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youmifen
03-02-2015, 02:06 PM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?

sammyboyfor
03-02-2015, 02:08 PM
I have the opposite problem. I need some tips on how to make girls shut the fuck up.

crood
03-02-2015, 02:21 PM
I have the opposite problem. I need some tips on how to make girls shut the fuck up.

Shove a cock in their mouth.

superdrill
03-02-2015, 02:59 PM
If you have issues thinking about how to continue having conversations, I think you should drop the pursue. Instinct and experience tells me that if there is indeed mutual likings, you will never run out of conversations topics between the 2 of you. It is not good to force it, especially chemistry. Just my 2 cents worth.

sammyboyfor
03-02-2015, 04:03 PM
Shove a cock in their mouth.

That's an option in private but difficult to execute in a public place without getting into trouble.

PPGirl
03-02-2015, 04:27 PM
If you have issues thinking about how to continue having conversations, I think you should drop the pursue. Instinct and experience tells me that if there is indeed mutual likings, you will never run out of conversations topics between the 2 of you. It is not good to force it, especially chemistry. Just my 2 cents worth.
Hey how r u? Ltns..
if a couple really run out of topics ..really jialat.
Me n my bf together for 2 yrs + but we never run out of topics, there is so much to talk abt :p
Ts.. how abt talk abt daily stuff? Work, family, any interesting thing happen ard u or her?
Beside engaging/maintaining a conversation, do have eye contact too. See if the ger is interested in ur topic or not.
It takes 2 to clap. No point u urself talk only n the ger is not showing interest or contributing anything to ur topics.

yangguo
03-02-2015, 04:42 PM
That's an option in private but difficult to execute in a public place without getting into trouble.

Easy.. Shove a banana instead. :D:p

loveless1
03-02-2015, 04:44 PM
I have the opposite problem. I need some tips on how to make girls shut the fuck up.



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loveless1
03-02-2015, 04:50 PM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?


You mean you are the one always initiate the talk and ended up nothing else to say?

How about her? Does she not have anything to add from where you left off from?

Maybe superdrill said made sense if that's the case.

conquer
03-02-2015, 05:34 PM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?

When you wanna act cool in front of the girl you like, this would normally happen. :D

MoJoe313
03-02-2015, 05:42 PM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?

Wa lau. I thought this comes naturally? If the girl is not responding well, its not just the conversation topic she is rejecting.

ANowhereMan
03-02-2015, 10:46 PM
Wa lau. I thought this comes naturally? If the girl is not responding well, its not just the conversation topic she is rejecting.

I cant agree more with mojoe.

I think chemistry comes naturally. ... like a pair of gloves, it should fit well

Edyta
03-02-2015, 10:53 PM
Wa lau. I thought this comes naturally? If the girl is not responding well, its not just the conversation topic she is rejecting.

I am female n i agree with this. I would keep quiet if I am not interested n the guy will soon become quiet too.monosyllabus replies no way he can continue a 1 sided conversation. Once he is quiet I would find an excuse to escape.

TS sorry u hv tht experience. maybe she is the wrong gal.

ilwtmlabnn
04-02-2015, 12:12 AM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?

Perhaps for initial meetings there will always be a little awkwardness, but once you guys know more about each other, topics will just keep flowing in. there are a lot of topics you guys can talk about, from hobbies, travel, food, work, studies to recent news like ban of alcohol or anything interesting you just encountered.

Communication is a two-way thing and it takes time for some to open up to others. start with some general topics before moving to personal issues and this will eventually happen once you guys are comfortable. give yourselves some time to know more about each other or you can write cards for the girl every time you guys meet. it could be simple well wishes, funny jokes or even things you have drawn. at least she knows that you aint a boring guy, just that you might be a little shy. sometimes keeping silent is okay, but remember to smile.

bottom line is, just be true, be your normal self and conversation will kick in. there's no need to like sell yourself or try to impress the other party. if you are sincere, im sure she can feel it too.

here a song for you. jiayou! 聊天是甜蜜的习惯,把心情都交换,一天才算。

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxTyoZerj3E

AvgJoe
04-02-2015, 05:13 PM
If you really need to pre-plan topics to talk about before meeting up, i think there is something really wrong.

Personally, I have never ever run out of topics to talk with the girl i like, whom i knows like me as well. No need to pre-plan any topics. The conversation just flows. We can literally talk the whole night till dawn, laughing and joking or just sharing about our lives.

sammyboyfor
04-02-2015, 05:30 PM
We can literally talk the whole night till dawn, laughing and joking or just sharing about our lives.

Yeah therein lies the problem. What makes it worse is that girls defy all logic when it comes to discussing things.

The ideal situation is to say the minimum required to persuade them to spread their legs so the deed can be done and I can then go to sleep.

sammyboyfor
05-02-2015, 06:24 AM
I always run out of topics to talk to the girl I like and kept silence for quite sometime.

Any tips on how to keep conversations going?

Found the girl for you. She carries on yakking even while being fucked.

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superdrill
05-02-2015, 05:55 PM
Sis PPGirl

I am good as usual, R04 is organizing something on 22nd Feb and perhaps we will meet again.

You made very good points as well.

TS

I will usually give up if meet with your situation, it means there is no spark

PPGirl
05-02-2015, 06:01 PM
Sis PPGirl

I am good as usual, R04 is organizing something on 22 Feb and perhaps we will meet again.

You made very good points as well.


Yeah see u soon. Me n totally will be there with some of the regular kakis :)

plsfloodme
14-02-2015, 11:44 PM
TS, I've been in the same situation as you too. Probably is due to our personality and chemistry with the girl.