Guarantor for my foreign gf?

[cockup]

Hi guys, I want to bring my Vietnamese gf into Singapore for a short term social visit but I am afraid she last min kena turn back by our custom. I heard recently custom very strict. Is there any way to make sure she will not be reject, example like me act as a guarantor for her etc.

Its her 1st time to Singapore, in fact she just got her passport and never been to overseas at all.

Thanks ahead for any help/suggestion.

[Frostfeel]

Hi guys, I want to bring my Vietnamese gf into Singapore for a short term social visit but I am afraid she last min kena turn back by our custom. I heard recently custom very strict. Is there any way to make sure she will not be reject, example like me act as a guarantor for her etc.

Its her 1st time to Singapore, in fact she just got her passport and never been to overseas at all.

Thanks ahead for any help/suggestion.

First of all are you married? If yes you cannot guarantor her. Many factor in it. You can go ica n take the form and fill up.

[miumiu6464]

How sure can you be that she will not work secretly while you are in the office?
3pm already happy hour at budget ktv liao.

[BMW69]

Not a good idea TS. You don't know her true intentions of coming here. Don't let your small head take over your big head.

[archer69]

Dont worry too much, tried before and did not have an issue.
You would not know until to tried.

[lovestobonk]

think its never a good idea to be a guarantor.

[codenameahbao]

hi bro, my vn gf got rejected at the airport when she came in May. you can go to the immigration customer service where he will give u a number to call to reach the ICA office in the airport. the officer will ask u a few questions like whats her name, where and when did u guys met, where will she be staying, whats your relationship with her. if the answer given by both side tally, she will probably be allowed to come into singapore.

of course, like what other bros here said, be careful and keep an eye on her. my gf stayed at my house and i went everywhere with her

[cockup]

Thanks guys for your concern. If bro codenameahbao said is correct, then at least I no need to be her guarantor. Actually this viet girl I just got to know her from someone intro. She suppose to be a virgin and most likely I will be marrying her once I find her to be acceptable.

[ryu0000]

Thanks guys for your concern. If bro codenameahbao said is correct, then at least I no need to be her guarantor. Actually this viet girl I just got to know her from someone intro. She suppose to be a virgin and most likely I will be marrying her once I find her to be acceptable.

remember to bring her for full stds test before u raw. no harm keeping urself safe

[FatSpider]

maybe u call up vietbu marriage agencies and just ask them try luck

[IwantbustyKim]

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[cockup]

remember to bring her for full stds test before u raw. no harm keeping urself safe

Yes, I will definitely send her for full medical check up, include checking to verify if she still is a virgin. Then I will raw her, haha.

[codenameahbao]

the guai vn girls are very nice wife material...can take care of the house and kids and good in bed. but of course, like most vn girls, they will require you to support their family

good luck to u bro..hope the girl's a gem

[conquer]

Actually this viet girl I just got to know her from someone intro. She suppose to be a virgin and most likely I will be marrying her once I find her to be acceptable.

Just curious. Is it some kinda match-making agency who promises a virgin Vietnamese wife? :confused:

[sadfa]

This kind of thing gt guarantor meh?

Guarantor this type means sign something n if kenna, you've 2 pay money. Never heard of ica going after ppl over money. This different frm maids n employers where they've to guarantee airticket back home n forfeit bond.

Maybe if she kenna jam, juz say its marriage.
Thats nt illegal anyway.

[StewieRules]

think its never a good idea to be a guarantor.

Agreed with you as well

[sammyboyfor]

Hi guys, I want to bring my Vietnamese gf into Singapore for a short term social visit but I am afraid she last min kena turn back by our custom.

Are you a real idiot or are you just pretending to be one? :rolleyes:

NEVER trust the gooks. They'll screw you so bad you'll have nothing left.

[FartiPartner]

Are you a real idiot or are you just pretending to be one? :rolleyes:

NEVER trust the gooks. They'll screw you so bad you'll have nothing left.

Boss! I protest. He no stupid, he is just sincere. Well maybe sincerely wrong but why don't we encourage him to bring the girl in?

I see the goodness in man( or in this case a vb). Do you know the stats? There are millions of them. Some in mint condition too. I know this sweet nothing once and she turns out to be a gem. I only the other hand, was a pig. We broke up because I could not give her what she wants, a hand in marriage.

So boss, cut TS some slack, not every 'gook' is a blood sucker.

[sammyboyfor]

Boss! I protest. He no stupid, he is just sincere.

"Naive" is the word.

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

I've never doubted that there are exceptions to the rule but why court trouble when the odds are against you?

I have a friend who was on the verge of suicide after his "sweet", "innocent" vietcong wife disappeared back to Vietnam with his two kids along with a sizeable sum of his money. He has not been able to find any of them since.

[FartiPartner]

Boss, I rigorously protest :

The population of Vietnam is estimated at 92,547,959 as of July 1 2014. Vietnam's population represents 1.28% of the total world population. Vietnam ranks number 14 in the list of countries by population. The population density in Vietnam is 279 people per Km sq.

You are utterly bias. You are statistically inaccurate. Your worldview is narrow. You see a demographic homogenous people group consists of the worst 1% of the population. To you a Vietnam woman is one you find in atypical bar, karaoke or henhouse. It is like going to a jail, pick a jailbird and say everyone in the country is a jailbird.

In VN there are people of Khmer decent living at the border of Cambodia, you can see a pronounced evidence of their live in places like Dalat. The people in the delta South are different from those in the north. Tribal people in the northern mountainous region bordering China comes from Tibet and do not assimilate with the rest of Vietnam. My ex gf's grandfather speak Thai but the generation after him are prevented from asserting their Thai sub culture.

I admit there maybe a propensity for the girl to go astray but why the condescending attitude of the 'they and us'. We should avoid the über-man mentality. Boss I protest, again. :)

[sammyboyfor]

You see a demographic homogenous people group consists of the worst 1% of the population.

I agree 100% with your statistics.

The problem is the 1% you refer to is the category that Singaporeans end up with.

[FartiPartner]

In the context of today MERS scare, I have a story to tell about 2 countries:

When SAR was detected at a Vietnamese hospital, the French doctors did the right thing, immediately issolating themselves by doing a lock down on their institution. In so doing, they gave themselves a death sentence but saved the VN from further damage.

In Sg, it was a different story. Although the health authorities knew about the VN episode, their hesitation at the onset of the cases causes unnecessary deaths.

I was fortunate enough to hear this first hand from a town hall meeting during the crisis year and it left a scar in the back of my mind.

[sammyboyfor]

When SAR was detected at a Vietnamese hospital, the French doctors did the right thing, immediately issolating themselves by doing a lock down on their institution.

This proves that Ang Mohs are the best!

[syt_punisher]

Don't bother bro, last month visit ICA to be a local sponsor for my Taiwan girl. Immediately rejected ! Only family members can now :(

[hoian]

Very easy. Ask her to sign up with a VN travel agency. These tours usually takes the group on visits to KL, Malacca and after that by bus to S'pore where they fly back.

[lasupkia]

Spend $26 to book ROM. Show ICA the application form then fly her here. Whether u go thru or postpone the ROM is another matter.

[cockup]

Yes bro lasupkia, the other way is just apply for ROM, used that paper to bring her in. I just hoping to find any other ways.

Some may think Vietnam girls can con you of your money and run away. I can only say this is already a practice for Singapore women who divorce and get half of whatever you got.

My ex-wife divorced me as she found herself another "better" guy who she met at pub. So what make Singaporean better? Since all women alike, so why we need to trust Vietnam girl less than Singapore girl?

[sammyboyfor]

My ex-wife divorced me as she found herself another "better" guy who she met at pub. So what make Singaporean better? Since all women alike, so why we need to trust Vietnam girl less than Singapore girl?

That should have taught you a lesson in life that you wouldn't want to repeat in a hurry. :confused:

Why marry? It's a lousy proposition from day one for the man. You have absolutely nothing to gain and everything to lose.

In the old days it was the only avenue for securing a sex partner despite the fact that the quality of sex would be questionable after a couple of years. Nowadays the options are endless.

[SEAJ]

...Why marry? It's a lousy proposition from day one for the man. You have absolutely nothing to gain and everything to lose.

In the old days it was the only avenue for securing a sex partner despite the fact that the quality of sex would be questionable after a couple of years. Nowadays the options are endless.
That has got to be the best "home truth" I've read on here!

These idiot women - demanding, demanding and still want more. Well, they got it now PLUS more! Now time for us guys to reap the bounty from what THEY'VE sown/their own folly/avarice!

You oughta make this point #5 on ur signature!

SEAJ

[newyorker88]

Just apply a visa for her. You can do it for her via ICA website.

Need a photo of her. and so on.

Usually, if she is clear from any immigration offences, she will be allowed to come in for 2 weeks.

Of cos, it is best you give her your details, of your name, HP, address and so on. If she kena asked. She can answer, likely to be able to pass without any problems.

Those who are turn back are usually with problems in the past. ICA don't turn back people with no good reasons. If that happens, ask her if she had any records. You can trust ICA more than someone supposedly introduced to you by someone.

[Hurricane88]

TS...just let her in on her own merits...prove everything if she has clean records like what you written...dun be unduly worried...:)

As for me I prefer to fly there...everything is much cheaper and easier to my wallet...:)

[TigerGeneral]

Thanks guys for your concern. If bro codenameahbao said is correct, then at least I no need to be her guarantor. Actually this viet girl I just got to know her from someone intro. She suppose to be a virgin and most likely I will be marrying her once I find her to be acceptable.

Have you already piak her ?

[hoian]

I am getting on in age so I have mulled over that same question many times. Especially when I see old folks crossing the road being helped by their kids and grand kids. Especially after they suffered a stroke.

Sure you can argue that there are old folks home etc. But when u shit all over yourself, at best the caretaker will hose u down from a distance. Some will just let you wallow in your shit for hours until the stench becomes unbearable. It's different when you have a loved one taking care of u. Just thinking out loud. :p

Why marry? It's a lousy proposition from day one for the man. You have absolutely nothing to gain and everything to lose.

[ewei008]

Hi guys, I want to bring my Vietnamese gf into Singapore for a short term social visit but I am afraid she last min kena turn back by our custom. I heard recently custom very strict. Is there any way to make sure she will not be reject, example like me act as a guarantor for her etc.

Its her 1st time to Singapore, in fact she just got her passport and never been to overseas at all.

Thanks ahead for any help/suggestion.
Hihi, I have replied you thru PM, please check your inbox

[FartiPartner]

Who knows what is best ?

Ask TS to create a pro/con chart. First it is to bring the girl in or not. Second, is in regard to the method. If the INTEND to marry is not clear, then the methodology, the how to should not complicate. Many tourists come in the legit way : openly declare as a social visitor. They say many roads lead to Rome. Sg too. H88 suggested :

If the hill can't go to Mohamed then Mohamed go to the hill.

I quote the ellipsis from Francis Bacon.

The earliest appearance of the phrase is from Chapter 12 of the Essays of Francis Bacon, published in 1625:

Mahomet made the people believe that he would call a hill to him, and from the top of it offer up his prayers, for the observers of his law. The people assembled; Mahomet called the hill to come to him, again and again; and when the hill stood still, he was never a whit abashed, but said, If the hill will not come to Mahomet, Mahomet will go to the hill.

Why make a mountain out of a molehill ? Let TS make an informed decision.

[pratamushroom]

Bacon sounds good ........ can we have pratabacon? :D

[sammyboyfor]

I am getting on in age so I have mulled over that same question many times. Especially when I see old folks crossing the road being helped by their kids and grand kids. Especially after they suffered a stroke.

Sure you can argue that there are old folks home etc. But when u shit all over yourself, at best the caretaker will hose u down from a distance. Some will just let you wallow in your shit for hours until the stench becomes unbearable. It's different when you have a loved one taking care of u. Just thinking out loud. :p

For every caring kid, there are 9 who will dump you in an old folk's home without hesitation.

Having kids is no insurance that they're going to take care of you.

It's far better to save the money you would have spent and hire a private nurse.

[damong777]

Hi guys, I want to bring my Vietnamese gf into Singapore for a short term social visit but I am afraid she last min kena turn back by our custom. I heard recently custom very strict. Is there any way to make sure she will not be reject, example like me act as a guarantor for her etc.

Its her 1st time to Singapore, in fact she just got her passport and never been to overseas at all.

Thanks ahead for any help/suggestion.

she flying in alone? can speak english or not? if not will get struck at immigration when ask the sop questions.

ICA need not to call you to verify as it is at their discretion to allow or disallow entry.

And lastly there is no 100% guarantee she can come into sg as even rich viet with money to come spend also kena reject at ica.

[orangeproud]

In Singapore, everyone need to go out and work to earn money. Is a money world, dun expect your child will take care of you or at your side 24hrs everyday in the house. They also need some breathing space and rest. For the filial one, will hire private nurse to take care of you if affordable or else u will end up in nursing or old folk home as they are subsidies by government. One must take good care of his health whether he is married or single as humans are heartless & selfish creatures the most. Nobody u can rely on, can rely only on yourself.

[hoian]

That's why it's good to live in Australia like Boss. Govt can take care of him when he cannot move.

For me, I am planning retirement in Vietnam because money no enough to retire in angmoh country.

In Singapore, everyone need to go out and work to earn money. Is a money world, dun expect your child will take care of you ....

[orangeproud]

I thought boss lives in New Zealand? Live there everyday has fresh milk to drink & u not need to bring the entire cow back home....hee.....I think anybody living in New Zealand will have one expertise, expert in using your own hand to squeeze the fresh milk from the cow and have a sip of it.....wow.....emigrate to New Zealand is like living in heaven but I money not enough leh! Think have to wait for next life.

[FishPartner]

I tot boss is somewhere in Europe?

[orangeproud]

Boss, where r u now actually?
Everyone is curious with your whereabouts, convenient to tell us:confused::p

[lasupkia]

I don't care where boss is. Even if he's in N Korea bonking Kim's harem, I don't care.
But I do care if he will post the stories and pics. This is the purpose of the sex forum.

[BMW69]

Boss, where r u now actually?
Everyone is curious with your whereabouts, convenient to tell us:confused::p

Last I saw, boss is in Australia, living in a 2 acre lifestyle block (hobby farm).

http://www.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?111419-I-am-28-years-old-Am-I-young-middle-age-or-old-What-is-your-SG-dream&p=980071#post980071

[orangeproud]

Wow so envy:p

But I must content with what I have now.

[cockup]

Thanks bro ewei008 for your pm, I will check them out.

My vietgal does not speak English, that's why I worry when ICA QnA her, she will not know how to answer. I just want to see is there a fuss free way of getting her across.

[Hurricane88]

Thanks bro ewei008 for your pm, I will check them out.

My vietgal does not speak English, that's why I worry when ICA QnA her, she will not know how to answer. I just want to see is there a fuss free way of getting her across.

there is no such thing as fuss free way...any Asean citizen with a proper passport should be allowed in to visit any Asean countries if the person dun have a bad record...:)

A 16 year old Viet gal came with the mother...the 16yr old gal allowed in because she is clean...mother u-turn because came too often...and a friend working in ICA told us that foreign gals that goes to hotel with different clients are in their computer records...these gals mostly will be U-turn if the clients were married sinkees...these gals are considered undesirable gals that breaks family apart...:)