how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?

[GianfrancoZola]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

[weihc]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

not sure why :(
I'm my bor's number 4 relationship, I'm not her first. but she's my first.
don't see what's wrong, as long as she's done it out of love for her exes and not a slut/public toilet... then I don't see any issue.

[watssupp]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

U can only blame yourself for being a virgin
:D

[Greendevil]

spend $50 go geylang, deed done, that it, no longer first or only woman ever fuck. spend $500, you fuck more gals than your gf.

there is no problem with your gf for having a past. if there any problem, it your own ego, go watch the movie FROZEN 10 times ,sing the song LET IT GO 100 times, maybe that will help too.

[hornyhubby]

4th or 10th does not make her a lesser person. I too am my wife's 4th relationship. I.....she is the best to me compared to all the past girls n exgirls n exwife.

Accept her for what she is or else....move on. If you want to hold this as a grudge against her....then go GL and equalise :D

[4getful]

Ppl already marrying wl, fl, prostitute. Don't see marry a non virgin gal got any issue. It is just a hole, it makes no different. The only different is u know your gal has been share with other men. Just go for body checkup n use condom.

[fieryguy80]

Virgin make a better wife?? TS you should look at her for what she is.. Don't bother about her past..

So what she is virgin, but her character makes something out of nothing, causing whole family disharmony..

I rather have a wife whose character is those can help and bond family..

Able to walk together 10-20 years down the road together is both's character..

[sammyboyfor]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

There is nothing to "get over" because her virginity, and yours are but temporary states.

When you move on to your next relationship you won't be virgin either.

[orangeproud]

TS must be looking or hoping his gf is someone who is very pure & chaste, with high moral value. Want to find such woman with good character is hard or rare to come by. Men are very funny creature, if the gf dun give him sex or virginity to him, he will claim the gf is not love him enough or too conservative then will dump her. Double-standard? Normally, if guy just looking for flirt, fb, fwb, lover, cohabit partner, he dun mind she is non-virgin, looking for experience gal, feel more thrilled. But coming to real gf or wife still hoping she is virgin, never share her body with other, his own property. Normally, guy want face will claim aiyo what century liao, who care for virginity? Where still got this type old fashioned thinking? Man is still man, mouth say dun mind, in their heart they still mind, and even see as a thorn to them.

[orangeproud]

And to add on women lost their virginity might be due to ignorance, naively, playfulness or fun seeker. If TS gf is those character and u r serious, family-oriented type, your both character are clashed, she might not suitable for u in long term relationship. Normally, opposite attract, introvert like outrovert, cheerful type like gloomy type, talkative type like quiet type.......looking for partner with elements they lack of. Initially, both with opposite character will find their partner interesting, out of curiosity, they get together, when they get to know them well, they quarrel and drift apart. Ying Liao jie er fen kai.

[a2014]

TS, so when you get there first, do you get a medal. Yes you may get there first, what if later people get there second or even third or forth. So how, you go for divorce and also first right.

In this current society you don't expect to be like in the pioneer generation where you expect women to be virgin before marriage and only faithful to the husband no matter at what circumstance.

Both hand has to clap so you don't expect wonders other than you go work out for it. You can slowly wait for a virgin no problem, maybe one day, nobody knows.

Take care and be happy.

[orangeproud]

Dun say nowadays no more virgin gal left. I sure still have. But do u like them if they r
Average looking/ plain looking type
Bbw type
Old fashioned type
Conservative type
Too introvert type
Religious type
&
Etc?????:rolleyes:

[_GG5_]

I was pissed when my gf told me her ex bf took her virginity. In fact she's the one who wants to do it.

But slowly, I'm ok now. Even though her ex really fuck her like madman last time.

When I hear her story, it's like she was a sex machine.

[FunnyHippo]

Are you worried that your girl is not a virgin or you are still a virgin?

Tiagong nowadays XDD very brave one...
If you slower than them by 1 step they jiak all the XMM very fast.
Then 10 years down the road everyone will be like you...
KPKB about the girl not being a V.

:D

[hhlover]

I was pissed when my gf told me her ex bf took her virginity. In fact she's the one who wants to do it.

But slowly, I'm ok now. Even though her ex really fuck her like madman last time.

When I hear her story, it's like she was a sex machine.

Didnt it sound good.. now u will be her sex machine.. haha enjoy bro..

[orangeproud]

Hi bro GG5

How u know is your gf wants to do it? R she the liberal, open minded type, always d one initial to have sex. U mentioned that when u heard her story, sounded like she is d sex machine. The story must be very hot, can share with us? So keen to hear your story:D

[Lauhuu]

TS, what's wrong with a non Virgin? Do you know that finding a dinosaur is easier than finding a pretty virgin?

[4getful]

TS, just spread open her leg n fuck la. U buy toy u can ask for new ones. Buy car can request for brand new car. Buy hse can ask new flat or resale ones. But human can lies, if she is a fl but told u she virgin, if that make u happier? Even a big n fat ugly woman, might not be a virgin nowadays.

[_GG5_]

Didnt it sound good.. now u will be her sex machine.. haha enjoy bro..

Haha. true

Hi bro GG5

How u know is your gf wants to do it? R she the liberal, open minded type, always d one initial to have sex. U mentioned that when u heard her story, sounded like she is d sex machine. The story must be very hot, can share with us? So keen to hear your story:D

[orangeproud]

If the dinosaurs go for plastic surgery, then dinosaurs will become pretty virgins. Nowadays, ugly never mind as long as u hv money, u can be a beauty overnite.....but u lost your own uniqueness.

There are a lot of artificial beauties. Like recent news-taiwan famous actor, Luo ZhiXiang (Show Luo) current gf is an artificial beauty, her before & after surgery photos contrast so big, but Show Luo dun mind....haiz guy is like this one.

If everyone is rich, there will be no ugly person in this world, just spend money to hv your face undergo a knife:p

[Splitter100]

I was pissed when my gf told me her ex bf took her virginity. In fact she's the one who wants to do it.

But slowly, I'm ok now. Even though her ex really fuck her like madman last time.

When I hear her story, it's like she was a sex machine.

let's hear more of your experience on sbf then
:D

[GianfrancoZola]

not sure why :(
I'm my bor's number 4 relationship, I'm not her first. but she's my first.
don't see what's wrong, as long as she's done it out of love for her exes and not a slut/public toilet... then I don't see any issue.

what do gals mean when they use the word "casual dates"?

Virgin make a better wife?? TS you should look at her for what she is.. Don't bother about her past..

So what she is virgin, but her character makes something out of nothing, causing whole family disharmony..

I rather have a wife whose character is those can help and bond family..

Able to walk together 10-20 years down the road together is both's character..

if her character is good, she would have waited

[GianfrancoZola]

And to add on women lost their virginity might be due to ignorance, naively, playfulness or fun seeker. If TS gf is those character and u r serious, family-oriented type, your both character are clashed, she might not suitable for u in long term relationship. Normally, opposite attract, introvert like outrovert, cheerful type like gloomy type, talkative type like quiet type.......looking for partner with elements they lack of. Initially, both with opposite character will find their partner interesting, out of curiosity, they get together, when they get to know them well, they quarrel and drift apart. Ying Liao jie er fen kai.

she told me at 21 is consider late

y r gals so pressured these days?

[orangeproud]

If TS really mind gf is non virgin, u can bring for hymen restoration surgery, then she becomes virgin again but hmm......is an ARTIFICIAL VIRGIN lah.

Plastic surgery can transform u into an artificial beauty but cannot change your gene. Hymen restoration surgery can transform u into an artificial virgin but cannot restore back your innocence. The shyness that come from the real virgin going through first time no more there unless she is best actress.

Technology advanced , a lot of things money can buy, but there is one thing money can't buy-INNOCENCE.

TS, do u want an artificial virgin if u hv extra $ to spend?:D:rolleyes:

[sadfa]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

You get over it by growing up. Seriously.

Anyway if this is big deal to you, it means she's juz a fling 2 u. So fuck her so u can put a notch on yr belt n go buy yourself a south east Asian virgin bride.

Unless yr first fuck must oso b virgin, then happy hunting.

[FartiPartner]

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

So you did not fark a virgin ..she did.

[larue]

if her character is good, she would have waited

No good can come out of this relationship, you are such a 'good' guy you'd better dump that 'slut'. Seriously end it.

[powerpuffboi]

Does it really matter so much to you?

A relationship is more than just the sum of its parts, its not only about accepting her for who she is, but also her past.

If you love her, you should instead appreciate that she felt secure enough in the relationship to have told you the truth - she could have told you that you were her first and you would have been none the wiser.

If however, it matters so much to you that its eating you up thinking about it all the time to the point you can't lead your life, spare yourself the misery and end it. However, even if you get a new gf who is a V, one day you'll have the same conversation eventually as well.

So the question you have to ask yourself is... is her V worth more than her as a person, to love and to hold?

PPB

[SiGinna]

Does it really matter so much to you?

A relationship is more than just the sum of its parts, its not only about accepting her for who she is, but also her past.

If you love her, you should instead appreciate that she felt secure enough in the relationship to have told you the truth - she could have told you that you were her first and you would have been none the wiser.

If however, it matters so much to you that its eating you up thinking about it all the time to the point you can't lead your life, spare yourself the misery and end it. However, even if you get a new gf who is a V, one day you'll have the same conversation eventually as well.

So the question you have to ask yourself is... is her V worth more than her as a person, to love and to hold?

PPB

Well said !!!!! :)

[nichnich]

tiagong join Alkeila can get 72 virgins

Maybe TS can go try

[monstrous]

I dun need to be her first...just her last...

[orangeproud]

I agree with Bro Larue stated that no good will come out of this relationship, she seems to be a very playful n experience gal, have lot of casual date. Maybe she has more than 1 boyfriend. She with u maybe feel that u r more innocent, nvr try virgin boy before. She seems to flirt around, enjoy the thrill of sex, whereas u r looking for commitment more than sex. If u want to hv raw sex with her, u better take her and u to hv a STD test. Nowadays gals are more liberal.

You better dun put in more emotion in this type of relationship, observe more first in case u get hurt. Guy also will get hurt in a relationship, I heard some end up in imh. Not need to be so serious with her if she is just a flirt.

Xiaodidi, stay rational, dun blind by love, take care:)

[orangeproud]

U ask y r gals so pressured these days, she is probably just SEX DESPERATE. Dun be so serious with her, in this relationship, she is a player and u r her prey. BTW, where did u know her? In pub? Ktv? She is local?

U maybe meet the wrong gal if u looking for commitment in a relationship.