Fathers have to support children - Woman's Charter

[maxman]

For everyone's information.

If a woman becomes pregnant, even if she was a casual fling or a prostitute, the father of the child has to support the child under the Woman's Charter.

http://www.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/courts-crime/story/man-has-help-maintain-illegitimate-child-court-20150523

[sammyboyfor]

Everyone has to be responsible for the consequences of their actions.

[iSnowDog69]

nice sharing info :)

[BMW69]

For everyone's information.

If a woman becomes pregnant, even if she was a casual fling or a prostitute, the father of the child has to support the child under the Woman's Charter.

http://www.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/courts-crime/story/man-has-help-maintain-illegitimate-child-court-20150523

You shouldn't do the act depicted in your display picture with a fling or prostitute. Raw is war.

[CharlesTheFirst]

You shouldn't do the act depicted in your display picture with a fling or prostitute. Raw is war.

Very true indeed

[Johnbass]

He is the father, so shld pay right?
Judge pang chance liao hor... Earn so much but just pay $720...
But wait till his wife chu WC power... Plus split more shares for inheritance
:D

"To paraphrase the provision, a parent has a duty to maintain his or her children, whether they are legitimate or illegitimate," the judge said in judgment grounds released yesterday.

The judge found that although the woman earned a lower monthly salary of $5,200 compared with the man's monthly income of $14,075, there was no evidence she was unable to pay half the monthly $1,440 maintenance for the three-year-old boy.

To this end, he reduced the monthly sum to be paid by the father from $1,050 - set by a district judge in 2013 - to $720.

[The Milk Man]

For everyone's information.

If a woman becomes pregnant, even if she was a casual fling or a prostitute, the father of the child has to support the child under the Woman's Charter.

http://www.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/courts-crime/story/man-has-help-maintain-illegitimate-child-court-20150523

Getting the Family Court to give the Order is easy..... enforcing it will be tough if the guy dun wanna play by the rules or is domiciled overseas.

[dreamlover2010]

Girls beware who you spread your legs for. If you plan for a child please study the cock's character carefully. If he's a bastard of a character, please give your pussy to a better guy. For the sake of your child.

[assrammer]

For everyone's information.

If a woman becomes pregnant, even if she was a casual fling or a prostitute, the father of the child has to support the child under the Woman's Charter.

http://www.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/courts-crime/story/man-has-help-maintain-illegitimate-child-court-20150523

BRO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ur avatar pic super powderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my lan jiao vein burst liao...............

[davidwee]

The world will become a better place when RISUG is approved, too bad many feminist and gold diggers will block it. Look at all those pro athletes and the women that swarm to spread legs for an easy life.
On the other hand dunno how those scumbag types like Terence Cao pay what? 200 a month already settle.

[Botakhead]

Be responsible if you want to play with fire, but end of the day, the innocent will always be innocent.

My friend whose wife had an affair and bore a child from another race - skin colour different from him, very obvious not his child. But he still brought the child up after she divorced him and abandoned her bastard child with that bastard guy.

Now my friend re-married a same skin tone wife who took great care of the child and him and they also made some more children, they made sacrfices and swallowed their pride enjoying a happy life together.

[Johnbass]

Be responsible if you want to play with fire, but end of the day, the innocent will always be innocent.

My friend whose wife had an affair and bore a child from another race - skin colour different from him, very obvious not his child. But he still brought the child up after she divorced him and abandoned her bastard child with that bastard guy.

Now my friend re-married a same skin tone wife who took great care of the child and him and they also made some more children, they made sacrfices and swallowed their pride enjoying a happy life together.

UP you for good post!
:D

[maxman]

Everyone has to be responsible for the consequences of their actions.

Yes indeed. I shared this news as information for people, both men and women, to know.

[maxman]

You shouldn't do the act depicted in your display picture with a fling or prostitute. Raw is war.

Thanks for this important advice. To be on the safe side, it is surely a no-no with most women and in many circumstances although I have been guilty of doing the act more than enough times.

[maxman]

BRO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ur avatar pic super powderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my lan jiao vein burst liao...............

Relax man. :) I hope you don't need to seek medical attention for that sort of injury.

[jazp]

practical case of use & dump..wonder why the woman want to give birth to that kid also.if she's really thinking for the child, she will know that its impossible for the child to grow up in a normal family with father and mother...probably just gonna use as a tool to get money...cheap..now the child will just become one more member of the unwanted...

[MoeLanYong]

I wonder how that child will feel when he grows up to find his father does not want his existence. What a cruel thing to say to protect his money.

[4getful]

practical case of use & dump..wonder why the woman want to give birth to that kid also.if she's really thinking for the child, she will know that its impossible for the child to grow up in a normal family with father and mother...probably just gonna use as a tool to get money...cheap..now the child will just become one more member of the unwanted...

That shows why wc must be abolished. Feel like it somehow may have pervertly destroyed the man but at the same time making the woman become greedy, encouraging more divorcing n destroyed the kids, created more social problems. Quite ze ar.

[KopiGer]

For everyone's information.

If a woman becomes pregnant, even if she was a casual fling or a prostitute, the father of the child has to support the child under the Woman's Charter.


This thread is so timely. I have a friend who is in a situation and needs help. What does she need to do to get support for her child?

I first came to know Rina when she turn up for work as a beer promoter in our coffee shop. She was from Penang and had just finished schooling and came to Singapore to look for work. She ended joining her cousin and became a beer promoter. That was in 2002 when she was only 18 yrs old. After working for a few months she became very friendly with a regular customer and he offered to bao her as his mistress. He was a married man with 2 girls. She agreed and became his mistress. She stopped working and he rented a house for her in JB where she lived and he would visit her every other day. This went on for several years until Rina became pregnant with his child in 2010. The guy told Rina he cannot divorce his family and initially told her to abort the baby. Rina did not agree and the guy later changed his mind when he found out that the baby is going to be a boy. He told Rina to birth the baby and he will support his son's upbringing.

The baby was born in 2011 and for the 1st few months the guy provided the financial support. Then one day he told Rina to bring the baby back to her hometown in Penang as his wife had found out about them and he cannot visit them in JB anymore. He assured Rina he will continue to send money to her in Penang which he did for another year. Then the money stopped coming and he refused to answer Rina's calls. Rina relied on her savings all this while and as she has not been working since returning back to Penang, her money is running out. Also her son is now 4 yrs old and she wants him to go to school here in Singapore as his father is a Singaporean.

How can Rina get her son's father to provide financial support for his son?
What does Rina need to do to start proceedings in the courts here?

[sadfa]

Hire a lawyer, sue in court. If can't afford, get free legal aid. Nt easy for her to DIY.

[asdfghjkl]

So if a man make a whore from Geylang pregnant, he has to be responsible too? :o

[KopiGer]

Hire a lawyer, sue in court. If can't afford, get free legal aid. Nt easy for her to DIY.

She is a Malaysian citizen. Can she eligible to apply for legal aid?
If she were to hire a lawyer how much would it cost?

[sadfa]

Prob not but she can bluff bluff t son will b sporean in future.

It'll of cos Look bad if the son wants money just 2 study in spore only n will be Malaysian permanently. I recall if t son benefit from spore education until sec school, he's liable to serve NS n serve liao may not b spore citizen ok.

A few k for laywer la. Bt of cos if she dun know where t fuck t laopeh go hide & he deny he's t father etc, then will cost more la. Hope t birth cert got signed by him that he's t dad.

N it doesn't cost much to bao this type of gal In jb so he may nt b rich n court order maintainenace, some ppl rather go jail than pay.

[davidwee]

Do the same thing the Shanghai hostess did, get it in the news or report police. Singapore so small, any small bit of info can smoke him out. Once got court order, dna test will prove.
Hope this guy is rich cause he's going to have to pay two allowances every month.

[Intltuk]

How can Rina get her son's father to provide financial support for his son?
What does Rina need to do to start proceedings in the courts here?

1st thing to note that this is a civil case and will be costly to bring a suit against the man. Having said tat, there are lawyers who do pro bono if they empathize with her case.

Anyway, lawsuit is the last resort. Imho, she can contact him and liaise with him to support her and the child(maintenance or lump sum) as he has to consider how his family, relatives, friends, jobs, etc will be affected if the news goes public(as in a civil suit and/or newspaper/social media).

Best wishes to ur friend in settling this.......hopefully it can be done amicably.

[4getful]

So if a man make a whore from Geylang pregnant, he has to be responsible too? :o

According to those hypocrite, yes. :D

[sta1100]

Want fun want sex but end of it he a pussy cat

[snakehead]

She is a Malaysian citizen. Can she eligible to apply for legal aid?
If she were to hire a lawyer how much would it cost?

Your friend had better think it through before starting any court action as the boy's father may decide to fight back for the custody of his son.

Btw, is the boy's name Edwin?

[sadfa]

Your friend had better think it through before starting any court action as the boy's father may decide to fight back for the custody of his son.?

He can try bt doubt he'll succeed since he literally abandon t son n didn't even care if he live or die

[chailai]

I wonder if there will ever be a Men's Charter ?

[maxsee]

I think that women who are smart should open their legs to rich men....at least much higher maintenance for their illegitimate child with the woman's charter.....:D:D:D

[adonis]

A S'porean man has a girlfren. They r both not married together. If she accuses him of fathering her baby, no court in S'pore can force him to go for a DNA test. Is this correct?

[sadfa]

Dun think you're correct. Where u get t idea from?

[Intltuk]

They r both not married together. If she accuses him of fathering her baby, no court in S'pore can force him to go for a DNA test. Is this correct?1st, most men will submit to DNA testing, if not to prove the baby is not theirs, at least to confirm either way. If they resist, the implication is tat he is guilty...and yes, the court can order the man to have a DNA test.

[sadfa]

Ya lor.

Sounds weird t father go court, refuse to do dna test & start raising circumstantial evidence how he can't b the father like he got vasectomy, hes overseas when t child is conceived etc n the judge LAN LAN. When a simple dna will show conclusively whether he's t dad.

[bigangry]

Be responsible if you want to play with fire, but end of the day, the innocent will always be innocent.

My friend whose wife had an affair and bore a child from another race - skin colour different from him, very obvious not his child. But he still brought the child up after she divorced him and abandoned her bastard child with that bastard guy.

Now my friend re-married a same skin tone wife who took great care of the child and him and they also made some more children, they made sacrfices and swallowed their pride enjoying a happy life together.

your friend is a man among men :)

[4getful]

Fark serious?! I don't want to be man liao. Woman Charter more powerful than Man's Rights

Without men, wc is useless. Men r the ones standing behind upholding wc, not women. Do not forget, mother is a woman, do you think a mother will bare to see her own son suffer by wc? so the saying goes, u can't beat them then join them. if u can't bring yourself to join these hypocrite, then leave them, leave the women alone. If u can't live w/o a vagina, then don't get into marriage.

[someday]

How come we never learn from Terence Cao's lesson?

[maxman]

I think that women who are smart should open their legs to rich men....at least much higher maintenance for their illegitimate child with the woman's charter.....:D:D:D

I'm pretty sure there are many such smart women already doing this to rich men. This tactic is not a new modern-day lesson of the 21 century.

[porscheclub]

How can Rina get her son's father to provide financial support for his son?
What does Rina need to do to start proceedings in the courts here?

Empathise your friend's situation but there are many & often worse cases. She has to live with her decision when she became a mistress & subsequently bearing the son. She's now going to be 30 so I hope she has been working hard to make ends meet instead of dreaming of a miracle.

It'll be too costly for her to send the son to Singapore for education especially in her current situation. #1 Where is the boy going to stay? Who's the guardian? There are too many uncertainties for a young boy so best for them to stick together and ringgit is almost three times weaker than S$.

As others have mentioned, the #1 priority is sorting out with the father first before taking the legal route which will set her back over Rm10K to begin with and potentially running into tens of thousands with several court hearings stretching a year or more. Can she afford the time & money?

If I were her, I would just forget about it & work hard to bring up the son single-handedly. Send the boy to a local govt school as Malaysia is quite affordable. I suppose the family name is under hers? Her last option is to marry a man who can accept her condition & hope for the best.