If your wives are one of them......

[vfv_slr]

We guys played the field too much...now it is retribution time....haha, juz kidding. But really hard for a guy to find out his wife played outside this way!

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BUAYA WIVES
By Joyce Lim

April 24, 2006




SHE says she loves her husband but also wants to have sex with other men.

Janice (who did not want her real name to be used) expressed her outlook on life this way: 'My husband will forever be my husband, my soulmate. Someone to grow old with. But I want a fulfilled life and one man is not enough,'

So, as the Chinese saying goes, she will not give up a forest just for a tree.


Posed picture: Alvin Toh
Not even after she and her boyfriend of seven years got married.

Janice told The New Paper on Sunday that she wants to start a family with her hubby.

But deep inside, she also knows that she wants many men in her life.

'With my husband, there is love. With other men, it's purely for fun and excitement. No strings attached,' she explains.

The 33-year-old IT professional who was married eight years ago, asked that she be not identified as her husband is unaware of her active social life.

Her husband was her first love whom she met in a local polytechnic. They live in a 5-room Housing Board flat and have two children.

The sexy, slim, 1.6m-tall woman with a tanned complexion cannot recall how many men she has slept with.

But she confesses she no longer feels guilty when she sleeps with other men.

'Before marriage, I felt I was free to see whoever I wanted to. After marriage, I stopped flirting for a while.

''When I went back to my old ways, I felt guilty initially.

'But it did not take long for the guilt to go away,' she said.

'Moreover, I gave my virginity to my husband.'

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of divorce, said lawyers here.

They have seen an increase in cases of husbands filing for divorce because of their cheating wives. (See report on facing page.)

And it's no surprise that many of the these women are generally well-educated and financially independent, like Janice.

Janice, who describes herself as liberal-minded, went to a university in Australia after getting a diploma.

She was brought up in a well-to-do family and her parents were very strict with her when she was young.

It was in Australia that she got the freedom to do whatever she wanted, Janice told The New Paper on Sunday.

'I was a wild child when I was in Australia. Sex with the ang mohs (Caucasians) was exciting.

'I was no longer easily pleased. I began to seek more and more excitment and I told myself that was how I wanted my life to be,' she said.

'Why can't women play the field, go out and have some fun? It's the 21st century.

'If we can have more women wearing the pants at home and men giving up their careers to look after the children, I don't think it is a big deal that women go out to seek some fun.

'At the end of the day, we still come home to our husbands.'

Janice knows there is the chance that her marriage may break down if her husband finds out about her flings.

TAKING THE RISK

Yet she has no qualms taking the risk.

'I can't explain why I put my marriage at risk. But I just can't be tied down to living with only one man,' she said.

'I've seen too many of my friends lose their freedom after they got hitched,' added Janice, who is determined to keep hers.

Her husband often works late, while she usually knocks off on time.

'Sometimes, I'll pop by my husband's office to have dinner with him before going out to enjoy myself,' said Janice, who goes out two to three times a week.

'My husband thinks I'm out shopping or hanging out at coffee joints with my group of girlfriends.

'But most of the time, we like to unwind in pubs, which are also where we pick up the guys.'

Once Janice steps into a pub, her eyes discreetly sweep the dance floor and bar counters, looking for promising partners.

'I don't always end up in bed with them. It depends on my mood. Sometimes it's purely harmless flirting,' said Janice.

She is not worried about her friends telling on her as they share her views about extra-martial sex.

When Janice does have sex with the men, she would visit budget hotels in Geylang or Joo Chiat Road so as to avoid being seen by her husband or friends.

She also makes sure that she does not stay out too late. The latest she has been out was 1am.

'When my husband is overseas for work, I'll stay out later,' she added.

Janice is also discreet in public.

'I don't get intimate with other men too openly in public, unless we're in a pub where I'm sure my husband or his friends won't visit.

'If I ever bump into my husband, I will just introduce the man as a friend. My husband won't suspect anything.'

Throughout the interview, Janice emphasised repeatedly that she is unfaithful not because of marital problems.

'I have a healthy sex life with my husband and we are happily married.

'I know many people may not be able to accept the kind of lifestyle which I am leading now,' she said. 'Maybe I am very open-minded and I value my social life more than anything else.'

FREEDOM

Like Janice, Claire (not her real name) also clings on dearly to her freedom.

The 25-year-old sales executive has a steady boyfriend of three years, but still dates other men.

'I love my boyfriend and I'll probably marry him one day.

''I go out with other men purely for fun. Some of them are married or attached. We just enjoy each other's company but we will not fall in love,' she said.

Claire describes sex with other men as more exciting than with her steady boyfriend.

She started sleeping around with other men about two years ago.

'There is nothing wrong with my boyfriend. The problem lies with me. I am harder to satisfy,' explained Janice, who has slept with about 20 men besides her boyfriend.

'Sex with my boyfriend is more conservative and he takes a long time to turn me on. But when I have sex with others, we tend to be more adventurous.

'The men told me that they feel the same way with their girlfriends or wives.'

Claire too does not feel guilty for having multiple sex partners, citing the same reason Janice did - that she has no feelings for these men.

She said of her husband: 'How do I know if he is not seeing other women too?'



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THEY BLAME THEIR HUSBANDS, SAYS LAWYER

MORE wives are cheating on their husbands, lawyers told The New Paper on Sunday.

Lawyers here are seeing an increase in the number of cases of husbands filing for divorce on the grounds that their wives cheating on them.

A decade ago, lawyer Amolat Singh, 50, says he saw a case once in a few years. He has handled about six such cases recently.

He says: 'These women are not sluts who go all the way out to start an affair. Many affairs started from innocent 'Ladies' night outings with their girlfriends.'

'Maybe one girl in the group happens to know some guys and introduces them to the rest (of her girlfriends). And the one-night stand starts.'

Some of these women are also not sorry about straying. Not only that, they find excuses to justify their actions and shift the blame, says Mr Singh.

'Most of them blame their husbands for not being home for them or for being too preoccupied with their careers,' he adds.

Mr David Kan, 40, a marriage counsellor from Family Service Centre, says that affairs start usually because of communication problems between the married couple.

'When someone else whom the wife can relate to comes along, an affair could start,' he says.

'Couples should try to seek professional help or get a skilful moderator to manage their problems.'

One reason why more wives are straying could be their better earning power and an increase in their numbers in the workforce, says Mr Jason Toh, 37, from law firm Ho, Wong and Partners.

Mr Toh has seen two such cases in the past four months.

In four of the six cases that Mr Singh handled recently, the women were graduates.

'They were go-getters - financially independent women who hold fairly good jobs,' he adds.

In most cases, the husbands usually find out about their wives' affairs from their frequent late nights and handphone messages.

Mr Radakrishnan of Bernard Rada and Lee Law Corporation has also noticed an increase in divorces where the husbands claim that the wives have been unfaithful.

He says: 'There is a reluctance among the men to use the wives' infidelity as grounds for divorce. They usually try to find some other reason.'

[sex4LiFe]

my current fuck-buddy is one such wives... :D

but then again, i understand that her husband also fucks around.. so she thinks it alright for her to have fun too..

[kaiser76]

It's getting quite common nowadays. Good for the guys, I guess. 2 of my current FBs are married. Better for me cos I know they won't get 'sticky'.

For 1 of them, I even screwed her on the eve of her wedding. She wanted it as a 'present' from me. Go figure..

[zhivago]

If the husband fucks around then nothing to say...

But if the hubby are faithful, then i pity the hubby.

[Pokimon1]

my current fuck-buddy is one such wives... :D

but then again, i understand that her husband also fucks around.. so she thinks it alright for her to have fun too..


Same here bro. My fuck buddy will call me whenever she suspects her husband is out fucking around.

We have GREAT sex. As she wants to take revenge her way.

I don't mind it at all... Absolutely no strings attached. Very discreet!

In fact she only calls me when she want to fuck. Other times, she leaves me alone and I don't call her. :D

[vfv_slr]

Same here bro. My fuck buddy will call me whenever she suspects her husband is out fucking around.

We have GREAT sex. As she wants to take revenge her way.

I don't mind it at all... Absolutely no strings attached. Very discreet!

In fact she only calls me when she want to fuck. Other times, she leaves me alone and I don't call her. :D

You guys are lucky! so many FBs, I cant find any ard....all too kuai kuai! haha

[bootybonker]

i afraid of retribution
what go around come around too
so i dont fuck people wife

but i fucked a divorcee before
so should not count rite?

[bart]

Hmmm... I wonder where my wife learnt that new thing with her tongue...

[ricardo]

Hmmm... I wonder where my wife learnt that new thing with her tongue...

Damn my wife confirm not one of them ... still dunno how to use tongue yet! :mad:

[CKee]

We have GREAT sex. As she wants to take revenge her way.

I don't mind it at all... Absolutely no strings attached. Very discreet!

In fact she only calls me when she want to fuck. Other times, she leaves me alone and I don't call her. :D[/QUOTE]

In my experiences with recent 3 FBs, their hubbies do not screw ard. FB1 and 2 say that hubbies extremely selfish & never attentive to their sexual needs. The classic example of going off into deep snooze after cumming, leaving them high and dry.

FB3 simply wants to have fun. These 3 married women do not simply just jump into the sack with any dick...

[tan_w_c]

I was thinking, are there anybody here who doesn't fuck around ? either with fl, mistress, FB, pros.
If you think abt it, the number of bros here is huge. If nobody is here JUST to read and discuss, then the population of guys fooling ard is HUGE.
So, the girls realise this. And this is their way of getting back at us, with our buddies, with other men.

[D!ckster]

haizz...like tat where got dare to get married...after getting married, not only have to worry about bringing back the bacon, but still have to worry wife go out "tao jia"...haizzz...

[ricardo]

haizz...like tat where got dare to get married...after getting married, not only have to worry about bringing back the bacon, but still have to worry wife go out "tao jia"...haizzz...

u like tat say most woman oso dun dare marry oso liao as it was generally perceive that man tends to eat outside more.

[wesleynapster]

Well, do argeed with Ricardo.

For me, simply tell my partner, if you think you can do it, same goes to me, if you think that it is wrong for me to fool around, then it is best she herself don't fool around. As I was saying as long as we are HUMAN, regardless whether male or female, both are as horny as ever.

Guys will claim that their wives are too busy looking after the families, always tired after the day and no time for sex.

Gals on the other hands will claim that their hubbies are too busy with the work and business and whenever they are back, always say that they are damn tired to have sex and cannot satisfy the gals needs.

Simply an term to say, as long as either parties wanna TAO JIA, always comes with a lots of excuses.

But as for this unfair world, women all around are always protected by the law. Its ok but women to look around to satisfy their needs but it is wrongfully for a men to satisfy their needs.

Anyway, my point is whatever the theory is, life is so realistic, do what you think of and what you feel like. At the end of the day, just face the music, no point denial or regrets, what is done cannot be undone as no one knows the future, whatever happen, lifes goes on.

[Ah Seng]

Tat's why the divorcing rates are getting higher and higher.......well.....my advice is to F*** all u want(until u got no sperm,didi cannot stand anymore or etc) til u get married beta quit all these thingy.

One's must know how to plan their route of life ah....or else bery the jia lat in the end!!!:)

[Ah Seng]

I also ve FB.....but not married one.Onli got divorcees and single one.... so many lucky brudders here....:) or should I say gorgeous looking guys here;)

[D!ckster]

...it was generally perceive that man tends to eat outside more.
You have a point there...but then the husbands eating outside have been around longer mah...its only recently that we hear the wives starting to eat out more and tat they dun feel guilty abt it...so i guess its the guys who are now starting to feel the heat?

[itsabt6x]

after reading all that's posted in this thread...what would bros here do if they found out their wife's been 'eating out' too....???? care to share your thoughts?

though I've been eating out since i can remember...I've no suspect that my wife has or did 'ate out'...but if I do find out she did and she's open about it, i may suggest we 'eat out' together...that may actually spice up our marriage and make it stronger....since there's no secret eating out anymore n a more trusting relationship can be nutured....:D

[garem]

after reading all that's posted in this thread...what would bros here do if they found out their wife's been 'eating out' too....???? care to share your thoughts?

though I've been eating out since i can remember...I've no suspect that my wife has or did 'ate out'...but if I do find out she did and she's open about it, i may suggest we 'eat out' together...that may actually spice up our marriage and make it stronger....since there's no secret eating out anymore n a more trusting relationship can be nutured....:D

Do you really think when your wife break the news you are calm to suggest?
Does it really spice up your marriage and make it stronger to eat out together? :rolleyes:

[Ah Seng]

Wow....Bro itsabt6x.... after u said tat...think lotsa brudders will b waiting 4 ur eating out sessions ah:D No offence;)

[itsabt6x]

Do you really think when your wife break the news you are calm to suggest?
Does it really spice up your marriage and make it stronger to eat out together? :rolleyes:

well...i did hv an ex with whom i was serious about some years ago...n we did 'ate out' together...those were great times we had......but as the saying goes...'all good things must end...' :(

[lls8]

This is what is being done in overseas countries like US, UK and Australia. private investigator does provide such services.

As the recent sensational news widely reported in Australian, also widely discussed over the talk-radio in Sydney; :o in about 35% of the divorce cases, the husband found out that some of the children by the ex-wife was not fathered by them!! That 35% is one in three marriages. Better find a good excuse you brothers, do undertake some form of DNA test. Dun wait till divorce to find out............:mad:

[Ah Seng]

well...i did hv an ex with whom i was serious about some years ago...n we did 'ate out' together...those were great times we had......but as the saying goes...'all good things must end...' :(


wow....eat together....common interests..... but which kinds u referring huh???

[garem]

well...i did hv an ex with whom i was serious about some years ago...n we did 'ate out' together...those were great times we had......but as the saying goes...'all good things must end...' :(

I find is very different when she is your gf vs wife..what do you think?

[Ah Seng]

I find is very different when she is your gf vs wife..what do you think?


I agreed with gf different feelings coz not so much attached and if both fine wif tat....then tat will b great.... wife as for me too much in our society.Am I rite?

[ken_v2]

this is the karma of all the men thru the ages.. hahaha.. ...

if you want to fool around, then dun be surprised when you find out that your partner fools around too....

so many bros here have FBs who are married (I am NOT one of them, my FB is single) so just imagined the number of married women fooling around. the report may just be a tip of the iceberg... :rolleyes:

[lls8]

Even if u dun fool around n live an honest life, how sure "some wives" dun become buaya. The worst scenario is the opposite happened to wife. At least if you cheong around & found out, then at least could accept that "wat goes around comes around". Will life be some fair that u dun cheat n wife dun cheat as well? In this world, is there such fair on cheating. It is the biological need right?

[garem]

Even if u dun fool around n live an honest life, how sure "some wives" dun become buaya. The worst scenario is the opposite happened to wife. At least if you cheong around & found out, then at least could accept that "wat goes around comes around". Will life be some fair that u dun cheat n wife dun cheat as well? In this world, is there such fair on cheating. It is the biological need right?

I think is better that you stay single if you have such thought:rolleyes:

[bart]

My wife and I always eat out... normally at hawker center and food courts, sometimes at restaurants and her parents' place... no choice since she doesn't cook lor... recommendation for any good venue for eating out??



Get Al La Carte dinning card from Mellimun and Copthorne hotels. You pay $320 bucks up front, but get 50% discount for 2 people eating, quite worth it if eat out often.

[YummyBear]

I actually heard from one of my friend which I feel is VERY VERY true.

The time you spent eating out is equal to the time ALLOWED for your partner to eat out. Its like, you tell you wife you are out meeting, den you go "steal eat", the time you are at the "meeting", your wife can call her FB and say, "my husband is now at meeting, we can go "steal eat" now before he gets back. :eek:

That deters me from "eating out" at times. but I guess, if I can think of 1001 excuses to think of sneaking out, so can she. The only plus point for her is that, when I thought of the excuse of getting away for that 2hrs of fun, she need not think of any excuse since I already provided the time for her.

[morinfen]

this is the karma of all the men thru the ages.. hahaha.. ...

if you want to fool around, then dun be surprised when you find out that your partner fools around too....

so many bros here have FBs who are married (I am NOT one of them, my FB is single) so just imagined the number of married women fooling around. the report may just be a tip of the iceberg... :rolleyes:


hey at least you bros have fb. I can't seem get one even though i've been trying hard. Force me to pay all the time.
We should start a thread, "how to get fb's" with each bros detailing how theirs got started. any takers? :D

[ricardo]

Anyway, jokes aside... I think "Janice" is not very smart. 33 years old, poly grad, went aust for studies, married 8 years ago and 2 kids...

AFTER LEAVING ALL THESE TRACE, SHE STILL WORRY ABOUT BEING IDENTIFIED???

spot on mate. like tat hubby read oredi sure suspect what. the worst thing is those suay suay same profile as her become suspect liao or worst with the name janice ha ha ... she might as well come clean mayb hubby will agree to 3some.

[bart]

I got this slightly sick fantasy of coming home early one day to find my wife bonking with a stranger. Just a sick fantasy, pls no flame.

[ricardo]

I got this slightly sick fantasy of coming home early one day to find my wife bonking with a stranger. Just a sick fantasy, pls no flame.

unfortunately i dun have similar fantasy but look further in SBF and u will find some friends.

[sex4LiFe]

i guess some guys are ok with their wives screwing ard.. pple are more educated now and more exposed and open to such "swinging" ideas. well.. end of the day, i guess marriage is not like how it is used to... stayin faithful, be truthful etc etc...

almost everyone i know tao jia nowadays.. both my female and male friends do it.. but the males more jia lat la.. they not only flirt but go to bed too.. most of the female friends will only flirt or to the extend of smooching or touching and not bring e guy back to have a good fuck..

i guess as the world progress.. everyone is getting more liberal and daring... you can't really say it's a good or bad thing.. end of the day, it's how much you respect your partner, the one you really care about and it's up to individuals to make their own choices..

dun flame dun flame hor.. jus my own opinions..

[happybonker]

I got this slightly sick fantasy of coming home early one day to find my wife bonking with a stranger. Just a sick fantasy, pls no flame.

Bro,

All I can say is...welcome to the Swinger's World...

Something new....something interesting...will not cure your marraige but will definitely enhance it......IF it flies your kite...

If not....better not even think about it

[daddydick69]

Sometimes...we reap wat we sow man..sigh

[ushhhhh]

All i can say my surrounding include me have no faith or confident in the marriage live now. I have see too many gal r cheating their husband behind. Wat can io say. 21th centuary and all blar blar blar reason from the wives. Haizzz. :rolleyes:

[itsabt6x]

..... is not like how it is used to... stayin faithful, be truthful etc etc... .. [/FONT][/COLOR]

erh....tot polygamy was the trend in olden days uptill monogamy came about in the 60s...from then onwards...our lives got miserable......:(

with economic independence n good education, our ladies of the day now are more confident n b able to play the field as well as the men....hence...who says women r the weaker gender these days...????

[Jkin]

If both husband and wife want to have multiple sex partners, it is better not to get married at all. Because despite what they claim, I doubt they can really stand the fact that they are being betrayed...unless both of them have come clean with each other before marriage. Eventually, the marriage will end up in a divorce which is a really messy affair. Worse still if they have kids.

I don't claim to be an expert but isn't it prudent to assess your gf's character and past history before jumping into a marriage with her? I certainly won't marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends and still keep in touch with them, and whose hobby is to get high at pubs. Such girls would make wonderful gfs I am sure, but not wives.

[Ah Seng]

If both husband and wife want to have multiple sex partners, it is better not to get married at all. Because despite what they claim, I doubt they can really stand the fact that they are being betrayed...unless both of them have come clean with each other before marriage. Eventually, the marriage will end up in a divorce which is a really messy affair. Worse still if they have kids.

I don't claim to be an expert but isn't it prudent to assess your gf's character and past history before jumping into a marriage with her? I certainly won't marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends and still keep in touch with them, and whose hobby is to get high at pubs. Such girls would make wonderful gfs I am sure, but not wives.


Agreed bro..........;)

[blackeagle10]

This is the 21st century. Women have their own financial independence so if they chose to behave like men then so be it. This is a very personal choice whether you want to fuck around and stick to one partner.

You may have multiple partners but at the end of the day you still have to go back to the 'official one'.

If you don't do it then you would expect yr partner to do like wise. As the saying goes; what goes around comes around..

[peterpan]

I got this slightly sick fantasy of coming home early one day to find my wife bonking with a stranger. Just a sick fantasy, pls no flame.

Its not sick at all. In fact many of us have this fantasy deep inside us, just that they dun admit....

[morinfen]

Agreed bro..........;)

seconded.
No point marrying a gal who eats out after marriage. Can anyone of the bros here imagine the wife 'eating out' behind his back? Call me an MCP but i believe most man can't take it.

[SexFreak]

I got this slightly sick fantasy of coming home early one day to find my wife bonking with a stranger. Just a sick fantasy, pls no flame.


:eek: Bro, if this really happens, I think you will be damn sick without any fantasy liao lor.......:rolleyes: The thought of it enough to chill me.


Cheers !!!

[SexFreak]

I think "Janice" is not very smart. 33 years old, poly grad, went aust for studies, married 8 years ago and 2 kids...

AFTER LEAVING ALL THESE TRACE, SHE STILL WORRY ABOUT BEING IDENTIFIED???


I think maybe she is not giving her true details lar..............dun think she is that stupid:rolleyes:


Cheers !!!

[SexFreak]

'Sometimes, I'll pop by my husband's office to have dinner with him before going out to enjoy myself,' said Janice, who goes out two to three times a week.


This scenario kinda familiar leh.................:rolleyes: ................I think randomly got to tag along with my wife after our dinner :D


Cheers !!!

[Torch_Man]

If both husband and wife want to have multiple sex partners, it is better not to get married at all. Because despite what they claim, I doubt they can really stand the fact that they are being betrayed...unless both of them have come clean with each other before marriage. Eventually, the marriage will end up in a divorce which is a really messy affair. Worse still if they have kids.

I don't claim to be an expert but isn't it prudent to assess your gf's character and past history before jumping into a marriage with her? I certainly won't marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends and still keep in touch with them, and whose hobby is to get high at pubs. Such girls would make wonderful gfs I am sure, but not wives.
fully agree on this matter
imagine d same cunt dat we bonked everyday, n catch on-d-spot kena bonk wif another man which caught red-handed.
dat feeling is not nice. (i've bin thru dat)

nw d world has progress so so drastically,
askin mo freedom (tour,exposure,etc), no burdens (children,strings attached,etc), mo excitements (shioks,highs,orgasms,etc),
fantasies r 1 thing (playin wif our mind),
but can we really really handle the reality (if we c it thru our eyes)???

i was LOST at dat moment.
duno hw 2 b angry, sad, blame, etc (bcum feelingless,numb)

we, men, hv got 2 much EGO (PRIDE) within us.

jz sharin opinions

please comment.

[johntan68]

I personally witness 2 married woman that flirting around, though im not their FB but im close to them. one of them have trouble with her marriage while the other one, is actually happily marriage. haha. for me, only fantsize doing with them only.. too bad:o

[tryying]

IMO

Those wives who has a life of clubbing mostly ended up bed with another man. Maybe the surrounding make them do so. Either with stranger or friend that club with them. With their bitchy look, hooking up a man is as easy as 123.

But some girls also sleep with guys from the chat, as most of us know that. As long after sometime n she feel u r the one, she will go into auto gear. Every human got sexual needs n when the time is right n ripe, it is time to "eat".

We cannot blame this person or that person. But some bitches just like to deny every thing n act high class. Curse them kenna disease one day. :D

[slinkyme]

I'll be sad man..real sad....

[SassySammy]

IMO

Those wives who has a life of clubbing mostly ended up bed with another man. Maybe the surrounding make them do so. Either with stranger or friend that club with them. With their bitchy look, hooking up a man is as easy as 123.

But some girls also sleep with guys from the chat, as most of us know that. As long after sometime n she feel u r the one, she will go into auto gear. Every human got sexual needs n when the time is right n ripe, it is time to "eat".

We cannot blame this person or that person. But some bitches just like to deny every thing n act high class. Curse them kenna disease one day. :D

errr... dont most guys do that too?? :( ok maybe not the act high class part though.. heh

[spoof]

Anyway, jokes aside... I think "Janice" is not very smart. 33 years old, poly grad, went aust for studies, married 8 years ago and 2 kids...

AFTER LEAVING ALL THESE TRACE, SHE STILL WORRY ABOUT BEING IDENTIFIED???

Those stats could be change:

Maybe her real name is Janet / Jane
Maybe her real age is 35
Maybe she went to UK for studies
Maybe she is married for 6 or 10 yrs
Maybe she only has 1 kid
Maybe she live Sengang instead of Hougang.

:rolleyes:

I guess we should take the report as a pinch of salt. I seriously doubt the credibility of it. Even if it's a fact that woman also go out to fxxx ard, I believe there are still faithful ladies/guys around in this century. Dun draw the conclusion too soon due to few black sheeps. I do believe in Karma and guilt. Wht comes ard goes ard. Be warned.

[ken_v2]

Those stats could be change:

Maybe her real name is Janet / Jane
Maybe her real age is 35
Maybe she went to UK for studies
Maybe she is married for 6 or 10 yrs
Maybe she only has 1 kid
Maybe she live Sengang instead of Hougang.

:rolleyes:

I guess we should take the report as a pinch of salt. I seriously doubt the credibility of it. Even if it's a fact that woman also go out to fxxx ard, I believe there are still faithful ladies/guys around in this century. Dun draw the conclusion too soon due to few black sheeps. I do believe in Karma and guilt. Wht comes ard goes ard. Be warned.


Maybe she is a factitious character fabricated by the reporter who got nothing else to write about (no leads from SBF).. so create some stories and right.. . .. hahaha..

but we know it is happening becoz many brothers have married FBs.. no point guessing who, we will never know.

[ct75]

I can testify that such girls exist. My ex colleague is one.

She is married with 2 kids and hubby has a stable government job and is pretty high paying. Quite well to do in terms of their careers and stay in Condo and have two cars.

Then after a new colleague joined she started going clubbing with her, started off innocently as drinks then followed by ladies night. Well started overhearing conversations of guys that they met. Bankers, Business man, rich young kids etc what have you. Basically the ones the sauve loaded fellows..... As time went by the conversation went to how she wondered what would it be like to be bedded by this and that guy. And finally next thing I know.... Her hubby calls the office looking for her and I had this bad feeling. True to it, she just packed her stuff and left the house one morning to move in with her new BF. Just dumped the kids with hubby and happily stayed with new BF which soon was dumped and then changed to another one and not too long after I left the company so I dont know what happened....

Sigh I was thinking to myself then...... damn sad for hubby......

[vfv_slr]

Thank you Bro Jng1103 for upping my rep pts to appreciate my effort, it has been a long time since I get some pts here...hehee!:D
Never tot my post here could trigger so many brothers' responses.
Was just feeling angry that women nowadays want to enjoy themselves like us guys, preach male-femal equality, but when come to crucial moment they want to be treated with priority and protection, especially in divorce cases!

[God of majong]

If my wife is like what threadstarter mention i will be very very sad... threadstarter pls take care can understand ur feeling...:(

[poison]

that's y need discreet hotel.

[Kyser Soze]

Her husband was her first love whom she met in a local polytechnic. They live in a 5-room Housing Board flat and have two children.

The sexy, slim, 1.6m-tall woman with a tanned complexion cannot recall how many men she has slept with.

But she confesses she no longer feels guilty when she sleeps with other men.

'Before marriage, I felt I was free to see whoever I wanted to. After marriage, I stopped flirting for a while.

''When I went back to my old ways, I felt guilty initially.

'But it did not take long for the guilt to go away,' she said.

'Moreover, I gave my virginity to my husband.'

I missed the good old days whereby women are always commited to their husbands. In chinese saying, "Marry the cock or dog, follow the cock or dog". Having an affair with one or two man is considered as a loose woman. But Janice's behaviour is comparable to a man, cos she "cannot recall how many men she has slept with". I wonder what her husband would do to her, if he finds out. Will it be another murder crime in the making? Few men can endure a wife who have slept with countless men.

Claire describes sex with other men as more exciting than with her steady boyfriend.

She started sleeping around with other men about two years ago.

'There is nothing wrong with my boyfriend. The problem lies with me. I am harder to satisfy,'

Claire obviously have a sexual appetite as huge as Janice. :rolleyes: I do have some naughty thoughts of getting Janice and Claire a "Geylang meant for the ladies". Just kidding.


One reason why more wives are straying could be their better earning power and an increase in their numbers in the workforce, says Mr Jason Toh, 37, from law firm Ho, Wong and Partners.

In four of the six cases that Mr Singh handled recently, the women were graduates.

'They were go-getters - financially independent women who hold fairly good jobs,' he adds.


Women of our generation are better educated and financially independent than before. Does this mean that the moral of each individual has corroded despite a good education system? Well, maybe.

Does a woman need a man, in terms of family & financially, as much as say 10 years ago? Definitely not. Times have indeed changed. They can feed themselves well, if not better. This article has enlightened everyone that women is no longer a weaker sex.

[DashinGuy]

Well, I'm not taking sides. I also think husbands and wives are adults, they have a brain to think, and do what is right.

But the threat of STD (sexually transmitted disease) shd be serious enough to stop them from messing about. The psychological nightmare that is caused by one spouse having it, then spreading it to the other, and then having to confess, should make them both sit up and think.

Just my thoughts.

[big dick]

we are all mature adults... if we can fool around... we cant expect our oc or co not to fool around too... to me, what important is tat we play safe... dun do raw... at the end of our day, we should return to our partner and be responsible for them... a marriage is for life... while a fling is just a fling... what we we cant get from our oc or co, we get it from outside... like me... my co is not good in bed... so no choice, got to play outside.. never ask my oc whether i am good in bed also.. hehe.. for all i know she might be one of those buaya wife ..:(

we all face pressure and high stress frm our work.. sometimes we need a bit more excitement in our life.. this is sometime achieve from fooling aound outside...

bro... i dun believe in double standard... it is fine with me as long as it is not too obivious... we are all out for a bit of fun...

jus my thoughts... pls dun flame or zap me... me already kena zapped until lose my voting rights...

Happy bonking now...
and play safe...

[Ah Seng]

we are all mature adults... if we can fool around... we cant expect our oc or co not to fool around too... to me, what important is tat we play safe... dun do raw... at the end of our day, we should return to our partner and be responsible for them... a marriage is for life... while a fling is just a fling... what we we cant get from our oc or co, we get it from outside... like me... my co is not good in bed... so no choice, got to play outside.. never ask my oc whether i am good in bed also.. hehe.. for all i know she might be one of those buaya wife ..:(

we all face pressure and high stress frm our work.. sometimes we need a bit more excitement in our life.. this is sometime achieve from fooling aound outside...

bro... i dun believe in double standard... it is fine with me as long as it is not too obivious... we are all out for a bit of fun...

jus my thoughts... pls dun flame or zap me... me already kena zapped until lose my voting rights...

Happy bonking now...
and play safe...



Bro Dickhead sound like a would be swinger....... :D hope to hear some of ur FR??/

[hearthrob]

My wife and I always eat out... normally at hawker center and food courts, sometimes at restaurants and her parents' place... no choice since she doesn't cook lor... recommendation for any good venue for eating out??

wait wait wait... you guys not talking about food meh???

Anyway, jokes aside... I think "Janice" is not very smart. 33 years old, poly grad, went aust for studies, married 8 years ago and 2 kids...

AFTER LEAVING ALL THESE TRACE, SHE STILL WORRY ABOUT BEING IDENTIFIED???

You never know bro, her age or something else described in the article might be fake...;)

[big dick]

Bro Dickhead sound like a would be swinger....... :D hope to hear some of ur FR??/

Bro ah seng... the only swinging i get are from fl... me not handsome... those buaya wife got high standard... wont go out with someone like me la... but if u like.. u can read my fr on fl... :cool:

[Ah Seng]

No........becoz i read a lotsa would-be swingers here..... so checking any geniune one out there eh?? Thought ur one of them.... No prob bro.... handsome anot....it's fine...as long u got a hard dick and free fr virues then u'll be fit for swinging eh...:)

[big dick]

thanks bro ah seng... but buaya wife like those mentioned normally go for look and fast car type of guy... me jus a lowly blue collar worker.. as for the hard dick part... dun laugh la.. but actully my dick is small.. jus used the nick big dick to make myself feel better... :(

[Ah Seng]

hahahaah..... aiya....small or big dick np..... it's the experience and tactics ur using tat matters..bro;)

[big dick]

thanks for trying to make me feel better.. bro ah seng... really appreciated it... hope one day i will get over my insecurity of my small dick...:rolleyes:

[poison]

we are all mature adults... if we can fool around... we cant expect our oc or co not to fool around too... to me, what important is tat we play safe... dun do raw... at the end of our day, we should return to our partner and be responsible for them... a marriage is for life... while a fling is just a fling.....
Bro, i agreed with what u mentioned. Just remember to clean your mouth when u go home. If u already having fun on 1st, must expect that she will do it on 15, ok. Dun get shaken if u finds out one day that she might be also flinking outside.

[Ah Seng]

Bro, i agreed with what u mentioned. Just remember to clean your mouth when u go home. If u already having fun on 1st, must expect that she will do it on 15, ok. Dun get shaken if u finds out one day that she might be also flinking outside.



hahaha.......bro poison agreed too.... seem a sensible guy;)

[virginboy926]

Sorry brother. i find that i am quite selfish.. i still the old traditional thinking, i can fool around .. but my wife cannot fool around behind my back. if i find out.. she sure die.

how to accept ?

if she bear a child which is not mine ?

I cannot imagine.


Sorry.. for over reacting. but it just the small little voice from my heart.

:(

[Ah Seng]

Sorry brother. i find that i am quite selfish.. i still the old traditional thinking, i can fool around .. but my wife cannot fool around behind my back. if i find out.. she sure die.

how to accept ?

if she bear a child which is not mine ?

I cannot imagine.


Sorry.. for over reacting. but it just the small little voice from my heart.

:(


Hey bro............actually in fact which man can tahan these sort of things happened to them......not onli u ah.....so dun feel offended or any......
Quote:There'r green,red and yellow apples.And all r apples too.Some soft some hard & some sweet some sour.But still apples....

CheeRs...........:cool:

[DaDaPiPi]

Sorry brother. i find that i am quite selfish.. i still the old traditional thinking, i can fool around .. but my wife cannot fool around behind my back. if i find out.. she sure die.

how to accept ?

if she bear a child which is not mine ?

I cannot imagine.


Sorry.. for over reacting. but it just the small little voice from my heart.

:(

Well, try open up your thinking a bit, it helps...

[virginboy926]

Well, try open up your thinking a bit, it helps...


Brother DaDaPiPi, you mean, you can accept it ? if ur wife bearing another people child? i having doubts..

if yes.. i should said ......

wah, you are indeed a new age man. i cannot accept, my culture and my own believe cannot accept such " unfaithful" things create by my partner.

:(

[virginboy926]

Oh ya brothers, i got a friend accidentally forget to clear the cookies from logging into sammyboy.. once kana caught by OC..

from that day onwards..he don't dare to post any.. FR in this forum anymore.. scare got spy eyeing him...

so.. just a gentle reminder to clear ur cookies and history.. before logging out after surfing this forum...

[XboxSG]

Oh ya brothers, i got a friend accidentally forget to clear the cookies from logging into sammyboy.. once kana caught by OC..

from that day onwards..he don't dare to post any.. FR in this forum anymore.. scare got spy eyeing him...

so.. just a gentle reminder to clear ur cookies and history.. before logging out after surfing this forum...
That's one of the most important tasks that can't be missed. :)

[kingkeizokeith]

1 in 4 children in singapore are calling the wrong man daddy.15% of the women do not know who some of their children's father is.Im studying in the Uk and down here its much more crazy.The other day i was reading the tabloids and i read a story in the Aunt Agony

"There was this guy who's wife was dying,and before she died,she told her hubby that their son might not be his,but she refused to say who the possible father might be.Subsequently the wife passed away,but her husband was determined to find out who the real father was because the kid looked so much like him,so he went for a DNA test,the results showed that they were NOT father and son,but actually brothers..."

heres another one

"There were a pair of twins brothers.Twin 1 was married but had a rather busy work schedule as an insurance agent he was always selling policies at night.His twin brother (Twin 2) was recently divorced and the wife got the house.So Twin 2 moved in with Twin 1 for the time being.Basically Twin 1's wife was a horny piss of ass,who shagged Twin 2 in every place in the house in the toilet,in the dining room and in her husband's bed.And the most fucked up thing happened.She got pregnant,but she cant tell who the baby belongs to even with DNA testing,because Twin 1 and Twin 2 are Monozygotic Twins meaning they have identical DNA...And now the crazy women wants both men in her life"

[itsabt6x]

Brother DaDaPiPi, you mean, you can accept it ? if ur wife bearing another people child? i having doubts..:(
to me.....what i dont know, wont hurt.....n i take it the same for my OC.......;)

[itsabt6x]

1 in 4 children in singapore are calling the wrong man daddy.15% of the women do not know who some of their children's father is....
i'm not surprised with this statement but just not sure about the statistic.....(speaking from experiences)........:rolleyes:

[Torres_Mok]

:D my advice! never marry a spore woman!

[mexx]

after reading all tis, i guess it's to each his own beliefs.
but marriage, like one of the bro said and many i am sure will agree is for life...

well, b4 marriage, t's like the skies the limit.......
after marriage it's like the ceiling is there, have 2 noe ur limits....

cheers ....:)

[CKee]

after reading all tis, i guess it's to each his own beliefs.
but marriage, like one of the bro said and many i am sure will agree is for life...
cheers ....:)

My male cousin married a foreigner (used to work as a KTV hostess and is now a mama-san) and relatives + frens have often remarked that the kid (who should be 10 this year) bears zero resemblance to him. My uncle/aunt have always wanted to take the kid for a DNA test...

[sabayada]

let dont talk about wifes.. talk about my gf.. been with her a few months.. nothign is wrong with her at first.. i know that she have a couple of internet friends.. and these freinds are currently staying in SG.. but their not chinese, but Ang Mo. She did mention to me specially about the guy..lets name him kelvin... One night about 11 plus when i am with my gf at one of the macdonalds, suddenly kelvin msg her, asking her to go find him at one of the pub, couldnt remember which one. Saying that 2 of his friends suddenly got something on and coulnt make it, so left him alone there, asking my gf to go accompany him as they never meet b4.. treat it as first time meeting.
At first my gf told me she dont lke to go to pubs area.. and thats true.. and secondly sah ask me will i be angry if she goes and stuff. i told her of course la.. She start telling me maybe kelvon is not in a good mood, and want people to talk to.. since his friends didnt show up. So i just say dont bother about him la. then decided to play with his msg.. replying kelvin saying that (my bf is around, and he wont allow me to go) can i bring my bf there and stuff)
he reply back.. no u come alone. or tell your bf ur tired and want to go home and sleep.. after he left then u come meet me.
i start to have bad impresion about kelvin.
to be continue..

[Castrol]

he reply back.. no u come alone. or tell your bf ur tired and want to go home and sleep.. after he left then u come meet me.
i start to have bad impresion about kelvin.
to be continue..

ahh... kelvin is horny. :D

[Torres_Mok]

If both husband and wife want to have multiple sex partners, it is better not to get married at all. Because despite what they claim, I doubt they can really stand the fact that they are being betrayed...unless both of them have come clean with each other before marriage. Eventually, the marriage will end up in a divorce which is a really messy affair. Worse still if they have kids.

I don't claim to be an expert but isn't it prudent to assess your gf's character and past history before jumping into a marriage with her? I certainly won't marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends and still keep in touch with them, and whose hobby is to get high at pubs. Such girls would make wonderful gfs I am sure, but not wives.
I will also not marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends before! expect future to b a virgin!, that why until now i am still single and v.....:D

[winger_tag]

I will also not marry a girl who have had multiple ex-boyfriends before! expect future to b a virgin!, that why until now i am still single and v.....:D

Good Luck to you.:D

[feitutut2002]

I trying very hard to convince my FB to join the local swinging scene but she very da scared :) Scolded me for being so open-minded..I yearn to rejoin the swingers community again..been a long time..3 years to be exact..left coz my former FB found a bf..so stopped seeing each other.

Some hubbies so daring..got 1 asked me to fuck his wife..INSISTED some more..buahaha..whats going thru his mind????

[Bruce-Sg]

desperated house wives

[Bruce-Sg]

let dont talk about wifes.. talk about my gf.. been with her a few months.. nothign is wrong with her at first.. i know that she have a couple of internet friends.. and these freinds are currently staying in SG.. but their not chinese, but Ang Mo. She did mention to me specially about the guy..lets name him kelvin... One night about 11 plus when i am with my gf at one of the macdonalds, suddenly kelvin msg her, asking her to go find him at one of the pub, couldnt remember which one. Saying that 2 of his friends suddenly got something on and coulnt make it, so left him alone there, asking my gf to go accompany him as they never meet b4.. treat it as first time meeting.
At first my gf told me she dont lke to go to pubs area.. and thats true.. and secondly sah ask me will i be angry if she goes and stuff. i told her of course la.. She start telling me maybe kelvon is not in a good mood, and want people to talk to.. since his friends didnt show up. So i just say dont bother about him la. then decided to play with his msg.. replying kelvin saying that (my bf is around, and he wont allow me to go) can i bring my bf there and stuff)
he reply back.. no u come alone. or tell your bf ur tired and want to go home and sleep.. after he left then u come meet me.
i start to have bad impresion about kelvin.
to be continue..
go together with ur GF and confront him and counsel him

[King]

go together with ur GF and confront him and counsel him

no lah, should go down there, wait for a chance then wallop him good!

[ilovesammyboy]

hey, it just pop from my mind. every bro here is into CAPPED business.
Girls do not really like having condoms on. So if a guy eats out with a cap, but his wife did raw with her FBs, who is cheating who now ?

eh. this is totally screwed up.

[sabayada]

continue...

long story cut short....
one night.. i was going to have meeting.. and its an important meeting, so i am concentrating.. suddenly my msg pop up, its my gf saying shes very tired today, got to sleep early. since im in the meeting and i couldnt think so much, so just reply her. good night.
the next day, i was with her, having dinner.. after dinner I told her that i have to attend a meeting later.. then she say its ok. she got work to do at home..
and the same thing.. she msg me shes sleeping early.. i start to suspect. cause my gf stays alone. and she seldom sleeps early.. usually 2-4 a.m but these 2 nights, she sleeps at about 10 plus. i start to suapect and after meeting, went down to her place to see if shes really sleeping.. when i look up in her room, theres sign(i wont say what isit) that shes not at home.. out of the sudden i saw her walking down her street. so i got quite piss off. she say shes about to sleep but suddenly couldn't sleep so decided to go to a book store near her place, which close quite late around 1 a.m. she says shes thirsty, so we sat down for a drink, i was browsing through her phone, until i saw the receive call.. and the guy's name Kelvin was there. Then i start to question her why he called her and stuff, then she say yeah, he wanted to meet her in a pub, but she didnt go thats all. After that i start to make a joke, wah u lied to me that u gonna sleep then suddenly at book shop, then how i know you yesterday really sleep or go out with Kelvin.. then she still told me please dont say such things. cause it never happen.. i believe her..
to be continued....

[sabayada]

Continue...
2 days later....
I was with her... out in a pub with my friends.. as usual playing with her phone, looking at our pictures.. suddenly i just click onto the others photos!!!
guess what i saw!
2 pictures of that guy, so i think my gf saw that i notice it, then she suddenly says.. she got something to tell me, then she starts to admit that the first night when im having my meeting, she did meet Kelvin. and Kelvin only come down to find her at her hse downstairs coffeeshop. thats all, cause they knew each ther quite long on the net, but never met b4, I got really piss off at her, and ask her why she lied and stuff.... she keep saying sorry, and know shes wrong, she just want to meet him, since they know each other for quite sometime, even b4 shes with me. i start to cool down and listen to her and ask her some question... that Kelvin did try to kiss her when he sent her to her gate. And she said no to him, because she got a bf.... i told her that i want both of them to totally stop contacting each other.. not ever again.. she said ok to me..

[sabayada]

Haizz... gers are getting more and more troubled.... Their actually doing something that they are always fear of in a relationship..
my story... more to come.... stay tune,,,....:eek: :eek:

[ken_v2]

i think a lot of us went through this before... are the women getting back at us? for those not married and are dealing with straying gf, just ask yourself if she is worth it. if so, try all means so that she never start. if not, have your fun with her and dump her for the next guy...

but i always believe that if a girl have thoughts of straying, no matter what you do, she will still stray. maybe not now, but 3, 5, 10 years down the road? who knows? not with this guy, but with the next guy that comes along?

so life is a gamble, isn't it?

[sabayada]

continue....

this feeling sucks.. i fell that im losing her.. duont know what to do.. im lost.

a day later, when we are in town, going to watch a movie.. her phone is with me.. my 6 sense told mee, something is wrong, so i ran to the wash room and check her hp.. nothing lei.. i figured must be im thinking too much..

The show not yet started, so we went down for a drink and smoke, and we talk alot aboutour relationship.. about improving.... after drinking, nothing much to do so went up stairs chill.. still during the time.. i keep having a strong feeling, soemthing is not right.. so i told her i want to go toilet again, so she went too... inside there.. i check through her ohone again.. the pic folder., call records.. nothing lei.. just before i am going to get out of the cubicle. my fingers suddenly click on the video folder.. Haha... thats what i want to see excatly.. a vid of 2 to 36 sec of that guy.. the first thing that came to my mind was she took a vid of that guy that night.. but suddenly NO!!! its in a room... a house!!!!!

i went out.. damn angry! just waiting for her to get out of the washroom.
Once she come out i start to question her..
Long story cut short, she still lie to me, giving me damn lots of excuses that the vid is Kelvin sent to him one. In the end i manage to force her out to say the truth.... im damn picc off.. the reason is she says Kelvin is leaving sg for business she really have feelings for him and cant bare to let him go... so she went over his place just to see him go, and shes only there for half an our.. they really didnt do anything...

to be contined.. damn tored now, gonna sleep.

[bootybonker]

sabayada
not wan to pour water
but like this ah this gf can dunwan liao

compulsive liar

[ilovesammyboy]

no bro, you should bang her hard hard before dumping her. just tell her you want to break up with her after she swallow your cum. the reaction is glorious.