China student as mistress

[Kingtut]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up
with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep
her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?

[milo_man]

beta dun..ya $ will be squash in no time..PRC r known for their money minded n will suck all ya $ very fast

[Johnston]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up
with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep
her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?

be more specific leh~~
you got plenty of money not first?
because to keep mistress the first requirement is you need lots of $.

your not a retiree and your not gonna take your cpf rite?
so... must say your budjet how much first...
u can buy her car, house, expensive rocks, guranteed any gal, PRC, Russia, USA, Singapore, also can be your mistress.

:D

[jng1103]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?

Money rules the world. Show women your loaded money and virtually you will bed all of them. It's just as simple as Chelsea's oil money to win the EPL.

money face,
jimbo

[ahpaul25]

Yup, $$$$ RULES......................:)

[nonogio]

:) Yo Bro, you find FL one time only cost one, two hundreds but can always change. Long term commitment can only eat one dish all the time. Very boring!!

[Pokimon1]

:) Yo Bro, you find FL one time only cost one, two hundreds but can always change. Long term commitment can only eat one dish all the time. Very boring!!


If you want to drink milk, there is no need to buy a cow!:D

[zhivago]

yeah... can go "supermarket" to buy those packetz of milk for instant "shiokness".

Not worth it lar, waste so much money, in the end of the day, end up nothing but only those memories...

[HuiGe3387]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up
with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep
her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?
Are you prepared to pay $6K to $10K per month for total expenses, assuming you want the exclusive right to fuck her ? In some cases where the girl can earn a lot on her own in ktv and offer sex, she may not even be moved by $10K.

[PuTonRen]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up
with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep
her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?

I have seen people went through this and suffered, some with broken family at the end. My humble advice is "Don't even think about it, unless you are super-rich".

My 2 cent worth.


PTR

[sammyboyfor]

Just saw on TV story about a retiree after taking CPF managed to hook up
with a PRC girl who is a student with one of the private schools here and keep
her as mistress. Brothers here know where to find this kind of lobang?

Why the hell would anyone want to keep a PRC whore as a mistress?

[waypastprime]

Why the hell would anyone want to keep a PRC whore as a mistress?

Because they dont fancy other nationalities lor. :D :p

[maninlove]

Why the hell would anyone want to keep a PRC whore as a mistress?
This is mainly because of the slutty look of the PRC whore. Besides that, PRC is cheaper to maintain as compare to other nationalities. :)

[waypastprime]

This is mainly because of the slutty look of the PRC whore. Besides that, PRC is cheaper to maintain as compare to other nationalities. :)

PRC cheaper to maintain? U serious? Compare to which nationalities? :confused:

[PuTonRen]

This is mainly because of the slutty look of the PRC whore. Besides that, PRC is cheaper to maintain as compare to other nationalities. :)

Bro,

That is what everyone though so. Be it in China or in Singapore, it is a huge expense, let me share with you about a friend who maintained a Harbin girl in Beijing

Apartment Rent: RMB 1800 per month
Pocket Money: RMB 10,000 per month

Everytime my friend went to Beijing to see her: 3000 - 5000 RMB

Initial Investment: RMB 100,000 to rent a whole-sale clothing store near the Beijing Zoo.

Subsequent Investment: RMB 100,000 twice to buy in good.

Return of Investment: Negative, as more investments are needed to bring in good.

Whatever she earns is hers to keep.

Please calculate by dividing every sum by 5 you will get the S$ equivalence. You might say she is different, she is not after your money...

Sigh.. This is not an isolated case, there are Singaporeans who had lost a whole fortune, one notable one in Shanghai was he lost the whole restaurant and a lot of cash.

Beware....

My 2 cent worth

[maninlove]

Bro,

That is what everyone though so. Be it in China or in Singapore, it is a huge expense, let me share with you about a friend who maintained a Harbin girl in Beijing

Apartment Rent: RMB 1800 per month
Pocket Money: RMB 10,000 per month

Noted.. I never encounter such an incident. If that is the case, I would rather choose a local ot Thai girl to be my mistress. Thai girl is cheaper to maintain. Anyone has any of the experience for keeping a Thai mistress?

[Pokimon1]

Now that I have a little time, let me tell you my story.

Lately, I've gotten quite attached to a very nice FL . When she has the time or during one of our sessions we get to talk a lot.

Jokingly I asked her if I can "Pao" her. She says, "Why not, so long as you have the money (and she quoted me an amount) I will be your sweetheart"

She told me very frankly that she is doing it for the money. No money no talk.

If I like you, I give you a discount and you don't have to tip me; but you still have to pay for my services.

If you like to buy me presents or take me out for food... I am grateful. But don't think I will ever fall in love with you (or anyone else)

I admire her for her candid remarks and she is serious about it.

Then she asked me "Why are Singapore guys are so stupid."

All girls in my profession are the same; We need the money (for whatever reasons) that's why we let you fuck and play with us.

Don't think that we "enjoy" it everytime.(of course sometime we do)
Most of it is play acting. The more I moan, you feel "shiok" you cum faster... I have less work to do.

"As long as you pay, you can do whatever you like and I will treat you like my lover,
The moment you leave this room I treat the next guy just the same as I treat you."

"In our line, we really have no feelings left. we've been though too much".

That is the true confession of an FL.

[wanderer23]

Whether is it Thai or PRC or whatever nationalities if you're keeping a mistress just be mentally prepared that you may not be the only sponsor cos they are not your usual mistress who talk about feelings but about money. Why pay to be cheated on? Just have your milk but leave the cow with the other cows in the pasture is my advice.

[Rof|maoxz]

Noted.. I never encounter such an incident. If that is the case, I would rather choose a local ot Thai girl to be my mistress. Thai girl is cheaper to maintain. Anyone has any of the experience for keeping a Thai mistress?

Regardless of you keeping a China, Thai, Viet of Indon ladies as mistresses, you are financially & emotionally drain, and not excluding the amount of time you have put yourself in. Think twice if you have a spouse. :cool:

[Grimwell]

$$$$
Share with you guys a true story and is still happening...
I know a PRC student and she is seeing 4 men at one time.
Best of all the 4 men knew she is seeing the other 3.
Each of the 4 men has their role. One will pay her room rental, one for her hp etc etc... I ask her any of the 4 ever ask her to leave the 3. She replied yes provided he can alone pay all the expenses of the 3 and she will be 100% his. This PRC is only 19 years old and I believe there are more PRC doing the same thing. Anyway she will only let the one paid the most to bed her. The rest can only touch touch.:D;)

[maninlove]

Whether is it Thai or PRC or whatever nationalities if you're keeping a mistress just be mentally prepared that you may not be the only sponsor cos they are not your usual mistress who talk about feelings but about money. Why pay to be cheated on? Just have your milk but leave the cow with the other cows in the pasture is my advice.
If that is the case, it is preferably that we go for whore and FL instead of keeping a mistress. 1 month = we bonk 8 whore or FL costs us about 1K. We can enjoy different varieties of nationalties, faces and services. I think it is more worthwhile.
In terms of getting a mistress, I admit that the feeling is different. If the feeling from the girl is simply fake or pretending, then we are cheating ourself.
Sumtimes, it is very difficult to judge whether the mistress have a real love to us or not. As mentioned by the Mr. wanderer, it is unlikely that the mistress put in real feeling. I may in a way agree with you.

[bigass]

money speaks everything :D

[jasper]

hmmm...been ages since i last posted anything... Hows life u fellow TIKOPEKS???:D IMHO.... i really depise these china whores lor... not targeting at anyone in particular..but i really feels these CheeNa really made themselves degraded leh...

yes i do respect them while doing these kinda job..but why must make themselve till the extent of being so degraded.. IMHO..they are far more worst than the other nationalities doing the same line....

[PuTonRen]

hmmm...been ages since i last posted anything... Hows life u fellow TIKOPEKS???:D IMHO.... i really depise these china whores lor... not targeting at anyone in particular..but i really feels these CheeNa really made themselves degraded leh...

yes i do respect them while doing these kinda job..but why must make themselve till the extent of being so degraded.. IMHO..they are far more worst than the other nationalities doing the same line....

Bro Jasper,

Your statement is really strong! but that is your right to say so!

I just tell myself, they are here to earn money but not to seek romance.

Few years ago, I know a pretty student from Tianjing. She called me Lao San, as there were two more men that she was seeing. The interesting thing was Lao Da did not know the existence of Lao Er and Lao San (me), and Lao Er knew the existence of Lao Da, but not Lao San (me). I being Lao San, knew both of them that she was seeing. Hahaha! That was good as I did not attach any emotion nor heavy investment in her. Why should I. Hahahah...

Well, Cool down, just tell yourself they are here for money, but not love.

Regards

PTR

[PuTonRen]

Then she asked me "Why are Singapore guys are so stupid."


"In our line, we really have no feelings left. we've been though too much".

That is the true confession of an FL.

Bro Pokimon1,

Good account of an encounter with a FL.

I do not agree with her that Singaporean guys are stupid, we are being too soft-hearted. Therefore, we are easily bought in by their bull-shit stories. Our kindness has been exploited by these PRC nationals.

Yes, we know they have no feeling left. But they forget that, there are many Singaporean guys (old man like me), also have no feeling for them left, as we have also seen through too much of these low grade cheats.

The PRC girls think they can outsmart us? No, only some of us? We can easily outsmart them as well. Tell her that if you have the chance. We seldom do it as we are too soft-hearted.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards

PTR

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

i like the way that prc gal confess.totally speechless after seeing her replies.

[acer3939]

May be they all kena this type of BBBJ keke:D
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[HOWITZER 155MM]

These people are their own gravediggers. Do you think that she will not sleep with other men if you claim her as your mistress?

[PuTonRen]

These people are their own gravediggers. Do you think that she will not sleep with other men if you claim her as your mistress?

Arty Bro,

Very good point. One question summarises it all.

Regards

PTR

[newbadass]

i like the way that prc gal confess.totally speechless after seeing her replies.

Very stylo right? :D
What kind of confession... that's not a confession. That's a blunt, straight in your face STATEMENT! ;)

[betta]

Mine best galfriend is a Prc girl. Know her for 2.5yrs alreadi and hav gone back to China together a few times to visit her parents and friends. We hav a friendship based on trust coz I m not rich lah.
She hav told me many stories of how China gals extract money from Singapore men. Shall highlight such a case to fellow Bros.
1 of her gal friend juggles 3 Singapore boyfriend at a time, each of them give her $5000 monthly sometime more. The worst is tat she use the money on her real boyfriend back in China, hav just purchase a house in china and plan to get married later tis year, her 3 silly Singapore Bf are totally unaware.
I know coz together with mine PRC galfriend we hav been invited to the wedding.
Singapore men pls wake up, dont waste hard earn money on PRC gals, they are the worst lobang.

[mooner]

....
Singapore men pls wake up, dont waste hard earn money on PRC gals, they are the worst lobang.

Well said...just Pay & F*** & Run, no point keeping them!

[laodi123456789]

Few years ago, I know a pretty student from Tianjing. She called me Lao San, as there were two more men that she was seeing. The interesting thing was Lao Da did not know the existence of Lao Er and Lao San (me), and Lao Er knew the existence of Lao Da, but not Lao San (me). I being Lao San, knew both of them that she was seeing.



I guess Lao Si, Lao Wu and Lao Liu also must have been quite knowledgable about this ger and her doings.. but only Laodi(thats me) can ever be sure he knows the full story! :D

[PuTonRen]

I guess Lao Si, Lao Wu and Lao Liu also must have been quite knowledgable about this ger and her doings.. but only Laodi(thats me) can ever be sure he knows the full story! :D

Hahaha...Bro,

Good one! I left her after a very short while, becasue I told myself that Lao Si would know three of us well. hahahha! Worst still, she kept criticising Lao Da and Lao Er, and I was sure she would do the same to include me when she talked to others after me.

Regards

PTR

[maninlove]

I guess Lao Si, Lao Wu and Lao Liu also must have been quite knowledgable about this ger and her doings.. but only Laodi(thats me) can ever be sure he knows the full story! :DKind of a joke, Mr. laodi. Are you from China?

[laodi123456789]

Hahaha...Bro,

I told myself that Lao Si would know three of us well. hahahha! Worst still, she kept criticising Lao Da and Lao Er, and I was sure she would do the same to include me when she talked to others after me.

Regards

PTR

That sounds like an excellent move. If u all knew about each other that would have been OK, but liddat - so easy to get sabo. I had an Indian gf once... also have another bf.. constantly complain abt him.. in the end also find out she slander me behind my back.


I saw the newspaper. It seems that the woman wif the missing feet was robbed by her bf the supervisor but she dun noe who rob her- then when she tell him she report to police - she hacked to bits. Thats the worst.. Total scum the supervisor is cheat, thief and murderer.

[waypastprime]

I saw the newspaper. It seems that the woman wif the missing feet was robbed by her bf the supervisor but she dun noe who rob her- then when she tell him she report to police - she hacked to bits. Thats the worst.. Total scum the supervisor is cheat, thief and murderer.

Errr... My conjecture will be him taking back the money he gave/ loaned to her. I might be wrong too.

[PuTonRen]

I saw the newspaper. It seems that the woman wif the missing feet was robbed by her bf the supervisor but she dun noe who rob her- then when she tell him she report to police - she hacked to bits. Thats the worst.. Total scum the supervisor is cheat, thief and murderer.

Dear Bro laodi,

Actually, I am still puzzled by this case. Why the man was so desparate that he needed to steal money from the PRC girl? What was their relationship right from the begining. He helped her in her career and get returns of the submission of her body? Some promises went between them but gone bad? This is a dangerous world.

Yes, I was so happy to have dumped her! Yes, I was the one who dumped her! I was kind of sicked of listening to her complaints about Lao Da and Lao Er, knowing that Lao Da paid for her studies ($7,000 per year or per semester ??). I was sure she would do the same to me when taking to others. Although she was quite beautiful, but I told myself there were better ones out there. Hahahaha...

Regards

PTR

[durex]

1 of her gal friend juggles 3 Singapore boyfriend at a time, each of them give her $5000 monthly sometime more. The worst is tat she use the money on her real boyfriend back in China, hav just purchase a house in china and plan to get married later tis year, her 3 silly Singapore Bf are totally unaware.
I know coz together with mine PRC galfriend we hav been invited to the wedding.
Singapore men pls wake up, dont waste hard earn money on PRC gals, they are the worst lobang.
most of them got boy friend back china,the best part is they dont mind giving thier hard earn money to thier boy friend in china,cause they think its hard on thier boy friend to be together with them,but most of thier boy friend is small white face,some having five to eight girls working for him,and yet they ok,i have few china friend be it guy or girls still about the same one:(

its too dangerous to get emotionly involve,sometimes when you start to pay,you start to get burn,depend on how much you paying and what game you playing most of the time the guys always thought they have the upper hand but end up story still the same,recently my close encounter is a bussiness man pay $350000 sing dollar to a girl he barely knows less than three month:eek: ,and the girl still seeing other man still take the money from other man,of course the girl play the game well.

[oakleyeug]

Seriously if all of us have a different mind set it does helps alot..

Recently I have posted on how and why people feel cheated, it is because they say love. What is love?

Love is only when you both are living happily till wnd of time? Correct or wrong?

For a lot of people I met they feel cheated because they told me they trust this gal and the feeling is real etc etc...

For me?

I believe in paying for my worth, something that most people do not understand. Quoting of a sencerio will prove more to you..

When your wife divorce you do you have to pay a min maintence? Half of your property will go to her? Or what ever you can think of.. A girl have her price and also limited youth, once all these are spend then everything is the end.

Why do you agree to pay your wife? Is it because you are gulity or is it because of women charters? Yes all of us will feel tulan I cannot deline it, will it solve the pro?

If your wife cheat u just take it that you have been sleeping with a pro all these while, nothing more or less. I believe pro also have a price right? Just pay your due and FO...

I buy a car, going to buy a house soon for my future wife all is under her name. I told myself if she can bring all these go ahead cause I can make all these back within a few years just do not brother me by telling me split this split that.

Do have differrent mind set then you will know why the Taiwanese is so successful.

[beetlebum]

most of them got boy friend back china,the best part is they dont mind giving thier hard earn money to thier boy friend in china,cause they think its hard on thier boy friend to be together with them,but most of thier boy friend is small white face,some having five to eight girls working for him,and yet they ok,i have few china friend be it guy or girls still about the same one:(

Very seldom do posting nowadays, but just my own observation...
Chinese women in the city area are damn materialistic, these are the ones who will clean out your pockets, sell off your suit and if you are lucky, leave you your underwear. And these are the FLs here in S'pore. They have horn their skills of capturing a man's heart w/o giving theirs in China cities. And they are willing to be abused by their bf back home and come sell themselves as FT. Pao a china meimei is not cheap in China, 5x more ex in Spore...its just like starting a bizness in china. :mad: And dun expect them to be exclusively yours...

Better experience with those from more rural areas, you may even develope strong feelings. I once went out with a really sweet girl from a factory. Her birthday meal, i told her i can buy her any food she likes, and she reply McDonald's as she has never eaten before. We went out for a week or so when i was working there and she gives me everything i never get from a S'pore lady... even her first time. And never ask for a single cent. But after that i feel damn guilty and lucky have to come back, else sure die in her hands.

[_CHK_]

Hmmm....got so easy meh?

[Pokimon1]

Very stylo right? :D
What kind of confession... that's not a confession. That's a blunt, straight in your face STATEMENT! ;)


Thanks for the points bro. I have returned the favor.

[dirtymonk82]

this thread so sad...:(

anyway...there are bad sheep in every ships..PRC gals are not the only one doing those kind of dirty things....every country got their bad girls

[hornyclown]

errmm dun 一条竹竿打翻了整艘船
not all china girls are poor and come sg for money
some of them are actually super rich... and they are NOT mistresses.

[boss]

Hi....have chance upon this thread,so tht of share share a bit too....i happen to have some china students who are really here in s'pore to study....& they are really really super rich(actually their parents are the rich ones)....but over the years i realise something,God in China very fair one,the super rich gals are seldom the prettier ones....whereby most who are poor,do have the assets to sell themselves....:rolleyes:

Well,to "bao" a china girl isn't really as expensive as it seems....it all depend where u are looking(city gals or gals from the village)....& how long u have been in this field of "bao-ing".....i have a friend,who "bao" a gal for free....& this gal is from the city....the gals is 23 & as for my friend....almost 50....:D

On my part,i do have a soft spot for gals...especially from the chinese nationality....i go for feelings....& to bao them is easy,but to give them up...haiz...i just feel bad about it....even as of today,i'm still in the middle of giving up my gal from Sheng Yang....& to think she is even willing to "follow" me when i'm not giving her any money....i'm really at a lost,as i've stop picking up her calls since almost a month ago,hoping she'll forget me gradually...............

[Kingtut]

Boss, I was hoping to end with one PRC girl like yours, surely if one is
lucky enough. 2 nights ago on Channel U show one retiree bankrupt his
CPF savings just on Batam girls, not even pretty PRC ones.

[boss]

Kingtut,lucky or unlucky i don't know....my feeling now is that i'm tired all the bf gf game....i'm not a rich man....& i'm far away before i can "touch" my CPF....how i wish i could just harden my heart & let go....thanks for opening & sharing inthis thread....u'll see 3 rep-points up your way....

[sgpiggybank]

Hmm...seeing so many guys share their feelings. I would like to share mine too. To get cheated or not is all up to you mind. All those being cheated are kind souls. I don't think they are stupid or silly. If you are the type that are quite soft and you are a first timer in hooking up PRC gals. Try to get some advise from experience Big Bro here. Usually soft and first timer guy get cheated. Those season rider and hardcore player using have those PRC gals pawned. Which one of my friend is doing.

But to be frank not all PRC gals are bad. Even if you do find a good one, usually expenses are quite high also. As most of the PRC gals come from farmer background and really need alot of support even she is sincere you still have to spend some money on supporting them and their family in china too.


My 2 cents..

rdgs
sgpiggybank

[dom01]

Juz go those one session one payment.. No emotions attached... Better..

When u get too emotionally involved, shit happens. Juz look at the kallang river murder. Sigh... pity pity...

[laodi123456789]

Dear Bro laodi,

Actually, I am still puzzled by this case. Why the man was so desparate that he needed to steal money from the PRC girl? What was their relationship right from the begining. He helped her in her career and get returns of the submission of her body?

I guess he have more sidelines (mistresses /FL's) and needs to fund them.



Yes, I was so happy to have dumped her! Yes, I was the one who dumped her!

Good thinking Bro - Play smart!

[mahalosux]

Bro Pokimon1,

I do not agree with her that Singaporean guys are stupid, we are being too soft-hearted. Therefore, we are easily bought in by their bull-shit stories. Our kindness has been exploited by these PRC nationals.




Hi Bro PTR,

Totally agreed with this statement..i dun noe about others..but whenever i m wif a PRC gal..i can feel her objective behind all the 'kindness' she is giving me...but is the 'soft-herted ness' within oneself giving way to them...:(

cheers!

mhs

[kellykeen]

Just for sharing.
I hooked up a PRC during my frequant business trip to Beijing.
Already know right from the start what is her motive but as you brothers mentioned, soft heart and now at a lost as don't know what to do! sian.....

[beetlebum]

Juz go those one session one payment.. No emotions attached... Better..

When u get too emotionally involved, shit happens. Juz look at the kallang river murder. Sigh... pity pity...

Yeah yeah.... to prevent "wife leaving chind separation" scene, better go for 1 time transection. Come to think of it, Can try more dishes :)

[pusslover66]

Bro Jasper,

Your statement is really strong! but that is your right to say so!

I just tell myself, they are here to earn money but not to seek romance.

Few years ago, I know a pretty student from Tianjing. She called me Lao San, as there were two more men that she was seeing. The interesting thing was Lao Da did not know the existence of Lao Er and Lao San (me), and Lao Er knew the existence of Lao Da, but not Lao San (me). I being Lao San, knew both of them that she was seeing. Hahaha! That was good as I did not attach any emotion nor heavy investment in her. Why should I. Hahahah...

Well, Cool down, just tell yourself they are here for money, but not love.

Regards

PTR


AND ALL THREE OF YOU DONT KNOW THERE IS A LAU GONG!!!!!! LOL

[gniwgonwk]

Just for sharing.
I hooked up a PRC during my frequant business trip to Beijing.
Already know right from the start what is her motive but as you brothers mentioned, soft heart and now at a lost as don't know what to do! sian.....

Bro,
If u r not already too deeply involved ... let go - especially if u are committed w/ family.
Long distance "friendships" r NO fun and would definitely involve heartache ... :(
(However, ... it is easier said than done ...)

[dom01]

Yeah yeah.... to prevent "wife leaving chind separation" scene, better go for 1 time transection. Come to think of it, Can try more dishes :)

Think of it, Nu Ren De Xin Heng Du.... Direct Ang Moh, Women's Heart Very Poisonous. :cool:

[shengge]

Totally agreed with this statement..i dun noe about others..but whenever i m wif a PRC gal..i can feel her objective behind all the 'kindness' she is giving me...but is the 'soft-herted ness' within oneself giving way to them...:(


Dear Bro mhs,
they see you very handsome mah, obvious they got motive....:D
btw, where are these PRC gals from? (i mean in term of occupation)

i totally agree with bro ptr and you that we are too soft-hearted and that's why we were being exploited.

Cheers!

[PuTonRen]

AND ALL THREE OF YOU DONT KNOW THERE IS A LAU GONG!!!!!! LOL

Dear Bro,

Laugh as you wish! Just make sure you would not fall into the same trap:p . I can tell you are a new comer to this forum. While you are laughing out loud, do try to learn from the experience from those bros who are willing to share, to be laughed at, and then at the same time, still write constructive postings.

My 2 cent worth.

[AD69]

Good pointers from all the bros here. Got to take notes.

[AD69]

Deleted ..... Sorry double posting.

[PuTonRen]

Hi Bro PTR,

Totally agreed with this statement..i dun noe about others..but whenever i m wif a PRC gal..i can feel her objective behind all the 'kindness' she is giving me...but is the 'soft-herted ness' within oneself giving way to them...:(

cheers!

mhs

Dear Bro MHS,

Have not heard from you for a while even after remaining in home land for almost a month already. How have you been?

As I have said "Unless you have the look of Tom Cruise, they are here to earn as much as they could, but not to seek romance in a foreign land. Many PRC people have already laughed at us for being stupid, and easily conned. But I feel that the real reason is really we are too kind hearted, and that we are not united enough. What do you expect the foreigners to respect us when we even laugh at each other?

Many brothers here like to throw comments at their own country men, lamenting them of being stupid, and making fun out of their postings (even though they were willing to share their own experience) which were meant to warn others. They have forgotten that in future, when they happen to fall into the same situation, they will defend themselves by coming up with a lot of reason, without mentioning that they had once laughed at others for their mistakes.

"If you do not have your own kid yet, please do not complain that others' kids are naughty."

I choose to remain humble and will keep quiet from now on.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

[Elementary]

What do you expect the foreigners to respect us when we even laugh at each other?

Many brothers here like to throw comments at their own country men, lamenting them of being stupid, and making fun out of their postings (even though they were willing to share their own experience) which were meant to warn others. They have forgotten that in future, when they happen to fall into the same situation, they will defend themselves by coming up with a lot of reason, without mentioning that they had once laughed at others for their mistakes.Bro PTR,

I agreed with the comment you've made above.

[AD69]

Bro PTR,

I also agreed with what you wrote.

[newasianhand]

Hi to PTR and all the other bros;

I would like to add my two cents on that.

I am in my midtwenties, My girlfriend is a Shanghainese (but with American passport), and we met when we were in university. Both of us are working professionals currently working in the US, and I have had the fortune of meeting a wide range of Chinese from my travels in cities like LA, Vancouver (all the rich ones), Queens (the illegal ones), Columbia University, (the smart ones), and even in mainland china (when on business).

I have friends whose parents are in the central goverment in BJ, and who fly back to China every month, who rub shoulders with top officials/whos who, etc.

I'm fortunate because a lot of the top leaders/businessmen are in their early fifties, and therefore their children are all my age; it is their habit to send their children out of the country too; so i have had the luck of meeting a whole range of people that i might not have had the chance to do in Singapore (eg: very different from the NTU scholars out there!)

Therefore my experiences are bound to be a little bit different from those who are working in PRC/Singapore, but perhaps worth sharing to everyone.

All of these are Chinese that were born in China, but had the luck of either having rich parents who sent them abroad or were smart enough to get a scholarship out.

With 1.3 billion people, there are obviously going to be afew bad apples. Especially with China being poor just a few decades ago, the mentality of the Chinese are definitely different.
Even amongst my circle of friends (consisting of a fair bit of multi-millionaires in China), the girls have a very different mindset from other cultures. For one, most of their Dad's have mistresses/second families (rich lah, what to do), therefore, they themselves do not expect their husbands to be faithful. Compare it with the more Christian/Westernized mentality in Singapore and the West that says 'thou should be faithful..'; doesn't exist in China.

Hence, I have met best friends of my girlfriend who have no qualms trying to seduce me (with no strings attached!) everytime she is not around, or who are mistresses of other Chinese men who are here, even though they are well aware that the guy has a girlfriend back home. (one of my friend even pays for her 'boyfriend'; latest gift was a vertu phone!)


Mind you, they are not after money because they are rich themselves. Just after fun.

Therefore, my point is that in China, (though I love the Chinese people), bear in mind that the rule is: there are no rules!! So beware.
And also, not everyone is a golddigger.. I think there are something like 400 000 USD dollar millionaires in the mainland now. As Napolen said, 'when China awakes, it will shake the world', and I think we are seeing that in all the areas of society besides just economic.

My two cents from a Singaporean abroad.

Cheers;

[PuTonRen]

With 1.3 billion people, there are obviously going to be afew bad apples. Especially with China being poor just a few decades ago, the mentality of the Chinese are definitely different.

Christian/Westernized mentality in Singapore and the West that says 'thou should be faithful..'; doesn't exist in China.

Mind you, they are not after money because they are rich themselves. Just after fun.

Therefore, my point is that in China, (though I love the Chinese people), bear in mind that the rule is: there are no rules!! So beware.
And also, not everyone is a golddigger..


Dear Bro,

You have made some very fair comments indeed. However, I think we are talking about an entire different statistical population. The population at hand in the many discussions in this forum is the Chinese girls who are here or in China working in the entertainment circle. What you have met are those who are from the "upper" society. I can understand your point as many years ago when I was working in Beijing, I had a girl friend, whoise Grand Father in amongst the top 15 most high ranking official in one of the ministries. She was not going after money, and I was driven around by his Grand Father's driver and accompanied by her. She did demonstrate her behaviour of a girl from a noble family. There were other encounters with girls from the very rich family, or themselves being rich. I was even with a lady who owned a big restaurant (Sorry, cannot mention the name of the restaurant), and I believed that she was married at that time. There are a whole spectrum of girls amongst half of the 1.3 Billions Chinese.

Enough of showing off myself! Sorry! We are dealing here with an entirely different statistical population - the working ladies. They are here or in China itself, to make as much money as they can while they are still young, and Romance is definitely not their priority.They possess execellent survival skills, many of which makes the men suffer. Over the more than 10 years in China, I dare claim that I have seen enough to make the above humble comments. Not a sweeping statement across the whole Chinese population in PRC, but those who are in the entertainment circle.

You are very young and have many golden years to go. Do exercise caution as the many scenerio described in this forum, do appear int he "up" circle in which you are very fortunate to be in at the moment. Horn your survival skill, my young compatriot, so that you too can sail in this ever rough going ocean.

My 2 cent worth with best regards


An old Singaporean

[tanterry]

AND ALL THREE OF YOU DONT KNOW THERE IS A LAU GONG!!!!!! LOL

Just happened last year, there was a case of a uni prof being sued for giving false info. I remember there was this china gal juggles with 3 lovers.

[PuTonRen]

Just happened last year, there was a case of a uni prof being sued for giving false info. I remember there was this china gal juggles with 3 lovers.

Yes Bro,

I know the case and that Professor is my personal acquaintance. I am so sorry for him for not being prudent enough in that situation. I did not laugh at him, like some brothers would do, but I choose to learn from the lesson.

Enough said.

Thank you for reminding brothers in this forum.

Regards

PTR

[newasianhand]

Hi Bro PTR;

Yes, I definitely agree with you.
I have been following this forum (especially the Shanghai thread) for a while now; and you always make wise remarks. You must be a China oldhand!

Would really love to meet up with you one day if the chance arises.

Have fun and thanks for the advice!

[PuTonRen]

Hi Bro PTR;

Yes, I definitely agree with you.
I have been following this forum (especially the Shanghai thread) for a while now; and you always make wise remarks. You must be a China oldhand!

Would really love to meet up with you one day if the chance arises.

Have fun and thanks for the advice!

Dear Bro newasiahand,

Thank you for the complements that I am not sure I merit them. I am not an old hand, as there are much more Singaporeans who are even more experienced from whom I long to learn. I just merely giving out my humble 2 cent worth for brothers to share.

It would be my pleasure, indeed, to meet you in person over a cup of good Chinese Tea (I quit alcohol completely about 10 years ago) one day.

With warmest regards.

PTR

[Kyser Soze]

We are dealing here with an entirely different statistical population - the working ladies. They are here or in China itself, to make as much money as they can while they are still young, and Romance is definitely not their priority.They possess execellent survival skills, many of which makes the men suffer.


Totally agree. If a woman is out to sell herself, there's no point talking about romance. It's clear that money is their primary motive. It's also true that quite a number of PRC women (the 'statistical population' as described by Bro PuTonRen) we are dealing with belongs to this category. Hence, most of the time they give PRCs a bad name.

There was one day that I had a casual chat with a middle-aged auntie. She commented that all PRC women are all-out money cheaters, relationship destroyers or prostitutes. Personally, I felt that she has stereo-typed PRC women, this is not unlike some of us categorised Thai women are prostitutes and Banglas are road sweepers etc.

In fact, I have known some very intelligent PRC women, they are professional engineers and fellow researchers. I would say they are equally good, if not better than us, in terms of technical knowledge. Conversely, I have known some northern-east PRC women with little education and knowledge, working as WLs. It's different strokes, different life. Everyone has her own story. It their upbringing or choice of path that led to what they are today. Likewise, it is any man's choice or ability to get a PRC woman as a mistress. :rolleyes:

[betta]

Any Singapore men who wan to get into a serious relationship with your PRC girlfriend who is currently working in ktv or as hookers pls give up the idea b4 they suck u dry of your savings and might even cost u your life. If u think love can convert them then u are veri wrong, they r here only for money.
I hav known of many such horror stories, as a follow up I shall highlight another case.
1 Singapore man wan to marry a PRC ktv working here thinking tat she is still single, behind his back she has got a toyboy and a child from her previous marriage back in China. Tis man even try to commit suicide when the girl wan to go back china. The man end up in hospital and the girl did not even bother to visit him saying that she dont even hav feeling for him.
Last year when I was in china, I had dinner with tis girl and her toyboy. Even visited their new house. All made possible due to contributions from various silly Singapore men.
Of course not all PRC women are bad but pls stay away from those working in ktv or hookers, dont wan to see another Singapore man getting hurt.

[jng1103]

I really dont understand what's the fuss to discuss an issue that has been debating for months, if not years, in our first class world. A person doesnt need to be Einstein to figure out if the china woman is a gold digger, and it aint rocket science to study their sincerity and faithfulness. Didnt we all know they are here for nothing else but money? If so, what's left to debate?

If you are loaded, why bother to smell the same piece of pussy while plenty of fresh abalone queueing up for your prick, eg money? Let me get a quote from my CO,"if money can solve a problem, it aint a problem at all." well said, dear :p

jimbo

[betta]

Let me highlight another case,
Two Singapore men both fighting for the affection of a PRC ktv gal. Each trying to out do one another by buying her expensive gifts and offering more monthly allowances. So she now beside the average $8000 per month she get from working at ktv, total from the 2 Singapore men she get a monthly allowance of $15000. To sum up she pocket about $23000 monthly plus expensive brand gifts. Of course she got a toyboy back in china.
Pls stay away from these gals if u dont want to end up looking like an idiot.

[jng1103]

So she now beside the average $8000 per month she get from working at ktv, total from the 2 Singapore men she get a monthly allowance of $15000. To sum up she pocket about $23000 monthly plus expensive brand gifts. Of course she got a toyboy back in china.

wow... S$23000/month? holy cow...!!! that's astronomous numbers compare to mine :o With this kinda money back in China, she can buy land, build houses and may be feed few 'boytoys' :D

jimbo

[betta]

U will be surprise tat some of them own more than I house back in China. Mine best galfriend is a PRC and she has a group of friends working in Spore ktv. Tats why I noe all tis true stories. Lucky for me mine is a true friendship cos I am not rich, dont even own a car. Mine friend enjoy telling me all these stories of her galfriends encounter with Singapore men and how these men willing part with their money. So I just listen lah.
Mine PRC gaLfriend, her friends and I usually have a gathering when I visit China during the CNY, tats when I see their houses, husbands, toyboys and withness their lavish lifestyle.
ALL IS POSSIBLE THANKS TO CONTRIBUTION FROM SINGAPORE MEN. A BIG THANK YOU FROM THESE PRC GALS.

[pusslover66]

Dear Bro,

Laugh as you wish! Just make sure you would not fall into the same trap:p . I can tell you are a new comer to this forum. While you are laughing out loud, do try to learn from the experience from those bros who are willing to share, to be laughed at, and then at the same time, still write constructive postings.

My 2 cent worth.

the point i am trying to make is that once shes lying
her words cannot be trusted
one cannot be so conceited as to think she will lie to others
but not to oneself

[funfox]

Its all a game bros.
Just an exchange like barter trade..........its simply her pussy for your $.

In reality, promises are made to satisfy your moment lust and her desire for your $. Dun take it at face value. Afterall, both know what each is after.

Paiseh, teng kui.......jus my 2 cts though.

[virginboy926]

Totally agree. If a woman is out to sell herself, there's no point talking about romance. It's clear that money is their primary motive. It's also true that quite a number of PRC women (the 'statistical population' as described by Bro PuTonRen) we are dealing with belongs to this category. Hence, most of the time they give PRCs a bad name.

There was one day that I had a casual chat with a middle-aged auntie. She commented that all PRC women are all-out money cheaters, relationship destroyers or prostitutes. Personally, I felt that she has stereo-typed PRC women, this is not unlike some of us categorised Thai women are prostitutes and Banglas are road sweepers etc.

In fact, I have known some very intelligent PRC women, they are professional engineers and fellow researchers. I would say they are equally good, if not better than us, in terms of technical knowledge. Conversely, I have known some northern-east PRC women with little education and knowledge, working as WLs. It's different strokes, different life. Everyone has her own story. It their upbringing or choice of path that led to what they are today. Likewise, it is any man's choice or ability to get a PRC woman as a mistress. :rolleyes:

China is a big country, cannot 1 pole hit all the people on 1 boat. definitely there are some "black sheeps " here and there. We just have to be careful to those people that dealing with us.

I have encounter on PRC woman keep pestering me for having sex with them. But in the end.. they just want ur $, Example, they will ask u to buy this and that or sponsor them this and that .

i am in mid twenties. perhaps, they just want to suck our energertic spirits dry.

All these times, if i want to play with PRC girls, when they demand something, i will remember this rule.
"Silence is Golden, if make noise, mean u got to buy a diamond."

[Durex_69]

China is a big country, cannot 1 pole hit all the people on 1 boat. definitely there are some "black sheeps " here and there. We just have to be careful to those people that dealing with us.

Yup ... There will always be black sheeps, regardless of nationality. PRC out to get $$$ with whatever means; Sillyporean f*** liao run without paying; drug KTV girl then rape and rob; etc ...

:(

[Kingtut]

Boss, thanks for upping me. I think we have many bros here who are
very experience with PRC girls and can offer good advice.

[mahalosux]

Dear Bro MHS,

Have not heard from you for a while even after remaining in home land for almost a month already. How have you been?

As I have said "Unless you have the look of Tom Cruise, they are here to earn as much as they could, but not to seek romance in a foreign land. Many PRC people have already laughed at us for being stupid, and easily conned. But I feel that the real reason is really we are too kind hearted, and that we are not united enough. What do you expect the foreigners to respect us when we even laugh at each other?

Many brothers here like to throw comments at their own country men, lamenting them of being stupid, and making fun out of their postings (even though they were willing to share their own experience) which were meant to warn others. They have forgotten that in future, when they happen to fall into the same situation, they will defend themselves by coming up with a lot of reason, without mentioning that they had once laughed at others for their mistakes.

"If you do not have your own kid yet, please do not complain that others' kids are naughty."

I choose to remain humble and will keep quiet from now on.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

Hi Bro PTR..

It is not a matter we r laughing among our own fellow country men..is just tat every1 wanna outdo one another..to prove they r able to hook up a PRC gf..but it seems like marjority of the cases i seen is not long lasting..

Some r laughing at others mishap..while they themselves do not know that they r walking into the same trap as others..

The ego within ourselves cause the downfall in such r/ship...

mhs..

[mahalosux]

Dear Bro mhs,
they see you very handsome mah, obvious they got motive....:D
btw, where are these PRC gals from? (i mean in term of occupation)

i totally agree with bro ptr and you that we are too soft-hearted and that's why we were being exploited.

Cheers!

Hi bro shengge..

i m definitely not handsome..and i doubt i looked rich in order for them to take notice of me..

most of the PRC gals i noe is from KTV joints..though i still noe quite a bit of PRC holding normal jobs such as sales gals, OLs...

Overall, the WL and non-WL have different sort of thinking...but in the end they still share 1 common interset..i.e. a better living for themselves.

Well, i hv got to noe a guy..who was holding a white collar post in singapore, he got to noe a shanghainese gal (working as an asst manager in one of the 4 star hotel in china)..the gal is educated overseas and is fluent in both languages..Love blossom, as the guy return to singapore..the gal chalked up high hp bill while communicating wif him daily (tat time IDD card still not popular)...one day they decide to tie the knot in singapore..and the gal gace birth to a baby boy after their marriage..and soon she got her PR status..but 1 fine day..she just tell her singapore usband..she has enough of their marriage life..and she decide to split wif her husband..and bring the child wif her..

this show tat PRC gals (no matter what line they r in)..just wanna get themselve a better living..

I did told a PRC gal b4 when she commented tat singapore guys r so generous and to some extend they r foolish..i jus explain to her either they r desperate or soft hearted..there is no such thing as they r foolish..they spend on u..and wan sex in return (they r desperate)..they spend on u without any commitment (they r soft hearted)..

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..

cheers!

mhs

[durex]

The ego within ourselves cause the downfall in such r/ship...

mhs..
Well said bro mhs,i saw our own country man fighting among themself without realising is a game that set out by the girls,one thought he has the control over everything(the girls looks innocent and loving enough towards him)and he do have a bits of money,the other well just see who can throw the most money:eek:
I was thinking OMG one pussy made of gold,no jokes is coming to half a million that the girls win from the man,she might be richer than them now and the man are still throwing:mad:

[mahalosux]

Well said bro mhs,i saw our own country man fighting among themself without realising is a game that set out by the girls,one thought he has the control over everything(the girls looks innocent and loving enough towards him)and he do have a bits of money,the other well just see who can throw the most money
I was thinking OMG one pussy made of gold,no jokes is coming to half a million that the girls win from the man,she might be richer than them now and the man are still throwing

yah quite true...it shows tat singapore men..want to go all out to impress..but never did they realized the gals r just making use of us...

i will not be surprise tat marjority of these gals r earning much more than me...:(

[shengge]

this show tat PRC gals (no matter what line they r in)..just wanna get themselve a better living..

I did told a PRC gal b4 when she commented tat singapore guys r so generous and to some extend they r foolish..i jus explain to her either they r desperate or soft hearted..there is no such thing as they r foolish..they spend on u..and wan sex in return (they r desperate)..they spend on u without any commitment (they r soft hearted)..

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..


Dear Bro mhs,
Sad to hear another sad story, feel bad for him. Hope he is well now.

Agreed totally with what you have said. I must said WE are really soft hearted. Why we are all like that?

Like my friend always say, wthether in biz or dealing with ladies in China, must try to verify what they say, don't take thing at face value.

I ever heard her mum talking to her daughter (abt 8~10y/o) after she had came back from a gathering with some other kids. Her first question to her daughter was, how do you find xiaoli (another kid character)? I was a bit shocked as I think normaly parent would ask whether the kid was happy about their outing. Well, I guess they are being brought up in a very competitive environment, parents got to teach them the survival skill at very young age.

Prob our thinking are too "logical" and too much "common sense", due to our education? sigh........

Cheers!
Shengge

[mahalosux]

Dear Bro mhs,
Sad to hear another sad story, feel bad for him. Hope he is well now.

Agreed totally with what you have said. I must said WE are really soft hearted. Why we are all like that?

Like my friend always say, wthether in biz or dealing with ladies in China, must try to verify what they say, don't take thing at face value.

I ever heard her mum talking to her daughter (abt 8~10y/o) after she had came back from a gathering with some other kids. Her first question to her daughter was, how do you find xiaoli (another kid character)? I was a bit shocked as I think normaly parent would ask whether the kid was happy about their outing. Well, I guess they are being brought up in a very competitive environment, parents got to teach them the survival skill at very young age.

Prob our thinking are too "logical" and too much "common sense", due to our education? sigh........

Cheers!
Shengge

Hi Bro Shengge,

Actually i dun really understand about all these PRC ladies..the men in China treat them a bit like 'dirt'..they fool ard behind their women's back, when they r drunk they will threw temper and sometimes even resort to violence on their spouse..yet when they met a kind hearted local singaporean..they took us for granted..as concluded, we never hold a place in their heart, as compares to their compatriate..

Agreed with you totally that they r street smart and actually my gal did told me b4..so wat if i m educated, etc..she says we r lacking behind in the skills for us to survive in this cruel society...which make us look and behave in a naive manner..in PRC, most of the young kids oredi now how to 走天下...while we r still immersed in our sch txt book. the kids in the street know how to swindle and get the better out of unsuspecting adults..

cheers!
mhs

[newbadass]

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..


This is definite. Come on, even for us guys, don't we have an agenda when we are nice to a girl?

I always hear about all this "treat KTV girls with respect", "must know how to be nice to them", when end of the day, all the guy really wants is free bonk. Otherwise, would he bother?

EVERYONE has a motive. Whether they admit it or not. ;)

[mahalosux]

This is definite. Come on, even for us guys, don't we have an agenda when we are nice to a girl?

I always hear about all this "treat KTV girls with respect", "must know how to be nice to them", when end of the day, all the guy really wants is free bonk. Otherwise, would he bother?

EVERYONE has a motive. Whether they admit it or not. ;)

Hmm..i definitely agree on what u have mention...

who do not hv agenda? whenever we spend $..on food, exp gifts, sch fees (for students), rental, etc..wat we wan at the end of the day...Bonk, Bonk and more Bonk..and some extend GFE Bonk..

But i did see some cases..whereby guys give and give yet the gal still refuse to give him any 'benefits'....

[VT2000]

First time posting here and would like to share my experience about PRC gals.

I was in China for a couple of years and have had some experiences with the gals there. We cheong quite a bit when in China and knew the gals mostly from our weekly ktv sessions. Most were hostesses but we also go after the mummies and waitresses.

My first experience was with a pretty and solid chick from Anhui. We started off with a holiday to Huang Shan and had our first FJ there. Thereafter she would come and stay with me during weekends (so that I won't go bonking other gals) and we got on pretty well. I paid her nothing except for the dinners, massage sessions and drinks when we go out together. I started to get suspicious when she started to tell me that his brother had arrived from Anhui and she had to support him while he look for a job and asked me for some money to help her out. At first it was just RMB200-500 once in a while then it was a couple of thousands every fortnight. Still cheaper than if I were to spend outside anyway, so I was willing.

The red light start flashing when she told me one day that her brother was arrested by the GongAn for theft, and needed RMB20,000 to settle. I told her that I have some friends in the Gong An and can help her settle if she give me her brother's details. I haven't heard from her since.

My most pleasurable experience was with this very "angpai" hostess, every mother's son seems to be going after her and she's quite selective too. One nite I was in the ktv with a group of govt officials and they have asked for her, the boss called her and she LL came to our room. Through the night I got to know her and use the oldest trick in town to date her out. We roll dice and whoever lose kenna buy dinner for the other within the next 7 days. Whichever way it goes, I will have a date with her. We talk quite abit during the dinner and she revealed to me the inside of a ktv. Turn out that most bros here are correct. She is supported by 3 guys, a Taiwanese who is paying the rent for her exclusive apartment + some $$$ and 2 singaporeans giving her monthly allowance of RMB30,000 each. These 'supporters' are always away and she only needs to be with them when they come for business. She said that her line is very competitive and therefore would cream anyone who wants to be creamed. I thought I got no chance with this gal and just TCSS wif her. A few weeks later she called me and asked me to meet for coffee. When we met she said she wanted to ask for my opinion about her becoming a mummy. Told her not a good idea as her client support her cos they got her to sit with them, if she's mummy she'll be running around and hve no time for her customers unless her gals are as +++ kong as her. She asked if I can support her by bringing clients to entertain at her place and also bring friends during weekends. I said no problem. Turns out that I was correct and business at the ktv went down and also her customers found newer joints to go to. She turn to me more and more and on days where she got no bookings she would even join me and my friends at other joints.

We became quite close and she slept over my place a few times and we even went for a short holiday together. This went on for a few months then one day she told me that the Taiwanese is giving her an apartment and asking her to quit her line and will provide her with a substantial monthly allowance and an imported car. She said that though reluctant she has to be realistic that such offer is rare. She take it as a business transaction with no emotion involved. She confessed that though she didn't get anything from me, she appreciated my assistance when time was bad and had some real love for me. With that we had a last bonk and parted ways.

[kellykeen]

Bro,

Take your advise. Stop all contact liao!:p
Kump xia!!

[dt3305]

I agree with the bro here that 99.99% of PRC gals working in KTV here are out only for $. And we thought by being nice and so forth, we are deep inside hoping for free bonks and maybe a PTL to accompany us. Wouldn't that be every man's dream. Wake up! Firstly before they arrived on our shore, they have been mentally trained that coming here is to make money. Talk to anyone of them and they will have already some friends or connection here who will teach them all the ropes of how to win a man's heart and how to get the most money out of them. You must also know that all of them pay a big sum of moeny to get here. We are talking about S$5,000 to S$9,000. They need to repay the borrowed money, pay food and lodging here and still make some money before they are caught or leave Sillypore.
So far only 1 KTV gal allows me free bonk and she simply enjoy finger fuck. She cum each time and complain my finger is more powerful than my little brother. Haha... I can say she has a very high sex drive and almost everday, we will check into hotel and bonk and each time, she never ask for a single cent. But it did not last long. After 2 months, she was caught and sent back. She will be returning soon end of the year after her 1 year ban and I am looking forward to it.
I have been cheonging KTV for years and even the most 'innocent' looking student pass KTV gal will still ultimately go for money only. Don't read too much into their sob story. They are all the same. If it is so sob, why come in the first place. No one forced them. They have done theor mental sum and they are willing to take the gamble.
If you just want free touch here touch there without paying tips each time, get a car. Offer to send her to work or fetch her home. You can autoroam in the car and she won't ask for tips as you had saved her taxi money!
The situation in China is better though, at least from what I have encountered so far. I remember my business trips in Pan Yu. Got to know this KTV gal and bring her back to hotel to bonk. Paid her RMP1500 which is quite steep but what the heck. She asked me if I can be her lau gong. I told her I am Sillyporean. Won't a Taiwanese be better and some more they can make short trip every week. She says Taiwanese man are not gentle and they treat woman like shit. On my 2nd trip there, she treated me like king and never ask a single cent from me. In fact she even bought me clothings and buy me meals. Of course, the numerous bonk was free. Now we still keep in touch and she is contemplating coming here to spent some time with me as she claims she miss me. And, no she did not ask her a cent for any air ticket or whatsoever. So, she is a gem of a find but too bad she is 4,000km away.

[urchine]

Was told that, as a rule of thumb, the further down south (geographically) they are, the more vicious they become. True? Compare the gals in Dong Bei, Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen then Singapore. Maybe they grow older as they travel to the tiny red dot ....

[EricssonMan]

Heard Shanghai gals dont do laundry & babysitting?

[mahalosux]

She will be returning soon end of the year after her 1 year ban and I am looking forward to it

Guess there is an unwritten rule she will be banned for life!! cos after the so called 1 yr ban..it will be close to impossible her application for visa will be approve..unless she change passport...


I remember my business trips in Pan Yu. Got to know this KTV gal and bring her back to hotel to bonk. Paid her RMP1500 which is quite steep but what the heck. She asked me if I can be her lau gong. I told her I am Sillyporean. Won't a Taiwanese be better and some more they can make short trip every week. She says Taiwanese man are not gentle and they treat woman like shit. On my 2nd trip there, she treated me like king and never ask a single cent from me. In fact she even bought me clothings and buy me meals. Of course, the numerous bonk was free. Now we still keep in touch and she is contemplating coming here to spent some time with me as she claims she miss me. And, no she did not ask her a cent for any air ticket or whatsoever. So, she is a gem of a find but too bad she is 4,000km away.

wow...u must a real lucky guy....:o

[Wingless Angel]

Nothing wrong with each looking for a better life just like people wants to climb the ladders of corporate and society.
Its just during this chase for name, success and money, what are the things given/sacrificed and people or things neglected or trashed

Salesman suffer in silence,take shit but they get the business that in turns pay for their salary and give them chances for promotions.
WLs spread their legs for you, they take chances of uncouth mannerism, bad breath but they earn your bucks.

Such topics are like Chicken and Eggs, which first?
Does anyone have any definite answers or is there any answers in the first place? There are cheating WLs, but please don't tell me there aren't scumbag cheongsters?

[maxxer]

I guess when you have the money they will look for you...I recently had a friend that kept a china mistress.Divorce his wife and married the china woman.Giving up his 2 kids even though they are adluts already..Anyway to cut the story short after abt a year he went to china and brought 2 houses for that woman.Before long he was kick back here without anything.In fact he later found out that that woman was already married!The moral of the stroy is that unless you have no feelings and can spit at someone face and walk away and you know how to play the game that u have a mistress!This is just my 2cents worth of thoughts.......

[maxxer]

Heard Shanghai gals dont do laundry & babysitting?
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Bro its confirm!In Shanghai the woman are the head of the house!The man stay at home to do housework and the woman goes out to work.Its the woman that makes the decision there!

[dirtymonk82]

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Bro its confirm!In Shanghai the woman are the head of the house!The man stay at home to do housework and the woman goes out to work.Its the woman that makes the decision there!

i don't mind staying at house and doing the housework and looking after the kid...still can play mahjong somemore...:p

[heian_sai]

paid sex is juz paid sex.. any guy who expect more is just waiting to be burnt. Those biz man who give thousands of dollars knows that too. They just have the money. why compare.

But give the gals a break~ they want an easier life. but hell, i dont think this way of 'earning' money is easy. emotionally.. whatever..
If you think why they have become 'heartless'.. hmm.. to defend themselves perhaps.
same as we guys know, not to expect any 'love' from these excussions.

Just enjoy the sex.. the lust.. n the flesh..

[HuiGe3387]

I guess when you have the money they will look for you...I recently had a friend that kept a china mistress.Divorce his wife and married the china woman.Giving up his 2 kids even though they are adluts already..Anyway to cut the story short after abt a year he went to china and brought 2 houses for that woman.Before long he was kick back here without anything............
We have heard too much of such stories, but yet there are still so many roberts who fall into the trap of 天真。

[dirtymonk82]

its not easy to control the heart and tell it what to do and what not to do.

its not easy to not to love when you try not to love someone.

the heart is a strange organ...man really have no control over it.

[PuTonRen]

its not easy to control the heart and tell it what to do and what not to do.

its not easy to not to love when you try not to love someone.

the heart is a strange organ...man really have no control over it.

Well said brother,

It is only after one has gone through many encounters that he/she begins to learn to control the heart to a limited extent.

Regards

PTR

[shengge]

Bro its confirm!In Shanghai the woman are the head of the house!

Can you elaborate as in what ways the woman head the house?

My point of view on the head of the house is not abt giving orders or instructions; it is abt making the house look more tidy and organised, taking care of the kids needs and etc. Don't be mistaken, I do not merely mean that they have to sweep, clean, feed the kid, iron cloth and etc. it is abt handling and maintaining. I think we guys simply having the chin-chai and boh-chap attitude. For that and for me, I don't mind woman being the head of the house.


The man stay at home to do housework and the woman goes out to work.Its the woman that makes the decision there!
Traditionally, Shanghai men do the cooking at home. But these days, mostly maid does the cooking and housework, as both the young couples need to work.
While saying all these, I do agree that Shanghai women make most of the decisions, I did see that some women having superiority over the male friends or hubby. I think this could be due to the one-child policy that most parents over pampered their daughter, that makes them more self-oriented or more possesive.

I think in the end it is all abt respect and appreciation.

Just my 20cents.

[Randi_Candi]

Not at any1 in particular but i thk its v true

人在江湖，身不由己？
步入江湖，何来“身不由己"？:rolleyes:

[newbadass]

Of course, the numerous bonk was free. Now we still keep in touch and she is contemplating coming here to spent some time with me as she claims she miss me. And, no she did not ask her a cent for any air ticket or whatsoever. So, she is a gem of a find but too bad she is 4,000km away.

The only thing I can think of is - pay for what you get. May more or pay little up to you, but just make sure you pay.

I also got a China student who for some reason decided to latch on to me and call me her "boyfriend". Shed tears when she was caught by immigration and sent home for 3 years. The usual story, blah blah. We spent almost every day together after that fateful day, and overnighted every weekend, bonking like crazy. Sure, she didn't ask for money. Sure, she bought me gifts and sometimes paid the cab fare. But I have never forgotten the circumstances under which we met. At the back of my mind, I was always thinking that sooner or later I have to pay for all this pleasure whether she asked for it or not. Everybody has to have a standard of chionging. I am not, of course, asking that people follow mine.

After each of the two weekends we spent overnighting, I gave her $100 to get through the week. I topped up her phone card. I bought her air ticket, and the night before she left, I passed her $400. All this amounted to $1000+ for 11 fuck sessions. If you calculate it at a per bonk basis, it's $100 per bonk which is OK. Of course if you count the overnight rate which could go from $150 to $200 a night, I'm far short. And if you count TianAnMen rates for $300+ a night, I'm totally screwed. But the important thing is that I paid what I could. Had to lie low almost a month, but I paid. If something comes up, I can say that my conscience is clear and I owe her nothing. That is perhaps the most important thing of all.

[ric33]

I had a FL at Darlene last year and the 'relationship' continued till now..... I posted a FR on her here before..... After that 1st time, I forgot her hp no. but I chanced upon her again when I went for WanTon mee at Lor 12. We hooked up and the rest is history.

I wont say that I 'bao'her but we would definitely spend time fr 1-2 days whenever she touched down here and before she leaves, for another 1-2 days. As I stay in the east, my fav hotel is the one at CV. I would put her up there for 1-2 days on arrival and prior departure.

Day time, I work and she does her things, shopping or spa at the hotel...dinner together and then bonking session.

In fact, maybe purely chemistry, she did not take $ from me since the third time. 1st and 2nd time, I believed I paid $150 for 2 shots each time for the 1st two times. But after that, I always leave something for her.

She is from Chengdu and I went to her place before when I was on biz trip. She is staying with her mother only and she owns an apartment, nicely done up and fully paid up.

Everytime, she is here and before she leaves. I gave her $500-$1000 even though she never ask; she is rich enough from her earnings as a FL as she has her usual 'clients'.

So, one man's meat is another poison. Just my 5-cent worth of opinion.

Cheers.

[mahalosux]

If something comes up, I can say that my conscience is clear and I owe her nothing. That is perhaps the most important thing of all.

U hv say it all...

hmmm..is either u pay up now...or u pay more in the future....not doubting others stories..but do u believe when a person tell u he bonk for free...

i hv encounter a lot of stories from those chiongsters telling me they bonk for free...but in actual fact..when i try to unearth the juicy details..i found out in fact..they pamper the gals wif hps, jewellery, money, pay their home rental, etc..

all this r the so called 'dark secret' of the chiongster which they dun want to reveal..if their kakis noe they actually give the gal $$, it seems vey 'xia suay' or loose face to them....it's not a very in thing to be seem as 'chai tao' by others....so they just keep blabbering...blabbering..'i bonk the gal for free'..at least they got a bit of so called dignity....

[newbadass]

....it's not a very in thing to be seem as 'chai tao' by others....so they just keep blabbering...blabbering..'i bonk the gal for free'..at least they got a bit of so called dignity....

I would rather my friends think I am a "cai tao" rather than think I have no standard. Different people value things differently. :)

I don't consider myself a "cai tao" because I "paid" after getting everything.
But if a guy pay this pay that before getting anything and still don't get, then he is a "cai tao" :D

[Reaper]

its not easy to control the heart and tell it what to do and what not to do.

its not easy to not to love when you try not to love someone.

the heart is a strange organ...man really have no control over it.

there is a fine line between Love, Infatuation/crush/puppy love & just being plain old horny.....:cool:

Time to do some soul searching............

CHEERS

[maxxer]

i don't mind staying at house and doing the housework and looking after the kid...still can play mahjong somemore...:p Haha me too i guess!But if everyday must kena Fing from them then i rather not....Must have pride as man right Bro?Just had a drink with a shanghai friend and was told that this days they have Male maid there!!!

[maxxer]

We have heard too much of such stories, but yet there are still so many roberts who fall into the trap of 天真。
Well we all learn along the way i guess but not all are roberts i must say...I once dated a China gal too.Stayed at her place and i think i was more being Pao than her.She works at TAM and me being not rich was not the type to be made a Robert.But the mistake that i made was that i felt in Lupe with her and when she left(Cos she suddenly remember that she is here to make money and some Indon wanted to Pao her)i was really hurt!My 2cents thought to all Bros out there is that if you are with a PRC now dont have too much feelings in it cos it took me a while to get over it....

2.5cents thoughts...

[maxxer]

Can you elaborate as in what ways the woman head the house?



Traditionally, Shanghai men do the cooking at home. But these days, mostly maid does the cooking and housework, as both the young couples need to work.
While saying all these, I do agree that Shanghai women make most of the decisions, I did see that some women having superiority over the male friends or hubby. I think this could be due to the one-child policy that most parents over pampered their daughter, that makes them more self-oriented or more possesive.

I think in the end it is all abt respect and appreciation.

Just my 20cents.

To me being the head of the house meaning who makes the decision at home.As far as i know in Sg most man makes the decision although in my Family both me and my wife share ideas and later make a decision together.I have learn that in Shanghai because woman are the main sole-breadwinner therefore they are the decision maker in this case the head of the house.In the past it was worst ..The woman would shout or hit the man if she had a hard day at work.I dont not blame the woman for that(Not the hitting part) cos according to a friend from Shanghai,"Man" in Shanghai are less bussiness minded or should i say ...Hmmm i cant think of that word suddenly!As for ur thought on that One-Child Policy i guess we dont know whether there were more male or female born during that era therefore whether a Baby boy or a girl was born i guess the Parents will also Pamper right?I thought as chinese we will prefer Male too?Hmmm maybe i am wrong. To me in Shanghai family respect and appreciation dont really happen its more of "You bring $$$ back u King,I bring $$$ back i King...


Just a 2cents thought....Tks Bro for your Points.This is what i call Adults.We share ideas even if we see different points:)

[highsex]

hi brothers, i know howit feels cause i have apid to pau one fulltime,young 19 years old and it cost me 15 grand a month> today it is cheaper and you can pau one for less than 10 grand. the last gal left without giving me a chance as she wasbooked b4 i could offer. she is back now in shanghai to get married and she will not give me her mobile no. she said she will call me when it is convenient and if i happen to be in shanghai to have lunch.....nothing more.
another told me she really liked me and i flew all the way to see her in qingdao but when i am back she asked me to remit money to her to buy an apt.
i give up on china and i am now in thailand but it is the same old story, the only consolation is it is cheaper.
love comes with a price. if you have time and willing to commit...all is well. if not then wake up and pay cause whatever the sweet talk you are not Romeo in love.

[mahalosux]

I would rather my friends think I am a "cai tao" rather than think I have no standard. Different people value things differently. :)

I don't consider myself a "cai tao" because I "paid" after getting everything.
But if a guy pay this pay that before getting anything and still don't get, then he is a "cai tao" :D

is just tat some people dun want to 'come clean' wif the fact tat they 'support' the gals..haizz..mayb it is a disgrace to them..if really tat disgraceful..then dun do in the 1st place loh...

it is still betta than people who choose to 'cheat' the gal... see some eg myself..and hear from gals too... the type of chiongster i cannot stand...is those who ask the gal from KTV for overnite session..promise to buy her this and tat the following day...then the nxt day disappear....this type of people sure 1 day tio karma one....mayb nxt life this type of people will become a cheap chicken...hmmm...

[Marpol72]

Hi all,

Does anyone have any contacts for room calls in Qingdao? Maybe that will cost cheaper? I am flying tonite, hope can get something today.

[no_faith]

bro marpol72, imho, ur very post is to dig an old thread, post in wrong section, ask for room service? perhaps a little search will help.

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=53089&highlight=qingdao
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=46458&highlight=qingdao
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=44582&highlight=qingdao

these are 3 links which i found. hopefully will assist u. enjoy ur stay in qingdao.;)

[Albertlsh]

My years of travelling to variuos countries gave me the opportunities to meet business men especially from Japan and Taiwan, be it in China, Vietnam , Thailand etc told me eventually they are "milk " dry by all these ladies. Some on them really gave good advice like :"Don't rear a cow, but drink the milk ".
I think all Bros should seriously consider this advice. After all if we have the money to spend, we should have the luxury to paid for pretty, young and sexy girl for our pleasure and keep changing for various "goods" rather than to waste our hard earn cash on these type of ladies who might eventually "milk" us dry like those men that had told me stories about how they are eventually conned and stripped of everything even barred from entering certain country.

[LeDivorcee]

My personal experience:

Met a PRC girl from a well known KTV. Don't know why, but we have chemistry and got on quite well... Booked her a few times and made arrangement to continue outside the KTV... Kepp the long story short... she continue to ask for more and more money, after a few session until I fired back at her saying that her pussy is not made of gold and for the price she is asking, I can be king in any GL houses in one day as compared being treated like king by her for two hours... After that, she did not contact me anymore and I deleted her contact.

Beside the issue, not all PRC girls are in for the money, although there are a few (I stress... only a few...) who needed the companionship more than money...

[Agung]

I paid every single ct for my PRC to be in SG on student pass n all living expenses etc . She no longer work .... I like her company, but she get possessive ... :) I am OK with it ...

[HardyNorman]

I have a friend who did this. He got a PRC girl from a certain village, the girl say the usual story of poor, no $ lah blah blah blah, so he give her like 5k a month to use. At the same time, he also went to set up a factory outside the village, and employ the whole village ppl, and send the brother for medical treatment.

Once he does that, he reduce the 5k for her to 1k. Each time she say she wants to leave or try to squeeze him for $, he just reminds her that her family n relatives will be jobless and he will personally tell them its because of her so that they can hunt her down. She can also go pay for her brother's medical treatment herself or watch her brother die.

so he gets to fuck her as n when he wants, any way he wants and sometimes he will pass her around a few friends for fuck, all for 1k.

I dun know this friend well, and I never get to fuck the prc so dun ask me for contacts.

[EricssonMan]

Beside the issue, not all PRC girls are in for the money, although there are a few (I stress... only a few...) who needed the companionship more than money...

I sure hope to meet such lobang soon...........

[bunnyrabbit]

wah read thru the whole thread and found out that PRC gals looks really hot in singapore..

the thing is..they are well known to be gold diggers here..so why give them a chance to dig you? just have your fun and change to another one. one pussy is never enough for any guy so why pay so much for one? use the money to pay for other pussies instead of one.

since we bros know that all are in for the money (the prc gals), then do not assume that they will fall in love with you..all the sweet nothings whispered or promised during sessions, sex are all actually lies to make you part with your money..so if they lie just follow their games and lie back..remember we are in for the fun and sex..not for love and long term feelings..

as for those prc gals who are rich, let us have the fun with them with no strings attached. in the end, they are also seeking fun..so when they had enough for their fun with you, they will simply just walk off..again dun assume that they will develop feelings for you..

by the end of the day, do not believe any prc gals that they will marry you cos they love you blah blah blah..have your kids and live ever happily..there are too many cases of after getting a pr then citizenship, they will dump you like some kind of stupid rubbish and go on to find their sugar daddies..so why should we bros again fall into this kind of traps??

anyway just my 2 cents worth..:cool:

[bunnyrabbit]

They are very hot now,u can see them anywhere any place :D

haha...bro i mean their value lah...seems like all the guys in spore wan to have a piece of them lor..haha...:D

[ChiliTaco]

all for 1k.
Well done. Finally saw a Sporean who have done Sg proud :D

[Agung]

Well done. Finally saw a Sporean who have done Sg proud :D

Haha but the story sounds damn far fetch leh ...

[sexrookie]

I have a friend who did this. He got a PRC girl from a certain village, the girl say the usual story of poor, no $ lah blah blah blah, so he give her like 5k a month to use. At the same time, he also went to set up a factory outside the village, and employ the whole village ppl, and send the brother for medical treatment.

Once he does that, he reduce the 5k for her to 1k. Each time she say she wants to leave or try to squeeze him for $, he just reminds her that her family n relatives will be jobless and he will personally tell them its because of her so that they can hunt her down. She can also go pay for her brother's medical treatment herself or watch her brother die.

so he gets to fuck her as n when he wants, any way he wants and sometimes he will pass her around a few friends for fuck, all for 1k.

I dun know this friend well, and I never get to fuck the prc so dun ask me for contacts.

good strategy but pass around friends to bonk personally find not too good

:D

[no_faith]

bro hardynorman, if the story is true, i can say ur fren is a clever and cunning man.

pass her ard for his frenz to fuck, i dunno wat to say.

[HuiGe3387]

.....sometimes he will pass her around a few friends for fuck, all for 1k.

I think your friend is sick and manipulative, taking advantage of the situation.

[Loser---]

I just want to be the friend of your friend...

[dirtymonk82]

cant really blame that guy lahz...its either he eat others or be eaten by others

[X I N]

I think your friend is sick and manipulative, taking advantage of the situation.

Actually I don't believe that story at all ...

[bigass]

seems to me, they are as hot as their stock mkt now!!!

[dnagene_gal]

I have something against China nationals. But these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men. They are super-focused.

[soberguy]

I have something against China nationals. But these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men. They are super-focused.

hmmm.. why? they snatch someone off u? hehe..

[laodi123456789]

I have something against China nationals. But

U mean "U have nothing against China Nationals. But.."

[Agung]

I have something against China nationals. But these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men. They are super-focused.

I think they slowly learn the trade lah ... those lao jiaos will teach the newbies how to fleece Sg men .... it is just like SBF, lao jiaos teaching the newbies mah ..

[bigass]

I have something against China nationals. But these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men. They are super-focused.

i totally agree

[Midnightiger]

bro hardynorman, if the story is true, i can say ur fren is a clever and cunning man.

pass her ard for his frenz to fuck, i dunno wat to say.

Bro no faith,

Take it with a kilo of salt.

As what you said, IF the story is true....

Ever wonder why poster did not approached that friend for free sex but instead comes here to source for paid sex?

Friend not close? But amazingly can know so much details until like this? Ha Ha Ha!

You think a guy who does this will let a not-so-close friend know that he "mistreated" and have a sex slave?

My 2 cents worth.

[Midnightiger]

But these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men. They are super-focused.

That's why the thread's topic is wrong. It shouldn't be "China student as mistress".

It should be "s'pore old men" who are changing their names to Robert" for china student."

My 2 cents worth.

[no_faith]

"these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men."

this is the part where sg gals failed.:D

[dnagene_gal]

hmmm.. why? they snatch someone off u? hehe..

I came across some incidents. And with the true acct from the fl that was given in the 1st few pages of this thread, it backs up on my view that they are super focused.

U mean "U have nothing against China Nationals. But.."

I do. If not why would I call them s*uts?


I think they slowly learn the trade lah ... those lao jiaos will teach the newbies how to fleece Sg men .... it is just like SBF, lao jiaos teaching the newbies mah ..

Yeah..true. When you are focused to get it, you will be determined to learn whatever it is, to get it. :P

[dnagene_gal]

That's why the thread's topic is wrong. It shouldn't be "China student as mistress".

It should be "s'pore old men" who are changing their names to Robert" for china student."[/QUOT

Hahaahaaa! Falling into the trap.

[QUOTE=no_faith;2148981]"these PRC s*uts sure know how to work their way ard Sg men."

this is the part where sg gals failed.:D

Notice what I refer PRC girls as? Thats why Sg girls failed, cos they arent one.

[laodi123456789]

I do. If not why would I call them s*uts?


Maybe your "l" key is missing :D

[newbadass]

I do. If not why would I call them s*uts?

No lah... PRCs are whores. They sell their body for money, to the highest bidder. Really hardcore.

SG girls are sluts. They sell their body for a few shots of tequila, or for the bragging rights that they bedded that hunk last night, or just for free so that they can convince themselves that they are not whores like those bloody PRCs.

AIya... want to say the word "slut" spell out in full la. Sex forum also must sensor... cheh!

[no_faith]

SG girls are sluts. They sell their body.....just for free so that they can convince themselves that they are not whores like those bloody PRCs.

well said bro.
imho, no matter how we said, they will always tink the action they do are not whores or sluts cuz the gals will tell us they are SG GALS hor.
they are different.:D

[Xiao Long]

No lah... PRCs are whores. They sell their body for money, to the highest bidder. Really hardcore.

SG girls are sluts. They sell their body for a few shots of tequila, or for the bragging rights that they bedded that hunk last night, or just for free so that they can convince themselves that they are not whores like those bloody PRCs.

AIya... want to say the word "slut" spell out in full la. Sex forum also must sensor... cheh!

Hee hee ... not all lah, but definitely got some are xxxxx , I mean sluts .. :D

[OldbirdKiller]

No lah... PRCs are whores. They sell their body for money, to the highest bidder. Really hardcore.

SG girls are sluts. They sell their body for a few shots of tequila, or for the bragging rights that they bedded that hunk last night, or just for free so that they can convince themselves that they are not whores like those bloody PRCs.

AIya... want to say the word "slut" spell out in full la. Sex forum also must sensor... cheh!


tio tio,most SG people think they are superior than others...:rolleyes:

[shacker]

tio tio,most SG people think they are superior than others...:rolleyes:

Haha, an a lot of other people are jealous of SG success .. :D

[Midnightiger]

Haha, an a lot of other people are jealous of SG success ..

Why? It's not easy to be a slut?:eek: :D

[raymond_ralim]

why waste our HARD earn $$ on them let them cheat us $$ n bring sillypore $$ back to china to become another millionair. Do sit back n think of this do we get TRUE love from them. Is very sad to see a family broken up by china mei mei. There is a saying from china women 'if we don't cheat sillypore men's $$ what are we here for' THE ABOVE IS JUST WHAT I HEARD N SEE IF I HAVE OFTEN ANYONE 'SORRY'

[DiabloX]

Just to share some of my experiences in china, i'm in my 30's, losing hair and balding, average looking, no car no house, can't sing can't dance, working in china and outstationed in the major cities most of the time. haven't been pro-active in looking for lovers cos i admit i've a low sex drive due to stress at work and other problems. however, in one year, i've had 32 prc ladies, from 16yo students, OLs, 19yo virgin (now ex-virgin) daughters of local billionaires, local celebrities, air-stewardesses, to 40+ yo doctors, etc. i've hardly encountered a situation where they'd even ask money from me, most of the time i just pay for the meals and that's enough. i do admit that i have GDRS (gold digger radar service) installed, and steer away from those. no sense in wasting hard-earned cash on women, whether in china or anywhere else for the matter. most of the prc ladies i've encountered are decent, sophisticated, hungry for eligible males, and totally amoral. i've observed many fellow singaporeans in china, and one thing i can say is, 90% of the time they treat prc women LIKE SHIT. we singaporeans would go around bragging how high our salaries are, how these girls should grovel at our feet and beg for our cocks, and how much more well educated and exposed we are compared to them. obviously these s'poreans have never encountered ladies with more cash than they'd ever smell in their entire lives, even after collecting CPF. maybe our attitude comes from NSF days of smoking at the drain and tcss about screwing big breasted DXOs in the storeroom, but my point is, it's time to reflect and look at ourselves as well. treat the ladies with respect and sincerity, it'd then be easy to get all that u desire. just some simple statistics: there are 1.3 billion ppl in china, just take half as female, that's 650 million. take 1% as drop dead gorgeous and completely angelic, and u have 6.5 million objects of fantasy. that's more than the population of SG.

cheers

[Niceman]

DiabloX Bro...

well said, thanks... is very educational..... will take note. :)

[Horsepower]

Bro DiaBlox, I like what you said about treating others with respect.

[Niceman]

I think he means be Gentleman , not respect.... they dun deserve any respect, but we must have our standard, gentleman, cannot be rude....

I think so...............

[DiabloX]

Hmm i think we should be gentlemen, and treat those who ought to be respected, with respect. I haven't had any bad experiences with women after money, but i've friends who have suffered badly at the hands of gold-diggers. On the flip side of the previous post, I take a very poor view of ladies who take us guys for granted, expect us to treat them like royalty, without any effort on their part. Another thing i've observed about PRC ladies, is that their mindset and mentality changes once they step out of china, cos their market value increases immeasurably. Those who are considered fair or average, suddenly become beauties when they go to HK, SG, IND, etc. It's now very common for village girls to flood to cities like Shenzhen which is close to HK, to work for a few months, then return to their villages to continue life as "virtuous virgins". Haha the ratio of girls to guys in Shenzhen is 7:1. China men typically do not treat their girls well, so once the girls leave china, and suddenly men compete and splurge to gain their attention and sexual favours, their characters tend to change. They also see how they can use their bodies to gain a better standard of living, once back in China. The society in China now is relatively amoral, getting closer and closer to Japanese standards. Most girls are willing to sleep with you for fun or companionship; most won't try to squeeze u dry, but if u portray yourself as a rich carrot ready to be chopped .. then why not? Recently i met the CEO of a media company, who studied in SG in the late 90's. She told me how even taxi drivers would offer her money for sex, or call guys on the spot to proposition her, once they knew she was from China. Guys in bars or on the streets would educate her on their "status", how great they were, and why she should be their mistresses or sex partners. She's no angel, and i'm sure she screwed some of these guys, but her thinking was: These men are so desperate and low, so why not f**k them and make good use of them? I'm no angel either, but i try my best to listen and establish a basis of mutual respect with ladies. And reap what i sow ;)

cheers

[DiabloX]

Hmm i think we should be gentlemen, and treat those who ought to be respected, with respect. I haven't had any bad experiences with women after money, but i've friends who have suffered badly at the hands of gold-diggers. On the flip side of the previous post, I take a very poor view of ladies who take us guys for granted, expect us to treat them like royalty, without any effort on their part. Another thing i've observed about PRC ladies, is that their mindset and mentality changes once they step out of china, cos their market value increases immeasurably. Those who are considered fair or average, suddenly become beauties when they go to HK, SG, IND, etc. It's now very common for village girls to flood to cities like Shenzhen which is close to HK, to work for a few months, then return to their villages to continue life as "virtuous virgins". Haha the ratio of girls to guys in Shenzhen is 7:1. China men typically do not treat their girls well, so once the girls leave china, and suddenly men compete and splurge to gain their attention and sexual favours, their characters tend to change. They also see how they can use their bodies to gain a better standard of living, once back in China. The society in China now is relatively amoral, getting closer and closer to Japanese standards. Most girls are willing to sleep with you for fun or companionship; most won't try to squeeze u dry, but if u portray yourself as a rich carrot ready to be chopped .. then why not? Recently i met the CEO of a media company, who studied in SG in the late 90's. She told me how even taxi drivers would offer her money for sex, or call guys on the spot to proposition her, once they knew she was from China. Guys in bars or on the streets would educate her on their "status", how great they were, and why she should be their mistresses or sex partners. She's no angel, and i'm sure she screwed some of these guys, but her thinking was: These men are so desperate and low, so why not f**k them and make good use of them? I'm no angel either, but i try my best to listen and establish a basis of mutual respect with ladies. And reap what i sow ;)

cheers

[Agung]

I think he means be Gentleman , not respect.... they dun deserve any respect, but we must have our standard, gentleman, cannot be rude....

I think so...............


Paiseh, but some do deserve respect, and u are rite we must be gentleman ....

[paisehlah]

i've hardly encountered a situation where they'd even ask money from me, most of the time i just pay for the meals and that's enough.

one thing i can say is, 90% of the time they treat prc women LIKE SHIT.

obviously these s'poreans have never encountered ladies with more cash than they'd ever smell in their entire lives, even after collecting CPF.

Dear Bro DiabloX,
Totally agree with you.
Most PRC are CASH rich........:o
Thanks for sharing......

Cheers

[Green Bird]

Dear Bro DiabloX,
Totally agree with you.
Most PRC are CASH rich........:o
Thanks for sharing......

Cheers

You are rite, I got PRC GF, heard from frens all asking for alot of $ from BF, now she also for pay raise liao .... treat us as Gold Mountain

[soberguy]

... And reap what i sow ;)

cheers

So did you manage to bonk her? :)

[OceanEleven]

Seen far too many cases of fellas panicking between bonks and cons. Perhaps we should rightfully ask ourselves what we expect from these girls. If simply for a FB or companionship, then what do we have to offer? If you are already married but happened to hook up with such a gal, then what do you want from such a relationship? Get the best bonk of your life till you get tired of her and you move on to next fresh meat or willing to get commit to her as a potential life partner. Well, she has what you want but what’s installed for her then?

Like your own OC, GF, CO etc, if you are unable to contribute to the relationship in terms of love, care and most importantly money, and then what good are you to her then. Continue for you to graze on her or perhaps time for her to move on to greener pastures. Survival is the issue here; sometimes even the best of pals will fall out at the slightest things, let alone relationship base on sex and money.

Not all are the same, rather than bitching about what happened, perhaps we should proceed with caution. Like most Sing men, we let feelings and emotions to rule rather than logic and common sense. We prefer to believe what we think is right rather than what is right. So move on then, continue to do as your wish but be prepare for the back draft as well. :cool:

[DiabloX]

Hehe bro, it was all pillow talk ;) she's a very nice lao chio, living alone in a 4 story villa. when i'm in her city, she "lends" me her jaguar xkr convertible to drive around. the other choices are the bmw 760 or the maserati parked in her compound, so i picked the cheapest one.

[DiabloX]

Oceaneleven bro, well said! :)

[lacoruna69]

Hehe bro, it was all pillow talk she's a very nice lao chio, living alone in a 4 story villa.

Really admire you Bro. Down here is SGP, no matter how well we treat our own ladies, we are still treated like shit.

[raymond_ralim]

why waste our HARD earn $$ on them let them cheat us $$ n bring sillypore $$ back to china to become another millionair. Do sit back n think of this do we get TRUE love from them. Is very sad to see a family broken up by china mei mei. There is a saying from china women 'if we don't cheat sillypore men's $$ what are we here for' THE ABOVE IS JUST WHAT I HEARD N SEE IF I HAVE OFTEN ANYONE 'SORRY'

Hey what did i said wrongly i kena deduct point for nothing someone quote" i offence him "i here just to express my OWN though only..is this form all abt..anyway i quit cause i believe this form belong to all the senior with points n use it to deduct people point once they heard something they don't like

[DiabloX]

Really admire you Bro. Down here is SGP, no matter how well we treat our own ladies, we are still treated like shit.

Yeah bro, that's why after years of being maltreated in home territory, i decided to venture into the unexplored depths of the wild wild east :cool: but now, even though i can speak shanghainese and communicate effectively in chinese, i still feel there's a cultural and communication barrier with the ladies .. many times i prefer a good conversation rather than sex (low sex drive due to age i guess), but at times it's like hitting a brick wall when u want them to understand what u are talking about. the fun comes from banging the wall down, i guess ;)

cheers

[soberguy]

...but at times it's like hitting a brick wall when u want them to understand what u are talking about. the fun comes from banging the wall down, i guess ;)

cheers

Hmmmm... their religion is $$$ and your religion is :confused:

[jon2000sg]

looks like some bros here
are suffering from
brain damage ???

as long as you tell them
you got no $money$
they'll disappear lah ???

why bother to be nice to them ???


rite now a MM asking me to visit her in China,
I tell her I got no money
then after change hp ---- haha WTF !

[DiabloX]

Hmmmm... their religion is $$$ and your religion is :confused:

hmm honestly, i used to enjoy the challenge of getting free f**ks from these ladies .. but nowadays the thrill is wearing thin. hehe religion? i follow the teachings of chairman mao :D

[DiabloX]

looks like some bros here
are suffering from
brain damage ???

as long as you tell them
you got no $money$
they'll disappear lah ???

why bother to be nice to them ???


rite now a MM asking me to visit her in China,
I tell her I got no money
then after change hp ---- haha WTF !


yeah bro, i know exactly what u mean. usually my opening line is "i've no money", then the game begins. my opinion is that not all ladies are after money, and we guys can still treat them with "feng du" regardless of what they are like. haha it's so cheap and easy to get mobile lines in china, i know some girls who change numbers once a week, or hold different lines for different sugar daddies ...

[phallusman]

$$$$
Share with you guys a true story and is still happening...
I know a PRC student and she is seeing 4 men at one time.
Best of all the 4 men knew she is seeing the other 3.
Each of the 4 men has their role. One will pay her room rental, one for her hp etc etc... I ask her any of the 4 ever ask her to leave the 3. She replied yes provided he can alone pay all the expenses of the 3 and she will be 100% his. This PRC is only 19 years old and I believe there are more PRC doing the same thing. Anyway she will only let the one paid the most to bed her. The rest can only touch touch.:D;)
Walan eh, haven't seen any bugger more dumb than this. "can only touch touch". In GL, you can get a great FL, very young, very pretty for all of $100 and with superlative service if you tell her you give big fat tip.

[GTOKING]

Walan eh, haven't seen any bugger more dumb than this. "can only touch touch". In GL, you can get a great FL, very young, very pretty for all of $100 and with superlative service if you tell her you give big fat tip.

hahaha , this is so call an agreement .

but one things to be sure , sometimes guy will lost what they do.
because i got the same feeling too............:)

[soberguy]

yeah bro, i know exactly what u mean. usually my opening line is "i've no money", then the game begins. my opinion is that not all ladies are after money, and we guys can still treat them with "feng du" regardless of what they are like....

Same as my opening line too but then.. sometimes they like to stick around to probe deeper wor. I know one FL who said I so poor.. no car or anything etc.. but yet when she said her friend's sg guy drive a Nissan Cefiro & I said, hey.. that is not expensive! Then her $$$ antenna raise up. Told me that I made her so confused... claim that to be poor but said that car is cheap.. lol..

But then again, they don't understand how we think too. Cefiro is cheap compared to continental car of the same class & compare price now with few years ago, it is cheaper. To her, she probably think bigger car is better.

[phallusman]

Seen far too many cases of fellas panicking between bonks and cons. Perhaps we should rightfully ask ourselves what we expect from these girls. If simply for a FB or companionship, then what do we have to offer? If you are already married but happened to hook up with such a gal, then what do you want from such a relationship? Get the best bonk of your life till you get tired of her and you move on to next fresh meat or willing to get commit to her as a potential life partner. Well, she has what you want but what’s installed for her then?

Like your own OC, GF, CO etc, if you are unable to contribute to the relationship in terms of love, care and most importantly money, and then what good are you to her then. Continue for you to graze on her or perhaps time for her to move on to greener pastures. Survival is the issue here; sometimes even the best of pals will fall out at the slightest things, let alone relationship base on sex and money.

Not all are the same, rather than bitching about what happened, perhaps we should proceed with caution. Like most Sing men, we let feelings and emotions to rule rather than logic and common sense. We prefer to believe what we think is right rather than what is right. So move on then, continue to do as your wish but be prepare for the back draft as well. :cool:
Well said, Ocean11 - Well, I was with one gal for like 6months or so. Since the very beginning, I told her straight in the face that if she tries to get big bucks, please look elsewhere. She was 25 and I am 20yrs older. She said that she feels very comfortable to be with me. One thing is that I got to be taller than her and she is tall by any standard, from Dongbei. At first, I was sort of puzzled as to why she liked to stick to me. I am just an average looking guy and she could only get just a meal or other cheapo stuff from me. She explained to me that what she wanted was just to have someone to cling on to, just like a ship needs an anchor, a shoulder to cry on.

For a PRC gal to be far away from home, they have their hardships, their difficulties, stress, risk of getting arrested, etc. So, getting some moral support is sort of essential. I guess this is a win-win relationship.

[CyberSleuth]

Well said, Ocean11 - Well, I was with one gal for like 6months or so. Since the very beginning, I told her straight in the face that if she tries to get big bucks, please look elsewhere. She was 25 and I am 20yrs older. She said that she feels very comfortable to be with me. One thing is that I got to be taller than her and she is tall by any standard, from Dongbei. At first, I was sort of puzzled as to why she liked to stick to me. I am just an average looking guy and she could only get just a meal or other cheapo stuff from me. She explained to me that what she wanted was just to have someone to cling on to, just like a ship needs an anchor, a shoulder to cry on.

For a PRC gal to be far away from home, they have their hardships, their difficulties, stress, risk of getting arrested, etc. So, getting some moral support is sort of essential. I guess this is a win-win relationship.

Agreed, most times in such cases they are in it so there is at least one person whom she is close too and no material gains in consideration but spiritual and moral support. If this is the case, just do your best and enjoy

[O2-XDA]

She explained to me that what she wanted was just to have someone to cling on to, just like a ship needs an anchor, a shoulder to cry on. For a PRC gal to be far away from home, they have their hardships, their difficulties, stress, risk of getting arrested, etc. So, getting some moral support is sort of essential. I guess this is a win-win relationship.

These PRC gals are human too, they do have feeling too, beside some very "bad" sheeps. The key is to care and concern about them...is not difficult......but one gotta to be sincere.....they are no dumb and dumbers...

[GTOKING]

These PRC gals are human too, they do have feeling too, beside some very "bad" sheeps. The key is to care and concern about them...is not difficult......but one gotta to be sincere.....they are no dumb and dumbers...

agreed , but in their mind ........u love them then u have to contribute more to them, in fact , now a day , money is a back up energy for care and concern
:)

[O2-XDA]

money is a back up energy for care and concern
:)

true.....i dont disagree with your statement.......:D