abortion

[scorkeong]

hi brothers , i feel very guilty after asking my gf to go for abortion last month i have been thinking a lot these past weeks i feel really bad...

[ranger_edd]

hi brothers , i feel very guilty after asking my gf to go for abortion last month i have been thinking a lot these past weeks i feel really bad...

Not sure what to say, but all the best really. Take care.

[scorkeong]

any brother got the same experience?

[Criminalz]

bro...i understand. Sometimes situations just forces our hands to do things which we dun wan to. Cant say i am anti abortion, but i understand.

[onion_rings]

Dun worry time will heal everything in due course...But ask yourself this question...

Why u wanted the abortion 1st place...Is it becos $ not enuff or u dun noe her well enuff to get married or she's the one who suggested it???

Btw he or she got a life...But yr GF & u have taken it away...If u have a religion, go & do something abt it...It's to make u feel better & to let him or she it rest in peace too...:cool:

[imreallybig]

Dun worry time will heal everything in due course...But ask yourself this question...

Why u wanted the abortion 1st place...Is it becos $ not enuff or u dun noe her well enuff to get married or she's the one who suggested it???

Btw he or she got a life...But yr GF & u have taken it away...If u have a religion, go & do something abt it...It's to make u feel better & to let him or she it rest in peace too...:cool:


Bro..u just made him feel worse...sometimes..we are forced by circumstances..and i hope u were as well lor..

[xiong5182]

bro do take care..... do treat your gf well after this....

[jng1103]

any brother got the same experience?

My god-sister went for abortion (NOT by me) last yr at a local clinic. It was a tough decision for her and she was traumatized for few months after the abortion. Expect ur gf's emotional break down and some sleepless nites. if possible, try to spend more time with her during this crisis.

PM me if u need more on clinics, charges, procedures, etc. Will try to help

[zhivago]

Wat done is done.

now is not the time to cry over spilt milk but the let life move on. She's oso feeling bad abt it and if you do not console her and still stays where u are, i dun think this forum will help u much no matter wat we posted in this thread.

[Tai_zi21]

No offend to the thread starter

But coming to post this type of topic esp a sex forum? wat helps does it make?

Remember it u who make the decesion,who else can u blame? maybe as some bro say suitations force u to do it de! but not urself wan it this way...But for that moment of enjoyment... worth it?

Move on with ur life and think abt how to care and concern for ur gf more! i think she is feeling alot more worse than u!

God bless

:)

[onion_rings]

Bro..u just made him feel worse...sometimes..we are forced by circumstances..and i hope u were as well lor..
Yes me too...Been thru b4...But no use crying over spilt milk now...Most impt now is to treat her GF well & try to understand her more...Cos she's the one goin thru the ops & not him...

[wildbeast]

This is sex forum, wrong place! if u sincerely repentant, go seek professional counselling and do what RIGHT for yourself and your woman!!! :mad:

[ricardo]

treat gf better lor and be careful next time.

[bart]

Thia is a sex forum, that's true, but no harm for a fellow bro to seek some support here.

Try to get a some professional help, SOS could be a good place for phone counselling. Time heals most wounds, whatever you are going through, it's 10 times worse for your GF. She needs you to be strong, and to assure her that the right thing has been done, no matter what doubts you might have.

Offer a prayer, clear your mind, and life goes on.

[Criminalz]

This is sex forum, wrong place! if u sincerely repentant, go seek professional counselling and do what RIGHT for yourself and your woman!!! :mad:


hey dun be so mean lah...or would you rather he share his whole abortion experience? a little encouraging words wont kill right..

[wildbeast]

To whoever zapped me, this is SBF! What is ur objective in surfing this forum? SEX or related stuff! We all know nothing abt this person plight or the whole events to the abortion. There are many personal views fr bros. How many are helpful to his case???? Rather than still taking the time to surf here, dun u think he shd be doing more pratical and impt things to help himself and his gal???

There are pics u can find on aborted foetus. Go look at them and u know why I :mad:

Dun get me wrong, I dun even know the threadstarter at all, who know this may even be a non real case. I merely sympathise for his woman and hope he get REAL PROFESSIONAL help.

[wildbeast]

To whoever zapped me, this is SBF! What is ur objective in surfing this forum? SEX or related stuff! We all know nothing abt this person plight or the whole events to the abortion. There are many personal views fr bros. How many are helpful to his case???? Rather than still taking the time to surf here, dun u think he shd be doing more pratical and impt things to help himself and his gal???

There are pics u can find on aborted foetus. Go look at them and u know why I :mad:

Dun get me wrong, I dun even know the threadstarter at all, who know this may even be a non real case. I merely sympathise for his woman and hope he get REAL PROFESSIONAL help.

[tungsten]

Think that is good time to stick by your gril friend now. Guess that is the only advice that most of us will offer you now.

[Rof|maoxz]

hi brothers , i feel very guilty after asking my gf to go for abortion last month i have been thinking a lot these past weeks i feel really bad...

Ask youself this Q. What if she have not gone for the abortion? What can you offer her? Her guilt is 10x more as compared to you. :cool:

[Moojoo]

I had same experience more as well......now still paying and receiving the bad karma......

onion rings rite. if you have a religion better do something fast...they are a pity lot in the other world.....

If you need help or advice, pm me...I will be more wiling to help....:)

[edmund899]

perform some rituals for the aborted baby. the gal need to carry out some sort of praying at home and say something to the baby while at it. if u can afford, make a tablet for the baby at temples which offer ritual services for aborted babies. aborted babies have a lifespan just like normal human beings. as they "grow" older so do their hatred against their mother or parents(can't remember), the hatred will affect the various aspects(health, luck etc) of the mother's life.
that's all i know

use a condom next time

[pierced6g]

bros,

don't make things worse leh. The advice on karma and baby's afterlife is not going to help this brother now.

All i got to say is life still have to go on and treat your gal well. It's gonna be tough but you can get over it.

Be it right or wrong. It had become another chapter of our life. Accept what you have decided on. It's ok to feel guilty and sad. We are human afterall and futhermore, it's a part of us.

Just know this. If it happens again, i will never make that decision again. I really understand what you are going thru.

[Moojoo]

I know alot of bros here wont believe these....

abortion is as good as murder therefore the "payback" is the same....

My advice here is not to cure the "pain" but to lessen the "pain"....... I have went thru it and juz wish to share with everybody......

Yes no matter what has happened, has already happened.....but rather than live thru our life blindly ignoring this fact will not help us either if we do not know how to remedy it.............

[Fei Zai]

. Sometimes situations just forces our hands to do things which we dun wan to.
...sometimes..we are forced by circumstances....

What type of situations/circumstances u talking about?
Condom leak? Mis-fire? U are married man but fuck ur GF raw? Someone hold a gun pointing at your head to fuck ur GF raw? :confused:

I just feel that if not ready to have babies, don’t fuck raw. Whatever u can think of now is just EXCUSES.
If really want raw in future? Go eat/fuck sushi. :mad:

[edmund899]

bros,

don't make things worse leh. The advice on karma and baby's afterlife is not going to help this brother now.





at least do the rituals for the mother's sake because the baby's spirit would stick to the mother for life unless rituals have been performed.
leave some sweets around in different parts of the mother's house and u'll see what i mean.

[BigGuy]

ok time to break off n find a new chai.......

remorseful then go get ROM lor......otherwise here say remorseful after awhile problems come up then still break off so might as well now.....one time pain for abortion n break-up

REALITY BITES

[wildbeast]

Was zapped 4 pts for my posts. :D Noted the comments by 2 samsters. Nice to hear from ur views. Cheers & SBF rules.. :)

[Hanxinco88]

hi brothers , i feel very guilty after asking my gf to go for abortion last month i have been thinking a lot these past weeks i feel really bad...


Its just life!!!! Move on and dont ever let your small head rulez over your big head in the future!!!!!!

I had similiar experience or much worst!!! She had an abortion when she was 4-5 months pregnant....very risky.....after the operation the doctors show me the featus...my god...I almost faint cos can see the hands and legs and worst the crush head~!!!!!!!..............:(

[ronn80]

Hi there sad to hear abt what you have went through. But trust me that your gf is feeling much worse than you are now.
I had the same experience as you did not once but twice. Was already ROM and lived together with my wife when she expected our first child. At that time we were not financially stable and she made the painful decision to abort the child. We simply had too much to handle at that point of time. No choice and she went ahead with the abortion. Things did not end there. After the abortion, she had bad dreams almost every night and see her in that state made me feel very very bad. But all i could do was stay by her side and spend more time with her. Things only return to normal after 3-4 months. But during the period of time i could see her getting thinner and paler than before. It is really heart aching to see you loved one that way.
Second tiem she expected when i was on the brink of bankruptcy. And she took the whole burden herself and went for the abortion without my knowledge. I only realised when she burt out the truth during her sleep. It made me even more guilty. Spurred me on to work harder to be what i am today.
As i know my wife's gynea personally, she actually told me that we were very lucky to be able to have a child again after 2 abortions. After the 2 abortions, i finally broke free from all my financial problems and built my own biz. And now count myself lucky to be a father of 1.
What you need to do most now is to spend more time with your gf. Try notto go to places where you will see many babies or kids. It might make her feel worse. Your gf need you most now and be nice to her. Next time dun ever make the same mistake again. If you are not ready to have a child please use protection.

[solucky0621]

my GF used to love me like crazy but after abortion( i was not sure about my feelings for her back then), her attitude towards me changed, work has taken over the no 1 spot in her heart, and i had to poh low so her very hard to get her to marry me . in addition, she gets irregular discharge most of the time we have sex after that abortion, so painful for me to see my beloved suffer. 报应 i suppose, how i regret my decision then,sigh. the other issue is of course the foetus, do not be rash?

[scorkeong]

hi brothers thanks for all the postings and those who console , thanks for all your times :)
cheers to all