When to pay FL - before or after session?

[azndaylights]

My friends and I were talking about bonking FLs and the topic came up about when we should pay the FL, i.e. before or after the session? I usually pay the FLs before bonking but my friend said in Singapore, the practice is paying after bonking. (true?)

I think the point behind this question is one would like to know if the service or attitude of the FLs differ if we pay her before or after bonk. Would like to hear from the experienced bros here..

[laoren50]

Why not you try both way.:D

[NokiaUser82]

Mostly i pay after bonking...think most bros oso bax...:D

[s(Aint]

well.. ive tired both before. not really an issue to me.

2 nights ago i was at gl.. saw this old man (probably an okt) telling this FL "next time take money first then fuck, dont fuck already then find out he got no money, by then too late already, Understand?!" -in mandarin

lol.

that was hilarious. he said it so loud, everyone turned to look. poor thing.

[calex]

Dun noe, most of the fl that i meet, like to to collect after the session. this is my experience. It is up to them. it does not matter b4 or after, the most importatnt thing is the process.

[cavemao]

i ALWAYS pay after the session........ you can never take the risk of paying and then realising the girl service level drops....... it works better that way the girl is motivated to service you better bcos you might add on some tips at the end...

but ALWAYS negotiate BEFORE the whole session starts.... make sure everyone agrees on the right price.......

[longbow888]

better to pay after session to ensure gd service. those gals ask u to pay first hor, most of them will become dead fish. then how? :confused:

[cavemao]

better to pay after session to ensure gd service. those gals ask u to pay first hor, most of them will become dead fish. then how? :confused:

especially applies to the PRC girls..... nothing against them but their service level always drop if you pay them first :rolleyes:

[kylietsang]

Put $ with your phone on top of it on dressing table for the FL to see

Do the deed

FL can take the $ after the deed is done

[siamcutey]

When go hawker centre kio kway peng, the rice come we pay money. We pay money liao then we eat.

When go food court order nasi ayam, we pay cashier money then we take the food go 1 corner and makan

When go restaurant order spring chicken, we eat finish the chicken then ask the waitress bring the bill

So, any difference boh?:D

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[bbreaks]

When go hawker centre kio kway peng, the rice come we pay money. We pay money liao then we eat.

When go food court order nasi ayam, we pay cashier money then we take the food go 1 corner and makan

When go restaurant order spring chicken, we eat finish the chicken then ask the waitress bring the bill

So, any difference boh?:D

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hahaha
thats quite a funny analogy bro!
but nonetheless..heres the difference.

both hawker centre and food court lets u hold ur chicken in your hands..chicken and money exchange at the same time, dont pay, no chicken

restaurant lets u seat around..enjoy and slowly pick ur chicken..pick and eat already..dont want to pay..just run out..

so any difference boh? :cool:

[alba]

Pay after in case you want to tip.

[AngieIII]

Pay after in case you want to tip.

:confused: pay first if i find the service gd cannot tips already meh.depends mah some FL want us to pay 1st den pay 1st lor.cant blame them they want to play safe mah,just like me capping on b4 fj cos i want to play safe.

[suckerll]

When go hawker centre kio kway peng, the rice come we pay money. We pay money liao then we eat.

When go restaurant order spring chicken, we eat finish the chicken then ask the waitress bring the bill
go coffeeshop order 'zi char' eat liao then pay leh :p

[suckerll]

want to play safe mah,just like me capping on b4 fj cos i want to play safe.
can cap after FJ to play safe meh? :rolleyes:

what an analogy :p

[suckerll]

pay 1st or pay later also have to pay ok....

but the 1's that collect payment later usually leave themselves a 'chance' to get tips. usually they have the mentality of trying to serve u better.

those that collect 1st usually want u to get it over n done with quickly.

wonder if any of u always stick to ur principle (usually pay after the deed) and if u meet 1 that ask for payment 1st u'd reject her straight front?:confused:

[imor_hut]

its wise to pay after bonk, ever had a bad experience wif a minah fl some months ago, enter room then ask me to pay up, after that bloody service so fuck type..... maybe next time i will pay deposit first, then full payment after service. he..he...he..

[idjones]

8 out of 10 of my experience, FLs in SG tend to ask the money after the session. When they ask the money upfront, not necessarily the service will drop, sometimes they just feel better if they secure the payment first from the customer.

[upcoming idol]

2 nights ago i was at gl.. saw this old man (probably an okt) telling this FL "next time take money first then fuck, dont fuck already then find out he got no money, by then too late already, Understand?!" -in mandarin

lol.

that was hilarious. he said it so loud, everyone turned to look. poor thing.

there are some guys actually fuck oredi dun pay, or they will find excuses to say he go to atm machine to withdraw the cash.. but in he end he disappear..

[slyer]

i usually pay aft the session... but then nowadays so many cases where ppl eat free lunch (bonk n run) so we cant blame the FL to ask for money first b4 the session cos they haf to protect themselves ma since ministry of manpower never protect their rights :D

[Ah Q]

but the 1's that collect payment later usually leave themselves a 'chance' to get tips. usually they have the mentality of trying to serve u better.

those that collect 1st usually want u to get it over n done with quickly.


Yo bro! wat you say very true..
my experience seldom have those want $ first
cos i chit chat first and on only those not tau
but sometimes also happen, then sure sure service lousy
Two times I forgot pay after fuck but returned and pay
Their money so hard earned cannot be chowkah..leh!

[ConnerDoReMe]

[QUOTE=suckerll]pay 1st or pay later also have to pay ok....

but the 1's that collect payment later usually leave themselves a 'chance' to get tips. usually they have the mentality of trying to serve u better.

those that collect 1st usually want u to get it over n done with quickly.

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totally agree! those who ask for $ 1st most prob their services are double f**k category!
1st f**K in the room, 2nd f**king starts during or after session with dead fish... haha :D

[qw2op]

When go hawker centre kio kway peng, the rice come we pay money. We pay money liao then we eat.

When go food court order nasi ayam, we pay cashier money then we take the food go 1 corner and makan

When go restaurant order spring chicken, we eat finish the chicken then ask the waitress bring the bill

So, any difference boh? ...
... restaurant lets u seat around..enjoy and slowly pick ur chicken..pick and eat already..dont want to pay..just run out..

so any difference boh?
but zis case looks more like u tabao home leh ...

do u tabao home n eat oredi zen go down to ze shop again n pay? :D

[siamcutey]

pay 1st or pay later also have to pay ok....

but the 1's that collect payment later usually leave themselves a 'chance' to get tips. usually they have the mentality of trying to serve u better.

those that collect 1st usually want u to get it over n done with quickly.

wonder if any of u always stick to ur principle (usually pay after the deed) and if u meet 1 that ask for payment 1st u'd reject her straight front?:confused:

Go hawker centre and eat chicken rice. During the order, pay $1 for chicken rice. Eat finish, pay another $1.

Anyone do this boh?:D

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[slyer]

Go hawker centre and eat chicken rice. During the order, pay $1 for chicken rice. Eat finish, pay another $1.

Anyone do this boh?

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bro next time i open my chicken rice stall n i will let my customer pay $1 first.. if nt nice no nid to pay the other $1 n wil get 1 free chicken drumstick from me :D
but then if my chicken ric is very nice customer have to pay $2 after eating... :D

[Wanna_Enjoy]

I think it depends on the girl and you will get enough signals. Some want the money first that makes them more relaxed and leads to better service. Some want to keep the 'financial' part till the end either for tips or bcos they are just uncomfortable getting straight to it. Sometimes they have to go by OKT instructions - so they may say that "OKT" asked to collect money first.

[dirtymonk82]

For my case, i usually pay after the deed is done

[Easydeals]

If the FL ask for $ first, I sian liao. Brudder somehow low morale. And I would ususally not RTF. Moreover, from experience, these type of FL who ask for $ first ususally sucks in their service. But the important thing is still to confirm price before you start to even touch her. Ethics and no dispute of payment later.

[laoren50]

Who's ass hole who zap me and never leave name, i want to fuck his mother cheebye until she die.:mad:

[EscortedVisitor]

depands. some want you to pay 1st, some want you to pay later.

[wow69]

well.. ive tired both before. not really an issue to me.

2 nights ago i was at gl.. saw this old man (probably an okt) telling this FL "next time take money first then fuck, dont fuck already then find out he got no money, by then too late already, Understand?!" -in mandarin

lol.

that was hilarious. he said it so loud, everyone turned to look. poor thing.You cant blame the old man to advise the FL. There are people who want to try their luck in getting a free bonk nowsaday and dare the gal to report police. That's why these FLs want to collect $ upfront to prevent against such ungentlemenly acts or asshole :cool:

But then, it's better to pay after the service coz there are some FLs who reduce their service level after knowing the $ already safe in their purse. Anyway, most important is to pay for what you had.

[EscortedVisitor]

i also remembered last time when I want to pay a gal before bonking, she said " pay me later".

now, that's customer service .^^

[Apollo]

[QUOTE=suckerll]pay 1st or pay later also have to pay ok....

but the 1's that collect payment later usually leave themselves a 'chance' to get tips. usually they have the mentality of trying to serve u better.

those that collect 1st usually want u to get it over n done with quickly.

QUOTE]

totally agree! those who ask for $ 1st most prob their services are double f**k category!
1st f**K in the room, 2nd f**king starts during or after session with dead fish... haha :D

Now if the FL want $$ first, tell them deal off, better waste 20 only than waste more $$ and the mode 2 :D

[codex]

Well, Usually if FL ask for $$ first, I already getting ready not to give tips liao..

but, I do agree with some bros here that some FLs might want to play safe.. incase of those bad eggs who f**k and run looks for them...

So I think best way is to put money under hp, but dun give first... like wat bro Kylietsang said

just my two cents worth

[suckerll]

[QUOTE=ConnerDoReMe]Now if the FL want $$ first, tell them deal off, better waste 20 only than waste more $$ and the mode 2
wah u really can lun man!

so how many have u done this to? and what were their reactions?

[GLHunter]

Go hawker centre and eat chicken rice. During the order, pay $1 for chicken rice. Eat finish, pay another $1.

Anyone do this boh?:D

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But bro, your case is different. The boss deliver you the chicken rice already. the chicken cannot fly away so he has completed his part & he collect money lor. Cannot expect him to come back after you finished eating coz your S$3 not not enough profit margin for additional follow-up action. maybe you zhao lor liao. In shop they gave you some credit terms because they can watch over you in their own area.

[onion_rings]

My friends and I were talking about bonking FLs and the topic came up about when we should pay the FL, i.e. before or after the session? I usually pay the FLs before bonking but my friend said in Singapore, the practice is paying after bonking. (true?)

1stly is this the correct thread to ask??? But since u ask liao...Ok here my answer...To pay 1st or bonk 1st make no difference as long as the amt both mutual party agree & u remember to pay...As simple as ABC..:rolleyes:

[bootybonker]

first time i do with FL, blur blur la
so ask her
pay now? she say nvm finish liao then pay

after tat subsequent FLs i oso carry on paying after finish the job
they dun have any problems with that

[siamcutey]

But bro, your case is different. The boss deliver you the chicken rice already. the chicken cannot fly away so he has completed his part & he collect money lor. Cannot expect him to come back after you finished eating coz your S$3 not not enough profit margin for additional follow-up action. maybe you zhao lor liao. In shop they gave you some credit terms because they can watch over you in their own area.

Alexandra Village Hawker Centre there is one famous BBQ Stingray Stall.
I think many of you also know which one.

Last time when their fried kailan was only $3 a plate, until now $6 a plate

When kailan was $3 a plate, eat finish then settle bill

Years passed
Now $6 a plate, when you order your food and tell them your table, they ask you upfront for the bill first. Then they start to cook.

Other places at least when u order, cook finish they give you the food then u pay.

Maybe their business too good lor. Short of my business they also wun bother:p

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[Apollo]

[QUOTE=Apollo]
wah u really can lun man!

so how many have u done this to? and what were their reactions?

So far 2 times lao only, the result is good, and never waste any $$. Got several incident before when after paying first, got quite lousy fuck.

Now that is my principle, take it or leave it.

Upp me if you like my attitude and opinoin :D Happy fucking

[azndaylights]

I think I can conclude the post thanks to valuable inputs by bros here:

1. Always pay FLs after session unless being asked to pay first to ensure better service.

2. FLs have the right to ask for payment before session and there is no rule to say otherwise.

3. Some bros suggested showing money but not pay first, i.e. under hp and pay after session.

On behalf of all other bros who wish to know about this issue, thanks and happy cheonging..:)

[cnnzxc]

Usually pay after .................
but some FL ask to pay 1st den pay 1st lor......depends.....

[scorezz]

I think I can conclude the post thanks to valuable inputs by bros here:

1. Always pay FLs after session unless being asked to pay first to ensure better service.

2. FLs have the right to ask for payment before session and there is no rule to say otherwise.

3. Some bros suggested showing money but not pay first, i.e. under hp and pay after session.

On behalf of all other bros who wish to know about this issue, thanks and happy cheonging..:)


So far, all the FL's I tried all pay after FJ. Only one FL who mentioned someone just before me fuck and ciao w/o paying so she ask me pay up 1st. So I believe the norm is pay after service. Most FL may expect tips and you cant possibly tip before right?
Put $ on hp and pay after session? Hmm... thats a great idea. Worth a try, like putting the carrot in front of the donkey :D

[suckerll]

Hmm... thats a great idea. Worth a try, like putting the carrot in front of the donkey
donkey eat carrot??? :confused:

[hoosdathu]

may i suggest u start a poll in the polling section? :)

[hiddenlover84]

Haa...interesting topic on paying first or later. Personally I would pay later coz most PRC i tried give lousy service after I paid so i am a beliver of paying LATER...heee :p

[longblack]

[QUOTE=ConnerDoReMe]

Now if the FL want $$ first, tell them deal off, better waste 20 only than waste more $$ and the mode 2 :D

Bro Apollo, I think I can totally relate to your style.

Just to share with bros my experience. I think most of these WL who ask for $ first are mostly attached to OKTs. They have to do as instructed. Those w/o OKTs mostly pay later.

But my experiences always tell me to pay later. The 1 or 2 times that i pay first, the WL may push you to finish the business faster, telling you time over shot liao or provide low service level. If you pay later, there's also no guarantee the service will be top notch but at least she knows that she has to provide certain level of service to keep the client satisfied before she's fully paid, with or without tips. Secondly, it also acts as a safeguard on your wallet. Imagine you pay first, then bonk, cum, shower, leave hotel, take taxi then realise your money is stolen or whatever.

I have encounter what Bro Apollo has mentioned. The WL only tells me to pay first when inside the room. Its a real turn off for me. I would ask her if I could pay her later. I even showed her the money in case she thinks i am after a free bonk. If she insists on paying first, I would tell her the deal is off. After that, still holding on to my room keys, i would continue walking the street to find another one, bring her back and bonk :D

[PegasusBoy]

My friends and I were talking about bonking FLs and the topic came up about when we should pay the FL, i.e. before or after the session? I usually pay the FLs before bonking but my friend said in Singapore, the practice is paying after bonking. (true?)

I think the point behind this question is one would like to know if the service or attitude of the FLs differ if we pay her before or after bonk. Would like to hear from the experienced bros here..
Best to ask the FL pay before or after the bonk. For me, if talk about money b4 the bonk I will sian half.... and affect the di di :(

[camelot]

Best to ask the FL pay before or after the bonk. For me, if talk about money b4 the bonk I will sian half.... and affect the di di :(

I think the problem is when you cannot cum
Then if you have paid first, she will not bother to try hard to make you cum since money already in her pocket!

[doremond]

agreed w Bro camelot, Just to share with bros my experience. the first time i tried a GL streetwalker 6-7 years back, was told to paid first. in the end , maybe too nervous, cannot cum, ask her to HJ me, wanlan face turn black. in the end had to shake myself to cum. From then onwards. Bonk first pay later.

but then Wat i know is most gals are here only for like 14 days visa, then go JB, come back extend another 14 days. total only have 28 days to earn money. therefore to them every mins count. But most i tried later still got good attitude and service.

But there are aso black sheeps among us that actually bonk and run. these are the asshole that spoilt the market.

this is just my point of view, hope that it would not offend anyone.