Thank you SBF for the memories

[natassevil74]

If everything goes well, this would be my last post here in SBF. You might wanna call this my confession, or a final FR. You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

I’m not here to preach or deter you from patronizing these joints. What the hell! I’m still a very horny man whose didi will marikita whenever I see some hot babes. I have my biological needs! I can understand.

I’m stopping for the following reasons:
- This is a VERY expensive hobby. I spent around $2k. Not much for some, but enough fun for me liao. I can use the money to go traveling around the world. You can get FREE sex from your own gf or wife!!

- There’s always the danger of STD and I don’t want to spread it to the girl I love

- Time spent reading the FR can be better utilize for other more ‘constructive’ hobbies like watching movies or newspaper or masturbation.

- The best gf feeling you can get is with your own gf or wife, NOT from these girls who are still treating you as a customer no matter how close you can get.

- I think I might be addicted to sex and I got to stop for a while if not, it may affect my career and my social life and my love life! (Actually if there’s any bros out there who think they are addicted to sex, can contact Dr Munidasa Winslow. There’s even a ‘Sex Anonymous’ support group which you can attend. I’ve attended years ago but don’t know whether still around or not.)

- I have my own girl and I intend to be faithful to her

(change topic a bit here: can I still stay ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ? Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Tks)

I’ll have to weigh my life-long happiness with the one girl who really cares for me and the disappointment she will get if she ever finds out about my ‘adventures’ or get any STD because of me. I should not expect her to be faithful when I’m not. I can’t have double-standard right?

Here are some of my notable adventures which might or might not interest you. This is to show my appreciation and gratitude to this site which has provided me with lots of wonderful memories.

Legal Geylang
- L6H66G18 is still the best. Enough said. None of the others who I tried ever come close. I usually sneaked out during lunch and went there at 1pm when it opens. Being the first customer makes me feel cleaner. But after my session, can always find some brothers waiting outside for her.. Too bad!! I came first.. hahaha.

Massage
- Wenwen – clean massage. Still one of the better ones around. PRC. Converse only in Mandarin. (BlurWolfe)
- Gina – pretty, skilful, local FL, offers HJ. (tobi69)
- Blue Crystal – Went for QiQi, but don’t know where she is now. Massage non-existent. Read from Galsharing that there are new gals there now.

FL
- Jessy. The Best MILF I know. Friendly, presentable. Really worth my money. Great body for her age. Shaved also, which is a real turn on. (Marksman)
- Celine. Not exactly SYT. One of the best BBBJ around. Service not as good as Jessy. If her body is better, will have lots of fans.
- Lisa. The WORST MILF ever. I will rather castrate than see her again. I delete her number immediately after our session. That’s how bad she looks.

- I have contacted Dior, Esther, Sherry and Maya. But I don’t think I would ever have the pleasure. But I must stop somewhere right? WTF!! I even cancelled my appts with Dior and Jessy this week which I think would have made lots of bros out there very jealous.

Trust me! It is not easy for me to stop and I don’t know how long I can stop before I relapse. Let’s see ok? I’ll keep you guys posted. Actually I feel kinda liberated now.

Pls don’t PM me for the contacts for the above. I still respect the ethics here at SBF. Get it from the thread-starters.

Tks to BlurWolfe, Marksman, Tobi69 for the good memories. I’ll try to up your points whenever I log on to SBF.

So, to all bros!
HAPPY BONKING.. BETTER BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY LATER!

One last thing: Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Can I still stay ‘somewhat’ ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ?

You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

[owen10]

If everything goes well, this would be my last post here in SBF. You might wanna call this my confession, or a final FR. You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

....

Tks to BlurWolfe, Marksman, Tobi69 for the good memories. I’ll try to up your points whenever I log on to SBF.



:D ok i give u 1 month to come bk :D

[sean69]

well... depends on your definition of 'faithful'... i think HJ is still cheating ... but if you are a fan of Bill Clinton.... blow job is not cheating.. hahah

[natassevil74]

:D ok i give u 1 month to come bk :D


ok fair enough. Frankly I don't know when I'll have the urge again. But let's see ok?

[natassevil74]

well... depends on your definition of 'faithful'... i think HJ is still cheating ... but if you are a fan of Bill Clinton.... blow job is not cheating.. hahah


Ok lah.. I get your point. I will reacquaint myself with my other good friends- my left and my right hands.... They will need to do overtime from now on. hahaha!

[jlkl]

Hi, hj, bj consider faithful or not? Its really up to the discretion of ur girl and yourself. Fyi i have not come across any gf who can accept their bf having a hj or bj from other lady and still consider you as faithful to them. ;)
Jus my 2 cents worth of view.

[owen10]

Ok lah.. I get your point. I will reacquaint myself with my other good friends- my left and my right hands.... They will need to do overtime from now on. hahaha!

see la so fast u logged on n post again! lidat how to practise self discipline!!! teach u an effective way la - go cut off yr cable connection lah! :D

[obking]

Bro Nat,

Yr question : Is HJ deems unfaithful ?

I think so if done by someone else for u. But you may feel less guilty if your mind is sexually aroused by thoughts of your gf/wife while enjoying it. But again, why should u have a commercial HJ like this when u can bonk yr gf/wife at yr leisure for free ? Think carefully. Let go for a clean break if u r really serious.

I was very successful in this aspect. I managed to quit several times if u know what I mean. All the best to u.

[max_priest]

If everything goes well, this would be my last post here in SBF. You might wanna call this my confession, or a final FR. You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..



Bro, I believe one has to be mentally very strong in order to kick out this so-called unfaithful acitivites ... it is all in the brain ... In order to start a new chapter in your life, my suggestion to you is, forget totally about SBF ... In other words, cancel your membership from SBF and refrain from browsing SBF ... If you keep logging on SBF, you will never be able to give up this activities ... I am pretty sure ... As bro Owen has mentioned ... within one month you will come back to square one ...

The second thing you can do is, try to think of some thrilling & extraordinary sex activities with your GF so that you are so pre-occuppied and smitten by her and you no longer seem to be keen in this "unfaithful" activities ...

The third thing you could do is, you can take up a hobby with her so that you have less chance to slip out for some unfaithful fun ...

[blower]

Bro,
Can understand how you feel, coz' I oso same situation as you. Before I knew my girl, I was so addicted to the hobby that I went twice a week. Eversince I knew her, I cut down to once a week...Now that we're attached for 5 weeks, I have cut down to two sessions and one so-called juagen which turned out to be no more than a hj. Still trying to cut down further. Maybe pple will say no big deal for me since I already cheated on her thrice, but to me, it's already a great achievement to be able to do that for me, and the juagen thingie was because I read somewhere that it was supposed to be good to have that once in a while to clear the passageway. Apparently, the girl didn't know how to do it. Whatever it is, I'm still persevering...Hopefully, I can cut it totally by the end of this month. Let's continue to persevere then.;)

[siamcutey]

Bro,
Can understand how you feel, coz' I oso same situation as you. Before I knew my girl, I was so addicted to the hobby that I went twice a week. Eversince I knew her, I cut down to once a week...Now that we're attached for 5 weeks, I have cut down to two sessions and one so-called juagen which turned out to be no more than a hj. Still trying to cut down further. Maybe pple will say no big deal for me since I already cheated on her thrice, but to me, it's already a great achievement to be able to do that for me, and the juagen thingie was because I read somewhere that it was supposed to be good to have that once in a while to clear the passageway. Apparently, the girl didn't know how to do it. Whatever it is, I'm still persevering...Hopefully, I can cut it totally by the end of this month. Let's continue to persevere then.;)

You want to cut off all these activities completely right? Tomorrow pass your mother all your money, only giving $10 daily to eat. I am sure once you have no money, you will not have any funny ideas.
If you find that passing all your mother all your money, makes you look like a mummy's boy, you can give all to your girlfriend. Ask her to save keep for you. I am sure she will love you more and give you more tender loving sex.:D

1 stone kill 2 bird.



SC

[Me'SoHorNy]

Hi Bros,

About quitting this "extra-curricular' activities, we should view it as a form of habit. How we behave, the way we think, what we eat, what we do. This all generates from the past habit we have been exposed to til now.

Anyway, like what bro SC say. To cut your habit completely (by force), handover your extra income to your wife/mother/gf. This is really a good method. Kudos to bro SC. wahah.. But as the saying goes. "Old habit dies hard" . Depending on how strong is your will-power vs your urge, It ain going to be easy. Anyway. Stoppage in surfing of SBF doesn't really help much as it is in you if you really wanna stop. The temptations doesnt just lies here but in your ownself and the environment you are exposed to..
good luck bro. Hope you can succeed.. =D

[uzumaki_naruto]

I seriously think you should not post all your experiences in your "quit" thread cos by typing them out you are bringing back the memories of the reason why you started cheonging in the first place so this will make it even more difficult for you to quit.

The best way is to log off and leave silently and dont ever return to "look-see look-see" cos it will get you hook again. Trust me i know. I left the forum briefly with the intention to quit. 1 month pass by without any withdrawal syndrome but the moment i want to "look-see" what is happening in the forum i got hooked again.

So log off and never turn back - if you have the will power to do so in the first place.

[Indignant]

You want to cut off all these activities completely right? Tomorrow pass your mother all your money, only giving $10 daily to eat. I am sure once you have no money, you will not have any funny ideas.
If you find that passing all your mother all your money, makes you look like a mummy's boy, you can give all to your girlfriend. Ask her to save keep for you. I am sure she will love you more and give you more tender loving sex.:D

1 stone kill 2 bird.



SC

not really... when u have no money and lots of urge and suppression... one can always beg, borrow, steal, sell!!!

[natassevil74]

see la so fast u logged on n post again! lidat how to practise self discipline!!! teach u an effective way la - go cut off yr cable connection lah! :D


Ha ha Bro Owen..

Actually I'm logging on to see who up my points and who zap me.
You might be surprised.. but I already have a few bros who PM me asking me on tips to quit and also where to get help.

And there are still some idiots who ask me for numbers since 'I don't need them anymore'!!! But don't worry... I still honour the ethics here which is to get it from the thread-starters.

I may log on SBF... but I only look at my PM and this thread.. and maybe perhaps look at any new CLEAN massage.. not even those HJ types.

[beetlebum]

Bro,
Can understand how you feel, coz' I oso same situation as you. Before I knew my girl, I was so addicted to the hobby that I went twice a week. Eversince I knew her, I cut down to once a week...Now that we're attached for 5 weeks, I have cut down to two sessions and one so-called juagen which turned out to be no more than a hj. Still trying to cut down further. Maybe pple will say no big deal for me since I already cheated on her thrice, but to me, it's already a great achievement to be able to do that for me, and the juagen thingie was because I read somewhere that it was supposed to be good to have that once in a while to clear the passageway. Apparently, the girl didn't know how to do it. Whatever it is, I'm still persevering...Hopefully, I can cut it totally by the end of this month. Let's continue to persevere then.;)
Hand over ATM card that salary is deposit into....

I'm not sure if it is only will power, sometimes after a really bad day at work, you dun really wanna go back home to wife and whack the hell out of her, so i choose to go out whack some1 whom i pay... after that go back home and tell wife you have such a damn shitty day.... me n kakis call it "family appreciation".... I'm not sure how much i have spent on hc and TN, me dun go ktv so still not too bad.... sometimes its like quitting smoking....hard... n u just say 1 more time, before you know it, u r making up lost session due to cold turkey period :)

[natassevil74]

In other words, cancel your membership from SBF and refrain from browsing SBF ... If you keep logging on SBF, you will never be able to give up this activities ... I am pretty sure ... As bro Owen has mentioned ... within one month you will come back to square one ...

The second thing you can do is, try to think of some thrilling & extraordinary sex activities with your GF so that you are so pre-occuppied and smitten by her and you no longer seem to be keen in this "unfaithful" activities ...

The third thing you could do is, you can take up a hobby with her so that you have less chance to slip out for some unfaithful fun ...

Hi Maxi Priest and Obking. (will up your points soon)

tks for your advice. Will definitely follow them.
Actually... it doesn't matter even if I don't log on to SBF.. there are so many distractions and temptations out there. In fact.. it is good that i visit SBF so that I can train my mental strength. So far so good... I only look at this thread and my PM. And perhaps if there's CLEAN massage or TN, which I"m still interested in.. NOT those even with HJ types.

You might be surprise to know that there are actualy a few bros who is asking me for tips to quit and where to get help. So here's another reason to log on here.

And I also want to up the points of bros who had supported me. Really very touched. Though I do get zapped... they are the minority.

[max_priest]

Hi Maxi Priest and Obking. (will up your points soon)

tks for your advice. Will definitely follow them.
Actually... it doesn't matter even if I don't log on to SBF.. there are so many distractions and temptations out there. In fact.. it is good that i visit SBF so that I can train my mental strength. So far so good... I only look at this thread and my PM. And perhaps if there's CLEAN massage or TN, which I"m still interested in.. NOT those even with HJ types .............


Well, you are most welcome bro Natassevil ...

There are plenty of real massage joints here in S'pore. There is an unisex Javanese Spa located along Upper East Coast road, very near Siglap Shopping mall. For the upmarket Spa will be Ardana (Paragon) or St Gregory Spa (Novena Shopping centre & Plaza hotel) ... you can bring along your significance other for a couple massage session as well ... :)

[natassevil74]

Bro,
Can understand how you feel, coz' I oso same situation as you. which turned out to be no more than a hj. Still trying to cut down further. Maybe pple will say no big deal for me since I already cheated on her thrice, but to me, it's already a great achievement to be able to do that for me, Apparently, the girl didn't know how to do it. Whatever it is, I'm still persevering...Hopefully, I can cut it totally by the end of this month. Let's continue to persevere then.;)

wow blower bro!!
THis is good man!! will up your point as encourgement.
Let's use each other as pillars of strength!! haha.
Actually... if you are looking for JG, there's some threads there.. .I think there's this 'Joanna' girl... I haven't tried, but you might wanna read up.

And I understand from Gina (under FL section), that she also has a friend who is good at JG. You might wanna explore that too.

To tell you a secret: I have a fetish for shaven. so I've asked my GF to go for IPL or whatever this Intense Pulse Laser or whatever.. so now she is bare there!! which is another motivation for me NOT to go elsewhere! (But she die die wouldn't do CIM... but that's alright for me since i've done it liao! haha)

You might wanna ask your gf to fulfill any of your fetish also...

[max_priest]

........... go elsewhere! (But she die die wouldn't do CIM... but that's alright for me since i've done it liao! haha)

...

My last GF performed CIM for me and she also swallowed all my sperm :D ... she said it is good for her complexion ... I am not sure ... hehehe!

It is a good idea to get your GF to fulfil your fetish ... I think you should also fulfil her desire (if any) ... :)

[pimp]

Good for you.... cos I believe one of these days many of us bros here will feel the same as you.... just a matter of times.....

I would say HJ and BJ is not "faithful" to ur spouse.... imagine.... will she accept her husband having someone else to do HJ and BJ for him?

[merlinxsky]

seeing all these .... brings me to share my views too...hehehhee

Faithfulness lies within the heart in oneself....which i truly believe that all bros (husbands and BFs) that are here have......being faithful and still able to think correctly is the other point to note....BUT how do one define "correct", what is correct ? what is wrong ? Generally i find that it is up to individual and each character.....like a saying goes "one man's food might be another's poison", let everyone be the judge for themselve, live their selected life...LIFE is just ONCE, you dun live your life TWICE, live to what you feel is right and no live to live up to people expectation of what you are ..... we are all humans, for male or female, we all have a mind of our own, let us be ourself and walk our own path.....at the end of the world.....would you want to tell yourself this " God, I have lived my life to my own expectations, I shall die with no regrets" OR "Shit, I wish i had done that?":D

Just sharing some little thoughts bros.....dun hammer me.... :p

[joedovenport]

Hi

First, it is very respectable that some brudders here intend to quit visiting massage parlour and prostitute, in the name of faithfulness to their love ones. Also, by opening expressing their intention, it sort of motivates others to do the same.

I was once a "quitter" too, also out of my love for my wife. However, by curbing my urge to engage in "pay sex", I ended up with extra-marital affairs! Eventually, I divorced and pay a heavy price for my dumbness.

So, to those who have high sexual needs: would you rather pay, fcuk and forget? OR never pay and engaged in extra-marital affairs? Which one bears the higher price tag? I said it is the latter.

Conclusion: Try your best to endure (engaging in paid sex). If couldn't endure anymore, just pay for the "service" and forget about it. Ultimately, you know, in your heart, who is the one you love. Don't worry about being a liar, cheaters etc. Everyone of us are liars.

Hope the above helps.

[blower]

wow blower bro!!
THis is good man!! will up your point as encourgement.
Let's use each other as pillars of strength!! haha.
Actually... if you are looking for JG, there's some threads there.. .I think there's this 'Joanna' girl... I haven't tried, but you might wanna read up.

And I understand from Gina (under FL section), that she also has a friend who is good at JG. You might wanna explore that too.

To tell you a secret: I have a fetish for shaven. so I've asked my GF to go for IPL or whatever this Intense Pulse Laser or whatever.. so now she is bare there!! which is another motivation for me NOT to go elsewhere! (But she die die wouldn't do CIM... but that's alright for me since i've done it liao! haha)

You might wanna ask your gf to fulfill any of your fetish also...

Nah, it's ok...I'm doing well so far...My only Archille's heel is Sunday which is an extremely boring day for me. Either I don't go out and bore to death or I go out and end up somewhere undesirable...So, must find means to overcome that day. Then, should be ok liao....

[SlickSS1]

So, to those who have high sexual needs: would you rather pay, fcuk and forget? OR never pay and engaged in extra-marital affairs? Which one bears the higher price tag? I said it is the latter.

Conclusion: Try your best to endure (engaging in paid sex). If couldn't endure anymore, just pay for the "service" and forget about it. Ultimately, you know, in your heart, who is the one you love. Don't worry about being a liar, cheaters etc. Everyone of us are liars.

Hope the above helps.
2nd your opinion bro, the lesser of two evils...

[max_priest]

Hi

First, it is very respectable that some brudders here intend to quit visiting massage parlour and prostitute, in the name of faithfulness to their love ....................................... So, to those who have high sexual needs: would you rather pay, fcuk and forget? OR never pay and engaged in extra-marital affairs? Which one bears the higher price tag? I said it is the latter.

Conclusion: Try your best to endure (engaging in paid sex). If couldn't endure anymore, just pay for the "service" and forget about it. Ultimately, you know, in your heart, who is the one you love. Don't worry about being a liar, cheaters etc. Everyone of us are liars.


Yeah, bro, you certainly have a point there. If one can't endure, it is always best to adopt an approach without emotional commitment. So as to evade a situation of fatal attraction like in the movie ... Just fuck, pay and then forget about everything immediately after the session ...

[natassevil74]

Nah, it's ok...I'm doing well so far...My only Archille's heel is Sunday which is an extremely boring day for me. Either I don't go out and bore to death or I go out and end up somewhere undesirable...So, must find means to overcome that day. Then, should be ok liao....


Hello bro.

Then I guess you will have to look at engaging in some healthy hobbies... like take up some sports? learn a new skill. and preferably happen on SUNDAY!!! It must be with friends or a class, so that you will be FORCED to turn up for the event.
after that activity you will be too tired to do anything else rather than go home and shower and sleep.
problem solved!

[owen10]

Hello bro.

Then I guess you will have to look at engaging in some healthy hobbies... like take up some sports? learn a new skill. and preferably happen on SUNDAY!!! It must be with friends or a class, so that you will be FORCED to turn up for the event.
after that activity you will be too tired to do anything else rather than go home and shower and sleep.
problem solved!

eh bro .. how come u back so fast leh ... not even 1 mth! :D

ever since u posted, it had generated 2 pgs n 1800+ of views ... i thk our bros here all love u!!! : D

change yr mind oredi??? :D

[erkobb]

Just to share what I heard once as danger signs for guys - HALTB
Men get in danger of succumbing to temptation when they are:
H - Hungry
A - Angry
L - Lonely
T - Tired or
B - Bored
So look out for these danger signs and find an alternative distraction.

Good luck for all the good intentions!

[natassevil74]

eh bro .. how come u back so fast leh ... not even 1 mth! :D

ever since u posted, it had generated 2 pgs n 1800+ of views ... i thk our bros here all love u!!! : D

change yr mind oredi??? :D

I need to log on so that i can up brudders points mah!
I also wanna see if there are any like-minded bros out there who need my help/motivation.

But I think there is also a group out there who is waiting for me to CUM back to 'the dark side'. Actually.. coming to SBF also train my preserverance. There are sooo many threads and my eyes will bound to catch something fancy right? So far..I'm clean... very proud of myself.

[uzumaki_naruto]

So far..I'm clean... very proud of myself.

Uhm dude you started this thread on the 4th of june and today its the 9th of june. Its been 5 days. I think some other bro have not gone for services much longer than that.

Plus its kinda weird. If you intend to quit and still want to visit sammyboy then it would make more sense to start the thread in Adult Discussions About Sex forum. I dont see why you want to tempt yourself by starting a thread in a forum where there are threads on the evils which you are trying to escape.

Example: A smoker trying to quit smoking goes cold turkey by locking himself in the room with nothing and stays there till he gets over his craving. He will not have any cigarettes with him, ala to test his will power, at all cos if there is even one stick of cigarette he will surely buckle.

Anyway, just my two cents. Different strokes for different folks.

[natassevil74]

Uhm dude you started this thread on the 4th of june and today its the 9th of june. Its been 5 days. I think some other bro have not gone for services much longer than that.

Plus its kinda weird. If you intend to quit and still want to visit sammyboy then it would make more sense to start the thread in Adult Discussions About Sex forum. I dont see why you want to tempt yourself by starting a thread in a forum where there are threads on the evils which you are trying to escape.

Example: A smoker trying to quit smoking goes cold turkey by locking himself in the room with nothing and stays there till he gets over his craving. He will not have any cigarettes with him, ala to test his will power, at all cos if there is even one stick of cigarette he will surely buckle.

Anyway, just my two cents. Different strokes for different folks.


Hi Bro,
Yes, I'm still sober... for PAID sex that is.. I still indulge in free ones from my GF and self-service.. hee hee..
THe fact that I got my kicks here from the 'HEalth Centre' thread, it makes sense for me to post here and not at "Adult Discussion". I feel it is my way of 'giving back' to SBF and also perhaps if there are bros out there who wish to quit too,,, ,can give them some motivation.

By tempting myself and post here is very challenging indeed! Wouldn't you say it is the ULTIMATE test to my determination?
To tell you honestly... I log on ONLY to my thread and the other threads.. no matter how tantalising their titles are.. no longer interest.
This is the ULTIMATE test I feel. and I'm on my way to recovery.

THere is a diff here with a 'smoker'. I don't say that i"ll stop from sex.. what I'm saying is I'll stop from PAID sex.. so I can still have sex anytime I want it!

[kenzolion]

Bro natassevil74

I admire your courage to quit. I tried to quit some time ago. It is the worst 16 days of my life.

If you ever think of going back, please don't ( or rather, please don't secretly do it and no tell us :D :D !!!)

Anyway, best wishes to your "new found" life!

[phallusman]

Well, after so many years, I have also made attempts to quit.

But, each time, in a matter of a month or so, just simply gave up.

Lately, after my fav PRC went home, I sort of haven't got the urge to look for someone else to go to. It has been like more than 3 weeks liao. Maybe, I find that all the others are not GooD enough for me in terms of look, body, service and that special feeling. :)

Maybe, when I am really down in very bad mood, then I would need to find some outlet to release. :(

[lfc78]

Dear Bro Nass,
its always difficult to have a clean break away from these. But i think one important thing to keep u away is the thought of contracting std & worst hiv.
No matter how rich or how gd a career or ur life is............ it will come down to nothing. worst of all passing it to ur wife or gf??? what will u do. they dun deserve these. How u going to face them,their parents,frens??? Hiaz God give me the strength to give up!:rolleyes:

[natassevil74]

Bro natassevil74

I admire your courage to quit. I tried to quit some time ago. It is the worst 16 days of my life.

If you ever think of going back, please don't ( or rather, please don't secretly do it and no tell us :D :D !!!)

Anyway, best wishes to your "new found" life!

Hi Bro.
Trust me.. the thought of going back is always on my mind!! Yes..I've thought of going back and not announcing... but then... luckily.. my honour, reputation, and my internal conscience got the better of me and I stop just in time.... Even if I'm put to the lie detector.. I'll speak the truth.

If I can't get it from my GF.. I will self-service.. hahahaha...
Well.. people may think I'm pathetic.. but hey! it works!

[max_priest]

Hi Bro.
........................ If I can't get it from my GF.. I will self-service.. hahahaha...
Well.. people may think I'm pathetic.. but hey! it works!

Bro Natassevil,

If GF can't give it to you due to one reason or another and also if you are bore with DIY, you can consider buying a vagina lookalike battery-operated stimulator. The intensity can be adjusted one. The inside surface of the artificial vagina is close to the real thing ... it is available in sex shops ... Check up the ones in Peninsular Plaza and Lucky Plaza ... Enjoy while you can ... :D

[TD0620G]

Good luck bro on your intentions to quit, I think it will be very difficult but if you've managed to somehow do it, pls come back and post your methods :) Since sex is a part of human nature you have to somehow satisfy it or replace it with something else.

Well...your post has encouraged me to quit also so I will start my fasting on local sex industry from today (kekeke lets see how long I last also). However I reserve my rights to cheong when I travel outside the country :D

Here's 2 miserable points for you as my form of support!

[mivec]

Hi

First, it is very respectable that some brudders here intend to quit visiting massage parlour and prostitute, in the name of faithfulness to their love ones. Also, by opening expressing their intention, it sort of motivates others to do the same.

I was once a "quitter" too, also out of my love for my wife. However, by curbing my urge to engage in "pay sex", I ended up with extra-marital affairs! Eventually, I divorced and pay a heavy price for my dumbness.

So, to those who have high sexual needs: would you rather pay, fcuk and forget? OR never pay and engaged in extra-marital affairs? Which one bears the higher price tag? I said it is the latter.

Conclusion: Try your best to endure (engaging in paid sex). If couldn't endure anymore, just pay for the "service" and forget about it. Ultimately, you know, in your heart, who is the one you love. Don't worry about being a liar, cheaters etc. Everyone of us are liars.

Hope the above helps.

Well said... I am with my gf for a year already, but cannot pull myself away from HC and TN. Been like 5 times in the last year. Will still try to ENDURE though! It will be worth it, because I know that if I don't stop one day I will pitchar lobang and she will find out (and if that day ever comes, hopefully it will not be AFTER we get married! $$$)

mivec

[Cutter]

it's very simple why we guys can't stay away from sex .... cos we never get enough for just one only... :D

[max_priest]

it's very simple why we guys can't stay away from sex .... cos we never get enough for just one only... :D

Bro, it is also b'cos of our high testosterone level which is at least 3 times higher than gals. I am afraid we are designed that way and hence, we can have sex with any gals who appeal to us. Unlike ourselves, gals can only do it if they have feeling for the guys.

[monsta]

I'm in the same boat. Also trying to quit. I've been going to HCs because things haven't been working out with me and my wife for a long time. Got really bad and she was having an affair behind my back, while I was visiting HCs. Anyway, we're in the process of sorting things out now and she has given up her boy so I'm trying to give up my HC visits! Considering one last visit to my fave HC girl and quit. Either that or just go for HJs with her. But is that really quitting? :o

I guess we all need to be strong for each other. Maybe start a SB Anonymous. :p