better choices. She didn't mind being with a poor me. When I lost all my money and hers in stocks and gambling, she didnt even raise one ugly word. She just comforted me. I knew she was the one and married her.

True love is found when money is never part of the equation.

[Jevv]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man have nothing..
whereas a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything :)


If a woman can stick with you thru the ups & downs knowing that you have no money, she can still comfort you...asking if you have enough money to tide over (lend u $$ which is), when eating dun nid to spend on expensive restaurants & etc...this woman is a keeper :)

[korean]

I'm lucky to find one and only one who is my lover. She got suitors who showered her with money, luxury gifts but she choose to be with me n she tot I'm drawing fresh grad salary. She is ok to eat McDonald's, hawker or ordinary n simple restaurant, and she will feel uncomfortable n heart pain to go for expensive meal. We take turn to pay the bill but I always make sure I pay more n the expensive one. Sometime she will be unhappy if I don't let her pay.

[surbana]

There is a girl who never looked at me with any money expectation. She is happy when I bring her eat hawker food all the time. I had a dead end career then. She had many other better choices. She didn't mind being with a poor me. When I lost all my money and hers in stocks and gambling, she didnt even raise one ugly word. She just comforted me. I knew she was the one and married her.

True love is found when money is never part of the equation.

Really seems to be like in a movie.....congrats

[maxsee]

Such type of "True Love" without money at all do not exists....even if it does there is a reason why the woman is willing to stick with you.

Some people would say found partners who are willing to lend them money, stick with them when they are dirt poor. But that is simply because she do not have better choices or they see it as a temporary setback for the guys. Or other reasons....blah blah

To expect a woman to stick with a guy with zero dollars no potential in the future is like asking a guy to find a ugly woman with a poor character.

One example is placing a glass of mineral water and a glass of sewerage water in front of you, would you drink the sewerage water? Unless u r insane or unless u think there is a diamond at the bottom of the sewerage water n u r willing to take a risk...

[Edyta]

women look for a good provider. Men look for beauty n sex. of cos as humans we are more evolved than that but thats stil genetic. women who looks for a gd provider is not neccesarily greedy.

as for eternal true love. its so rare that most people wonder whats that.

[surbana]

women look for a good provider. Men look for beauty n sex. of cos as humans we are more evolved than that but thats stil genetic. women who looks for a gd provider is not neccesarily greedy.

as for eternal true love. its so rare that most people wonder whats that.

Is true..both sex only looks at the surface only. Man goes for beauty n sex and woman goes for power and money. Seldom will see the inner beauty of it. Is there any media corp actress marry a man on the street like taxi and bus drivers?The answer is no ...

[korean]

I guess only those happened to find one will believe, with condition that he got to be no money or not much money. :p

[korean]

Is true..both sex only looks at the surface only. Man goes for beauty n sex and woman goes for power and money. Seldom will see the inner beauty of it. Is there any media corp actress marry a man on the street like taxi and bus drivers?The answer is no ...

Mediacorp actress I'm not so sure, but hk should have. Which mean Singaporean is more realistic than hongkies...

[hamsapkwai]

True money is only found when u have no love :p

[korean]

True money is only found when u have no love :p

wow this seems very deep :D

[ilwtmlabnn]

There is a girl who never looked at me with any money expectation. She is happy when I bring her eat hawker food all the time. I had a dead end career then. She had many other better choices. She didn't mind being with a poor me. When I lost all my money and hers in stocks and gambling, she didnt even raise one ugly word. She just comforted me. I knew she was the one and married her.

True love is found when money is never part of the equation.

Good that you find the right one. Treasure your wife. I wish I can find someone like that too, and probably not sticky. Cannot tahan girls who are very sticky.

[ameth]

I have not found one who love you who you are and not with monetary gain!

Imho, such ladies are very rare on earth these days..

[rachgu]

Then u are wrong, it depend on the society for that country. The more developed the country, the more practical the girls seeking monetary value in man as partnar. So if u talking about singapore girls, yes i agree.

Have u seen those less developed country than singapore, girls love their man so much can go out work and bring money feed their lover or husband from own country. Somemore the girls are sibei chio type and to the extend of working as whore to bring home money for man.

In develop country like singapore, it is still possible to find such girls but rare. While more girls from those less developed country tends to have such mentality of believing true love without money (kampung girls thinking), of course this does not apply when the girls target foreign man as bf.


Such type of "True Love" without money at all do not exists....even if it does there is a reason why the woman is willing to stick with you.

To expect a woman to stick with a guy with zero dollars no potential in the future is like asking a guy to find a ugly woman with a poor character.

[korean]

Then u are wrong, it depend on the society for that country. The more developed the country, the more practical the girls seeking monetary value in man as partnar. So if u talking about singapore girls, yes i agree.

Have u seen those less developed country than singapore, girls love their man so much can go out work and bring money feed their lover or husband from own country. Somemore the girls are sibei chio type and to the extend of working as whore to bring home money for man.

In develop country like singapore, it is still possible to find such girls but rare. While more girls from those less developed country tends to have such mentality of believing true love without money (kampung girls thinking), of course this does not apply when the girls target foreign man as bf.

spot on bro!

[curious76]

Then u are wrong, it depend on the society for that country. The more developed the country, the more practical the girls seeking monetary value in man as partnar. So if u talking about singapore girls, yes i agree.

Have u seen those less developed country than singapore, girls love their man so much can go out work and bring money feed their lover or husband from own country. Somemore the girls are sibei chio type and to the extend of working as whore to bring home money for man.

In develop country like singapore, it is still possible to find such girls but rare. While more girls from those less developed country tends to have such mentality of believing true love without money (kampung girls thinking), of course this does not apply when the girls target foreign man as bf.

Lol your thinking is out-dated.. Kampung girls thinking does not exist once they come to civilization. There are a lot of corruption in our society..

[MoJoe313]

Is true..both sex only looks at the surface only. Man goes for beauty n sex and woman goes for power and money. Seldom will see the inner beauty of it. Is there any media corp actress marry a man on the street like taxi and bus drivers?The answer is no ...

Bro, did you see a viral video where Jimmy Fallon blew a chance a date Nicole Kidman? Went like this. Many years ago, when Nicole Kidman was single she secretly liked Jimmy Fallon. A mutual friend brought Nicole to Jimmy's house and Jimmy blew it by playing video games because he never thought it possible with Nicole. Nicole interpreted it as Jimmy was not interested in her.

The point is Jimmy is not good looking and Nicole being rich, hot and famous liked him because he is funny. Not because he is rich or anything. I learned this concept years ago and nailed the prettiest girl in my faculty because I could make her laugh all the time.

Those that lament girls only want money don't understand this concept or didn't search hard enough.

[cmelater]

Bro, did you see a viral video where Jimmy Fallon blew a chance a date Nicole Kidman? Went like this. Many years ago, when Nicole Kidman was single she secretly liked Jimmy Fallon. A mutual friend brought Nicole to Jimmy's house and Jimmy blew it by playing video games because he never thought it possible with Nicole. Nicole interpreted it as Jimmy was not interested in her.

The point is Jimmy is not good looking and Nicole being rich, hot and famous liked him because he is funny. Not because he is rich or anything. I learned this concept years ago and nailed the prettiest girl in my faculty because I could make her laugh all the time.

Those that lament girls only want money don't understand this concept or didn't search hard enough.

May be because some men think its easier to say its cos of money, rather than they no guts to do it? lol.

I think many a time, it has to do with guts to just talk to the girl.

[korean]

actually what ts asked is a tricky question. true love can be found when u have or dont have money. if u have money, eventhough the gal may truly love u not becoz of ur money, u cannot be 100% sure as it is not tested.

[Westcoast]

agreed with

[Westcoast]

agreed with you bro!

[Westcoast]

actually what ts asked is a tricky question. true love can be found when u have or dont have money. if u have money, eventhough the gal may truly love u not becoz of ur money, u cannot be 100% sure as it is not tested.

very correct!

[HappyBuddy]

actually what ts asked is a tricky question. true love can be found when u have or dont have money. if u have money, eventhough the gal may truly love u not becoz of ur money, u cannot be 100% sure as it is not tested.

you are spot on!

[milfmilf]

test here test there ... where is the trust?
if it is all about $$ and test , good luck!

[curious76]

test here test there ... where is the trust?
if it is all about $$ and test , good luck!

Lol this is what happen to me.. Sometime I wonder am I luckily enough to see through her

[korean]

Lol this is what happen to me.. Sometime I wonder am I luckily enough to see through her

sometime it can be both :p

[Johnbass]

Tiagong most samsters are looking for free piaks nia...
:D

[porscheclub]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man have nothing..
whereas a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything :)

This is good!

[crood]

There is a girl who never looked at me with any money expectation. She is happy when I bring her eat hawker food all the time. I had a dead end career then. She had many other better choices. She didn't mind being with a poor me. When I lost all my money and hers in stocks and gambling, she didnt even raise one ugly word. She just comforted me. I knew she was the one and married her.

True love is found when money is never part of the equation.

Then why r u still here?

[Greenfrog]

True love and money don't mix.

The only thing that is true is money.

[curious76]

True love and money don't mix.

The only thing that is true is money.

you are correct.. No money No Honey..

[MoJoe313]

Then why r u still here?

To talk about Matters of the Heart?

[Wintermelontea]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man have nothing..
whereas a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything :)


If a woman can stick with you thru the ups & downs knowing that you have no money, she can still comfort you...asking if you have enough money to tide over (lend u $$ which is), when eating dun nid to spend on expensive restaurants & etc...this woman is a keeper :)


I so second this! Women of such calibre is a rare.

[iscreaming]

Endangered species.... yeah, they may start off accepting the state of being poor, once they get "polluted" , they will still choose money, if they have a choice. So such relationships are rare, n not lasting if they do exist.

[Castrol]

Somemore the girls are sibei chio type and to the extend of working as whore to bring home money for man.


such girls are just keeping the men as prize.

[curious76]

such girls are just keeping the men as prize.

I ask you so this type of girls ultimately will settle for one man??

[JohnWiFi]

Like every human, both men and women will eventually give in to temptation. :o

[SystemDown]

such girls are just keeping the men as prize.

very true bro :cool:

[cmelater]

I so second this! Women of such calibre is a rare.
Good girls is one thing but living together is another. Both are not similar in definition and interpretations.

[Castrol]

I ask you so this type of girls ultimately will settle for one man??

possible but rare.

these girls misconstrue the meaning of "sacrifice for love".
they always have a "dream" with the man but things change when familiarity breeds contempt.

[demonhunter]

I'm lucky to find one and only one who is my lover. She got suitors who showered her with money, luxury gifts but she choose to be with me n she tot I'm drawing fresh grad salary. She is ok to eat McDonald's, hawker or ordinary n simple restaurant, and she will feel uncomfortable n heart pain to go for expensive meal. We take turn to pay the bill but I always make sure I pay more n the expensive one. Sometime she will be unhappy if I don't let her pay.

This one is a keeper !

:D

[Atasbeng]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man have nothing..
whereas a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything :)


If a woman can stick with you thru the ups & downs knowing that you have no money, she can still comfort you...asking if you have enough money to tide over (lend u $$ which is), when eating dun nid to spend on expensive restaurants & etc...this woman is a keeper :)

Am going thru separation now which I gave up everything house car kids. To be with my soulmate. I have nothing now not even a job as can't find.... She sticks by me and done all of the above.hopefully can get a job soon

[Greenfrog]

I ask you so this type of girls ultimately will settle for one man??

There is this Chinese saying '骑驴找马'

Riding a donkey while looking for a pony. So until the next BETTER one comes along, she will stick with you first.

[cmelater]

Am going thru separation now which I gave up everything house car kids. To be with my soulmate. I have nothing now not even a job as can't find.... She sticks by me and done all of the above.hopefully can get a job soon

Problems are temporary. Jus be clear with what you are after. It can be a tough journey. :( and never look back to regret.

[OnlyDefence]

Problems are temporary. Jus be clear with what you are after. It can be a tough journey. :( and never look back to regret.

I really know what you mean bro, sometimes have just keep it going

[rtmFRs]

Am going thru separation now which I gave up everything house car kids. To be with my soulmate. I have nothing now not even a job as can't find.... She sticks by me and done all of the above.hopefully can get a job soon

U must get a job, don't hope

[Leveraged]

Problems are temporary. Jus be clear with what you are after. It can be a tough journey. :( and never look back to regret.

very well said bro

[cmelater]

True love and money don't mix.

The only thing that is true is money.

Spoken like a man who has truly seen the world.

If I can choose to shape my relationship, there can be "no money" at all. Money really can ruin a relationship. :(

[linrx]

When I first forayed into spirituality several years ago, I was quite an active wanker seeking an antidote towards a behaviour that was grossed by both in secondary school Biology as well as sex education. When I wanked, all I needed was a locked door, never mind whether was it a toilet or a bedroom.

Whether I had love or money was perhaps hardly the point also.

So when I had the chance knowing better of monks and nuns who could do apparently without money and / or sex, momentarily I was really impressed, never really figured out how those monks and nuns managed to overcome money and sex, or to the bare minimum they probably never masturbated as often as I did whether male or female..

;D Of course when these monks and nuns died, they sometimes ended up being even more famous than politicians.

They did without money, so that today many of us still know them famously, perhaps.

They did without sex, so that today many of us still understand them famously, perhaps.

Seeing Yusof Ishak every day is one respectable matter, discovering that he lies at one obscure corner of Kranji was one slight surprise.

[korean]

Spoken like a man who has truly seen the world.

If I can choose to shape my relationship, there can be "no money" at all. Money really can ruin a relationship. :(

better still if u got money and “带眼识人” :p

[curious76]

There is this Chinese saying '骑驴找马'

Riding a donkey while looking for a pony. So until the next BETTER one comes along, she will stick with you first.

Haha then what for you still stock with her? For fun?

[Archerguard]

true love is only found based on how you made the woman feel.

if you are dating women who are financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving your lifestyle.

if you are dating women who are less financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving the lifestyle between yourself and herself. :D

[loveless1]

I guess that is why most people would advice staying away from WL/FL as long term partners, because money issue is always going to be there( in other words no money, no honey).


Bro,

Nowadays, even ladies who are not WL/FL also quite $$$ minded. Perhaps due to the fact that SG has a high standard of living.

True love IMHO is long gone. There will always be trying times and these may not be in the form of money. So, how does one measure true love? IDK, perhaps those that know can shed light to this?

[topcook1]

Bro,

Nowadays, even ladies who are not WL/FL also quite $$$ minded. Perhaps due to the fact that SG has a high standard of living.

True love IMHO is long gone. There will always be trying times and these may not be in the form of money. So, how does one measure true love? IDK, perhaps those that know can shed light to this?

All relationships needs money to sustain ..be it friendships or spouse...If your friend borrow money and dont return u will feel angry too....

[cmelater]

Bro,

Nowadays, even ladies who are not WL/FL also quite $$$ minded. Perhaps due to the fact that SG has a high standard of living.

True love IMHO is long gone. There will always be trying times and these may not be in the form of money. So, how does one measure true love? IDK, perhaps those that know can shed light to this?

Cost of living is really super high. One day 10 bucks also can b difficult.... 2 meals already 10 bucks. Really must cook at home.

Before the marriage, my oc seemed down to earth. Anywhere also ok. But after marriage, even if down to earth, also need money. Utilities, conservancy, food n house... And then talk about kids will lead to quarrels... Cos everything in this country starts and ends with the money. :/

[coolmon]

To TS

I did found such a girl and I though I've found true love.

Just discover few years later that, true love also has shelf life

[jackson555]

at least you can see that the girl is really willing to be there for you, that's admirable and a relationship will be able to work when both of you can see each other's contributions..
no point having the ideal girl like the one you described but the guy cannot see that.

[peanutbutterjel]

I happy eating plain rice for my boy. But even so, he don't appreciate me leh. How ah. Seems like true love is not found when you willing to eat plain rice nia.

[GirardPerregaux]

To TS

I did found such a girl and I though I've found true love.

Just discover few years later that, true love also has shelf life

so true, had a similar experience...devastating at first but after some time
fuck it and moved on with life...

true love?

sometimes one thinks that one finds what one is looking for.

[korean]

Come to think of it, I guess everyone defines true love differently, and I believe there is no single definition of true love. So there won't be any conclusion for this debate and discussion. My take? If u believe u find ur true love, go for it as long as it bring u happiness, be it permanently or temporarily. Do not need to benchmark with others and do not ruin other ppl chances to seek for their own happiness as saying goes 幸福如人饮水，冷暖自知。你不是我，怎知我走过的路，心中的乐与苦。

[zan888]

To TS

I did found such a girl and I though I've found true love.

Just discover few years later that, true love also has shelf life

Yes, in the past I had relationship where the girls claims to love me truly, yet only to deny she ever said that a few months later.

All relationships are works in progress and the "under construction" sign never goes off. So even if there is true love, which I would define as unselfish love for a person and not the material/physical things they possess. It may fade or get destroyed by virtue of incompatibility or circumstances. True love does not mean its unconditional, as it may fade when not returned in some measure.

True love, in my definition, is not passionate love or lustful love, its the love of the other person's mind and personality.

As rare it is to find true love, even rarer to give true love simultaneously. In my case I found true love but was not able to give true love back, which is regretful.

To give true love and not having it reciprocated, can be the saddest thing that can happen to one's life, so one can only hope it doesn't happen or that the other person is kind enough to recognize your infliction and help you get out of it.

[topcook1]

Parental love is the most true love...............unconditional........

[bebe69]

Parental love is the most true love...............unconditional........

I totally agree. I love my son more than anything else in this world.

[korean]

是真爱，还是交易？
　　凡夫的我执，不可能开发出无我的真爱，只能是交易。只有证得我空法空的佛菩萨才能慈悲救护一切。益西彭 措讲《中观四百颂》
　
　　若时不随顺，则都无所爱，
　　尔时起贪爱，唯同于贸易。
　　
　　若观察时，对于不随顺自己的孩子，则根本都不会有所谓的爱，因为这并不是自己贪爱之处的缘故。如果子女 随顺了自己，那么这时对他们的贪爱也不合理，因为这种贪爱，实际上是对于子女随顺自己的酬报的贪爱。这就完 全像一场一手交钱一手交货的交易一样，故对子女的贪爱贪执毫无实义。
　　　　
　　随顺，就是众生满足了“我”的贪心，因此，众生都喜欢那些能随顺自己的人。父母也一样，不例外的。偈颂 中的“唯”字，说明父母贪爱的生起，只有一个原因，那就是希望子女以随顺作为回报。这说明父母真正爱的，其 实并不是子女，而是那种从子女那里得到的被顺从、被重视的满足感。这样的贪爱，就是父母将爱卖给子女，子女 则用随顺进行支付，这和做生意有什么区别呢？圣天菩萨太有智慧了，用这样一个形象的比喻来开导我们，让我们 断除颠倒的执着。
　　
　　那么做生意呢，自然就会有赚有亏。父母从子女的随顺中得到满足，就感觉是赚了，这样就很高兴。如果子女 不随顺父母，父母的愿望没有得到实现，那么父母就会觉得亏了，觉得付出的爱不值得，这时心中对子女的贪爱就 会消减，甚至会演变成嗔心。
　　
　　这次4·20雅安地震中的一件事情，就很说明问题。地震发生时，雅安市雨城区的小李先跑到二楼救下了9 岁的儿子，然后再跑去对面的房子救年迈的父母，这时父母已经被坠落的砖块砸伤了。父母对儿子不先来救他们感 到很生气，很长时间都不和他说话。尤其母亲，不管小李如何激动地解释，都背对着他，不理不闻。这就是父母觉 得没有被随顺，没有被重视而产生了极度的失落，由贪爱不满足而生嗔的结果。当然，儿子马上找车把父母送到医 院，并在医院里嘘寒问暖，端茶递水，并且不断激动地向父母作解释，这才慢慢让父母相信自己是被儿子重视的， 是被儿子随顺的，这样他们受到伤害的对“我”的贪心又会渐渐得到了恢复，获得了满足。
　　
　　父母的爱，是被称为人世间最伟大的，但如果连父母的爱都是一种交易，那么其他的一切贪爱，比如男女的爱 恋，朋友的友情等等，就更加是一种交易，是一场买卖了。男女的爱恋，交易的是什么呢？主要的当然也是随顺， 另外还有相貌、家庭背景、财产、性格等等。朋友的志趣相投，其实也就是相互之间的随顺，除此之外，朋友还会 作经济利益、社会地位等的交易。

品一句：幸福不是找到你爱的和爱你的，而是成为爱本身！

[audreyrhi]

我为什么不可以得到幸福?

我舍不得你。

我很希望可以永远跟你在一起。

[prettymannequin]

我为什么不可以得到幸福?

我舍不得你。

我很希望可以永远跟你在一起。

Aw audrey zen me le? Afternoon only sound so emo~

[prettymannequin]

My boyf is from a less privileged background, his dad has been driving a taxi for as long as he remembers. Whenever we go dating, I always offer to go dutch/ pay for the next meal. I hardly get pampered with material gifts, but that's okay cause gifts is not one of my love languages anyway. We've been dating for 5 years since JC, but I do see a future with more $$. So yea.

[bebe69]

My boyf is from a less privileged background, his dad has been driving a taxi for as long as he remembers. Whenever we go dating, I always offer to go dutch/ pay for the next meal. I hardly get pampered with material gifts, but that's okay cause gifts is not one of my love languages anyway. We've been dating for 5 years since JC, but I do see a future with more $$. So yea.


Mind if i ask if your gonna stick with him?

[prettymannequin]

Mind if i ask if your gonna stick with him?

Hahahah is there anything that suggests I wouldn't? Does any girl get into a relationship for 5 years just for the sake of play?

[bebe69]

Hahahah is there anything that suggests I wouldn't? Does any girl get into a relationship for 5 years just for the sake of play?

Yes there are, trust me. But great that your sticking with him. Happiness to the both of you.

[audreyrhi]

Aw audrey zen me le? Afternoon only sound so emo~

mei shen me, zi shi shou le dian shang...

thanks for concern pm meimei.

as long you always live in each other heart, am sure you will get your deserved happiness!!

[zan888]

Mind if i ask if your gonna stick with him?

Obviously you wont :D

[Nato17]

I'm lucky to find one and only one who is my lover. She got suitors who showered her with money, luxury gifts but she choose to be with me n she tot I'm drawing fresh grad salary. She is ok to eat McDonald's, hawker or ordinary n simple restaurant, and she will feel uncomfortable n heart pain to go for expensive meal. We take turn to pay the bill but I always make sure I pay more n the expensive one. Sometime she will be unhappy if I don't let her pay.

Bro, you damn funny. Firstly, you have lover etc, and yet you go to find GL whores. Hahaha...shouldn't you be repaying her with your loyalty now? :eek:

[Nato17]

May be because some men think its easier to say its cos of money, rather than they no guts to do it? lol.

I think many a time, it has to do with guts to just talk to the girl.

I totally disagree. Money plays a huge part and as one grows older it is money that does play a large part.

For example, you maybe a die hard romantic, bring her to front of titanic and be like the young couple and think that things can last.

Hello, for those of you who think that, wake up your idea!

For example take a girl out to lets say Sentosa for a day of fun from ifly to lets say taking all the sights in. That can easily cost you $400-500 right now, if u do it in style.

Take her to Orchard and get her a LV also cost cash lei....You may get the girl to bed but you can't have her for life. Whereas someone richer can posses her for that time you wish you had...

[Nato17]

if you are dating women who are financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving your lifestyle.

if you are dating women who are less financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving the lifestyle between yourself and herself. :D

Well said!

[Nato17]

To TS

I did found such a girl and I though I've found true love.

Just discover few years later that, true love also has shelf life

Wah. Chim words sia. True love also has shelf life. :eek:

[korean]

Bro, you damn funny. Firstly, you have lover etc, and yet you go to find GL whores. Hahaha...shouldn't you be repaying her with your loyalty now? :eek:

Bro, b4 I got lover, I go gl mainly to revenge in order to strike mentally balance. After accidentally having lover, I no longer fool around n loyal to her only. After she left, I stop cheonging for a while until there is once we were trying to end the relationship. Due to the sudden loneliness kick in as well as the main objective why I cheong, I resumed again as u know, albert inactive. Later the relationship resumed again, then I got different kind of mental suffering, as flickering between guilty of betray and marriage suffering. I'm still thinking the best way to rescue myself, and I know I gotta settle the issue btwn me n my wife, as that is the root cause of this lots of issues.

Most of the time I only talked to the wls only (paying though, ouch!) As some of them can give advice better than what I got it here. Of coz I do enjoy the gossips too :D

[FL Lover]

I totally disagree. Money plays a huge part and as one grows older it is money that does play a large part.

For example, you maybe a die hard romantic, bring her to front of titanic and be like the young couple and think that things can last.

Hello, for those of you who think that, wake up your idea!

For example take a girl out to lets say Sentosa for a day of fun from ifly to lets say taking all the sights in. That can easily cost you $400-500 right now, if u do it in style.

Take her to Orchard and get her a LV also cost cash lei....You may get the girl to bed but you can't have her for life. Whereas someone richer can posses her for that time you wish you had...

Whoever think of possessing someone for life must be crazy. Just used her for sex.

We are cheongsters.. Cheongsters have only 1 rule. Live, Sex and Fun. I dont see commitement in here

[wittyman]

Whoever think of possessing someone for life must be crazy. Just used her for sex.

We are cheongsters.. Cheongsters have only 1 rule. Live, Sex and Fun. I dont see commitement in here

commitment only get you trouble in cheonging :D

[Greenfrog]

I totally agree. I love my son more than anything else in this world.

I think in this world.. there are only just one or two person that will be with you till the end. Usually it is your family.

definitely not your friends..

[CTOA3728]

I think in this world.. there are only just one or two person that will be with you till the end. Usually it is your family.

definitely not your friends..

Nowadays friends also will see what benefits they can get out of the friendship. Swear brotherhood before Guan Gong will also avoid you when they see the friendship become a liability and has no good benefits to them. Friends are fair weather. Family are there always.

[yunnamhaircare]

I would like to rephrase...

True love is only found when you love money more than women.

This is the best filter. :D

If a lady still sticks with you despite that, she truly loves you and is worthy to be your long term partner. Only after she becomes your steady gf, then you start loving her more than money. :cool:

[korean]

I would like to rephrase...

True love is only found when you love money more than women.

This is the best filter. :D

If a lady still sticks with you despite that, she truly loves you and is worthy to be your long term partner. Only after she becomes your steady gf, then you start loving her more than money. :cool:

Concur with above, although not fully :)

It is a more kiasu way to find true love :D

[yunnamhaircare]

Hahahahaha!

[korean]

Concur with above, although not fully :)

It is a more kiasu way to find true love :D

More kiasu way is true love can only be found when you don't have money or only have little money

[Greenfrog]

Friends and lovers come and go.
the only thing is that is true is perhaps the money in your bank account.;)

[Ladyrain]

true love is only found based on how you made the woman feel.

if you are dating women who are financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving your lifestyle.

if you are dating women who are less financial independent, they look at how passionate are you in improving the lifestyle between yourself and herself. :D

Absolutely true!

[kraam]

When you have no money, there can be no love.

Because when you have no money, no pussy will come near u in 10,000 years. So there will and can never be love when you are poor shitless with no house and nothing to your name.

So stop dreaming and be rich, be materialistic, then there might be love. But even then if there is "love", again, don't think too much, it's merely "love" for your money, not for your fucking character or heart. When you fall down from a rich man to a poor man, then again, u'll have no love. Don't be a delusional donkey and believe in all these fairy tales and dream.

[korean]

Friends and lovers come and go.
the only thing is that is true is perhaps the money in your bank account.;)

no guarantee too, bank or country can go bankrupt, or u urself can drain up the money by any mean.

think abt it, when were the most happy moments in your life? is it related to money? When ur life is going to end, what is left with u which u think is most precious? :)

[korean]

When you have no money, there can be no love.

Because when you have no money, no pussy will come near u in 10,000 years. So there will and can never be love when you are poor shitless with no house and nothing to your name.

So stop dreaming and be rich, be materialistic, then there might be love. But even then if there is "love", again, don't think too much, it's merely "love" for your money, not for your fucking character or heart. When you fall down from a rich man to a poor man, then again, u'll have no love. Don't be a delusional donkey and believe in all these fairy tales and dream.

I will be surprise if u never encounter such cases, be it yourself or someone u know. Then, I can understand why u are not a believer

[kraam]

I will be surprise if u never encounter such cases, be it yourself or someone u know. Then, I can understand why u are not a believer

It's better to take it hard, now, then to suffer later. If u can take the hard truths now, it makes u tougher, more numb to future sufferings that life may bring. Instead of going all out ignorantly and bang headfirst and then realise u've been such a fool all along.

[korean]

It's better to take it hard, now, then to suffer later. If u can take the hard truths now, it makes u tougher, more numb to future sufferings that life may bring. Instead of going all out ignorantly and bang headfirst and then realise u've been such a fool all along.

Of coz cannot be all out ignorantly. But I myself have encountered it, and I witness same cases ppl around me too. So I thought it is not uncommon?

[hamsapkwai]

No money No honey:p

[Kuan Aik Hong]

No money dont ever think of dating or touch girls...

[ridinghood]

You will know when someone genuinely cares.
Some things in life money can't buy and time won't erase the memories too. If ever there is such a lady who never left you be it what conditions, it is unconditional love.

[kraam]

maybe if we are living as cavemen now, then no money then highly possible.

but in our modern era, no money the lady will tell u to fk off.

[korean]

maybe if we are living as cavemen now, then no money then highly possible.

but in our modern era, no money the lady will tell u to fk off.

No money but got face still possible :rolleyes:

[kraam]

No money but got face still possible :rolleyes:

u look like korean singer from korean boyband?

[korean]

u look like korean singer from korean boyband?

I'm just stating the fact. In fact no money no face also got true love. But she maybe no money no face no body if not so lucky.

[Yakuza]

My boyf is from a less privileged background, his dad has been driving a taxi for as long as he remembers. Whenever we go dating, I always offer to go dutch/ pay for the next meal. I hardly get pampered with material gifts, but that's okay cause gifts is not one of my love languages anyway. We've been dating for 5 years since JC, but I do see a future with more $$. So yea.

LKY's parents were aso a commoner .. but his wife stick to him till the end cos she saw a very bright star in him .. not his parents ..

Hahahah is there anything that suggests I wouldn't? Does any girl get into a relationship for 5 years just for the sake of play?

Yes .. it happen .. during courting and dating.. nothing seems to be able to separate the love birds .. cos they don't live or stay together 24 hours a day everyday.. declared true love forever more and nvr will anything happen in future..

Then comes ur very 1st own house call home.. and dreams seems to start to be in place as u both thought it out.

After marriage .. each sees the other's shortcoming and try to chg or want the other to chg after living together for a period of time .. dreams from there on still seem hopeful .. wif compromises and sacrifice. . Those tt can't cope .. end of marriage .. those who still treasure ...bear wif it and con't on ... couple believed and thinking have now chg .. expectation of each other are now more demanding ..unexpected thinking now comes into play.

Family is setup wif the 1st born .. and things start to spiral .. but still manageable wif more compromises and sacrifices .. those who can absorb like a sponge .. carry on .. else ..bye bye to each other.

Kids grows up ...and ea think the best for their child/children extra burden wif fees, bills and expenses building up .. more stress and more compromises and sacrifices .. no time for frens and party now .. more time n attention to family n in-law side.. those who still can tahan .. live in stress to find ways to relieve wif whatever means .. those who breakdown .. find it meaningless to carry on .. both the couple early believed are now near to non existence and find it quite impossible to live on together.

PM .. u r either a very rare breed qualified as a protected species near to extinction or gonna be a dinosaur... 1 in a thousand cases.. but still possible.

If there's still such things as .. uncompromising love and love me for what I am n accepting as u are .. good for u .. both are most compactible in their zodiac and birth sign .. congrats.. .. u set a very good example ...

True Love = Uncompromise Love without Expectation n Accepting as you are... money makes the world go round.. in this realistic n material world
Love me for what I am (sung by Lobo)
Cheersss.. :)

[Greenfrog]

LKY's parents were aso a commoner .. but his wife stick to him till the end cos she saw a very bright star in him .. not his parents ..


Err... Sis. LKY 's parents are not commoner. Imagine 70 years ago, LKY completed his studies in Cambridge. That would take a very well off family to pull that off.

[maxsee]

True love will only exists in fairy tales....:D:D:D

[kraam]

I'm just stating the fact. In fact no money no face also got true love. But she maybe no money no face no body if not so lucky.

if both are equally fat and ugly, then yeah got true love, rofl. because there's nothing else external to be lust-ed for...like looks, body, money, power etc.

[Nato17]

How to find true love in this materialistic world? If you are looking for it on this board, you are definitely looking for love in the wrong place.

Money does buy some sort of happiness whether you like it or not. EG, buying the latest S6 edge for that WL or FL etc, will definitely get you extra loving but does that mean it is love? Not very likely. In fact, all it does is get you more headache if you ask me. Because you can't really tell if she is really happy with the product or your thoughtfulness.

I have been through a lot and would say that it is damn hard in this world to see someone care unconditionally for you. Most people are now greedy and greed is the word for the day.

[Greenfrog]

You will know when someone genuinely cares.
Some things in life money can't buy and time won't erase the memories too. If ever there is such a lady who never left you be it what conditions, it is unconditional love.

If there is ever such a lady, it is most probably your mother.

[Mythbuster]

I agree ( true love is only found when u have no money )

[topcook1]

If there is ever such a lady, it is most probably your mother.

Absolutely true...mum love is unconditional....

[MoeLanYong]

True. True love only found when no money. When got money, men go chiong. Woman go chiong Prada. No money, then chiong each other.:p

[korean]

There is a saying in chinese: A woman truly loves a man when then man is poor, likewise a man truly loves a woman when the woman is ugly. Just for fun and food for thought :p

On a serious note, true love can be found in many ways. And even love from mother is not uncondition! Exchange of love is already a condition by the way...no?

[maxsee]

Let's face it....true love has to go both way. If you have a hard time falling in love with a fat and ugly girl. Don't expect a pretty girl to fall in love with you if you are poor....:D:D:D

[senters89]

Well, just for sharing...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2575576/From-three-bedroom-house-Manchester-30million-Kensington-mansion-Beckingham-Palace-See-David-Beckham-scaled-property-ladder-one-homes-goes-hammer.html


When Victoria married Beckham, he wasn't very famous and rich.

[arsenal_84]

just for sharing, most men will go for looks but somehow whether the lady stays with her man is entirely up to her inner character.
and in this case, this handsome guy seems to find a polished diamond in another different manner.
sometimes the most beautiful thing in this world is to be contented as there is seldom such thing as best of both worlds.

best wishes to the both of them.
shed some tears while watching the clip, the guy was really patient.

http://therealsaga.blogspot.sg/2015/05/handsome-rich-man-pursuit-deaf-mute.html

[Greenfrog]

just for sharing, most men will go for looks but somehow whether the lady stays with her man is entirely up to her inner character.
and in this case, this handsome guy seems to find a polished diamond in another different manner.
sometimes the most beautiful thing in this world is to be contented as there is seldom such thing as best of both worlds.

best wishes to the both of them.
shed some tears while watching the clip, the guy was really patient.

http://therealsaga.blogspot.sg/2015/05/handsome-rich-man-pursuit-deaf-mute.html

Don't believe what is found on the scripted gameshows. Reality tv are scripted to make people feel good.

[lasupkia]

True love or blind love?
I've encountered a woman whose husband beat her and caused her to miscarry her baby. But she still stick with him.
Another woman whose husband drink and womanise. When he's drunk, he will break things at home, even call her a prostitute in front of other family members but she still stick with him. This woman earning more than her man.

What kind of love is this?

[Kuan Aik Hong]

True love or blind love?
I've encountered a woman whose husband beat her and caused her to miscarry her baby. But she still stick with him.
Another woman whose husband drink and womanise. When he's drunk, he will break things at home, even call her a prostitute in front of other family members but she still stick with him. This woman earning more than her man.

What kind of love is this?

Thats rare..anyway is true love...

[MIFAcafe]

I believe you can find true love regardless of your financial status.

I prefer rich with fake love.

Poor with true love sound like a disaster.

I can recall those movie showing couple eating from broken bowl while rain came rushing in from their broken roof.

If this is so call true love..... I pass.

[BBWweiyi]

I think true love do exist. But it's mostly one sided. It all Depends on the timing and the person. If u meet the right person at the right time, it's true love. If u meet the right person at the wrong time, it's Too bad . If u meet the wrong person at the right time, it's unlucky. If u meet the wrong person at the wrong time, good luck to u.
As for the person, it Depends if the person is appreciative. One party May invest a lot on time, effort n even money to the other party. But if taken for granted, the one who invested, Most probably b devastated.
Well, Just my 2cents of opinion. Don't bomb me ah. 😜😜😜😜

[milfmilf]

thread title is a bit too idealistic

last time people no resource no skill no knowledge
can only bare hardship and stay united no matter how difficult
but now is a different world

贫贱夫妻百事哀

[Atta]

While I do not question the title, I do find it a pity that people can only what true love is when they are poor.

[critique]

Basically, man only wants free fuck.

[stillgottheblue]

That is why I would never leave my wife. I found such a one.

[EtherC]

Should we be setting limits to love? Love is an amorphous thing; it can be boundless, lasting or fleeting. Love can torture as well as nurture. It simply depends on the people involved. Each person's interpretation of love is rather dependent on their own experience & character.

There are plenty of rich people who experience true love. Eg The Taj Mahal is a testament of Shah Jahan's love for his favorite wife. Another good example of Tom Hanks & Rita Wilson are wealthy actors who have been married for over 25 yrs.