Sad story happen to me .....

[axcel69]

Dear bros,

let me stress out my pain and sorrow here

I went to U turn once, then met a girl who was suppose to sit with my friend but my friend push to me.
Her name is Xiao hong, viet gal
At first, we couldn't converse and everything seem so awkward.
Slowly with the alcohol level increasing in my blood and hers, we warmed up and before i knew it, i was with her the whole week
First time we met, i tip her as usual, second time, i did too....
but for the rest of the week she didn't wan me to tip her anymore.

She was rather caring towards me and i never felt tat way with other girls.
I told her i like her and asked if she did too. She said that we were just friends and her main purpose is to come here work.
I was ok with that and nuthing further happened
The next day, she asked me if i really liked her ? i said yes why not.
She told me that i was a nice guy and asked me if i mind that she was older...
I told her age wasn't much of a problem. she said ok and from then on, was a rather sweet relationship.

Slowly i discovered that its was getting weirder. She was lying about many things.
I took that into consideration and developed caution towards her.
She told me today she not working and asked me go to her place at 7pm to find her
i went and waiting for an hour she didn't appear.
I went to 51 thinking she forgotton our appt but alas, there she was working at 51
i was rather pissed and told her off,
she gave me some lame excuse and i pushed the thought away
she told me later after work 3 am, go to her place again to wait for her
there i was again ( sucker right) and waited. sianz nv see her....
so i decided to leave.
When i was leaving i saw her and a guy hugging at a coffeeshop
i went up and confronted
she gave me bullshit and asked me to go back first.
i knew it was over.
i was a victim of a failed vietnamisation program.

I gave her a piece of my mind and left.
To make myself sure that what i did was right, i told the cab driver to u turn and see
sure enuff, she was holding hands with the guy and walking back to her place

Advise to some bros who are smitted with viets
its a shady world

[dakboyslim]

Come to think of it... u should be happy rather den sad cos she found someone who was a bigger dickhead den u...

commercial sex.... Fug and Forget..... if u r those type who cannot control ur feelings den dun RTF.... it will give u more problems den pleasure....

move on...... learn from experience....:cool:

[Ah Seng]

That's true..............be a man.......... if wanna go out and play then know what's right what's wrong??? Bro......a pc of advise....

[Snuber]

let me stress out my pain and sorrow here
You seem quite new to this field. Anyway, what she said is rite. Her purpose in coming here is to work, not to find love.

So take it easy and move on.

[bingo75]

hey bro... u been there for a wk but u are just paying 3 day of tips... it mean u are still having 4 day FOC... still worth it.. F*** and forget

[axcel69]

Come to think of it... u should be happy rather den sad cos she found someone who was a bigger dickhead den u...

commercial sex.... Fug and Forget..... if u r those type who cannot control ur feelings den dun RTF.... it will give u more problems den pleasure....

move on...... learn from experience....:cool:

hmmm
you see... many bros seen her and no question abt it.
I did not put 100 percent into this but was hoping that it would come true.

Today onwards, i shall destroy all viets....

muachhahahahahhahaha...

going crazy

[axcel69]

You seem quite new to this field. Anyway, what she said is rite. Her purpose in coming here is to work, not to find love.

So take it easy and move on.

yeah... i am moving on but then i just want share with bros who are in something like my dilema

[Rof|maoxz]

hmmm
you see... many bros seen her and no question abt it.
I did not put 100 percent into this but was hoping that it would come true.

Today onwards, i shall destroy all viets....

muachhahahahahhahaha...

going crazy

You are fucking fortunate that you have exposed her misdemeanors. No "free-handouts" being given. Only abit of a heart wrecking pain, that's all. Next time, be alert & observant. Dun be lame by doing vengeful things. Certainly don't worth your effort. Save your progress bonus for better usage. :)

[Klein76]

[QUOTE=Rof|maoxz]You are fucking fortunate that you have exposed her misdemeanors. No "free-handouts" being given. Only abit of a heart wrecking pain, that's all.


Agree with u,Take it as a lesson learn lor :) old thing dont go new thing dont come

[SDMM]

i cannot believe still have experience cheongsters still believe in the fairy tale story of having a relationship with a working lady

crazy world we live in

[prince_81]

this kind of gal work at this kind of place
how you going to really have serious relationship with her

think twice... dun be a cai tou

[Mango]

seems like you don't understand there are only two things in this field; Money and Fuck. If you mix your feeling into, you will ultimately get burn. Anyway, this is a real good experience for you, you should remember this in future.

[AlexWee]

Sorry brother to hear your story.
I think the other brothers are right. Don't ever fall in love with any FL or otherwise. It's not worth it. It's money, money and money that talk. If you show a bigger wallet, the girl will follow you until your wallet is empty.So please go fuck and forget about the girl.Return to reality.If you show an open and caring heart, you're going to get hurt.Read about the guy who fell in love with a Russian FL in KL? He eventually killed her because he was so in love with her.And what happened? He also got caught and charged for murder.
Love and FL sex just dont click.
I'm very sorry for you but I think you're fortunate that this happened sooner and not later when your wallet and everything gone.
So take care brothers.Pl take care as you go about cheoking and bonking.
Go,see,conquer,release and forget. That's my motto.No regrets.No strings.Sometimes no return trips.Just go and be free.Take care brothers.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

yeah... i am moving on but then i just want share with bros who are in something like my dilema

bro,this xiao hong u talking abt is she the 1 u were with last fri and wat u saw happened just yesterday?

[blackeagle10]

When you go out there, remember to use yr big head. If u listen to yr small head, u will end up badly burnt.

These women have sold their dignity for money; sense of integrity and honesty is not what u will expect from these women. Granted that there is a small minority who are into this game for survival, one always take their words with a pinch of salt as there are always respectable alternatives for women even from a 3rd world country like Vietnam.

When u start selling yr body, everything else is secondary....

[sakurada]

Threadstarter, you call this sad story? Apologize if you feel offended. I'm not trying to make fun of you. It seems so petty. Actually, it should be a lucky story rather than sad story. If you have not seen her with another man, your heart would have failed you even more and then maybe lots of money and time loss on this relationship.

[axcel69]

bro,this xiao hong u talking abt is she the 1 u were with last fri and wat u saw happened just yesterday?

ya lo

this i

[axcel69]

bro,this xiao hong u talking abt is she the 1 u were with last fri and wat u saw happened just yesterday?

ya lo

this is

[sammyboyfor]

Why are hookers always called Xiao this and Xiao that even if they have huge watermelons and gaping wide pussies???? :confused:

Her name is Xiao hong, viet gal

[axcel69]

bro,this xiao hong u talking abt is she the 1 u were with last fri and wat u saw happened just yesterday?

ya lo

this is the one la

knn right

[axcel69]

Why are hookers always called Xiao this and Xiao that even if they have huge watermelons and gaping wide pussies???? :confused:


boss ar....

cos their name wan act cute ma....

better still u get some girls called ah this or ah that

[whitegals]

Why are hookers always called Xiao this and Xiao that even if they have huge watermelons and gaping wide pussies???? :confused:

Because you'd better be Xiao Xin of them.... :D

[dakboyslim]

Sorry brother to hear your story.
I think the other brothers are right. Don't ever fall in love with any FL or otherwise. It's not worth it. It's money, money and money that talk.
i think we should not generalise all of the WLs.... although there is a large majority of truth in dat.... they are here for money but not all of them are bad...... it is just dat it is so diff to find one who is real dat we actually give up.....

in conclusion.... not worth the time and effort.... unless u r damn sure of it...

[pete_the_fish]

i was a victim of a failed vietnamisation program.



This kind of experience not only happen with vietnamese. I had china, thais, indos before...all the same.

[Lok7]

they like to give you gf feeling and then dump u out there. 1st thing to remember.. they are here to work. wat you need is to get free sex rite? then ask her directly if she want you to be her tilak. if she agree to be your stead... tell her to ensure that she only accompany man inside the pub but not outside the hotel.

[Cheri_Popper]

Bro,
Well you have to learnt the ropes first before you jump into any relationship with any FL/WL, etc.

Their primary objective to come here is to earn $ (never ever forget that).

Their secondary objective here is probably to find someone who is able to support them. (Sorry you don't fit into this just yet as you are still very young)

Even if she get into a serious relationship with you, would you be able to take it? Can you bare to see her touch, hug, screw, etc. by another man?
To maintain a long distance relationship be it a Thai/PRC/Viet is never easy.

The best policy is to Fuck and Forget.

[siamcutey]

Threadstarter, you call this sad story? Apologize if you feel offended. I'm not trying to make fun of you. It seems so petty. Actually, it should be a lucky story rather than sad story. If you have not seen her with another man, your heart would have failed you even more and then maybe lots of money and time loss on this relationship.

Ya, it should be a happy story. Imagine that if it continues without he knowing, then it really will be a sad sad story. :D

SC

[naemlo]

Their primary objective to come here is to earn $ (never ever forget that).


CP, u know this too huh?? Nbzzz I thought u forget abt this liao.


Their secondary objective here is probably to find someone who is able to support them.

Support their family too.



Even if she get into a serious relationship with you, would you be able to take it? Can you bare to see her touch, hug, screw, etc. by another man?



How will a bf allows his gf to be bonk by others?? This I been asking a few times liao, but those deeply in love bf can't answer me. My answer for him, maybe the bf can't support her n yet fall in love with her.


To maintain a long distance relationship be it a Thai/PRC/Viet is never easy.


Can lah... trust me.


The best policy is to Fuck and Forget.

U forget pay....

[Cheri_Popper]

CP, u know this too huh?? Nbzzz I thought u forget abt this liao.


Peng You, Nbzzz, you lidat come out and scare me huh?! :D

[asdfghjkl]

actually bro u should congratulate urself for the fact that u saved money..

[axcel69]

i seldom pay

i do fuck and forget

thanks all bros for the advise

[summoner]

i seldom pay

i do fuck and forget

thanks all bros for the advise

good that u realised it before sinking deeper...move on as from now then..;)

[newbadass]

Paiseh... your story doesn't sound very sad.
It's just a typical newbie story I've heard about five times in the past year... all from different bros I chiong with!

What does your story have in common with them?

1. They all thought no need to pay tips, very big fuck.
2. They wanted GF feeling, free bonk, special treatment, etc.
3. They got angry when they realised that they were not the only ones.
4. Their girls had to lie to them on occasion to spare their feelings (while going to H81 with customers, etc)

Don't try to be a Romeo. Just be an honest customer. Someone who pays for what he buys. She'll appreciate you more... and more importantly, she'll respect you. She will appreciate a Robert too, but she won't respect him.

Frankly, once you stop paying a girl, you lose the right to complain about her not giving you the special treatment. That is why when a girl claims that she does not want my tip (yes, strangely this shit happens to me too :rolleyes: ) I make her take it anyway. This keeps expectations low between us... and you know what happens to people whose expectations are low - we're always happy ;)

[sakurada]

Paiseh... your story doesn't sound very sad.
It's just a typical newbie story ...I've heard about five times in the past year...
Frankly, once you stop paying a girl, you lose the right to complain about her not giving you the special treatment. That is why when a girl claims that she does not want my tip (yes, strangely this shit happens to me too :rolleyes: ) I make her take it anyway. This keeps expectations low between us... and you know what happens to people whose expectations are low - we're always happy ;)

Well said. Actually it is good to pay. If a girl refuses to accept, I'll find a way to put the $ into her purse. It is really very easy. Don't even think of buying a phone or gift as payment-in-kind because gifts don't count! This way the relationship is made very clear. When one is a little broke, then just have dinner at food court without sex. This way, the psychological and financial damage is always kept at very controllable level.

[axcel69]

Paiseh... your story doesn't sound very sad.
It's just a typical newbie story I've heard about five times in the past year... all from different bros I chiong with!

What does your story have in common with them?

1. They all thought no need to pay tips, very big fuck.
2. They wanted GF feeling, free bonk, special treatment, etc.
3. They got angry when they realised that they were not the only ones.
4. Their girls had to lie to them on occasion to spare their feelings (while going to H81 with customers, etc)

Don't try to be a Romeo. Just be an honest customer. Someone who pays for what he buys. She'll appreciate you more... and more importantly, she'll respect you. She will appreciate a Robert too, but she won't respect him.

Frankly, once you stop paying a girl, you lose the right to complain about her not giving you the special treatment. That is why when a girl claims that she does not want my tip (yes, strangely this shit happens to me too :rolleyes: ) I make her take it anyway. This keeps expectations low between us... and you know what happens to people whose expectations are low - we're always happy ;)

number one, she dun go hotel de cos i was with her most of the time...

and i dun sound like a sucker for that

i aM just pissed when she asked me go her place then got another guy there...
thats all

[newbadass]

number one, she dun go hotel de cos i was with her most of the time...

and i dun sound like a sucker for that

i aM just pissed when she asked me go her place then got another guy there...
thats all

Ohhh... lidat ah.

Women tend to take a guy's feelings for granted when they think that the guy has feelings for her. I'm talking about women in general, not just WLs.

That's why I don't play KC with WLs. Why do through that aggravation when there is an easier path to go through - the customer's path?

[naemlo]

number one, she dun go hotel de cos i was with her most of the time...


U sure boh?? U 24 hrs by her side? She wants to lie to u, u also dunno. Just like most of the bros here. They go out n cheong also tell lies to their wife or gf.



i aM just pissed when she asked me go her place then got another guy there...
thats all

Wat's there to piss off? I always believe money makes the world goes round. She meets u, she has no income but she meets another guy, she gets paid.

[yeeeha]

Axcel69: There's a place and time for everything. For me, I will always set my priority right and draw a line. For example, when I go chionging(HC, KTV, TN and such), I always remind myself time and time again that it's all for some sleezy fun. Pay $$$ and my fair share of fun, then go home. I dont believe and I hope not to be emotionally attached to WLs. They are "battle harden" and chances are we'll end up poorer and hurt. Of course there are fairy tale exceptions but they are really very few of such cases.

If you're looking for emotional fulfilment, dont waste time at those sleezy chionging grounds.

[Deep Blue]

Why don’t you think about where you had met her? Why are you there and why is she there? Both of you looking for love? I doubt so then so why ponder hard and be piss over trivial matters like this. Even if she is you girlfriend she is not yours exclusively. Think about it again, put yourself in her shoes and you will know why. Yes she may like you but she has to survive as well. There might be a kampong of people waiting back home for her to feed. Your problems had be run over and over again this forum, you are not the first and will not be the last. :cool:

[axcel69]

all dun worry

wake le la...

this post to inform people who might be in my shoes

to be more careful

sharing experience here

[Mr Weird]

Bro!! Dont get serious with this kind of girl lah..Not worth it. Lucky u nv married with her. Play play can liao lah. Not easy to get a good decent girl. Must go through thick and thin..Like that cin cai fuck fuck..knn fall in love liao berry dangerous leh. Sorry arh me hokkien bing ( 福建兵) My potato not powerful enough..hahaha.你要在她身上找出值的你付出的理由,你才付出
.

[axcel69]

more advise more advise needed

she called me from vietnam

Omg.... how sia....

[sToNeCoLd]

Take consolation here where you ONLY lost the most a couple of bucks (Maybe $100) & some meaningless wasted time. Probably, that dumb guy holding hand with her loses a couple of hundreds/thousands & maybe even his family with that Vietgal right??

To see things on a level-headed field. Some Vietgals are really nice & worth our time & attention. However, there are bound to have ungrateful ones around that not just wants your $$ but waste your time & feeling too. Vice-versa, we have good & bad Singaporean man as well. Learn a good lesson and move on from this experience here as claimed by some brudders here.

Cheers and have fun!!!

[summoner]

more advise more advise needed

she called me from vietnam

Omg.... how sia....

Jialat,means u are going to be soft again...:o

[axcel69]

Take consolation here where you ONLY lost the most a couple of bucks (Maybe $100) & some meaningless wasted time. Probably, that dumb guy holding hand with her loses a couple of hundreds/thousands & maybe even his family with that Vietgal right??

To see things on a level-headed field. Some Vietgals are really nice & worth our time & attention. However, there are bound to have ungrateful ones around that not just wants your $$ but waste your time & feeling too. Vice-versa, we have good & bad Singaporean man as well. Learn a good lesson and move on from this experience here as claimed by some brudders here.

Cheers and have fun!!!

thanks stone cold
appreciate man

[The_Hustler]

Ironical ain't it?

U self-proclaimed to be an event organiser and u're supposed to organise for MNCs, stat boards, brands etc on a big scale.... yet a tiny Viet Girl on a money making mission here in SG... relatively small scaled event and you having problems handling it??

Gosh... such incidents happen every single day. Working ladies put on a Mask that even puts Phantom of the Opera to shame. During my forays... believe you me.. seen it, heard it, done it. Shows you have a long way to go... getting all tickled by little actions from our lead actress from Vietnam. You know how many other options there are out there?? My cue: get her... fuck her and cum all over her... den leave her to dry by herself... whilst you go forth and search for another wet pussy.

Pls lah, move and stop consulting irrelevant opinions. Join my events arm wing better lah.. I help strengthen you. LOL.

Events/PR Guru,
The Hustler

[axcel69]

sure not
join ur wing

you got vacancy ar lol

yeah

when she is back

i will cum on her and then let her dry off herself
lol

[naemlo]

more advise more advise needed

she called me from vietnam

Omg.... how sia....


Dun waste time.... move on. There r so many viet gers...

[naemlo]

Pls lah, move and stop consulting irrelevant opinions. Join my events arm wing better lah.. I help strengthen you. LOL.



Uncle, I want to join can or not?? U have Erato contact?? :rolleyes:

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

more advise more advise needed

she called me from vietnam

Omg.... how sia....

so u pick up the call then wats ur final verdict bro?

[dakboyslim]

probably the money she fleeced from the other guy has run dry..... u r next.... ;)

[axcel69]

wahahaha
end the story

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

wahahaha
end the story

bro,end the story and start a new one,like the way i did with Boney!:)