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Clubber108
05-05-2006, 02:32 AM
Technique
Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.
with reference to http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm
hope this helps
admiralty
05-05-2006, 02:46 AM
hmmm..... looks like practice makes perfect......
Me now start learning liao......
Cheerio,
Clubber108
05-05-2006, 02:48 AM
yea yea... hope this thread can become hottest topic ard ...
sex is an art
practice makes perfect...
nirvana to all in the clan of sex making karma
big dick
05-05-2006, 02:50 AM
bro clubber108... read and understood your posting.. but wont it be better if u can put a posting on how for bros to feel high instead of how to get a woman to feel high... sorry for being sexist here.. but really feel tat a lot of bros here ( and tat include me) would prefer to know how to make oursevles very very high... :p
good effort.. bro..
u on my uplist..:rolleyes:
Clubber108
05-05-2006, 02:54 AM
ok i will do a research on it...
Satan_Gal
05-05-2006, 02:54 AM
this works meh :confused:
maybe im the odd one out lor :(
Clubber108
05-05-2006, 03:00 AM
bro clubber108... read and understood your posting.. but wont it be better if u can put a posting on how for bros to feel high instead of how to get a woman to feel high... sorry for being sexist here.. but really feel tat a lot of bros here ( and tat include me) would prefer to know how to make oursevles very very high... :p
good effort.. bro..
u on my uplist..:rolleyes:
Male Masturbation Techniques
Single fist:
The use of a single fist is perhaps the most basic male masturbation technique. You simply wrap your fingers around your erect penis firmly and slide your hand up and down over your cock. This technique produces the most contact between your hand and your penis.
Fist over Fist:
In this technique you can alternate fists, sliding first one and then the other from the base of the penis to the tip. In this manner you can strike up a similar rhythm that approximates the single fisted method. To add a sligthly different twist, try moving one fist upwards and the other downwards.
Two fists together:
If your penis is of a fairly large size, you may be able to place both of your fists on your penis at the same time and slide them back and forth on your penis in unison.
Finger Techniques
There are many variations of the finger techniques which usually only vary by position of a finger or thumb and can depend on the firmness of the grip. Here are a few examples for you to try. Experiment with different combinations to find what works best for you.
Two Fingers:
This method generally uses just the thumb and forefinger and can be substituted for the single hand. You can stroke the shaft from base to tip or merely run move the thumb and forefinger back and forth over just the head of the penis
Thumbs and Fingers:
Encircle your penis with the thumb and two fingers from each hand. Then stroke up and down, varying the speed and the pressure until you reach orgasm.
Vaginal Simulations
There is nothing better than placing your penis inside a pussy. Although sometimes this doesn't always work out as you'd like. These are some techniques in which you can fantasize that you are pumping into a pussy. Try them out and see which ones you like best.
Hot Dripping Pussy:
Make sure that your hands are well lubricated with a water soluble lubricant. The slicker the better in this case. Grasp your penis and try to simulate the feelings you get when a pussy has a tight grip on your penis and is squeezing and releasing it spasmodically.
Insertion Objects:
There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will similate vaginal intercourse. The best thing is that most of them are readily available. Toilet paper rolls are one idea. Cutting a hole large enough for for erect penis to fit through in a watermelon or cantaloupe is another. Experiment, experiment, experiment!
Liver:
Ok, I know that this one might sound a little bit gross and repulsive but check it out. Have a good look the next time you buy raw liver. The texture and flexibility of it makes it a great substitute for the real thing. You could probably even warm it up a little before wrapping it around your penis.
Pillowing:
In this instance, it's a little tamer than the liver, you place a couple of pillows down on the bed or location of your choice and insert your penis in between them. Then thrust your penis in and out simulating intercourse.
Water Techniques
Cool, clear water. It's definitely good for what ails you. Here are a couple of ideas for you for the next time you're in the shower or taking a bath
Falling Water:
This method can be accomplished in a number of ways. Place yourself so that the water will spray over your penis. This can be accomplished by positioning yourself near enough to the tub faucet, the shower nozzle, or even a garden hose if you don't mind the cold water..
Shower Head:
This one can be a lot of fun. I know I sure enjoy it as a female. You need a hand-held shower head for this one. Direct the spray at the back of your penis, the spot where the head and the shaft meet. This can produce some very pleasurable feelings.
Soapy Shower:
The shower is always a great place for masturbation, it's warm and comfy. A great place to fantasize as you stroke your lathered up penis until you cum.
Belly Scratch:
First of all you need to get into a comfortable position on your back. Make sure you've got lots of lube and make your penis very slick. Then curl the tips of your fingers lightly around the top half of the shaft and stroke the full length of your penis. The lower half of the penis will rub against your belly, hence the scratching.
Playing Ball:
In this one, you get to scratch at your balls. Gently scratch your fingernails over the surface of your balls. Alternate between doing this and massaging gently around the area surrounding each ball individually. Try tossing them around gently allowing them to roll slightly in the scrotal sack. You can also massage the spot beneath your balls at the cleft above your asshole.
Squeeze Techniques
In these techniques you get to put the squeeze on. Enjoy!
Thigh Squeeze:
Please bear in mind that this particular method can be painful and not all men will be able to accomplish it. So if it hurts, please stop. Some men are capable of getting their penises between their thighs and can get off by jiggling or squeezing their thighs around their penises. Make sure that you have the testicles out of the way when trying this technique.
Greased Elbows:
This is another variation on the above technique although it is not found to be as satisfactory but is less painful. The idea is to insert your penis between well greased elbows. This can be done in a standing, sitting or lying face down position
stryder79
05-05-2006, 03:03 AM
Wa... ur tips will confirm make gals squirt a pail of cumjuices bro... Thumbs Up!!!!:D
big dick
05-05-2006, 03:13 AM
Male Masturbation Techniques
Single fist:
The use of a single fist is perhaps the most basic male masturbation
Thanks bro Clubber108
jimmyccc
05-05-2006, 10:32 AM
Male Masturbation Techniques
Insertion Objects:
There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will similate vaginal intercourse. The best thing is that most of them are readily available. Toilet paper rolls are one idea. Cutting a hole large enough for for erect penis to fit through in a watermelon or cantaloupe is another. Experiment, experiment, experiment!
Liver:
Ok, I know that this one might sound a little bit gross and repulsive but check it out. Have a good look the next time you buy raw liver. The texture and flexibility of it makes it a great substitute for the real thing. You could probably even warm it up a little before wrapping it around your penis.
Pillowing:
In this instance, it's a little tamer than the liver, you place a couple of pillows down on the bed or location of your choice and insert your penis in between them. Then thrust your penis in and out simulating intercourse.
try apple pie... LOL :D
alvman
05-05-2006, 11:21 AM
Bro clubber108 thanks for the tips. Will definitely try it out! Never could get the very wet orgasm with my partner..... What if she is really dry.....? Thanks Again!
Clubber108
05-05-2006, 12:10 PM
follow the cup noodles tip lo
jus add water
Asianguy
05-05-2006, 01:05 PM
[QUOTE=Satan_Gal]this works meh
maybe im the odd one out lor
Or it could just be that you have not found the right partner. There are lots to choose from in this forum. And most are definitely willing. :D
zhivago
05-05-2006, 01:51 PM
[QUOTE=big dick]bro clubber108... wont it be better if u can put a posting on how for bros to feel high instead of how to get a woman to feel high... sorry for being sexist here.. but really feel tat a lot of bros here ( and tat include me) would prefer to know how to make oursevles very very high... :p
QUOTE]
that means ur partner in sex gotta be experience lor...
nirvana
05-05-2006, 08:43 PM
this works meh
maybe im the odd one out lor :(
mayb we try....:D
_CHK_
05-05-2006, 08:54 PM
Thanks bro..
bahkuteh
06-05-2006, 09:14 AM
Thanks I learn something new today.:D
zhivago
06-05-2006, 10:43 AM
There'a a few article in another thread named "Sexuality For Men" that has some good tips to please women too...
The link as below:
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=50600&highlight=sexuality
edack
06-05-2006, 01:29 PM
fantanstic orgaisn ......:D
can try this...
get two balloons
filled them with warm water
tight them in knots
then put your prick in between them
rubs it
shiok...until you cums:D
ahpek63
06-05-2006, 08:07 PM
Thanks bros for such detailed info. :)
Clubber108
07-05-2006, 01:59 AM
can try this...
get two balloons
filled them with warm water
tight them in knots
then put your prick in between them
rubs it
shiok...until you cums:D
this is so cool... haha... then need ky not
wow69
07-05-2006, 02:10 AM
Technique
with reference to http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm
hope this helpsInteresting and informative...Gd job Bro !
MM&MM
07-05-2006, 10:11 AM
Totally agree with Clubber108.:D
hey bro... thanks for the tips :D
Satan_Gal
08-05-2006, 10:56 AM
mayb we try....:D
u....
only wanna make my mouth tired for 1 hr...u wanna try on me meh :o
Boss_555
08-05-2006, 12:12 PM
Bro, very nice effort. Cheers
tan_w_c
08-05-2006, 12:20 PM
Just curious to know, do all the gals (gf, wives, mistress, fl and wl not included) u guys sleep with have orgasm?
Clubber108
08-05-2006, 06:56 PM
sometimes...
its all about the mood seriously
5stars
09-05-2006, 01:57 PM
Fantastic! More tactics on hand to make my gf cum tonight. hee hee.
Personally, being able to "tolerate" till she cum is more tough than giving her orgasm. Usually, when i have the urge to cum, i will slow down, but it might be the right timing for her to cum. Once you slow down or stop, she will by the "orgasm stage". Must do lot of training lah.
Also, it will be easier to make her cum when i bonk her the 2nd time after some rest lah :D
Clubber108
09-05-2006, 03:49 PM
try to section ur love making
break into sections
finger first then fuck the pet the finger then fuck
she sure want more and want it everyday
for gf i dunnoe if this will work but the above method i use on ons
they will come back for more
AAconnection
09-05-2006, 05:31 PM
Environment plays a part. Female like cozy, dim light, warm colour, nice smell, soft feeling, music, security, and comfortability. If any girl walk with you to into this environment, it is very difficult for her not to get orgasm once a little touching and tickering. Because when the girl like you (this is very important, rather you like the girl) The moment she enter this kind of enviroment, her imagination goes wild. A little couching and touching will definately make her orgasm.
asdfghjkl
10-05-2006, 12:48 PM
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AAconnection
10-05-2006, 05:57 PM
Fantastic diagram it explain everything...unfortunately I have no power to up you...excellent!
poison
29-05-2006, 11:36 PM
finger first then fuck the pet the finger then fuck
she sure want more and want it everyday
they will come back for more
btw, will finger fuck too much cause her to bleed internally?
Clubber108
30-05-2006, 01:37 AM
cut your nails can le
sk_33
30-05-2006, 12:16 PM
Good diagram - now if only my fingers abit longer...:p
desmond0604
30-05-2006, 02:05 PM
Hope this video clip helps:
http://www.savefile.com/files.php?fid=8074287
MimeBoxer
30-05-2006, 06:02 PM
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Mr Asdfghjkl, u chinese Sinseh? :D
poison
01-06-2006, 03:33 AM
cut your nails can le
what if she bleeds?
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