View Full Version : UFM1003 was just talking about sex life between husband and wife.....
tongkat.ali
05-04-2006, 09:05 AM
quite interesting leh.
think communication is really very important, between the 2.
Can some brothers who have good healthy sex life with the other half share a bit more how you guys maintaining it? And you dun go outside eat eat because you are very satisfied with your wife?
tryying
05-04-2006, 10:10 AM
IMO
Wife looks normal, hubby mostly steal "eat"
Wife pretty, Wife mostly steal "eat"
Due to nowadays living, pubs n night hang out are common and so, become wild also easily. Esp they develop this kind of night life during young, they might continue in the end. Maybe due to some other reason, they either slow down or stop. But there are still some ppl who purely don't eat la but in the mind, they just keep thinking only. :D :p
tongkat.ali
05-04-2006, 02:45 PM
so it's very closely related to individual's background.
Well, I seldom go pubbing, i think that's why i can have better "control" hahaa...
who wanna challenge me?
was given advice from a specialist that communications between the 2 are very important, think I have to add 1 assumption, provided both parties never went wild before hahah.....
humpcheepang
05-04-2006, 03:00 PM
Hey, we have a samster Bro nicked as UFM1003 too....so I thot he was on radio talking about marriage life and how we should communicate....
True, communication is definitely the key to successfully maintain the good relation, but sometimes, when things turn sour....the couple will still communicate, but in high tone, screaming at each other lo.....then come the pin pin piang piang (throwing of utensils)....sigh...never easily, just not like earlier generations. Man work, woman stay at home, man sit, woman stand. Me no MCP, but these days educated & working woman have bigger say!:rolleyes:
tongkat.ali
05-04-2006, 03:24 PM
well, it's alright to let women have the bigger say, especially when they are earning more than us.
can share more about your story? if there is any :)
very sad leh, most brothers here eat outside one....
Peter_North
05-04-2006, 03:55 PM
quite interesting leh.
think communication is really very important, between the 2.
Can some brothers who have good healthy sex life with the other half share a bit more how you guys maintaining it? And you dun go outside eat eat because you are very satisfied with your wife?
Don't listen to the talk shows. The solutions are formulated to suit the feminist way.
Women grow old and become unattractive. That is a sad fact of life. Instead of pretending that you still find her attractive, you should cheong more often to rid yourself of the frustrations. And after cheonging you can have more patience with your old wife. After all, you have had your fill already.
The truth is, the wife has to put in a lot of effort to maintain good looks and figure, otherwise... SBF time!
reacher
07-04-2006, 01:21 AM
damm bastard if you cheat on your wife. Just imagine how you feel if you come home one day and realised your wife has cheated on you. If you dun want it on you, dun impose it on others.
sexoholic
07-04-2006, 01:40 AM
Communication is important. But more importantly, both must work towards the same goals. Mutual respect for each other and give each other enough space to do their own thing.
I am quite lucky in that aspect, and also quite satisfied with my wife. The fact that she works out to keep a trim figure helps greatly, plus responsive in bed as well. Not all women grow old and unattractive, some do age gracefully.
For me, I go for an occasional massage, but it never ventures beyond a HJ.:D
reacher
07-04-2006, 01:44 AM
but just want to ask u would u mind if ur wife also go for male massage and ask for occasional fingering?
bigthree
07-04-2006, 02:15 AM
[QUOTE=tongkat.ali]so it's very closely related to individual's background.
Well, I seldom go pubbing, i think that's why i can have better "control" hahaa...
who wanna challenge me
aiyah.. tats not true lah.. i go clubbing very often but i still dun eat outside.. maybe is the trust n freedom my wife gave me.. my wife is still a looker despite we already have a kiddo.. so i beta F**K it up in order to have my freedom and most importantly her trust.. :p
reacher
07-04-2006, 10:42 PM
You are just a "kia bor" (henpecked) husband trying to sit on the moral high horse. why don't just admit that you need her CPF money and you are too afraid to do what you always wanted behind her back ? hypocrite !
just wanted to tell this person who deuct my point that I not trying to be kia bor husband trying to sit on the moral high horse. Maybe you have low moral and you thought everyone have low moral like you. Just wanted to tell you many samster come for the pic and video and not really to discuss about sex. I openly dare to tell my wife everything I do and I everyday sleep on a high pillow(gao zheng wu you)
sexoholic
08-04-2006, 02:40 AM
but just want to ask u would u mind if ur wife also go for male massage and ask for occasional fingering?
This thread is not about what is right or wrong. So it would be good for you to contribute to the thread instead of criticising others for what they do.
The_Unrepentant
08-04-2006, 08:50 PM
just wanted to tell this person who deuct my point that I not trying to be kia bor husband trying to sit on the moral high horse. Maybe you have low moral and you thought everyone have low moral like you. Just wanted to tell you many samster come for the pic and video and not really to discuss about sex. I openly dare to tell my wife everything I do and I everyday sleep on a high pillow(gao zheng wu you)
u sure bo? wan me to call her and verify? u r full of shit...:D u got tell her abt ur petain cheonging experiences?
Cummingliao
09-04-2006, 12:05 AM
This thread is amusing... :D
vesfreq
09-04-2006, 12:16 AM
This thread is amusing... :D
Full of potential oscars too. :D
armanisexchange
09-04-2006, 12:46 AM
This thread is not about what is right or wrong. So it would be good for you to contribute to the thread instead of criticising others for what they do.
Bro sexoholic, you are a fucking clown :)
Who criticised you?
Bro Reacher was asking for your opinion if you mind your wife going for an occasional male massage and never venturing beyond getting fingered only what?
Why? Like that you feel criticised ah?
Let me criticise you for talking cock, you said communication is important lah, both must work towards the same goals lah, mutual respect lah, give each other space to do your own thing lah...
I ask you, you got communicate your occasional HJ sessions with your wife boh? If she really go check out a male massage and indulged in a bit of fingering, will you give her the mutual respect? Will you still allow her to have her own space to do her own thing or is it really just a male-chauvinistic talking cock you're rambling about?
There, I've criticised you... :D
tongkat.ali
09-04-2006, 01:54 AM
wah, dun argue like that leh.
HJ considered sex trade liao. My definition is very strict one, if you go for pure clean massage, then it's perfectly okay, the moment the person touch your didi without having license and eventually end up as HJ, you're not pure and clean anymore hehe....
armanisexchange
09-04-2006, 02:03 AM
No lah, where got argue? ;) Just some friendly criticism to wake up the ideas
I also think once there is intimate touching, it's considered wrong already, what HJ only lah, BM only lah, fucking talk cock hor?
It's the same kind of advice you'd tell a young child - never let anyone touch you there and don't go touching other children also :D , correct boh?
sexoholic
11-04-2006, 02:36 AM
Well, I am just saying what works for me. If people like reacher doesn't feel it works, then do otherwise.:)
I have to admit, there are some girls out there whom I really fancy, and I am a sucker for soapies. If I am found out, too bad. The reason why I do not engage in intercourse with pros is simply not to bring any disease home, not that its more right or wrong.
:D
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