Thank you SBF for the memories

[natassevil74]

If everything goes well, this would be my last post here in SBF. You might wanna call this my confession, or a final FR. You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

I’m not here to preach or deter you from patronizing these joints. What the hell! I’m still a very horny man whose didi will marikita whenever I see some hot babes. I have my biological needs! I can understand.

I’m stopping for the following reasons:
- This is a VERY expensive hobby. I spent around $2k. Not much for some, but enough fun for me liao. I can use the money to go traveling around the world. You can get FREE sex from your own gf or wife!!

- There’s always the danger of STD and I don’t want to spread it to the girl I love

- Time spent reading the FR can be better utilize for other more ‘constructive’ hobbies like watching movies or newspaper or masturbation.

- The best gf feeling you can get is with your own gf or wife, NOT from these girls who are still treating you as a customer no matter how close you can get.

- I think I might be addicted to sex and I got to stop for a while if not, it may affect my career and my social life and my love life! (Actually if there’s any bros out there who think they are addicted to sex, can contact Dr Munidasa Winslow. There’s even a ‘Sex Anonymous’ support group which you can attend. I’ve attended years ago but don’t know whether still around or not.)

- I have my own girl and I intend to be faithful to her

(change topic a bit here: can I still stay ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ? Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Tks)

I’ll have to weigh my life-long happiness with the one girl who really cares for me and the disappointment she will get if she ever finds out about my ‘adventures’ or get any STD because of me. I should not expect her to be faithful when I’m not. I can’t have double-standard right?

Here are some of my notable adventures which might or might not interest you. This is to show my appreciation and gratitude to this site which has provided me with lots of wonderful memories.

Legal Geylang
- L6H66G18 is still the best. Enough said. None of the others who I tried ever come close. I usually sneaked out during lunch and went there at 1pm when it opens. Being the first customer makes me feel cleaner. But after my session, can always find some brothers waiting outside for her.. Too bad!! I came first.. hahaha.

Massage
- Wenwen – clean massage. Still one of the better ones around. PRC. Converse only in Mandarin. (BlurWolfe)
- Gina – pretty, skilful, local FL, offers HJ. (tobi69)
- Blue Crystal – Went for QiQi, but don’t know where she is now. Massage non-existent. Read from Galsharing that there are new gals there now.

FL
- Jessy. The Best MILF I know. Friendly, presentable. Really worth my money. Great body for her age. Shaved also, which is a real turn on. (Marksman)
- Celine. Not exactly SYT. One of the best BBBJ around. Service not as good as Jessy. If her body is better, will have lots of fans.
- Lisa. The WORST MILF ever. I will rather castrate than see her again. I delete her number immediately after our session. That’s how bad she looks.

- I have contacted Dior, Esther, Sherry and Maya. But I don’t think I would ever have the pleasure. But I must stop somewhere right? WTF!! I even cancelled my appts with Dior and Jessy this week which I think would have made lots of bros out there very jealous.

Trust me! It is not easy for me to stop and I don’t know how long I can stop before I relapse. Let’s see ok? I’ll keep you guys posted. Actually I feel kinda liberated now.

Pls don’t PM me for the contacts for the above. I still respect the ethics here at SBF. Get it from the thread-starters.

Tks to BlurWolfe, Marksman, Tobi69 for the good memories. I’ll try to up your points whenever I log on to SBF.

So, to all bros!
HAPPY BONKING.. BETTER BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY LATER!

One last thing: Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Can I still stay ‘somewhat’ ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ?

You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

[goodielecks]

I believe you can if you really love her. Love conquers all. If you find yourself not able to resist the temptation then I would say your love and faith for her isnt strong enough. If you love her naturally you will respect her decision be it HJ,BJ or FJ.

[king119]

One last thing: Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Can I still stay ‘somewhat’ ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ?

You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

Sori to pour cold water bro, I had this same thoughts many years ago....when I met my "special" one but I dont think it is that easy to quit the cheong scene so easily because of the male hormones and curiousity nature inborn with us that gets as excited with females around us. I have serious doubts that you will be able to overcome the tik ko nature of men and quit the Cheong scene

[angie II]

If everything goes well, this would be my last post here in SBF.

Obviously dis cannot be ur last post unless no one here replys 2 ur thread which is unlikely. Btw thanks 4 the nice frs.. Bud if u r realli leaving sbf, sob.. sob.. plz. allow me 2 see u 2 the exit door sob.. sob.. & may we hope 2 c u again bro..

[TNNlover]

what an FR... there are always different ways of getting rid of the addiction...

1) set your standard higher and higher for the gals (say if i am a boobs guy, i would set it from C to D and D to E) and soon, the number would get lesser and lesser, and u don't so many to choose from.

2) think of how your gf feels if she knows what u r doing

3) don't read SB

wishing u a great life ahead bro. Oh.. by the way, does your fav gl girl has big boobs?:D

[tobi69]

Tks to BlurWolfe, Marksman, Tobi69 for the good memories. I’ll try to up your points whenever I log on to SBF.

So, to all bros!
HAPPY BONKING.. BETTER BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY LATER!

Hey bro..i guess u had ur fun..so i think the bros here respect ur decision..since u intend to quit i advise u to stop cheonging..even like u say for HJ...cause its still money u spending..might as well just save it for raining day..all the best bro in watever u do in the future..cheers bro...

[big dick]

happy retirement bro.. all the best... :D

[Reaper]

Bro....

Admire your courage......just want to say one thing....if you want to quit...make sure its becasue u want to quit...not because someone said u must quit.....

CHEERS

[Joshzzz]

Even if not quitting for long... a break also good for the wallet. :)

[blondes]

1) set your standard higher and higher for the gals (say if i am a boobs guy, i would set it from C to D and D to E) and soon, the number would get lesser and lesser, and u don't so many to choose from.

3) don't read SB



i Agreed !!!

[bart]

Good luck and best wishes. Hope you succeed.

[fisher king]

good for you bro. Best of luck. I have been toying with the idea of quitting myself. Maybe if you succeed, you can be my role model :)

[Frankiestine]

Like I replied in the GL thread...the flesh is willing but the heart is not...I am hoping to quit but the little evil twin in me won't let me...maybe one day when i can subdue the other evil half then i can finally succeed...yes it is getting to be costly..

[EricssonMan]

Same same, heart & brain does not sychronised.:p

[Castrol]

One last thing: Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Can I still stay ‘somewhat’ ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ?

.

i was thinking this is a so called serious thread or something until i read this part hahaha...

just like having a casino, some people say they lost their salaries there and they could've gone for tours. they ask, why the hell they allow casinos in the country anyway.

well some people say, nobody forced you to gamble in the casino. you can just have a pork chop in the casino restaurant and FO right?

some people say they want to be faithful to their gf or wife blah blah blah, so they want to stop this and that blah blah blah. so it's necessary to annouce it? we're going to have these kind of threads every other day or what, especially whenever somebody finds a new gf? :D

[Platinum]

good luck and have a good retirement. Do drop by to work part time if have the urge ;)

[BustLover]

One last thing: Need to get the bros opinion on this one. Can I still stay ‘somewhat’ ‘faithful’ if I only stick to HJ and not FJ or BJ?

You can choose to zap me or up my points, but I don’t really care. But I prefer if you can up my points. Hee Hee..

Very well said! brother. I like the way you outline your reasons to give up commerical sex. But doubt you can "tahan" for long since you will still log on to SAM right? Temptation... Temptation...
[Otherwise, why ask for more points? :D ]

To your question on faithful if you stick to HJ only. The best person to ask would be your one and only loved woman. If she allows, then it is okay. Afterall, faithful is really relative and relate to the party concerned. But if she disagrees, then you better don't do it.

Personally, HJ/BJ/FJ is totally unfaithful as far as I am concerned. Why? Because you are having an INTIMATE fun time with other woman. Simple as that.

Enough said. I shall UP you 2 busty shots for your confession.

--BustLover--

[GoodMMbest]

I guess you have said things that many brothers here are thinking. I have tried to give up many times but returning. I guess the commercial sex gives you a very odd balance of the otherwise boring life here.

Good luck to you!:)

[eeemen]

well bro natassevil, good luck on your retirement.

I have thought of the same things many times over, especially when thinking about the amount of $$ spent. But then heck, life is so short and what is the point of accumulating all the $$ if you are not going to be happy and satisfied? So long as you are not borrowing or stealing to cheong, and have surplus, enjoy it. Life is so short, don't live to regret it one day, by asking the "what if" question.

I personally have been in a number of near miss situations, a life and death situation. Would i have lived life to the fullest if i had stopped doing what i enjoyed? I think not, so i now do what i want to do within broad limits. I admit it is an addictive hobby, this cheonging.

But then, to each its own, so good luck to you!!

[natassevil74]

I believe you can if you really love her. Love conquers all. If you find yourself not able to resist the temptation then I would say your love and faith for her isnt strong enough. If you love her naturally you will respect her decision be it HJ,BJ or FJ.

Ok Bro.. will up your point for your frankness. I will also up those bros who have up me. Really appreciate it.

I will take your advice and now I will need to reacquaint myself with my other best friends - My left and my right hands...they will need to work overtime from now on!! hahahaha.

[natassevil74]

Sori to pour cold water bro, I had this same thoughts many years ago....when I met my "special" one but I dont think it is that easy to quit the cheong scene so easily because of the male hormones and curiousity nature inborn with us that gets as excited with females around us. I have serious doubts that you will be able to overcome the tik ko nature of men and quit the Cheong scene


Tks bro for your frankness. Fair enough. I also honestly don't know how long I can last my 'cold turkey'. But let's see how many days I can last. Yes, I still have those lovely mobile nos and I'm quite friendly with Gina and Jessy. So temptation is but a sms away. This will be my challenge. Stay tuned. :cool:

[natassevil74]

what an FR... there are always different ways of getting rid of the addiction...

1) set your standard higher and higher for the gals (say if i am a boobs guy, i would set it from C to D and D to E) and soon, the number would get lesser and lesser, and u don't so many to choose from.

2) think of how your gf feels if she knows what u r doing

3) don't read SB

wishing u a great life ahead bro. Oh.. by the way, does your fav gl girl has big boobs?:D

Tks bro! Will Up your point soon for your very useful tips here!
If you asked about my fav GL girl, you mean L6H66G18? Name is 'Oon'. I'm not too familiar with cup size but I think she is B or C. really worth the money.
trust me.

[natassevil74]

Tks to BlurWolfe, Marksman, Tobi69 for the good memories. I’ll try to up your points whenever I log on to SBF.

So, to all bros!
HAPPY BONKING.. BETTER BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY LATER!

Hey bro..i guess u had ur fun..so i think the bros here respect ur decision..since u intend to quit i advise u to stop cheonging..even like u say for HJ...cause its still money u spending..might as well just save it for raining day..all the best bro in watever u do in the future..cheers bro...

Tks bro! you are so right! No problem...Guess I'll go back to my favourite pastime with my left and right hand.... ONLY if my girl is not around for some fun... :D

[natassevil74]

Bro....

Admire your courage......just want to say one thing....if you want to quit...make sure its becasue u want to quit...not because someone said u must quit.....

CHEERS

TKs for your advice. Not to sound mushy. I was touched by the love, care and concern my girl showed me. The irony is that she is out of the country now which is the best time for me to CHEONG!! but on the contrary, I missed her so much and was touched by her that I instead chose to be guai guai and stay at home waiting for her to return in a few days time.
I think I'm able to do this. ;)

[natassevil74]

good for you bro. Best of luck. I have been toying with the idea of quitting myself. Maybe if you succeed, you can be my role model

Hey bro! No problem man!!! I think we joined at almost the same time. and perhaps may have the same no. of adventures also..
So if you wish to quit, no problem.. I'm only a PM away.
Actually... I don't know about you... but I have a girl so I can release almost anytime I wish... but her BBBJ still not as good as the girls here...

BUT ... SHE TOPS ALL WITH THE REAL GF FEELING!!!! ..:D
so if you don't have a girl.. maybe a bit tough.. .I admit...

PM me if you are lonely.... er.... I don't mean that kind... more like...brotherly words of encouragement... :D

[natassevil74]

Like I replied in the GL thread...the flesh is willing but the heart is not...I am hoping to quit but the little evil twin in me won't let me...maybe one day when i can subdue the other evil half then i can finally succeed...yes it is getting to be costly..


WAH LAO EH!! you are a SENIOR bro here leh... with so many power and postings... it is hard to imagine you are thinking of quiting also.
But Seriously!!! If you are thinking of quitting... all the best to you!

I'll do whatever I can to help. :)

[natassevil74]

i was thinking this is a so called serious thread or something until i read this part hahaha...


some people say they want to be faithful to their gf or wife blah blah blah, so they want to stop this and that blah blah blah. so it's necessary to annouce it? we're going to have these kind of threads every other day or what, especially whenever somebody finds a new gf? :D


Tks for your 'reverse psychology'. This will only give me more resolve to quit. I'm not 'announcing' like what you said. I'm post my final FR as a show of gratitude and appreciation to this SBF and the bros who are kind to me. I don't need to prove to anyone except myself and my conscience.

I'm with the same girl for the past 6 yrs and I intend to be with her for the next 60. I'll resolve to refrain from all FJ,BJ or HJ from now on.

Am I serious? You are free to draw your own conclusion.

How long will I last with all the temptation at a click of the mouse? Let's stay tuned.

[natassevil74]

Very well said! brother. I like the way you outline your reasons to give up commerical sex. But doubt you can "tahan" for long since you will still log on to SAM right? Temptation... Temptation...
[Otherwise, why ask for more points? :D ]

To your question on faithful if you stick to HJ only. The best person to ask would be your one and only loved woman. If she allows, then it is okay. Afterall, faithful is really relative and relate to the party concerned. But if she disagrees, then you better don't do it.

Personally, HJ/BJ/FJ is totally unfaithful as far as I am concerned. Why? Because you are having an INTIMATE fun time with other woman. Simple as that.

Enough said. I shall UP you 2 busty shots for your confession.

--BustLover--


Tks bustlover!! It is bros like you who I really treasure here in SBF. You gave me good advice and I shall up your points whenever I log on.

And I shall listen to you- no more HJ/BJ/FJ. I don't need to ask her I know the answer already liao. :cool:

very challenging- now I can only go to CLEAN massage... even if they offer HJ, I must politely decline... shit man!!! If like that... I think I better don't go anymore!!!
sigh... well... I'll always have the memory....
ah!!!! I can go massage with my girl!!!

[natassevil74]

I guess you have said things that many brothers here are thinking. I have tried to give up many times but returning. I guess the commercial sex gives you a very odd balance of the otherwise boring life here.

Good luck to you!


HEy bro!!! don't be discouraged!!! I'll up your point for encouragement.
If you REALLY thinking of quiting... pls feel free to PM me and we can be each other's pillar of strength....(aiyer.... sounds so 'brokeback' hahaha).

anyway... I think I realised I had enough is when it is starting to disrupt my life and I'm being drawn to the power of the dark side.. :D
So I took one step back and said 'enough is enough'.

I still have some fantasies that I've yet to fulfill.... like to CIM with a Jap SYT, or have tarma with angmo babes.... but at the end of the day... a hole is a hole is a hole... .and after a while you will get numbed and disillusioned... and everything else seems empty...

Actually this type of feeling is bordering on sex addiction... which I think I have... but I have to control it... very tough I know....

But let's try .....:)

[natassevil74]

well bro natassevil, good luck on your retirement.

I have thought of the same things many times over, especially when thinking about the amount of $$ spent. But then heck, life is so short and what is the point of accumulating all the $$ if you are not going to be happy and satisfied? So long as you are not borrowing or stealing to cheong, and have surplus, enjoy it. Life is so short, don't live to regret it one day, by asking the "what if" question.

I personally have been in a number of near miss situations, a life and death situation. Would i have lived life to the fullest if i had stopped doing what i enjoyed? I think not, so i now do what i want to do within broad limits. I admit it is an addictive hobby, this cheonging.

But then, to each its own, so good luck to you!!

oh yeah.. tks for the maya contact... but she came during the time of my 'enlightenment'... so don't think will get to see her... :(

I totally agree with your life philosophy of 'living to the fullest'.. that is the reason why I started cheonging also!! I guess it kinda get bored for me liao and now I have other priorities in life... like save money to travel the world... take care of my girl...

But I'm glad that I've fulfilled one of my fetishes which is to CMI which my girl will DIE DIE wouldn't let me...
So at least now I woudln't keep pestering her and she thought that I finally get it into my thick skull and I respect her. She don't know that I'm done it liao.!!! hahahahahaaha...

but after I've done CMI... it is nothing to shout about....
take care man!!

[Montbank]

But I'm glad that I've fulfilled one of my fetishes which is to CMI which my girl will DIE DIE wouldn't let me...
So at least now I woudln't keep pestering her and she thought that I finally get it into my thick skull and I respect her. She don't know that I'm done it liao.!!! hahahahahaaha...

but after I've done CMI... it is nothing to shout about....
take care man!!


Think you meant CIM which is CUM IN MOUTH not CMI which is CANNOT MAKE IT.

hehe Quitting.. well, is never a choice for me. Stopping for a period of time is.. but good luck to you anyway.

[ilovbok]

hey bro,

After replying all bros' comments to you tonite. Guess you may consider stop logining to SBF and reading any more FRs, etc, here. And clean up all your FL contact (before you do so, maybe you can pass them to some of us ...let's continue the great fun on behalf of you :D ) ...... Should avoid any temptation ma and start a new leaf of your life. For massage, hehe, you can look for a guy to massage for you instead :D .

Good luck. Wish you all the best and have a wonderful journey with your love.
If you can't tahan, we welcome you back anytime.

Cheers.

[supersuper]

:rolleyes: hope u will succed just like one of my best friend who quit the cheong scene too...:(

[siamcutey]

hey bro,

After replying all bros' comments to you tonite. Guess you may consider stop logining to SBF and reading any more FRs, etc, here. And clean up all your FL contact (before you do so, maybe you can pass them to some of us ...let's continue the great fun on behalf of you ).

hehehe, gamblers who promised to quit gambling should not come into this casino anymore. Because come in look see look see one day sure tempted, especially since an ex-gambler before :D

Maybe should suggest Sam to "lend him a hand in quitting". Delete his nick :p

hehehe
SC

[piratedking]

- I think I might be addicted to sex and I got to stop for a while if not, it may affect my career and my social life and my love life! (Actually if there’s any bros out there who think they are addicted to sex, can contact Dr Munidasa Winslow. There’s even a ‘Sex Anonymous’ support group which you can attend. I’ve attended years ago but don’t know whether still around or not.)


err err bro.. If you really make it or should I say "QUIT IT", please come back here and start a support group to save me. As I dun think "I addicted to sex" but "I am in deep shxt of sex" lor :o.

Then we can both uses the $$ for a trip to Thailand or China, as their homeland seem to be have more stock for enjoyment? Just kidding lar.

Anyway, like some bros said, delete of the number (pm to me before u delete off, at least I can keep for u incase u want it back later mar), make sure after seeing my post as last post, u pm me all the contacts and delete your SBF ID n never ever log in again.

Also, throw away you AV collection, photo collection, the bookmarks of xxx website etc. When feel ichy, go chruch or temple or anything like that but must avode those near Lorong Lorong one lor.

I wish u all the BEST as if u ever make it, u make many bros dream cum through. (oh, I can't seem to get "come" spell out correct now a day). Take care.

[fisher king]

Thanks bro. Brothers in arms eh? Perhaps we should start a support group for ex cheongsters? Actually I realize that the best ladies I met were not thru SBF, but thru chatting ladies up. So even if I quit SBF, may continue to cheong on the side for a while! But thanks for your encouraging words bro. I wish you and your gf all the best, and hope she makes you a happy man for a very long time.

Hey bro! No problem man!!! I think we joined at almost the same time. and perhaps may have the same no. of adventures also..
So if you wish to quit, no problem.. I'm only a PM away.
Actually... I don't know about you... but I have a girl so I can release almost anytime I wish... but her BBBJ still not as good as the girls here...

BUT ... SHE TOPS ALL WITH THE REAL GF FEELING!!!! ..:D
so if you don't have a girl.. maybe a bit tough.. .I admit...

PM me if you are lonely.... er.... I don't mean that kind... more like...brotherly words of encouragement... :D

[Frankiestine]

WAH LAO EH!! you are a SENIOR bro here leh... with so many power and postings... it is hard to imagine you are thinking of quiting also.
But Seriously!!! If you are thinking of quitting... all the best to you!

I'll do whatever I can to help. :)
Yup bro precisely after chalking up the mileage on cheonging, it really makes me feel it is time to quit. Reading up on all the STD and HIV cases, it is really getting to be scary...I can't help but wonder I can't always be that lucky..when will it be my turn..

I started to cheong at the age of 16..KS was my first battle ground where I lost the war to preserve my virginity...back then HIV was unheard of so I must admit I was very gung ho about sex.."ALL STYLE ANYTHING GOES" was my motto..so after those years count myself lucky....in my 20s I thought I had met the woman of my dream..so told myself must lay off be a good man from now on...seek comfort in her love and also religion after marriage but unfortunately hate to say this..there is always a dark hedious side to every human, some are able to surpress it and some just let it take control...unfortunately I let it slip once and since then it has taken over and has not look back...but it is becoming tiring and of course worrying...

So bro be strong mentally if you really want to quit and stay off the commercial sex scene...

[mahalosux]

- The best gf feeling you can get is with your own gf or wife, NOT from these girls who are still treating you as a customer no matter how close you can get.


i strongly agreed with the above statement..no matter how good, skilled and professional the WLs r..they still unable to beat the feelings of making up wif the love ones...

anyway u make a very bold steps..i tried...but i still return..but oni on a much smaller scale as compared to b4...

all the best for ur retirement plans...

[flcult]

to the threadstarter: stop kidding yourself. a leopard will never change its spots. whether u like it or not, this saying will stay true forever.

[paradise2]

As the chinese saying goes, 放下屠刀,立地成佛... all the best bro.. :) hope i can reach ur level of 'enlightenment' soon... haha

[sunnylow67]

You're really a senior here Bro!

You ought to start a thread to teach all of us here.

Someone told me that there are 5 addictions to men:
1. Food
2. Money
3. Women
4. Idling/procrastinating
5. Health destroying habits

So pick one.

I used to pick number 5 (smoking) but gave it up many years back (already about 8 years now) then I turned to food (it blew me up then I receded) then women (it's subsiding now) so hopefully I can pick up the addiction number 2 next.

It's not the paid women that I have problem with, it's the ONSes at the bars/clubs that's hard to get by. Damn...

Anyway, Bro Nattassevil74 and the rest who intent to quit, all the best and be happy!

Yup bro precisely after chalking up the mileage on cheonging, it really makes me feel it is time to quit. Reading up on all the STD and HIV cases, it is really getting to be scary...I can't help but wonder I can't always be that lucky..when will it be my turn..

I started to cheong at the age of 16..KS was my first battle ground where I lost the war to preserve my virginity...back then HIV was unheard of so I must admit I was very gung ho about sex.."ALL STYLE ANYTHING GOES" was my motto..so after those years count myself lucky....in my 20s I thought I had met the woman of my dream..so told myself must lay off be a good man from now on...seek comfort in her love and also religion after marriage but unfortunately hate to say this..there is always a dark hedious side to every human, some are able to surpress it and some just let it take control...unfortunately I let it slip once and since then it has taken over and has not look back...but it is becoming tiring and of course worrying...

So bro be strong mentally if you really want to quit and stay off the commercial sex scene...

[reinat]

It's not the paid women that I have problem with, it's the ONSes at the bars/clubs that's hard to get by. Damn...



You must be quite yandao can get so many ONS. ONS is free so you can save more money so you can get more adddicted to $ mah. anyway with $ then can try other addictions or try the more high-end stuff. :D

[Hugo168]

But I'm glad that I've fulfilled one of my fetishes which is to CMI which my girl will DIE DIE wouldn't let me...
So at least now I woudln't keep pestering her and she thought that I finally get it into my thick skull and I respect her. She don't know that I'm done it liao.!!! hahahahahaaha...
but after I've done CMI... it is nothing to shout about....
take care man!!
Take care man we know you will find life full of other things to shout about like how well you have taken care of the love of your life, we all make mistakes but looking forward we know we can still make things right never looking back. :)

[fisher king]

A final word from me bro Nat. Shouldn't it be "Thank you SBF for the Mammaries"?

[mondo2000]

To the Thread starter ..

Hi Bro, I really respect your decision to quit cheog-ing. I want to try to quit myself but my will power is not as strong as your. Anyway, do drop all the bros here a line or two sometimes and share with us how you really managed to quit altogether .. or you will return back ;-) .. no matter what, as long as you are happy :D

[sunnylow67]

To be honest, no, Bro.

It is just so happened that I know how to do partner dancing and apparently the girls love it. Something useful for striking a conversation.

You must be quite yandao can get so many ONS. ONS is free so you can save more money so you can get more adddicted to $ mah. anyway with $ then can try other addictions or try the more high-end stuff. :D

[Gentle Beast]

To put it simply - I QUIT trying to QUIT

[Satan_Gal]

All the best to u natassevil.... :)


Dior

[natassevil74]

to the threadstarter: stop kidding yourself. a leopard will never change its spots. whether u like it or not, this saying will stay true forever.

Hi bro,

With due respect, I'll beg to differ. I admit I have a high sex drive. In the past, it is either I look for it, or with my GF or I do myself.

I didn't say I"ll STOP having sex... All I said was I'm trying to stop going for PAID SEX. I can still rely on the other 2 methods: GF or my hands.

In fact, I even dare say that my sessions will even be MORE frequent now since those methods are FREE!!

[BlurWolfe]

Bro natassevil74,

Good Luck and all the best

[jowid]

Unfortunately its the nature of the beast that we all (guys) have to fight.

A friend of mine who has reached his early 50s told me that he is finally liberated from the devil that used to drive him to spend time, $$ and take risks to satisfy that URGE. He feels he is finally in control rather than his dick that controlled him.

So i guess u will have to struggle till then.

Having a GF helps, in my case its a F*buddy, so whether its a hj,bj or fj , its a means to an end. Is this being unfaithful to ur GF? Only u and whatever religion or philosophy of life u follow , can answer this.

Live Strong.

[fireboyq]

From my understanding.. it is really hard to quit. I tried a couple of years ago but then I gave up. It is possible to moderate however. Good luck Bro!

[CIM1011]

Jumping in with my own 2 cents as well.
Although my libido diminished with age, I still can't quit. Simply because there are so many different desirable women to conquer and to have, and besides the short moment of sexual gratification, it is the warm feeling of shiokness of enjoying spending money the way I want and the way I like. I may not necesarily want to bonk the SYT, and sometimes I can't complete the job anyway. But i like knowing that I can indulge because I want to. So that's money down the drain which could have been better spent elsewhere. Money spent on services which I don't really need, but which I enjoy because of the thrill of spending the money. Just like the OC spending my hard-earned money buying rubbish on shopping sprees. Think it is a disease for me, the thrill of spending on FLs.

Good luck bro natassevil74 on your liberation. :D :D

[idjones]

I came across SB website around 2.5 years ago. That was when I started my new hobby to look for sex outside of home (with FLs). It took me several months to read up about this website and also other paid sex website outside of Singapore. I travel a lot to Japan, Hongkong, China, and Malaysia. My first experience was with a Japanese whom I found from this website (http://www.clubboo.com). As it was my first time, I also notice the girl which I ordered also a newcomer, so we both explored and enjoyed each other. To me Japanese girls are still the best (in Looks department), most of them are really really cute. After that, everytime I travel to +++yo, I always use this website to try out different girls. I also tried other girls from other websites there. The best F*** was with a Japanese girl named "Maria" from an Escort Agency called +++yo Enjoy.. or something like that (Sorry I forgot).

I bring this hobby to HK, and I always rely on girls from website www.sex___.com and www.best___.com (I think this one is dead now). Very reliable and you can view the girls before you try them (to avoid disappointment).

Last year, I decided to become a member to this forum, so here I am contributing to some FRs in this site.

Now that I live overseas, I still make a trip back to Singapore very frequently, I rely so much on info from this website. As a matter of fact, I do it everytime I come to SG. All the info about the girls I got from SB Website (as this is the most reliable site about commercial sex in SG). Sincerely, I must thank the Boss who setup this website.

Late last year, I was in the same boat as Bro natassevil74, I said to myself each time I finished the bonk, that this will be my last time. Because after release, I would feel satisfied. But this satisfaction only lasted for a few days, or even sometimes a few hours. I told myself this is a sign of getting addicted to this hobby.

I have to be honest, as long as I visit this website and reading all those nice FRs, I cannot Tahan and must release.

Bro natassevil74, I can only wish you all the best. If you quit because of money that you spent, frankly I think it is going to be tough for you. But, if you quit or thinking of quiting because you have decided to dedicate your life with your partner then I see higher chances that you would succeed.

As for me, I'm still exploring the world and I know one day I would quit, and I hope this day will soon come, because I have a guilty feeling each time I'm doing it again.

Hope I won't get zapped for this confession....., peace brothers...